Why bad things happen to good people | Buddhism In English I Inner Guide Special Video
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The best revenge is no revenge. Just forget they exist.😊Don't take revenge.Let karma do all the works 😊.Never give up great things take time.👍Namo buddha.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Wise man man once said, don't take revenge, rotten fruits will fall by themselves,that's what I remembered when I read your comment😊
@@na-ra8701 Everything will fall into place.Be patient.Silence is sometimes the best answer.😊👍
@@darshanad10 definitely. Patience is a virtue❤
Great things take time.Bro just believe in yourself. 👍😊
Let karma do it? Forgive it,there are beautiful words .How and to whom are you going to say this?People in painful existence(mourning a daughter whose been raped and killed by bad guys in one Western country)Just tell them to forgive? They will look at you weirdly? And you will be lucky if no-one takes a pump shot gun, and run after you.🌹 🕉🙏
If you focus on the pain, you will start to suffer. If you focus on the lesson, you will grow 💕🌸
Tq u so much 😄 this inspires me to be better bcz I gone through so much bad and negative experiences since my childhood, bcz people comparing me with my younger sister in everything
First tou have to know what thr lesson is. Lesson don't miraculously say hey " I am the lesson". People go through a lot in life and still have no idea why can't see the reason or lessons. Maybe others can that too depends how your mind operate, belief, faith etc
@@priyankapriya4636
Amen ❤❤❤❤
Deep man ❤
:) you’re very right! 💕
*_I'm a pure muslim, and i respect all the religions, i really appreciated your style of motivating others_*
Thnx a lot sir 😊
Thanks To U sir.... Respect for Ur Thinking
@@bapibapi61 *Welcome dear but I'm not a sir* 😁😊
@@meerabsohail8889 this type of thinking deserve a Title Sir
@@bapibapi61 *wow, THANKS bro* 😁
😌🙌🙌🙌
I was crying when I listened to this. My husband broke my heart after loving him faithfully. I asked myself, why me?! Thank you for sharing this video. Thank you for enlightening my mind.
everything is gonna be fine. god is with you.❤
@@adishegokar thank you
Very nicely explained
Don't worry dear everything will be fine... Some people come to our life to teach us great lessons.. Life is uncertain everyone has their own struggles... So be happy and take life as it is let us focus on what we have let us be more great full so that more good things will happen in our life.. Trust me..
Yes .my husband after 21years is hurting me so deeply😢i don't know what to do😢
What HURTS you today makes you STRONGER tomorrow.😊❤We all here for reason.Stop being a prisoner of your past😊.Become the architect of your future.Always try to be positive in any situation.😊👍Namo buddha .🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thanks for giving a summary. Now I don’t have to listen😂
This is so positive 🙏thankyou
I wana die
Easy to say but difficult to accept
Man's wisdom is foolish to God.
Words are easy to be said. Who is going through it knows how difficult it is.
Absolutely 🤕 tell this to the people in Ukraine
Exactly
True
💯
I totally agree.
I am a hindu guy but i really love the way of his explanation , and after hearing one of his teachings I get my energy charged. Thank you Guruji.
I am also Hindu bro I always heard him because he is only merrar of the bhudaa
Me too ✋️
Yes , that's true
Likewise
A good doctrine or concept should be applicable to all humanity, irregardless of race, religion.....
Thank you so much for your words of compassion and wisdom, I have never heard that from a Christian in my 58 years
I am Roman Catholic but i love watching & listening to your video, good motivation in life. Thank you🙇♀️🙇♀️🙇♀️.
Catholic as well
മറ്റ് മനുഷ്യ നിർമിതി ആചാരങ്ങൾ, പുസ്തകത്തിന്, "വിശുദ്ധo" എന്ന് വിളിക്കുന്നു. ഈ പുസ്തകo എങ്ങനെ വിശുദ്ധമാകുo?. നിങ്ങൽ നിങ്ങളൂടെ ഇത്രേം നാൾ നിങ്ങളുടെ വിലയേറിയ ജീവിതത്തിൽ, അവർ നിങ്ങളോട് 'യഥാർത്ഥ' സത്യമാണോ പറയുന്നതെന്ന് കണ്ടെത്താൻ നിങ്ങൾ എന്താണ് ചെയ്തത്? നിങ്ങളുടെ വ്യക്തിത്വം മനസ്സിൽഅകാൻ നിങ്ങൾ എന്താണ് ചെയ്തത്? ഇവ എല്ലാം പൂർണ്ണമായി അല്ലെങ്കിൽ ചരിത്രം പഠിക്കുക. ഇതൊന്നും സത്യo ഇല്ല.
