@@erinm3567 a story teller who mixes various forms of music. Is able to put into words the feeling/emotions that I have but unable to express. He is a Christian but not a “Christian Artist” if that make sense. Give him a listen and tell me what you think….
I'm over 65 and just learning all of this. Thank goodness, nothing is impossible with God! My biggest issue is I grew up with an alcoholic and I'm married to one! Talk about triggers! I have no family and am isolated. Thanks so much, Tim, for all you are doing to help us feel we aren't worthless!
I pray ur spouse gets help I pray u find peace and healing Whether ur spouse finds it or not Recognizing YOU need healing is an excellent first step towards a smoother path forward Accept ur not in control of ur spouse's behavior But u CAN control whether or not u find the behaviors acceptable
Gods have nothing to do with it. YOU will be the one who brings yourself worthiness, because you are powerful. You have the strength and you have the will.
If it helps you feel less alone, EVERY ,serious, long term, committed adult relationship I ever had. Was really just my mother in a different body. Same abuse, neglect, disrespect, and violence. I can only assume on some level I wanted to see it wasn't impossible, for the dymanic between us, to be loving/peaceful/successful. Or maybe it was my unintentional way of studying the chaos to try and find answers I couldn't get from a parent allergic to honesty. In the end, before going no contact completely, it wasn't even a desire for resolution. It was pure curiosity and need to understand. There was no hope or expectation of improvement or apology or even accountability. Just a detached emotionally numb, desire to just know the truth.
@paulalane8638 Hi there: I now attend Celebrate Recovery which is a Christian based support group for addressing habits, hangups & hurts. There may be one near you. If there is not a group close to you, there is a weekly online Zoom group. If interested, check online. If you are unable to find the website, let me know. You are going to make it!
Every time I listen to Tim Fletcher speak, I think he is the smartest person. I have learned so many things from this gifted man of God. Thank you, Tim and thank the Lord. 😃
Amazing how you describe in such exquisite detail aspects of my life i never knew as i pushed myself away from myself. Not even decades of useless "therapy" could possibly uncover what you have done in the space of a video. Thank you. Let the healing begin. !!!
Omgosh. me too. Just found Tims videos a few days ago... Its like hes talking about my life. and I maybe even feel a little validation, wow, thought id have to be the one to do that. Ive been taking notes like crazy. I want to watch everything. Thank you so much Tim Fletcher, bless you
I so appreciate his comment at the beginning about hurt people hurting people and the extreme guilt and shame that keeps washing over me about traumatizing my children. I see it, it was completely unconscious. We didn’t form an attachment, I had no idea I was supposed to do that 😢 I am trying to take his advice and not beat myself up as much as possible
.this is the information I have been looking for for YEARS.., therapy, books, other channels (some are great) university lectures upon lectures on psychology, philosophy...this is only the second video I have watched on this channel but already the information so far is invaluable...thank you so much..
This is so helpful! I appreciate this level of detail in his speech. I have absorbed so much information that I can use to have compassion for myself. Thank you cannot fully express the help I have received from this Ministry.
💖 Thank you. Your talks are really helping me to gain insight into my CPTSD. I do have a counsellor and therapy. It is a long process full of ups and downs. Your talks help me to see the whole picture of CPTSD and my part in keeping the dysfunction rolling as an adult, the physical/mental/emotional dysregulations and why it takes so long and my willingness to do my part to heal. I know the brain can heal and grow as I mature but it has not happened without a lot of hard work and determination to make this happen. Sometimes I forget that there is positive everywhere if I look for it and I have days where I feel so tired and hopeless about this whole life mess but I keep walking towards healing and accept the crappy days as just part of life whether related to trauma inflicted by others or self-inflicted which tells me I still have a long way to go and there are no shortcuts.
Omgosh. Just found Tims videos a few days ago... Its like hes talking about my life and I maybe even feel a little validation, wow, thought id have to be the one to do that. Ive been taking notes like crazy. I want to watch everything. Thank you so much Tim Fletcher, bless you
Oh, and I’ve been listening to them in sequence. Very beneficial. This one in particular, I will listen to more than a few times, and take notes. 🙏🏻👍😊😍
Thank the Heavenly Father that He also gives us the Holy Spirit to Supernaturally heal us and get down into the places of our hearts and minds that need work beyond our comprehension and capability to do ourselves! Amen
It seems Tim is wasting a lot of energy trying to project his voice to the room even though he is mic'd to a P.A system. The knowledge he has is priceless.
