Are We Allies? Black Americans vs Asian Americans | Middle Ground

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  • @jubilee
    @jubilee  3 роки тому +4022

    Hi Goodhumans! Thanks for watching this episode of Middle Ground. In this episode, we wanted to highlight the conflict and underlying tension between East Asian Americans and Black Americans, which is why the casting choices we made were focused on East Asians. We hope this conversation gave you a glimpse into a topic that isn't often discussed. We learned a lot from making it! Thanks as always for your support!

    • @TKN_FORZE
      @TKN_FORZE 3 роки тому +144

      Do Black Americans vs African Americans or Indigenous latinos vs white latinos.

    • @FriedrichBarb
      @FriedrichBarb 3 роки тому +108

      Your videos are only making more people racist overall, focusing on race so much is not productive, its genuinely brainwashing your audience into believing its still the 1950s
      But if your agenda is to make more people racist and embrace tribalism, then you're doing a excellent job

    • @Simeautomatic100
      @Simeautomatic100 3 роки тому +8

      *Can we have a B.A.'s vs BP across the Diaspora (More particular, those who came here & live in the USA)????*

    • @hallabajwa9325
      @hallabajwa9325 3 роки тому +175

      South Asians do exist jubilee

    • @micahisbetter
      @micahisbetter 3 роки тому +9

      Goodhumans honestly I have never heard of that but I like the name😭✋🏽

  • @user-qc1km4uw2s
    @user-qc1km4uw2s 3 роки тому +8635

    one time black kid called me - "whats up Jackie Chan"
    and I replied - "Not much Samuel L Jackson"
    and we became bros

    • @musicworldnow365
      @musicworldnow365 3 роки тому +714

      That is amazing, I wish we had more stories like yours in the media instead of one sided race baiting mess.

    • @user-qc1km4uw2s
      @user-qc1km4uw2s 3 роки тому +450

      @@musicworldnow365 I know a lot of black dudes. schools, army and in civie. I remember all their names.
      the ones on the news are just... a bit misguided.
      They save my ass, I save theirs. same stuff.

    • @uyagraph
      @uyagraph 3 роки тому +93

      Lol love this

    • @venus7286
      @venus7286 3 роки тому +58

      You're sweet

    • @jaakunaokami2981
      @jaakunaokami2981 3 роки тому +245

      Did you two make a Rush Hour Movie Film?

  • @DiannaMarie92
    @DiannaMarie92 3 роки тому +7775

    The Asian man getting choked up understanding her pain really got to me.

    • @MegumiHayashida
      @MegumiHayashida 3 роки тому +59

      Same

    • @quinn4427
      @quinn4427 3 роки тому +640

      @kranj doo ?? What does that have anything to do with her comment. The Asian man was getting emotion in the video because he acknowledges that asians are more privileged than black people and sees her pain.

    • @MaybeLily1234
      @MaybeLily1234 3 роки тому +154

      A true empath

    • @EKL_22
      @EKL_22 3 роки тому +23

      Same and I really don't like to cry 😢

    • @weiwenwwe2066
      @weiwenwwe2066 3 роки тому +11

      More victim card coming their way

  • @dannyy8619
    @dannyy8619 Рік тому +2104

    I just cant get past how bad the questions were for this one. To make it all about anti blackness among Asians and to not even remotely challenge anti Asian sentiments, biases among the black participants really represents the broader narrative of this country.

    • @kitejohnson515
      @kitejohnson515 Рік тому

      Blsck people don’t have anti Asian sentiments they literally support all of their businesses so they can stomp on black when they make it

    • @nemonymous89
      @nemonymous89 Рік тому +268

      Yeah,America loves to ignore the lopsided direction of interracial violence in these segments.

    • @alexcanning5383
      @alexcanning5383 Рік тому +40

      I agree but it’s only a 20 minute video.. it’s tough to delve into topics when it’s such a short video

    • @morganjanaeee
      @morganjanaeee Рік тому +7

      what do you mean

    • @TKBell1970
      @TKBell1970 Рік тому +60

      @@nemonymous89 Violence is inherently American. There are lots of ignorant people and they all should be highlighted. If you want to see a more “balanced” segment then create a more balanced segment.

  • @LeonahMagalona
    @LeonahMagalona Рік тому +906

    Definitely agree with that phrase "Filipinos are the black people of Asia."
    Being a Filipino watching a lot of Korean TV shows, that's their perception
    of Filipinos that we are poor, uneducated and dark skinned.
    Love my morena skin tone and soooo proud of it.

    • @ss-gv3tm
      @ss-gv3tm Рік тому +61

      No,you Filipinos are the most sweetest,kindest and hard working people out there🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @yowinmymind
      @yowinmymind Рік тому +10

      loving the moreno/morena skin tone! as we should 💋

    • @206guy5
      @206guy5 Рік тому +103

      Stop acting like Filipinos are the only dark skins of Asia. Cambodians, Laotians, Burmese, Thais, Indonesians, Malays ets have dark skin.

    • @sunN.Y
      @sunN.Y Рік тому +24

      Cambodians is the black of asia lol

    • @206guy5
      @206guy5 Рік тому +5

      @@sunN.Y facts lol.

  • @stuti9815
    @stuti9815 3 роки тому +19928

    can y’all do south asian americans vs east asian americans? i think that would be interesting...

    • @thegent2258
      @thegent2258 3 роки тому +801

      I’m trying to picture it and most comments would be “how do you feel when you’re the poster child of the asian continent”

    • @pragyagupta6605
      @pragyagupta6605 3 роки тому +1350

      South asians are racist af against east Asians and east asians heavily stereotype south asians. It would be interesting to see both the sides pointing fingers at each other.

    • @laoyue5924
      @laoyue5924 3 роки тому +293

      And southeast asians

    • @pragyagupta6605
      @pragyagupta6605 3 роки тому +442

      @@siopaosoysauce k-ent and j-ent are quite popular all over the world. I'm an Indian, I'm myself quite into japanese and korean pop culture. But personally, I've come across a lot of narrow minded and vicious people who are quite racist towards East asians.. calling them c and r slurs, despite of being asians themselves. Some east asians still call Indians "curry munchers" and address us with that stereoypical mindset. It's been a high time now and asians (no matter what ethnicity) should all respect each others' cultures and beliefs.

    • @unknownvv4924
      @unknownvv4924 3 роки тому +9

      Yes!!!

  • @dellabella3644
    @dellabella3644 3 роки тому +38044

    A discussion between Africans and African Americans* would be great for a video!
    Edit: */ Black Americans

    • @maleahj308
      @maleahj308 3 роки тому +2158

      That's a needed discussion

    • @debraidehen
      @debraidehen 3 роки тому +1263

      Yesssssss from an African!

    • @Isinforblood
      @Isinforblood 3 роки тому +353

      Facts fr

    • @Peridium
      @Peridium 3 роки тому +718

      YES. This is not addressed enough.

    • @Princess0ftheLight
      @Princess0ftheLight 3 роки тому +905

      Yes, this is an issue that needs to be addressed. First generation African vs Continental African vs African Americans.

  • @mks9574
    @mks9574 Рік тому +97

    East Asian racism is more widely accepted. Nowadays, many people agree that black stereotypes are bad, but when is comes to other minorities (Asians specifically), the stereotypes are more commonly expressed. I've heard a lot of teachers say "What happened to your Asian genes" and everyone in the class starts laughing. While in comparison, if a teacher said a stereotype about black people, it would probably end up with them getting fired.
    Black hate is more worldwide, however. Many people from other countries believe that black people are more dangerous and are scared of them due to a lot of the media they intake.
    What's interesting to me is that depending on where you are in Asia, black people can be seen as scary or super cool and people to look up to.
    Also, about the Model Minority: Any and all stereotypes are harmful. I personally don't like how that girl skipped over the negatives of that.
    Another thing, racism and colorism aren't the same thing!!!

  • @wblue812
    @wblue812 7 місяців тому +37

    As African Americans we need to start changing our culture and making it more healthier and start destroying the dysfunctional behavior within our own community's!

    • @VintageFuture_
      @VintageFuture_ 3 місяці тому +2

      As a black American we need to fix ourselves individually so we can make the country we're living in a better country.

    • @RealKoolKid1
      @RealKoolKid1 Місяць тому

      @@Rajasekaran19948I’m sure you do because it confirms your racist bias!

  • @rizaaliyah
    @rizaaliyah 3 роки тому +6412

    People fail to recognize that Southeast and South Asians exist, whenever they hear “Asian” they think lighter skin, they think Korean, Japanese or Chinese..
    Whenever i mention to someone that i’m Filipino, they go “so you’re not Asian?” like ???
    Asia is not a monolith. In fact, it is incredibly diverse.

    • @poojas7869
      @poojas7869 3 роки тому +131

      YES!

    • @Username-lt7lt
      @Username-lt7lt 3 роки тому +326

      It's because they're ignorant and have never listened in history class.

    • @PyanY
      @PyanY 3 роки тому +21

      Yes!

    • @dorkability
      @dorkability 3 роки тому +493

      I think future Jubilee videos need to differentiate between East Asians and South Asians. These are two completely different experiences. It's like saying Latinos and White Americans have a comparable experience just because they're both from the Americas.

    • @sabrinamourah1647
      @sabrinamourah1647 3 роки тому +90

      Exactly! Asia is huge but people always refer to those three countries when there are various ethnicities, all of them really unique.

  • @jacooplax
    @jacooplax 3 роки тому +6424

    That 1 girl saying that East Asians have more of an advantage than South East Asians hit hard because we're not always perceived as smart and mostly only as laborers

    • @MyStaryStaryNight
      @MyStaryStaryNight 3 роки тому +696

      Yeah the lighter asian hates the darker Asian and I'm southeast asian. It sad, because even asian are very segrated by color and class

    • @tendou._7320
      @tendou._7320 3 роки тому +360

      @@MyStaryStaryNight Because in east Asia they find 'lighter skin' more beautiful, and dark skin ugly which is very sad.

    • @awisepolarbear.3211
      @awisepolarbear.3211 3 роки тому +81

      @@tendou._7320 yup my family is like that they wanted me to get light skin.

    • @crystaly7159
      @crystaly7159 3 роки тому +93

      @@MyStaryStaryNight STOP IT. i don't and I know a plenty who don't hate Southeast Asians. I'm Korean and it saddens me whenever I see southeast Asians saying stuff like that about East Asians. Have you ever been to East Asia? Ive been to SEA and have met various types of people. Had met both bad and good people but I don't generalize the whole SEAsian people as bad just cuz i almost got scammed, wrongly touched/groped, had people who constantly tried to sell me stuff. Ive made amazing local friends who welcomed me with their open arms, showed me around their country, invited me to their houses and showed generosity.

    • @nicknatsvlishvili8343
      @nicknatsvlishvili8343 3 роки тому +36

      we west asians always get rejected
      lol

  • @karaeats8118
    @karaeats8118 2 місяці тому +49

    Asians helped build this country . They built the Transcontinental Railroad and then were all murdered after completion. Every ethnicity has helped build this country not just one group.

