How to Heal your Broken Heart| Buddhism In English

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  • @anudiaz6914
    @anudiaz6914 Рік тому +1639

    When you are heartbroken cry,forgive ,learn from your expeiences and let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.🙏

    • @LilB.
      @LilB. Рік тому +7

      Well said..

    • @moulinyan
      @moulinyan Рік тому +2

      how u do u cry

    • @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA
      @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA Рік тому

      Or turn it into a beautiful painful song ua-cam.com/video/v2vk1S03MUo/v-deo.html

    • @prema1009
      @prema1009 Рік тому +23

      But I am struggling 😫. My mind says I need to forget and move on... but very difficult to practice

    • @kimberleyjane2338
      @kimberleyjane2338 Рік тому +4

      ​@@prema1009 Very difficult and especially when you realize that your needs are not their priority or their problem.

  • @hsmint
    @hsmint Рік тому +1153

    1)If you need to cry, is ok to cry. Crying release pressure.
    2) Find a person to share your sorrow. The person should not give hateful comments about your ex partner as that will build up the hatred further.
    3) Always reflect and recollect that one day you will be parted and separated with all the dear people in your life. Alot of people don't like to think about this when they are in a relationship. However, being aware that we have limited time with our loved one(s) will enable one to give the fullest love and compassion.
    4) True love will never break your heart, but attachment will.
    5) If you need to heal the wound, you need to reduce touching it. Therefore, reduce the amount of attention you give to past memories.
    6) No matter how terrible the situation is, it will change one day. You will be ok one day.
    7) Know that this experience will make you stronger.

    • @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA
      @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA Рік тому

      Or turn it into a beautiful painful song ua-cam.com/video/v2vk1S03MUo/v-deo.html

    • @qb6989
      @qb6989 Рік тому +13

      Wow! Thank you for this!

    • @marktodd4479
      @marktodd4479 Рік тому +3

      #3 is so very helpful. I experienced the most absolutely devastating losses of my life 2 years ago. I did treasure them and many many times while laying in peace with them I felt such gratitude for the moment and for them. The loss is unbearable and I don’t know about others but life is of no use or holds zero attraction to me anymore and I just remain in this maya because of others depending on me

    • @meghnac78
      @meghnac78 Рік тому +11

      And what happens when the terrible situation happens over and over again? When life gives you nothing but misery and heartache as soon as you think you are okay?

    • @myversionoftruth
      @myversionoftruth Рік тому +2

      Thank you very much. 🙏

  • @anomakahawandala6816
    @anomakahawandala6816 Рік тому +584

    "True love will never break your heart, but attachment does"

    • @sich_verstehen
      @sich_verstehen Рік тому +28

      But aren't we all attatched to our loved ones?

    • @nickkaysay
      @nickkaysay Рік тому +29

      ​@@sich_verstehen yes, but all of our attachments bring us suffering. We fear of losing what or who we cherish, we feel sad and devastated when we actually lose it, we get used to the temporary feeling of happiness, that when it's over it breaks our heart. All of us should learn to let go and understand that all things that appear, sooner or later will disappear. Including the bad things. Hope I could help you❤

    • @jselenatan9834
      @jselenatan9834 Рік тому +1

      Thank you, I needed to hear this.

    • @bankingtricks614
      @bankingtricks614 Рік тому

    • @tararathnayake7582
      @tararathnayake7582 Рік тому +4

      We attach to people without even love, when we love there is always an attachment. No matter at the end, attachment makes us suffer. Love without any attachment make us free

  • @benazir4425
    @benazir4425 4 місяці тому +108

    Anyone going through a tough time hold on guys You're not alone😊 ( may Allah make it easy for you all) and remember this too shall pass!

  • @ChezzzyChez
    @ChezzzyChez Рік тому +218

    I love your quote of “let your tears water the seeds of your happiness.” 🙂thank you

    • @catherinesmith932
      @catherinesmith932 Рік тому +1

      Yes great words! Thank You

    • @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA
      @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA Рік тому

      Or turn it into a beautiful painful song ua-cam.com/video/v2vk1S03MUo/v-deo.html

    • @nigithat7803
      @nigithat7803 4 місяці тому

      True words. It help me... Over come more tension, pressure.... 🙂

  • @manjulapaul5065
    @manjulapaul5065 Рік тому +391

    The way you talk with a smile on your face that's very beautiful 😍👌 ❤️

  • @jeandaniel4277
    @jeandaniel4277 Рік тому +265

    I lost my son 27 years old in an accident two months back ,I am so broken and search for motivational talks. I listen to your speeches and there is a temporary relief I still need to hear more on losing a loved one. You are a great preacher teacher and don't talk about religion but only truths . Thank you.

    • @artaleasham4105
      @artaleasham4105 Рік тому +25

      I feel sorry for your loss. Try to keep yourself on your daily tasks. Cleaning, going to the grocery store, work. Things like that. If you can't find something to do, then take a walk around the park/maybe even jog. It doesn't have to be fast, just moving is good. Keep yourself busy.
      It's okay to cry at any given time of your day. So what if people see you! You're human. You are allowed to cry. Anyone can understand what you are going through. The most important thing is to give yourself time to mourn, but also to keep yourself moving. Try some yoga/sports.
      Trust me, out of anything that can help, movement is it. Your brain will release dopamine and that will make sure your body will be more calmed. The movements will also make you tired, wich in turn makes it easier to fall asleep and the tiredness will make it harder for your mind to wander. The best thing is to push your body as hard as it can go, but it's not ideal to do this every time. Especially if you're a beginner at anything, try to take it one step at a time, and it's okay to take breaks.
      This won't heal your wound, but it can help be a band aid until it gets better, bit by bit. I hope you can give it a place someday and be happy again all the way! And remember. You are never alone. If you want to talk to someone about it, there might be talking groups you can go to/or a psychologist. Don't be afraid to talk to lots of your friends too! Everything will help to give it a place.

