Creepy Man Stages Bizarre Kidnapping to Convince Girlfriend to Marry Him | Julian Buchwald Analysis
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- Опубліковано 24 кві 2024
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Never seen anyone work so hard to get laid. This whole plot was exhausting.
You ever see Pepe Le Pew?
Exhausting for sure! 😂😂
No kidding it isn't that hard to get laid geez.
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@@user-tp6fo7im3d 🤣💀
This has got to be the most convoluted plot to get a girl naked I have ever heard.
LOL I once drove 4 hours in a tropical storm to met a blind date. That's as crazy as I ever got. :)
@@markmike7933 How did the date turn out? You can't leave it on a cliff-hanger like that!
@@markmike7933I hope it ended up being well worth the 4 hour drive, in a serious storm, to meet your blind date?...Or was it a bitter disappointment?..I have NEVER had a blind date that ended well, EVER!...So following a particularly hideous blind date (that ended up being my last)I decided to put a moratorium on blind dates, FOREVER!..:-)
@@markmike7933 Blind date? I got set up by a visually challenged woman to go on a blind date. She thought it was hilarious. Yes, we went to a movie that she couldn’t see.
@@markmike7933Was that you I saw on Chris Hansen's show?
I think the first red flag may have been that stopping to investigate dead animals was normal behavior.
especially when you re with the love of your life ,, do you really want to stop and look at a dead animal vs spending all that precious time with your crush ?
unfucking belivable !!🙄
In Australia, people often stop to check the pouch of road killed kangaroos , koalas, wombats , for pouch babies that may have survived and can be rescued . So if that was his reason, it's normal.
No man, come on. That’s not a red flag…maybe a yellow flag when paired with other behaviors. Plenty of people have interest in animals, and I stop to look at dead animals because I want to figure out what it is, also if I’d be able to preserve any of the bones. Also, if it’s an opossum or another marsupial in the spring/ summer you investigate because you want to check their pouch, to be able to save any surviving babies. Also, an animal could still be injured and alive, and might still survive if it is rescued.
Shocker: I majored in zoology in college. Animals interest me.
I’m not defending him, just the many many people who are good people, and are judged because they don’t adhere to societal norms
@@MermaidMakesAgreed. Came to say the same thing.
He may have been checking the pouches for babies still alive.
that's not love, that's a hostage situation.
I would call it desperate measures
@@Danko31 That's the naked truth.
@@user-tp6fo7im3d birth day suit style
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Li'l ditty 'bout Julian and Caroline...
Ugh Im so glad she didn't let him pressure her into sex. I was so worried that this story was going to have a much darker ending.
Same. He is a danger to society. 😳😭
It's horrifying that nothing would have stopped him from rape.
At least this teen girl had some class, unlike her creepy adult stalker.
Me too
Same here. If that did happen ... here in Massachusetts, USA ... and I'm the Judge or on the Jury, that psycho would quite likely have a r@pe conviction as well. Any consent given by the girl would be deemed invalid.
🎼TD, Boston
"Julian always wanted to be married and ended up in prison. Some would argue he didn't miss the mark by much." This guy is a hoot!
LOL and right! :)
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As a citizen of Germany, I have to say: "Aww, come on, do we HAVE to keep him?"
Yes since the most well known German is still mustache man it's the least u could do😂
@@knotzed Mustache man was Austrian though :)
well, he is a german citizen after all.
By the end, he was German. @@theincredibletroy
He was a German with Chinese characteristics.
Getting married for the sex is like buying a plane ticket for the peanuts
Jeff Foxworthy
I know that poor Carolyn went through a terrible ordeal. However, it’s good that she didn’t end up marrying this dangerous individual
Amen to that.
That has to be the most innovative "marriage proposal" ever
That worked as well as The -Titanic- Titan Submersible. 😳
#TooSoon❓️🤭
Ha... marriage. He was trying to get laid.
I would hate to see what he’d cook up for a gender reveal party
If the staged kidnapping wasn't bad enough, Julian was 21 and she was 15 when they met.
What a creep
The age gap isn't the factor. The underage is.
@@DC-zi6se exactly he is a perv who is attracted to children!
Silence Kok blok gatekeeper, legal age in Germany is 14
omg
His defense was that he didn’t feel empathy?!? 🤦🏻♀️
OMG. It boggles my mind that supposedly empathetic people felt "sorry" for Julian, but totally discounted the horrendous way he treated another person. Where is their empathy for Caroline and recognition of physical and mental damage she will spend the rest of her life dealing with because of the sociopath?