    • @tramarthomas6105
      @tramarthomas6105 8 днів тому +1

      What you're saying is true, duh, but that's unrelated to what she was talking about specifically

    • @laurencameron3150
      @laurencameron3150 5 днів тому +2

      They helped build it most likely from the money gained from slavery

  • @21andyyc
    @21andyyc 5 місяців тому +12

    I'm Asian and I've had a black girlfriend, white girlfriend and Asian girlfriend. When I went to my black girlfriends house her brothers would make fun of me openly about being Asian but didn't have any negative intent. When I went to my white girlfriends house, her parents would be verbally nice but stare at me with disapproval. When I went to my Asian girlfriends house her parents would ask me how much money I make and if I can help their son get a job. Everyone has their stereotypes and are racist to some degree. Your viewpoints are shaped by the world around you and how you are treated by a certain group/race will shape how you interact with them and your feelings towards them.

  • @London.g14
    @London.g14 3 роки тому +14288

    I'm not Asian but I will say this; I feel there needs to be more representation when it comes to Asian-related topics. Indians, Sri Lankans, Filipinos, Indonesians, Malaysians, Pakistanis, Bangladeshi, Afghanistanis, Nepalese, Iraqis and Iranians are also Asians and are from the continent of Asia. I also noticed, when it comes to Asian related topics/discussions, I hardly see South Asian people (India, Pakistan and so on) being represented

    • @camerynr8344
      @camerynr8344 3 роки тому +787

      i clicked on this video as a black girl who lives near a large community of south asians and is was a little surprised there wasn’t one.

    • @voxschultz3958
      @voxschultz3958 3 роки тому +535

      @@rndmusrnm2763 The Middle East is part of the continent of Asia, so yes.

    • @Adam-xy4ny
      @Adam-xy4ny 3 роки тому +294

      @@rndmusrnm2763 It is called west Asia lol, the Middle East is west Asia plus North Africa

    • @singbin
      @singbin 3 роки тому +225

      Even though we're all Asians but many Asians didn't claim India or Pakistan as Asian... lol

    • @singbin
      @singbin 3 роки тому +20

      @@rndmusrnm2763 Google existed for a reason.

  • @demetrondotson6956
    @demetrondotson6956 3 роки тому +15453

    I will always be triggered by another Black American being racist towards any race... Like We of all people should know how hurtful that is and we should always strive to never put anyone through that.

    • @glennrhee6832
      @glennrhee6832 3 роки тому +1970

      Same and then I see other black people my age say crazy things about other people but lose their minds when they say something back

    • @ajones2367
      @ajones2367 3 роки тому +710

      it irks my nerves tbh

    • @akuaik.100
      @akuaik.100 3 роки тому +553

      Same, it pisses me off so much

    • @LeondreWilsono0o
      @LeondreWilsono0o 3 роки тому +839

      Thats why I hate Tiktok it's literally a place were black creators make hundreds off of insulting white people. It's disgusting.

    • @taliaiaaiia
      @taliaiaaiia 3 роки тому +709

      @@LeondreWilsono0o Tiktok overall is disgusting. It promotes bad habits and it is just extremely unhealthy. But I hope people start becoming less gullible and less ignorant on that app. Majority of users on tiktok are those things and when that racist negativity is on peoples “fyp”s it spreads that gross mentality and makes people think it’s okay since a black creator/poc creator posted it. It’s terrible

  • @froggielady3204
    @froggielady3204 Рік тому +206

    Wow. This was just, wow. The end where they are self reflecting gives me hope because this pretty much just proved that anyone of any color can be very racist to others and to their own race. That judging a book by it's cover is wrong.

  • @ittamm3818
    @ittamm3818 Рік тому +77

    in mycountry, we have a national motto that says "unity in diversity" what this means is that even though we have different ethnicities, cultures, races, religions, and etc our nation is one unit.

    • @meganaxeliar
      @meganaxeliar Рік тому +4

      that isn’t a ‘nation’ then.
      a ‘nation’ is a land representative of an ethnic demographic.
      you simply live in a country/economic zone.

    • @bubullibooooo9928
      @bubullibooooo9928 Рік тому +12

      @@meganaxeliar There are MANY non homogeneous countries/ nations.

    • @meganaxeliar
      @meganaxeliar Рік тому +6

      @@bubullibooooo9928
      Countries, yes. Nations, no.
      A ‘nation’ is the land of an ethnic peoples. Often American politicians and all like to appropriate the term ‘nation’ to falsely allude to their country being more unified and ‘bound to them by blood’.

    • @cheesecakeisgross4645
      @cheesecakeisgross4645 Рік тому

      There is no unity in diversity..

    • @mayoiko
      @mayoiko Рік тому

      yeah but then the muslims start to burn churches and the javanese be all racist to chinese people, also every muslim in our country hate the jews. my catholic friend was discriminated by muslims, and i have a lot of friends from NTT in my major and other major/faculties in our campus do look down on them simply because they look different. we do have idealistic national motto but that doesnt mean we are clean from racism or bigotry.

  • @neemasjourney1465
    @neemasjourney1465 3 роки тому +7881

    Tony has such a heart and you can really see that he is trying to understand and be compassionate. It is just refreshing to see.

    • @0shawhat
      @0shawhat 3 роки тому +270

      That's def an example that we all should be! Be compassionate to understand each other's perspectives :)

    • @RY-os9vw
      @RY-os9vw 3 роки тому +102

      I love his heart!

    • @Unknown16537
      @Unknown16537 3 роки тому +168

      He was so sweet 😭😭😭 bless his heart. I hope they can all become great friends after this

    • @missshannonsunshine
      @missshannonsunshine 3 роки тому +122

      Right he was crying and I wanted to give him a hug

    • @cosmeticaffairs7220
      @cosmeticaffairs7220 3 роки тому +65

      He made me cry.

  • @akino5795
    @akino5795 3 роки тому +5945

    In Asian cultures, colorism is a huge issue my parents would jokingly tell me to bleach my skin.

    • @eyeyamjstn628
      @eyeyamjstn628 3 роки тому +198

      Same lol, not as exaggerated as yours but people have told me that I’m dark but I’m light af in reality

    • @samcruz7782
      @samcruz7782 3 роки тому +190

      same especially as a filipino

    • @kg2002
      @kg2002 3 роки тому +46

      @@shegoblin4014 please don’t use God’s name in vain

    • @shegoblin4014
      @shegoblin4014 3 роки тому +21

      @@kg2002 ok sorry

    • @iyang2341
      @iyang2341 3 роки тому +158

      @@kg2002 stop gettin offended snowflake oh my god

  • @Kendralovesskincare
    @Kendralovesskincare Рік тому +67

    Tony I love you... Your heart is so kind, your empathetic and genuine. Your parents taught you well and I hope they are proud of the beautiful human they have contributed to this sometimes ugly world❤️

    • @Jacobson42
      @Jacobson42 7 місяців тому

      at least asians are not attacking elderly and raping and killing women like b-lacks. b-lacks are the one who are attacking us.

  • @veedge1
    @veedge1 Рік тому +21

    @jubilee you guys really need to come to South Africa. The conversations that need to be heard from our perspective would shock a lot of people.

    • @nikrose5229
      @nikrose5229 Рік тому +1

      They dont care about South Africa. They only care about creating racial division in America

    • @adaezeokafor2242
      @adaezeokafor2242 Рік тому

      Yes like the xenophobic mindset, alarming black on black crimes

  • @jkkmane
    @jkkmane 2 роки тому +4582

    When that lady said Asians never been oppressed, she must not know the history of korea and Japan lol.

    • @riz5303
      @riz5303 2 роки тому +375

      yeah, we are still even oppressed now

    • @user-tq9vs6fc9u
      @user-tq9vs6fc9u 2 роки тому +858

      Yep another reason Asian American history needs to be taught in the US. We have entire generations of people not knowing that Asians have dealt with racism and oppression.

    • @RS-on3lp
      @RS-on3lp 2 роки тому +517

      And the history of Chinese Americans, which is brutal and silent. As a half Asian half white person, I read about it for the first time (because our schools teach us nothing about AAPI history) and I cried.

    • @nikhilprem7998
      @nikhilprem7998 2 роки тому +42

      bruhhhh heard of some thing like yellow peril etc.. but that was for chinese

    • @user-tq9vs6fc9u
      @user-tq9vs6fc9u 2 роки тому +156

      @@RS-on3lp I’m Asian American and learned more Asian American history from FACEBOOK than all of my years in school from elementary school to the end of HS combined. University was better but there is always more room to improve though.

  • @JovanLatte
    @JovanLatte 3 роки тому +13457

    PLEASE do black Americans and Africans! Seriously. That is so beyond over needed.

    • @putent9623
      @putent9623 3 роки тому +526

      Im african so j can definitely clarify that african people do not in any way whatsoever agree with these black americans.
      Edit: just gonna add this in.
      Half of the people here saying "I'm africa and you do not speak for me"
      1. Do you genuinely think I'm trying to make a broad statement. What do you think I was expecting people to actually leave a like on my comment, just randomly commented what I can almost guarantee is true and that's it.
      2. You can't say "I live in africa" then also mention places like sudan. That's like calling your self an Asian just because you live in India (even though it's technically true). Also I'm hating the sass coming from you guys, it's the most passive aggressive crap I've seen in a while and its also cringe, like "omg gosshshshh you do not speak for me sister 👁️👄👁️"

    • @yvankate2248
      @yvankate2248 3 роки тому +116

      Yesssss Am african and I REALLY wanna see this

    • @zebibtekle4889
      @zebibtekle4889 3 роки тому +19

      @@GeronFletcher I was going to mention The Grapevine

    • @zebibtekle4889
      @zebibtekle4889 3 роки тому +254

      ​@@putent9623 you can't speak for all Africans. I'm a Black African and I agree with the Black American cast. Plus, how are you going to negate their experience?

    • @chaizan9733
      @chaizan9733 3 роки тому +63

      How about african americans and africans period. It would be interesting to see arabs, amazighs, kurds brought into tge conversation as well.

  • @buttercup293
    @buttercup293 6 місяців тому +7

    Wow, Tony. You touched my heart. So empathetic and kind, always willing to listen and educate yourself.

  • @greencowtd
    @greencowtd Рік тому +173

    Ya know, I’m glad I watched this. 1) I’m glad to see our two cultures finally having this discussion 2) I’m glad to be acknowledged as a black person that they are aware that their community does this and 3) I’m glad that no all Asians believe in disliking us

    • @ademolaabu372
      @ademolaabu372 Рік тому +4

      They just being funny not racist cause they were the first great people of earth. These ones should go and ask there eldest people in their communities how they first made relationships with black people before caucasions.

    • @rustysky81
      @rustysky81 Рік тому

      Most Asians dislike black people. And if I narrow it down then it will be African Americans. Now some of us know the difference between a black person and a megro. Unfortunately the African American diaspora is probably 30% black and 70% megro.

    • @59Gretsch
      @59Gretsch 8 місяців тому

      Get serious, these two “communities” or not talking or getting together this is simply a UA-cam production. These two groups are as opposite as any two groups in the world, how can you find common ground?

