Embracing Change: Thriving In A New Culture

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  • @waterlilly78
    @waterlilly78 2 місяці тому +10

    Yes, environment changes a person. Living outside Philippines will make you braver, strong and resilient .

  • @jlmarc01
    @jlmarc01 2 місяці тому +20

    I had the same experience going into Mexico. While extremely proud of being Mexican, I am extremely proud to be an American citizen. But would I go live in Mexico? No. Sure life is not always easy, but America has given me a fighting economical chance. And I am grateful.

    • @GerardoGuzman-gb6qj
      @GerardoGuzman-gb6qj 2 місяці тому +4

      It is nice to see a positive opinion from a fellow immigrant. The US, our adoptive country allowed us opportunities, which in turn gave us the flexibility to choose how and where we spend the remainder of our lives when we reach an age that we can retire and choose how and where we live

  • @halohalolaughteristhebestm3547
    @halohalolaughteristhebestm3547 16 днів тому +1

    Maraming salamat po! I left 33 years ago when I was 30. Every time I go back, I “criticize”. I felt bad that my country is not improving. Yes, slowly, there are some new infrastructure projects. Good! Thank you for taking the time to make videos. I might do what you do, spent 3-4 months a year in the Philippines, just chill. No need to drive a car😛that’s my biggest issue with US living 😅

  • @theglassstoic9393
    @theglassstoic9393 2 місяці тому +5

    You raised a very good point here sir, the longer you stay outside the Philippines, the more it changes you. Thanks for sharing.

  • @liliajewell5833
    @liliajewell5833 2 місяці тому +5

    I was born and very poor in the Philippines. I thought there must be a better life than this. Now I'm in US, living in America gave me an opportunity to work and retirement to enjoy better life. I went back home to my native land twice. By comparison..I'm more comfortable here in the US my adopted country.

    • @gdvadventours5512
      @gdvadventours5512 2 місяці тому

      It's night and day when it comes to convenience and healthcare,although your dollar goes a little more when it comes to buying power.

  • @eddie9076
    @eddie9076 2 місяці тому +6

    Completely agree. I myself have been living in the US for 50 years. Left when I was 18 years old. Life is about adjustments and adaptability.

  • @vwandtiny3769
    @vwandtiny3769 2 місяці тому +4

    I grew up in New York and joined the Navy when I was 19. I settled in the deep south of America. After I retired I went back to NY to see if I could live there but my values had changed so much that I couldn't relate to the cold distant New Yorkers. Now I live deep in the province of Mindanao where I find a similiar way of life of what the south offered many years ago. Slower pace of life, family values and being happy with what you have. It's not always easy because I miss alot of my customary foods but for the most part it works for me. I married a beautiful filipina and we have a daughter together. Hopefully soon we will go back to America and I will enjoy seeing how she adapts.

  • @mr2dsp
    @mr2dsp 2 місяці тому +4

    Came back to the Philippines after 30 years and it changed a lot . Been in the US for 30 years. I love my lupang hinirang. The Hospitality of my Kababayan. Very magalang. Sir and ma'am. All the time.

  • @microsp20lect28
    @microsp20lect28 2 місяці тому +4

    One problem in the Philippines is that you can't drive 70 mph because the traffic is crazy. Here in the US, the roads and road signs are better except during snowstorms. Another problem: I do not want to become the family ATM since my relatives will depend on me for everything. Sad but true. So, no thank you to living in Pinas.

  • @delroydixon9337
    @delroydixon9337 2 місяці тому +4

    You reminds me of my self when i went to back Jamaica after 12 years. Every thing you said was how I felt. Every thing in Jamaica appears to be so small, after return from America.

  • @hanksandoval3466
    @hanksandoval3466 2 місяці тому +4

    Way to go 90,000 !
    What happens is, you can't please all the people, all the time. There is always someone who will be jealous. From what I see, from other vloggers, you have to have a Thick Skin to do you tube, otherwise the Sharks will eat you up. Good Luck 👍

  • @gerrymcnally9344
    @gerrymcnally9344 2 місяці тому +5

    While in the military, I seen other countries and how they live. Sometimes better than US and sometimes not. But being adaptable is the key. Now that I'm retired (finally), I want to do the "snowbird" life style. A few months in Philippines and the rest here. But I'm waiting on what the new Philippine Immigration Bill is going to look like and how it affects the Balikbayan program. I always enjoy your videos. Have fun

  • @jimbo3609
    @jimbo3609 2 місяці тому +1

    Wow! I was just saying the same thing @VloggerGrandpa. I'm coming next week and have been very frustrated with appointments. Doctors in Manila don't want to take appointments that are far away. Even getting a reunion with childhood friends was a nightmare. I finally realized I've been away too long.

