Five questions to ask yourself before speaking: 1. Am I speaking at the proper time, i.e., is the person I wish to address open and receptive for what I want to say. 2. Am I speaking truthfully? 3. Am I speaking gently not harshly? 4. Am I speaking beneficially, i.e. with the good intention to help the other person, and not harmfully? 5. Am I speaking out of love and compassion and not with inner hate?
@@manimekhalai8256 I used your technique the other day when someone was yelling at me, I quietly said “I don’t respond to that tone. And I don’t want to change my beliefs”. It was so effective, he drove off in a quiet huff!
This monk's advices made my life very peaceful. I've been following this channel for six months and I have seen so much improvement in my life . thankyou so much for making these amazing vedios .
I am muslim but i like ur words...i am very happy and grateful being a Muslim..just wanna learn beautiful ways to live life...either the scholer is muslim or any other..no matter
I have a particularly combative client, and today I worked through these steps in my reply and got a completely different response to how it usually plays out! Day 1 after listening to this amazing wisdom. Thank you 🙏
It’s not what we say, but how we say it. My family has a way of speaking harshly , without realizing how they sound. It causes a lot of hardship and pain. Thank you for your videos!
wording to others especially to the loved one is very complicated and sensitive making me afraid if she could be hurt or she could hurt me like as much as I have done, I am able to be going to take it back, on that, recently I seem to have been afraid even to try to talk to her... through this lesson, hoping to advance and go through this issue to the better in the relationship. thank you for this lesson.
Ven accept my Vandana. Just now when I open my YT, after watching the smiling face of you my heart became full with peace. From your msg I have learned how to use my words properly and I will try from today to apply it in my practical life. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏
When i was young my grandfather always recited this poem to me "මහනෙල් සුවද මය කුඩමසු පිළීගද මය දෙකට එක විල මය හොඳට නරකට දෙකට කටමය." This was the only advice he repeatedly gave to me untill his last breath. And i am really grateful for his existence in my life❤
This video showed up for me at the proper time. I am feeling so angry today. Thank you for helping me to reserve my words because I would have said something I would regret later.
Every morning I am listening your wonderful motivational speech. It changed me a lot and I improved my knowledge also. Thank you so much my dear son❤❤❤
Wow, this channel is amazing! I love how you make Buddhism so relatable and easy to understand for young people. Your videos are not only insightful but also beautifully produced, making the teachings feel so engaging and applicable to daily life. Thank you for sharing such valuable content and helping the youth connect with mindfulness and spirituality. Keep up the incredible work
Thank you for sharing your wisdom on how to use words wisely. Your teachings are a valuable reminder of the power and impact our words can have. I deeply appreciate the clarity and compassion in your message, which inspires me to be more mindful in my daily interactions. May you continue to guide and enlighten us with your teachings. Namo Buddhaya!
So True you must always be truthful and honest with yourself, but only when the time is ready for it be directed but always be patient and restless and understanding of both and the other persons emotions as well. always be honest but patient in all meaning. remember this. Namo Buddhay forever buddha lives on in all of us.
Thank you dear Holy Monk to make myself happy and peaceful through your talk. But still I don't know what I have to do in my life. I am so worried about my life, the past life making me more sad and unhappy 💔
Such a huge help to understand where we go wrong and how we can use our words in a much more gentle and kind way.Thankyou so much for your teaching and wisdom
Simple advice, which will take a lifetime to master. Time well spent, I think. Thank you so much for these videos, the people around me would thank you if they knew how much I've learned :)
More than changing someone, to me acknowledgement, genuine understanding, respect or the belief of good intentions, accountability, and loving kindness creates better communication. Even when you don't agree.
NOMO BUDDHA ♥️ NOMO BUDDHA ♥️...ABSOLUTELY CORRECT BOLECHEN 💯 👌 EXCELLENT MESSAGE TO ALL OF US NOMO MAHARAJ ❤NOMO MAHARAJ ♥️ MAHARAJ APURBO LAGLO SATOKOTI PRANAM JANYE ❤SAKOLKE BHALO RAKHUN AE PRATHANA KORI 🙏
Five questions to ask yourself before speaking:
1. Am I speaking at the proper time, i.e., is the person I wish to address open and receptive for what I want to say.
2. Am I speaking truthfully?
3. Am I speaking gently not harshly?
4. Am I speaking beneficially, i.e. with the good intention to help the other person, and not harmfully?
5. Am I speaking out of love and compassion and not with inner hate?
Very well said
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Yes
Thank you 🙏
@@manimekhalai8256 I used your technique the other day when someone was yelling at me, I quietly said “I don’t respond to that tone. And I don’t want to change my beliefs”. It was so effective, he drove off in a quiet huff!