I think they just heard only part of the story, and the phrase"wanted to marry" also is misguiding totally untrue when you hear the other facts about how this guy was just pretending to be what he wasn't. Also they may have not heard it was 6 days! of torture and making her feel she was gonna die to get her to accept what she did not want to do. They may think it was just some minutes of play role and then be the hero that saves her from some kidnap...I think they hear something then fill the story with their imagination like it was just a guy that was so in love that made a crazy thing.
@@sanabnormal4975 he is also the type of man who after marrying her and getting over the high of having sex with her, would dump her and go horrify or fool some other woman, leaving Caroline abandoned and wondering what just happened… or worse!
@@lademoiselleketoret6958 ha, the algorithm sends us the same vids
@@matthewfors114 this is one of the worst stories I’ve ever heard 😱😭
@@lademoiselleketoret6958 yep, sounds like my ex
Nothing says "I love you" quite like kidnapping someone. That poor girl, she must have been utterly traumatized. I've heard of this story before, but had no idea she had permanent injuries.
watching this from Germany, I feel the urge to show my daughters his picture for safety...
@@sarag.7156id be warning her about the new "doctors and engineers" already inside your country.
He should have been charged with sexual harassment for continually harassing that poor girl. Just because the guy was a young man, everyone should be held responsible for their actions.
She picked him.
Lol nope @@HiNickCares
@@HiNickCares R@pist alert 🚨
@@HiNickCares Typical of a guy wanting to blame the victim. Ugh.
@@KimberlyLetsGo You're not a victim if you picked him, you're an accomplice. Take accountability for the men that you pick.
I’ve heard of guys doing desperate things to get laid, but this is astonishingly insane.
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalized..
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
So....I guess the wedding's off?
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All that criminal activity and he didn't even get some, good for the girl for sticking with her beliefs... and him, what a loser he is😂
he couldn't lose his virginity in a brothel if he tried
She picked him.
@@HiNickCaresNick, no one cares.
@@sarahjaye4117 I do.
@@HiNickCaresYou need help.
With that traumatic experience, Carolynne definitely took a bullet, but she dodged a much bigger one but not marrying him. Wishing her good health and healing.
This is same MOST nutty thing I've heard!...creepy and crazy..her instincts to not marry him were right..unbelievable
Thankfully Carolyn is free from this creep - the man she had been considering to marry
The sucky part is she probably has serious trauma and trust issues that she'll likely take into her next relationship. By all accounts Im glad shes physically fine but mentally I hope she's taking care of herself.
@@wafflecone6968 yes - it's awful for her... but if she had actually married this guy ...
Going a bit out on a limb here, but its quite possible that Carolyn might have suspected something as "off" from the point of him being a hostage with her. Possibly it was her gut instinct, or the Holy Spirit letting her know that Julian is in fact the perp.
She simply had to go along with this mans charade, being naked with him for days on end, and to hopefully get out of it alive.
She picked him.
@Gizziiusa I agree that is possible because he only changed his clothes...How could Carolyn not know it was her boyfriend?...I think at the point of being kidnapped, and stripped naked, she realized Julian was seriously unhinged and felt it was "safer" to play along with his ridiculous charade until she could somehow escape him!...Not easy, when one is naked, but not impossible!...I believe Carolyn would now be seriously traumatized by Julians actions, even more so at the tender age of 15!..Carolyn might even suffer from serious PTSD for years to come!...Further, how does anybody know for certain that Carolyn was not raped by Julian, all that time they were alone, and naked, in the bush?..She might be too afraid to tell!.. I also think Julian should of served double the prison time he did, like Dr Grande said...(15 years, minimum!..)
What a strange plan. Weird. Glad she didn’t marry him
Stopping to look at dead animals? Weird
and really gross
I hope dear Carolyn has managed to create a happy life for herself, despite the pain her nerve damage caused and despite the terrible trauma she suffered. What a horrible, abusive person he was!
People who say 'But Im a nice guy' and don't understand why that worries people should finish this video and learn why.
He was going to marry the person he did this to and didn't see anything wrong with LITERALLY objectifying her. An object is something you can tie up and ship around, an object doesn't have rights or feelings. It breaks my heart completely that this ever happened. I wish Carolyn a peaceful and blessed life.
This guy should write a book!
I suggest the title "How NOT to get laid (50 easy steps)"
It would sell very well in the incel community.
It's only a matter of time before he hurts someone! He deceived everyone all along, not to mention he sounds like he'd be very controlling and I fear for any woman that possibly marries him! He shouldn't be out in society!
"Excedently creepy"
has now become a psychological term.😅😅😂
It’s a form of advanced creepiness
Or "exceedingly creepy"
Exceedingly Creepy Disorder (ECD).
They should tattoo do not marry on his forehead! Thank you Dr. Grande for your look into this bizarre case!
In multiple languages like the Rosetta stone
Brand
“Julian wanted to get married but instead wound up in prison. Some might say a very similar situation. “
Wow, he really went Buck-wild there for a minute.