    • @rangerwhite5165
      @rangerwhite5165 Рік тому +7

      Best wishes to you and I hope you find peace. I can't imagine how horrific that would be.

    • @sunshineshining4167
      @sunshineshining4167 Рік тому +4

      Hope you are fine now.

    • @user-sj9lf2bi1y
      @user-sj9lf2bi1y Рік тому

      Cheer up! 🌸🍀

    • @Save-INDIA
      @Save-INDIA Рік тому +6

      That is what budha has taught in his Dhamma….. he teaches way of life which is useful for each and every individual…. He says ,, don’t expect too much,,, attachment’s brings suffering,, expectations brings suffering, be compassionate, be kind , he says 1) there is suffering 2) there is reason for suffering 3) you need to understand the cause of suffering 4) find out solutions or healing for that suffering bz it’s in your hand to reduce your pain and suffering by kindness and compassion for others…..,, then he shows 8 fold pathways to follow for life then in the prayers itself he says….. 1) be away from lies 2) be away from hurting animals 3)be away from addiction, alcohol 4) make your character stronger 5) don’t do robbery…………, so beautiful BUDDHA had taught us……..2500 yrs ago…….. so simple and so true…………

  • @yashodaraabeysinghe5437
    @yashodaraabeysinghe5437 Рік тому +176

    "When you are heart-broken, cry, forgive, learn from your experiences & let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness"

    • @freidapaynor1641
      @freidapaynor1641 Рік тому

      been 2yrs and the tears hasnt dried up.

    • @vanshikadixit5892
      @vanshikadixit5892 Рік тому

      Where we can purchase this uniform? He wearing.

    • @yashodaraabeysinghe5437
      @yashodaraabeysinghe5437 Рік тому +1

      @@vanshikadixit5892 it's called 'robe'..Sri Lanka..but you can't just buy a robe & just wear like a uniform..First you have to become a monk..it's quite a process..

    • @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA
      @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA Рік тому

      @@yashodaraabeysinghe5437 Or turn it into a beautiful painful song ua-cam.com/video/v2vk1S03MUo/v-deo.html

    • @twilit
      @twilit Рік тому

      @@vanshikadixit5892lol it’s not a fashion

  • @ankitanandi5594
    @ankitanandi5594 Рік тому +190

    I am getting addicted to this channel..at the end of every talk I get tears...namo budhdhaya 🌸🌸🌸

    • @doroteotimtim8854
      @doroteotimtim8854 Рік тому

      Listening to your words of wisdom makes me feel content with your understanding about how people can get together platonically. Never stop preaching about love and lasting relationships...

    • @kushymathai9821
      @kushymathai9821 Рік тому +1

      Yes you are right i watched all videos waiting for next one👍👍👍

    • @PRASHANTSINGH-sh2hn
      @PRASHANTSINGH-sh2hn Рік тому +1

      Are u heartbroken?

    • @tharmab4658
      @tharmab4658 Рік тому

      🙏

    • @sophiafara5997
      @sophiafara5997 10 місяців тому

      i have fat tummy

  • @ewelinak1575
    @ewelinak1575 Рік тому +74

    After my heart was broken for 4 years ago I went through spiritual awakening. It was a blessing. I would do it again and again. I'm a new person- real me and I love myself unconditionally and every single thing around me. The best gift ever

    • @shivanimallik656
      @shivanimallik656 11 місяців тому +6

      Hey ...can you please share your experience about spirituality... I'm going through a heartbreak now.. it's really tough for me...but I'm seeking help from yoga meditation and god.. I feel like I'm going to make it my routine...but still I get sudden anxiety attacks specially in morning... I'm just begging God to take the pain away.

    • @ewelinak1575
      @ewelinak1575 11 місяців тому +8

      @@shivanimallik656 Dearest friend
      It takes time to find your own strength. It took me 4 years- greatest years of my life too be where I am now. No one can help you with the pain. Take it as a great lesson from life. There is always happiness on the other side. It will shape you. Nothing takes forever. You must know that you are responsible for your life and choices. All the reasons you will recognize later. There is always something to see positive. Start to seek the truth of life. We are supposed to be happy in this life and happiness is a choice. I know you will make it and wish you all the best

    • @blindjedi4139
      @blindjedi4139 11 місяців тому +1

      I’m glad you found your happiness, I started mine about an year ago, I know it’s a long journey worth taking.

    • @timbolrey5814
      @timbolrey5814 10 місяців тому

      ❤❤❤

    • @MariaGonzalez-cn4kc
      @MariaGonzalez-cn4kc 8 місяців тому

      💕 stay strong

  • @chandramunasinghe4017
    @chandramunasinghe4017 Рік тому +215

    We lost our eldest daughter 26 years ago...when she was 11 years...I am still struggling to overcome our loss....by listening to yr dhamma talks....i feel bit light hearted ....thanks ..Namo Buddhaya

    • @ro_boat
      @ro_boat Рік тому +6

      My condolences to you 😢 and yours! I lost my sister and brother-in-law to a speeding driver in March 4th 2017. I miss her soooo much.

