Does Hijab Oppress These Muslim Women? | Middle Ground

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    CHAPTERS
    0:00 Introduction
    2:15 A hijabi woman is a better Muslim
    6:14 The hijab was created to protect women
    8:55 Women are held to higher standards of modesty than men
    11:45 A non-Muslim person can wear a hijab
    15:23 I have been harassed for wearing a hijab
    19:30 Modesty in Islam should be redefined for the 21st century
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  • @sintiayuliani9123
    @sintiayuliani9123 3 роки тому +13526

    high schooler is crazy respectful. wanting to wear the hijab after the bombing to represent the religion properly, wow i rly love her

    • @logically2761
      @logically2761 3 роки тому +279

      Who will tell them?
      That Modest dressing ain't the right way to protect women but raising your sons with the right attitude does.....🙆🏼‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @kazimd.shabbirfaisal1865
      @kazimd.shabbirfaisal1865 3 роки тому +843

      @@logically2761 Muslim men are not even allowed to look at another girl accept their wives! Hijab isn’t just about protecting women, it's something that makes Muslim women feel confident. It makes them feel empowered.

    • @aenirrinea523
      @aenirrinea523 3 роки тому +535

      @@kazimd.shabbirfaisal1865 Ikr? Both Muslim men and women are called to guard their gaze and men have clothing guidelines too (eg: knees are to be covered).

    • @AestheticWorld1238
      @AestheticWorld1238 3 роки тому +24

      @@kazimd.shabbirfaisal1865
      Joke of the year.
      Ever heard about halala??

    • @kazimd.shabbirfaisal1865
      @kazimd.shabbirfaisal1865 3 роки тому +88

      @@AestheticWorld1238 What are you trying to say? I thought we were talking about hijabs here.

  • @jenniferdugas947
    @jenniferdugas947 3 роки тому +4230

    When I was in high school a boy did exactly what was described in the video, he ran behind a girl and pulled down her hijab. She was crying and traumatized. And the boy was suspended, rightfully so.

    • @AlkaSingh-jp9cx
      @AlkaSingh-jp9cx 3 роки тому +248

      That is so mean and just awful! May that guy pay for his actions thats honestly so disrespectful!!!!

    • @rudlodh78
      @rudlodh78 3 роки тому +213

      That happened to me. I was absolutely and utterly disgusting by the boy. There was a group of girls that surrounded her so she could get her hijab back on. It was cool to be a part of, but also I wish it didn’t happen, because I felt so bad for the poor girl. The boy got suspended for three days

    • @dark_zAzas8052
      @dark_zAzas8052 3 роки тому +25

      @@rozy6605 Nah, he won't understand.

    • @liliththeodore8506
      @liliththeodore8506 3 роки тому +172

      @@Tony.S420 hijab is like a covering for me. i dont want anybody and by that i mean *ANYBODY* who isnt my mahram (people who im allowed to not wear hijab around) see my hair. I like being covered and nobody forced me. When someone takes it off it makes me feel like ive been stripped and its shameful. She may have felt the same. Even if you put it back on it doesnt mean they havent seen it.

    • @Tony.S420
      @Tony.S420 3 роки тому +3

      @@liliththeodore8506 just saying getting pantsed is worse

  • @luvbIoom
    @luvbIoom Рік тому +2890

    i love how respectful they all were to each other even when they had different opinions

    • @wafamohammd1337
      @wafamohammd1337 Рік тому +57

      Yes it was really nice to hear them speak like that. This is exactly what represents Muslims, we respect others opinion and talk kindly.

    • @mokakuma7329
      @mokakuma7329 Рік тому +9

      @@wafamohammd1337 not really, maybe u like that but most muslims in the world aint like that

    • @wafamohammd1337
      @wafamohammd1337 Рік тому +19

      @@mokakuma7329 I agree, not everyone is the same.

    • @muhammadesa2517
      @muhammadesa2517 11 місяців тому +5

      ​@@wafamohammd1337when it comes to Islam our personal opinions don't matter
      We don't have our own personal interpretations of the Qur'an
      The rightly guided ulama of the past have interpreted the Qur'an for us

    • @xenzorygames4116
      @xenzorygames4116 10 місяців тому

      ​@@wafamohammd1337except idolators.

  • @anayaaly7460
    @anayaaly7460 Рік тому +1357

    I love the fact how they are so polite with each other, accepting. No animosity.

    • @abdullahal-mamun1053
      @abdullahal-mamun1053 8 місяців тому +1

      @@blueredblew9581what do they have to do with anything

    • @Sally615-
      @Sally615- 8 місяців тому

      @@blueredblew9581they aren’t muslim though, theyre an extremist political group against Islam.

    • @soubermed2175
      @soubermed2175 8 місяців тому +1

      ​​@@abdullahal-mamun1053he is a cheep just saying what he heard on tv, that's it he had to put it out there for the sake of doing so

  • @minbeomu
    @minbeomu 3 роки тому +7617

    They don’t talk over each other and respect each other’s opinion. Ugh I love them.

  • @outofcuriosity3203
    @outofcuriosity3203 3 роки тому +27764

    Some people force women to wear it and some people force women to take it off. The problem is always the same: people that want to dictate how women should dress

    • @mays8620
      @mays8620 3 роки тому +1431

      Exactlyyyyy!!!! Leave women alone!! We are powerful on our own.

    • @theb1994
      @theb1994 3 роки тому +682

      It becomes a real problem when the people dictating women on what they wear are women themselves

    • @ramonanaya6236
      @ramonanaya6236 3 роки тому +445

      Specifically men

    • @wprince
      @wprince 3 роки тому +42

      I don’t know if women are forced to wear it

    • @b00ksh3
      @b00ksh3 3 роки тому +202

      YES. OUR BODIES OUR CHOICE

  • @lekow_khumalo
    @lekow_khumalo 2 роки тому +776

    "For a white guy"😭💀 This has been so wholesome to watch, the different opinions coming together and not clashing together is quite powerful. I love how they respect each other's opinions ❤

    • @susu_m
      @susu_m Рік тому +39

      yes! I cracked up at that part cause I've thought the same thing 😄 if she doesn't want to wear a hijab fine, but we aren't all out here waiting to be freed from hijab "oppression".

  • @h.me1510
    @h.me1510 11 місяців тому +659

    When I was 9, my mum came up to me and asked me if I wanted to wear the hijab. I told her, yes, I want to wear it. My mum wore it after she had gotten married and my sister had worn it starting at 9 too. And I was brought up very close to Islam. I wanted to wear it. Later, my sister was getting married. My mum told me that I shouldn't wear my hijab for the wedding. I would look better. I looked at her confused and incredulous. I told her no. I told her I had made my decision those years ago and I wasn't going to back out of it just when it became beneficial or convenient to me. I was 11 when this happened. She smiled and laughed and nodded her head and said, alright. For me, hijab has never been a burden, thankfully. It is a part of who I am.

    • @zohamaryam6671
      @zohamaryam6671 9 місяців тому +28

      Wow you're soo cool..Im 14 and still tryna get used to wearing it..but in my country its so hot in summer...and i am more sweaty than most other people...whenever I wore hijab to go to school, i caught cold after some days because of the excessive sweating..Please pray for me sis😷

    • @h.me1510
      @h.me1510 9 місяців тому +12

      @@zohamaryam6671 Lol, don't worry, you're not the only one with the sweating thing. And hijab takes time to get used to, don't stress over that ;) InshAllah you'll grow used to it soon and will get over your bad immunity lol

    • @MaskedArabFan
      @MaskedArabFan 7 місяців тому +2

      @@zohamaryam6671 okay lets pray for you then 👌

    • @feduntu
      @feduntu 6 місяців тому +11

      _" I told her, yes, I want to wear it. "_
      was that *_before_* or *_after_* you found out that not wearing it could potentially lead to consequences and mount up to sins which you're going to be punished in the afterlife for?

    • @aromatic_curry
      @aromatic_curry 5 місяців тому +15

      ​@@feduntu stop being pedantic. Do you know what the word forgiveness means?

  • @MAXIMUS-yk5vs
    @MAXIMUS-yk5vs 3 роки тому +5092

    THIS is how a discussion should be.

    • @AshG321M
      @AshG321M 3 роки тому +64

      better than "that's not vegan"?

    • @yoshuaisnotok8794
      @yoshuaisnotok8794 3 роки тому +13

      @@AshG321M omg erin 🤣🤣

    • @justamanofculture12
      @justamanofculture12 3 роки тому +3

      @@AshG321M lmao right 😂

    • @martijnveldhuis1377
      @martijnveldhuis1377 3 роки тому +13

      It really isn't, the title is do hijab opress women? Then they continue to invite 6 women who do not believe it does. At that point you aren't having a discussion you are circle jerking. The correct way was to keep the 3 girls wearing hijabs and invite 3 non Muslim women who believe women who wear hijabs are being opressed. Then they can both explain how they feel and why and have a conversation.

    • @mercedesochoa100
      @mercedesochoa100 3 роки тому

      EXACTLY

  • @libby9001
    @libby9001 3 роки тому +6403

    I felt like this was almost a sisterhood. They didn't agree, but they genuinely cared about the opinions that were shared.

