ENTPs - 12 Rules for Life
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- Опубліковано 9 лип 2024
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May you consider a "12 rules/advice/suggestions for life , ESFP" , I'm an ENFJ friend and I'm(and others are..) struggling.🍃💜🤙🏾👌🏾
Thank you so, SO much if you decide to do this. Ofc, this is your channel, and we respect your decision if you don't do this, just saying it would do a potato good if you even put out 2 pieces of advice and called it "2 suggestions for life, ESFP"
Ps. Thanks for reading this far🙏🏾
Hello Sir Nathan, I LOVE YOUR VIDS, they have really helped me _a lot._ As an ENFJ though, I'm having difficulty interacting with my ESFP friends in a more constructive, future focused(Ni) way. I don't wanna hinder their SE TE loop, they literally designed like that for a reason, and I value it for them, especially since they don't procrastinate like I do👌🏾😂, it's just I wanna give them food for thought as to how they can _maybe_ direct for themselves all of this tactile progress and action and with my Ti explanatory nature, it can blow over their heads with their Fi bias and Ti polar. They are my friends tho, and I wanna at least give them a couple of ideas that can be both genuine to them as helpful for their future, either it's wisdom on just doing things, or how the world progresses or sumn else that u think could help them in a "12 rules/advice/suggestions for life, ESFP" Thanks 👌🏾👑🤙🏾
I saw the word "rules" next to ENTP, and I'm offended but curious
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Tell em
Read ma mind✌😂😂
Exactly why I clicked 🤔😏
This 👆🏼👍🏼😂
I as an ENTP would like to hear some interviews with old ENTPs. Who are at least 70 to 80 years old. I would have so many questions for them. Such as: have you actually changed entire family because you got bored? How many U turns did you took in your career and so on. Big decisions.
I love this! I'd love to see this too.
Just Listen to Jordan Peterson
And more importantly, was it indeed all worth it to try to do so much at once?
As a 50 year old ENTP, prolific in technology, I volunteer for questioning!
@@RaxTubeYou How do you handle finishing your tasks/ideas
Follow the rules like pro.. and break it like an artist.
Love this quote! ~ Nathan
ok Picasso lol
Aaaaaaah👌🏾👌🏾
1. Detachment is a double edged sword.
2. Lose the battle to win the war.
3. Sweat the small stuff.
4. Embrace the hare.
5. Invest in and see the true value of relationships.
6. Sometimes you need to force the direction.
7. Being overwhelmed is better than being bored.
8. You can't make an omelet without breaking a few rules.
9. Look for what others miss.
10. When you have an idea, try it before you tell people about it.
11. Outsource and collaborate.
12. Stay in your comfort zone sometimes.
i'm an intp with an entp younger brother. the arguments and discussions we have are as you'd imagine
Lucky, I'm an INTP surrounded by sensors and feelers. At least my older brother is an ISTP so logic rules our conversations.
Ha! I get it. I’m and ENTP with and INTP younger brother. 👍🏻
And I’m an ENTP with an INTP husband.
Whoa. I'm an INTP with an ENTP younger brother, too! He's so cool...
@James Bund Oh dear, that would be a real challenge.
I love ENTPs. I always find them to be super weird, chaotic, unique, and cool. One of my top fav personality types. Nice video, I love the rule 8.
But still some people hate me.
Top? Not number 1? I'm afraid you are wrong
@@KholishRabbani happens to the best of us
Boredom leads to depression and despair. Lol it’s that simple for a lot of ENTPs.
I’m there right now….
@@IdonthaveatwittersoFoff. I feel you. I’ve been in a rut myself. Trying to resume my career, but have been stuck in a part time job(for a year now) doing tedious tasks in the meantime. It has been…well, I’m not sure how I wouldn’t be depressed. The good news is we can turn things around really quickly once we make one thing happen or we see an opportunity.
@@IdonthaveatwittersoFoff. What I mean to say is I’m sorry you find yourself in that place and I hope you’re able to figure out a solution soon.