    • @ro_boat
      @ro_boat Рік тому +6

      I feel your pain and your are not alone!

    • @anomakahawandala6816
      @anomakahawandala6816 Рік тому +4

      "Nothing is permanent "

    • @anjou6497
      @anjou6497 Рік тому +2

      ⚘️💜

    • @Eddieangelj2288
      @Eddieangelj2288 Рік тому +4

      Sending you love and strength, our loved ones never ever leave us, I ask the angels to bring you peace and signs of eternal life. May peace be with you and your family brother 🙏❤

  • @deiagraham5510
    @deiagraham5510 10 місяців тому +28

    #2 True Love will never break your heart, but attachment Will!! NEEDED TO HEAR THIS!!😮

  • @ramyag1043
    @ramyag1043 Місяць тому +11

    Iam Christian girl but I always follow your videos.

  • @dianmar8717
    @dianmar8717 Рік тому +25

    I am a Muslim, from Indonesia. I like your channel. The way you present is calm, come out from your pure heart. and logical

  • @alexishoggan2098
    @alexishoggan2098 Рік тому +14

    3 times I have been through this and now I know I was attached not in love I'm 41 and now I'm learning to love myself

  • @Basira_Anwary
    @Basira_Anwary 11 місяців тому +13

    The soul usually knows what to do to heal itself.
    The
    challenge is to silence the mind.

  • @djjess9553
    @djjess9553 2 місяці тому +6

    My 23 year old son is going through a heartbreak,i hope he watched this ..we all been through it..i wish him the best

  • @thefutureisnow209
    @thefutureisnow209 19 днів тому +2

    Also true love never breaks your heart bc true love doesn’t leave. Thank you for this beautiful video. ❤

  • @toou332
    @toou332 4 місяці тому +20

    i am muslim but i am inspire of this man🙂

    • @wellplatedsabu
      @wellplatedsabu Місяць тому +1

      Same here❤

    • @Swanselm
      @Swanselm Місяць тому

      Are you allowed to do that?

    • @lilbitotrble
      @lilbitotrble 23 дні тому

      This is a demonstration of your wisdom to consider another's perspective. You are an enlightened being (IMHO) .

  • @katherinelydon7306
    @katherinelydon7306 Рік тому +9

    Crying is truly the best way to heal. No shame in crying. It reveals the depth of love you felt for that person.

    • @Zorro00444
      @Zorro00444 5 днів тому

      Been weeping for 6months now, like a child.. while the other person is going out and sleeping with her ex that she left me for.

  • @Kk-yn7dk
    @Kk-yn7dk Рік тому +10

    we never heal we just learn to live with it

  • @skygazer6898
    @skygazer6898 Рік тому +37

    I grew up in an abusive environment and have spent most of my adult life on my own. When I bought a puppy Labrador, I never knew my life would be transformed so drastically. I enjoyed getting out and walking her for hours on end, even meeting and chatting with other dog walkers. I loved coming home from work and being greeted by my best friend, I just loved her so much. Lucy got cancer and I had to have her put to sleep, to say it has turned my life upside down is an understatement. It has been 5 years and I miss her so much and feel like I don't want to be here anymore without her. I am so broken hearted without my girl. I have lost family and close friends but nothing has been so painful as losing my beautiful Labrador, Lucy. I truly loved Lucy and my HEART is BROKEN

    • @Happiness-qj3ry
      @Happiness-qj3ry Рік тому +3

      My 1st furkid pass away 2 years back and my whole world died. I can't accept it at all. My second furkid came to show me love and always there for me. I am happy with my furkid. You may consider to adopt a furkid and give a lovely life. Lucy may come in another furkid. I am feeling it right now

    • @freestyle7951
      @freestyle7951 Рік тому +8

      It would be therapeutic to adopt a pet and bring back the sweet love and companionship that animals add to your life. Lucy will always be your first love and you can rescue an animal who needs You. Let go and love again. Your life will be a gift to share with an animal who is starving for the love and security you have to give. Love again ...Live again. You can do it.💕

    • @leesanderson6885
      @leesanderson6885 Рік тому +5

      Time has come for that pain to be healed. Could you go and get a little rescue doggy? You can heal that little doggies heart. And he will heal yours. Lucy would hate for you to be so broken for so long. Its time to heal your sadness. Xx

    • @artaleasham4105
      @artaleasham4105 Рік тому +1

      I understand what you mean. In my life I have had a lot of animals and I still remember every one of them. Once a year I have a day to remember them. It's on pet's day. I make some sort of prayer and just try to let them know I still love them and that I hope that I will meet them again someday.

    • @skygazer6898
      @skygazer6898 Рік тому +1

      @@Happiness-qj3ry I cant think of adopting another dog. no,

  • @FeCadacio
    @FeCadacio Рік тому +268

    Reverend, I'm a Catholic but since I started subscribing this channel through your enlightenment I learned a lot and I got a lot of improvement. Thank you so much 🥰

    • @sraddhayoga1
      @sraddhayoga1 Рік тому +17

      I am also a Catholic and knowing about Buddhism has made me know another point of view that complements my way of seeing life. Greetings from MEXico.