    • @yigitorhan7654
      @yigitorhan7654 3 роки тому +302

      When you said it was almost like a sisterhood, you actually made a good observation friend! That's actually a part of the faith. Believers in Islam are taught to be brothers and sisters in religion.

    • @sumeya1923
      @sumeya1923 3 роки тому +51

      @@yigitorhan7654 true ❤️ it’s beautiful to see

    • @woes_7492
      @woes_7492 3 роки тому +46

      @Good Guy May Allah forgive you and guide you to the right path. Ameen ya rabb

    • @olimukanya
      @olimukanya 3 роки тому +26

      This is the thing that I really want for my people in Africa 🥺🤧.
      This is one of our biggest flaws
      (if you disagree with them, you became their enemies)

    • @libby9001
      @libby9001 3 роки тому +22

      @@olimukanya I'm sorry :( that is a really unfortunate thing. I think many Americans have started to become that way as well. We can learn a lot from these women about respect and friendship in humanity.

  • @ENemy_SHpotted
    @ENemy_SHpotted Рік тому +610

    wearing hijab does make you a better you than you, but it does not make you better than others.

    • @electrogem7142
      @electrogem7142 Рік тому +34

      True, it does make you a better version of yourself, because hijab is a islamic practice like prayer.

    • @zahrahahmed1231
      @zahrahahmed1231 Рік тому +13

      That’s such a brilliant way to say it ❤️

    • @marcelbrandt8341
      @marcelbrandt8341 2 місяці тому

      ​@@electrogem7142 Prayer is much more established in the Quran than the Hijab is. However it is a sign of modesty.

    • @Jgol626
      @Jgol626 2 місяці тому

      @@marcelbrandt8341smh

    • @JackT-vd8ft
      @JackT-vd8ft 16 днів тому

      @@marcelbrandt8341 actually no they are both established the same amount. The hijab and prayer are indicated and the hadith explains them

  • @akush_1643
    @akush_1643 Рік тому +86

    Ik this was like 2 years ago but this video resonates with me a lot because I was a non hijabi before so I can definitely sympathize with non hijabi’s on how harsh the community is towards non hijabi’s and now as a hijabi I also agree on how others ruin the hijab experience for us because they are very careless with their words. Respect to everyone in this video, love how everyone was respectful

    • @AtlasofReality
      @AtlasofReality 11 місяців тому +2

      they needed a women who actually followed the deen correctly to talk. majority scholors agree if you wear pants and a headscarf you are not a hijabi. they brought jad who knew his deen. im waiting for more to come. idk why people in the comments are praising them

  • @Ivanabelle
    @Ivanabelle 3 роки тому +4838

    Jannah is so intelligent and well spoken. I'm sad to hear that her sister called her such derogatory names. That must have hurt.

    • @Bettie_Rage
      @Bettie_Rage 3 роки тому +136

      There should be an episode with the conversation between ex-Muslims atheists and pious Muslims. I would love to see Sarah Haider or Ayaan Hirsi Ali having the conversation.

    • @cupcake3215
      @cupcake3215 3 роки тому +62

      @@Bettie_Rage I don’t think it would go down well.

    • @Bettie_Rage
      @Bettie_Rage 3 роки тому +9

      @distor 4 Evidence? Or are you just repeating lies about her?

    • @sawruh
      @sawruh 3 роки тому +3

      @distor 4 who is that, I dont recognize these names

    • @mentallydisturbedllama473
      @mentallydisturbedllama473 3 роки тому +2

      Agreed and yeah I'm sorry too. ):

  • @haziqanuar01
    @haziqanuar01 3 роки тому +18086

    I love how they talk to each others, very humble and warm.

    • @matthewstaffordsburner1040
      @matthewstaffordsburner1040 3 роки тому +36

      Jesus is Lord

    • @675gisud6
      @675gisud6 3 роки тому +204

      @Put Bluntly how did u assume?🤦🏻‍♀️ it's really sad some people feel like they HAVE to say negative things even ig there is literally nothing wrong with the video, like why are u saying this??!

    • @matthewstaffordsburner1040
      @matthewstaffordsburner1040 3 роки тому +10

      @Put Bluntly He did look up Roman evidence.

    • @theonlyonewithgum1452
      @theonlyonewithgum1452 3 роки тому +104

      @Put Bluntly You: "Because they HAVE TO respect other Muslims. If there were non-muslims there they'd be very rude to them. And call then uneducated."
      You literally minutes later: "You're a liar." "You're very misinformed."
      Seems like you're projecting lol.

    • @basmalamustafa7244
      @basmalamustafa7244 3 роки тому +16

      @Put Bluntly jesus peace be apon him exist if u want to respect respect then all of us or go.

  • @kyra2419
    @kyra2419 Рік тому +611

    It’s just wild that women are expected to go out of their way to “protect” themselves and cover themselves up when we could just simply teach men not to hurt women. It’s actually insane

    • @kirapink80
      @kirapink80 Рік тому +160

      @@erin29344 then you also realize even if a woman is fully covered she STILL ISN'T SAFE from those kinda men. atleast teaching them from childhood to respect women would help.

    • @zozihn8047
      @zozihn8047 Рік тому

      Almost as if a patriarchal religion would absolve it's male leaders of any responsibility.

    • @lee-xl2ru
      @lee-xl2ru Рік тому +131

      cheaters will always exist, killers will always exist, abusers will always exist, racism will always exist, rapists will always exist. fighting for something that is part of the disrupted human nature can't be untaught or unlearned. a child isn't born as a killer, abuser or rapist. teach them all you want, they'll still do it. you're living a bubble that'll never do reality justice. instead of letting your daughter do whatever she wants and solely hope that men out there will change, you're actually the one that's insane.

    • @idk-ji5og
      @idk-ji5og Рік тому +176

      before the Quran tells women to cover up it tells men to lower their gaze, its a two way street in islam

    • @rileyreese3991
      @rileyreese3991 Рік тому

      Exactly!! Women can wear whatever they want! They can wear a bag over their face or they can wear a see-through mini skirt. Both are equal. If men have a problem with that, it's mens problem! The religion is only a brainwash power control by worthless men who don't know how else to be in power but to control women. Such sheep.

  • @LiamLivesOn
    @LiamLivesOn 2 роки тому +375

    Honestly I challenge any right wing anti Muslim person to watch this and still feel hatred after. These 6 young women are absolutely amazing, intelligent and articulate. Being an adult in London and working with many Muslims these are the people I see every day, not what the right wing media shout about.

    • @youtubeowl9544
      @youtubeowl9544 2 роки тому +21

      @الأســدي Who is 'us'? Speak for yourself.

    • @medea7871
      @medea7871 Рік тому +10

      @•الأســدي• what are you saying

    • @hzwni8203
      @hzwni8203 Рік тому +17

      @•الأســدي• U're judging them. Who are u to question their faith. And u need to familiarise urself with Muslim women all over the world. My circle full of girls that wear hijab for fashion and i wouldnt say they are not Muslim.

    • @askosefamerve
      @askosefamerve Рік тому +1

      @•الأســدي• The only Islamaphobic person here is you.

    • @savannahs5439
      @savannahs5439 11 місяців тому +1

      it's not hate, it's critical thinking.

  • @digitalsalli
    @digitalsalli 3 роки тому +6264

    OKAY BUT NETFLIX NEEDS TO WATCH THIS AND UNDERSTAND THAT MUSLIMS ARE PISSED

    • @LadyShiShi28
      @LadyShiShi28 3 роки тому +510

      @@knossostellel-amarna8502 they are offending us and our religion , giving off wrong images about us, they are so disrespectful

    • @onewinter9411
      @onewinter9411 3 роки тому +249

      @@knossostellel-amarna8502 As a free hijab-wearing Muslim woman with university education and successful career, single by choice, free to travel and Covid is the only thing stopping me, living in south east asia I must say... you're DEAD WRONG.

    • @xKazeshi98x
      @xKazeshi98x 3 роки тому +43

      @@frfr0123 I think what Knossos is trying to say here is how some Americans are trying to forcibly take away the choice of wearing hijab in a country that supposedly brands itself as the 'land of the free'. But that's just my interpretation of their comment.

    • @sambatra6162
      @sambatra6162 3 роки тому +46

      @@frfr0123 Not everywhere, in iran women who want to remove hijab can be penalised and the women who protest against hijab are even jailed, but of course the liberal media won't show it.

    • @sambatra6162
      @sambatra6162 3 роки тому +24

      @@onewinter9411 Well that just applies to you, its not the same everywhere. In iran women who want to remove hijab can be penalised, and the women who protest against hijab are even jailed, but of course the liberal media won't show it.

  • @dead_beatbunny
    @dead_beatbunny 3 роки тому +3358

    Imagine having the audacity to tear off a piece of someone's clothing. I'd have kicked these people in the nuts.

    • @sirmel11
      @sirmel11 3 роки тому +39

      Interesting that you assume it's a guy

    • @AbirWasNotHere
      @AbirWasNotHere 3 роки тому +210

      @@sirmel11 if it’s a woman she still will get kicked somewhere

    • @jazzy5303
      @jazzy5303 3 роки тому +100

      @@sirmel11 most of the time my friends hijab got torn off, it was a boy, but if it was a girl yes the same actions would apply

    • @aero3318
      @aero3318 3 роки тому +21

      @Mr dark O not sexual harassment, but assault

    • @aero3318
      @aero3318 3 роки тому +19

      @Matthew C. according to US law, the hair is not a sexual part of the body. In countries under shariah law, it may well be sexual assault. But not in the US
      Edit: additionally a perpetrator may be charged with hate crimes

  • @sashadavis3813
    @sashadavis3813 2 роки тому +86

    A very intelligent articulate group of ladies. I loved watching this.