  • @Neal_only1
    @Neal_only1 2 місяці тому +8

    As an expat retired here in the Philippines on a resident visa, i feel that those who come here and then feel that it was not a fit for them maybe should not have come to start with, especially those with a negative attitude, an the ones like me still here have made it work well for us. Been in and out since 1993 and always wanted to come back, so i’m here to stay.❤

  • @GerardoGuzman-gb6qj
    @GerardoGuzman-gb6qj 2 місяці тому +5

    We change, no doubt. I just can't bear seeing so much poverty around. Being a devout Catholic< I cannot understand why the church does not support any other means of birth control except abstinence, when we all know that there are a large majority of Filipinos that lack discipline

  • @evaborja9166
    @evaborja9166 2 місяці тому +2

    I agree with you grandpa. I came to the US at age 22. I’ve been here 42 years now. My perspective has changed in a lot of ways. But like what you said,we’re blessed to have been exposed to another culture.

  • @jetaimefidelis
    @jetaimefidelis 2 місяці тому +3

    I was born and raised Filipino, but America gave me a chance to grow and better myself and my status in life. I still love my country and culture and will defend my fellow Filipinos from others. However, I took an ought to protect America from its enemies, both domestic and international. It is my way of giving back. As to the topic of retirement, I do not think I am going to retire in the Philippines. I have been acclimated to other cultures, norms, weather, and ways of life.

  • @harrylee3538
    @harrylee3538 2 місяці тому +3

    Traveling gives the best education. The real world shows the reality of living with other cultures every where we go. Philippines is the best because I was born and raised here. I brought my whole family to the USA when my kids were young. Now in my retirement I want to go back home. It’s really more Fun, more Familiar more friends and more smiles which makes me belong ❤✅🙏

  • @user-dj4wi6lg7n
    @user-dj4wi6lg7n 2 місяці тому +2

    You are speaking the truth. A lot of people who immigrate to the USA don’t turn out as successful as your life has turned out. It is not a easy life in the USA. You have to work hard with some luck and you can make it work for you. The Filipinos who do find success here in USA should be respected because they are representing the Philippines 🇵🇭 success stories. You bought a condo in Taguig and maintain a house in the USA -- you are representing the Philippines.

  • @LittleRed2010
    @LittleRed2010 2 місяці тому +3

    The people are nice and hospitable. I feel like they deserve more and the issues you raised about healthcare, banking and traffic are valid. I bet you more Filipinos are hungry for a change and want a better government style. That’s why many are leaving to work abroad to alleviate their standard of living. You are not criticizing the people but their government that is failing them. Filipinos are one of the most hospitable people in the world. It is their circumstances that is changing the culture due to corruption of government officials. Mabuhay ang mga Filipino.

  • @tukmol1589
    @tukmol1589 2 місяці тому +4

    Just like when you immersed into another culture during your absence, you’ll have to re-immerse back to your home country after a long absence. You may notice physical improvement or deterioration of infrastructure; however, the island culture remains the same. To do a deep dive you must observe, see how they do things, and do what they do. You may find it enjoyable and may bring fond memories. I like it better when they treat me as one of them, rather than different. Live their experiences. Ride the jeepneys, the buses, the trikes, the habal-habal, the ro-ro, fast cat, van, cars, taxis and light rails. Eat at carinderia and jolly jeeps and walk on flip flops. Visit the wet markets. We gained wisdom when we lived in another country meaning we have more knowledge to discern what is different from our country of origin, and increased our awareness. I’ve travelled up and down this country and enjoyed the differences between the people. It brings me joy and laughter. It taught me to have an open heart and an open mind. It must be the island life. The life that I love.

    • @e.m.4523
      @e.m.4523 2 місяці тому +1

      very well said.