എല്ലായ്പ്പോഴും അതായത് മനുഷ്യരാശിയുടെ ജീവിതകാലത്തോ, ഏത് സമയത്തോ, സാഹചര്യത്തിലോ, മനുഷ്യരാശിക്ക് എങ്ങനെ ഭൂമിയിൽ സന്തോഷത്തോടെ ജീവിക്കാനാകും?
ജീവിതം പഠിക്കുക: പ്രകൃതിദത്തo: ലളിതവും, ശാന്തവുo. ഭക്ഷണത്തിന്റെയും എല്ലാത്തിന്റെയും ഏറ്റവും കുറഞ്ഞ ഉപയോഗം.
@@enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441 Kazhinjo?? Ithokke english il ezhuthiyal alle ayalk manasilakoo
Norlany Laniog - how to be saved?
Romans 1:16 - King James Version
16 For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek. (The Letter of Paul to the Romans)
Romans 5 - King James Version
18 Therefore as by the offence of one judgment came upon all men to condemnation; even so by the righteousness of one the free gift came upon all men unto justification of life. (offence of one - Adam's one trespass, one sin, led to the condemnation of all men - the righteousness act of one was Jesus' death on the cross to pay for human sin)
Salvation is not getting your sins forgiven, it's believing they already are!
We are all sinners and fall short in God his glory - how to be saved - this is the gospel of salvation - 1 Corinthians chapter 15 verses 1-4 by trusting and believing the gospel of salvation you are saved and sealed with the Holy Spirit of promise till the day of redemption and nothing can pluck you out of the Father his hand - (In whom we have redemption through his blood , even the forgiveness of sins: (Colossians 1:14 - King James Version) - eternal security is a free gift - it's a promise and God Almighty cannot lie!!! Have a blessed day!
This is the gospel of salvation - 1 Corinthians chapter 15 verses 1-4
Witnesses of Christ's resurrection. 1) Moreover,brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2) ''By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3) For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; 4) And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures.
IT IS FINISHED... Paid in Full !!! But, You Must BELIEVE IT - 1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJV.
2 Timothy 2
King James Version
15 Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.
Romans 2:16
King James Version
16 In the day when God shall judge the secrets of men by Jesus Christ according to my gospel. (Paul's Gospel - 1 Corinthians chapter 15 verses 1-4).
KJV - Bible verses about Jesus is God
John 1:1 - In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
John 1:14 - And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth.
John 10:30 - I and my Father are one.
Isaiah 9:6 - For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace.
John 20:28 - And Thomas answered and said unto him, My Lord and my God.
John 8:58 - Jesus said unto them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Before Abraham was, I am.
For solid bible study please visit 'Truth Time Radio' - learn the truth and unlearn the lies!
This man will be better for the people if he only he discovered JESUS the One and True Living God...
1) Life is unfair
2) You will grow through what you go through
3) Focus on the positive.
Thank you very much for helping us to get through life without giving up.
Sometimes life is fair, sometimes life is not. Over generalization is not correct.
Life is unfair i think it's because of these four countries America, Israel, Russia And China. Nobody should love Israel. Everyone should love Iran over Israel.
This is true
Guys I am ex Muslim but I really love Budisim 🙏 oh soo sweet Dharma ❤️ love from Afghanistan 🙏 namo Buddhay
Love you bro you are loyal and party people I think
🌿⚘🌿from Thailand💐
Welcome to the world of freedom and liberation! Hope you are safe wherever you are.
Thats because u hve buddhism hidden in ur genes over generations.❤ Afghanistan was a buddhist country 😢
Bro!Once Afghanistan was jewel of the Dhamma. Namo Buddhay from Bangladesh
I am a Roman Catholic but i really love and listen your teaching... Thank you brother.
This teacher is a buddhist monk . So let's call him " bhanthe " . It's more respectable .😊😊
It is not problem
whenever I asked my mom why always we suffer when people doing wrong enjoy their lives happily and my mother used to reply that it's because God loves us so he is making us stronger. When she left the world her words helped me and I always said to myself God is making me stronger. And yes it made me strong Always beleive that the bad days are making you stronger because you are his creation
Is your life better now?
Mom chose the wrong path as she wanted to enjoy and wronged me.i told her i didnt want to be like her and left her
@Satyakee Sarkar Hinduism is not a religion. It's just a culture.
