These are great ideas and sometimes they work but let’s remember that sometimes they don’t. Even though we feel we are saying some thing exactly correctly to someone else doesn’t mean they’re always going to be that receptive to it
@@glorykaufman Nope. Not always. I've met pretty stubborn people that will not change or try to see it in a different manner to diffuse the situation. It doesn't work
Separate the problem from the person then what can we do about it. Amazingly simple thought changes, profound difference in the solution. Thank you so much! 👏 Also much easier to get the message in 11 minutes rather than an hour, not being critical just that it's difficult for me to sit for an hour or more..
This is wonderful, but my kids would have said “we’re going to leave it because it’s my room!” Our temporary fix was to just shut the door for a while. At some point they got tired of living in the mess as well and cleaned it up.
My dad 2005 Thanksgiving my Dad. Last time to their home. Told my kids on way out to movie...kids are onlgonna eat shit. My sweet 13 yr old said oh no papa I'm saving room for turkey. I did nothing to avoid violence. First time without my husband to put on an act. Last time spring 2005 same home as x.
"That's below my standard for a response" Brilliant. Simple. ❤
“Watering down what they’re saying…” Ooooo…. I can relate to this so much. This was very helpful.
These are great ideas and sometimes they work but let’s remember that sometimes they don’t. Even though we feel we are saying some thing exactly correctly to someone else doesn’t mean they’re always going to be that receptive to it
While I tend to agree, I’ve noticed that once i changed my approach- those around me changed theirs. Crazy how things like this work
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Nope. Not always. I've met pretty stubborn people that will not change or try to see it in a different manner to diffuse the situation. It doesn't work
Separate the problem from the person then what can we do about it. Amazingly simple thought changes, profound difference in the solution. Thank you so much! 👏 Also much easier to get the message in 11 minutes rather than an hour, not being critical just that it's difficult for me to sit for an hour or more..
I wish I had this advice earlier in life..but never too late..can still use it a million times..thank you
Motivation
Power in the pause! ❤🎉😅😊
Major Pause
Omg. I love this guy. Thanks for sharing the video
Great video and succinct and to the point! I love the shorter videos.
Wow! I'm planning to live a life now like this...
Thank you ❤
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I am the first one watching you from Pakistan.
Amazing ❤️🥰
Who is this guy Mel's talking to?
Jefferson Fisher.
This is wonderful, but my kids would have said “we’re going to leave it because it’s my room!” Our temporary fix was to just shut the door for a while. At some point they got tired of living in the mess as well and cleaned it up.
My dad 2005 Thanksgiving my Dad. Last time to their home. Told my kids on way out to movie...kids are onlgonna eat shit. My sweet 13 yr old said oh no papa I'm saving room for turkey. I did nothing to avoid violence. First time without my husband to put on an act. Last time spring 2005 same home as x.
I don't understand any of what you've said above
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Thank you ❤