  • @TheErsu
    @TheErsu 3 роки тому +2803

    Generalizing based on skin colour is bad, no matter who does it. No one should do it.

    • @lighgblue2676
      @lighgblue2676 3 роки тому +17

      I agree :)

    • @yolandaperry86
      @yolandaperry86 3 роки тому +11

      Exactly!

    • @laurenpulley9855
      @laurenpulley9855 3 роки тому +55

      Exactly! I don’t mind the idea of two minority groups discussing their issues. But when they were saying like “Asian people keep to themselves” - that’s a huge generalisation. Like it’s not based on whether they’re Asian or not to act like this??

    • @sesameshroom8768
      @sesameshroom8768 3 роки тому +18

      Exactly, there’s no such thing as ‘they can fight their own battles’ when it comes to things like this. You don’t get a pass for generalizing others if you are a victim

    • @kukguroki4179
      @kukguroki4179 3 роки тому +19

      And you’re the same kind of person to generalise whites

  • @somebodyoulove
    @somebodyoulove 3 роки тому +5941

    This is beautiful. Still waiting on the Black American vs Immigrant Blacks / first generation African Americans episode.

    • @Tron8147
      @Tron8147 3 роки тому +120

      Don’t get me started on that!

    • @abidanielson2747
      @abidanielson2747 3 роки тому +77

      yesss i really want to see that episodes 🇪🇷

    • @smartie3445
      @smartie3445 3 роки тому +21

      Yesss, I need this

    • @Princess0ftheLight
      @Princess0ftheLight 3 роки тому +60

      Definitely! There’s a lot to unpack there.

    • @Tron8147
      @Tron8147 3 роки тому +54

      It’s so frustrating with my moms side from Jamaica and my dad from America.... yes we need this

  • @martiwaterman1437
    @martiwaterman1437 Рік тому +19

    As an older person who has experienced a lot of what is being discussed today, I'm proud of these young people for breaking barriers and having conversations that my generation never had. Conversations that were sorely lacking but very much needed decades ago.

  • @shainahuntsberry6758
    @shainahuntsberry6758 Рік тому +89

    The Black and Asian communities have so much more in common than what is realized and seeing this connection formed through this beautiful conversation is truly inspiring. Together, we can do more and build each other up. That duo is beyond powerful and I hope to see more of it:)

    • @agustin2812
      @agustin2812 Рік тому

      Asians are much more racist than whites. the Chinese, Japanese and Hindus pff very racist.

    • @pinheadlarry4538
      @pinheadlarry4538 Рік тому

      @@agustin2812 Blacks are more racist than everyone most anti-Asian hate crimes are committed by Black people

    • @SkankHunt42isback
      @SkankHunt42isback Рік тому +1

      Yup the asians own nice stuff, and the blacks own the asians stuff after they rob them.

    • @Mylesknox
      @Mylesknox Рік тому

      @@pinheadlarry4538if black people were truly the most racist would they have fought for civil rights and immigration reform? Which paved the way for every non black person in America to even come? NO! The only thanks black people got was a spit in there face

    • @sidogga1234
      @sidogga1234 Рік тому

      White people will be scared when all minorities band together to suppress racial discrimination and white supremacy.

  • @Hannah-ur3ks
    @Hannah-ur3ks 3 роки тому +3492

    A lot of the “good” stereotypes associated with Asian people does undermine the work and the person behind those stereotypes. Like, you’re good at math or so and so because you’re Asian not because you worked hard and dismisses the struggle behind the success. Often when I was younger a lot of the things I worked hard on was dismissed because I was Asian and was never given the help I needed. Either way stereotypes are bad and harmful.

    • @hh-2839
      @hh-2839 3 роки тому +156

      yeah. I think that's why she put it in quotes. it's like thats not a good stereotype but it's better than everyone assuming you're a thug or ghetto because those stereotypes are the ones that more often endanger you.

    • @drunkenlilTIFFY1990
      @drunkenlilTIFFY1990 3 роки тому +7

      Not really. Stereotypes aren’t always bad. It’s a defense for our minds. I’ve take. Sociology and it’s actually not entirely bad.

    • @theunitedkingdom
      @theunitedkingdom 3 роки тому +91

      @@drunkenlilTIFFY1990 “Good” stereotypes have always harmed us.

    • @FNAFCREW
      @FNAFCREW 3 роки тому +23

      I feel like a lot of these comments are negative and just talking abt how one side was afraid to speak up blah blah blah but in reality the questions they asked were terrible they were basically asking like “who’s more oppressed” and when you ask stuff like that it’s only going to cause more division i think they should’ve asked more question and more things more so on the understanding side bcuz right now all i see in the comments are black and asians trying to state how the “other side” vise versa didn’t mention there problems enough and that’s where division gets created😐

    • @Chill-mm4pn
      @Chill-mm4pn 3 роки тому +30

      That's messed up, I remember reading a post on reddit from an asian guy with adhd. He talked about how his parents and other people expected him to do well in school just because he's asian eventhough his adhd makes it difficult. I have it as well so I can relate to him on that level.

  • @sselemaNrM
    @sselemaNrM 3 роки тому +14418

    I would really ike to see African Americans and Africans. Would be really interesting to see cultural values and lifestyle differences!

  • @lazybum6387
    @lazybum6387 Рік тому +17

    this is one of the most heart warming and eye opener middle ground episode that I've watched.

  • @candacedolls4048
    @candacedolls4048 8 місяців тому +2

    I love TONY. The compassion is so appreciated

  • @jenttn1121
    @jenttn1121 3 роки тому +3575

    I was incredibly disappointed by this discussion. The Black American perspective of Asian Americans here is the reason why Asian Americans need more representation. Asian American communities are complex, just like black communities. The values of Asian Americans differ with generation, age, country of origin, reason for immigration, and the area in America in which they settled. This could've been an educational discussion on the Asian American experience that is long overdue, but it fell flat.

    • @Joseph-zd7kg
      @Joseph-zd7kg 3 роки тому +92

      I couldn't agree with you more

    • @thevipblink8571
      @thevipblink8571 3 роки тому +20

      👏👏👏

    • @glowcat5691
      @glowcat5691 3 роки тому +67

      true, I wanted to see both sides of perspective. Love this vid do, shows us minorities have to stick together

    • @keniku
      @keniku 3 роки тому +267

      Yes, I agree Jubilee should have opened the discussion enough to talk about the oppressive history Asians have also suffered. However, the biggest issue they needed to address here was the legitimate privilege East Asians tend to have over the Black community. We, too, need to check our privilege to open the conversation. Maybe Jubilee will ask these necessary questions next time!

    • @singbin
      @singbin 3 роки тому +21

      oh, boo hoo. keep crying...

  • @Cocolocomococrazy
    @Cocolocomococrazy 3 роки тому +650

    An East Asian vs. South Asian episode would be very interesting bc I don’t think a lot of people understand there is more to “Asian”.

    • @ishwaaq191
      @ishwaaq191 3 роки тому +38

      Yeah I’ve seen that in the U.S, Asians are considered to be East Asians, whereas in the U.K Asians are considered to be south East Asians . I think it’s to do with the population of South east and East Asians in the country

    • @malachy2515
      @malachy2515 3 роки тому +34

      @@ishwaaq191 Don't people in the UK think of South Asians first when they hear the term "Asian"?
      East Asian - China, Korea, Japan, Taiwan
      South East Asian - Indochina, Indonesia, Phillipines
      South Asian - Pakistan, India, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka, etc.

    • @FrankiePacino
      @FrankiePacino 3 роки тому

      Asian vs Japanese would be good too bring some of grandmas too would be must watch

    • @raindrop3280
      @raindrop3280 3 роки тому +1

      @@malachy2515 We do, yeah. They're right in it likely being due to differing demographics, though. With that said, the US seems to do their demographics really weirdly and seems to just group Asians in together with no further breakdown, so I can't say for certain.

    • @user-Void-Star
      @user-Void-Star 3 роки тому

      You mean brown and yellow?

  • @aprilfarley6875
    @aprilfarley6875 Рік тому +152

    I definitely believe this should be a topic that is continuously talked about. Growing up as a black American ive faced many instances of micro aggression and/or straight out racism everywhere I go. I am currently pursuing a degree in East Asian Languages , Literatures and cultures (Chinese) because I enjoy the culture and have a huge passion to teach English. One of my biggest aspirations was to bridge gaps. As I gradually meet successes , I get anxious. The fact that Racism is so heavy in China and being who I am , its hard having to prepare myself to be misunderstood and/or mistreated. In both communities, we have faced so many similar things and as I grow up , It is exhausting to have your skin become a misjudgement everywhere you go.

    • @bridgetjoyce469
      @bridgetjoyce469 Рік тому

      Really. Try being a white American, they are bullied and jumped by non whites, in school, malls, any where. Bring raised from birth to hate a certain race is not promoting humanity

    • @bleepblop9561
      @bleepblop9561 Рік тому +20

      Chinese person here and I greatly appreciate your effort in taking interest and learning about Chinese, genuinely. I hope you can study in peace despite the micro aggressions and racism cuz I really understand how bad it is there in China and it really hurts to see how misinformed and clueless China can be about poc

    • @memrman8331
      @memrman8331 Рік тому

      Um….China is like the most racist place you can go, my family is from there, lets just say they aren’t very open minded

  • @user-bb6jr2ss2d
    @user-bb6jr2ss2d 5 місяців тому +11

    I would love to see a debate between Black-Americans and Mexican-Americans because I also do notice a lot of tension between these two groups.

  • @giacominaj5601
    @giacominaj5601 3 роки тому +728

    Tony seems so kind and loving. It really says something by the way he choked up talking about black discrimination in the workplace-you can tell he cares.

    • @WesleyC5771
      @WesleyC5771 3 роки тому +47

      @Caleb DeCoteau Why do you feel that way?

    • @WesleyC5771
      @WesleyC5771 3 роки тому +45

      @Caleb DeCoteau okay but what does this have to do with Tony being a disappointment?

    • @WesleyC5771
      @WesleyC5771 3 роки тому +30

      @Caleb DeCoteau Well are you going to explain? I’m genuinely curious.

    • @the_other_michael2
      @the_other_michael2 3 роки тому +54

      @Caleb DeCoteau I have come across quite a few of your responses in this comment section. You seem to harbor a lot of resentment towards African Americans, I would really like to discuss why that is if you don't mind.

    • @the_other_michael2
      @the_other_michael2 3 роки тому +32

      @Caleb DeCoteau I googled and there were three main articles from 1997, 2010 and 2020. The 2010 article detailed the strenuous relationship between the African American community and the Asian community as the latter felt they were the target of to roberries from members of the former community. The police didn't feel it was racially motivated which frustrated the shop owners who felt their plight was falling on deaf ears. They also noted that due to the language barrier most shop owners weren't reporting the issues which only further exacerbated the issues.
      If this is the source of your resentment and frustration I completely understand. I just feel like if you color all black people with the same brush and refuse to interact with them you effectively hinder conversation about the issues. It's not all African Americans that are doing this, those that are, are clearly reprehensible and if you come into the conversation with your grievances and less insults you may very well find allyship in African Americans who would condemn the actions of those who are being prejudiced against your brethren. It is clear that African Americans can be prejudiced too and everyone should try to work together to be empathetic and understand each other.
      I am really keen to discuss your experiences, as I believe you may have been hurt by others and I would just like to extend an olive branch

  • @torilu3272
    @torilu3272 3 роки тому +2651

    i’m really disappointed that the conversation was almost fully about oppression vs. oppression rather than the similarities of our cultures. It also made me sad to see that neither side really talked about the historic sides to oppression that both races have faced. i love love love jubilee but as an asian american i didn’t feel represented in the slightest nor did i find the conversation productive.

