I love and often travel the world alone. I dont have to worry about someone getting out of bed, "what do you want to do?", blah blah blah. Being alone, doesn't mean lonely. I can talk to anyone and enjoy meeting people, never bothers me. But, I am some what of a lone wolf anyway. lol
I am a permanent location independent solo slow traveler. I am emotionally available to myself and others. I am responsible for my happiness and my intimacy. I love my lifestyle more than anytime in my life. I just visited Vietnam, Hong Kong, Bangkok, Indonesia and the Philippines. I have dozens of local friends from those countries. I stay away from foreigners because I am a cultural explorer and want to learn from locals. My friendships are true and deep. I was invited to 5 weddings. I would never have met as many locals as I have with a companion. One day I will strike into a country and have a long term companion. I wouldn’t have my life any other way. I am never lonely. I have a very rich relationship with myself. I do have the super powers you talk about. I am sincere, open hearted, friendly, respectful and very interested in the goodness of others.
@koufax174, i could not have stated it any better. This is what I do also. Full time traveler with superpowers, not interested in most farangs, solo ,but am open to a companion.
What a great video. I have just retired and plan on a few years of solo travel as my wife is not ready to retire as yet and time is the essence. I’m lucky that I am a people person and love learning about place and people as well as love my own company and nature. See you on the road perhaps. Cheers 🇦🇺
you are a wonderful human being, because you are so open and you are still willing to work on things about you as a person. Not too many people in their fifties are that flexible and are willing to improve or change. Good luck, amigo and regards from Mexico
Important subject. A subject too often avoided in travel videos. Someone once said "its not where you are, its who you are with". That may only be half true, but it is a relevant as travel and say family relationships can be complex.....
Enjoying these vids. I been in Central America for 3 years. I have found the ugly lonliness, how it feels, has much to do with how your caretakers treated you when you were a child. If you were valued, you likely naturally learned to value yourself and are mostly comfortable on your own. If you had a unsavory childhood, like me, where you weren't valued, weren't welcomed, or even abused, time alone often transports our psyche back to childhood when we were in a full house of people but were ignored and neglected. What has helped? A good therapist who understands childhood trauma, narcissistic parents, cptsd. Inner child work. And super important, having or creating relationships with people who value and appreciate you. All the best folks! I still get lonely, but its not the dull, inner pain as much as it used to be.
Spent 45 days near Pattaya..My purpose was to see how the expats live..I was very impressed..They were stress free enjoying life and very approachable..Made a lot of new like minded friends who still keep in contact..We will be returning for 60 days early in February..No time to be lonely if you have a mindset to lighten up and to share your story with others..
Sighs**. Awesome high value content. Those dishes for 2 dollars . Those are enormous holy grail dishes. Back in the states we ordered a large coffee and a grilled cheese to go, Dunkin donut, we waited at the speaker and had to call out hello, anyone there, $8.84 grilled cheese bread was oval and inadequate it was so small it fit into my palms, very unappealing. We drove away and we were discussing Thailand food. Grateful for food but wow. Returning for the entire month of December using Bangkok as a operation center ,Langsuan Rd. Chidlom- After landing we will use transit to navigate through the labyrinths. We truly felt free in Thailand, refreshing and such a great value. Your the best Chris thank you ! 😊
We were like children, around every corner there was adrenaline! First international trip for myself, my husband has been to 26 countries (USMC). I really really loved it. Very grateful to have the means to travel. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤@RetireandGo
I love Pad Thai. Those shrimp look fantastic. Last summer I went on a solo road trip and had a great time. It is definitely different than being with someone else. Taking tours and eating at the bar instead of a table are good ways of meeting others. Enjoy your Time!
Yes, your videos give me motivation...I love to travel alone...If I can go to yoga , gym , swim , walk , explore etc...drinking a coffee , a smoothie and eat good food, chatting with people here and there ...then I am very happy...It' just a pity that a retirement is still a long way off , another 15 years :) ...So for now 4 weeks holiday per year ! greetz
Solo is BEST way to travel. No drama, compromise, frustration with another. Do what I want when I want. No plan or make a plan as desired. Also can usually slip into front of a big queue without people going bonkers. Amazing at airports. Nothing more important in world to me than me. Only live once so be one of the happiest people on the planet!
Awesome videos Chris ! Meet ups and expat social media groups can help. Volunteering to teach English etc is also an option. I did this in Equador and Brazil and I met some very cool people. You can also offer to teach English in exchange for classes in the local language! As an added bonus some of the staff would introduced me to their female relatives! They may want to see a university degree but it does not need to be in education. Never been a better time to travel. Stay safe
I came across your channel a few days ago. This is great practical advice for solo travelers! I'm seeking to retire early and have been doing a practice run in Thailand for the last 4 months. I lived here 10 years ago so SEA not new to me. My plan isn't fully formulated. However, I have sold my home and minimized dramatically. It's liberating not owning a lot of stuff! Thank you for shedding light on the important aspects of early retirement and living abroad: budgeting, investment income, cost of living, insurance. PS love the ferocious Soi cats & doggies! May you find peace. Mahalo and happy trails!
@@RetireandGo Thank you for the generous + kind offer. I want to be respectful & considerate of your time. I'll circle back and let you know. Have a great evening.
I find myself 10x more social when I travel, meet 10x more people when compared to at home country. Because you do throw away the burden of being you, when you travel you are new person in a place nobody know you . Thai are prob the mostly friendly people to talk to in the whole world. If i want to meet or travel with fellow international travelers I just stay at $10 dorm hostels and meet fellow travelers that’s living with you. Who are eager to meet new people as well. I think that’s why dorm hostel are made for really. I don’t know how many new friend you met at your home country each year, but I certainly meet more when traveling
Great Vlog as usual... I am in the busy Corporate World and crave time on my own... Travelling on my own now that I am single is something I am looking forward to. Meeting people along the way is exciting and refreshing. " Live the life you love."
You touched on so many points that wouldn't be that obvious to everyone, and so descriptive as being a valuable superpower to add onto our life's experiences. Thanks!