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*-Sex-** Six days...* ⌛️😳🤭
With that list of creepiness, sick imagination, deception and twisted planning, I have no doubt this isnt the last we'll see of Julian in news and tabloids.
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“Buggery” Victoria? You can’t make this stuff up…
It was actually Budgeree. Pronounced like the first part of the pet bird, Budgerigar. C'mon Dr Grande! I know you've learned how to pronounce Melb'n correctly, but get it together with your barely-inhabited Australian wilderness localities!
Buggarree, in Gippsland probably
@@deegee7133 As a Brit, I did have to go back a couple of seconds and then double-check the map! I did think it looked as though it was named after your famous grass parakeets, rather than the bum-fun I thought he said!
Well, there is a Mount Buggery in Victoria.
@rogercroft3218 hah, you're right. I had to look it up. But Mt Buggery is up in the Vic Alps. Budgeree is much further south, in the Strzelecki Ranges.
Today I learned there's a place called Buggary in Australia.
In the old days the guy would just run out of gas on some isolated spot
"I'm Praveen from Indian customs. How long have you been an Indian?"
"Sir, since today morning, sir. Please do the needful and kindly revert my passport."
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I'm confused? I dont get it can you please explain? I'm curious lol
Never mind hahaha!! 9:04 I get it hahaha!!!
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Maybe if Julian had tons of cash, marriage would’ve been inevitable and extremely soon, but it turns out he chose a risky lifestyle that unfortunately didn’t pay off.
She only said let her graduate from school. It was already inevitable of he wasn'tridiculous.😂😂😂
Tell me you’re an incel without saying it.
Bro you can't just tell the truth like that, it hurts people's feelings.
@@hydrostatic8048 It's okay. They barely have the reading comprehension to understand why it's childish to act like women as a species are just randomly immune to greed. Marrying for money is either a male-only issue or complete fiction according to them I guess.
Incel chat bots
He definitely watched too much Naked and Afraid on Discovery channel smh
exactly what i commented before , he got the idea from there , plus some desperation 😂😂
Once he got to prison, I hope he didn't drop the soap and find out what it feels like to be on the receiving end of such a lack of regard for human rights and dignity.
I was thinking the same. Oh dear.
Hes kind of a pretty boy 🧐
The truth is, this might all seem like a crazy joke, but Julian is a highly dangerous individual.
No
I like the guys style. Anybody can take a date to Applebee's, but hes all about creating memories
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This poor girl! Talk about Naked and Afraid.
This is some kind of cartoon behavior that Eric Cartman would come up with.
Lmao
Not far off
Dude couldn’t find someone who was open to casual sex?
Thinking with the wrong head 🙄
The things people do for "love"...yikes.
_I can't imagine his plans for her if he had eventually hated her..._ 😳
That's not love thats lust. If he really loved her he would have waited until marriage, he would have cared about her safety both mentally and physically to not go on with his stupid plan, he would have taken responsibility instead of trying to flee the country. This piece of garbage didn't love her.
The religious people tell us we must love god or he will burn us in a pit of fire. And it must be their brand of god.
He also didn't seem to understand how important a realistic sense trust is in a marriage.
In retrospect, the kidnapping, as miserable as it was, may have saved Caroline from a lifetime of misery with Julian. She was fortunate to have dodged a bullet. (the shovel was creepy. What was his plan for that?)
I thought you'd have already done this guy. It's definitely a Dr. Grande non-diagnosis worthy news story.
10:48 "...he was a young man looking for love who went astray."
He went to Straya looking for love.
14:30. Play this for Mrs. Grande. Let us know the results 🤣
I remember this story. The most insane way to ruin a life.
How flattering to be loved so much😅
Thank you. I hope Carolyn is in a happy, safe place in her life now 💜
If anything good came out of this horrific experience at least Caroline found out what Julian was like and didn’t marry him
Wow what a bizarre case, proving again just how wacky people are, agree was very traumatizing for her. Great analysis again. Thanks Dr G😊❤🧡
Just as i was looking for something to listen to while at work, a new Dr Grande video appears! 🎉
I love how Dr Grande pronounces Melbourne properly.
We pronounce it "Melbin", not "Mel-BORN"
Good to know! Thanks
Who cares.
not you clearly lmao
This world is weird.
Most guys just give the girl a diamond ring from De Beers, instead of kidnapping her and creating the fears.
probably he watched that surviving show too much , where the contenders wandered in the jungle naked 😂
If you ever think that you are down bad...... Just remember this man!
