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  • @manimekhalai8256
    @manimekhalai8256 2 місяці тому +102

    Five questions to ask yourself before speaking:
    1. Am I speaking at the proper time, i.e., is the person I wish to address open and receptive for what I want to say.
    2. Am I speaking truthfully?
    3. Am I speaking gently not harshly?
    4. Am I speaking beneficially, i.e. with the good intention to help the other person, and not harmfully?
    5. Am I speaking out of love and compassion and not with inner hate?

    • @ConcettaLynch
      @ConcettaLynch Місяць тому +3

      Very well said
      ❤❤❤

    • @Sri_lanka-00
      @Sri_lanka-00 Місяць тому +1

      Yes

    • @priyankadawane4156
      @priyankadawane4156 28 днів тому +1

      Thank you 🙏

    • @eileenvannurden1343
      @eileenvannurden1343 4 дні тому

      @@manimekhalai8256 I used your technique the other day when someone was yelling at me, I quietly said “I don’t respond to that tone. And I don’t want to change my beliefs”. It was so effective, he drove off in a quiet huff!

  • @Sollozo1053
    @Sollozo1053 2 місяці тому +89

    My gradma once said"When someone hits you, the pain fades quickly, but hurtful words stick with you forever."

  • @noname-j5m7e
    @noname-j5m7e Місяць тому +19

    This monk's advices made my life very peaceful. I've been following this channel for six months and I have seen so much improvement in my life . thankyou so much for making these amazing vedios .

  • @shinfa.ecco-23
    @shinfa.ecco-23 2 місяці тому +44

    I am muslim but i like ur words...i am very happy and grateful being a Muslim..just wanna learn beautiful ways to live life...either the scholer is muslim or any other..no matter

    • @dinoblock8516
      @dinoblock8516 2 місяці тому +10

      Buddhism is a philosophy you don't have to be a Buddhist to understand it.and it's really easy to understand ❤❤

    • @leebeef
      @leebeef 2 місяці тому +3

      So nice to see. Wishing you and your family all the best.

    • @mw7882
      @mw7882 Місяць тому +4

      I feel the same way. I am seeking truth more than religion.

  • @Pavels_World
    @Pavels_World 2 місяці тому +31

    Love from Russia. When you speak I feel relaxed. Thank you for your teachings.

  • @billyjjackson
    @billyjjackson 2 місяці тому +10

    I have a particularly combative client, and today I worked through these steps in my reply and got a completely different response to how it usually plays out! Day 1 after listening to this amazing wisdom. Thank you 🙏

  • @eileenvannurden1343
    @eileenvannurden1343 2 місяці тому +10

    It’s not what we say, but how we say it. My family has a way of speaking harshly , without realizing how they sound. It causes a lot of hardship and pain. Thank you for your videos!

  • @citylight66
    @citylight66 2 місяці тому +3

    wording to others especially to the loved one is very complicated and sensitive making me afraid if she could be hurt or she could hurt me like as much as I have done, I am able to be going to take it back, on that, recently I seem to have been afraid even to try to talk to her... through this lesson, hoping to advance and go through this issue to the better in the relationship. thank you for this lesson.

  • @shawonbabu4163
    @shawonbabu4163 Місяць тому +1

    Ven accept my Vandana. Just now when I open my YT, after watching the smiling face of you my heart became full with peace. From your msg I have learned how to use my words properly and I will try from today to apply it in my practical life. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏

  • @M.Ojha9435
    @M.Ojha9435 2 місяці тому +13

    Thank you❤❤❤
    Namo Buddhaya❤❤❤❤

  • @lorellamazzotta3306
    @lorellamazzotta3306 2 місяці тому +10

    Thank you 🙏
    You are always immensly helpful and wise 🥰

  • @ANUJGUPTA-f2h
    @ANUJGUPTA-f2h 2 місяці тому +3

    sir you are a great person in my life , because of sir those sentences you say i will apply to speak it , it is creat a magic

  • @adharshpk6524
    @adharshpk6524 2 місяці тому +12

    Guruji ..love from INDIA

  • @chitrajayasekara7353
    @chitrajayasekara7353 Місяць тому +2

    This is so use full 😊 it gives reasons and examples.