Tq😊
Pffffttttttt
"Bring your focus from the negativity to the positivity and don't expect the fairness from this unfair life" Thank you so much
NAMO BUDDHA YA
It is also negative thought 💭 bcz if we see life is good we see positive things and we see it is unfair life then we will not grow and not move to good things
there is so many things to learn from this video.... Namo Buddha
Re your first sentence - so, live under the bridge with a bottle of booze and be happy? How convenient for the governments.
I am an American, and we are worlds apart when it comes to our heritage and ethnicity. Regardless, wonderfully, your teachings, the words you use, your gestures and expressions, and the way you tell these teachings are so beautiful that sometimes you literally make me cry. I am going through one of the hardest times of my life. I just lost my Mom. She died two days before Christmas. I am blind, and have no siblings, and am so overwhelmed and confused and I don't know what to do. I try to watch one of your videos every day to motivate me to keep going. I send love to you. Lovingkindness. And wholehearted "thank you"s over and over. You are helping me spark happiness every day through my grief.
This is what I needed this time. I hardly accept people do bad things to me when I had done many good deeds to them. I hardly get good sleep thinking why these are happening. With your teachings I am starting to let go and be positive. I know God will bless me abundantly maybe not now but just wait. I thank you for waking me up and accept the reality of life and continue to moving on with God beside me.
Hi! Have you watched his video about how to deal with toxic people? 😊
May life's abundance be yours 🙏🙏🙏
Don't expect god to bless you or you may be disappointed again ❤
Life is like a book
When we are reading a book
We go through sad chapters
We go through happy chapters
We go through adventures chapters
But if someone met a sad chapters and he stopped reading that book and keep it away because it was a sad chapter
You cannot enjoy the whole essence of the book
Life is also like that
When we are living our life there will be happy chapters
There will be sad chapters of our life and also there will be adventurous chapters
But if we stop in the sad chapters
Of our life what will happen
We will never make our life successfull
Life is like a journey we go through many roads up and down ,, tragedy accident death heaven , hell is the destination
Some people’s life don’t have any happy chapters, it just so happens that perhaps ours have, we only think in the context of our life’s naturally, or the majority, it’s not true for everyone sadly.
@@jacquelinehillson9589 Thanks for acknowledging us who don't, in difference to 99,9% of all the comments here.
Nothing is in our control from birth to death...but sometimes it's difficult to find the ray of hope....
Yes .
Keep doing right thing then whatever happens. Expectation from life is uncertain so why worry
We 100% control our perspective (thoughts/emotions) of events. You choose the world you see. You don't need to find hope, you need to find acceptance. Finding hope is saying I reject reality and want it to be different - well it may never be different. YOU need to be different not reality.
And you can't even escape with suicide if there's an afterlife.
The population in this world is getting higher than in Jesus Christ time.Birth can be control by condom,it is because of mother n fucker enjoy super wild orgasm that the young one had to came to this world suffer food,shelter,hardship, unhappiness, accident,disaster, covid n more.Where can u say it a rebirth?
This guy is beautiful inside and out. Cutest smile and dimples. Plus most importantly, his heart and soulful wisdom.
Hes the most chill monk ❤
He is very handsome to me
If you’re reading this comment, it’s too late, you’ve already been immensely blessed with an abundance of love, wealth, luck, health, joy, and whatever else your heart desires!! I’m so proud of you for surviving everything you’ve been through. This is your sign to go after what your heart most desires for the highest good, it’s your time..
"Learn to Let go" to be happy.. Nothing is permanent
As Buddhist, even before learning the basics of Buddhism I knew this theory naturally. And believe me, no one taught me this. I just knew it naturally that good humans do no take revenge or blame destiny. Good people forgive and FORGET. Good people do not let their soul get stained with such worthless things. Good people stay silent and move ahead. 🙏
The key is to forget , forgeting you don't have to forgive a thing. You you are able to keep away the faults, you don't need to forgive a thing, then you will forget them.
But what if they don’t forgive and you’re living in this sad life just waiting for a break like it’s taking forever?
Very true
As it’s happening to me and hubby for the past 10 years now. We haven’t been able to see touch or even feel our beloved daughter after my son separated frm his wife..the law in japan doesn’t allow parental joint custody, etc. we tried reaching out now that she’s much older to no avail… how can you move on from this?
We’ve forgiven, we take each day like our last, but we’re sad and lonely.