    • @JoelPit
      @JoelPit Рік тому +2

      I'm a minister, and I'm here as well. I've been searching the Bible for dating advice there is none how did the basic instruction before leaving earth leave this out. Marriage is of earth and not of heaven and so must be dating. We are only responsible for our sinful responses

    • @mumtazessa4270
      @mumtazessa4270 Рік тому

      Hi thank u so much how much said was very good

    • @iaber1698
      @iaber1698 Рік тому

      @@JoelPit mmm, well, the 10 commandments are all of earth and not of heaven. As far as I am concerned, the bible offers advice to humans, who all live on earth.

    • @honestchileshe7098
      @honestchileshe7098 7 місяців тому +1

      Am also a catholic but I learn alot

  • @angelique2653
    @angelique2653 Рік тому +116

    Thank you so much. My beloved husband passed away three years ago. After 33 years very happy marriage. I am healing slowly, slowly. I am blessed to have known such love.💚💙💜🙏🙏🙏

  • @Iamvaishnavi23
    @Iamvaishnavi23 Рік тому +14

    I don't have any person to share anything. I have only me . I don't have friends. I have my family who will never understand anything. I can't cry because everyone is always around me . I feel horrible

    • @bhumikamahajan761
      @bhumikamahajan761 Місяць тому +2

      Make personal diary and write down anything what you want to share someone

    • @RPSKLM
      @RPSKLM 13 днів тому

      My sister the same but she passed out last year I saw it what I missed ...so u can share with my mom mam maybe u will be comfortable

    • @bts-shi3382
      @bts-shi3382 7 днів тому

      Same:(

    • @leosworld697
      @leosworld697 4 дні тому

      Yes me too

  • @angelinegeorge275
    @angelinegeorge275 Рік тому +80

    Im am a christian but your talks n lessons of life n philosphy are universal n can b applied by people from all walks of life. U have a very calm n peaceful appearance . Im learning from u n i can apply these lessins in lifev to anyone who is in need of advice. Thank u n please continue with your good work. Amen!

    • @amyherr9018
      @amyherr9018 6 місяців тому +2

      Same here Christian God bless!!!

  • @kirivrahimi8156
    @kirivrahimi8156 Рік тому +14

    If you love someone don’t you automatically become attached to that person, because you love each other you share your life with them and you want to spend as much time as you can with them so I believe that it would be virtually impossible not to feel the pain once they are gone. Thank you❤

  • @jcd3869
    @jcd3869 Рік тому +22

    "Cry, forgive, learn from your experiences, and let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness".

  • @Swadheenta06
    @Swadheenta06 Рік тому +26

    1. Someday we have to seperate ourselves from everyone we loved
    2. True love can never break your heart, it's done by attachment

  • @shereenmehmood906
    @shereenmehmood906 10 місяців тому +14

    Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness 🙏🏽

  • @yourfutureisnow6480
    @yourfutureisnow6480 Рік тому +33

    I always say nothing is guaranteed and certain with others. If you love someone, just love them and enjoy the times you have with them. Don't take things so seriously. Always have other outlets to express yourself.

  • @tejasmeshram7128
    @tejasmeshram7128 Рік тому +4

    Some one cheated me in horrible way. Someone used to tell me that she can't live without me. She found new option, so she left. I'm crying since 1 months. I was unable to eat anything. I felt like empty and heavy. My weight decreased to 41 kg. My tooth broken. I never thought I would be cheated like this. She showed highest level of cruelty to me. Because she found handsome guy. I came to know this world is unfair and cruel.
    After listening to you, I feel better. You're very inspiring. Thank you so much 🙏 Master 💙 I'm grateful to you ❤️ from bottom of my heart 🤍
    Namo Buddha🙏
    My tears came out🌼🌼🌼

  • @kimberlydavis5034
    @kimberlydavis5034 Рік тому +23

    I haven't been able to grieve and heal. My heart is broken in many pieces. I'm always busy trying to help others. I was taught that crying is a sign of weakness. I always had to put everyone else before myself. I need time to myself. I need to be by myself to recharge my mental, emotional and physical being. I need time to myself to be able to grieve and heal. I haven't been able to do this in over 30 years because I had to but myself on the back burner and be a caretaker for everyone else my whole life. Now I have to work on self-care and work on myself. Thank you for these encouraging teaching lessons. I appreciate your kind compassionate words and understanding.

    • @rubytuesday7653
      @rubytuesday7653 Рік тому +1

      Kimberly , it's like you broke out of my brain and wrote about me🥀. I'm broken. I'm all alone. No friends, No family, No Church Family,No Neighbors. It's like I don't exist.

    • @rubytuesday7653
      @rubytuesday7653 Рік тому +1

      I've been crying allot......I can't stop.

    • @beatleme2
      @beatleme2 2 місяці тому

      @@rubytuesday7653 feel the same since my wife of 13 yrs passed 8 1 23 -hope you're doing better

  • @brandyfuller515
    @brandyfuller515 Рік тому +23

    Gosh just found you on UA-cam and im so happy I did!! Im greiving really bad!! I lost my two children 22 years old son and 21 year old daughter 4 and 5 years ago thank you for being you

    • @mariianicababaPT
      @mariianicababaPT Рік тому +3

      ❤️ you deserve to by happy in this life… for you and for your children ❤️

    • @atuldwivedi3959
      @atuldwivedi3959 Рік тому +3

      I can feel your pain. I did lose my mom when I was 13 and after one year I did lose my grandmother. Don't lose hope. Your son and your daughter are watching you from heaven and discussing how brave their mom is ❤

    • @Dreamdr
      @Dreamdr 9 місяців тому +1

      i feel really sorry abt u 😢❤

    • @brandyfuller515
      @brandyfuller515 9 місяців тому

      @@Dreamdr thank you im so lost

    • @barbaraseidel4342
      @barbaraseidel4342 3 місяці тому

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @STNNurseMikey1990
    @STNNurseMikey1990 Рік тому +5

    I'm noticing those past memories come up in waves. The moment I notice the process it pops, but there is fear to even let them dissolve and allow peace!