My gradma once said"When someone hits you, the pain fades quickly, but hurtful words stick with you forever."
So true!!!👍👏🏻😍😍😍
It it true, very true
Yes correct
That so true
Very true
This monk's advices made my life very peaceful. I've been following this channel for six months and I have seen so much improvement in my life . thankyou so much for making these amazing vedios .
I am muslim but i like ur words...i am very happy and grateful being a Muslim..just wanna learn beautiful ways to live life...either the scholer is muslim or any other..no matter
Buddhism is a philosophy you don't have to be a Buddhist to understand it.and it's really easy to understand ❤❤
So nice to see. Wishing you and your family all the best.
I feel the same way. I am seeking truth more than religion.
Love from Russia. When you speak I feel relaxed. Thank you for your teachings.
I have a particularly combative client, and today I worked through these steps in my reply and got a completely different response to how it usually plays out! Day 1 after listening to this amazing wisdom. Thank you 🙏
It’s not what we say, but how we say it. My family has a way of speaking harshly , without realizing how they sound. It causes a lot of hardship and pain. Thank you for your videos!
Same my family
wording to others especially to the loved one is very complicated and sensitive making me afraid if she could be hurt or she could hurt me like as much as I have done, I am able to be going to take it back, on that, recently I seem to have been afraid even to try to talk to her... through this lesson, hoping to advance and go through this issue to the better in the relationship. thank you for this lesson.
Ven accept my Vandana. Just now when I open my YT, after watching the smiling face of you my heart became full with peace. From your msg I have learned how to use my words properly and I will try from today to apply it in my practical life. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏
Thank you❤❤❤
Namo Buddhaya❤❤❤❤
Thank you 🙏
You are always immensly helpful and wise 🥰
sir you are a great person in my life , because of sir those sentences you say i will apply to speak it , it is creat a magic
Guruji ..love from INDIA
This is so use full 😊 it gives reasons and examples.
Your words are very helpful to me and encourage my life to grow better as I grow I am blessed to live across a Buddhism temple
When i was young my grandfather always recited this poem to me "මහනෙල් සුවද මය
කුඩමසු පිළීගද මය
දෙකට එක විල මය
හොඳට නරකට දෙකට කටමය."
This was the only advice he repeatedly gave to me untill his last breath. And i am really grateful for his existence in my life❤
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Every teaching in Buddhism has practical value. Thank you for providing insightful and useful content.
Thank you dear bhanthe ! Your words clean my mind. May Lord Buddha bless you !
This video showed up for me at the proper time. I am feeling so angry today. Thank you for helping me to reserve my words because I would have said something I would regret later.
Absolutely the True Supreme Dhamma
One of the best ever video , I have ever watched in my entire life
Every morning I am listening your wonderful motivational speech. It changed me a lot and I improved my knowledge also. Thank you so much my dear son❤❤❤
Thnku so much for this message...Nammo budhhaya🙏🙏
Words decided character of person.. ❤️ Really Helpful Thank you
Wow, this channel is amazing! I love how you make Buddhism so relatable and easy to understand for young people. Your videos are not only insightful but also beautifully produced, making the teachings feel so engaging and applicable to daily life. Thank you for sharing such valuable content and helping the youth connect with mindfulness and spirituality. Keep up the incredible work
Thank you for sharing your wisdom on how to use words wisely. Your teachings are a valuable reminder of the power and impact our words can have. I deeply appreciate the clarity and compassion in your message, which inspires me to be more mindful in my daily interactions. May you continue to guide and enlighten us with your teachings. Namo Buddhaya!
Thank you for teaching us about proper speech. Namo Buddhaya
So True you must always be truthful and honest with yourself, but only when the time is ready for it be directed but always be patient and restless and understanding of both and the other persons emotions as well. always be honest but patient in all meaning. remember this. Namo Buddhay forever buddha lives on in all of us.