    • @c0detearz320
      @c0detearz320 2 роки тому

      Qur'an 3:64-71 Surah Ale-'Imran (The Family of 'Imran)
      Say: "O people of the Book! come to common terms as between us and you: that we worship none but Allah; that we associate no partners with Him; that we erect not from among ourselves Lords and patrons other than Allah." If then they turn back say: "Bear witness that we (at least) are Muslims (bowing to Allah's will)."
      Ye people of the Book! why dispute ye about Abraham when the Law and the Gospel were not revealed till after him? Have ye no understanding?
      Ah! ye are those who fell to disputing (even) in matters of which ye had some knowledge! but why dispute ye in matters of which ye have no knowledge? It is Allah Who knows and ye who know not!
      Abraham was not a Jew nor yet a Christian but he was true in faith and bowed his will to Allah's (Oneness of Allah) and he joined not gods with Allah.
      Without doubt among men the nearest of kin to Abraham are those who follow him as are also this Apostle and those who believe; and Allah is the Protector of those who have faith.
      It is the wish of a section of the People of the Book to lead you astray. But they shall lead astray (not you) but themselves and they do not perceive!
      Ye People of the Book! Why reject ye the Signs of Allah of which ye are (yourselves) witnesses?
      Ye People of the Book! Why do ye clothe truth with falsehood and conceal the truth while ye have knowledge?

  • @maxiiminimum
    @maxiiminimum Рік тому +23

    i think this is actually the best middle ground ive seen so far, i havent seen them all but ive been going on a binge recently and it seemed less like two "opposing sides" being pit against each other and more like different members within a community being brought to share their lived experiences

  • @bellahawthorn4575
    @bellahawthorn4575 3 роки тому +9633

    Okay but everyone in this is so smart, respectful, humble, and kind

    • @logically2761
      @logically2761 3 роки тому +107

      Who will tell them?
      That Modest dressing ain't the right way to protect women but raising your sons with the right attitude does.....🙆🏼‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @hanimacchi
      @hanimacchi 3 роки тому +214

      @@logically2761 chill, men also have the same guidelines and are also told to lower their gaze. But your comment touches more on Islamic culture than religious matters.

    • @jeremysmith9694
      @jeremysmith9694 3 роки тому +5

      Okay butt

    • @hanimacchi
      @hanimacchi 3 роки тому +96

      @@logically2761 Let me add by saying that I agree where Muslim communities (Islamic culture) need to change their perception of raising boys and girls at the same standards. however, Islam itself (religious matters) doesn't teach how to raise children, rather it tells what to teach yourself (and kids, I suppose. These things include prayer, zakat, fasting, etc). Modest dress isn't wholly for women's protection (though it does add to some degree, from my experience) but instead helps build a greater connection to your faith as you focus from materialism to religious devotion to God. So don't get me wrong here, I agree but you're also lacking some context in your comment too.

    • @ubahrashid3722
      @ubahrashid3722 3 роки тому +38

      @@logically2761 get a life how many comments you reply the same thing

  • @mariamali4691
    @mariamali4691 3 роки тому +3099

    i love how all of them are muslim, educated, and non-judgmental.

    • @foodlifefamily6140
      @foodlifefamily6140 3 роки тому +45

      Mariam I honestly find muslim/arab modesty refreshing even if they don’t wear a hijab, when a women is conservative in any religion is just beautiful and real confidence and a good push back to Godless mainstream America that is sexually perverted.

    • @hsk4950
      @hsk4950 3 роки тому

      Yes I agree they are very western

    • @maryam1108
      @maryam1108 3 роки тому +6

      @H London how is the girl wearing white any worse than the other 2 not wearing hijab? u shouldnt even be judging her for one video...

    • @mariamali4691
      @mariamali4691 3 роки тому +12

      @H London bro just because she doesn’t wear the hijab doesn’t mean she’s going against allah. wearing the hijab is more complicated than you think.

    • @mariamali4691
      @mariamali4691 3 роки тому +3

      @Reeha idk what you’re trying to imply but religion is a very broad idea and they understand perfectly.

  • @elenasimone2773
    @elenasimone2773 2 роки тому +10

    this is one of the most respectful one of these that I've seen! everyone gets along so nicely!

  • @Beanerlicious1
    @Beanerlicious1 Рік тому +132

    I’m not Muslim, I’m a Mexican baptized as Catholic as a baby who never got to complete her holy communion or confirmation. These women helped inspire me to continue on my journey to complete those two quests and to purchase a Mantilla which is a religious head covering that pertains to my culture and religion. You girls rock and thanks for the insight ☺️💕

  • @deebskhan
    @deebskhan 3 роки тому +5013

    The bucket hat girl is so adorable Ma. All these girls were hella mature, respect to them.

    • @rakiyah7791
      @rakiyah7791 3 роки тому +190

      for any non-muslims reading this comment "Ma" is an abbreviation of "masha'Allah"

    • @chrishannajohnson2698
      @chrishannajohnson2698 3 роки тому +38

      @@rakiyah7791 thank you i was confused

    • @jude444
      @jude444 3 роки тому +12

      @@chrishannajohnson2698 me too lol

    • @idebagus4896
      @idebagus4896 3 роки тому +47

      @@rakiyah7791 wow I'm a Muslim, but its the first time I know about it

    • @saleemahahmed8413
      @saleemahahmed8413 3 роки тому +2

      my cousinnnnnnnnnnn

  • @crystalhelliwell1206
    @crystalhelliwell1206 3 роки тому +6174

    They couldn't have pucked a better group of women for this video. They were all so kind and respectful and understanding.

    • @taetaesgucciglasses3538
      @taetaesgucciglasses3538 3 роки тому +76

      @Good Guy May Allah guide u

    • @alisherri6272
      @alisherri6272 3 роки тому +28

      @Black that clarifies that u know nothing about prophet mohammad and u literally cuz no respect i believe in jesus too just not the way u do see the difference?

    • @jmorale7798
      @jmorale7798 3 роки тому +10

      @@alisherri6272 Did he not consumate a marriage with a 9-10yr old? And was a warlord to many people?

    • @Devastator21
      @Devastator21 3 роки тому +3

      @@jmorale7798 they don't focus on these facts they disregard facts and actually backed up evidence for a book that was made for rich people to get richer

    • @charleydennis1793
      @charleydennis1793 3 роки тому +13

      They were all so kind, but as a non-muslim i feel like they chose people who pretty much all agreed on everything - i think they should have got a least one women who disagreed with the non-hijabis choice to not wear one, just because it allows for more debate

  • @miyaspencer4900
    @miyaspencer4900 Рік тому +24

    There’s a sisterhood here. It’s beautiful honestly.

  • @goodvxbez
    @goodvxbez 2 роки тому +10

    I love seeing and hearing stories from people actually being affected by societal ignorance. Please keep sharing and educating people, including myself. 😊

  • @mariamelsayed667
    @mariamelsayed667 3 роки тому +5099

    I was honestly so scared that his video was going to be muslim women, or women in general, being pinned against eachother and I'm so happy that it wasn't and that it was a more accurate representation of how real muslim women actually are

    • @popoffpeppar
      @popoffpeppar 3 роки тому +80

      Because we are all sisters

    • @mindmaid1817
      @mindmaid1817 3 роки тому +13

      After wearing the hijab for 6 years, I took it off and it's one of the best decisions I've ever made. Watch my video if you want! :)

    • @swegboii6447
      @swegboii6447 3 роки тому +9

      @@mindmaid1817 quran 24:31.

    • @italianspaghettisauce
      @italianspaghettisauce 3 роки тому +11

      That's literally what this entire series is. Some people are just respectful and other aren't.

    • @videogames1926
      @videogames1926 3 роки тому +33

      @@mindmaid1817 no, most of people don't care about what you wear, be it a hijab or a bikini, so stop promoting your videos in the comment section!

  • @bushraalawneh7888
    @bushraalawneh7888 3 роки тому +2382

    the high school girl is going places , she's humble yet well spoken

    • @anthonymort5202
      @anthonymort5202 3 роки тому +50

      Yes we know we all love her oh and she is not a two with the hijab I don't think she realizes how cute she is

    • @balla6010
      @balla6010 3 роки тому

      How can you tell? They are all equal in their own way,, we are taught not to compare.

    • @bushraalawneh7888
      @bushraalawneh7888 3 роки тому +46

      @@balla6010 my sentence had zero comparisons.

    • @angryox3102
      @angryox3102 3 роки тому +18

      That comment about wearing the hijab makes her look ugly and it’s a good thing isn’t a healthy outlook.