  • @neshad9731
    @neshad9731 2 місяці тому +6

    Your words are very helpful to me and encourage my life to grow better as I grow I am blessed to live across a Buddhism temple

  • @dinoblock8516
    @dinoblock8516 2 місяці тому +6

    When i was young my grandfather always recited this poem to me "මහනෙල් සුවද මය
    කුඩමසු පිළීගද මය
    දෙකට එක විල මය
    හොඳට නරකට දෙකට කටමය."
    This was the only advice he repeatedly gave to me untill his last breath. And i am really grateful for his existence in my life❤

  • @BuddhasPathway-qb
    @BuddhasPathway-qb Місяць тому

    Every teaching in Buddhism has practical value. Thank you for providing insightful and useful content.

  • @supunsandika5455
    @supunsandika5455 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you dear bhanthe ! Your words clean my mind. May Lord Buddha bless you !

  • @Gimme_Cornbread
    @Gimme_Cornbread 2 місяці тому +3

    This video showed up for me at the proper time. I am feeling so angry today. Thank you for helping me to reserve my words because I would have said something I would regret later.

  • @tsinghua4251
    @tsinghua4251 2 місяці тому +1

    Absolutely the True Supreme Dhamma

  • @chinnagarikapati4916
    @chinnagarikapati4916 2 місяці тому +2

    One of the best ever video , I have ever watched in my entire life

  • @shinyaugustin7317
    @shinyaugustin7317 2 місяці тому +1

    Every morning I am listening your wonderful motivational speech. It changed me a lot and I improved my knowledge also. Thank you so much my dear son❤❤❤

  • @JyoticaJk
    @JyoticaJk Місяць тому +1

    Thnku so much for this message...Nammo budhhaya🙏🙏

  • @VishalFilms647
    @VishalFilms647 2 місяці тому +4

    Words decided character of person.. ❤️ Really Helpful Thank you

  • @BuddhismfortheYouth-z3i
    @BuddhismfortheYouth-z3i 12 днів тому

    Wow, this channel is amazing! I love how you make Buddhism so relatable and easy to understand for young people. Your videos are not only insightful but also beautifully produced, making the teachings feel so engaging and applicable to daily life. Thank you for sharing such valuable content and helping the youth connect with mindfulness and spirituality. Keep up the incredible work

  • @samithakulatilaka
    @samithakulatilaka 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom on how to use words wisely. Your teachings are a valuable reminder of the power and impact our words can have. I deeply appreciate the clarity and compassion in your message, which inspires me to be more mindful in my daily interactions. May you continue to guide and enlighten us with your teachings. Namo Buddhaya!

  • @janetmiller2980
    @janetmiller2980 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for teaching us about proper speech. Namo Buddhaya

  • @asiabrown30
    @asiabrown30 2 місяці тому +1

    So True you must always be truthful and honest with yourself, but only when the time is ready for it be directed but always be patient and restless and understanding of both and the other persons emotions as well. always be honest but patient in all meaning. remember this. Namo Buddhay forever buddha lives on in all of us.

  • @Sr.CelineDayana
    @Sr.CelineDayana Місяць тому

    Thank you dear Holy Monk to make myself happy and peaceful through your talk. But still I don't know what I have to do in my life. I am so worried about my life, the past life making me more sad and unhappy 💔

  • @RabbitingAgain
    @RabbitingAgain Місяць тому

    Such a huge help to understand where we go wrong and how we can use our words in a much more gentle and kind way.Thankyou so much for your teaching and wisdom

  • @SelviP-g7e
    @SelviP-g7e 2 місяці тому +8

    நன்றி என்ற ஒரு வார்த்தை போதாது தங்களுடைய கருத்திற்கு. இருப்பினும் எங்களால் அதை மட்டுமே உரைக்க இயலும் 🙏😊

  • @ChamodiDilhara-e7i
    @ChamodiDilhara-e7i 2 місяці тому +7

    Namo Buddhaya 🙏

  • @basavarajkaujalgi3947
    @basavarajkaujalgi3947 2 місяці тому +1

    🙏🏻😊😇||नमो बुद्धाय|| 😇😊🙏🏻

  • @shivanigautam3980
    @shivanigautam3980 2 місяці тому +5

    Namo Buddhaya.... ❤❤❤❤

  • @fatimamercado9436
    @fatimamercado9436 2 місяці тому +2

    So inspiring Sir, while watching you I am smiled...❤❤❤ thank you do much🥰🥰🥰

  • @TheTranquilMind-v6n
    @TheTranquilMind-v6n 5 днів тому

    It's amazing, I can't stop watching videos like this

  • @maleesha778
    @maleesha778 Місяць тому +1

    Namo buddhaya...🙏🙏🙏

  • @indexcards9414
    @indexcards9414 2 місяці тому +1

    This was perfectly timed for the events in my life. Thank you. 🌷

  • @tanchauvan8600
    @tanchauvan8600 2 місяці тому +16

    Must have a inner peace mind and a kind heart to practice these 5 things. Thank You so much.