    • @therealmemalapane3491
      @therealmemalapane3491 3 роки тому +90

      It's about them being allies not about their culture

    • @millzz
      @millzz 3 роки тому +274

      Fully agree. This whole conversation looks more like a game of "you oppressed me, you oppressed me too" instead of "WE'VE been oppressed as people of colour" and talking more about similar struggles and celebrations.

    • @jiggzstarr
      @jiggzstarr 3 роки тому +47

      I agree but I also think any discussion of racial tension is productive as it's so lacking in our culture and in the world overall.

    • @jahsworld9456
      @jahsworld9456 3 роки тому +40

      YESSS I completely agree I feel like with a lot of poc it’s a competition for them, like who was more oppressed and that is not the case that shouldn’t be the case and I feel like because of that it can create some animosity between two ethnic groups when it shouldn’t.

    • @AndreTJones
      @AndreTJones 3 роки тому +26

      I somewhat agree. There’s a type of “Oppression Olympics”. Given the format of the show it was bound to result in the conversation. I think the ending was a lot better.

  • @ebonysharee
    @ebonysharee Рік тому +11

    One thing I know about Black folks is we patronize Asian businesses a lot. From food to hair...we don't shy away at ALL. I grew up in Seattle where there are so many different Asian restaurants. My aunt also worked in a Cantonese restaurant in St. Louis so, I even learned how to make Egg Foo Young too! It's really all about how you view the world around you and what you are willing to learn and teach. I am so happy with my upbringing because it taught me to respect other cultures that were different from me and embrace others. I think it is SO important to unify. They want to divide and conquer but it's up to us to reject that. *my two cents*

  • @enchanted0583
    @enchanted0583 Рік тому +2

    Great and honest conversation 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @mokatinker6142
    @mokatinker6142 3 роки тому +3359

    I would really like to see Indigenous Americans vs Black Americans

    • @ClayMastah344
      @ClayMastah344 3 роки тому +50

      Same! That’d be something to seen

    • @JosephYZWang
      @JosephYZWang 3 роки тому +253

      Native Americans vs White Conservatives or Evangelicals :P
      Edit: sry didn’t know “American Indian” wasn’t a thing

    • @WhoCaresInc21
      @WhoCaresInc21 3 роки тому +165

      @@JosephYZWang Oh god. I can already see the answers to the, "Americans are living on stolen land," question.

    • @baileyelisejasperson8260
      @baileyelisejasperson8260 3 роки тому +114

      That would be interesting. I am an Indigenous person, and my tribes had conflict with the African Americans in my area. It's because some of our people were forced to marry slaves, so some of the black people are sort of related to us. But they're not related enough that they fit the blood requirement.

    • @brookdaniels8219
      @brookdaniels8219 3 роки тому +81

      @@baileyelisejasperson8260 also in some cases natives owned slaveszzzz

  • @HI-hb5yf
    @HI-hb5yf 3 роки тому +2625

    They should’ve thrown in two blasian one raised with their black family and the other raised by their Asian family

    • @jbarral6509
      @jbarral6509 3 роки тому +75

      I would be in awe to see that

    • @cristiany3285
      @cristiany3285 3 роки тому +32

      And I would have been the blasian

    • @f.k6920
      @f.k6920 3 роки тому +17

      No that would complicate things

    • @sortaizzy
      @sortaizzy 3 роки тому +3

      Yes!! I was thinking that too!

    • @alorhamahal
      @alorhamahal 3 роки тому +1

      Yes

  • @greghimm2753
    @greghimm2753 Рік тому +4

    Blks: I’m the victim.
    Asians: No, I’m the victim.
    Middle Eastern: No, I’m the victim.
    Latinos: I’m the victim.
    Women: I’m the victim.
    Men: I’m the victim.
    Whites: I’m the victim.
    Liberals: I’m the victim.
    Conservatives: I’m the victim.
    Moms: I’m the victim.
    Dads: I’m the victim.
    Kids: I’m the victim.
    Walmart: I’m the victim.
    You want me to keep going? I can do this all day and act like I’m doing something important and positive to change the world.

  • @marlenahood5350
    @marlenahood5350 Рік тому +6

    I'm somebody who loves East and South Asian culture- having some of it in my ancestry, too, though not appearing as such. I especially love Korean culture and I'm semi-fluent in Korean. I've always been told by my family members that Asian people feel uncomfortable around Black people. This video provides comfort within me.

  • @xd-wk3hp
    @xd-wk3hp 3 роки тому +2151

    reminder that asia isn’t just east asia... there’s south asia, south east asia, central asia, and western asia. edit: jubilee said in the comments below that this video was focused on east asian americans finding common ground with black americans.

    • @dominicpersaud1155
      @dominicpersaud1155 3 роки тому +7

      @Mr Doggo Lads Lol facts

    • @dr.woozie7500
      @dr.woozie7500 3 роки тому +182

      This is an American thing. In the UK, “Asians” refer to South Asians from India, Pakistan, etc.

    • @amirulazizol844
      @amirulazizol844 3 роки тому +14

      southeast asia as well

    • @xd-wk3hp
      @xd-wk3hp 3 роки тому +2

      @@dr.woozie7500 yeah that’s completely true, i was speaking from an american stance anyways😅

    • @Sachin25279
      @Sachin25279 3 роки тому +15

      @@dr.woozie7500 ikr I’m an English-Indian person and when people over here say Asian they mean people from all of Asia, not a specific area

  • @whisper2284
    @whisper2284 3 роки тому +2541

    That Asian guy is such a beautiful human being. I cried along with him. Humans hurt one another unnecessarily.

    • @remedytee
      @remedytee 3 роки тому +46

      His emotions are real. He starts of by saying that he wasn't privileged because of the color of his skin, only to follow it up (next sentence) by saying that people tell him he's eloquent and intelligent... i would argue that at least some of it is based on merit and education

    • @whisper2284
      @whisper2284 3 роки тому +14

      @@remedytee I hear ya. Privilege is rarely so simple. For example Pretty privilege is based upon someone’s appearance being considered attractive by the greater society. Their beauty was bestowed upon them through DNA, good genes and a societal definition of beauty that is based on their proximity to a white standard. However, consistent exercise, good diet, hydration and consistent skin care regimen play a role in it as well. There are many factors at play, but the underlying fact is society defines attractiveness. Just like the United States created the Model Minority Myth which gave Asians the space to better their status after the 1965 Immigration Act. An Act that came about as a result of Black Americans fighting for Civil Rights. Asians also benefited from Affirmative Action, Small loans to Minorities, establishment of opportunity zones in inner city neighborhoods so Asians could open businesses and receive tax breaks, and a whole host of other programs that Blacks were denied but were put in place because Black Americans fought for them. It is unfortunate to see how many educated Asians don’t understand the history of their rise in the United States, and the important role that Black Americans played in their ascension.

    • @remedytee
      @remedytee 3 роки тому +1

      @@whisper2284 You are right about beauty standards. I think all races are susceptible to this all over the world. Someone who is handsome will have different interactions (but prejudices too). Yes, we live in a Western society that has idealized beauty for thousands of years. E.g. Spartans, but in fact thoughout Greek and Roman culture. Not saying that all Westerns are attractive though. But apart from racial tendencies..
      In the US people were sterilized up until the 60s (white people included) for not adhering to certain standards, so let's not take it personal 😅

    • @remedytee
      @remedytee 3 роки тому +1

      @@whisper2284 About these beauty standards... it is kind of normal that those who resemble white people have a "better shot", it's still a society governed by the West. It has its flaws, but what do you suggest? To implement African institutions? Asian?
      About the rights evolution and the impact of African Americans... i have no knowledge about that. But I imagine the impact was substantial. Can't imagine Asians raising their voice (that's a joke, no pun intended... I'm from Asian descent myself) 😂

    • @whisper2284
      @whisper2284 3 роки тому +1

      @@remedytee it is normal for the group that has the greatest power to define beauty in their own image. What is not okay about it is when that power broker hides the history of how the standard was conceived. There is no denying that the western powers’ advanced military methods, and weapons, warfare tactics and technological innovations have allowed them to amass great fortunes and power. That is an amazing fait accompli and their triumphs and success deserve acknowledgement. Yet, there is the problematic side of western powers that distorts history through omission and telling an incomplete story about the world.. Great Civilizations far older than Europe and America are rising again and will force a shift in all standards including beauty. China is becoming a massive Power broker, and India is developing at a fast pace. Investment in Africa is increasing considering Africa holds almost 60% of the world’s natural wealth in resources. The power balance will restructure and those peoples will want the world to know about their Dynasties and histories. Westerners will be forced to tell the truth about the past due to social media or get left behind. The standard will change via globalization. We already see China’s impact on Africa, the Caribbean and Central America. China’s model is NOT colonization. It is INVESTMENT in Infrastructure and Business. The locals can see the immediate benefits when the Chinese arrive unlike the Europeans and Americans who come there to extract resources, cause civil unrest and leave those countries poor and in debt to them.

  • @ZanyJr
    @ZanyJr 7 місяців тому +1

    I do love the mini debates that are discussed in Jubilee's panels.
    It's nice to see majority topics are being agreed upon, but I also feel that not everything is discussed.
    Like University's acceptance rate by race, majority crime rates by population percentage, and etc.
    Perhaps inviting people (maybe Vince Dao) with different opinions, might spark more controversial conversations.
    This episode felt kind of shy about this topic and I was hoping that both sides would tackle more into the discussion.
    It would be great to see a redo of this video with more different diverse opinions.

  • @khaosleigon504
    @khaosleigon504 8 місяців тому +8

    After watching this (and in my feelings after this conversation with tears of happiness) I really wanna say Asians are really dope people and I hope we can definitely come together as a people to love and learn from each other because us blacks and Asians are so much alike 😊

    • @YayaToure1247
      @YayaToure1247 24 дні тому

      They have no similarities what so ever not even a single similarity

  • @fionagallagherapologist5968
    @fionagallagherapologist5968 3 роки тому +7689

    i wish they spoke more about the racism against asians in the black community because it exists! they go through a lot of discrimination as well, it may not be as "huge" as anti-blackness in the asian community but its still present and should be talked about
    edit : i see a lot of debate in the comments about which issue is "bigger" and that is so insane to me because both issues are important and should be talked about. that is not to erase the horrific consequences of anti-blackness but my og comment was about THIS video in particular, and in this video they barely talked about racism against asian people in the black community which is aggravating because to solve an issue, every side must be heard.