I thought this sounded familiar as Mr Ballen covered this story about 2 years ago. This genius also had a cellphone he brought which was in that backpack as he didnt think he'd be out there nearly as long as they were because as soon as she said yes 😂 it was suppose to be a wrap , then he'd just call mommy & daddy explaining why he did this and tell them basically how it was so worth it as she said YES of course😮 so come get them now and pick up a small cake and a few balloons while on the way .😊 I guess he didn't realize most trees don't have plugs built inside them to charge cellphones & that's why he had to go in the road and flag someone down & yes almost completely naked. He even asked her supposedly to come walk with him but 😮that wasn't happening. 😅 What a douchbag.....😂😅
This must be the most bizarre story I have ever heard! Poor Carolyn. I hope she has been able to recover from these traumatic events.
"...he didn't miss the mark by much." Ah Dr. Grande - what a bleak view of marriage.....
But he’s married tho😬
Dark humor 😂
I don't think that was the Bush he planned to spend the week in...
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How he said "Permission was granted for the young lovers to spend the day in the bush" with a straight face is beyond me.
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@@jkjives1786 LOL again :) I wasn't sure if he meant it that way Now i am :)
Good morning, Dr. Grande. Hope you've been well lately.
Dr. Todd "Alliteration and Adjectives" Grande.
gosh darn why didn't I think of this!
The suggestion of having sex "to stay warm" is one I hadn't heard before. 🙄
This is the craziest story I've ever heard.
Can you analyze the case of Dylan Schumaker? He went viral and became an Internet sensation in 2013/2014 for breaking down crying in court, and it would be interesting for the case’s dynamics to be broken down in a video.
The dude is not the brightest light in the room, what could go wrong? Sadly everything in this case.
Indian Passport
Just from the thumbnail title alone, you know this one is gonna be a laughter filled banger! And low and behold....! 🤣
Lmao!! legit laughed at the part where he tried to convince her s*x would keep them warm!
Thanks Dr. Grande. I have come to love your subtle sarcasm. It is most sublime!
I've been waiting for Dr Grande to get to this one.
Regards from Greece Dr. Grande ❤🎉
Grease. Hee hee.
I'm 7:15 minutes into this and I'm laughing so hard out of nowhere because this is just SO. WEIRD. 😂 🤔 When you said something about after 6 days of them running around in the woods I just lost it 😂😂😂
There is so much wtf in this story
The comment on marriage at the end was ruthless 😆. Bravo👏💙
The way Dr. Grande said “exceedingly creepy”, will now own land in my brain forever lol I’m not even mad about it! 😅
Wanted marriage, got prison...
"Some would argue he didn't miss the mark by much..." facts! 😂
As a German citizen Julian ended up with another, albeit nowhere as serious, sentence .... he has to learn German grammar like the rest of us, the hard way.
Hi Dr. Grande. I always enjoy your videos.
Well this guy was certainly prepared to go the extra mile as far as courtship was concerned!!!! 😮
You're writing, humor, and puns are getting even better lately.
. How much food did he bring to that picnic.... I mean what were they eating for 6 days.. the parents had to be tripping out
Thank you Dr grande for these incredible videos :)
You post at the perfect time! When I start preparing dinner!
Hi Dr Grande, excellent analysis. As always I learn something new from your videos
I love your channel Dr. Grande. Thank you for doing what you do.
Always interesting
Thank you❤
So he didn’t serve his full sentence?! 😳
Love you Dr Grande!!! 🙌🏼
Did he try the "just a prank, bro" defense? Or was this before the internet era?
First Dr Grande video I watched where I don’t remember anyone actually dying 😂😂😂😂
That poor woman
OMG! I was JUST thinking about this case the other day! I remember when it happened and when the details came out it was all so bizarre. Julian was just a massive weirdo. Down that way (Gippsland) there are sadly many dead animals on the road so stopping to look at them is very unusual behaviour. I forgot about the whole fleeing to India part though. It is almost comical. I too suspect someone helped him obtain the fake passport. I'm surprised he was deported though. There's far worse crimes committed by people who aren't citizens that we don't deport, but that is a whole other issue. This was definitely a very serious crime though and must have been terrifying for Carolynne and I sure she is still affected by it to this day.
Morning Dr G. Friday here in Sydney Australia, and it’s very chilly! Have a great weekend.
Happy yesterday from México, where it's too hot on a Thursday! 🏝🌞
#CheersMate 🍻💙
His hometown was called. Budgeree. Buggery?
That's what I heard. Your town is called WHAT?? Maybe it was founded by prisoners before they started sending women over.🤔
Ye I was thinking same
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When I heard it, I thought it was Bungaree, which is near where I live (close to Ballarat) . I was pleased to learn that it was actually in Gippsland.
Presumably this is because different Aboriginal languages had similar sounding words
Wow! Thanks for the video.
Crikey, Doc --- I thought I had rotten luck with girls --- & after all that the poor sod still winds up with Buggery!!!