  • @uttarasarkar9530
    @uttarasarkar9530 Місяць тому

    Thank you for your valuable words. Namah Buddhaya🙏

  • @CybersecPat
    @CybersecPat 2 місяці тому +4

    beautiful advice. Always look forward to you posting. Wishing you and the team all the best

  • @Godloveencirclemyheart_19
    @Godloveencirclemyheart_19 8 днів тому

    Amen. Thank You Lord

  • @sonali_0310
    @sonali_0310 2 місяці тому +1

    Namo budhhaya 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @YasmminKalpesi
    @YasmminKalpesi 2 місяці тому +2

    Supreme Buddha the Great. Namo Buddhaya. Thank you Thero. 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

  • @Ariya_p
    @Ariya_p Місяць тому

    Thank you❤

  • @SushmaBiradar-z3e
    @SushmaBiradar-z3e Місяць тому +1

    This is the most important video i want

  • @slonmax
    @slonmax Місяць тому +2

    Thanks from Ukraine!

  • @jennydam9188
    @jennydam9188 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks to Monk 🙏🙏🙏❤️
    Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏❤

  • @sgeeth
    @sgeeth 2 місяці тому +1

    ස්තූතියි 😊

  • @HaibaAlexander
    @HaibaAlexander 2 місяці тому +1

    Thankyou Namobudhaya

  • @joebutta7539
    @joebutta7539 Місяць тому

    💜 speech is frequency/vibration

  • @imtiazousmand2271
    @imtiazousmand2271 2 місяці тому

    I really appreciate your efforts in educating us. It has been of great help to change my heart and mind.

  • @QueenNancy-rg2bf
    @QueenNancy-rg2bf 2 місяці тому +4

    Love from Bangladesh🇧🇩

  • @phoenixdk
    @phoenixdk Місяць тому

    Simple advice, which will take a lifetime to master. Time well spent, I think. Thank you so much for these videos, the people around me would thank you if they knew how much I've learned :)

  • @vijithairrangani5757
    @vijithairrangani5757 2 місяці тому

    Very very worthfully teaching .may tripple gem bless you .

  • @MichaelJoseph-j7l
    @MichaelJoseph-j7l Місяць тому

    Buddha Is Life 🙏🙏

  • @PinoyGalaan
    @PinoyGalaan Місяць тому +1

    sometimes its really hard but i learned too not to care a lot thats mades my life bit easier

  • @whoinlok7664
    @whoinlok7664 2 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤Thanks Namo Buddhaya🙏🙏🙏😍

  • @ShivamGupta-pd8im
    @ShivamGupta-pd8im Місяць тому

    Namo Buddhaya! 🙏 Thank you

  • @anthonyangelis1094
    @anthonyangelis1094 2 місяці тому

    much gratitude for your teachings. Thank you.❤❤❤

  • @shivanandpatil6247
    @shivanandpatil6247 2 місяці тому +2

    Thanku you🙏🏻🙏🏻
    Namo Budhhaya 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @susanatangpos5959
    @susanatangpos5959 2 місяці тому +2

    I always watch your viðeo it helps me a lot. Thank you❤❤❤

  • @Users370
    @Users370 Місяць тому

    This video is so precious ! 5 wised rules to follow ! Thank you .🙏🪷

  • @gayatrys3
    @gayatrys3 2 місяці тому +1

    Sir, This is good lesson for day. I will practice to follow this. How should we behave when some one is hurting me to core.

  • @kylerdad123
    @kylerdad123 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you, Sifu! Namo amitofu☸️!

  • @DeepVerma-gm2el
    @DeepVerma-gm2el 27 днів тому

    Thanks fr ur advice... I will try to analyse my speech more.

  • @MohdShariqAnsari1
    @MohdShariqAnsari1 2 місяці тому

    Your videos are very helpful for Life improvement and English ❤

  • @mylenebautista6568
    @mylenebautista6568 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing and inspiring us, your motivational words, ❤❤❤

  • @OJOMShiva
    @OJOMShiva 2 місяці тому

    ❤Namo Buddhaya!!!❤

  • @Geetha-o1d
    @Geetha-o1d 2 місяці тому +2

    Tq Namo Buddhaya

  • @mw7882
    @mw7882 Місяць тому

    More than changing someone, to me acknowledgement, genuine understanding, respect or the belief of good intentions, accountability, and loving kindness creates better communication. Even when you don't agree.