Thank you for articulating a somewhat personal subject. I agree with what you said. Litmus test for me is, 'am I happy traveling alone or when I'm with someone?' The answer for me is that I'm much more happy, positive and outreaching when I'm traveling alone. I do question myself, am I being selfish? I then fall back to my litmus test. Traveling with someone has it's conveniences but for me the baggage outweighs the convenience.
I’ve watched a few of your vids and they are good, I’m the same I’ve spent the last 4 years meandering between Asia and Europe avoiding cold weather. I’ve spent 6 mths in Chiang Mai and I don’t know how you can do the same thing day in day out it’s terrible monotonous. I avail of the big discounts on airbnb monthly stays and I move from one place to another every 30 days and I love it. Each to their own and I wish you the very best in the future🙏🏻
I found a question I asked myself, many years ago and have asked a few people in my life. Do you like yourself. I answered yes for myself. Unfortunately others said No. I believe that helps you with feeling good and meeting people on positive level. The people who said No was surprised by their answer because they never thought about if you don't like yourself how that impacts being with others. I say this because travel solo you may be by yourself alot, which is ok to just be... Have a good day!
I think about that too. Can hear Johnny Cash sing that Hurt lyric “ What have I become, my sweetest friend?” You have to take stock. You have to be your own friend. It’s a powerful energy. Sometimes I still find myself anxious and so I make adjustments and peace comes, laughter and kindness.
Thank you so much for the genki lead, i checked it out and is really good value for money travel insurance. I would never have found it otherwise my lasy insurance for 2 months in the philipines cost my nearly $1000 Aus. Wow appreciate it will save me heaps
I am 60 years old and have been traveling since I was 20. While I used to enjoy solo journeys, I now find that I'm more comfortable traveling alone during the day. However, after sunset, I often feel a frequency shift-a need for companionship that has become stronger as I’ve aged. In fact, I’ve noticed that if I’m on my own, I’m less inclined to go out at night. This isn’t about dependency or emotional needs; it’s simply a reflection of my current preferences. I have a deep respect for those who thrive on solo travel-I see many people doing it and admire their independence. But for me, it's important to be honest with myself about what I want at this stage of my life. By acknowledging my preferences, I avoid the uncertainty that comes from ignoring them, which helps me live a more content and fulfilling life-whether I’m traveling solo or with a companion. I understand there’s a belief that "you" are your own companion, but that’s not the point I'm making here. My perspective is simply about personal preferences, not existential views.
@@RetireandGo I enjoy your videos because they are candid, educational and instructive but also, they have a way of building rapport. keep up the good work.
A person can be lonely sitting in their own house! Travelling would at least take your mind off it and it involves you with other people. Gotta be content when u r by yourself.
Retired expat from the US living in Thailand 6+ years. Travel everywhere with my great Thai partner. Don't think I'd enjoy doing it solo. But to each his own.
In the past i have traveled with a suitcase.. no more!! they are a pain in the arse and i will plan on using a backpack. I will start looking at suitable types.
Travelling alone is so much better than with others. No arguments with others, no compromises and you have time for contemplation. You get to explore things you’d never do with others in tow. I love it. I also love travel with others at times as this adds other positive aspects too. But I choose my travel companions carefully.
I think that is smart Once you are on a trip with someone , there is really no out It’s all in I have been in this situation and it’s not good It destroys friendships
I typically travel for 2.5 weeks at a time, twice per year; not retired yet. I don't get lonely. In fact, I find travel is my social time of the year. In my home and at work I used to get lonely, but I've become used to it. Though, I do miss something else and when I travel I find many opportunities. My mistake has been trying to make certain kinds of girls into long-term material and each time it fails!
Great video again. Live with my dog in CM now and love to see you walking/strolling trough the town. I tried to find the Always Cafe on Google Maps but it shows something for out of the city. Could you give me a location or a street name where this nice little cafe it located? Thank you and keep posting your vids. I love them.
Nice advice and you're a great presenter. Are you avoiding steamed rice on purpose for dietary reasons? You're often eating dishes which are really designed to go with a serve of rice. I saw you do it with the red curry duck, but others you don't 🕵🏼♂️
I always travel solo, it's the best. When I travelled to Tikal in Guatemala I spent nearly 7 hours at the ruins because it was overcast in the morning and I wasn't getting any good shots, so I retraced my steps as the sun came out and retook photos of all the temples. There's no way I could have done that without annoying someone had I not been alone.
It's an interesting thing, meeting people while traveling far from home. The sense of connection grows strong faster. I am less than a year from pulling the FI/RE plug, and I've already made so many connections just talking shit with vloggers in the places I plan on seeing. I've even got a couple of offers for a couch to crash on, which speaks to the generosity I see in a lot of minimalist, stoic, red pill, expat (whatever your driving philosophy!) types. I did the same thing in Europe as a much younger man, but before the internet was really a thing. People on walkabout were still so generous and open to making meaningful friendships that don't require a lot of maintenance - "just drop a postcard here and there" type of friends, and I've kept a lot of them for decades.
Oh my before the internet travel in Europe must have been great I would write about that if you have stories and pictures Another amazing time in the world
@@RetireandGo I have lots of pics. Most of them fuzzy, because cameras were horrible in the 90s. But you're right - there are a lot of interesting things that the internet has completely killed. This ranges from traveling blindly based on personal recommendations to just basic everyday misbehavior in pubs and such because nobody had their iphone in your face 24/7. I'm not saying it was always good, or wholesome, or even legal, but like any good Gen Xer, I would rather get punched in the nose for stepping out of line than get cancelled because some Nelly decided to tell on me.
You are so damn cute lol I travelled as a flight attendant for 25 years and always felt lonely. I have been single for 10 now lol and no longer feel lonely. I find great pleasure I the day to day interactions. I aspire to travel on my own I south east Asia ! Wish I could retire now! Lol ❤
Hey man , just seen a few of your videos. You are definitely spot on with your content brother:-)… I’m surprised one of those beautiful, nice Thai girls have not yet attempted to lock you down yet. Hehe… be safe man!
If you wanted a travel companion you would have had a travel companion to begin with. Solo travel allows you time for introspection and to travel on your terms. Mahalo.