    • @Chaipuffai
      @Chaipuffai 3 роки тому +777

      I totally agree! I live in one of the most racially segregated cities of my state, and if I actually pay attention to what others say, I can hear some African Americans make some really rude and discriminatory remarks towards their fellow Asian peers. However, the same goes from the Asians to the African Americans .

    • @elainexiao8086
      @elainexiao8086 3 роки тому +480

      same here! i wish linh brought up her encounter with a black man to the group-it felt like that tension didn't really get relieved for her. all of the black participants admitted to coming with stereotypes about the asian community (being a passive monolith that only cares about themselves), but i feel like they didn't really touch on that enough. Eg. bad driver is definitely NOT the worst of it, and there are many negative aspects to "positive" stereotypes too. I hate how the model minority myth has intentionally segregated minorities in this competition of who's more "white" or who's more oppressed, and I felt like the prompts jubilee gave kinda perpetuated this competition. i wish this was way longer and unedited because this is a SUPER important convo to have. would've loved to see more questions about media portrayal, colorism, affirmative action, etc!

    • @heulwan
      @heulwan 3 роки тому +367

      I was waiting for this to be brought up in the discussion but it wasn't! As an Asian growing up with predominantly black friends and spending a lot of time in black communities, I experienced a lot of prejudice but this reverse situation is rarely talked about.

    • @fionagallagherapologist5968
      @fionagallagherapologist5968 3 роки тому +269

      Elaine Xiao omg yeah !! the white privilege thing bugged me too because its simply not true :/ its a bit like they were minimizing the discrimination that asian people face literally everyday

    • @fionagallagherapologist5968
      @fionagallagherapologist5968 3 роки тому +63

      Ami im so sorry you had to go through that :( we have to do better

  • @RoseEyed
    @RoseEyed 3 роки тому +1888

    As a Black person with Asian family members these relationships fascinate me. Just important not to throw all of one group under the bus to the point we’re projecting negative things on individuals. Can’t wait to see the conversation!
    Update: Watching now. This is actually just as nuanced, well-rounded, and wholesome as I hoped it would be. I really do hope we can learn to come together en mass one day. We're SO MUCH stronger together than we are apart.
    Edit: Was NOT expecting this many likes y'all... Wow

    • @AxxLAfriku
      @AxxLAfriku 3 роки тому +2

      HELP MY!!! My muscles are too big! I am a big tall man and my muscles are even BIGGER! I use them to get views but they HURT so much!!! Because they are heavy. Do you have any advice, dear rose

    • @deepstariaenigmatica2601
      @deepstariaenigmatica2601 3 роки тому +1

      *twotter has joined the chat

    • @kei7540
      @kei7540 3 роки тому +18

      @@AxxLAfriku Sucks for you buddy

    • @gamejamxclan569
      @gamejamxclan569 3 роки тому +7

      @@AxxLAfriku ?

    • @breadst1c772
      @breadst1c772 3 роки тому +14

      @Caleb DeCoteau why are asians targeting black ppl worldwide?

  • @indigobeauty1
    @indigobeauty1 Рік тому +33

    Glad we're having these mature conversations...Love my Asian people 🤍

  • @Tony_Kaku
    @Tony_Kaku Рік тому +7

    Anime will bring both together.

  • @camilleboudville3043
    @camilleboudville3043 3 роки тому +3334

    As an Asian who has grown up in an Asian country, I have to agree with Tony. Racism is deeply embedded in many Asian cultures - colorism is alive and well in several countries, but I think there has been less of a drive to get rid of it. That being said, it is improving.

    • @loulousworld92
      @loulousworld92 3 роки тому +251

      @@Ethiopianexposer if you don’t care why are you watching the video and why even bother to comment under Camilla‘s post.

    • @manis8569
      @manis8569 3 роки тому +100

      India is fucked up with its colourism problems. When I was a kid and went to school there, even teachers would discriminate in class against the darker coloured kids.

    • @UzairKhan-qd3xu
      @UzairKhan-qd3xu 3 роки тому +50

      well INDIA's cosmetic industry is filled with FAIRNESS CREAMS so that tells a lot!

    • @fionagallagherapologist5968
      @fionagallagherapologist5968 3 роки тому +35

      i think its rooted in white supremacy tbh :(

    • @user-sq3ke5nz3l
      @user-sq3ke5nz3l 3 роки тому +40

      Colorism is rooted both in white supremacist hierarchies established through colonialism by Europeans, but also classism to some degree. The understanding of what race is is also very different from the US.
      Asians don’t adopt a collective pan-Asian identity before we move to a place where we are the minority.

  • @siathakur5847
    @siathakur5847 2 роки тому +4563

    As a South Asian living in America it's outstanding how many people don't even realize how racist they are to south asian and how normal it is for people to just think racism is okay towards south asians

    • @tsumi_the_hapa4009
      @tsumi_the_hapa4009 2 роки тому +175

      This is so true the amount of scrutiny south east Asians go through for just existing is so gross. No one deserves to be descriminated against

    • @tsumi_the_hapa4009
      @tsumi_the_hapa4009 2 роки тому +121

      And I'm sorry you have to go through what you go through when people think about asian they always think china, Korea, and Japan but never recognize countries like laos, Cambodia, and the Philippines

    • @lanajohnson7401
      @lanajohnson7401 2 роки тому +22

      South Asians are not successful. Thats why. Poor countries do not get the same respect obviously

    • @Jjhkljhhjj
      @Jjhkljhhjj 2 роки тому +86

      @@lanajohnson7401 the Indian immigrants are the most successful though. Indians make the most money out of every other ethnicity in the US, UK and Canada.

    • @NotJoegoldberg
      @NotJoegoldberg 2 роки тому +337

      @@lanajohnson7401 lol most indians living abroad especially in the US are super successful and wealthy but ok.

  • @khavoncarmelo1
    @khavoncarmelo1 9 місяців тому

    This has been my favorite group of individuals to have a difficult and open discussion.

  • @hydraelectricblue
    @hydraelectricblue Рік тому +74

    Oh this was an important one. Tye dye boy made me tear up. Also mind-blown when the one lady brought up that she knew she was viewed as a model minority but also pointed out that she knew she was being used by white people against black people. She’s playing chess not checkers. I loved the honesty in this.

    • @So-what692
      @So-what692 Рік тому +4

      Yes I wish more biracial people (blk/white mixture) could be this honest. Instead they project their emotions of not having “daddy” around and being raised by white women as a way of not feeling accepted by blk people yet in the same sentence claim they feel more accepted by blk people. most admit they were raised in predominantly white communities where they were treated and looked different than their peers and white family members. So why not express those same sentiments of not feeling accepted by the culture you are raised in. Instead they try to push acceptance onto blk people specifically blk women because they know there is a color hierarchy in the blk community…..

    • @hydraelectricblue
      @hydraelectricblue Рік тому +5

      @@So-what692 I'm actually biracial and I agree 100%. My community has some major issues with anti blackness and colonizer mindsets. I'm embarrassed how we've been all over TikTok. I've seen white people more educated about white supremacy than some biracial people are and it's embarrassing. I use to be uneducated but I was younger. There's no excuse for someone past a certain age acting like that. I was adopted and raised by a white conservative family in the South. If I can educate myself out of that type of thinking that I was raised with, anyone can.

    • @dariusbrown7870
      @dariusbrown7870 Рік тому +1

      I believe she was used by the one family she mentioned in particular but I wouldn’t generalize and say she was used by “white people” as sort of collective.

    • @vg7735
      @vg7735 7 місяців тому

      Just a way for her to not take responsibility for her own actions. Blame whitey for manipulating you. Big bad whitey.

  • @mew7661
    @mew7661 3 роки тому +2682

    I'd love to see something between African Americans and Black British people.

    • @scarlao
      @scarlao 3 роки тому +74

      I was about to comment the same! I wanna be on Middle Ground as a Black Brit

    • @cocoajames5
      @cocoajames5 3 роки тому +122

      most black british people are mostly from africa. so i believe that it should be africans that were born in europe/africa. my aunt is british-nigerian

    • @scarlao
      @scarlao 3 роки тому +125

      @@cocoajames5: that is not true. Most Black British people are from the Windrush Generation and generations that followed so most British people are Caribbean.

    • @cocoajames5
      @cocoajames5 3 роки тому +47

      @@scarlao well most black british in the media are mostly from sub saharan africa. i'm not saying that other groups of black people don't exist in britain, i'm just saying the ones that are most common.

    • @cocoajames5
      @cocoajames5 3 роки тому +15

      @@scarlao and as you know africa was colonized by europeans so that's why some countries may speak french or portuguese. it's like lagos nigeria. there's a city in portugal called lagos too. the portuguese colonized that part and named the city lagos. that's what my mom told me

  • @chihiroogino7464
    @chihiroogino7464 3 роки тому +558

    I appreciate Tony normalizing men getting emotional enough to shed a tear.

    • @j0sh_u_a892
      @j0sh_u_a892 3 роки тому +5

      Yes, I love it

    • @singbin
      @singbin 3 роки тому +3

      i love Tony sm.

    • @sugaspice7684
      @sugaspice7684 3 роки тому +25

      and also men supporting eachother expressing emotions when the other guy put his hand on his shoulder

    • @nubbiewubbie7285
      @nubbiewubbie7285 3 роки тому +2

      The day my father cried in my presence was the day he stopped being my father.

    • @tonikoku3518
      @tonikoku3518 3 роки тому +5

      @@nubbiewubbie7285 huh

  • @genevahendersom3593
    @genevahendersom3593 8 місяців тому

    The heart to heart was beautiful

  • @hiddentyga
    @hiddentyga 8 місяців тому +4

    The Asian guy says he's never had negative stereotype and reflects his success as a privilege which I quite disagree. He's discounting the fact that he's probably worked hard and his parents worked even harder to provide for his well-being. It's like saying, I got an A on my exam, therefore, the teacher loves me. He seems very peaceful and kind but doesn't have a hard ground as to why he believes Asians are privileged bcus having no negative stereotype doesn't equate necessarily to "white privilege". We also gotta think about how and why stereotypes are formed. It's a reflection of what ppl see, hear, and experience although it doesn't apply to all. I'm east Asian btw

    • @wuguay5526
      @wuguay5526 7 місяців тому

      Agree. If this Asian (and I’m Asian myself) has tattoos on his body, piercings of the nose/lip, unkempt long hair, I think everyone will have a different opinion of him regardless of his race.

    • @1t4ch1uch14
      @1t4ch1uch14 2 дні тому +1

      Yup that's the rich Asian mindset I would like to know if he ever lived anywhere considered the "ghetto" that's usually where all the negativity from both sides come from. SE Asian who grew up in ghetto with dominantly black and Hispanics but had more problems with blacks than I did with hispanics 🤷‍♂️

  • @BonazaiGirl
    @BonazaiGirl 3 роки тому +3185

    Ouch, this was cringe to watch as a black person. Don’t get me wrong, this was fairly civil and some issues were addressed, but not some of the more pressing issues. Neither side really got to the meat of the issue and seemed to have a game of “misery poker” rather than discuss each other’s plight or issues. And when the black representatives laughed and acknowledged they had joked about racism against Asians, I was disheartened. Hypocrisy at its finest. It really shows how much of growth we need to do as a people, because we’re not seeing the other side.
    I do hope we get a do-over with a new cast that can be more willing to discuss with one-another about racial struggles and issues.