  • @borange588
    @borange588 Рік тому +5

    I broke up with my first love and my selfish actions that were fueled by the attachment led to it ending very badly. She was the one and only person who truly understood me. But it ended so badly, I'm struggling to forgive myself. I wish I could change it. But the past is the past and there's nothing I can do to undo the damage I have caused. However, these great teachings are giving me hope and some direction into healing and moving on with my life. Thank you

    • @EduverseAca
      @EduverseAca 3 місяці тому

      Same thing happened with me.😭 I cannot forgive myself 😭😭😭

    • @DarkWolfWRX
      @DarkWolfWRX Місяць тому

      I just broke up with the woman I thought would be the one. We were not together a drastically long time. But I failed and let my anxieties from a prior relationship push her away and in the break up hurt her more with my actions. I tried so hard to get her to understand I will work on my anxieties. But she just couldnt give it another shot. I have never been so depressed in my life.

  • @marciadesouza3314
    @marciadesouza3314 Рік тому +56

    Thank-you! So...much for talking about "Broken-Hearts"💔. My sister was very, very sick, was taken to Hospital and was ill-treated badly and was killed by giving allergic tablets. That death is extremely hard to get over with. I trust in the Lord everyday, taking one day at a time. I am asking for your prayers 🙏 😌.

    • @trevordamien1550
      @trevordamien1550 Рік тому +4

      Oh Ma’am I am so deeply saddened about ur v unpleasant experience that you had to undergo with ur dearest sisters tragic death! I understand ur dilemma as I’m suffering immensely been a guy n the youngest of the family. I lost my dearest darling Mom whom I looked after for past 10 years all by myself. My darling Mom left me all alone in this world! I’m emotionally down, fallen and my mind is frozen too. Pl accept my deepest sympathies on ur great loss.

    • @marciadesouza3314
      @marciadesouza3314 Рік тому +5

      @@trevordamien1550 Trevor dear ♥ . Thank-you, so very much for being in touch with me. I am really sorry to hear about your mum and your circumstances and you tell me your the last one in the family 👪 it's really heart ❤ breaking. I understand how you must feel. With my sister's death and that they took her life was too much to bear, cause, it was done in front of my eyes. Every, memories of my sister breaks me down completely. This is something, I cannot forget and will never forget. I am sure you must feel the very same. I Sympathise with you. Trevor. The day my sister was killed 😪 😢 I turned to the "Lord" praying day and night. I cried too so...very much. I cannot explain. I can't believe that the hospital's would do such a thing. I am so.....very sorry for taken her to hospital. They ill- treated her and then took life. I am living with a broken💔heart and so must you Trevor. I long, really long to be where my sister is, and I am sure you must feel too. Tc Trevor be in touch whenever you need too. I Love ❤ 😍 💖 you. Don't worry, God will take care of us we hope😘♥️🌹

    • @chanpisethsuos1306
      @chanpisethsuos1306 5 місяців тому

      Sending prayers ❤

    • @marciadesouza3314
      @marciadesouza3314 5 місяців тому +2

      @@chanpisethsuos1306 Dear chanisethsuos1306. Thank-you! So...very much for your prayers for us. I hope God will bless 🙌 you immensely. I will think of you, when, I am Praying. Thank-you!❤🕯❤😘

  • @bevm8446
    @bevm8446 Рік тому +42

    The way you deliver the speech with a smile on your face is priceless, gracious and calm, you touch my heart so deeply with your words of wisdom. තෙරුවන් සරණයි

  • @kashishagarwal7575
    @kashishagarwal7575 4 місяці тому +4

    Sometimes, heartbreaks are not becoz of the love of our life, sometimes it is by the people who love us. Sometimes our first heartbreak is by our family whome we loved the most in our lives. And its really veryvery painful when your own family doesn't trust u. And it breaks u the most to the extremities.
    But as said that we should try to forgive things and take experiences to not repeat the same, which is the only thing we can do.🤞🙌

  • @mrhotot
    @mrhotot Рік тому +11

    We ended up 8 years of our relationship. Ending up couldn't have hurt me but she cheated on me which hurt me alot. If she was really not interested on me then she could have told me. People ending relationship to, not working out get less hurt than those who get cheated. It cuts so deep. It's been more than a year. Still can't find way to get on my track. It complete made me lost. It hurts so much. God should show her karma. Thank you for everything we share.