This guy knows a lot and is really into it -- interesting stuff --- I've suspected for a while this complex trauma stuff is what I've been going through
I HATE adrenaline! When I was little, I went into FREEZE and I could not, literally, move. I have had fibromyalgia for most of my life, beginning around 17 years old
The brain work is hard, but it's proved to work because finally we have something in common with other diagnoses: stroke and dyslexia. These both require brain work in methodical ways and small achievable steps in order to pave new neural pathways so function can proceed better. I used CBT and felt afraid of something taking over my mind: it was hard enough to think through life without messing up the way I think. Boy! I was wrong. The other diagnoses made me realize this neural development was both vital and possible, so I dove in (despite my doubts). Nearly 3 years later, I don't have to think about how to think often. It's become automatic. And as it changed my mind, my stress and other issues dissipated. If anyone else is afraid or doubtful about brain work, trust the research; CBT has a great track record.
My brain is.. I don’t even know. Im a high functioning person. Mother psychopath sadistic narcissist, complete abandonment - humiliation and abuse phisical and mental. Father was removed from the pic. Step father a drug addicted violent abusive mad. I witnessed so much violence until 11. After that I was adopted by a emotionally distant family. I don’t know how is possible to recover from this. I don’t even know how I can sustain the life I have, my career.. I am an extremely agreeable person but kinda distant and very hyper vigilant. People tell me I give them peace… inside of me is just freeze and pure anguish. CPTSD. Fibromyalgia with I guess is going to MS. Doing carnivore diet to help my body heal/ But my heart? My soul? I have no idea how.. I’m watching all this videos.. I know it’s gonna be a long long path. I don’t want to be around anyone, I just hate people and at the same time I care deeply too much about others. Just not that much about me. I did not know love.. i did but so so little and not from my primal caregivers. I was severely abused. I have too much love in my heart I just don’t know how to give it without being crossed and abused… I’m the perpetuasted hero and rescuer.. going through this dark night of the soul.. don’t wanna see anyone and need to start again my own path.. learn my own rules.. But how does a heart heal after something so brutal.. I’m using mushrooms also, micro and macro. I’m starting to cry properly at 32 .. all this pain.. I don’t wanna waste my life.. i love art, painting, wrote a book, made music.. im an artist.. but in a broke human.. I hope I can make this .. the emotional triggers are heavy but yes.. this videos help.: I just want a normal life.. thankyou again
I have heard your talks thank you, its very healing. the problem is healing is a living hell, cv19 is just one ore layer of stress its like 9/11. I have little reason to try anymore b/c all energy is taken up by trying to survive and for what? why bother in a world where it is unsustainable, totally unaffordabable. spiritually painful.
It does take up a lot of energy to live in survival mode. And it takes a lot of energy to heal like you say. I hold onto the spiritual notion that my Soul chose this lifetime to learn a lot . Braver Souls take on bigger traumas. Lucky us. The wonderful thing is that there is a collective healing taking place which means that healing will be increasingly sustainable. There is so much more awareness now and plant medicine for trauma is spreading 🙏🏼🌱 And healing makes the Soul happy ✨
my so-called "best friend" maliciously violently brutally viciously raped me. he raped and tortured my soul. left me. without warning. abandoned and betrayed me. discarded me, like garbage, for another. may he suffer for what he's done to me. now I am traumatized and suffer major PTSD. I have constant hyperventilating debilitating paralyzing panic attacks. I'm being buried alive. 999-trillion layers of rage and grief suffocate me.
What are the benefits of becoming a member under Tim Fletcher? More so, I am watching all the UA-cam videos, but are there more available by becoming a member?
Does anyone know the speaker's name? This is the only explanations of this phenomenon in childhood development I've found. The specifics match my experience exactly.
Hello! I am not sure why you do not have 500 million followers. Really. The enemy is a deceiver and you speak truth. So, I guess that's why.. but just for the momemt. And then. BAM! You tell us how the God of the universe presemts Himself to us, in the midst of this dysfunction. I am praying your messages gets out to the 🌎. So much brokeness. Thank you for tying the science, psychology and Jesus altogether ❤ .
I totally agree, how has this man only got a few thousand followers? His videos should be exceeding millions of views! It was only by chance that I found this channel, but it has provided me with so much understanding and information. Thank the Lord!