@@marifujisawa2942 sending you prayers , love, light and strength to see you through this terrible ordeal . That must be so heartbreaking. Trust that these things happen for a reason and believe in a positive outcome. All the best for you 💖
Now I’m a happy person than past me because Lord buddha’s says and lessons turn me good side.I’m soo happy to be a buddhist Namo Buddaya 😊🙏🏻❤️
My life's lesson: Life is unfair and unpredictable...what you go through you grow through that..if stop reading the sad chapter you'll not experience the good chapter...focus on.the bright side...focus on.the lesson learned through the problems...Namo buddhay 🙏
For me, loneliness and my social anxiety are the antagonists of my life. Whenever these two aspects take over, I get depressed. But with time, I started believing that loneliness is not a flaw, it's a gift. I take it as an advantage to build myself, with an hope to lead a happy and prosperous life ahead 😌😇 Never give up guys everybody who go through tough times deserve a better life.
May you know great joy, great companionship, great peace!
Very well said😇😇
Hope you are on the right path
@@MF-xp9tq Thank you for your wishes 😊
@@darlingchloe88 Thank you 😊
තෙරුවන් සරනයි 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I'm buddhist.I'm from srilanka ❤️🇱🇰
So I'm very happy about it .🙏
Am also budhist
✨ Namo ✨ budhay ✨
I love your national anthem too...
Hi
I wish I could go to visit Sri Lanka once . It's a beatiful country.
This channel is better than others😊
If you focus on the pain you will start suffering. But if you focus on the lesson, then you will start learning lessons.
Sometimes we have to end unhealthy toxic relationships and negativity out of our lives. We can love truly but that doesn't mean that they love us. Let go of the negativity and all chaos out of our lives.
@Jokes Apart Not everyone is fortunate enough to have good parents. Some people have terrible parents. Some people's parents have abused their children. So if you have loving parents feel blessed because not everyone has good parents.
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Try to see the good in them, and if u still can't find any, then u probably just have to let go.....
I was nodding my head reading your comment, I totally agree 🙏
Mashallah, what a great video!. I was a Moslem, and I tolerate other religions. This video has illuminated me so much 😄. I'm really thanfull for the words, he was so calm, and speaking in a soft tone. This really lifts up my pain and burdens in my heart 😫😄💐‼. Thank you so much 🙏💐💐💐‼.
You said 'I was a Moslem' meaning you're no longer of that faith?
Be a buddhist 🙂 be a human. Not a slave of a magical god 🙂
Each religion means something like Muslims means fast and help the poor with food and we should be grateful for what we have like food water health survival
Christan means forgive and give a hand to someone who's down
Buddha means spirit from the inside not the outside it's what's the inside not outside like how U feel not how U look
Those 3 real regilous groups understands each other because never judge others culture or regilon fellow Ur hearts it will help us
@@friendship9904 Truly said. I believe all rivers end up in A ocean, that means all religion will end up to one god the almighty.
Tolerate??? Interesting
I m going thru a v v difficult time in my life.. I suffrd domestic and emotional abuse frm my husband and inlaws from last 2 year's.. but now I hv decided to get out of it.. enough is enough.. God gv me the strength to live a respectful life ND financially independent.. your words are gvng me healing n strength
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There definately comes a point when enough is enough. How are things with you now? 🙏
That’s exactly what I do never let the negativity get the better of me. Through my practice of Buddhism I have learnt to let go of bad people bad vibrations and live in the moment of happiness come what may.
Delivering sermons in English is a good thing so that everyone in the world can realise this valuable Buddhism and It is pleasure to see srilanken Buddist monks delivering sermons in English .
sadhu--sadhu--sadhu.
മറ്റ് മനുഷ്യ നിർമിതി ആചാരങ്ങൾ, പുസ്തകത്തിന്, "വിശുദ്ധo" എന്ന് വിളിക്കുന്നു. ഈ പുസ്തകo എങ്ങനെ വിശുദ്ധമാകുo?. നിങ്ങൽ നിങ്ങളൂടെ ഇത്രേം നാൾ നിങ്ങളുടെ വിലയേറിയ ജീവിതത്തിൽ, അവർ നിങ്ങളോട് 'യഥാർത്ഥ' സത്യമാണോ പറയുന്നതെന്ന് കണ്ടെത്താൻ നിങ്ങൾ എന്താണ് ചെയ്തത്? നിങ്ങളുടെ വ്യക്തിത്വം മനസ്സിൽഅകാൻ നിങ്ങൾ എന്താണ് ചെയ്തത്? ഇവ എല്ലാം പൂർണ്ണമായി അല്ലെങ്കിൽ ചരിത്രം പഠിക്കുക. ഇതൊന്നും സത്യo ഇല്ല.