@@ourcozycorner8517 I love the true ENTPness of having to explain you had a good intention….lol. Thanks for your comment and I get ya. 👍😁
100%
You assume I'm not well aware of what I SHOULD be doing.
I am an ENTP who is also a Gemini and also has ADHD a triple threat of complete scatter brain 🧠
hello brother
3/3 here too 🙌 lol
ENTP Gemini here as well. Question: Is it all that Gemini energy that has turned us into ENTPs? I have the sun, moon and mercury in Gemini. Me thinks the ENTP diagnosis was sort of unavoidable.
@@kathrinlancelle3304 Nah since astrology is made up, you're an entp because of your upbringing and how your brain developed during your earlier years and your later formation of an identity. I can especially say since this I'm infact not a Gemini and an ENTP
Love Who: 12 rules for ENT-
ENTPs: No
Seriously though, great video!
DEAR GOD RULE 10 HDFSJKHFD actually made my jaw drop and stop what i was doing to listen because ive been struggling with that for so long. i used to tell my bf my drawing ideas and story concepts to friends and teachers and family who knew of my interests, and then as soon as i went to actually carry them out, i couldnt get a single part of anything done. and i didnt know why until now! thank you!
Got #9 correct as you were reading the story, which me happy. Rules, as such, are best understood as "official suggestions". The Ten Commandments becomes "About a dozen helpful ideas".
Intellectually sus?!
-very funny person
This video made me smile. I've figured out most of these rules by myself. And you were right actually, it just confirms what I have learned throughout my life.
But there's one thing, even though I agree on most of these rules. I have to disagree on number 7, that being overwhelmed is better than being bored. Being bored has many advantages than it might seem. Boredom has some kind of meditative aspect on it, which I believe helps control the impulsivity nature of the ENTP. It helps you to think clearly, make decisions worthy of your effort and time than impulsively take everything that feels good. Being bored makes your mind wander which is making you the most imaginative than ever. So yes, I believe that being bored is better than being overwhelmed.
Oh wow an ENTP that HAS to disagree with something.
@@pathkeepers lol, i almost completely agree on everything he said. But i have to go back to that specific number to see if I understand it correctly. I thought he was saying the other way around and I got confused.
To certain degree, I agree; but you also have the risk of falling into apathy (in a "what is the point of trying/starting anything I'll never finish/master?" sort of way). So I think it's a balance of thinking longer but also initiating some things. Being pickier about your decisions, so to speak.
@@SangreFriasBack I don't know how old you are or what generation you come from. But I live in a generation when media consumption drives everyone crazy, everyone is distracted. Being alone in my room for a while was the best thing that ever happened. I had time to reflect and contemplate on what I actually want to do in my life, it was the moment when I realized most of these said rules on my own. Don't get me wrong, boredom sucks. I would rather have my dopamine hit every single moment of my life. The truth is I'd rather go out with my friends every night. But I choose to be alone in my room, work on my projects, create something made from my own vision. I hate the process of doing it, it's repetitive, it's tedious. But I still want to do it, because it's fulfilling and fulfilling isn't equal to enjoyable.
I knew there was something wrong with that rule. It felt off for me too. But, although I agree with what you said, as I'm typing this, I realized that this comment that u posted is the reason WHY we need rule #7.
We are too good at being optimistic about things, I mean like... WAYYYY too good. I notice myself finding all the "positive facts" about the actions im taking and use it as an excuse to always do less or to put less effort.
And you saying that we should pick boredome over the other because of its the meditative aspect to it is just our entp brains making excuses for us to be lazy. and we all know that if we were bored, we wont even use that time to "meditate" (I know we do in some phases) bit well prolly just stimulate our brains with entertainment bullshit
Any other ENTPs disputing the fact that they can successfully achieve BOTH of each point?
re:#8 - this is why it irks me to no end to be new at jobs, groups, hobbies, etc. because it’s only once I have a decent grasp of the ground rules and context for who/what/when/etc. that I can efficiently and creatively break the rules (and get away with it). ENTPs (at least this one) don’t like being seen starting small and making mistakes. Love this, Nathan!