My man…how much do you eat in a day?!?!? I would be huge. Solid video and points. I love traveling solo. I always meet tons of people and am never “alone” or “lonely”
When you are alone you are forced to find your own way. There is nobody to help you anymore. All people should go through this. The sooner in life the better. Yes it's hard at times but that is life. No bailouts or excuses anymore. I have been traveling for the last year solo after my Father died. Mother died 10 years ago. I sold everything that I owned in LA and left. I have a suitcase and backpack. That is my life. How long I can do this emotionally I don't know but I wouldn't have it any other way.
When you travel solo you are more apt to interact with the locals, with a group you are mostly interacting with the group and maybe standing around a street corner somewhere trying to decide where to go for dinner. When you're alone you will meet people, especially other travelers. It happens.
Hello, In years past I traveled in Panama and Colombia solo preparing our new condo that was bought in Panama. My wife followed a year later once everything was set up. While I was away my wife had quality solo time in the States. Married people should not be joined at the hip unable to function without the other. 24/7 of anyone is too much! We have been married for over 30 years now. What we have learned is both of us can operate independently of the other with no issue. This causes less stress as we are both independent, but we choose to be together as that is also a wonderful thing. At some point one of us will check out permanently, but we know that the other will be able to handle life without issue. Remember, at some point, every person you know (including yourself) will be gone. Even if happily married to a wonderful person.... be independent.
Great question Usually I shower after the day of walking and collecting video , 8 hours ! Then begin editing Hours later I go out to find a late dinner Maybe keep up on a tv series :-)
Best to stay solo for as long as you can to see the beauty and how affordable it is there then if the time arrises to mingle and have fun just have a few more baut for that😅
Thanks for answering the question about loneliness, I think you also need to have strength of character to be able to deal with that and have a form of purpose to fill time with. You have clearly found that by way of your channel which certainly fills a niche for low cost, mostly solo travel. I think there is many "expats " that often fall in that loneliness and boredom trap that pushes them towards the bottle and " fleeting " contacts that eventually leaves them astray on the path towards bankruptcy and/or a shortened lifespan. I think for many people that contemplate retirement early in Asia or somewhere else cheaper than the West, you needto at least have a rough plan as to how to , usefully, apply your copious amounts of time, if not, sooner or later you will get lost in the wrong direction, hard to return from....
You’re right it is like a superpower. When I travel I notice almost everyone else seems uncomfortable if they’re alone for an even a short amount. I want to know about romance, you’re healthy and young enough that I’m sure available women peak your interest? But also, tons of scams and pay to play there, so how do you manage it? I’m in a similar place myself in life, and enjoy your channel sir
Pushups in the morning. Long walks and food to die for as you walk the path. This is my plan B. The Buddha path. One more thing to do though. Doctor almost wanted to send me to a specialist because my testosterone is over 1000 and I’m 61yo. So I guess that’s my excuse for needed a woman 🤣 If this plan A fails (Philippines), I’ll head your way (Thailand) and perhaps our paths will cross. 🙏🏽 The path and the food, so amazing.
As an INTP-T, I can appreciate the balanced approach to socializing. Keep up these vids, always good stuff. Btw, what kind of sandals do you recommend?
In my opinion solo is the best way, no drama no stress do all you want to do. Plus its easier to make friends as a solo traveler, when you get old Nd dont feel like as much travelling then settling down works. Some people have to have someone to feel complete i worked my ass of to be someone’s bank and her family no thanks
Great video again! Thank you! Do I recall correctly that you travel with only one backpack which contains everything you need do you leave anything at home in storage? I’m leaving the USA for Bali on 8/24 and I am considering selling all of my worldly possessions apart from a backpack full of clothes.
Yes :-) One backpack There are some gear videos I have up I’m trying to do one every 6 months Please keep us updated ! Your travels are starting soon !
I soooooooo prefer to travel ALONE….I am extremely adaptable I thrive on change and going with the flow. Where in the US did/do you live? I grew up in Atlanta and currently live in an Atlanta suburb. I’ve been to Chiang Mai 30 times since 2005 and have done a lot of work in the northern mountains with refugees and orphans. I just watched your Ubud, Bali vlog where you disclosed living in Hawaii. Yep….very expensive.
Hi can you make a video on how you go from place to place how long do you stay in each country do you pay for a visa like yearly, or do you just stay for what they alow you too. Thanks
Right now I’m in a dilemma because I’m a Solo traveler and a good friend wants to travel with me. He may be a great traveler but I won’t know until we go. I’ve made the mistake of traveling with the wrong person before and that’s how I became a Solo traveler in the first place lol. I’m set in my ways so it’s partially my fault. I always travel last minute so that irritates friends and Family.
Oh my just the opposite I make $24,000 a year on dividend income ! That’s below the US poverty line I’m poor in money But rich in life experiences I’ll take it
If you have time- maybe on a rainy day, I recommend the book The Age of Reason (L'âge de raison) by Jean-Paul Sartre. Maybe you can find it in one your bookstores. From Wikipedia... "The Age of Reason is concerned with Sartre's conception of freedom as the ultimate aim of human existence. The work seeks to illustrate the existentialist notion of ultimate freedom through presenting a detailed account of the characters' psychologies as they are forced to make significant decisions in their lives. As the novel progresses, character narratives espouse Sartre's view of what it means to be free and how one operates within the framework of society with this philosophy. The novel is a fictional reprise of some of the main themes in his major philosophical study Being and Nothingness (1943). One of the notions is that ultimately a person's freedom is unassailable as it is fundamentally part of the nothingness that is the imagination and so cannot be taken away or destroyed."
Great question! With three children there are so many variables Where will they live Will they have grandchildren Will I remain healthy Will wars break out I can only plan as far out as I have information In my 50s I’ll travel this way What are your thoughts on this ?
@@RetireandGo I see that you are living in the NOW, which is wonderful..It looks like you have thought about your future but like you wrote you have no information more than what you have now so you will continue traveling..Keep smiling. I enjoy your video`s very much..Best Regards..