  • @dannynicart2389
    @dannynicart2389 2 місяці тому +3

    Travels, not only locally but overseas as well, open up a person's horizons and perspectives of the country, culture, people, and food.

  • @rhodoradickhut5529
    @rhodoradickhut5529 2 місяці тому +1

    Hi Grandpa I really love your vlog please keep sharing because it’s so inspirational and educational God bless😊

  • @RomarieBerne-yq6yf
    @RomarieBerne-yq6yf 2 місяці тому +1

    Yes. I agree with you a hundred percent.

  • @fil-amcouplethisisourstory4021
    @fil-amcouplethisisourstory4021 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for your wisdom on this subject.

  • @joseprotacio-nc5dn
    @joseprotacio-nc5dn 2 місяці тому +2

    Marami natitisod sa mga constructive criticisms (iba yung panliliit) - these are real talks coming from people who experienced the real deal, not from the perspectives of most 'foreigners' (pinoys tend to be extra nice to foreigners (even in abroad), kaya mga dayuhan may have a different perspective of pinas - you can see in many blogs in youtube) . People comeback kase mahal nila pinas and the country is great, pero di ibig sabihin na perpekto na ito. It can improve and when it does (like many other countries - it has its due share of blemishes), the country will be even greater. ✌

  • @jessecorpus6066
    @jessecorpus6066 2 місяці тому +4

    Came to America when I was 27 years old, I am now 66 years old. I went back to Pinas in Cebu for a vacation in 1995 after 11 years of being away. Infrastructures had changed the landscape, malls, tall buildings, new hotels seems to had sprung up overnight like mushrooms, the new Fernan Bridge, etc. But one thing that haven't change is people's attitudes, good or bad.

    • @tukmol1589
      @tukmol1589 2 місяці тому

      Times change, people remains the same.

  • @RAYMOND-nz8dp
    @RAYMOND-nz8dp 2 місяці тому +1

    Sir, you are 100%correct,

  • @IsmaelBasco
    @IsmaelBasco 2 місяці тому +1

    U.S.now change due to politics people are wildly divided.😢

  • @TheMilpitasguy
    @TheMilpitasguy 2 місяці тому +6

    Local Filipinos think you're putting on airs when you criticize the country. Not having experienced a different form of govt, they think what they have is the BEST when it's really not. Also, they're somewhat jealous you got a green card and escaped all this but they tried and could not. Yeah, man, I've seen this attitude before.

    • @eddieBoxer
      @eddieBoxer 2 місяці тому

      Filipinos are very jealous people, they envy people who have more, as an expat i had Filipinos wanting to know how much money is my pension, and they always say "your rich".

    • @Neal_only1
      @Neal_only1 2 місяці тому +2

      I have been told by Filipino before that they were not jealous, but proud for their fellow Filipino that had succeeded with material things because they worked hard to prosper.

    • @Neal_only1
      @Neal_only1 2 місяці тому +1

      I think this is also because the witness of being and not having left for greener pastures.

  • @user-pp8xy5yv3v
    @user-pp8xy5yv3v 2 місяці тому +1

    Do people change when exposed to a different culture? Yes, change for the better hopefully because of different experiences and different environment.
    Thanks GV . I also have that culture shock on my first year in USA.

  • @bmacavanza193
    @bmacavanza193 2 місяці тому +1

    Watching from Australia

  • @josephdracula7487
    @josephdracula7487 2 місяці тому +1

    👍😎🤿🇵🇭! Very nicely said! Bravo 👍!

  • @ay5667
    @ay5667 2 місяці тому +5

    When I visited the Philippines for the 1st time I was shocked by their way of life, how they lived. It was only 2 weeks but I was happy to get back home in the U.S. Now I enjoy going there I'm used to life there. When people complain about life in the U.S I'm thinking they should visit other less fortunate countries. I think their attitude would change.

  • @donkay97
    @donkay97 2 місяці тому +1

    Agree..

  • @Charo9900
    @Charo9900 2 місяці тому +2

    i can relate.

  • @billammann9807
    @billammann9807 2 місяці тому +1

    You are absolutely correct on all aspects of your comments. And even with my being originally born in the United States of America, I prefer the life style I have waiting for me in San Carlos, Negros Occidental in the Philippines.