Okay but I have two thesis of what it could be: -Warren focused on families whear the womam wear exhausted and therefore couldn't properly care and given ample time and/or the lack of other stress factors the mothers would've played just fine -or you are well I suppose the inability to form helathy relationshis that are needed for healthy development is called negelect so that would make it negelect and you wouldn't techniqually be wrong -
I like the previous 6 videos, I find them very informative, they helped me better understand some behaviors that were puzzling me. But this one I'm very disappointed with, here's why: The picture of the two 3-year old brains is lacking the attribution you can see in the document linked from fdrliberated.com/stefan-molyneux-abusing-dr-perrys-brain/, it's from a paper by Dr. Bruce Perry and the child with the small head suffered extreme neglect including malnutrition, being raised in a dark cage under a staircase apparently. So it's not true that cptsd causes that kind of under-development. It's obvious too, because if 90% of people have cptsd, which I think is about right, then 90% of people would have abnormally small heads. The next major blunder is saying that the cervical ventricles are "cell growing regions" for the rest of the brain. What?? Where did you get that from? And then you say that the corpus callosum is underdeveloped in cptsd, and that people have trouble remembering details because parts of this bridge are missing?? Again, do you have any evidence for this? The fact that you're making all these dubious (just plain wrong, in my opinion) claims with the same confidence as in the previous videos, now is making me doubt everything you said before, and that's very disappointing. Please redo this one with sound science, or just remove it. I don't think there is any need to exaggerate the damage done by cptsd, it's bad enough.
I think the point of sharing the images of the 3yr old brains was to prove that damage is done, not necessarily to that extent. There's probably a range depending on the severity of the abuse.
It does say on the image that it was a picture of a child suffering from SEVERE NEGLECT so obviously it's not going to be as noticeable on a child who has not gone through extreme circumstances, I'd say he used that particular image to point out that complex trauma does damage brain development.
@@maryc4463 How do you figure that? I'm surprised, because it's clear to me that, to show that complex trauma damages brain development, he'd need to use an image from someone who didn't also suffer from severe neglect.
I think you put too much focus on these it is not correct. I know a friend who unlike me did have a loving parents ..but while I have my own issues, she is too narcissistic and on the edge to be always a warrior and pushing what she wants. So I mean everyone is broken in some way don’t blame ppl with abuse or neglect too much. Love can Laos create narcissism
Maria Makinen what in the world is that comment about? Rhetorical question bc if it’s got negative roots, I’m not interested in your reasoning. If not, pls reconsider the rest of the folks listening here and select your words carefully.
I have a super high startle reflex. I scream and scream if anyone walks up on me and I don’t see them coming. I had to put “shop bells” on all doors in my house so I know when my husband or son is walking into the house so I know they are here. Otherwise, if I don’t hear them walk into the room, I scream like someone is stabbing me. I cannot control it at all. It just happens. Very embarrassing.
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for once in my life I'm listening to someone basically describe me in very great detail.
Yeah I know WRIGHT
Reminds of listening to NF. Someone putting my feelings I didn’t even know I had into words.
@@jeremyspears3691 Hi Jeremy. Who or what is NF? I always like to research more trauma healing resources. Thanks.
@@erinm3567 a story teller who mixes various forms of music. Is able to put into words the feeling/emotions that I have but unable to express. He is a Christian but not a “Christian Artist” if that make sense. Give him a listen and tell me what you think….
Killing me softly with his words
I'm over 65 and just learning all of this. Thank goodness, nothing is impossible with God! My biggest issue is I grew up with an alcoholic and I'm married to one! Talk about triggers! I have no family and am isolated. Thanks so much, Tim, for all you are doing to help us feel we aren't worthless!
I pray ur spouse gets help
I pray u find peace and healing
Whether ur spouse finds it or not
Recognizing YOU need healing is an excellent first step towards a smoother path forward
Accept ur not in control of ur spouse's behavior
But u CAN control whether or not u find the behaviors acceptable
Gods have nothing to do with it. YOU will be the one who brings yourself worthiness, because you are powerful. You have the strength and you have the will.
If it helps you feel less alone, EVERY ,serious, long term, committed adult relationship I ever had. Was really just my mother in a different body. Same abuse, neglect, disrespect, and violence. I can only assume on some level I wanted to see it wasn't impossible, for the dymanic between us, to be loving/peaceful/successful. Or maybe it was my unintentional way of studying the chaos to try and find answers I couldn't get from a parent allergic to honesty. In the end, before going no contact completely, it wasn't even a desire for resolution. It was pure curiosity and need to understand. There was no hope or expectation of improvement or apology or even accountability. Just a detached emotionally numb, desire to just know the truth.