Holy shit! This is the most accurate thing I’ve related to!
Yeah, same! Sometimes I'm mistaken for someone shy bc I'm quiet and passive at the start but that's merely bc I need to gather data on the rules and group dynamics in order to be able to act in a way I wish to and get away with it. Until I don't know how to, I basically lay low bc I hate being fake.
@@Noelciaaa Exactly! We need time to do recon before we act lol
As an INTP, I related to most of these as well! Very useful.
Number 10 is so painfully true I didn't know others felt the same way
Love who is a legendary wielder of wordings
Thank you for your insights. I have been waiting for this. I like your unique perspective on the MBTI. Again, this video is very helpful and profound.
Number 9 sounds like my entp friend the other day being very skeptical towards like ALL of internet and trustworthy witnesses saying Johnny Depp never did anything to Amber Heard. I was a bit taken aback at first, but then I enjoyed the discussion. Ne and Ti are my worst functions so it was interesting hearing her out and then testing her with the facts I've seen from the court room. She is very good at not getting carried away by charismatic speakers or general opinions. Definitely makes me ponder about the grey stuff much more.
@Josh Mulvaney Hi. No Im most likely ISFP so Ti and Ne is my blind spot and last function in the shadow.
Johnny Depp was right lol
@@Henryfordisright it doesn't matter if he was right, the point she was making was that he could be right abut her being abusive and still could have been abusive to amber back. But no one would want to believe that given ambers mental state and the much better lawyers on johnnys side. Anyway, that's not my opinion, I'm just trying to represent my friend's view accurately.
Im an ENTP and think Johnny Depp is an abusive alcoholic and a terrible person. Im not saying Amber is a good person but I do think she was mistreated in that relationship and should have left instead of stooping to his level. Depp has always had a shitty rep, his choice of friends is also very suspect at best. I generally never agree with conventional opinion on anything, not because I want to be contrarian, but I actually find group-think to be reactionary, often manipulated, and generally on the wrong side 9/10 times.
Lose the battle and win the war…one of the most difficult things I leaned.
Also learning that feelings are AT least as important (and usually more so) to most people helped me a lot in crafting how I approach things
As an ENTP, I really related to this video! I will keep it for later times in my liked videos list. :) Thanks for making it!
Man, rule 12 struck me hard! I think it was what I needed to see at this moment. New subscriber.
These were so good for my husband! Definitely fought through being consistent in the past couple years but now hes seeing the results of it!
Wow. This was so so so helpful an spot on! Thank you so much.
As an Entp it is very important to reflect on your own actions and motives. Leaving this aside makes the fertile chaos difficult to handle and unproductive. Thank you for reflecting with us. I tried some of your advices and feel less stressed out without sacrificing my goals. Thank you very much!
i feel thats all i do whether i do something about it or not
I absolutely love rules that make perfect sense. 2+2=4, e=mc², put out your fire before leaving the forest. Rules that make no sense like no left turn or u-turn, I'm going left ❤
The fires i start when i get bored tend to burn bridges and ruin the environment for my colleagues
12 rules, ENTPs have no rulesss
WOW! I really needed to hear Rule 10. I've had so many ideas for projects and maybe 1/20 actually happen. I will implement this.
When you started talking about the chess game, I found it funny because I am an ENTP and although I don’t play much chess, I do enjoy it, but I never realize that that is exactly how I play my games, where I keep my options open and strongly dislike playing an offensive play where I can’t move around as much
On number 6, for a board game analogy: if given an option between a face-down deck and a face-up selection of cards, the Ne user will find something inherently appealing about taking from the face-down deck.
This was a very useful video to me. Thank you. - ENTP
The last rule hit home, literally!
Damn, that last one I really need to give a shot; 12. Sometimes stay in your comfort zone for awhile.