    • @knossostellel-amarna8502
      @knossostellel-amarna8502 3 роки тому

      Wonder how she would have been if not in the US right now

  • @Katia.Espinosa98
    @Katia.Espinosa98 Рік тому +66

    I’m a Catholic in a relationship with someone who is Muslim, I couldn’t be anymore proud of this 6 girls and how they represented their faith. The value they held to hijab and the chance they got to explain themselves. Certain western viewpoints can be extremely ignorant and counterproductive. So being respectful of everyone’s decisions is what matters 💖

    • @darksharkk
      @darksharkk Рік тому +1

      hii i have a question! will you have to convert to islam to marry your partner? sorry im just curious lol

    • @Katia.Espinosa98
      @Katia.Espinosa98 Рік тому +7

      @@darksharkk thank you for asking omg, sincerely my partner never asked me to, neither I think he will ever suggest it. We come from a little troubled backgrounds, and so neither of us are practising of our religions. Nonetheless we teach each other about both faiths and have realised how much in common there is. Would I ever convert ? Maybe no, but never say never, Islam is a beautiful religion and since being with him I have learnt a lot about it. I’m open spiritually to whatever gives me peace, but we are pretty much free spirits 💖 hope that answered it🥺

    • @darksharkk
      @darksharkk Рік тому +2

      @@Katia.Espinosa98 aww so sweet, thank you! ♥

    • @eeshakhan308
      @eeshakhan308 Рік тому +1

      @@Katia.Espinosa98 you arent required to but if you want to only do it for yourself or you wouldn't be rewarded for becoming a Muslim in the afterlife

    • @gay4138
      @gay4138 5 місяців тому

      Western points hmm... Just wanting to live the way you live without being conquered and rape is counter productive?

  • @MercurialMoon
    @MercurialMoon 5 місяців тому +10

    This is one of the most respectful discussion I've seen in these videos. I'm currently very interested in Islam and this makes me love the religion even more.

    • @jennakfae
      @jennakfae 24 дні тому

      completely agree 😊

  • @shumiraigunzo9704
    @shumiraigunzo9704 3 роки тому +7140

    Someone said "Christians who used to be atheists vs Atheists who used to be Christian" and that would be a good video. Also, I loved this one.

    • @emmakilburg9221
      @emmakilburg9221 3 роки тому +264

      OH MY GOD!!!!!! Yes!!!!! As a Atheist who used to be Christian I would love to see that, I would love to be able to see people who went through the same journey and struggle as me and people who went through the opposite journey.

    • @pretty948
      @pretty948 3 роки тому +177

      It'd be hard to find Christians who used to be atheists.

    • @emmakilburg9221
      @emmakilburg9221 3 роки тому +83

      pretty B probably true. I also feel like most Christians that used to be Atheists were raised Christian and then became atheist before going back to it, which doesn’t really count.

    • @user-qx2kb9jl4y
      @user-qx2kb9jl4y 3 роки тому +22

      @@pretty948 honestly, yeah but there’s shockingly so many people changing religion for their spouse. Mostly from another religion. So maybe not. Tho I have never met one before nor will ever meet one honestly

    • @emmakilburg9221
      @emmakilburg9221 3 роки тому +1

      Momo's Bangs are lifeu oooooo that would be amazing. Probably would be one of the least.... respectful I guess videos of them all but it would be so interesting

  • @abhijitnaik2226
    @abhijitnaik2226 2 роки тому +4884

    What's oppression is, forcing non hijabi to wear hijab and hijabi to remove hijab

    • @mitsuoaida9396
      @mitsuoaida9396 2 роки тому +90

      Yes agreed.

    • @cowsmuggler1646
      @cowsmuggler1646 2 роки тому +22

      It is not required. So it is not oppressive. They have the mental conditions if they think they need to wear something they are not required to wear. You will be helping a kookoo.

    • @ilikebread7052
      @ilikebread7052 2 роки тому +238

      @@cowsmuggler1646 some Muslims are forced to buddy

    • @cowsmuggler1646
      @cowsmuggler1646 2 роки тому +35

      Nobody is forcing them to take it off. Just don't try to force it on us. You are spinning things around.

    • @cowsmuggler1646
      @cowsmuggler1646 2 роки тому +2

      @@ilikebread7052 Forced to what? There is more than one in this argument.

  • @kennethmaye
    @kennethmaye Рік тому +67

    As a Christian Black Male this was very interesting and insightful to watch! I feel a little bit more educated after listening.

  • @Maria-em4oz
    @Maria-em4oz 2 роки тому +6

    "the struggle is the part of the devotion"

  • @marhaba_6491
    @marhaba_6491 3 роки тому +29157

    Can we just thank Jubilee for giving Muslim WOMEN a chance to speak on their experiences without calling us oppressed.

    • @quirkiebean793
      @quirkiebean793 3 роки тому +301

      Well it is about hijabs so its fair. I would love to see priests from different religions that would be interesting. Like Christianity, Buddhism, Judaism, ect.

    • @user-iy7zs9go8t
      @user-iy7zs9go8t 3 роки тому +55

      @@quirkiebean793 they made a vid like that but I cannot remember the title

    • @_TSC_46
      @_TSC_46 3 роки тому +121

      @@quirkiebean793 thats interesting itd be cool to see Abrahamic religions compared to other poly religibs

    • @pedroloto
      @pedroloto 3 роки тому +45

      Yeah this video was really amazing, it opened my eyes on things I completely ignored

    • @MrCarl2020
      @MrCarl2020 3 роки тому +63

      I'm sorry that you are oppressed.

  • @olivialangbehn2895
    @olivialangbehn2895 3 роки тому +3650

    this is one of the most respectful and kind conversations on jubilee

    • @FrozenNicole
      @FrozenNicole 3 роки тому +3

      @srry im mentally ill u wont get a reply I was just finna say that

    • @dahliademyan8207
      @dahliademyan8207 3 роки тому +2

      @srry im mentally ill u wont get a reply that sounds funny that they invited gangs and they were civil too lmao ill have to watch it now

    • @someonewhoisalive775
      @someonewhoisalive775 3 роки тому +4

      @@restlessbrainrw4683 that is compleaty wrong I know females that read the Quran there is no source for that.

    • @-morrow
      @-morrow 3 роки тому +3

      because they are all muslim. there is no contrary viewpoint opposing them.

    • @ALLAHwithdaughterALLAT
      @ALLAHwithdaughterALLAT 3 роки тому +2

      Abu Hurairah (RAA) narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
      “Do not initiate the saluting of Jews and Christians (when you meet them), and if you meet any of them on the road, force him to go to the narrowest part of the road (i.e. do not give way for them to pass, but keep going).
      English reference : Book 16, Hadith 1489
      Arabic reference : Book 16, Hadith 1445

  • @kiranfriesen3209
    @kiranfriesen3209 Рік тому +30

    I have to say... this might be the most respectful, community-minded and loving conversation I've seen on this site. And it really warms my heart to see these women talking to one another in this way. I am not a muslim, but I have studied it, and I have friends who wear hijab, and it's really lovely to get a peek into this culture in this way.

  • @Olivia-mj5nj
    @Olivia-mj5nj Рік тому +14

    These women are so articulate and compassionate! We need more positive representation like this for the Muslim community.

  • @channatornlund6601
    @channatornlund6601 3 роки тому +8179

    ”being mean is a sin too” is such a small but often overlooked and simple truth. religion is so often weaponized and used against individuals in a way that just drains it of its purpose which is creating fulfillment and purpose.

    • @ritam4926
      @ritam4926 3 роки тому +17

      Well said

    • @ritam4926
      @ritam4926 3 роки тому +41

      @bo ari well men are sinful as well for looking at women's hair, punishment from Allah doesn't discriminate women or men

    • @sy-zu4uz
      @sy-zu4uz 3 роки тому +60

      @bo ari why is it a womans fault for naturally having hair? The fuck?

    • @sy-zu4uz
      @sy-zu4uz 2 роки тому +24

      @@animeboiscute7204 well you're right but no one should EVER shame women for naturally having hair. I understand that being modest make some women feel safe and some feel caged on modest clothes. To each to their own lol.

    • @sy-zu4uz
      @sy-zu4uz 2 роки тому +1

      @@ocashofficial2675 partly it is, its part of their religion.

  • @rupin_kale
    @rupin_kale 3 роки тому +3676

    That high school girl is smarter than half of the world.

  • @YogaToSamadhi
    @YogaToSamadhi Рік тому +4

    This is so beautiful. They are incredibly kind and respectful towards each other. This is pura harmony between people with different ideias.

  • @theoneforyou9076
    @theoneforyou9076 Рік тому +40

    I was born and raised as a Muslima and I had struggled with this topic pretty much.
    And now that I'm convinced Abt wearing it, I was surprised that my parents are still not convinced Abt me wearing it because for them the hijab is modesty and I already dress think and act in a modest way but hiding the hair for them is more like a harder choice that I should make when I'm way more older and more mature.
    And I'm totally against that, because as Muslim parents I expected them to actually encourage me more in this topic.
    But the thing here is that we should never obligate any human being to do something as long as it doesn't affect other people in a BAD way. For exemple, if a woman is convinced about wearing hijab, why would you attack her ? She doesn't hurt anybody. And if a woman doesn't wear the hijab then it's also her choice. People who know nothing Abt religion starts to negociate Abt this and say things like : We know you were obligated or something but NO, just why would you do that ? Why wouldn't you mind your own business?