  • @IsmaelBasco
    @IsmaelBasco 2 місяці тому +2

    Always enjoyed seeing your Vlog. I’m retired now for 10 years still living in San Francisco for 44years. I’m thinking and planning to go back to the Philippines. If it happens I want to back to Angeles City, Pampanga where I was born then moved to U.S.Thanks ❤❤❤….

  • @bobbyalesna5766
    @bobbyalesna5766 2 місяці тому +4

    They live inside the box still.yet they want u to sugar coat although reality speak for itself..

  • @Sweet-T-Mama
    @Sweet-T-Mama 2 місяці тому +1

    💯 100%

  • @joeybasa3795
    @joeybasa3795 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @lydiobanana5469
    @lydiobanana5469 2 місяці тому +1

    I agree, I left the country in 1973, EDSA is talahib along the way.

  • @lidefsomar5291
    @lidefsomar5291 2 місяці тому +3

    You will change definitely. Lie if one will say he did not

  • @rupertojrmallanao221
    @rupertojrmallanao221 2 місяці тому +1

    More new contents sir and travel around the Philippines and include food vlogs as i noticed foreign vloggers goes to our country and gained more subscribers.

    • @EyoTolentino
      @EyoTolentino 2 місяці тому +1

      Seniors don't eat much nowadays lali na po yon from abroad. Food vlogs is for more younger sets

  • @dgcorner5031
    @dgcorner5031 2 місяці тому +1

    Hi Grandpa, enjoying your vlog, if you are in the Philippines do you see/visit/meet/connect to your old folks/friends or what, don’t know if you still have, just curious, I guess time to do ‘marites’ or ‘tolits’ 😀. I learned those words when I visited my folks few months. Your contents are very interesting and educational, I’m learning a lot from your posts, great, and thank you👏👍.

    • @vloggergrandpa2707
      @vloggergrandpa2707  2 місяці тому

      I don't have a anyone in the Philippines. My parents and siblings all came to the US.

  • @nathanielcarreon5634
    @nathanielcarreon5634 2 місяці тому +1

    People change every time as they age or something traumatic/memorable happens to them.

  • @marlonregis2761
    @marlonregis2761 2 місяці тому +1

    Na meet po kita kanina sa may market market 😊

  • @nealsmith1083
    @nealsmith1083 2 місяці тому +3

    I expected Baywatch girls, nice cars, streets paved with gold. Mehhh..😂😂

  • @Noah-fr8sb
    @Noah-fr8sb 2 місяці тому +1

    Hi, Grandpa! Thanks for clarifying my previous question pertaining the dual citizenship and certificate of recognition as PH citizen.
    I'm back because I have a new question. 😅
    Now that I have two passports (US and PH), and it'll be my first time leaving the PH going to the US.
    I understand that it is a must to have 2 passports whenever you travel but what should I present to the IO?
    Then saan po pipila yung mga dual citizens pag nasa airport na?
    Nalilito kasi ako. Sabi PH lang pag sa PH then US passport lang daw po pag sa US.
    A video for the answer will be great po, di ko po kasi mahanap sa playlist niyo.
    Thanks for your assistance! ❤
    UPDATE: Nakita ko na po pala vid regarding my question. It was uploaded 5yrs ago on your channel. Hehe. Thanks again!

    • @vloggergrandpa2707
      @vloggergrandpa2707  2 місяці тому

      Present both Passports when entering and leaving the philippines. Only US passport when reentering the US. I use the lane that is shorter. 😃

  • @jeretso
    @jeretso 2 місяці тому +1

    I changed. I would be happy driving a small car but I have this nagging feeling to keep up with my neighbors and buy a bigger SUV or EV. When you go to Costco they have 70 inch TVs next to the front door and eye glasses section. I have thrown away so many Costco products that I couldn't finish. I just want to buy toilet paper and eye glasses LOL. In the Philippines people buy small packs of shampoo and bar soap lasting long time. Before I move back to Philippines I will go to costco, buy a steak and cancel my membership.