God has His own ways, timing and purpose and you can trust that they are perfect and right on time... 💕💕💕
@paulalane8638 Hi there: I now attend Celebrate Recovery which is a Christian based support group for addressing habits, hangups & hurts. There may be one near you. If there is not a group close to you, there is a weekly online Zoom group. If interested, check online. If you are unable to find the website, let me know.
You are going to make it!
I’ve been listening to two of your videos everyday since I found you.
You are an invaluable help to me.
Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏🏻😊
May he goto heaven.AMEEN
Bro does he do online therapy in pak
@@umargamer5550 Umar, did you find an answer? Their website probably is a good resource. Bless you, good pilgrim! 🦉🌲🌄
He really is.
@@umargamer5550 could you go to React? It sounds amazing.
Every time I listen to Tim Fletcher speak, I think he is the smartest person. I have learned so many things from this gifted man of God. Thank you, Tim and thank the Lord. 😃
Amazing how you describe in such exquisite detail aspects of my life i never knew as i pushed myself away from myself. Not even decades of useless "therapy" could possibly uncover what you have done in the space of a video. Thank you. Let the healing begin. !!!
Omgosh. me too. Just found Tims videos a few days ago... Its like hes talking about my life. and I maybe even feel a little validation, wow, thought id have to be the one to do that. Ive been taking notes like crazy. I want to watch everything. Thank you so much Tim Fletcher, bless you
YES
So grateful for finding this channel on you tube. Cant thank you enough.
I so appreciate his comment at the beginning about hurt people hurting people and the extreme guilt and shame that keeps washing over me about traumatizing my children. I see it, it was completely unconscious. We didn’t form an attachment, I had no idea I was supposed to do that 😢 I am trying to take his advice and not beat myself up as much as possible
.this is the information I have been looking for for YEARS.., therapy, books, other channels (some are great) university lectures upon lectures on psychology, philosophy...this is only the second video I have watched on this channel but already the information so far is invaluable...thank you so much..
This is so helpful! I appreciate this level of detail in his speech. I have absorbed so much information that I can use to have compassion for myself. Thank you cannot fully express the help I have received from this Ministry.
💖 Thank you. Your talks are really helping me to gain insight into my CPTSD. I do have a counsellor and therapy. It is a long process full of ups and downs. Your talks help me to see the whole picture of CPTSD and my part in keeping the dysfunction rolling as an adult, the physical/mental/emotional dysregulations and why it takes so long and my willingness to do my part to heal. I know the brain can heal and grow as I mature but it has not happened without a lot of hard work and determination to make this happen. Sometimes I forget that there is positive everywhere if I look for it and I have days where I feel so tired and hopeless about this whole life mess but I keep walking towards healing and accept the crappy days as just part of life whether related to trauma inflicted by others or self-inflicted which tells me I still have a long way to go and there are no shortcuts.
You have outlined my whole entire life through this series. I’m understanding my own brain and why and how i tick. Its amazingly accurate. Thanks…
Omgosh. Just found Tims videos a few days ago... Its like hes talking about my life and I maybe even feel a little validation, wow, thought id have to be the one to do that. Ive been taking notes like crazy. I want to watch everything. Thank you so much Tim Fletcher, bless you
Oh, and I’ve been listening to them in sequence. Very beneficial.
This one in particular, I will listen to more than a few times, and take notes.
🙏🏻👍😊😍
Thank you
your video is blowing my mind. I have never heard anyone explain CT like that before. thankyou
Saving lives a video at a time! ❤
EXCELLENT!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Explained very well.
Thank you Tim! Im learning so much. Very encouraged to heal
❤ God we give you the glory for bringing this awareness to us 🌟 rain down on us with your goodness Lord. 40 years now and God has exposed my life
Tim & team: this is incredibly informative. Thank you 💖
This man is absolutely brilliant!
Tim's amazing ❤❤
Thank you for all the info. .... helps me understand so much of my 'symptoms'
Tim, thank you, for the borrowed hope.
Amen.
I am loving this! I've needed answers my whole life! Damage to left side of head as an infant. 21 day coma. I think I was 3.
Thank the Heavenly Father that He also gives us the Holy Spirit to Supernaturally heal us and get down into the places of our hearts and minds that need work beyond our comprehension and capability to do ourselves! Amen
Amen. O HALLELUJAH !!! 💙
U r muslims
It seems Tim is wasting a lot of energy trying to project his voice to the room even though he is mic'd to a P.A system. The knowledge he has is priceless.