@@RetireandGo by the way, I was wondering why you don’t do like yoga every day you’re so into being good to yourself. I would think you would have room for that in your day and it’s so good for yourself physically, and mentally and spiritually! I can’t wait till I am able to focus on me and enjoy my “self”
@@KarenLedesma-w8i really good thoughts here ! I appreciate this Daily workouts in my room and walking daily That’s my routine right now I would like to try yoga sometime ! Do you do it ?
It is hard to stay "lonely" in Thailand if you stroll the right locations. Loneliness disappears rather quickly when in the company of the friendly ladies of Thailand. Sweet, intellectual, conversational and downright beautiful.
This is a good point about making friends along the way Be careful in the nightlife though Alcohol and theft are the two things that can mess up your travel :-)
I only like to be with women one or two days out of ten and not even for 20 hours total Rest of the time I am fine being alone Can share a meal with a friend 2 or 3 times in ten days but can easily be alone 60 to 70% of the time.
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Traveling alone is not a problem at all for introverts. Being alone is peaceful😊
Truth !
Couldn’t agree more, I’ve been solo traveling on and off for years and being able to do alone is definitely a superpower!
I agree with you.
I love and often travel the world alone. I dont have to worry about someone getting out of bed, "what do you want to do?", blah blah blah. Being alone, doesn't mean lonely. I can talk to anyone and enjoy meeting people, never bothers me. But, I am some what of a lone wolf anyway. lol
I understand and I agree
Thank you for this
🙌🏼introvert here! 😂 I totally agree…. We all need real time alone to get to know ourselves.
Yes I agree
Reflection time
I am a permanent location independent solo slow traveler. I am emotionally available to myself and others. I am responsible for my happiness and my intimacy. I love my lifestyle more than anytime in my life. I just visited Vietnam, Hong Kong, Bangkok, Indonesia and the Philippines. I have dozens of local friends from those countries. I stay away from foreigners because I am a cultural explorer and want to learn from locals. My friendships are true and deep. I was invited to 5 weddings. I would never have met as many locals as I have with a companion. One day I will strike into a country and have a long term companion. I wouldn’t have my life any other way. I am never lonely. I have a very rich relationship with myself. I do have the super powers you talk about. I am sincere, open hearted, friendly, respectful and very interested in the goodness of others.
It’s great you met folks along the way
I think this is so important
The good people of the world :-)
Same here.
Valuable reply. Thank you for sharing.
@koufax174, i could not have stated it any better. This is what I do also. Full time traveler with superpowers, not interested in most farangs, solo ,but am open to a companion.
What a great video. I have just retired and plan on a few years of solo travel as my wife is not ready to retire as yet and time is the essence. I’m lucky that I am a people person and love learning about place and people as well as love my own company and nature.
See you on the road perhaps.
Cheers 🇦🇺
you are a wonderful human being, because you are so open and you are still willing to work on things about you as a person. Not too many people in their fifties are that flexible and are willing to improve or change. Good luck, amigo and regards from Mexico
Thank you kindly
It is my mission to inspire others in the spirit of Bodhisattva
I have to let go of the ego
And my insecurities :-)
@@RetireandGo you are a good example to follow. We Westerners have too much ego and that causes a lot of problems..... for us and for this world.
Important subject. A subject too often avoided in travel videos. Someone once said "its not where you are, its who you are with". That may only be half true, but it is a relevant as travel and say family relationships can be complex.....
Sometimes it’s good to just be alone and think things through :-)
Very true...
Enjoying these vids.
I been in Central America for 3 years. I have found the ugly lonliness, how it feels, has much to do with how your caretakers treated you when you were a child.
If you were valued, you likely naturally learned to value yourself and are mostly comfortable on your own.
If you had a unsavory childhood, like me, where you weren't valued, weren't welcomed, or even abused, time alone often transports our psyche back to childhood when we were in a full house of people but were ignored and neglected.
What has helped? A good therapist who understands childhood trauma, narcissistic parents, cptsd. Inner child work. And super important, having or creating relationships with people who value and appreciate you.
All the best folks!
I still get lonely, but its not the dull, inner pain as much as it used to be.
man thats a really interesting perspective, as somebody with a narcissist parent i agree.
This is a good point about the effects of childhood
I understand and thank you for this comment
Fantastic video, 100% bang on.
Thank you
very kind :-)
Spent 45 days near Pattaya..My purpose was to see how the expats live..I was very impressed..They were stress free enjoying life and very approachable..Made a lot of new like minded friends who still keep in contact..We will be returning for 60 days early in February..No time to be lonely if you have a mindset to lighten up and to share your story with others..
This is great to read!
You did a fun scouting trip !
:-)
Great channel thank you for the videos
You are most welcome
Sighs**. Awesome high value content. Those dishes for 2 dollars . Those are enormous holy grail dishes. Back in the states we ordered a large coffee and a grilled cheese to go, Dunkin donut, we waited at the speaker and had to call out hello, anyone there, $8.84 grilled cheese bread was oval and inadequate it was so small it fit into my palms, very unappealing. We drove away and we were discussing Thailand food. Grateful for food but wow. Returning for the entire month of December using Bangkok as a operation center ,Langsuan Rd. Chidlom- After landing we will use transit to navigate through the labyrinths. We truly felt free in Thailand, refreshing and such a great value. Your the best Chris thank you ! 😊
Very nice
Are you enjoying the traveling ?
We were like children, around every corner there was adrenaline! First international trip for myself, my husband has been to 26 countries (USMC). I really really loved it. Very grateful to have the means to travel. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤@RetireandGo
@@TheJuliaJaneHouse1887 this is wonderful to read!
I love Pad Thai. Those shrimp look fantastic. Last summer I went on a solo road trip and had a great time. It is definitely different than being with someone else. Taking tours and eating at the bar instead of a table are good ways of meeting others. Enjoy your Time!
I like that idea
Seating where the people are accessible
Yes, your videos give me motivation...I love to travel alone...If I can go to yoga , gym , swim , walk , explore etc...drinking a coffee , a smoothie and eat good food, chatting with people here and there ...then I am very happy...It' just a pity that a retirement is still a long way off , another 15 years :) ...So for now 4 weeks holiday per year ! greetz
I understand
You are blessed and the years will be filled with fantastic memories!
You're getting a good head start!