Thank you dear Holy Monk to make myself happy and peaceful through your talk. But still I don't know what I have to do in my life. I am so worried about my life, the past life making me more sad and unhappy 💔
Such a huge help to understand where we go wrong and how we can use our words in a much more gentle and kind way.Thankyou so much for your teaching and wisdom
நன்றி என்ற ஒரு வார்த்தை போதாது தங்களுடைய கருத்திற்கு. இருப்பினும் எங்களால் அதை மட்டுமே உரைக்க இயலும் 🙏😊
Namo Buddhaya 🙏
🙏🏻😊😇||नमो बुद्धाय|| 😇😊🙏🏻
Namo Buddhaya.... ❤❤❤❤
So inspiring Sir, while watching you I am smiled...❤❤❤ thank you do much🥰🥰🥰
It's amazing, I can't stop watching videos like this
Namo buddhaya...🙏🙏🙏
This was perfectly timed for the events in my life. Thank you. 🌷
Must have a inner peace mind and a kind heart to practice these 5 things. Thank You so much.
Thank you for your valuable words. Namah Buddhaya🙏
beautiful advice. Always look forward to you posting. Wishing you and the team all the best
Amen. Thank You Lord
Namo budhhaya 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Supreme Buddha the Great. Namo Buddhaya. Thank you Thero. 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
Thank you❤
This is the most important video i want
Thanks from Ukraine!
Thanks to Monk 🙏🙏🙏❤️
Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏❤
ස්තූතියි 😊
Thankyou Namobudhaya
💜 speech is frequency/vibration
I really appreciate your efforts in educating us. It has been of great help to change my heart and mind.
Love from Bangladesh🇧🇩
Simple advice, which will take a lifetime to master. Time well spent, I think. Thank you so much for these videos, the people around me would thank you if they knew how much I've learned :)
Very very worthfully teaching .may tripple gem bless you .
Buddha Is Life 🙏🙏
sometimes its really hard but i learned too not to care a lot thats mades my life bit easier
❤❤❤Thanks Namo Buddhaya🙏🙏🙏😍
Namo Buddhaya! 🙏 Thank you
much gratitude for your teachings. Thank you.❤❤❤
Thanku you🙏🏻🙏🏻
Namo Budhhaya 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I always watch your viðeo it helps me a lot. Thank you❤❤❤
This video is so precious ! 5 wised rules to follow ! Thank you .🙏🪷
Sir, This is good lesson for day. I will practice to follow this. How should we behave when some one is hurting me to core.
Thank you, Sifu! Namo amitofu☸️!
Thanks fr ur advice... I will try to analyse my speech more.
Your videos are very helpful for Life improvement and English ❤
Thank you for sharing and inspiring us, your motivational words, ❤❤❤
❤Namo Buddhaya!!!❤
Tq Namo Buddhaya
More than changing someone, to me acknowledgement, genuine understanding, respect or the belief of good intentions, accountability, and loving kindness creates better communication. Even when you don't agree.
What a helpful video! Thank you for your kindness and guidance.
ཐུགས་རྗེ་ཆེ་དགེ་སློང་མཆོག
Namo་Buddhaya🙏🙏🙏
Exactly true 💯%😊😊
A little wisdom goes a long way
Namobuddhaya .Theruwan saranai .🙏🙏🙏
Always awesome message
Thank you so much
Beautifully explained..thank u Sir..
NOMO BUDDHA ♥️ NOMO BUDDHA ♥️...ABSOLUTELY CORRECT BOLECHEN 💯 👌 EXCELLENT MESSAGE TO ALL OF US NOMO MAHARAJ ❤NOMO MAHARAJ ♥️ MAHARAJ APURBO LAGLO SATOKOTI PRANAM JANYE ❤SAKOLKE BHALO RAKHUN AE PRATHANA KORI 🙏
Thankyou bhanteji, i was really in need of this video Namo budhaya
Thank you so much!!❤️❤️
Thank you for the wisdom 🙏
Hi guys l am from nepal l listen all videos
Thanks dear💗
Namo Buddhaya! From Cambodia
Very essential and helpful words... Great... Thank you sir ❤❤
This really helps, appreciate you. Thank you ✌️♥️🕯️
Please save japan from peaceful zombies.
Thank you for sharing this good information for us sir 🙏 lNDIA Kerala
Namo Buddhaya 🕊️
Thank you sir🙏🙏🙏🙏
Namo buddhaya😊
Namo Buddhaya
Thank you my dear friend monk ohm namo buddaya I am so proud of you for being so sweet and loving and I love you baby sanchitha basu
Namo buddhaya venerable thero🙏🙏🙏
Thank you.Noted and follow up
Please sir make an video upon fake friendship
Thank you really much for your advice
Thank You I wil Do It !!!!!!
Thank you!