എല്ലായ്പ്പോഴും അതായത് മനുഷ്യരാശിയുടെ ജീവിതകാലത്തോ, ഏത് സമയത്തോ, സാഹചര്യത്തിലോ, മനുഷ്യരാശിക്ക് എങ്ങനെ ഭൂമിയിൽ സന്തോഷത്തോടെ ജീവിക്കാനാകും?
ജീവിതം പഠിക്കുക: പ്രകൃതിദത്തo: ലളിതവും, ശാന്തവുo. ഭക്ഷണത്തിന്റെയും എല്ലാത്തിന്റെയും ഏറ്റവും കുറഞ്ഞ ഉപയോഗം.
I was so depressed and after watching this it’s really give me a reason to live. Because I’m a really a good person too and always bad things happen to me
Don't worry sir.. by the end of ur life, ur life would be scripted well by God if u learn and be stronger and does good karma...so just take care yourself..
I'm sure there will be many good chapters in your life too 😌
You must be in a sad chapter of your life. Expect a happy chapter coming soon for you!! The cycles keep going for all of us. At least we have found spiritual sources like this channel. God bless you!!!
If you proceed to say think always bad things happen to me then they do...you have to dig deeper into your way of thinking the way you carry yourself to transform your life
The person that can bring you to path of your life as it was before
You want to know right
It's👉 You yourself 👈
Remember the happiest happiest moment till now , guess🤔 the feeling ❤🧡💛what you were feeling
Compare ⬅️it to now⬇️
Forget whatever any one done to you forget absolutely
Then remember you would be feeling successful😇 and hardships😊 payed off right or anything you were enjoying ☺️😊😄😃😀
This was you ,This is you ,This will be always you
I am going through lots of things at the moment. Lost my personal life and struggling like a ship in a heavy storm. Last Friday I reached to 0, I want to be dead .. till I found you .. I know now what it means to be 0 and have no one around you to help you to get up. Thanks for this video ... and I wish no one get into what I am going through, Amen.
This phase will pass and you will blossom again 😊
Are you okay now?
Praying for your healing process
I listen to your videos daily. They helped me get through my darkest moments in life and helped me to have positive mind no matter what life throws at me. I’m very grateful. Thank you very much. Theruwan saranai!
You are so much stronger than you give yourself credit for and you're capable of doing anything in this world. I believe in you.
മറ്റ് മനുഷ്യ നിർമിതി ആചാരങ്ങൾ, പുസ്തകത്തിന്, "വിശുദ്ധo" എന്ന് വിളിക്കുന്നു. ഈ പുസ്തകo എങ്ങനെ വിശുദ്ധമാകുo?. നിങ്ങൽ നിങ്ങളൂടെ ഇത്രേം നാൾ നിങ്ങളുടെ വിലയേറിയ ജീവിതത്തിൽ, അവർ നിങ്ങളോട് 'യഥാർത്ഥ' സത്യമാണോ പറയുന്നതെന്ന് കണ്ടെത്താൻ നിങ്ങൾ എന്താണ് ചെയ്തത്? നിങ്ങളുടെ വ്യക്തിത്വം മനസ്സിൽഅകാൻ നിങ്ങൾ എന്താണ് ചെയ്തത്? ഇവ എല്ലാം പൂർണ്ണമായി അല്ലെങ്കിൽ ചരിത്രം പഠിക്കുക. ഇതൊന്നും സത്യo ഇല്ല.
എല്ലായ്പ്പോഴും അതായത് മനുഷ്യരാശിയുടെ ജീവിതകാലത്തോ, ഏത് സമയത്തോ, സാഹചര്യത്തിലോ, മനുഷ്യരാശിക്ക് എങ്ങനെ ഭൂമിയിൽ സന്തോഷത്തോടെ ജീവിക്കാനാകും?
ജീവിതം പഠിക്കുക: പ്രകൃതിദത്തo: ലളിതവും, ശാന്തവുo. ഭക്ഷണത്തിന്റെയും എല്ലാത്തിന്റെയും ഏറ്റവും കുറഞ്ഞ ഉപയോഗം.
I am CoE, I am so interested in Buddism, thank you for your love and kindness. 🙏
I have to say I really enjoyed this video. I’ve never in my life listened to anything regarding Buddhism. But I was searching UA-cam for no good deed goes unpunished and this is what I came across. What a great message.