    • @supremebrother
      @supremebrother Рік тому

      Just wear a hijab...

    • @theoneforyou9076
      @theoneforyou9076 Рік тому +10

      @@supremebrother I actually started wearing it Monday.
      I like it quite a bit (even tho my parents are still against the idea) but Yeah Alhamdoulilah I finally took the risk :)

    • @bintousacko4245
      @bintousacko4245 Рік тому

      MashaAllah my sister i Hope your parents would stop complicate your obligation 😘

    • @marcelbrandt8341
      @marcelbrandt8341 2 місяці тому

      You make a very solid point. I oppose the Hijab since I think it's not a clear statement in the Quran however your point of everyone should just have their own choice and not be obligated to do either is perfect. My wife is struggling with this subject and I tell her I will love her regardless.

    • @theoneforyou9076
      @theoneforyou9076 2 місяці тому

      @@bintousacko4245 thank you ! They actually did and finally got 100% convinced that I won't take it off

  • @Caro253191
    @Caro253191 3 роки тому +1237

    Finally the hijab conversation actually involves muslim women, refreshing to see it.

    • @verybluefudge1101
      @verybluefudge1101 3 роки тому +15

      @Good Guy seriously? Bruh get a life 🙄

    • @imaclownperiodt5711
      @imaclownperiodt5711 3 роки тому +16

      @Good Guy desert what? What does culture have anything to do with religion? You do know deserts are widely located in north africa, not in the middle east, so why are you assuming a whole religion has something to do with "desert culture"? You seem a little uneducated, so take a break maybe, its best for you.

    • @randomstranger8326
      @randomstranger8326 3 роки тому +15

      @Good Guy you have a wrong name

    • @KittanBachika
      @KittanBachika 3 роки тому +2

      Occidental muslim, lol, they are saying a lot of stuff that is just untrue. It's a discussion about how it is to live as a muslim in a different country. Being muslim in a muslim country is very different

    • @KittanBachika
      @KittanBachika 3 роки тому +1

      @I'm in Pain huh yes really. I do not know for all countries, but i can confirm for morocco, liban, syria, algeria. Being a muslim in a muslim country is harder than anywhere else, there is social pressure, you're expected to be in a certain way, which is not the case in the usa. And even between every muslim countries the experience is different. Some countries are more strict some more just other have more social pressure, family pressure etc...

  • @rachel9876
    @rachel9876 3 роки тому +5947

    I just freakin love Jubilee for bringing conversations like this to a wider audience

  • @daybydae212
    @daybydae212 Рік тому +5

    Wow, people can still giggle and smile and talking about their different opinion like a hot gossip. I need this kind of friendship.

  • @cincinsokoegun6415
    @cincinsokoegun6415 2 роки тому +14

    I'm a Northern Nigerian christian, and I grew up covering my hair anytime I went to church and generally when it wasn't made up. As a result of where I come from, I feel the hijabi Islam culture has seeped it's way into my culture as well. i don't strictly cover my hair, but it's easier to tie a scarf or wrap it around my hair than it is to always make sure it's done(since my hair is afro and takes quite sometime to get ready). I also feel it generally looks better on me. It is also mandatory to cover my hair in my church.

  • @Weird_fest
    @Weird_fest 3 роки тому +5533

    I am SO glad both sides were muslim women

    • @mack3028
      @mack3028 3 роки тому +130

      I know it’s not on the topic, but it would be interesting having woman who didn’t wear hijab, wore hijab and wore the full face covering (I’m sorry I’m unsure what it’s called). Would be an interesting conversation:)

    • @nathanialb9115
      @nathanialb9115 3 роки тому +34

      @@mack3028 you mean the full face and then you can see the eyes hijab? Cuz all of that is just hijab. It may be different ways but all of them are just hijab.

    • @mack3028
      @mack3028 3 роки тому +78

      @@nathanialb9115 ah, I thought it was called a Niquab but again I don’t know how to spell this, so no offence intended!!
      Interesting :)

    • @loyaltystrikes1931
      @loyaltystrikes1931 3 роки тому +83

      @@mack3028 it is called Niqab😊

    • @poocrayon4588
      @poocrayon4588 3 роки тому +35

      There were two sides lol? Didn’t notice. If they really wanted to get both sides they should have had women who has taken the Hijab off and been persecuted for it.
      They purposely got people who would more or less agree so they didn’t offend their chosen audience.

  • @aurighahaidar8183
    @aurighahaidar8183 3 роки тому +3355

    the way they didn’t “attack” each other is so making me happy
    this video literally shouting ukhti empowerment

  • @user-uw8hv1hi6e
    @user-uw8hv1hi6e Рік тому +16

    Y'all made me so proud to be a muslim woman al hamduliAllah 🙏🙏

  • @selinathorn3625
    @selinathorn3625 2 роки тому +1

    i think this was one of the best episodes i have ever watched, they where so kind to each other

  • @leomrln
    @leomrln 3 роки тому +4826

    They are so open to talk and listen, yet dont thin down their own opinions. As a non-muslim, i loved this conversation.

    • @mememomo8280
      @mememomo8280 3 роки тому +9

      They are because they all agree lol there was no presenting the other view point of it being forced or oppression.

    • @iheartaaye
      @iheartaaye 3 роки тому +49

      @Good Guy are you good? Are u trying to convert to Islam or something cause you have been very dedicated to comment on this video seems like u a fan :)) it’s okay we will accept u if u join 💗

    • @aminaguemghar4007
      @aminaguemghar4007 3 роки тому +27

      @Good Guy you commented many times in such a disrespectful way. could you please re question your actions and maybe try to learn about this beautiful religion? thank you

    • @mememomo8280
      @mememomo8280 3 роки тому +2

      @xo Lynn yes

    • @blobfish2122
      @blobfish2122 3 роки тому +5

      I just wanted to say this. In Degrassi on Netflix, it shows two sides of Muslim young ladies. One who doesn't follow the "Traditional" rules and one who does. It showed how both are happy, whatever they choose.
      I know this is completely unrelated to your comment but this video made me remember that.

  • @moonlightvibes767
    @moonlightvibes767 3 роки тому +5021

    As long as they aren’t forced to wear one, it’s all good. End of conversation.

  • @adelaonair8545
    @adelaonair8545 2 роки тому +70

    What Faatimah said at 3:44 is relatable ... "When it comes to behavior [in the Muslim community], I find that rituals take precedence over behaviors a lot of the time..." It's crazy how that sentiment is so applicable to religious communities at large, no matter what you believe in. I resonate very strongly with that sentiment as an ex-Catholic. It's why I decided to leave the church years ago.

  • @jasminemarionn
    @jasminemarionn Рік тому +1

    This is one of my favourite videos from Jubilee, each of them are civil and respectful to each other and I can see all of their points!!

  • @Zaiblm
    @Zaiblm 3 роки тому +21961

    this is the first time I've seen MUSLIM WOMEN debate on hijab and not a bunch of random old white men. I’m French and every other Thursday French news shows bring in these "experts" (old white men and women) to talk about how hijab is oppressive and how it doesn’t belong in France. The one time they brought in a young Muslim hijabi woman, she absolutely decimated their arguments and then never got invited again. Thank you Jubilee for giving these women a platform.

    • @trippy9320
      @trippy9320 3 роки тому +293

      yessssssssssss

    • @matthewstaffordsburner1040
      @matthewstaffordsburner1040 3 роки тому +67

      Jesus is Lord

    • @Solidude4
      @Solidude4 3 роки тому +1428

      @Xen0taku4 Obviously it matters because it's not old white men wearing the hijab. It matters because we live in a world with racism and sexism.

    • @trippy9320
      @trippy9320 3 роки тому +454

      @@matthewstaffordsburner1040 k sis what do u want us to do

    • @aru9071
      @aru9071 3 роки тому +800

      @Xen0taku4 race and gender matters because it is something that affects muslim women and not old white men, they've never experienced it so their opinion shouldn't be given more importance than a muslim womans opinion

  • @esma8498
    @esma8498 3 роки тому +4650

    This episode rlly was one of the better ones were everyone is just understanding of eachother and humble. Its great, made me feel safe in a way

    • @SpiderMan-vl9lb
      @SpiderMan-vl9lb 3 роки тому +9

      meh i don't think it really "helped". most of the time they just agreed on everything except for Jannah maybe.

    • @AxxLAfriku
      @AxxLAfriku 3 роки тому +2

      I am thinking about dropping out of school to focus on my career as a star on UA-cam. I already make a lot of money on UA-cam. School bores me so much. I need more opinions and since I don't have any friends, I gotta ask you, esna

    • @tylerarrington8210
      @tylerarrington8210 3 роки тому +5

      I think it shows the non-confrontational nature of muslim women

    • @mutiaraa.firdausy9789
      @mutiaraa.firdausy9789 3 роки тому +21

      Bcs they have empathy on each other

    • @idalarsen2540
      @idalarsen2540 3 роки тому +17

      @@AxxLAfriku Don't drop out. You'll feel proud for finishing what you started. I personally dropped out at the finish line at my 11th year in school (I live in Norway where we don't have our schools set up the same way, so it wouldn't make sense for me to say high school or college or whatever it would have been in America), which I now regret. I wish I at least would have finished just two more years, just to have that certification to make it *A LOT* easier to not only get a job, but a good job I actually would enjoy doing for however many years. Sometimes what we want in life doesn't work out like we maybe thought it would, and sometimes we get tired of what we're doing and want to change careers. Then it's so much easier to navigate the job market. It'll also help to instill you with a more patient attitude, and also giving you the sense of being able to push through towards the end goal. To not quit what you started.
      Now, I know everyone is different so what's right for me wouldn't be right for everyone else as well obiviously, but still. I just think it's good to push through what's boring now, but still is going to serve you great in the future. Even with doing youtube/social media I'm sure it would be easier to make it even better if you finish the school experience "properly".
      Just my two cents.