I was just talking about quitting the job I love and how I’m getting stir crazy with where I’m at in life -it’s been 1 year since I started 🤣
Very interesting selection of ideas. I see them in generally three subset, nurture and enjoy relationships, embrace the brilliance of the ENTP, and overcome your weaknesses. We are all individuals and everyone will have their own "pressure points" that resonate for them. I do agree that growing relationships is vital, having a wide circle of acquaintances is good but really finding that small circle of special people during life has a far greater value to me atleast than what my personality type would suggest. Sometimes you need someone to grab you by the collar and explain that "you are not a character but are instead a cunt". Relationships help you paper over your weaknesses, developing good friendships at work is vital, most jobs are never advertised, so you might want to think twice about finishing off your next meeting with a verbal blaze of glory. Rather than beating down ideas, allow yourself to be inspired. And get an understanding accountant. The final part is embracing the brilliance of the ENTP, but when you let yourself rip try to ground yourself. Acknowledge an idea is off the wall or as this video suggests do some preliminary work.
I am an ENTP. Very good suggestions. Thank you very much
Why am I up at 1 am hoping to find videos on UA-cam to put me to sleep but finding this interesting?
great video, that nr.10 im gonna apply or at least try
As an ENTP, if someone asked me what is my weakness such during an interview : my answer will be based on this video. Thankl you
Number 6. is right on the Money
As for rules. I don't always detest rules. Many times I do tho. But if the rule is reasonable then I see no point in breaking it. Rules and appropriate freedom shall go hand in hand. A rule which hampers someone's personal choices are the worst ones. Like - no dating in school kind of rule..n etc...but things like no pda may actually makes sense as it's a professional setting
Rule #9 has been my mantra for GOD knows how long.
And UGHHHHH Rule #10...I can't tell you how many times my Mom grilled me about making this mistake.
“Tour die says” “told Ice Is” “Tordices”
Thanks, I enjoy learn more about my unconscious mind.
I had to screen shot these, cuz I try and be better…but also my mind chaotic
knowing what you want
like
match your energy
Rules for ENTP? They better be damn good ones. I only follow rules that make sense.
number three manifesting as paranoia when people ask me "what are you doing today?" and I immediately think I've forgotten to do some menial task that is tiny but insurmountably important.
12 rules for ENFJ? This serie is really cool.
Tour-toises, never heard it said like that before
I feel very called out by all of this but I kind of appreciate it…
Please do ENTJ next
I come out as enfp in tests but act at work like entp
You're smart #10 def
can't believe this is all dragging all the stuff im not doing
Do any other ENTPs who play chess prefer dynamic positions or is it just me? (referring to the quote at 4:02)
Bravo nathan, clean NiTi i supposed, you're infj right.. this is spot on and helpful
Where can I reach you ? Like for chat , I would ask the question here but it's 2 personal . Please 🙏🏻
Question/Game for ya, Nate: Let's say you have 2 really good Friends. Both of whom, we will refer to as: Person A. You've noticed a consistent pattern with both of them. You keep finding yourself having observed 2 separate arguments taking place (at totally different times, 2 completely separate occasions). In group 1, person A, is arguing with person B. Person A, is (clearly) arguing to *BE* Right (i.e. to "win" the argument... maybe they wanna learn something-to implement or not... maybe they wanna call someone on their hypocrisy... maybe just cuz: "f@ck you" lol). In group 2, person A, is clearly (for the astute) "arguing" to get to what *IS* Right/Actually True/Real... And, person A (in the group 2 example), is visibly upset, because person B thinks/claims person A (in this group 2 example) is just "being antagonistic/playing devils advocate" (but, they actually for_real are_NOT).
Would you say that both (A's) are ENTP? Or, do(es) this/these example(s) demonstrate 2 different types (in your estimation)? If different, which example (A), is which type?
Thanks in advance 😎.
Anyone else wish there were fun animations to this video?
Yeah, this is the sort of video that demonstrates to me that I'm not so much a dyed-in-the-wool INTP as an ENTP that can't stand people. :-/
I have a ?... ok I'm intp but i think that when I was younger I was more entp. Is that something that happens with age? Do basic types ever change?
