The REAL key isn't communication. It's a person who CARES! 🤞🏼

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 73

  • @anniesinkfield9382
    @anniesinkfield9382 2 роки тому +85

    Facts, if they do not care they're not going to hear what you are trying to say anyway.

  • @mummabearcuddles7956
    @mummabearcuddles7956 2 роки тому +43

    His silence says it all .... HIS LOSS..
    putting urself first isn’t selfish it’s an act of survival. 🥰
    Hugs of strength from Perth Australia. 🤗💌💝✌🏻🇦🇺🍀

  • @eraranglova7636
    @eraranglova7636 2 роки тому +5

    He cared about the relationship and liked showing me that he likes me and likes spending time with me but he didn't care about ME.

  • @aquilascott8218
    @aquilascott8218 2 роки тому +4

    So darn true. If a person does not feel your pain, does not care about hurting you. Then f**k comunicación. Talk ya talk. You can talk until the cows comes home. Nothing is going to change. Walk away.

  • @Peacelovehappiness101
    @Peacelovehappiness101 2 роки тому +29

    I THINK ALL 3 ARE IMPORTANT MUTUALLY SPEAKING:
    WE BOTH CARE, WE BOTH KNOW HOW TO COMMUNICATE IN A LEVEL WHERE THE BOTH OF US WILL UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER. WITHOUT THAT, EVERYTHING'S UNBALANCED.

  • @melanielewis4965
    @melanielewis4965 2 роки тому +24

    Derrick I have been saying this for decades and nobody listened to me. You could communicate till your blue in the face and if the other party doesn’t care, nothing will change. People will look you In the eye and appear to be listening when they know they are going to do exactly as they please. It starts with really caring and wanting to fix the problems. Maybe I’m crazy I don’t know. I don’t think so though. What are your thoughts?🤔🤔🤔

  • @angelhamel15
    @angelhamel15 2 роки тому +28

    I totally agree you can communicate all you want of that are disrespecting you theyre gonna continue too.

    • @hmHM-mq2ft
      @hmHM-mq2ft 2 роки тому +1

      You can care but that doesn’t mean you have the respect for them. Many couples don’t respect each other these days

  • @prettynatural1973
    @prettynatural1973 2 роки тому +11

    Derrick this happened to me you are correct.

  • @hmHM-mq2ft
    @hmHM-mq2ft 2 роки тому +10

    It’s respect that’s the key

    • @hmHM-mq2ft
      @hmHM-mq2ft 2 роки тому +2

      You can care but that doesn’t mean you have the respect for them

  • @noelvermillion5268
    @noelvermillion5268 2 роки тому +6

    I have two people like this in my life. I've tried communicating with them both for YEARS a multitude of ways how they've hurt me and they have never comprehended it and always mistreat me and turn it around on me and only recently did I realize that they have never cared and likely never will

  • @dorianbashaw5102
    @dorianbashaw5102 2 роки тому +2

    the best way to show you care is to step out.

  • @pmerancier
    @pmerancier 2 роки тому +8

    I needed to hear that because my sisters really don't care and all that you are saying is what they are doing to me. The sooner i am content with them not caring the sooner my healing can begin. Exactly, ima make time and room for me and let that anger go for someone that doesn't have me in mind.

  • @carolmitchell8418
    @carolmitchell8418 2 роки тому +4

    This is so true. Caring is the most important thing. Thank you

  • @jackiemcbride833
    @jackiemcbride833 2 роки тому +6

    Block all these haters!! Keep doing yo thang!!

  • @roseflores7410
    @roseflores7410 2 роки тому +22

    Love this❣️ I literally had a conversation with my “boyfriend” that is narcissistic. I “communicated” what he is doing doesn’t help my mental health. I had to literally break it down to him thinking he would understand. Well that was not the case🤦🏻‍♀️ He stayed quiet, and changed the conversation 😮‍💨 I didn’t bother to continue talking to him. I said Thank you for calling.!✌🏼

    • @scorpiocara6798
      @scorpiocara6798 2 роки тому +1

      Well all that means is he didn't communicate back to you. It has nothing to do with comprehension.

  • @miguelberetta7887
    @miguelberetta7887 2 роки тому +4

    Nobody forgot, Derrick

  • @MegDD3912
    @MegDD3912 2 роки тому +5

    Totally agree. You worded that perfect!

  • @tanyacoughlan2889
    @tanyacoughlan2889 9 місяців тому +1

    This hit home. Thank you.

  • @scorpiocara6798
    @scorpiocara6798 2 роки тому +6

    Uuhhhh comprehension is apart of communication. They go hand in hand

  • @dawngreen6393
    @dawngreen6393 2 роки тому +2

    I totally & irrevocably AGREE with you. Thank you for you thoughts.