  • @Kscomelli
    @Kscomelli Рік тому +3

    I loved the respect that these ladies had for each other's views. Beautiful display of how to agree and disagree respectfully.

  • @josiegray5357
    @josiegray5357 Рік тому +18

    This conversation felt so friendly and natural. Loved this convo.

  • @yujoze9422
    @yujoze9422 3 роки тому +14818

    I like that this conversation is within the Muslim community

    • @Dr.PaiPai
      @Dr.PaiPai 3 роки тому +1127

      Exactly. Would've been annoying to watch people who don't know what they're talking about act like they're experts.

    • @675gisud6
      @675gisud6 3 роки тому +75

      @@Dr.PaiPai bruh😅

    • @Jobe-13
      @Jobe-13 3 роки тому +12

      Same

    • @yujoze9422
      @yujoze9422 3 роки тому +178

      @@Dr.PaiPai yes that’s what I was worried about when I saw the title

    • @Dr.PaiPai
      @Dr.PaiPai 3 роки тому +108

      @Put Bluntly Anyone who thinks they know what they talking about when reality they don't.
      Not referring to anyone specifically.

  • @Shiningsnow
    @Shiningsnow 3 роки тому +1960

    The way Jannah speak is so good . She has enough knowledge regarding Islam.

    • @Shiningsnow
      @Shiningsnow 3 роки тому +44

      @@gorgifido7688 is praising someone bad🙄

    • @Shiningsnow
      @Shiningsnow 3 роки тому +21

      @H London yah I agree with it. I just said the way she is speaking. But not in her actions. She know it. But she is not doing it.

    • @Shiningsnow
      @Shiningsnow 3 роки тому

      @H London ys that's what I meant

    • @my4beautifulhusbands771
      @my4beautifulhusbands771 3 роки тому +1

      punishment of the grave. There are many narrations which verify its authenticity. One such narration is: The Messenger of Allaah (sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam) said, "Seek Allaah's protection from the Punishment of the Grave, since the Punishment of the Grave is a fact/true." (Saheeh: At-Tabraanee in 'al-Kabeer' from Umm Khaalid bint Khaalid ibn Sa'eed ibn al-'Aas.)
      Our righteous predecessors have mentioned many stories in this regard, some of which are as follows:
      Ibn Abi'd Dunya (rahimahullah) mentioned that one of his companions said, “My brother died and I saw him in a dream. I said, "How was it when you were placed in your grave?" He replied,
      "Someone brought me a fiery flame and if it had not been that someone else made supplication for me, I think he would have hit me with it.” ("The Soul journey after death" an abridgement of Ibn al-Qayyim's kitabar-ruh.)
      Bashar b. Ghalib (rahimahullah) said, “I saw Rabia, on whose behalf I make frequent supplication, in a dream. She said to me,
      "Bashar b. Ghalib! Your gifts have been brought to me on plates of light, covered in silken cloths."
      I asked, "How can that be?" She replied,
      "That is what the supplication of living believers is like. When they make supplication for a dead person, that supplication is answered for them on plates of light, veiled in silken cloths. Then they are brought to the dead person for whom the supplication was said and they are told, 'This is the gift of so-and-so to you.'” ” ("The Soul journey after death" an abridgement of Ibn al-Qayyim's kitabar-ruh.)
      Amr bin Dinar (rahimahullah) said “The sister of one of the men of Medina died and he buried her. When he came back from the burial, he remembered that he had left something in the grave. He asked one of his companions to help him. His companion related that they had dug up the grave and found what they were looking for. Then the man said, "Let us dig further and find out what has happened to my sister." He lifted up one of the stones covering the burial cavity and found the grave filled with fire. He replaced it and filled in the grave again. Then he returned to his mother and asked, "What was my sister really like?" She replied, "Why do you ask about her when she is dead?" He said, "Tell me." She said,
      "She used to delay the prayer and she also used to go to our neighbours' doors, put her ear to them, and then tell other people what they said." ("The Soul journey after death" an abridgement of Ibn al-Qayyim's kitabar-ruh.)

    • @lunix3259
      @lunix3259 3 роки тому +1

      @@Shiningsnow I think that's just a metaphor...

  • @liana7010
    @liana7010 Рік тому +4

    they all are so well spoken. MashaAllah!!

  • @TokyoDogz
    @TokyoDogz Рік тому +8

    Also men do have a dresscode. But many neglect that part because of culture.

    • @lokkj1641
      @lokkj1641 9 місяців тому +2

      The vast majority of Muslim men abide by their dress code

  • @UrBigSisKey
    @UrBigSisKey 3 роки тому +2345

    OK but Sabahat is going places, she's only still in high school and so mature and well-spoken... wow... you go girl.

  • @UlianaBoldyreva
    @UlianaBoldyreva 3 роки тому +7609

    As a non-Muslim woman, this was the most educational and the most respectful conversation I have ever seen on the topic. It's so hard to start a conversation about a controversial topic without instantly being labeled as being on one of the extreme ends of the spectrum, but this calm conversation between women who respect each other and respect their faith was a breath of fresh air. Thank you to all the participants, and thank you to Jubilee for providing a platform for these conversations to exist!

    • @sharoonaftab8894
      @sharoonaftab8894 3 роки тому +25

      Cuz you don't know the real thing you only know the censored white washed stuff.
      Greetings from Pakistan

    • @narutoyama7284
      @narutoyama7284 3 роки тому +5

      @Lol Bruh lol you arent a muslim!! sit down

    • @narutoyama7284
      @narutoyama7284 3 роки тому +4

      @Lol Bruh exactly!! you dont have to do what you have done yesterday anyway. you have to respect others also coz you know QURAN 109:1-6!! AS SIMPLE AS THAT!! you dont have to be agressive towards others !! okay brother!! have a nice jummah!!

    • @chapavolgar
      @chapavolgar 3 роки тому +15

      To all the Muslim girls out there who read this, who think wearing Hijab is empowering. the few percent who were privileged enough to born and raised in a different country that doesn't rule under Sharia Law. the ones who choosing Islam without knowing what it is, because they can! and ignoring the rest of the Muslim Women who suffer based on what is written in the Quran. from not having the choice to divorce, not having the choice to wear what they want. not have the choice to keep the children after divorce, get raped by their husbands, being a 4th wife, haven't the right to raise their children after the divorce. can't disobey her mahrams such as his father, brother, husband, son otherwise can get beaten to death or get killed. get stoned to death, count as half of the man! , get referred to as a land, being unable to sing.... and this is just the tip of the iceberg. what are they defending? thousand years of humiliation under the name of god? let's face it what they defending is their identity, it is their personal view on something that is faaaaaaaaar from Islam! because they longing to belong somewhere to keep their identity! what they practicing is something else than Islam! it is a mystic Sufism thing that has nothing to do with Islam! Know what you are defending, The least you can do for your religion is to read The Quran, please read it and see if you still defending it . To whom they want to know more I write some of the ayahs. I repeat I will not accept any explanation since it mentions five times in Quran that we brought this book simple. so everyone will understand. al-Baqarah 228-223-282-221-230 an-Nisa 3-11-15-24-25-34-176 an-Nur 6-31 al-Ahzab 59-28-29-33-37-50-51-52-53 at-Taghabun 14 al-Tahrim 1

    • @hi-ly7et
      @hi-ly7et 3 роки тому +15

      @@chapavolgar I feel like you need to understand what the verses actually meant a bit more, not tryna be mean or something just saying that you probably have miss understood the verses 😅

  • @markhoops24
    @markhoops24 Рік тому +1

    Dude I love these videos because it gives me so much insight into the way people of other religions and cultures think and live, growing up in America when you see people with a hijabi on I always feel like they look at Christian’s or people of other religions in general and think that we’re so different and weird or and would never want to associate with us at all or whatever but these girls come off as such normal regular people and also, sidenote they are drop dead gorgeous 😂😍but videos like this are important, humanizes and normalizes people of other cultures

  • @ObsidianNyx
    @ObsidianNyx Рік тому

    The atmosphere between the participants is so incredibly warm, and up-lifting. Beautiful video with great discussions!