  • @rockycata6078
    @rockycata6078 2 місяці тому

    Hey friend👋 your Netflix advisor here😂 There is now a severe 'drought' in many areas of the Philippines, and it is brutal, with more to come🥵 Schools closed, crops damaged, and 'brownouts', disrupting the economy. Cost of energy and rice possibly worse than CoVID[...India rice export controls]🤑 That's how it is now, so "stay tuned"👀 Immigrants do better because they come for change, and are initially willing to accept that things will be different, where natives are just 'same-same' indifferent about the important things in life🤔🙄 "Be safe, stay well, love always" - LWC

  • @johncawvey5342
    @johncawvey5342 2 місяці тому +3

    The Philippines has changed a lot in the last 20 years and unfortunately in my opinion not for the better, much like the United States. You are exactly right when people have never even left their province but they act like they know more about other countries. Lol 😂 when all they know is their province, then they have no idea and when i have tried to explain to them about other countries its hard for them to comprehend. its like me trying to explain chocolate ice cream when they have never had it before. very difficult

    • @robocop581
      @robocop581 2 місяці тому +2

      It's the same with Americans. They think the entire world revolves around them and when they visit other countries they're shocked people of different cultures do things differently. This notion that Americans do things better is laughable.

    • @johncawvey5342
      @johncawvey5342 2 місяці тому

      @@robocop581 that’s funny since america is the country that almost all refugees want to come to and in fact illegal invaders are treated better then Americas veterans and elderly. There is a reason so many refugees and people from other countries want to come to America. Maybe it’s because the American way is the BEST. I laugh when people who have most likely never been to one or two foreign countries in their life think they can compare countries. I’ve been to 102 countries, so I have a damn good knowledge of how and why people desire coming to America.

    • @user-dj4wi6lg7n
      @user-dj4wi6lg7n 2 місяці тому

      @@robocop581Where in the USA did you live? You think the way the Philippines is run is better. Wake up to reality.

    • @robocop581
      @robocop581 2 місяці тому

      @@user-dj4wi6lg7n Like I said, Typical American

    • @user-dj4wi6lg7n
      @user-dj4wi6lg7n 2 місяці тому

      @@robocop581How can you compare the USA to the Philippines if you have never been to the USA? Where did you live in the USA?

  • @djfr4
    @djfr4 2 місяці тому +1

    Granpa this may not relate to this vlog but I have this question. I was issued a birth certificate before but I don’t have record in the national registry. I had a Philippine passport and now a US citizen. I want to apply for dual citizenship but I don’t have a birth certificate to show. What can I do at this time? Thank you in advance.

    • @vloggergrandpa2707
      @vloggergrandpa2707  2 місяці тому

      If you have relatives in the Philippines, have them help you fix the problem in the Philippines. I had the same problem, but I had my original birth certificate with me. I had to talk to the Philippine Consulate, and they honored it after I told him that my entire family is now in the US.

  • @user-hb3st1uf3c
    @user-hb3st1uf3c 2 місяці тому +1

    Granpa not related to this video but i have questions me and my husband got married last year his a filipino at birth, And A US citizen but not dual mistakenly his citizenship in our marriage certificate is filipino...it wil be a big problem for us???eh ipepettion na nya aq this year thanks for the answer will wait po

    • @vloggergrandpa2707
      @vloggergrandpa2707  2 місяці тому

      What do you mean "petition for what", US or Philippine citizenship?

  • @jimbo3609
    @jimbo3609 2 місяці тому +1

    @vloggergrandpa, should I exchange dollars to pesos at the NAIA airport?

    • @vloggergrandpa2707
      @vloggergrandpa2707  2 місяці тому +2

      Yes. But choose where to exchange your money because they could vary.

    • @jimbo3609
      @jimbo3609 2 місяці тому +1

      @@vloggergrandpa2707 Thank you po

  • @minicraftylady
    @minicraftylady 2 місяці тому

    A lot of great changes especially about the bad habits and strange Filipino thinking about money….those are the things changed in 20 more years living abroad.

  • @luvisuzu
    @luvisuzu 2 місяці тому +1

    Your lungs and nose will definitely become clearer from the relatively cleaner air in the US🤣

  • @regineorlino4475
    @regineorlino4475 Місяць тому +1

    Sir Good Day or Good Evening To You
    It's not related to the vlog content
    I'm just hoping you can help me with this question:
    A green card holder petioned a family member for F2B Visa
    This Family member is only waiting to be interviewed , as All the documents have been Approved
    If the petioner changed status from green card holder to US Citizen, will it expedite the process ?