Solo is BEST way to travel. No drama, compromise, frustration with another. Do what I want when I want. No plan or make a plan as desired. Also can usually slip into front of a big queue without people going bonkers. Amazing at airports. Nothing more important in world to me than me. Only live once so be one of the happiest people on the planet!
I agree
Well said
@@RetireandGo Very.
Awesome videos Chris ! Meet ups and expat social media groups can help. Volunteering to teach English etc is also an option. I did this in Equador and Brazil and I met some very cool people. You can also offer to teach English in exchange for classes in the local language! As an added bonus some of the staff would introduced me to their female relatives! They may want to see a university degree but it does not need to be in education. Never been a better time to travel. Stay safe
I agree
Very good points here
I came across your channel a few days ago. This is great practical advice for solo travelers! I'm seeking to retire early and have been doing a practice run in Thailand for the last 4 months. I lived here 10 years ago so SEA not new to me. My plan isn't fully formulated. However, I have sold my home and minimized dramatically. It's liberating not owning a lot of stuff! Thank you for shedding light on the important aspects of early retirement and living abroad: budgeting, investment income, cost of living, insurance. PS love the ferocious Soi cats & doggies! May you find peace. Mahalo and happy trails!
This is great!
Keep us updated
Have a great week
@@RetireandGo Thank you. Will do. I have so many questions as I dive a little deeper into your videos. All super helpful. Have a lovely week.
@@EAGPostpartumDoula yes for sure
I will try to help in any way
@@RetireandGo Thank you for the generous + kind offer. I want to be respectful & considerate of your time. I'll circle back and let you know. Have a great evening.
Outstanding episode man, place looks epic! You have brilliant channel!!
"he had no time for my foolishness!' lmao
Very kind
Thank you for this feedback :-)
Haha ! Yes :-)
Fantastic I’m going their for sure the vibes chill relaxing food music weather parks just amazing 😊😊
You will really enjoy it :-)
Love your videos. They have become a morning ritual for me.
Thank you kindly
Have a nice toasted bagel and cream cheese for me
I miss those
Thank you
You are welcome :-)
Great video. It would be great to hear more about how you keep fit travelling - room workouts etc. Thank you!
This is a good idea I’ll incorporate it into a video for sure
Thank you !
I find myself 10x more social when I travel, meet 10x more people when compared to at home country. Because you do throw away the burden of being you, when you travel you are new person in a place nobody know you . Thai are prob the mostly friendly people to talk to in the whole world. If i want to meet or travel with fellow international travelers I just stay at $10 dorm hostels and meet fellow travelers that’s living with you. Who are eager to meet new people as well. I think that’s why dorm hostel are made for really. I don’t know how many new friend you met at your home country each year, but I certainly meet more when traveling
This is a great point
Hostels are fantastic for meeting cool traveling people
Great Vlog as usual... I am in the busy Corporate World and crave time on my own... Travelling on my own now that I am single is something I am looking forward to. Meeting people along the way is exciting and refreshing. " Live the life you love."
Enjoy the blessings of every day :-)
I want you to succeed, travel, enjoy life
I love taking gap years to travel by myself. The world is amazing and I want to see more. Especially in countries very different from the west.
This is a great idea
I like this
Amazing segment today...learnt something valuable today...tks for doing this and being vulnerable:)
hope to bump into you one day in SE Asia!😁😊
Thank you for this :-)
I’m a woman also traveling alone. Yes it is lonely sometimes but I met some nice local people. But I’m also really enjoy my time along
I agree
This is how I feel about it as well
You touched on so many points that wouldn't be that obvious to everyone, and so descriptive as being a valuable superpower to add onto our life's experiences. Thanks!
Thank you
Yes, it’s good to be able to spend time alone. Reflect, think on life
I hope your week is going great :-)
Thank you for articulating a somewhat personal subject. I agree with what you said. Litmus test for me is, 'am I happy traveling alone or when I'm with someone?' The answer for me is that I'm much more happy, positive and outreaching when I'm traveling alone. I do question myself, am I being selfish? I then fall back to my litmus test. Traveling with someone has it's conveniences but for me the baggage outweighs the convenience.
I understand completely
The main thing is that you enjoy your travel and find peace :-)
Solo travel is the best you travel with friends or a girlfriend you get dramas and it can spoil your holiday peace and quiet can be nice 😅
I understand
I also film so much I would probably drive them crazy haha
I’ve watched a few of your vids and they are good, I’m the same I’ve spent the last 4 years meandering between Asia and Europe avoiding cold weather.
I’ve spent 6 mths in Chiang Mai and I don’t know how you can do the same thing day in day out it’s terrible monotonous.
I avail of the big discounts on airbnb monthly stays and I move from one place to another every 30 days and I love it.
Each to their own and I wish you the very best in the future🙏🏻
I work out daily
Walk
Writing another book
New coffee shop and restaurant daily
There is so much to do
It’s about us not the location :-)
I found a question I asked myself, many years ago and have asked a few people in my life. Do you like yourself. I answered yes for myself. Unfortunately others said No. I believe that helps you with feeling good and meeting people on positive level. The people who said No was surprised by their answer because they never thought about if you don't like yourself how that impacts being with others. I say this because travel solo you may be by yourself alot, which is ok to just be... Have a good day!
I appreciate this
thank you
It is something for us to all ask ourselves
I think about that too. Can hear Johnny Cash sing that Hurt lyric “
What have I become, my sweetest friend?”
You have to take stock. You have to be your own friend. It’s a powerful energy. Sometimes I still find myself anxious and so I make adjustments and peace comes, laughter and kindness.
@@MichaelPrudhomme-u7x true
Well said :-)
I love that cover by Johnny cash too !
Wow. I truly appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. Most pretend. Powerful man. Good for you. ☀️🦋🌈💛💫
Thank you :-)
I appreciate this
Outstanding work brother, I'm sure you stay very busy, you create a great deal of content, well done, PEACE!!!
Oh my yes
8 hours filming then editing begins
But, it keeps me busy
:-)
Have a great day
The food looks amazing, I travel solo and this topic is on point, thanks
I appreciate this, your thoughts on solo travel are for sure welcome here.