  • @katrinabain71
    @katrinabain71 2 роки тому +5

    I totally agree!!!

  • @noblespeaker24_7
    @noblespeaker24_7 2 роки тому +2

    This hits home!

  • @BETTHATKADDIE
    @BETTHATKADDIE 2 роки тому +2

    actually “Caring” is Key well said

  • @Keana43
    @Keana43 2 роки тому +2

    I totally agree D.💗

  • @misstwiththetea7970
    @misstwiththetea7970 2 роки тому +1

    Facts I love this this is so true 👍 keep up the good work

  • @user-jw1bl4hq9j
    @user-jw1bl4hq9j Рік тому

    You NAILED IT 🔥🔥🔥. CARE , AFFECTION AND COMMUNICATION.

  • @sharniceberryman9389
    @sharniceberryman9389 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you So so much. Hit the heart, but it makes sense.

  • @singerg02
    @singerg02 2 роки тому +15

    Could not agree more, Derrick! 🙌💯

  • @maryamzizi2023
    @maryamzizi2023 2 роки тому +5

    I love you guys so much ❤️❤️

  • @monicahall8864
    @monicahall8864 2 роки тому +1

    So true I agree!!!

  • @maryamzizi2023
    @maryamzizi2023 2 роки тому +5

    I love you so much Derrick ❤️❤️

  • @rashedaanderson5455
    @rashedaanderson5455 2 роки тому

    Amen to that well spoken

  • @vanessadevries1356
    @vanessadevries1356 Рік тому

    Thank you for this video

  • @MeekMeek777
    @MeekMeek777 2 роки тому

    Thank you!

  • @arnelabih1845
    @arnelabih1845 2 роки тому

    I care caring & having a good heart.

  • @juliahill6511
    @juliahill6511 2 роки тому

    This is so true

  • @ivelytvetez
    @ivelytvetez 2 роки тому

    So true!!

  • @KA-yz2ld
    @KA-yz2ld 2 роки тому

    On point, bro GBU 👌🏿

  • @SaltiB
    @SaltiB Рік тому +1

    We get tired of trying. Then you get to the point that you realize, they just don’t value you.

  • @patharris5603
    @patharris5603 2 роки тому

    Yes I agree with all of that

  • @CBReal1290
    @CBReal1290 5 місяців тому

    On point wholly

  • @AuthenticallyFonze
    @AuthenticallyFonze 2 роки тому +10

    BIG FACTS JAXN 💪🏾🙏🏽🙌🏽

  • @shondreailwilliams8822
    @shondreailwilliams8822 2 роки тому

    💯grand!

  • @seking3734
    @seking3734 2 роки тому +2

    💥Boom!💥

  • @meetupspeakup4161
    @meetupspeakup4161 2 роки тому +1

    True

  • @donotwastetime
    @donotwastetime 2 роки тому +1

    GET RIGHT OR GET LEFT✨

  • @arnelabih1845
    @arnelabih1845 2 роки тому +3

    This is why you write letters hehe.

  • @christyfallinger8716
    @christyfallinger8716 2 роки тому +2

    I left

  • @noemiareis1121
    @noemiareis1121 2 роки тому

    I agree

  • @do-ray-me
    @do-ray-me 2 роки тому +2

    Yesss

    • @Everything4tee
      @Everything4tee 2 роки тому +2

      Crazy how I received this message on a lot of different levels..What about when it’s a close family member?? Do the same rules apply??

  • @lc2014
    @lc2014 2 роки тому +1

    ❤️❤️

  • @SaltiB
    @SaltiB Рік тому

    BINGO!!!

  • @Brookeavenueee
    @Brookeavenueee 2 роки тому

    💯💯💯💯

  • @lc2014
    @lc2014 2 роки тому +2

    Exactly D 👏🏽💝

  • @shondahamilton752
    @shondahamilton752 2 роки тому +6

    I care about you about US. Communication and comprehension can be fixed. Yes, if you don’t care 🤷🏾‍♀️. You have nothing. I love when you curse. I forgive you 🥰!

  • @jijilove7626
    @jijilove7626 Рік тому

    Hello sir Im a 24 yo blind woman I really need your help sir how can I talk to you ?

  • @ghanaempressajourneyhome4266
    @ghanaempressajourneyhome4266 2 роки тому

    I disagree I'd say all three are important

  • @pacmanne88
    @pacmanne88 2 роки тому

  • @Arizona_lilly
    @Arizona_lilly 2 роки тому

    Shes good. We can communicate all we want but if someone isn't listening then we said our part ... how they react is on them. Not us guys... stay strong 💪 ✨

  • @ordinarypoopletalkshow
    @ordinarypoopletalkshow Місяць тому

    TRUTH!

  • @justbu3797
    @justbu3797 2 роки тому

    I totally agree !!!!