  • @kurdiyankurdiyan8081
    @kurdiyankurdiyan8081 3 роки тому +2845

    Jannah always references everything to the Quran. I am amazed of Her

    • @arsh6027
      @arsh6027 3 роки тому +113

      I aspire to be like women like her, people who have so much knowledge about Islam and it’s virtues 💗

    • @roomofrequirements8324
      @roomofrequirements8324 3 роки тому +26

      But she quoted it wrong. جيوبmeans breasts not hair, the Hadith in which the prophet tells aisha only her face and hands should appear is weak, and you guys would only disagree if you are Saudi or don't read Quran well enough

    • @rainreinaa
      @rainreinaa 3 роки тому +2

      Me too! Makes me realized that I should learn more 🌼

    • @chapavolgar
      @chapavolgar 3 роки тому +10

      who said that Muslims are only Arabs? what about Turks? what about Iranians?Afghans?Syrians! why they bring all of their guests from privileged Islamic countries that don't even run base on Sharia Law!! cause what they are talking about is not Islam! It is Islam base on their personal preference. The Real Hijab is in Quran. while it refers to women as their man's land. that if they disobey beat them. that their brain is half of the man. and you can take them as slaves ... Read the book. Know what you are representing. and know that you are all non-Muslims wearing hijab! p.s: for brave Muslim girls out there... it mentions 5 times that we brought this book simple. so everyone can understand if you wanna bring any other example against that it has to be in Quran!

    • @trooptroopie8200
      @trooptroopie8200 3 роки тому +1

      alhamdulillah

  • @ashleyhernandez845
    @ashleyhernandez845 3 роки тому +2872

    can these six women have a tv show or a podcast or something omg I would watch all day

    • @suraya_
      @suraya_ 3 роки тому +50

      literally i would pay for that

    • @Phoenixwinsx
      @Phoenixwinsx 3 роки тому +7

      Omg same

    • @fzohra2571
      @fzohra2571 3 роки тому +8

      Yaas , i wish there was something like that , i can relate too much , because i'm the same age
      Anyways , there is a channel isn youtube with the same concept : "Honesrt tea talk "

    • @sumaya5288
      @sumaya5288 3 роки тому +1

      frrr

    • @umar9174
      @umar9174 3 роки тому

      They don’t even know anything about islam

  • @ashnsteve05
    @ashnsteve05 Рік тому +2

    I’ve learned sooo much watching this. Great discussion

  • @tayyibahhaleem9660
    @tayyibahhaleem9660 3 роки тому +2513

    Shout out to the red-haired lady for not trying to re-write Islam and for taking accountability for her choice to not wear a hijab. We love to see it!

    • @wyrnmochi3808
      @wyrnmochi3808 3 роки тому +29

      @Good Guy ok

    • @zarahleinberger7392
      @zarahleinberger7392 3 роки тому +137

      Good Guy why do you have to disrespect a religion when you can just be quiet

    • @venividi2913
      @venividi2913 3 роки тому +72

      @Good Guy You're trying to prove in your so-called brilliant mind that Muslims are bad ? That's why you are spreading hate and being disrespectful, right? You want someone to come up to say bad things to you, and you think you'll be right. LOL. You should respect. And others respect you too. But you can't expect others to do so and talk good if your behaviors towards them are bad. Your words about Allah are nothing. You can go for more brutal hardcore insults, but it should be a shame when your insults doesn't make Allah weak or something. I just hope you understand someday that we all in this together. Religion, race, sexual orientation… It doesn't matter. We need to respect eachother.

    • @byosi
      @byosi 3 роки тому +41

      @Good Guy may Allah guide you

    • @venividi2913
      @venividi2913 3 роки тому +14

      @Good Guy I am sure :)

  • @mariaalawadhi7473
    @mariaalawadhi7473 3 роки тому +1683

    as a muslim woman, i literally kept on pausing after every prompt just to give my opinion as if i was with them😭

  • @Fatma-yo3uk
    @Fatma-yo3uk 9 місяців тому

    I loved this! not only did you get agreedments on how society speaks but also the muslim communtiy itself! It was so heart-warming just to see them speak about their experiences and how the interpret the hijjab!

  • @aghaesthelyne8585
    @aghaesthelyne8585 6 місяців тому +2

    These women are so insightful🥺, I am not muslim but i really appreciated this conversation.

  • @leanoura1435
    @leanoura1435 3 роки тому +3232

    Here is my opinion on the "hijab is oppressive" thing: If nudity is a choice so is modesty
    Edit: ty for 1.9k likes I just wanted to share my opinion and ig everyone agrees! ❤️

    • @lyricscott5134
      @lyricscott5134 3 роки тому +223

      Absolutely! I couldn’t agree more. It is only oppressive to those who do not choose to wear it and have it forced on that. That is not Islam however, that is the culture.

    • @yaserahmed4829
      @yaserahmed4829 3 роки тому +88

      I just want to clear something it's not a choice it's something Allah said wemen should do so the word "optional" doesn't exist if you choose not to wear it, that's absolutely okay no one can force you but in the same time don't say it's optional do whatever you want but in the same time you should know that's a sin. And after i said that i would get a lot of hate here and people would call me extreme but guys it wasn't me who told the women to wear it, Allah did so when i tell you that hijab is a must i am not forcing you or oppress you, if Allah said it then it's a must if you don't do then it's "your" choice.... I am not trying to do anything or judge just... "hijab isn't optional" it's a choice. What i mean is if you wear it then you did what Allah said and if not you go against what Allah said hope you understand

    • @Sriram-ij2hh
      @Sriram-ij2hh 3 роки тому +59

      @@yaserahmed4829 Not to be rude my man...But it's really strange to hear people say "Allah said so" when allah is pretty much defined as an all powerful entity that's neither material nor spiritual. Somehow miraculously, that said entity sends his "messages" to a human being who spreads his apparent messages. Believing in a divine power is one thing, but that divine power telling humans how to conduct themselves is far too convinient.

    • @yaserahmed4829
      @yaserahmed4829 3 роки тому +35

      @@Sriram-ij2hh simple... The Quran is the words of Allah....... So... If it's mentioned in the Quran then... Allah said it 😃

    • @Sriram-ij2hh
      @Sriram-ij2hh 3 роки тому +29

      @@yaserahmed4829 You seem to have entirely missed my point. So let me ask you a question instead. Why do you think what's written in the Qur'an is the message from Allah (who is neither a spiritual nor a material entity)? Aren't you merely believing the word of a man who said so?

  • @rosarioolakajubilin512
    @rosarioolakajubilin512 3 роки тому +2022

    I'm not even Muslim but when the girl said "the struggle is part of the devotion"... Such beautiful words!!

    • @BTS_lover77
      @BTS_lover77 3 роки тому +73

      @Good Guy please no negative comments

    • @poocrayon4588
      @poocrayon4588 3 роки тому +10

      The struggle for more child brides is real

    • @nolife8209
      @nolife8209 3 роки тому +34

      @Good Guy u srsly have no life do u?

    • @lilkandy7042
      @lilkandy7042 3 роки тому +26

      @Good Guy you do know pigs aren’t the devil we just not aloud to eat them lmao and btw Jesus also said don’t eat pif

    • @omymatoor1152
      @omymatoor1152 3 роки тому +34

      @Good Guy ain’t no such thing as pork biryani if ur gonna troll Atleast do it properly 😂😭😭

  • @MAZ2038
    @MAZ2038 5 місяців тому +11

    there's no way they said men can have girlfriends can drink and can go clubbing even though it is strictly forbidden

    • @Smithpolly
      @Smithpolly 4 місяці тому +1

      I think the idea is that there are many families where a very tight rein is kept on girls and what they can do and if they were caught drinking and clubbing, they would face a harsh punishment, whereas as their brothers can do those things and while it is not officially approved of, they will not face the same consequences as their sisters.

  • @Rania_ch666
    @Rania_ch666 2 місяці тому

    i really like the way they carried themselves , the way that video ended is so wholesome.

  • @samreen_amdani
    @samreen_amdani 3 роки тому +1939

    this is like the only middle ground episode where no one pissed me off lol everyone was so respectful :) most episodes always have that one annoying person !

    • @naimahkhan6239
      @naimahkhan6239 3 роки тому +78

      @Good Guy I’ve seen your replies everywhere. May I ask why you hate Islam so much. I’d like to clear up some misconceptions.

    • @beverycarefuljohn586
      @beverycarefuljohn586 3 роки тому +37

      @Good Guy ironic how you use that username

    • @roleye
      @roleye 3 роки тому

      Ig I was the only one mildly pissed off at that one girl

    • @samreen_amdani
      @samreen_amdani 3 роки тому

      @@roleye which one 👀

    • @roleye
      @roleye 3 роки тому

      @@samreen_amdani sha'am

  • @fiercetulip2884
    @fiercetulip2884 3 роки тому +2127

    Me who is not a Muslim: 👁️👄👁️ interesting

    • @suntadhungel6245
      @suntadhungel6245 3 роки тому +62

      😆 same here

    • @whooiszaza
      @whooiszaza 3 роки тому +76

      it really is interesting 🤍

    • @Wordsbyk
      @Wordsbyk 3 роки тому +20

      Same here !!

    • @doyi3
      @doyi3 3 роки тому +19

      my other half of the family is Muslim and they do so yeah

    • @gracefriend951
      @gracefriend951 3 роки тому +12

      It really is so interesting lmaoo

  • @astarynighy
    @astarynighy 4 місяці тому +6

    12:24 the fact that when she says "alhamdulia" the subtitles says (speaks in a foreign language) i understand way but that just cracks me up lol😂

  • @tikelasb8405
    @tikelasb8405 Рік тому

    Watching this makes me wanna join them too omg they’re so respectful of each others ❤

  • @remasefi4976
    @remasefi4976 3 роки тому +2347

    “It’s always a white guy” 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Han___000
      @Han___000 3 роки тому +74

      Lol it’s tru tho😂

    • @djblades
      @djblades 3 роки тому +58

      Aka colonialism in a nutshell

    • @kaisbeskri1725
      @kaisbeskri1725 3 роки тому +2

      what minute in video they say it pls ?