    • @frankbaldizan3410
      @frankbaldizan3410 3 роки тому +176

      Literally was going too comment the same thing. Thank you, you said it much better than I would’ve

    • @teddybear979
      @teddybear979 3 роки тому +158

      The questions were kinda disappointing too

    • @user-rd5kn6hz4b
      @user-rd5kn6hz4b 3 роки тому +10

      True

    • @ginama3162
      @ginama3162 3 роки тому +239

      Hello everyone,
      It's Regina from the video. One thing I want to point out is this video's main discussion is why the black community and Asian community are allies or are not allies, thus framing many of the questions and possibly the cast . Another thing I want to point out is the video is edited!!!!! We had a longer richer conversation, with more questions and more answers. Some answers were for other questions, cut off, not included, etc. okay :) Please keep that in mind while you are watching this "conversation", it doesn't necessarily reflect the actual or full conversation had. Also, we were six people that stepped out of our comfort zone and put ourselves in a room full of cameras, and tried to have an unprepared open conversation. We as a cast are planning to come together to address some top questions but keep in mind, we entered that room with the purpose not to have a battle Royale, and for those that was looking for that tic for tac experience, please search within yourself of am I looking at a bigger problem that has caused a breakdown of social relationship or am I just looking to take my frustrations out, which can lead to further breakdown. I will say one last thing on behalf of this great group I was with, is we are all real people with our own full experiences that a 20 minute edited shared space video couldn't do justice to explain. Before calling anyone a poor representation of anything or projecting what you believe to be the beliefs of anyone in the video, keep that in mind. Hugs and kisses and thanks for watching the video.

    • @Regmuslima
      @Regmuslima 3 роки тому +72

      @@ginama3162 Thank you for commenting, as it was also a concern of mine. I'm glad to hear there was a richer conversation but a little disappointed that we couldn't see that fully represented here. If it's true you guys might be coming back then I look forward to the next conversation you have and hopefully it will be edited a little bit better or perhaps be longer since it seems 20 minutes is not enough for the audience, as shown by most of the comments in the comment section

  • @janelm7645
    @janelm7645 3 роки тому +3263

    i’m a little disappointed in these questions implicitly centering around the oppression of the Black community. of course, we should ALWAYS be talking about how we can further support the Black community, and there’s no question that Black people have experienced more oppression in American History than Asians, and there is a huge problem of Anti-Blackness within the Asian American community. but Asian Americans have their own history of oppression in this country that is just as valid, and those struggles so often get blown off or over looked. racism against Asians is one of the few kinds of blatant racism that is still so socially acceptable and normalized. hell, most of the Black people in this video don’t even realize it. that wasnt highlighted or talked about the way it deserves to be, the way that it really needs to be.

    • @rowena0723
      @rowena0723 3 роки тому +396

      Completely agree with you. A lot of covert racism in this video.

    • @janelm7645
      @janelm7645 3 роки тому +532

      @@rowena0723 SO much. the Black folks in this video made generalizations about Asians way too easily here, and didn’t even question themselves.

    • @ghog4792
      @ghog4792 3 роки тому +85

      @@janelm7645 speaking facts

    • @cloudy.jpg.
      @cloudy.jpg. 3 роки тому +232

      She said we go the good stereotype 🙄is annoying as an Asian American it’s a bit rude

    • @cairawilliams93
      @cairawilliams93 3 роки тому +82

      You just all lives mattered this video...... I didn't need to get to the but to know you were going to shoot down everything Black in this video. When someone says something then says but that is a contradiction to everything just stated.
      You said a lot of fluff then negated all of it to satiate the agenda that obviously asians are the TRUE victims here.

  • @lolblehXD
    @lolblehXD Рік тому +64

    Can you do Asian Males vs Asian Females? There's an internal animosity that needs to be discussed, i.e dating, social and self acceptance, public perception, as well as the identity insecurities that asian females project towards asian males.

    • @Larry-nd7gv
      @Larry-nd7gv Рік тому +2

      THIS

    • @witchplease9695
      @witchplease9695 Рік тому +6

      You can’t force people to date you. A lot of Black men hate Black women and we have no choice but to accept that.

    • @lolblehXD
      @lolblehXD Рік тому +5

      @@witchplease9695 of course we cant force people to date us. But im not just talking about dating, im talking about other topics that i listed. Just to get a better understanding into why it is, and why projected towards others. Just more in depth

  • @dorianhendricks8730
    @dorianhendricks8730 Рік тому +1

    I love this conversation ❤️💯

  • @moriahhamilton7436
    @moriahhamilton7436 2 роки тому +6488

    This Asian guy was so honest and unfiltered. I'm proud

    • @ronalddeleon3991
      @ronalddeleon3991 2 роки тому +287

      I love how he recognized our compassion as black people despite how we are portrayed we are very giving and hospitable people who would give the shirt off our backs.

    • @moriahhamilton7436
      @moriahhamilton7436 2 роки тому +109

      @@ronalddeleon3991 I agree, the black community wholeheartedly appreciates acknowledgement and truth

    • @jamilmccall6553
      @jamilmccall6553 2 роки тому +9

      Great stuff

    • @Hboogie182
      @Hboogie182 2 роки тому +51

      He's a libtard. He thinks he got to where he's at because he has white privileges. The dude discredits himself and throws out all of his merits.

    • @davidsilverfield835
      @davidsilverfield835 2 роки тому +1

      Yup

  • @colorfulcodes
    @colorfulcodes 3 роки тому +2521

    Dang I feel so fortunate. I'm a black girl in tech and Asian people have been the main one's rooting for me and helping me get opportunities. More than my own tbh. This was an amazing discussion that needed to be had thank you 🙏🏾
    Edit: 11 hours later I come back to this comment and people are using my experience to discuss politics and invalidate the woman's own experience. 🤢 Embarrassing. 😔 There are ignorant people in every race. I've experienced prejudiced commentary from every race, even growing up in NY tbh. However in my years in tech and finally employed I've realized those willing to help me most did not look like me at all. Which was actually surprising 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @determined919
      @determined919 3 роки тому +24

      Yeah but black people are SOOO oppressed right?

    • @e.e9596
      @e.e9596 3 роки тому +571

      @@determined919 What purpose does your comment serve?

    • @Musicalgirl02
      @Musicalgirl02 3 роки тому +321

      @@e.e9596 exactly. unnecessary as hell.

    • @arigold3099
      @arigold3099 3 роки тому +15

      Gotta love that affirmative action amirite???😆

    • @haylienbeauty2380
      @haylienbeauty2380 3 роки тому +144

      @@determined919 what is ths white dude doing here this isnt even about you dummy

  • @KreativeSoul
    @KreativeSoul Рік тому +1

    Tony has a beautiful soul,I appreciate his vulnerability,honesty and consideration..he is what we need

  • @RyanBirk
    @RyanBirk Рік тому +2

    I grew up moving around to multiple states over and over. One thing that I’ve learned from living in both predominately white And predominantly black is that I’ve never had anything but love from black people. The only people that’s ever singled me out or bullied me were white people (I’m half white)
    The part of this video where he talks about the compassion is spot on. Even in folks I’ve met who were from various walks of life (in the streets) there’s some type of love there (at least I’ve experienced it personally). There’s so much to be said. And the communities on both sides aren’t perfect. But conversations like this are excellent. What we all need to do is actually care enough to try to understand each other (as fellow human beings)
    If more people can begin to do that.. we will really start to see growth

  • @sjpark1991
    @sjpark1991 3 роки тому +1509

    I kinda think a lot of “racist Asians” are generally older Asians (our parents generation) who grew up in their own Asian countries that have no diversity. Us younger generation understand diversity better.
    EDIT: To clarify, I'm talking about younger people here in the US, not asia. I was also talking about Korea, where i grew up until i was 11 or so

    • @TheAgentOfDeath
      @TheAgentOfDeath 3 роки тому +4

      What do you mean by diversity? Typically boba liberal here.

    • @ekoyal_gemu4446
      @ekoyal_gemu4446 3 роки тому +11

      No they don't

    • @hlpss92123
      @hlpss92123 3 роки тому +55

      Where are you from tho? Cuz at least in my country the majority of young people is till very ignorant and even unaware of the fact that they are being racist smh. I think we shouldn’t suggest that racists are generally older people even though some of them indeed are not quite used to or willing to accept different people and idea, I have actually met some old people that are very open-minded and acceptive. But I agree that the lack of diversity does have huge impact on the ignorance and racist behaviors of many Asians.

    • @Sophie-ni8qm
      @Sophie-ni8qm 3 роки тому +12

      Tbh my parents and a lot of the people I know come from china and are first gen immigrants, but they are learning to be more acceptable. They're not perfect, but everyone has their flaws, but they're still learning and trying to become more accepting, despite having grown up in a less diverse environment.

    • @whooah
      @whooah 3 роки тому +55

      No. The younger people are racist too.

  • @spammusubi1607
    @spammusubi1607 3 роки тому +2326

    Several other people have pointed this out already but Jubilee- why didn’t you guys include more South Asian voices??? If you’re gonna do one on Asians then you need to include a variety of us.

    • @PyanY
      @PyanY 3 роки тому +250

      Exactly!!! South east asians! South asians! East asians! People gotta know how small of a bubble asians have been categorized in!

    • @Anonymous-xm7rf
      @Anonymous-xm7rf 3 роки тому +13

      Everyone needs to like this!

    • @singergal07
      @singergal07 3 роки тому +53

      I wanna see a south Asian one next :(

    • @Maxmillion77
      @Maxmillion77 3 роки тому +54

      americans can't tell the difference that's why

    • @bonappetit7522
      @bonappetit7522 3 роки тому +26

      I mean the girl behind the camera sounds South Asian

  • @wblue812
    @wblue812 7 місяців тому

    The sense of community! It makes Sense! The willingness to understand other cultures can Create some amazing relationships with other People!

  • @mariesmith7096
    @mariesmith7096 Рік тому +18

    I wish that brown/darker skinned South and South East Asians were involved in this conversation because I think that their experience is very different to the experience of East Asians. There is a lot of colourism and racism against South Asians is very normalised unfortunately :(

  • @flipperboy2754
    @flipperboy2754 3 роки тому +1967

    Y’all should do African American VS Hispanic/Latin Americans.