Where are you this month?
Love the life,,
:-)
Yes true
Thank you so much for the genki lead, i checked it out and is really good value for money travel insurance. I would never have found it otherwise my lasy insurance for 2 months in the philipines cost my nearly $1000 Aus. Wow appreciate it will save me heaps
Oh this is nice to read
I appreciate this feedback
I am 60 years old and have been traveling since I was 20. While I used to enjoy solo journeys, I now find that I'm more comfortable traveling alone during the day. However, after sunset, I often feel a frequency shift-a need for companionship that has become stronger as I’ve aged. In fact, I’ve noticed that if I’m on my own, I’m less inclined to go out at night.
This isn’t about dependency or emotional needs; it’s simply a reflection of my current preferences. I have a deep respect for those who thrive on solo travel-I see many people doing it and admire their independence. But for me, it's important to be honest with myself about what I want at this stage of my life. By acknowledging my preferences, I avoid the uncertainty that comes from ignoring them, which helps me live a more content and fulfilling life-whether I’m traveling solo or with a companion.
I understand there’s a belief that "you" are your own companion, but that’s not the point I'm making here. My perspective is simply about personal preferences, not existential views.
Thank you for your thoughts on this :-)
I’m the same way
I don’t really go out at night much
@@RetireandGo I enjoy your videos because they are candid, educational and instructive but also, they have a way of building rapport. keep up the good work.
A person can be lonely sitting in their own house! Travelling would at least take your mind off it and it involves you with other people. Gotta be content when u r by yourself.
Well said !
I agree
Retired expat from the US living in Thailand 6+ years.
Travel everywhere with my great Thai partner.
Don't think I'd enjoy doing it solo. But to each his own.
That is great to read Bruce !
Enjoy and I want only the best for you two
@@RetireandGo thanks Chris. Stay safe and happy travels!!
In the past i have traveled with a suitcase.. no more!! they are a pain in the arse and i will plan on using a backpack. I will start looking at suitable types.
Awesome
I have a link in the description do you can peruse the Burton lineup
Wonderful and inspiring video, thank you so much, Alloha.
You are most welcome
Have a great weekend!
Amazing Restaurants amazing Food especially the Prawns . Amazing video thank you for sharing
You are most welcome
I hope you have a great week
I am sure your children love your video series. You are a wise and it comes through in your productions.
It is a nice way to keep them updated :-)
Travelling alone is so much better than with others. No arguments with others, no compromises and you have time for contemplation. You get to explore things you’d never do with others in tow. I love it. I also love travel with others at times as this adds other positive aspects too. But I choose my travel companions carefully.
I think that is smart
Once you are on a trip with someone , there is really no out
It’s all in
I have been in this situation and it’s not good
It destroys friendships
@@RetireandGo Well said. Being trapped with a person with no out is a very difficult situation.
I typically travel for 2.5 weeks at a time, twice per year; not retired yet. I don't get lonely. In fact, I find travel is my social time of the year. In my home and at work I used to get lonely, but I've become used to it. Though, I do miss something else and when I travel I find many opportunities. My mistake has been trying to make certain kinds of girls into long-term material and each time it fails!
I understand
I have heard this from other travelers like us
I also find traveling social
I need to open up more I think
I enjoys watching your videos. Your message is very refreshing!
Thank you kindly :-)
Have a good day
Great video again. Live with my dog in CM now and love to see you walking/strolling trough the town. I tried to find the Always Cafe on Google Maps but it shows something for out of the city. Could you give me a location or a street name where this nice little cafe it located? Thank you and keep posting your vids. I love them.
I’ll have to double check
It is a cool place for sure
You live in a beautiful town!
I can’t wait I see myself traveling alone for a while too❤
Yes I understand
I think you will enjoy the time to think
It’s healthy
Thanks for your 2 cents on investing my rental property sale. I've been to 9 Asian countries and Thailand is my 1st choice.
You are most welcome
Yes Thailand is like a home now for me
I’m here so much
Haha
Wow huge portions of food at an affordable price. Holy smokes! Destination Thailand 2025 God willing. Aloha!
True
The prices are incredible
superpower!
Boom! Yes :-)
Great video as always….
Thank you
Have a great week :-)
Nice advice and you're a great presenter.
Are you avoiding steamed rice on purpose for dietary reasons? You're often eating dishes which are really designed to go with a serve of rice. I saw you do it with the red curry duck, but others you don't 🕵🏼♂️
Thank you :-)
Yes I’m trying to chill on the rice haha
Excellent video as usual 👌
Very kind
Thank you I appreciate this feedback
I always travel solo, it's the best. When I travelled to Tikal in Guatemala I spent nearly 7 hours at the ruins because it was overcast in the morning and I wasn't getting any good shots, so I retraced my steps as the sun came out and retook photos of all the temples. There's no way I could have done that without annoying someone had I not been alone.
I understand!
Guatemala must have been interesting!
It's an interesting thing, meeting people while traveling far from home. The sense of connection grows strong faster. I am less than a year from pulling the FI/RE plug, and I've already made so many connections just talking shit with vloggers in the places I plan on seeing. I've even got a couple of offers for a couch to crash on, which speaks to the generosity I see in a lot of minimalist, stoic, red pill, expat (whatever your driving philosophy!) types.
I did the same thing in Europe as a much younger man, but before the internet was really a thing. People on walkabout were still so generous and open to making meaningful friendships that don't require a lot of maintenance - "just drop a postcard here and there" type of friends, and I've kept a lot of them for decades.
Oh my before the internet travel in Europe must have been great
I would write about that if you have stories and pictures
Another amazing time in the world
@@RetireandGo I have lots of pics. Most of them fuzzy, because cameras were horrible in the 90s. But you're right - there are a lot of interesting things that the internet has completely killed. This ranges from traveling blindly based on personal recommendations to just basic everyday misbehavior in pubs and such because nobody had their iphone in your face 24/7.
I'm not saying it was always good, or wholesome, or even legal, but like any good Gen Xer, I would rather get punched in the nose for stepping out of line than get cancelled because some Nelly decided to tell on me.
@@genericchannel5899 truth !