This guy knows a lot and is really into it -- interesting stuff --- I've suspected for a while this complex trauma stuff is what I've been going through
19:30, this just described a lot of my adult life.
HYRA DYNAMO
Sir, you made a perfect discription of me. Confronting, but good to hear I can heal from it.
I HATE adrenaline! When I was little, I went into FREEZE and I could not, literally, move. I have had fibromyalgia for most of my life, beginning around 17 years old
Wow, having a visual of what's going on is so helpful to me.
Thank you
Thank you for these videos. Very valuable information!
Where did this guy come from? It's a perfect explanation of what I do and why I feel so confused and afraid and I don't know why
May God bless you
Bless God for brain healing
The brain work is hard, but it's proved to work because finally we have something in common with other diagnoses: stroke and dyslexia. These both require brain work in methodical ways and small achievable steps in order to pave new neural pathways so function can proceed better. I used CBT and felt afraid of something taking over my mind: it was hard enough to think through life without messing up the way I think. Boy! I was wrong. The other diagnoses made me realize this neural development was both vital and possible, so I dove in (despite my doubts). Nearly 3 years later, I don't have to think about how to think often. It's become automatic. And as it changed my mind, my stress and other issues dissipated. If anyone else is afraid or doubtful about brain work, trust the research; CBT has a great track record.
bless your heart !
My brain is.. I don’t even know. Im a high functioning person.
Mother psychopath sadistic narcissist, complete abandonment - humiliation and abuse phisical and mental.
Father was removed from the pic.
Step father a drug addicted violent abusive mad.
I witnessed so much violence until 11.
After that I was adopted by a emotionally distant family.
I don’t know how is possible to recover from this.
I don’t even know how I can sustain the life I have, my career..
I am an extremely agreeable person but kinda distant and very hyper vigilant.
People tell me I give them peace… inside of me is just freeze and pure anguish.
CPTSD. Fibromyalgia with I guess is going to MS.
Doing carnivore diet to help my body heal/
But my heart? My soul? I have no idea how.. I’m watching all this videos..
I know it’s gonna be a long long path.
I don’t want to be around anyone, I just hate people and at the same time I care deeply too much about others. Just not that much about me.
I did not know love.. i did but so so little and not from my primal caregivers. I was severely abused. I have too much love in my heart I just don’t know how to give it without being crossed and abused… I’m the perpetuasted hero and rescuer.. going through this dark night of the soul.. don’t wanna see anyone and need to start again my own path.. learn my own rules..
But how does a heart heal after something so brutal..
I’m using mushrooms also, micro and macro.
I’m starting to cry properly at 32 .. all this pain.. I don’t wanna waste my life.. i love art, painting, wrote a book, made music.. im an artist.. but in a broke human.. I hope I can make this .. the emotional triggers are heavy but yes.. this videos help.:
I just want a normal life..
thankyou again
I just feel like I’m learning all of this too late 😭😭😭 I know that’s not true but the feeling is overwhelming.
I have heard your talks thank you, its very healing. the problem is healing is a living hell, cv19 is just one ore layer of stress its like 9/11. I have little reason to try anymore b/c all energy is taken up by trying to survive and for what? why bother in a world where it is unsustainable, totally unaffordabable. spiritually painful.
It does take up a lot of energy to live in survival mode. And it takes a lot of energy to heal like you say. I hold onto the spiritual notion that my Soul chose this lifetime to learn a lot . Braver Souls take on bigger traumas. Lucky us.
The wonderful thing is that there is a collective healing taking place which means that healing will be increasingly sustainable. There is so much more awareness now and plant medicine for trauma is spreading 🙏🏼🌱 And healing makes the Soul happy ✨
Powerful
Brain trauma explains a lot in my life,
Exactly descibing me 😢
This is quite confrontational
Thank you
My life story, I struggled so much in my adult life because of complex trauma 😢
Where can I find more about the brain of c-ptsd?
my so-called "best friend"
maliciously violently brutally viciously raped me.
he raped and tortured my soul.
left me. without warning.
abandoned and betrayed me.
discarded me, like garbage, for another.
may he suffer for what he's done to me.
now I am traumatized and suffer major PTSD.
I have constant hyperventilating debilitating paralyzing panic attacks.
I'm being buried alive. 999-trillion layers of rage and grief suffocate me.