    • @fonainfinity5964
      @fonainfinity5964 3 роки тому +5

      It was just a piece of cloth that people were wearing in the desert, and now it has become a political identity. We need to use our limited time to talk more about freedom and not about simple things as clothes.
      Freeeeeeeeeedoooom

    • @knossostellel-amarna8502
      @knossostellel-amarna8502 3 роки тому +27

      @@djblades Have you read Islamic history, its based on imperialism, cultural genocide, slavery, forced conversion & its centuries before the west

  • @gonzalobonmatizarzuela7216
    @gonzalobonmatizarzuela7216 3 роки тому +656

    They were so respectful to each other, don’t you love when women

  • @yuusra6755
    @yuusra6755 Рік тому +1

    I love how they were respect each other ❤ and especially i like how the hijabi girl sabah how she speak and her way of thinking

  • @KmiiVC
    @KmiiVC 2 роки тому +2

    as someone who has very little experience with Muslims and Islam, this was so informative and enlightening

  • @firstylasty9417
    @firstylasty9417 3 роки тому +7872

    The fact that women have to debate how they're allowed to dress, but men don't...

    • @cybilyummy6049
      @cybilyummy6049 3 роки тому +298

      ikr, it's sad:(

    • @thegreatgoddess9149
      @thegreatgoddess9149 2 роки тому +78

      Yeah sad fr

    • @eldawansy1129
      @eldawansy1129 2 роки тому +939

      Men in Islam are actually supposed cover their body from right above the bellybutton to right beneath the knees

    • @XXX-xv8gw
      @XXX-xv8gw 2 роки тому +86

      Em they do actually

    • @firstylasty9417
      @firstylasty9417 2 роки тому +88

      @@eldawansy1129 Interesting. Is this according to the Qur'an, or is this more of a cultural thing? And is the "dress code" the same as men's or different? Thanks for your comment.

  • @alysondavis9233
    @alysondavis9233 3 роки тому +785

    I think this is the first episode where nobody got on my nerves really

    • @kaylav6107
      @kaylav6107 3 роки тому +14

      omg same

    • @this4ppiplup
      @this4ppiplup 3 роки тому +4

      same here

    • @angstylemonsartistiq5648
      @angstylemonsartistiq5648 3 роки тому +33

      RIGHT ?? they were all respectful and humble, these conversations were so interesting to watch !

    • @amygueye4881
      @amygueye4881 3 роки тому

      Frr

    • @jxslayz6663
      @jxslayz6663 3 роки тому +1

      except the part where the 4 of them ran to be feminists, claim their victimhood, while also excising their privilege.

  • @ShrandaM
    @ShrandaM Рік тому +1

    I love this video! Thank you for sharing.

  • @slayhajira.
    @slayhajira. Рік тому +1

    Sabahat really inspired me! She's gorgeous. I love the way she explained all of her points. Cant believe she's so young yet so intelligent. ✨

  • @LauraO4
    @LauraO4 3 роки тому +3143

    When I was around 10 years old I was best friends with a Muslim girl (I am non-religious) and she was such a nice person, her parents were really nice to they introduced me to a lot of Muslim things. They allowed me to go with them to a mosque, I also tried on a hijab because I was curious. 1 time I also tried to join Ramadan, but I couldn't keep up I got super hungry (respect to everyone that can do it 💗). One time I got sick while I was with them and they treated me so nice. They also had amazing food. The sad thing is that she moved away and we lost contact, she will always remain in my memory though. I learned so much from them. I will never understand why people do not accept Muslims.

    • @potato0269
      @potato0269 3 роки тому +132

      aw thats so sweet :)

    • @joesphworstcarever157
      @joesphworstcarever157 3 роки тому +151

      I also have a friend who I happens to be Muslim and she is one of the most amazing people I’ve ever meant. It saddens me that some people will not be able to have the awesome memories that I share with her just because she practices another religion.

    • @fonainfinity5964
      @fonainfinity5964 3 роки тому +20

      It was just a piece of cloth that people were wearing in the desert, and now it has become a political identity. We need to use our limited time to talk more about freedom and not about simple things as clothes.
      Freeeeeeeeeedoooom

    • @LauraO4
      @LauraO4 3 роки тому +112

      @@fonainfinity5964 so what if it became part of religion people choose to wear a hijab, so how is it not a free choice

    • @AlkaSingh-jp9cx
      @AlkaSingh-jp9cx 3 роки тому +2

      Same!!

  • @Juliaissocoollike602
    @Juliaissocoollike602 3 роки тому +744

    I think this is the most respectful middleground I’ve ever seen

    • @averyh6434
      @averyh6434 3 роки тому +4

      definitely

    • @mohamedsaid9416
      @mohamedsaid9416 3 роки тому +4

      I think what the guests on the show are missing are the rules There are a lot rules in Islam there are things are haram for men and not for women and there are things that are haram for women and not for men and there things that are haram for both men and women altogether it depend on the rules. I think that is the reason American Muslims and feminist misunderstand about Islam

    • @bencilsharpie7567
      @bencilsharpie7567 3 роки тому +1

      The hijab should be banned in the west.

    • @DragonRider-cx7br
      @DragonRider-cx7br 3 роки тому +16

      @@bencilsharpie7567 no, because that would be limiting freedom of expression

    • @bencilsharpie7567
      @bencilsharpie7567 3 роки тому +2

      @@DragonRider-cx7brIf you want to wear hijab go live in a Islamic country like Iran, should suit you perfectly.

  • @falakm1993
    @falakm1993 Рік тому +7

    Why are so many young Muslim debating about these things and ALL of them are saying “I think” “I believe” “for me” it’s not about them Islam is not about them. It’s not about your beliefs. It’s about what Islam says. They can just read the Quran and understand why things are that way. Instead of using their own mind to say why. When the book already says why. Again islam doesn’t change for you. You change for Islam.

  • @greentea965
    @greentea965 2 роки тому +17

    i love how jannah gains her evidence from the quran as a muslim i love how she does this becuase then nobody can deny what she says

  • @prundina
    @prundina 3 роки тому +3003

    That “kind racism” is real tho. People be like I can’t be ignorant cause I’m kind lol
    Edit: to people replying aight you can call it kind islamophobia/kind bigotry or whatever (yes I know islam is not a race) I just use the term because the girl use it when describing her experience

    • @sevendaysaweek2622
      @sevendaysaweek2622 3 роки тому +120

      it’s islamaphobia not racism

    • @natalier4053
      @natalier4053 3 роки тому +16

      @@sevendaysaweek2622 That’s literally the same thing

    • @starobviously4956
      @starobviously4956 3 роки тому +115

      @@natalier4053 no, no it isnt.

    • @sevendaysaweek2622
      @sevendaysaweek2622 3 роки тому +147

      @@natalier4053 islam is a religion not a race

    • @rattling.casket
      @rattling.casket 3 роки тому +8

      @@sevendaysaweek2622 It would be considered so by the people it comes from who are assuming islam is a race or that all people who follow are Of the same perceived race.

  • @bembbie
    @bembbie 3 роки тому +1069

    Those girls are so bright and wonderful. I want all people to talk with people with opposite opinions like that. They were respectful to each other

    • @homosapien.a6364
      @homosapien.a6364 3 роки тому +2

      Ikr ☺️

    • @wprince
      @wprince 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah

    • @cashmereglow7549
      @cashmereglow7549 3 роки тому +3

      Right! I know so many adults 45+ that can never have mature discussions without insults due to different opinions. Age never really comes with age. It entirely depends on the individual.

  • @irmhwt_
    @irmhwt_ 9 місяців тому +6

    Hijab is obligatory for every Muslim

  • @Sam-iu2si
    @Sam-iu2si Рік тому

    Such a beautiful bunch of women. So respectful to each other 💕

  • @soeralecha
    @soeralecha 3 роки тому +3768

    The high schooler girl is so confident with her faith which represents how brave and strong personality she has

    • @hsk4950
      @hsk4950 3 роки тому +6

      I agree they are very western its good to see

    • @Hishinunit5
      @Hishinunit5 3 роки тому

      which one

    • @Ace-ym3wg
      @Ace-ym3wg 3 роки тому +4

      @@Hishinunit5 Sabahat

    • @amyrambles7668
      @amyrambles7668 3 роки тому +71

      @@hsk4950 hi, I know you mean well, but when you say Westeen, as an Asian Muslim, I have to disagree. Westeen or Eastern, women can be generally strong minded. We are just shown as docile by the media. It is also the same problem non Muslim Asian have. Western men have this kink where they think Asian women are submissive. We are not.

    • @vervetech9395
      @vervetech9395 3 роки тому +25

      As a Christian I'm so impressed to see that Muslims don't waver in their faith. They don't allow social deception and the need to fit in to compromise their faith. Her speech was much mature than any of them