You are so damn cute lol I travelled as a flight attendant for 25 years and always felt lonely. I have been single for 10 now lol and no longer feel lonely. I find great pleasure I the day to day interactions. I aspire to travel on my own I south east Asia ! Wish I could retire now! Lol ❤
I understand, you are ready to travel and not worry about the flight schedule
You have so many cool stories about flying I imagine :-)
@@RetireandGo yes, many stories. 😊
Thank you for sharing
You are most welcome
Hey man , just seen a few of your videos. You are definitely spot on with your content brother:-)… I’m surprised one of those beautiful, nice Thai girls have not yet attempted to lock you down yet. Hehe… be safe man!
Thank you :-)
Oh yes, they are friendly
I guess I’m in a different chapter of my life right now
Have a great weekend!
If you wanted a travel companion you would have had a travel companion to begin with. Solo travel allows you time for introspection and to travel on your terms. Mahalo.
I agree
I appreciate the silence of the evenings
Just in my thoughts
That meal is so amazing.
At a great price too !
Well said bro....true indeed. You got to know you better...when u ar alone by yrself.
Yes, I needed this time
I have been working closely around people for decades :-)
And I try to stay social
My man…how much do you eat in a day?!?!? I would be huge. Solid video and points. I love traveling solo. I always meet tons of people and am never “alone” or “lonely”
I understand haha
It’s mostly the combination of meals that makes it look big
I take food back to the hotel to eat later :-)
I want to travel alone too.
I understand
Don’t feel bad about it
You will chat with people as you go
When you are alone you are forced to find your own way. There is nobody to help you anymore. All people should go through this. The sooner in life the better. Yes it's hard at times but that is life. No bailouts or excuses anymore. I have been traveling for the last year solo after my Father died. Mother died 10 years ago. I sold everything that I owned in LA and left. I have a suitcase and backpack. That is my life. How long I can do this emotionally I don't know but I wouldn't have it any other way.
Thank you for this comment
I think your father would absolutely love that you took this time to travel the way you are
:-)
When you travel solo you are more apt to interact with the locals, with a group you are mostly interacting with the group and maybe standing around a street corner somewhere trying to decide where to go for dinner. When you're alone you will meet people, especially other travelers. It happens.
Good points
Chatting with locals is a great way to find cool spots
Hello, In years past I traveled in Panama and Colombia solo preparing our new condo that was bought in Panama. My wife followed a year later once everything was set up. While I was away my wife had quality solo time in the States. Married people should not be joined at the hip unable to function without the other. 24/7 of anyone is too much! We have been married for over 30 years now. What we have learned is both of us can operate independently of the other with no issue. This causes less stress as we are both independent, but we choose to be together as that is also a wonderful thing. At some point one of us will check out permanently, but we know that the other will be able to handle life without issue. Remember, at some point, every person you know (including yourself) will be gone. Even if happily married to a wonderful person.... be independent.
I really appreciate this comment
Thank you for this :-)
What do you tend to do in the evenings ?
Always enjoy your videos.
Great question
Usually I shower after the day of walking and collecting video , 8 hours !
Then begin editing
Hours later I go out to find a late dinner
Maybe keep up on a tv series :-)
LOL this guy is the ultimate beacon of positivity Thai Expat type guy.
Thank you :-)
So much negativity on UA-cam
I’m just not into that
Bring light to the world not darkness
What a vicious mad dog!!!!
Yes haha
They be comin at me :-)
Best to stay solo for as long as you can to see the beauty and how affordable it is there then if the time arrises to mingle and have fun just have a few more baut for that😅
I understand :-)
Have a great week !
Thanks for answering the question about loneliness, I think you also need to have strength of character to be able to deal with that and have a form of purpose to fill time with. You have clearly found that by way of your channel which certainly fills a niche for low cost, mostly solo travel. I think there is many "expats " that often fall in that loneliness and boredom trap that pushes them towards the bottle and " fleeting " contacts that eventually leaves them astray on the path towards bankruptcy and/or a shortened lifespan. I think for many people that contemplate retirement early in Asia or somewhere else cheaper than the West, you needto at least have a rough plan as to how to , usefully, apply your copious amounts of time, if not, sooner or later you will get lost in the wrong direction, hard to return from....
Thank you for this post
I agree, expats take many different paths
Sometimes destructive
Very true
You’re right it is like a superpower. When I travel I notice almost everyone else seems uncomfortable if they’re alone for an even a short amount. I want to know about romance, you’re healthy and young enough that I’m sure available women peak your interest? But also, tons of scams and pay to play there, so how do you manage it? I’m in a similar place myself in life, and enjoy your channel sir
Yeah, I needed some time for me like this
I want only the best for couples traveling of course
Pushups in the morning. Long walks and food to die for as you walk the path.
This is my plan B. The Buddha path.
One more thing to do though. Doctor almost wanted to send me to a specialist because my testosterone is over 1000 and I’m 61yo. So I guess that’s my excuse for needed a woman 🤣
If this plan A fails (Philippines), I’ll head your way (Thailand) and perhaps our paths will cross. 🙏🏽 The path and the food, so amazing.
Over a 1000 at 61! Incredible!
That’s optimum right there
900 to 1000
Optimal levels !!
As an INTP-T, I can appreciate the balanced approach to socializing. Keep up these vids, always good stuff. Btw, what kind of sandals do you recommend?
I need to learn more about the personalities
It’s interesting!
I wear KEEN sandals
The best !
It depends on the location. Some places are boring and hard to meet people. Other places it's easy as there's lots of other travellers.
Good point
Bali is a very talkative expat location
Interesting conversations with backpackers
Pattaya is good for meeting retired European expats and chatting
👍🏼, mad dog 🐕 😂
Yes! They be watchin me !
In my opinion solo is the best way, no drama no stress do all you want to do. Plus its easier to make friends as a solo traveler, when you get old Nd dont feel like as much travelling then settling down works. Some people have to have someone to feel complete i worked my ass of to be someone’s bank and her family no thanks
The main thing is that you find peace
And it sounds like you have
That’s the best :-)
You look at least 10 years younger than what you said.