What are the benefits of becoming a member under Tim Fletcher? More so, I am watching all the UA-cam videos, but are there more available by becoming a member?
Does anyone know the speaker's name? This is the only explanations of this phenomenon in childhood development I've found. The specifics match my experience exactly.
Tim Fletcher
I hear you
I’ve had complex trauma from hour one, non stop. But it will soon. Please give a little clue of how I can die in peace.
Hello! I am not sure why you do not have 500 million followers. Really. The enemy is a deceiver and you speak truth. So, I guess that's why.. but just for the momemt.
And then. BAM! You tell us how the God of the universe presemts Himself to us, in the midst of this dysfunction. I am praying your messages gets out to the 🌎. So much brokeness. Thank you for tying the science, psychology and Jesus altogether ❤ .
I totally agree, how has this man only got a few thousand followers? His videos should be exceeding millions of views! It was only by chance that I found this channel, but it has provided me with so much understanding and information. Thank the Lord!
What is this man’s name?
Tim Fletcher
Tim Fletcher
Tim Fletcher
Yeah its Tim flether
What is the solution tom the protocol I mean I know now how messed up I am now
Wow
Somebody give him a glass of water please :))
Could anyone please tell me what is the area in the brain that produces cells is called?
Give him some water!!!
Okay but I have two thesis of what it could be:
-Warren focused on families whear the womam wear exhausted and therefore couldn't properly care and given ample time and/or the lack of other stress factors the mothers would've played just fine
-or you are well I suppose the inability to form helathy relationshis that are needed for healthy development is called negelect so that would make it negelect and you wouldn't techniqually be wrong
-
things here are too much stress
At last
I like the previous 6 videos, I find them very informative, they helped me better understand some behaviors that were puzzling me. But this one I'm very disappointed with, here's why: The picture of the two 3-year old brains is lacking the attribution you can see in the document linked from fdrliberated.com/stefan-molyneux-abusing-dr-perrys-brain/, it's from a paper by Dr. Bruce Perry and the child with the small head suffered extreme neglect including malnutrition, being raised in a dark cage under a staircase apparently. So it's not true that cptsd causes that kind of under-development. It's obvious too, because if 90% of people have cptsd, which I think is about right, then 90% of people would have abnormally small heads. The next major blunder is saying that the cervical ventricles are "cell growing regions" for the rest of the brain. What?? Where did you get that from? And then you say that the corpus callosum is underdeveloped in cptsd, and that people have trouble remembering details because parts of this bridge are missing?? Again, do you have any evidence for this? The fact that you're making all these dubious (just plain wrong, in my opinion) claims with the same confidence as in the previous videos, now is making me doubt everything you said before, and that's very disappointing. Please redo this one with sound science, or just remove it. I don't think there is any need to exaggerate the damage done by cptsd, it's bad enough.
I think the point of sharing the images of the 3yr old brains was to prove that damage is done, not necessarily to that extent. There's probably a range depending on the severity of the abuse.
Ann Born Help me understand how what you replied makes sense, relative to what I wrote, would you please?
It does say on the image that it was a picture of a child suffering from SEVERE NEGLECT so obviously it's not going to be as noticeable on a child who has not gone through extreme circumstances, I'd say he used that particular image to point out that complex trauma does damage brain development.
@@maryc4463 How do you figure that? I'm surprised, because it's clear to me that, to show that complex trauma damages brain development, he'd need to use an image from someone who didn't also suffer from severe neglect.
@@marcmoini omg are you serious? Severe neglect IS A COMPLEX TRAUMA!!
Addicted to adrenalin
I think you put too much focus on these it is not correct. I know a friend who unlike me did have a loving parents ..but while I have my own issues, she is too narcissistic and on the edge to be always a warrior and pushing what she wants. So I mean everyone is broken in some way don’t blame ppl with abuse or neglect too much. Love can Laos create narcissism
You happy on your pedestal of lies. ?
Maria Makinen what in the world is that comment about?
Rhetorical question bc if it’s got negative roots, I’m not interested in your reasoning. If not, pls reconsider the rest of the folks listening here and select your words carefully.
WTF?
Lies?
I have a super high startle reflex. I scream and scream if anyone walks up on me and I don’t see them coming. I had to put “shop bells” on all doors in my house so I know when my husband or son is walking into the house so I know they are here. Otherwise, if I don’t hear them walk into the room, I scream like someone is stabbing me. I cannot control it at all. It just happens. Very embarrassing.