After hearing rule number 8, I was like "Ahh! Finally! My powers are back!" 😁
Shift ”rules” to ”suggestions”
I think you _wrote_ that hare homonym so we'd poke you about your floof. Well, I'm not gonna bite.
Wait, oops.
Me going into the video sceptical bc it has the word "rules" in the title:
Learned number 10 the hard way
"You're pronunciation of tortoise is wrong and here's why..." -An ENTP
Please do one for estp
12 Rules for ENTPs aka How to Keep Your Friends
Yesss this is right, I love my friends, I love to debate with them but they hate me hahaha
Me reading the title. I do what I want.
Number 2 I do not have a problem with that. In fact I would say it is the opposite, due to my detachment mentioned in the first point. I really never have cared about winning any argument, nor convincing anyone. I do enjoy sharing my thoughts tho. But the purpose of arguing or debating has NEVER been about the other person. They can believe whatever they want, I really do not care. And arguing when they do not like it, yields no result other than antagonizing people, and that achieves nothing. So rather, I go to debates to learn and hone my skills, I only care about me. If the other person gets mad, is very close minded and or doesn't have much to offer to the discussion I simply leave.
I simply do not see any reason to debate with anyone that won't feed my Ne Ti. And with Fe, I do not like making people mad, so i see no point in arguing unless the person likes it.
I am very unlikely to follow a rule. However, some of the rules you are giving I have definitely already learned.Aside from that, though, principles are not rules. Principles are facts or that which lend to a better forming of reality, and which are malleable to some exent, For instance, "Work good toward all, especialy those in fthe failth" leaves a lot of room for interpretation of what is work, what is good and in what way it would be especially to those in the faith. And, that's something I can live with, examine as needed and therefore be absolutely sure to consider at odd moment,s including some when there is a need for it to be employed most ardently.
Damn, from the first one ☝🏽
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first because i can
Very ENTP of you
@@Snarl_Marx thanks for the compliment but i'm an ENFJ
@@clearskies2434 💀💀
Rule #8 -> Chesterton’s Fence
As an ENTP, I am here to learn what those rules are so I can break them.
Me too lol
We like to see diagnosis results and rules, but we don't like to be bound by rules.
12 rules for ESTPs please
interesting .
There is only 1 reason why the hell an ENTP would watch a video about rules.
of course to bend or break them easier and get away with, knowledge is key! ENTP in a nutshell.
Wait, is your cover mocking Steins.Gate? 😂
These are more suggestions than rules, right?
I’d say so yes! ~ Nathan
This ENTP is mad that you only gave me 12 rules, lol. You literally gave us a rule about breaking rules, and you didn't even break your own! I was so hopeful, and now I'm disappointed. lol
As an entp I see 12 possible arguments.
Rules were made for a reason, but not my reasons xx
Rekt
Not sure if Im an Entp or just have a mental illness
Welcome
I didn't know that Americans pronounce tortoise
Did.... u just suggest ARSON?
I don't care. I did as well as I could.
I already didnt like the advice given. on nr 1. Detatachment is a double - edged sword. But you're not wrong
I think the position of an ENTP with intersecting marginalised positions acts and thinks quite differently, but interesting nonetheless.
ISFJ 12 rules for life?
More like 12,000 rules! 😂
It is good to try new things.
Sometimes, you just have to let go.
Forge your own path.
Don't be afraid to make a mess.
Think outside of the box.
Don't worry about how others feel.
@@CaveyMoth Well, that was easy! 👏
ENTPs like me didn't watch the whole video.
#3... (I think I'm being watched😳)
#6 you just named the entire reason that I never finished open world video games all the way. I never want to take one direction in case another one is better for the end game. 😅
#7 I spin plates for a living now. Honestly, you are 100% correct. I'd rather have a day where I do 3 days worth of work and feel like a badass then have nothing to do. 😁
#8 😂🤣👌Facts
First rule is to not not follow rules so fuck this