Very kind
Thank you
I’m trying to stay healthy for sure :-)
Very reasonable price for your high quality Phad Thai.
True! That was a great price :-)
You have us your subscribers my dude
True
It’s actually been wonderful to chat with folks from all walks of life
:-)
Great video again! Thank you! Do I recall correctly that you travel with only one backpack which contains everything you need do you leave anything at home in storage? I’m leaving the USA for Bali on 8/24 and I am considering selling all of my worldly possessions apart from a backpack full of clothes.
Yes :-)
One backpack
There are some gear videos I have up
I’m trying to do one every 6 months
Please keep us updated ! Your travels are starting soon !
I soooooooo prefer to travel ALONE….I am extremely adaptable I thrive on change and going with the flow. Where in the US did/do you live? I grew up in Atlanta and currently live in an Atlanta suburb. I’ve been to Chiang Mai 30 times since 2005 and have done a lot of work in the northern mountains with refugees and orphans. I just watched your Ubud, Bali vlog where you disclosed living in Hawaii. Yep….very expensive.
You have an incredible back story William!
A lot you could write about !
Hi can you make a video on how you go from place to place how long do you stay in each country do you pay for a visa like yearly, or do you just stay for what they alow you too. Thanks
Excellent questions
I’m using tourist visas this year
Next year I might try a longer visa
Any thoughts or suggestions?
😂😂😂 with all those great natural juices that are available fresh !I don’t see how you choose to drink that Coke❤😂
Hey, I can’t argue with that!
You are right
Is it true Chiang Mai reminds you of North Shore without the beach?
Yes so true haha
That same feel
Just be careful I lived in Pattaya before, came across many toxic expats
Oh yes
Some get punchy too haha
I’m careful to walk away from dangers quietly
Right now I’m in a dilemma because I’m a Solo traveler and a good friend wants to travel with me. He may be a great traveler but I won’t know until we go. I’ve made the mistake of traveling with the wrong person before and that’s how I became a Solo traveler in the first place lol. I’m set in my ways so it’s partially my fault. I always travel last minute so that irritates friends and Family.
I would not book any long trip with someone you have not traveled with
Go on a weekend with them first at least
You must be super rich
Oh my just the opposite
I make $24,000 a year on dividend income !
That’s below the US poverty line
I’m poor in money
But rich in life experiences
I’ll take it
You need two stomachs to eat at all those restaurants....................
True haha
:-)
I think I ordered so much
@@RetireandGo No, your process is amazing, just that you find so many cool places.
Do you have a favourite province maybe a top 3?
Hmm, chiang mai was probably the most interesting
Music and food wise
Thoughts ?
@@RetireandGo I like Isaan
What you paying for accommodations out there ?
My room in Chiang Mai is $16 a day and includes breakfast!
@@RetireandGo not bad $480 a month
If you have time- maybe on a rainy day, I recommend the book The Age of Reason (L'âge de raison) by Jean-Paul Sartre.
Maybe you can find it in one your bookstores.
From Wikipedia...
"The Age of Reason is concerned with Sartre's conception of freedom as the ultimate aim of human existence.
The work seeks to illustrate the existentialist notion of ultimate freedom through presenting a detailed account of the characters' psychologies as they are forced to make significant decisions in their lives.
As the novel progresses, character narratives espouse Sartre's view of what it means to be free and how one operates within the framework of society with this philosophy.
The novel is a fictional reprise of some of the main themes in his major philosophical study Being and Nothingness (1943). One of the notions is that ultimately a person's freedom is unassailable as it is fundamentally part of the nothingness that is the imagination and so cannot be taken away or destroyed."
I appreciate this very much !
This sounds absolutely interesting!
I will have to look for this
Existential philosophy is very interesting. I also love reading books on Eastern Philosophy like Alan Watts, Buddhism, and Erich Fromm.
@@Resmith18SR true, Alan Watts has helped me better understand the years I perused things to own
Stuff, status, ego , insecurities
I like his essays
@@RetireandGo You're welcome.
Hi-I am wondering if you have any plans for the future? Do you intend to travel this way until you die??
Great question!
With three children there are so many variables
Where will they live
Will they have grandchildren
Will I remain healthy
Will wars break out
I can only plan as far out as I have information
In my 50s I’ll travel this way
What are your thoughts on this ?
@@RetireandGo I see that you are living in the NOW, which is wonderful..It looks like you have thought about your future but like you wrote you have no information more than what you have now so you will continue traveling..Keep smiling. I enjoy your video`s very much..Best Regards..
@@lorrainehansen9770 thank you :-)
❤ now you’re talking, watermelon juice😂😂😂
From what I’ve seen in your videos for six dollars you can get a lot of Thai food ,,,!,,,😂
True
I’m trying to eat for under $10 a day
At least trying haha
@@RetireandGo I would probably shoot for the same goal! $10 a day was a good number lol
@@RetireandGo by the way, I was wondering why you don’t do like yoga every day you’re so into being good to yourself. I would think you would have room for that in your day and it’s so good for yourself physically, and mentally and spiritually!
I can’t wait till I am able to focus on me and enjoy my “self”
@@KarenLedesma-w8i really good thoughts here !
I appreciate this
Daily workouts in my room and walking daily
That’s my routine right now
I would like to try yoga sometime !
Do you do it ?
It is hard to stay "lonely" in Thailand if you stroll the right locations. Loneliness disappears rather quickly when in the company of the friendly ladies of Thailand. Sweet, intellectual, conversational and downright beautiful.
This is a good point about making friends along the way
Be careful in the nightlife though
Alcohol and theft are the two things that can mess up your travel
:-)
Would you be willing to remarry and live in SE asia in one spot for the rest of your life?
I think those days are behind me but you never know :-)
Solo travel in my 50s for sure
Is that a proposal?😂😂😂
I only like to be with women one or two days out of ten and not even for 20 hours total Rest of the time I am fine being alone Can share a meal with a friend 2 or 3 times in ten days but can easily be alone 60 to 70% of the time.
I understand
It’s good we realize what we are looking for and create our world
That is freedom
Hello! Can I get your email for collaboration?
Unfortunately my emails are not working well
But I appreciate this