  • @sliceoflife1111
    @sliceoflife1111 Рік тому +8

    True love will never break your heart, but attachment will ❤

  • @MissiJade
    @MissiJade Рік тому +16

    Thank you for this very important message. I have lost my Mother, my spouse and my 23 year old sister all in tragic circumstances. I held on to my tears and lived in solitary for four years. I now understand that my loved ones would want me to live my life. Finding sincere support is difficult when you are without any family support however I am grateful that I am focusing on the good memories and myself now and anyone who has experienced multiple losses, my heart is with you. Your teachings have taught me so much. I am so grateful ❤

    • @flaviacogo5627
      @flaviacogo5627 Рік тому +2

      Sorry about that 😢

    • @dinethmaaponso8873
      @dinethmaaponso8873 Рік тому +3

      sorry to hear that, but they will be proud of you💟

    • @fear_less_2020
      @fear_less_2020 Рік тому +2

      I pray your heart heals very soon. Losing them is tragic but God will give you strength and peace very soon. Your loved ones want you to lead a happy life. Please live your life to the fullest. ❤

    • @rosalielopez9138
      @rosalielopez9138 11 місяців тому +2

      Courage !
      Dont give up !

    • @MissiJade
      @MissiJade 11 місяців тому +3

      Thank you for your beautiful messages of support. I feel so grateful that you have taken the time to write these. I wish you all happiness and good health. ❤️‍🩹

  • @janjust4205
    @janjust4205 11 місяців тому +8

    When your heart broken. Cry, forgive, learn.
    Let your tear water the seeds of your future happiness.

  • @thearomunlocker3781
    @thearomunlocker3781 Рік тому +4

    Sadhu sadhu sadhu 🙏🙏🙏🥰
    I'm Buddhism from Cambodia 🇰🇭🙏🥰

  • @jamess8175
    @jamess8175 Рік тому +10

    Such profound wisdom is only taught by the supreme Buddha. Namo Buddhaya! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @catherinesmith932
    @catherinesmith932 Рік тому +15

    Wow that was real enlightenment for me! True Love never breaks your heart. I see that in my life.

  • @RobinLahoe-pj2uq
    @RobinLahoe-pj2uq Рік тому +5

    I am a heart broken mother which my daughter who pass away thank you for advice and may God bless . ❤

  • @governessenglish2680
    @governessenglish2680 Рік тому +22

    Have no words to thank you Ven . Thero. I am a Buddhist...but the way you present all these facts is very interesting , heart touching an logical. More over your smile wipes our sorrow away for a moment ... තෙරුවන් සරනින් ඔබවහන්සෙට උතුම් වූ නිර්වාන දොරටුව වැඩි ඈතක නොවේවා!! Namo Buddhaya !!

  • @renukadave7273
    @renukadave7273 Рік тому +25

    Namo Budhdhay, Master. 🙏
    So nicely explained..!
    Feel your love and compassion for mankind in each of your words.. 🙏
    Lucky to have such Guru 🙏🙏🙏

  • @thyservant2310
    @thyservant2310 Рік тому +5

    forgiveness and acceptance is the key, let go of what you must 🤗

  • @MeenAk.
    @MeenAk. Рік тому +14

    Your messaged reached me at the right time. I am suffering from this heartache from two months. Somehow recovered but not fully. Today am again into same old past thoughts. Staying in the middle of life when u have no one around u kills. But i have learnt to stay away frm people.Thank you ur video was quit helpfull.🙏

    • @nirmalasanjiv7624
      @nirmalasanjiv7624 Рік тому +2

      Same here

    • @arlene-is-here
      @arlene-is-here 3 місяці тому +1

      Me too. It is somewhat comforting to know other people share similar heartache

  • @nilanisiriwardena5019
    @nilanisiriwardena5019 Рік тому +4

    THE TRUTH. EXPLAINS EVERYTHING. AS A BUDDHIST I AGREE WITH YOUR ADVICE. GREAT.

  • @sutharmian
    @sutharmian Рік тому +23

    Thank you for sharing Buddha's wisdom ❤️🙏 !

  • @mimikoo5197
    @mimikoo5197 Рік тому +24

    Whenever I feel down, after listening to your sharing of Buddha's wisdom, it always made me feel very touched n very humbled. Thank you.

  • @msmotivation6040
    @msmotivation6040 13 днів тому +1

    True love will never break your heart but attachment does.

  • @belovegems
    @belovegems Рік тому +10

    Let the tears water the seeds of your future happiness 🙏

  • @STNNurseMikey1990
    @STNNurseMikey1990 Рік тому +6

    Attachment/aversion feels like one of my biggest blocks to freedom. Through my practice I am noticing old patterns after a recent breakup, and merging with them means the suffering is immense. There is an attachment to merging with these patterns here.
    I appreciate the timely reminder of impermanence. But through reflection a lot of pain is here from identifying with the one who wasn't able to give as much love as he wanted to, for whatever reason. Mainly shame. and there is merging with tremendous guilt.
    So this was a bitter sweet video for me. Started off with an opening, then a contraction, then this comment.

  • @mariabejaranomonge2183
    @mariabejaranomonge2183 Рік тому +22

    Thank you so much. Your words bring light, peace and confidence. 🙏✨✨👏

  • @debbie6533
    @debbie6533 Рік тому +7

    I think about him every morning before my day starts and before I go to sleep every day. it's true love. Crying is good but limit it. As I know when I cry too long, I always get very very sick for weeks. I think I will burn a candle and meditate instead. Acknowledge it but limit it

    • @ovz197
      @ovz197 Рік тому

      That's true. I'm in the same situation. Hope things will get better soon! Stay safe.