    • @JupiterKnight
      @JupiterKnight 3 роки тому +9

      ASIAN MASTER RACE OVER BLACKS

    • @josephgarcia3284
      @josephgarcia3284 3 роки тому +207

      @@JupiterKnight no tf

    • @jmrmtch1138
      @jmrmtch1138 3 роки тому +46

      Why, Hispanics and blacks are cool

    • @harperwhite8570
      @harperwhite8570 3 роки тому +205

      @@jmrmtch1138 yes and no we have some stuff to work out

    • @jen_greatguys2721
      @jen_greatguys2721 3 роки тому +65

      @@jmrmtch1138 as a 1st generation latinx/hispanic, we were mostly taught to judge people base on nationality, color of their skin then race bc we come in all shade of the rainbow. that being said, i remember growing up, we would speak spanish when were around people who doesnt look like us or sound like us. but then u have people from Haiti and DR and PR and central america who were also affected by the slave trade but no one doesn’t see or want to know that bc of the influence on american history and culture. Hispanic had the end of the stick during the civil rights movement bc no one talks about our culture and the influence that we did to help other minorities during that time period. Hell we have ignorant people in the community that doesn’t want to get out of that mindset of “i work my ass off here the ‘legal’ way so why cant u?” knowing why or go “dont hang out with them bc they’ll group us up”

  • @Anonymous-um3im
    @Anonymous-um3im 3 роки тому +7470

    We really need a African American and Hispanic talk. I feel that there’s been a lot of tension between us recently but there’s always been that black and brown unity at the same time too.

    • @ep4801
      @ep4801 3 роки тому +122

      This one!

    • @f0repl4y
      @f0repl4y 3 роки тому +112

      Why is there little to no tension between Hispanics and Asians?

    • @_itsdelya_
      @_itsdelya_ 3 роки тому +704

      @@f0repl4y because of colourism, some ppl apart of the hispanic community are full on racists to darker ppl (including to black hispanics)

    • @Anonymous-um3im
      @Anonymous-um3im 3 роки тому +149

      @@_itsdelya_ ummm not really…. I’m Mexican and we ain’t really racist we just have stereotypes like for example one that is very common is that “black people are aggressive” But we ain’t racist Mexico has many different type of skin tones.

    • @Anonymous-um3im
      @Anonymous-um3im 3 роки тому +6

      @@_itsdelya_ or wait I think I may have misunderstood your comment are you talking about how Asians think towards Hispanics ?

  • @SOCOMJOHN
    @SOCOMJOHN Рік тому +7

    "That I helped build"
    Girl what did you ever help build besides your bad credit

  • @PaigeCooks
    @PaigeCooks Рік тому +11

    At 17:30 This girl really said I don’t think Asian’s experience as much racism because they are a smaller group of people in a smaller minority. Girl that by definition makes them more of a minority because there’s less of them. A smaller minority is more of a minority hahahaha

    • @siiiiiuu7
      @siiiiiuu7 Рік тому +4

      Seriously. This whole thing was just one big butt-kissing, groveling session. Our horrific experiences as minorities don't count. Please like us and accept us. Pffft bye.

    • @pdx13
      @pdx13 Рік тому

      literallly @paige

    • @wiseguy240Winston
      @wiseguy240Winston Рік тому

      They weren't experiencing much racism as black ppl till the pandemic.

    • @siiiiiuu7
      @siiiiiuu7 Рік тому +3

      @@wiseguy240Winston Comments like this only reveal great ignorance about the struggles of groups outside your own. It costs nothing to be quiet 🤷🏽‍♀

  • @tiamelancholyjeoncockity
    @tiamelancholyjeoncockity 3 роки тому +2249

    So when are they actually gonna talk about how Asian racism are so SO downplayed and not bothered talking about 🗿

    • @Dave_of_Mordor
      @Dave_of_Mordor 3 роки тому +78

      overly protecting and virtual signaling for the blacks are currently trending

    • @komlat253
      @komlat253 3 роки тому +55

      Idk i think it just depends whos talking. Not many Asians want to talk about it .i wasn't aware of asian oppression until a random Asian girl gave me this long talk about it one day then i relized its nothing something Asian want to talk about because once you join in on the oppression Olympics, then you will lose your token minority badge lol. But i realized in one conversation that blacks and Asians are not really so different and I've always had a loved for asian people

    • @spicycherrymilk9058
      @spicycherrymilk9058 3 роки тому +36

      Fr. A bunch of people were just blatantly being rude to this Vietnamese kid in our class last year because of COVID and no one batted an eyelash and were even laughing and keeping the joke going.

    • @jungkooks80dollarmattress42
      @jungkooks80dollarmattress42 3 роки тому +14

      Can we talk about how racism against asians is like so old school? Sure you can still find that sort of blatant 1950’s racism against black people somewhere but not in mainstream culture

    • @jokbok995
      @jokbok995 3 роки тому +30

      Well why do you think it gets downplayed?
      I don't have hate for people but People should admit that there is a lot of hate for black people in their communities

  • @blakelip3
    @blakelip3 3 роки тому +1184

    Middle Ground: Black Americans vs Africans we have lots of baggage to unpack within our own community

    • @FlowerTower
      @FlowerTower 3 роки тому +8

      Black Americans ARE African Americans. Wtf?

    • @blakelip3
      @blakelip3 3 роки тому +22

      @@FlowerTower people in the comments don’t think so it must be a difference somewhere

    • @blakelip3
      @blakelip3 3 роки тому +59

      @@FlowerTower the discussion between Africans and black Americans need to be had

    • @FlowerTower
      @FlowerTower 3 роки тому +6

      @@blakelip3 Uh...
      African Americans are descended from transatlantic slavery. African American and black American are interchangable.
      African American DOES NOT refer to african booty scratchers who just moved to America last year. Y'all still African - say that. Say, "I'm Cameroonian." or whatever tf you are.
      Y'all have no identity so you be pressed AF to steal the identity of the supreme black folks. Please find some culture.

    • @HAPPILYANTALIE
      @HAPPILYANTALIE 3 роки тому +47

      @@FlowerTower were not African in the sense we don’t know our culture there’s a difference

  • @cloudyskies7523
    @cloudyskies7523 Рік тому

    there was so much in this that I never realised. thank you for this episode it was a big eye opener.

  • @daneaharrison5060
    @daneaharrison5060 Рік тому +28

    This was a great conversation I personally never had an bad experiences with Asian people my bsf is Asian and her family is so welcoming and they even went to a blm protest with me

    • @rajeshdevika8827
      @rajeshdevika8827 Рік тому +2

      What you did in return?

    • @SoulaaniNani
      @SoulaaniNani Рік тому +7

      @@rajeshdevika8827 who are you to ask that question? quickly.

    • @biqilee5420
      @biqilee5420 Рік тому

      Asian from which country ? Chinese people are very racists

  • @YN-wo8rd
    @YN-wo8rd 3 роки тому +1197

    1:00. This is wrong. The “good” stereotypes aren’t good. Asians are considered good at school, so whenever an Asian does bad on a test or something, we all get laughed at because we are supposed to be the smart ones. Also, south Asians are called dirty A LOT! I am Indian and people call me dirty for eating with my hands. I didn’t realize someone could be SO ignorant.

    • @soupysoupp
      @soupysoupp 3 роки тому +77

      yes, thank you! i’m an asian american too and although it might feel nice once or twice to be considered smart, it’s also a VERY high expectation that we are held too CONSTANTLY. And the second i don’t understand something or my grades aren’t perfect, i feel like a failure for not keeping up with those stereotypes.

    • @gerardorocha247
      @gerardorocha247 3 роки тому +66

      I agree. The “good” stereotypes are also harmful. Many Asians have their merits undermined because of their race. People assume an Asian is smart because of race, rather than the person’s discipline, hard work and determination meanwhile they just happen to be asian.

    • @aubriawalker8107
      @aubriawalker8107 3 роки тому +71

      i Totally get what you are saying!!!! But I think they mean that they rather be stereotyped as “smart” rather than being a “thug” because you can potentially lose your life for being stereotyped as that i.e police brutality, racial profiling

    • @beatrixkiddos6672
      @beatrixkiddos6672 3 роки тому +69

      What you’re saying is 100% valid but I think they meant “good” in the sense that Asians are stereotyped more positively than black Americans. So for example, black Americans are stereotyped as lazy, loud, ghetto, etc. While Asians are usually stereotyped as smart, hard working, etc. It doesn’t mean the stereotypes hurt any less or that Asians don’t feel the same way as black people do when they are stereotyped. They are just as hurtful.
      But, I think the point is, regardless of the stereotypes both ethnicities face, Asians are generally viewed more positively in white america than black people are (hence the model minority idea). Again, this does not discount their experiences or diminishes the amount of oppression and racism Asians have experienced for centuries.

    • @bloodmoneyhistory6845
      @bloodmoneyhistory6845 3 роки тому +4

      @@beatrixkiddos6672 exactly

  • @cheriehughes5660
    @cheriehughes5660 3 роки тому +1214

    When Tony started crying and talking about how Asians still get the benefit of the doubt despite their racism it broke my heart.

    • @songxia735
      @songxia735 3 роки тому +37

      Cherie Hughes It's pretty embarrassing tbh. Crying over such a small matter.

    • @user-pm9pw6cj4c
      @user-pm9pw6cj4c 3 роки тому +461

      @@songxia735 some people are more sensitive than others. There's no "crying too much" about these things

    • @MsFiyi
      @MsFiyi 3 роки тому +360

      @@songxia735 You just full-on displayed your lack of empathy

    • @ajones2367
      @ajones2367 3 роки тому +290

      @@songxia735 it's small to YOU but that really touched me as a black person that he recognized that and genuinely cared.

    • @caterine4604
      @caterine4604 3 роки тому +10

      LOOOLLLL I personnally found it very unnecessary that he would cry on camera like that.

  • @jeffery1855
    @jeffery1855 10 місяців тому +5

    Wow, did they cut something out in the last prompt? Nobody mentioned how black people were targeting elderly asians during the pandemic? It feels like there's a slant towards Black Americans in this video...

    • @derrickdavis862
      @derrickdavis862 10 місяців тому

      There was a story that released that talked about most of those being FBI setups to push more bills and such… most of those were scams

  • @JosephMarquez-pj9dp
    @JosephMarquez-pj9dp 8 місяців тому +3

    What is interesting is both Asians and Mexicans have problems with blacks, yet Mexicans and Asians don"t seem to have these problems with eachother. This is because these two groups are cultural introverts, in other words, they like being amongst their own. They live near each other and Mexicans do a lot of business in Chinese establishments without major incidents. They have stereotypes about eachother to be sure, however they have similar values as strong family ties, work ethics, deep pride in their history and culture. They derive from an ancient race of people with the same Asian DNA.

  • @TianZhaoHeavenlyFortune
    @TianZhaoHeavenlyFortune 3 роки тому +1286

    Hey Regina, if you can see this - I'm a tech worker too, I'm sorry you experienced that. I would NEVER ever say such things to a black coworker. I actually love the tech industry because I personally think the tech industry is way more inclusive than most other industries or at least tries to be. Regardless - I hope you don't leave the tech industry because of your negative experiences - the tech industry needs more diversity and just know that I'm an ally and have faith that there are more allies in the tech industry than foes.

    • @basedabdu8653
      @basedabdu8653 3 роки тому

      The tech industry in Israel needs more diversity

    • @poopy2382
      @poopy2382 3 роки тому +19

      It's really comforting to hear that. I'm sure if she sees this it'll give her some hope too.

    • @joblessboy7030
      @joblessboy7030 3 роки тому +10

      @@basedabdu8653 That Asian Spoke as if Blacks aren’t racist....I’m Asian and I see blacks discriminate Asians all the time. Double standards!