This video became the turning point of my weekness of focusing on negativity. Now I learnt how to grow positively without regretting on them
Bohoma pin pinwath swaminwahansa 🙏🙏. Namo Buddhaya
Your voice is very soothing. Life is unfair to me since last 38 years. No career, no money, no marriage, divorce. Only good thing is I can connect with God. No materialistic life. No relationship. Only betrayal for me.
Don't Accept all this , just Move forward....
Also 'only good thing' as written in comment may be the best thing....
What a kind man. He puts me at ease with just his voice.
It is very hard to forgive bad people. It is very hard to not take revenge.But if we succeed to forgive others by not taking revenge then we can get peace in the way of Lord Buddha. We should forget the bad people from our life.Namo Buddhay.Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu.
Can’t let negativity consume you. Always be positive through it all. Lovely video. Namaste
So true!! I’d actually learned a lot frm the past 2 yrs,I’m like totally thrown into a deep black hole but I’m grateful things happened,it makes me realised how strong I am!I can go through every single problems frm physically to mentally and surprisingly my life is slowly moving frm worse to good! Always be grateful,be blessed,be patient,believe and don’t blame others!!
Thank you for this beautiful video. Your aura and your character are shining with pure love and happiness. I feel so much lighter and happier just by watching you. You are truly a beautiful person, from the outside and inside and the world would be such an amazing place if we could all shine like you 💖💖💖🙏
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Charlotte, you are a beautiful person , soul. That's you see the beauty in others.
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I also went through a very tough time in my life for the past two years . One day when i'm scrolling through YT shorts , i saw a short video from this channel and after watching it i watched all short videos from this channel. It's almost months ago but i still watch all short videos again and again because .... life's full of ups and downs and when i feel down , all i want is to watch a short video from this channel. Namo buddhaya 🙏 theruwan saranai 🙏
I am reading a very sad chapter of my life these days. Because my sister passed away. She was so young and good. I was thinking that life is so unfair. This teaching helps me a lot. So much greaful for all the teachings Swaminwahansa 🙏🙏🙏
Whatever i do goodthings to people but i used to get bad responses. It hurts me lot.kind hearted people always get hurt.in this sermon i leant lot of lessons.thank you sadu for encouraging us.sadu sadu sadu
It’s hard to move forward when you lose loved ones, even though I know they have gone to a better place. It doesn’t stop you from feeling loss and pain. You know what you must do , to let go , to move on. Just saying it’s very difficult.
We have to move forward and think of how much joy and pleasure it would give our departed loved ones to see us genuinely living, genuinely loving all of the beauty and wonder of this world. We honour the dead by living life to the fullest! 🙏
Agree Sandra
When a baby is born they cry…sleep 16 hrs a day and cry when hungry…. But no one knows what happens when we die…. Every people has their own version of after life… i ve read several books on this yet so many difference in the opinions…. That makes us wonder whether the departed souls are really in a happy place or not? We miss the person and mourn the inability to spend time with them…. But we would be happier if there was a universal opinion on life after death which unfortunately is not there….
@@SaptarshiSyam I also used to think on similar lines like you. However, I changed my views after having what I can call ' very very pleasant extrasensory experiences '. But words aren't enough to describe these experiences.
Grief is the love continues after they are gone. Shows how much love there is for them but the good part is to be grateful they were part of your life and shaped you by their kindness and lessons 😢
Oh my God, so drawn by your videos. They heal, comfort and teach me how to behave while still on this planet earth.
Am following Buddhist practices, of mindfulness, relinquishing the ego, kindness, compassion, acceptance and meditation. It has opened new and beautiful horizons in my life.
Thank you so much thank you so much🥺this helped me a lot to get rid of the stress which I currently dealing with.
Namo Buddhaya !
Everything will be fine,
Believe in yourself,
Sun will shine for you oneday and roses will bloom in your path
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Always keep smilng and be happy bro😊👍Namo buddha.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thanks u sir .ur written speech also inspires me alot.. thanks alot.. take care sir..
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I only ask why innocents suffer. I understand pain is an opportunity to learn and grow. Explaining that to the abused, the sick and those in unbearable pain sounds like empty useless words and platitudes. 🌻
I agree 👍 💯 🌹
There's a theory in buddhism.
Every thing happening has a cause.
There are 5 causes and anything that happens under the sun comes under any of these 5.