    • @debbie6533
      @debbie6533 Рік тому +1

      @@ovz197 God bless, be safe, be well❤️

    • @ovz197
      @ovz197 Рік тому

      @@debbie6533 Thanks a lot

  • @wh2204
    @wh2204 Рік тому +3

    thank you for this video.. as a muslim I amazed by the words.. it helps me to calm down, feels like he speaks to me privately heart to heart.. I feel touched and heard

  • @arupabanerjee2854
    @arupabanerjee2854 Рік тому +13

    You have a peaceful way of explaining things..your smile itself gives peace...thank you so much Sir..Namha Buddhhaye.🙏🙏

  • @malshaabeysekare7357
    @malshaabeysekare7357 Рік тому +5

    Apart from thinking this is religious based discussion.. this whole idea can make me calm down.. it does everything isn't it! Thank you so much. I love the peace you just delivered.

  • @CL-jb9nd
    @CL-jb9nd Рік тому +23

    Dear teacher, thank you so much for your teachings. They are so wise and so helpful and they give me a lot of peace in mind. I am so thankful for your sermons! 🙏🏻☺️

  • @rotelco1
    @rotelco1 Рік тому +6

    This is one of the most practical sermon i have ever heard on overcoming grief.

  • @sandamali8173
    @sandamali8173 Рік тому +8

    Pinwath swamin wahansa our children always hearting us how can we heal our heart from a heart breaks we cannot bear that pain. I also addicted this channel. You are great reverent rev. May the Noble Trple Gem bless.May you attain nibbana🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @hariharen5784
    @hariharen5784 Рік тому +14

    "LET YOUR TEARS WATER THE SEEDS OF YOUR FUTURE HAPPINESS"👌👌👌👌👌

  • @talesbywije
    @talesbywije Рік тому +6

    My heart felt like getting water to a parched dessert when listening to this, thank you so much.

  • @so_shruti
    @so_shruti 7 місяців тому +2

    ‘’True love will never break your heart’’. That hit home. Guess I haven’t found true love yet…always heartbroken 💔

  • @bestrongandloveyourself2370
    @bestrongandloveyourself2370 Рік тому +18

    These advices are very helpful! Thank you so much! 🙏☺️

  • @shank1321
    @shank1321 Рік тому +18

    Right message at the right time.. soo grateful that I had a chance listening to your speech! Namo Budhaya 🙏🏽

  • @abhijitha7246
    @abhijitha7246 Рік тому +6

    Your words bring peace and confidence.🌟

  • @carolinetoppari7090
    @carolinetoppari7090 7 місяців тому +2

    I have learnt my lessons and cried my eyes balls out, neither ami perfect but i have learnt my lessons and lifes lesson, trust is harder now for me, im finding it hard to trust anyone.

  • @happydays3678
    @happydays3678 Рік тому +9

    Thank you. It's hard to feel love without attachment. I will look at your other video which explains more. Beautiful words, thanks again. 🙏❤

  • @NishaSharma-mh9br
    @NishaSharma-mh9br 4 місяці тому +8

    I am feeling broken inside 😭 💔. It's very hard to lose that one person who you loved more than yourself.

  • @wintershy22
    @wintershy22 Рік тому +5

    “Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness”

  • @almafernandez5915
    @almafernandez5915 Рік тому +6

    May u be blessed more . .my brother🙏❣️❣️. .i' ve learned a lot from ur teachings or channel🙏 honestly all pains within me. .🙏little by little melted because of ur words❣️🧘🙏

  • @shivanjalirana7912
    @shivanjalirana7912 Рік тому +11

    your videos are soothing. and relieve us like magic. thanks a lot for such great words of wisdom

  • @Bornto-serve786
    @Bornto-serve786 Рік тому +12

    Your voice and guidance not beings light in my life but they are the way that welcomes the new me each time I recorrect and regrow myself ❤️❤️❤️❤️..
    I'm a Muslim from kashmir

    • @madhuachpal503
      @madhuachpal503 Рік тому

      S²l ll lol
      Lol lol lol è1

    • @fortnitenoob9828
      @fortnitenoob9828 Рік тому +3

      Inshallah I’m Muslim too thinking off converting to a Buddhist ♥️

    • @Bornto-serve786
      @Bornto-serve786 Рік тому +3

      No need to convert Islam is beautiful too..
      Learn from every guru and hold on too one dignity ❤️ gudluck

    • @hasintan6112
      @hasintan6112 Рік тому +4

      "Govthama Buddha" he is a teacher ,,no problem who you are. your male, female,islamic,catholic,hindhu or non religion ,,, you can leran how to staying happy ,without suffering.
      ( my little friend mariya also from kashmir but i can't find her, great god help her❤️🙏😔)

  • @treesdeschout1190
    @treesdeschout1190 Рік тому +10

    Every day YOU encourage me with Your wise and helpful lessons, to give up our expectations and attachment 🙏❤️

  • @christrinder1255
    @christrinder1255 11 місяців тому +4

    Thank you so much for the blessings you’ve given us in this video……..crying isn’t something I usually do although I’m a woman….I have cried over the last 24 hours… as much as when my husband died 3 years ago….. I was too much attached to a person "………my daughter and granddaughter were my strengths and support me whilst I come to terms with it…..the world is a wonderful place….and tomorrow the sun will shine again…💖💖💖

  • @seethakalahasthi1821
    @seethakalahasthi1821 Рік тому +12

    So beautifully u have explained...the last sentence is a perfect punch line.I adore your way of speaking.