    • @vloggergrandpa2707
      @vloggergrandpa2707  Місяць тому

      It could since it might put you in a different classification. But it should not hurt and you should probably notify the Immigration Office. Ask them when you do that.

    • @regineorlino4475
      @regineorlino4475 Місяць тому

      @@vloggergrandpa2707 Thank You So Much Sir for your reply
      Have a wonderful day or evening
      I just have Another follow up question Sir:
      Do you know Of Any Different Immigration Lawyer Offices in the Philippines ? Where this family member Lives And Can Just Call Them And Ask ?
      I'm only Familiar with one Immigration Lawyer Office which is GURFINKEL Law Offices
      However, if you Consult with them over the phone it requires a payment fee.

  • @arnold1973
    @arnold1973 2 місяці тому +2

    maybe the thinking changed. i criticized Phils more often because you can see the comparison. you can see the difference. but when i visit home, i wont tell anything about it because you might mistakenly tagged as mayabang or load. just be quiet.

  • @USSTrippeFFpart
    @USSTrippeFFpart 2 місяці тому +5

    People who who never travel out of their nest are the most self entitled ignorant and rude people I hate.

  • @paoloagatep4564
    @paoloagatep4564 2 місяці тому

    Granpa… 90% you are right.. but there is only one thing you have said wrong.. we beg our employer for a vacation.. .. I have been living in the US for 50 years now and had no problem for taking my vacation yearly but you need to inform them in advance and plan it. I don’t know where you got the idea of begging for taking a vacation from the employers….

  • @IB4U2Cme
    @IB4U2Cme 2 місяці тому

    America today is not the same as the country I grew up in. Maybe that is true for your old neighborhood.

    • @vloggergrandpa2707
      @vloggergrandpa2707  2 місяці тому +1

      Sadly, it is changing in the wrong direction.

    • @IB4U2Cme
      @IB4U2Cme 2 місяці тому

      @@vloggergrandpa2707 It is America, your old neighborhood, both? When I say America, I am talking about the freedom I had growing up. But I have been living in Cebu the last ten years, and I can that I am more free here in the Philippines flying under the radar than living in the US with its automated government. Of course, above the radar I realize that there is less freedom in the Philippines because I have not the means to hold the government, the banks, or stores accountable to their rules. For example, I can deal with fraud in the US, but here there are no consequences for fraud. I have a friend who bought and ordered a six cylinder truck. Which means you have to pay for the truck before it is delivered. But the dealer delivered a four cylinder and when the dealer was given notice, they refused to be accountable for the mistake. No recourse.

  • @islandgirl8199
    @islandgirl8199 2 місяці тому

    Manila changed for the worse compared to some years ago.

    • @gdvadventours5512
      @gdvadventours5512 2 місяці тому +1

      I saw progress more high rise buildings and they're trying really hard to make their infrastructure up to par with the West.They also got Environmentally Conscious by cleaning up the rivers specially Pasig river.Manila Bay is also one example of this Clean up and Beautification drive.They have long way to go though specially in places not frequented by Tourists.

  • @joeyb7373
    @joeyb7373 2 місяці тому

    Iam usa Philippines not really for me i love my walmart my wife from the Philippines she doesnt like usa nobody really say goodmorning here lol

    • @islandgirl8199
      @islandgirl8199 2 місяці тому

      Don’t wait for others to greet you. Do it first 😅

    • @joeyb7373
      @joeyb7373 2 місяці тому

      @@islandgirl8199 even if u do some people wont respond that the culture here it sad but true

    • @islandgirl8199
      @islandgirl8199 2 місяці тому

      @@joeyb7373:
      I went to a store here. I gave a nice compliment to the cashier. She didn’t respond so I asked her if she heard me. She said she did. It didn’t bother me when she didn’t thank me. She said she’s from Cuba when I asked her. I’ll continue greeting and giving compliments to people.

    • @magenta7006
      @magenta7006 2 місяці тому

      good morning from Seattle

    • @joeyb7373
      @joeyb7373 2 місяці тому

      @@magenta7006 goodmorning from texas