1. Beeja niyamaya (these terms are in paali and they cannot be exactly translated in to english terms that gives sense) it is like seeds. Reason for it to be a mango tree is because the seed was a mango seed. Sth like it. It explains the origin of things.
2. Uthu niyaamaya
It is weather. If your cultivation destroys due to rain, the reason is weather. If you got sunburns, its because you walked in the sun. Sth like that.
3.kamma niyaama. Cause is your actions. What you have done in this life or what you have done in your previous lives. Your merits and sins from previous life, helps or harms you in this life. And if the merits and sins are very strong, you will recieve the effects in the same life itself.
4. Damma niyaama
5. Chittha niyama.
Im not good at explaining these theories they are deeper than this. You can ask that question from a buddhist monk and he'll explain clearly
Dear Buddha, we should always think possitive. Then only we r happy in our lives. U r absolutely 💯 true. I love ur teachings. 💗 bcz they r exactly 💯 true. No body will get bed of roses. We have to make them. God bless you dear Buddha 🙏 ❤️
Life is unpredictable
Life is unfair
Life can be lost at any second
Life is like will Smith: one slap and all the endorsements are off
Haha the last line
Ha ha ha
You will grow through what you go through !!!!
Forgive and forget! It’s hard to practice. But believe me , you can do it too !
Thank you so much for such an enlightening words, I love listening to your calm voice,positive outlook from Buddha, I'm a catholic but your teachings are so reassuring
So glad this channel was suggested to me! Such great wisdom. Exactly what I need. Thank you so much for sharing ✨
So happy to hear you found this channel by chance. Wishing you continue to learn about the truth of life. It gives you strength and inner happiness 😊
Very insightful..
Namo Buddhay.
I am passing through my life's bad chapters today as you told I will wait for bright future.
Namo Buddhay
Amen for this messages. Once I was hurt I prayed to forgive and pain will gone.
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my UA-cam channel 8 months ago about self development. Now I have 773 subs and > 300 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.
Yes I am so much stronger than I think.and thank you for reminding me. Blessings to everyone.
Yes so true.. You will grow through what you go through.. We should learn from the pain,the hard times.. Thank you so much sir.. Namo budhaye🙏
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I'm glad to hear you explaining the reality of life. So many people that are into mystical thinking and new age thinking think the world and the things that happen to us are all part of some grand scheme, as if our lives are the center of the universe and the universe is playing out some plan for each of us. The universe is random. We obviously can control some things that happen to us in our lives, but when things happen, it's not for some greater purpose. Things just happen. Good things happen to horrible people, and horrible things happen to good people. It's too bad, but this is the evidence that there is no higher purpose. Things just are.
I know people that will think worse of themselves for things that happen in their life that are completely random. They think the universe is punishing them for something. It's not. Things don't work that way. And this is the way that new age thinking is so damaging to so many people.
"Every experience is a lesson. Every loss is a gain." -Sathya Sai Baba
BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO EVERYONE...
AS FOR GOOD PEOPLE:
GOOD PEOPLE CARE!
BAD PEOPLE DO NOT!
THAT IS WHY GOOD PEOPLE TAKE NOTE & SAY:
WHY DO BAD THINGS ALWAYS HAPPEN TO ME!
IS BECAUSE YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON & HAVE THE GIFT OF A GOOD HEART & BAD PEOPLE DO NOT!
SO NEXT TIME YOU FIND YOURSELF ASKING THIS QUESTION, REMEMBER, YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON! ❤
Well said
Well we think it’s bad I believe the experience can be turned into an asset and when a woman gives birth There is Pain involved but the reward is a Beautiful child
Makes sense.
“Nothing is either good or bad but thinking makes it so.” William Shakespeare
Thanks sir for valuable guidance. Namo buddhadeb.
Whenever i see your video i personally feel motivated and great .Namo buddha🙏🏻🙏🏻 thanku for today lesson ..
I am going through a very horrible time. I am a devotee of Krishna(Guruvayoorappan). I was asking god why this always happens to me. I can't take it anymore. I have been strong for a long time. But today I am unable to control my tears. One of the worst days in my life.After hearing your words my heart feels lighter🙏🏻
I try to remember that bad things happen to other good people too and sometimes it’s even worse. We have to forgive, accept, learn and keep going on.
Hello Everyone,I am not from any religion but I am the human being who is suffering in my life ,which is unexpected..