  • @pranamum3109
    @pranamum3109 Рік тому +5

    Yes. You are correct.In family relationships it is painful.🙏🏻💐

  • @pritichaporkar
    @pritichaporkar Рік тому +1

    Your presence & smile does half of the healing. Thanks 🙏

  • @nethmikumburegama7294
    @nethmikumburegama7294 Рік тому +21

    It always feel very peaceful to listen to these videos in this channel. As a buddhist i have listen to many darma deshana. But this channel makes me feel better everytime somehow differently. ♥️නමෝ බුද්ධාය!

  • @dr.lucifer5678
    @dr.lucifer5678 Рік тому +4

    I have been going through this since 2 and a half year, I didn't find any person to share with, whomsoever I share, they just advice, start judging, I just cry out evry day to remove the pressure!!🥺...with a hope to get healed one day❄️

    • @piyushmandal5647
      @piyushmandal5647 Рік тому +1

      Same here 😖🥺😭

    • @dr.lucifer5678
      @dr.lucifer5678 Рік тому

      @@piyushmandal5647 🥺Hope you overcome your situation soon...
      I hope all the positivity in the world to clear out all the mess which is troubling you...
      May god bless you to the fullest, heal you to the highest...
      -your well wisher, who is also trying to overcome the depression...🥺🙂

  • @NehaKumari-qp6mi
    @NehaKumari-qp6mi 27 днів тому +3

    I don't have a single person in my life with whom I can share my pain .

  • @shatveekareddy3497
    @shatveekareddy3497 Рік тому +2

    great monk gave buddha teaching to modern generation in easy way in simple and depth , thanks a lot ,namo buddhaya

  • @pratikshanagose21
    @pratikshanagose21 Рік тому +3

    Dimple vale prabhuji Thank you for this lecture Hare Krishna
    Nmo Budhay
    Hari Bol🙌🙌🙌

  • @AnnaJackson50
    @AnnaJackson50 Рік тому +3

    I feel like you healed me ! Thank you for your wonderful words. They made me think.

  • @manishamotivates
    @manishamotivates Рік тому +13

    Life is of impermanence. So, are heartbreaks. Grateful for this motivation and reminder.

  • @sukanyabarua1231
    @sukanyabarua1231 Рік тому +4

    Namo Buddha ya 🙏🌹 There are lot of things going inside me and most of the time I feel alone , sadness , depression . But after follow your video's I feel much more relaxed . Hope your teaching make me happy. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @BigBBigTrees
    @BigBBigTrees 3 місяці тому +1

    I love seeing all of us from around the world, all learning from the same video. I hope everyone is healing well.

  • @divinelove2513
    @divinelove2513 Рік тому +4

    Right now I'm feeling exhausted. How a person ignore someone like that.His ignorance literally broke my heart lot of pieces..my brain always said that stop don’t text him but my heart don’t listen my mind..

    • @Rsri-pc4ld
      @Rsri-pc4ld Рік тому +1

      Battle with my heart and brain . Yep brains says stop texting him but my heart start to text 😢. Hw u feeling now .

    • @divinelove2513
      @divinelove2513 Рік тому

      @@Rsri-pc4ld right now I'm feeling okay..i would like to suggest you pls don’t text him, if you text him he will never understand your feeling
      So be yourself and live your life🧡🧡🧡

    • @Itspeti
      @Itspeti 7 місяців тому

      I'm with you. How can someone tell you they love you, spend great moments together and drop you like you're just a piece of trash? I'm trying to be strong and not text or call moving on. Praying we both heal and find our one true love 🙏🏽

  • @maheshab7042
    @maheshab7042 Рік тому +6

    Venorable thero,
    What you have said is very true. I have experienced same situation. Its been 4 years. Still I couldn't overcome my pain
    This video will be a big help for me

  • @chhatrapatichauhan6621
    @chhatrapatichauhan6621 Рік тому +3

    True Love only gives pain , you can't get over it , never ever 💆😓 no one cares your feelings , go ghost and grind bro 🧘

  • @sutraandseed4078
    @sutraandseed4078 9 місяців тому +2

    I have been blessed by Lord Buddha today.
    He has heard and answered my prayer for help.🙏🏻
    Thank you Brother.💞

  • @Suneetha527
    @Suneetha527 Рік тому +4

    this helps soo much, from your videos I have learned soo much, I used to be a rude person who would get angry easily and sad but after watching your videos your tips have all helped me and I feel like a better person. Not the same old angry me but a new me.
    I appreciate all your hard work on making these videos. Thank you so much
    🙂

  • @puja7776
    @puja7776 Рік тому +5

    An amazing motivational video. Especially the last quote...
    Namo Buddhaya.🙏

  • @AlrizSusulan
    @AlrizSusulan 6 місяців тому +1

    times are really tough for me at the moment, it seems and endless pain, sorrow and loneliness that i confront in a daily basis. i just came out from a 10 years Relationship with my wife. thank you so much for this inspiring words teacher. it encourages me to reflect in life that to love is not to be attach nor to own the person that you love. iv learned to forgive and let go, at least ive done my part to fixed things up but as you have said teacher, something are not beyond are control and in life all is impermanent. sending love and comfort to all who have heavy hearts around the world. peace and love in this life journey❤❤❤

  • @ashakp6466
    @ashakp6466 Рік тому

    I am addicted to your channel..I am very happy to see a good smile in your face when you speak ...that is amazing...