  • @davecameron5355
    @davecameron5355 2 місяці тому

    What a helpful video! Thank you for your kindness and guidance.

  • @pemasherab487
    @pemasherab487 Місяць тому +2

    ཐུགས་རྗེ་ཆེ་དགེ་སློང་མཆོག
    Namo་Buddhaya🙏🙏🙏

  • @anniecheurekjian9955
    @anniecheurekjian9955 Місяць тому +1

    Exactly true 💯%😊😊

  • @mysweetpepper
    @mysweetpepper 26 днів тому

    A little wisdom goes a long way

  • @matarasriyani9256
    @matarasriyani9256 2 місяці тому +1

    Namobuddhaya .Theruwan saranai .🙏🙏🙏

  • @rosesam258
    @rosesam258 2 місяці тому

    Always awesome message

  • @sopheapsok-d6r
    @sopheapsok-d6r 2 місяці тому

    Thank you so much

  • @samilarungapamestry6466
    @samilarungapamestry6466 2 місяці тому

    Beautifully explained..thank u Sir..

  • @swapnamaity8396
    @swapnamaity8396 2 місяці тому

    NOMO BUDDHA ♥️ NOMO BUDDHA ♥️...ABSOLUTELY CORRECT BOLECHEN 💯 👌 EXCELLENT MESSAGE TO ALL OF US NOMO MAHARAJ ❤NOMO MAHARAJ ♥️ MAHARAJ APURBO LAGLO SATOKOTI PRANAM JANYE ❤SAKOLKE BHALO RAKHUN AE PRATHANA KORI 🙏

  • @tejas007-B
    @tejas007-B 2 місяці тому

    Thankyou bhanteji, i was really in need of this video Namo budhaya

  • @ahasanaruny
    @ahasanaruny Місяць тому

    Thank you so much!!❤️❤️

  • @asuznjoozhamattom
    @asuznjoozhamattom 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for the wisdom 🙏

  • @Pgz60
    @Pgz60 2 місяці тому +2

    Hi guys l am from nepal l listen all videos

  • @orrphase77
    @orrphase77 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks dear💗

  • @Vuthysakchan
    @Vuthysakchan 2 місяці тому

    Namo Buddhaya! From Cambodia

  • @shainavk4008
    @shainavk4008 2 місяці тому

    Very essential and helpful words... Great... Thank you sir ❤❤

  • @Karasnightvision
    @Karasnightvision 2 місяці тому

    This really helps, appreciate you. Thank you ✌️♥️🕯️

    • @NatsukiTakaama
      @NatsukiTakaama 2 місяці тому

      Please save japan from peaceful zombies.

  • @sarojagopalgopal2253
    @sarojagopalgopal2253 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing this good information for us sir 🙏 lNDIA Kerala

  • @okarbomtatu2712
    @okarbomtatu2712 2 місяці тому

    Namo Buddhaya 🕊️

  • @saivijayalakshmi2312
    @saivijayalakshmi2312 2 місяці тому

    Thank you sir🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @letspeaknaturally1328
    @letspeaknaturally1328 2 місяці тому +2

    Namo buddhaya😊

  • @sankethsanthoshnayak
    @sankethsanthoshnayak 5 днів тому

    Namo Buddhaya

  • @HarinathPitta
    @HarinathPitta 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you my dear friend monk ohm namo buddaya I am so proud of you for being so sweet and loving and I love you baby sanchitha basu

  • @ceylonrailwayunion9221
    @ceylonrailwayunion9221 2 місяці тому

    Namo buddhaya venerable thero🙏🙏🙏

  • @myintsu6212
    @myintsu6212 Місяць тому

    Thank you.Noted and follow up

  • @MohammadhyderMohammadhyder
    @MohammadhyderMohammadhyder 2 місяці тому +3

    Please sir make an video upon fake friendship

  • @greeshmaajeshmekoth1187
    @greeshmaajeshmekoth1187 2 місяці тому

    Thank you really much for your advice

  • @adanechassefa8156
    @adanechassefa8156 27 днів тому

    Thank You I wil Do It !!!!!!

  • @Enterprise-Architect
    @Enterprise-Architect Місяць тому

    Thank you!