And this question comes to my mind that " why only me" ,why these problems are coming in my life..but after listening to this ,I can say everything happens for a reason.|| Namo Budhaya 🙏🙏||
Bad things happen to good people. This reminds me of the saying “Thinking that life will treat you well because you’re a decent human being is a bit like thinking a bull won’t charge at you because you’re a vegetarian”. 😊
I always had this question but since I practice Vipassana, & listen to such videos. I cope with it better . Namo Buddhay !!! 🙏🙏🙏
I start everyday watching your videos. It helps me a lot to get over the tough time. Thank you. Namo Buddhaya.
We can't expect fairness always from the things which are in undercontroll of others❤ felt this
Wow!!! This is great!!! We have to read all the chapters, we can't stop, awesome!!!...♥️
This made me feel better
I was in a car accident two weeks ago and I feel fear and also scared when I’m in a car. I have ptsd because of the incident, but after listening to you , you gave me a sense of comfort.
Thank you
Learning the truth gives inner (true) happiness. Keep learning and practicing the teachings and it will help you more and more! :)
Face your fear head on u will squash it eventually step by step
I was in a car wreck years ago...and remember feeling the fear you have been experiencing. BUT in time..it will fade and not be so troublesome. Time will heal all.
@@trenaoelschlager3981 thank you ❤️
Suffering is enlightening! Learning from hurting past experiences make one stronger, and one doesn't need to repeat the lesson and stay stuck or continue repeating the circle until the lesson is learned! I know that from experience! Excellent and beautiful message ❤️ 😊
Very true
You're so great. I will become a buddhist of your teaching. Feel so bad I'm going through depression & anxiety. Thank you
I love your smile, i am says to my friends
and my family, i would like to see you but you are very far away. Lots of love from Pakistan
Bondhonna bhante Im Buddhist . From Bangladesh. 16 years old .give me bless bhante
Sometimes pain doesn't makes you stronger bc if you know you were already strong then it hits you more and more. it would weaken you. Sometimes pain is not really helpful at all. It just gives people anxieties, hardcore depressions and a distraction from being already stronger But even if you suffered. Good news is: there is always a sunshine after the rain. 🤗
Exactly my case😐
I agree with everything except the last sentence.
This is the exact reason for the video. Listen to it a few times until it registers.
@@erasedshallbehisname5100it is not like that there is always sunshine after rain it is ur mentality u have to change more negative we think more it attracts try to be positive
Nd this change depends from person to person sometimes
It will take time but slowly and steadily try to make positive changes in ur life love ur self u will see difference God bless you
Sometimes pain cause memory loss though,which makes you lose empathy if no one guides you how to heal from it and your frontal lobe will be affected
What a marvellous explanation Bhanthe!
වන්දනීයයි ස්වාමීනි !
උත්තම තුනුරුවනට මාගේ උත්තමාංග නමස්කාරය වේවා !
I am a Sri Lankan Buddhist living in Australia. Thank you for sharing your valuable thoughts and wisdom dear Venerable Thero following Lord Buddha’s teachings and to look at the bright side of our lives, really means so much and I appreciate you taking the initiative to share your thoughts and Budu Sarani 🙏🙏
🙏🙏🙏Wandana Bhante jiu Hajur Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu Bhawatu Sabba Mangalam!!!From Nepal
Forgiveness makes miracles. Forgive all, u will attain peace. Afterall every ones ultimate goal is peace. This is what all religious preach.
Beautifully simplified. Thank you. Clear person.
Sometimes the bad people get lot of support from other people and the good people get no support from others. Others think that the good can manage all the situations of their own. This also makes a difference in life.
Unaccepted & unexpected happenings or people actually helps us to awakening & cleansing our soul energy
Sarva Mangalam! Thank you my brother. For this precious teaching.
Vandhami pujya Bhanteji ♥️ 🎉🎉🎉❤❤your message boost my mind nd heal me very well.
YES! EVERYTHING YOU SAID IS TRUE AND SO ENLIGHTENING. THANKS AND KEEP SMILING GIVING LIGHT TO THE DARK HEARTS. GOD BLESS..
Ten minutes well-invested. Thank you for the teachings.
When you are depressed, think about your past life. Who were the nice people you met (including your parents & relations), what good things you had achieved, what good things you had done to others and to yourself. 🙏
If you expect fairness from this unfair life, you'll end up with tiredness 🙂
Recently discovered your videos. Your teachings are helping and changing me and thus changing my life for the better. Grateful. Thank you.
How peacefully is he talking, understandable, simple . So trueful. It seams so simple, so help yourself and God, Buddha, destiny will help you. The final desitions are ours.. good, bad, happy, sad. Thank you