    • @mochak8563
      @mochak8563 3 роки тому +19

      @@joblessboy7030 “blacks” um yeah no that’s derogatory

    • @basedabdu8653
      @basedabdu8653 3 роки тому +1

      @@joblessboy7030
      I understand. I just think that Israel needs more diversity. They should bring in millions of Ethiopians into Israel permanently

  • @alixreu
    @alixreu 3 роки тому +2753

    A discussion between Black Americans and Native Americans would be really insightful. Especially in regards to BLM. There is this really interesting article by CNN on how Native Americans are the forgotten minority in police shootings.

    • @candancelazily8693
      @candancelazily8693 3 роки тому +54

      Thank you, this needs to happen Natives get ignored

    • @tylerknight9830
      @tylerknight9830 3 роки тому +144

      i would say forgotten minority is a off-white phrase for this. BLM doesn't say that other minorities aren't being killed it's just highlighting the cases and instances where African Americans have tried to highlight what they view as injustice.

    • @hopelesslyoptimistic8231
      @hopelesslyoptimistic8231 3 роки тому +7

      Every race gets shot by the police why talk about natives when we haven’t even talked about the white people being shot.

    • @candancelazily8693
      @candancelazily8693 3 роки тому +60

      @@hopelesslyoptimistic8231 White people mention White people getting shot, but its usually used negatively of course every race gets shot but people want to focus on what race gets killed the most
      But I want to focus on Natives because they are ignored or forgotten
      But lets also mention everybody else like you said

    • @termlimits4congressx306
      @termlimits4congressx306 3 роки тому +3

      It's true but the native Americans own the casino industry where I'm from. And they have they're own areas can hunt and fish exclusively. It's just different

  • @yvonneskoczek6152
    @yvonneskoczek6152 Рік тому

    I love this channel. These videos are amazing

  • @Ni-xx2lv
    @Ni-xx2lv Рік тому

    loved this! & tony is the sweetest soul ever

  • @rgbb9502
    @rgbb9502 3 роки тому +1656

    The "good" stereotype is so frustrating because our success gets downplayed and our failure gets exaggerated just because we're asian

    • @vindric8330
      @vindric8330 3 роки тому +3

      Yeah...

    • @blackbullsquad6272
      @blackbullsquad6272 3 роки тому +97

      I'm black and my best friend is like a pure genius in biology, because she want to be a Doctor and people come and say OH YOUR GOOD BECAUSE YOUR ASIAN, not because she has dream that she want to fulfill a dream

    • @vindric8330
      @vindric8330 3 роки тому +14

      @@blackbullsquad6272 that's so rude of them. They should give your Asian friend a credit of hardwork.

    • @blackbullsquad6272
      @blackbullsquad6272 3 роки тому +28

      @@vindric8330 I know is so annoying because her dream is to make people happy and save them. But for them is like your asian obviously you're going to be a doctor like WOW. This kids don't even know what they want to do but they have to mock somebody that has a plan.

    • @Dakarai_Knight
      @Dakarai_Knight 3 роки тому +27

      As a black person i have explained this to my community a lot that a "good" stereotype is still harmful.

  • @dayvonnaking177
    @dayvonnaking177 3 роки тому +1955

    When she was talking about immigrants I think she was totally correct like their is already this colorism in Asian countries so when they come here is and see actual black people they don’t want to be in the vicinity-of these people

    • @dayvonnaking177
      @dayvonnaking177 3 роки тому +64

      @@kategibson4481 well am sorry that happened to you from a history standpoint the only reason why I think black people had a problem with Asian people is because of immigrant their was in an influx of Asian immigrants in the 50s-70s and when they got here their was a thing we’re you could only get here if you were valuable like a doctor or something you had to have skills so when they got here they stuck to their own and acted better also restaurant their were a lot of Asian food places opening and a lot of them didn’t welcome black people

    • @Dave_of_Mordor
      @Dave_of_Mordor 3 роки тому +6

      @@dayvonnaking177 you're making this up for likes

    • @dayvonnaking177
      @dayvonnaking177 3 роки тому +20

      @@Dave_of_Mordor no am not I learned this from experience and history

    • @dayvonnaking177
      @dayvonnaking177 3 роки тому +20

      @@Dave_of_Mordor if you just look it up their was a ban for Asians only doctors and lawyers and so called valued people could come that’s why south Asians have a bigger wealth then any other minoritie group in America

    • @Dave_of_Mordor
      @Dave_of_Mordor 3 роки тому

      @@dayvonnaking177 right...

  • @wyarde15
    @wyarde15 Рік тому +9

    That was literally the best episode y’all have ever made congratulations to you😍

  • @bloop2235
    @bloop2235 Рік тому +5

    Not even gonna sugar coat it, most Asian countries and people have string dislike for Africans&African Americans. It's rooted in colourism amongst other things.

  • @staninsertkpopgroup1181
    @staninsertkpopgroup1181 3 роки тому +1898

    I dislike that when the term "Asian" is used it's mainly referring to east Asians

    • @littleboots9800
      @littleboots9800 3 роки тому +225

      In the UK when you say Asian mostly ppl would assume you meant Indian, pakistani, Bangladeshi etc. You would clarify if you meant Chinese or Malaysian or whatever.

    • @Andy-zm8bq
      @Andy-zm8bq 3 роки тому +51

      yeah its usually south-east/east asian, when they refer to asian. But i think the reason behind it is that south asians and east/southeast asia are just so different. But yeah they should've just specified in the title as east/south-east asian.

    • @littleboots9800
      @littleboots9800 3 роки тому +49

      @Melaucity yeah, its cos indians, Pakistanis etc make up the bulk of our Asian population I guess. In Australia they use the term like in the US because they have so many more Chinese/ Malaysians/Philippino Asians.

    • @taforacho5693
      @taforacho5693 3 роки тому +16

      This !! Like why couldn’t they invite any southern Asians such as Indians?

    • @Andy-zm8bq
      @Andy-zm8bq 3 роки тому +2

      @@taforacho5693 Maybe because east asians/southeast asians are a lot more similar in terms of culture/looks than south asia.

  • @_curtis
    @_curtis 3 роки тому +2633

    as someone who’s half black and half asian, I’ve definitely seen racism from both sides towards both sides, but I feel like racism towards Asians is so normalised, especially in the black community, which really disturbs me
    edit: the non Asian people in the replies dismissing racism towards Asians and saying that it’s not a big deal are really proving my point 😐
    I didn’t say that anti blackness wasn’t a big issue in Asian communities, I just said that racism towards Asians was extremely normalised ****in my experience****

    • @pebbles92able
      @pebbles92able 3 роки тому +57

      Yup!

    • @ninagrace-lee8323
      @ninagrace-lee8323 3 роки тому +138

      I mean black people do be bigots. It’s a human problem

    • @_curtis
      @_curtis 3 роки тому +136

      @Roger Palmer other way around haha

    • @troyelam8978
      @troyelam8978 3 роки тому +93

      Name some examples of ADULT blacks being racist to Asians you personally experienced. We buy from their store to the tune of billions of dollars a year. We eat their food, go to their salons, etc. now, flip it around, how often do you see Asians in soul food restaurants? At the African store? Black barber? You’re confusing name calling with actual racism. Where it counts, blacks are not at all racist towards Asians. We gladly do business with them, and the rich men in our community gladly marry them and hand them all their money when they die or divorce. So your point again?

    • @nnnnnn73
      @nnnnnn73 3 роки тому +266

      @@troyelam8978 please do NOT generalize all black people. Both have experience racism from both sides. Calling names IS racist. Dont you remember in the begining of covid-19? All the stereotypes is above the roof. Please as a black person you should feel embarassed. And it doesnt help when most people only consider asians as east asians as if asia isnt diverse and is the biggest continent in the world

  • @kingmack324
    @kingmack324 Рік тому +3

    The Asian guy was dope af!!! Really like his perspective his awareness and his humility. Totally invited to the cookout

  • @Chi_06
    @Chi_06 11 місяців тому +8

    I love all races, I don’t care how you look as long as you have blood in your body. You’re a human being and deserve all the love and respect.

  • @leichelleyoung329
    @leichelleyoung329 2 роки тому +3358

    The “you’re the white kid when you’re hanging out with only asians but when you’re the Asian kid when you’re hanging out with only white people” I feel that in my BONES

    • @avilesnba
      @avilesnba 2 роки тому +179

      Same here and I'm Latino. Always too white when I'm around brown folk, and always too brown when i'm around white folk.

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽

    • @johnr797
      @johnr797 2 роки тому +8

      Sounds like y'all need to stop hanging around racist people

    • @dieterrosswag933
      @dieterrosswag933 2 роки тому +12

      So what?

    • @michaelthys6150
      @michaelthys6150 2 роки тому +22

      Same as a black person

  • @RS-on3lp
    @RS-on3lp 2 роки тому +6944

    There is no such thing as a “good” stereotype. Whenever there is a stereotype, there is negativity and hate. For example: Asian people being “smart”. This does three things. 1. Discredits the amount of work Asian individuals put in to study and go through in order to gain individual intelligence. As well as put stress on those who do not fit the stereotype. 2. As Linh said, it implies that other minorities are bad, 3. In both saying that Asians are naturally smart and that other minorities are unintelligent, it creates this idea that only white individuals work hard for their own intelligence. Feeding into the concept of white superiority. “Good” stereotypes benefit nobody.

    • @wc7575
      @wc7575 2 роки тому +542

      I agree, but the stereotype does end up with Asians getting more opportunities.

    • @RS-on3lp
      @RS-on3lp 2 роки тому +232

      @@wc7575 I am aware of that, but we shouldn’t be excusing any kinds of stereotyping just because someone thinks it’s better for those in that race. When in reality the benefits are shading all of the negativity and prejudice resulting from said stereotype.

    • @ironmantis25
      @ironmantis25 2 роки тому +396

      @@wc7575 No, getting high grades and being well-educated end up getting Asians more opportunities, the model minority stereotype is used to box Asians into a pre-defined role and trap us there. There are no good stereotypes.

    • @xxnotmon939
      @xxnotmon939 2 роки тому +96

      @@ironmantis25 do you know the stereotype of that is being held against us? Now we are being limited in where we can go college to because of apparently since we’re “smarter”, we can find other colleges and jobs easier. It would’ve work if only not many college do this.

    • @loretoku4246
      @loretoku4246 2 роки тому +83

      @@colinshen7944 i will have to strongly disagree. being asian does not lower your chance of getting into college. in almost every ivy league university, the proportion of asians in schools like harvard is higher than their percentage of the population in cambridge, massachusetts.
      in many cases, asians make up the highest representation in these schools, only second to white people. asians are not penalized for the model minority rhetoric. your claim is inaccurate.
      in addition, many other minority groups also work hard. asians do not work harder than black people or hispanic people. no one is penalized for belonging to any group. in any case, while generally harmful to everyone, the model minority rhetoric does not negatively impact asian presence in colleges. in most cases, it does the opposite.

  • @SerV689
    @SerV689 10 місяців тому +4

    I’m 10 minutes in do they ever ask a negative question about how blacks treat asians badly?