Mel Robbins: "Saying These 2 Words Could Fix Your Anxiety!" (Brand New Trick)

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  • Опубліковано 14 тра 2024
  • If you enjoyed this video, I recommend you check out my first conversation with Mel, which you can find here:
    00:00 Intro
    03:14 Why you can take your life in a new direction whenever you want
    06:44 How to ACTUALLY act on what you know you should do
    14:20 The 'what if' moment that will change your life
    18:52 It breaks my heart how stuck people feel
    20:49 Why you need to WANT change to actually change
    25:41 Why motivation is garbage
    31:41 Why people don't change even when they say they want to
    34:24 How do we know what we really want?
    39:57 The fastest way to take control of your life
    45:18 What not caring what others think REALLY does for you
    49:20 "Stay in your peace, stay in your power"
    51:00 The best advice I ever received
    55:35 Your partner Chris
    57:14 Setting goals that align with you
    01:02:19 Why you need to stop letting people's reactions affect you
    01:05:47 Ads
    01:07:12 Your ADHD diagnosis
    01:15:29 Finally understanding myself
    01:17:34 The link between trauma and ADHD
    01:19:56 Menopause, it's all so confusing
    01:25:49 Menopause struggles
    01:27:46 What's your goal?
    01:30:19 The last guest's question
    You can listen to ‘The Mel Robbins Podcast’, here: apple.co/3R5qJLg
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  • @BehindtheBrand
    @BehindtheBrand  8 місяців тому +17

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  • @realMichaelEMerritt
    @realMichaelEMerritt 5 років тому +2945

    "No one's coming. It's up you. You're not a kid anymore. I''m dead serious about this. So many of you are waiting to be picked. By who?" Shit! Brutal truth. Just what I needed to hear.

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  5 років тому +45

      Preach

    • @joannanurmis3472
      @joannanurmis3472 4 роки тому +72

      Exactly. It's the difference between spending your days waiting for something to happen and making something happen. I am entirely guilty of the former.

    • @DANCINGERN
      @DANCINGERN 4 роки тому +2

      Lets you and i have a webinar scheduled to address the Amway sitation in front of a large crowd of 10,000 people. It is up to the UPLINE TO TEACH WHAT TO DO. ROLE PLAYING IS VITALLY IMPORTANT. Did you remember that i sated they my sponsors and Direct Dist could not recruit only 8 prospects out of 200 propects. What does that tell you. We lost those prospects within the 24 hour to 48 hour time from. no time

    • @irenetorresco.broker4459
      @irenetorresco.broker4459 4 роки тому +32

      wake up call! Too bad I didnt hear this 40 years ago

    • @DANCINGERN
      @DANCINGERN 4 роки тому +3

      What businesses have you tried and let us get on youtube and have a discussion? It is up to your upline to give you the proper training. I have a Barbers License, Pilots license fly twin engines airplanes, am a 3rd degree Black Belt in Karate, Have been on National TV on the Rosy Oddonell Show in Nov 2002, won dance competition with 21,000 people voting for me in Quicken Loans Arena in 2011 a trip to Disney World. What have you done in the business world and how much did you make? Let you and I go out and prospect for business and see what you do.

  • @erikaadriana99
    @erikaadriana99 4 роки тому +1915

    "Your feelings aren't a choice, your behavior and your thoughts are a choice."

    • @bemotivated4986
      @bemotivated4986 4 роки тому +12

      Absolutely!
      let's become friends on UA-cam 🤩

    • @marcelageiger
      @marcelageiger 4 роки тому +11

      Exactly. It's about how you react in regards to how you feel.

    • @elle7322
      @elle7322 4 роки тому +33

      I wouldn't neccessarily say that thoughts are a choice, as those come and go, just like feelings - you cannot control your thoughts. Positive affirmations probably are a way to influence your thinking yes but what we think is not up to ourselves. It is not a choice. The only thing in our power is how we react to those thougts.

    • @BeboBevo
      @BeboBevo 4 роки тому +8

      You Can change your feelings by changing your thoughts & actions.
      She looks better without glasses.

    • @erikaadriana99
      @erikaadriana99 4 роки тому +11

      @@elle7322 Sure... but when these thoughts come to the mind you decide if you want to keep them or not.

  • @woodenlodge2012
    @woodenlodge2012 4 роки тому +1702

    Holy hell, my masters assignment is 5 days overdue, too scared to touch it, watched this and 2 hours later I've finished it. 5 second rule; amazing!

  • @stoniewan
    @stoniewan 4 роки тому +495

    No one will change until the pain of staying the same is worse than the pain of changing.

    • @NathalieLazo
      @NathalieLazo 3 роки тому +11

      You explained this really well! 😄
      Thanks for the great points about when we will actually change rather than staying the same.
      I'll remember this for next time!

    • @fullmoon7928
      @fullmoon7928 2 роки тому +4

      So true..

    • @annanajduch5201
      @annanajduch5201 Рік тому +4

      Tony Robbins said that in his book a long time ago. Very true.

    • @4everfaithful4
      @4everfaithful4 Рік тому +1

      so true! I had to hit rock rock bottum before I really got myself together seriously!

    • @meredithmetcalfe2329
      @meredithmetcalfe2329 Рік тому

      12 Step wisdom as well

  • @vairaworld
    @vairaworld 5 років тому +1968

    I didn't even finish watching this video, cause I used the 5-second rule and went back studying! #stopprocrastinating

  • @rosemadder5547
    @rosemadder5547 4 роки тому +270

    I always say self discipline IS loving yourself. Self discipline is self love!

    • @georgewilliams9372
      @georgewilliams9372 3 роки тому +1

      yeah dear, how are you doing,please can will talk in private

    • @angelicaguzman2737
      @angelicaguzman2737 2 роки тому

      Beautiful

    • @TruePatriotKimmie1982
      @TruePatriotKimmie1982 2 роки тому +3

      I love this and will start referring to self disapline as such🥰💖

    • @elenakawa6450
      @elenakawa6450 2 роки тому

      love it

    • @theexipureteam3460
      @theexipureteam3460 2 роки тому

      Considering you’re already lost 30 pounds, I’d say you’re doing pretty great with your weight loss! I’m around your age, height and starting weight, down to 145 now but it’s been hard af with the holidays.
      Do you have any weight loss tips that have helped you?

  • @28105wsking
    @28105wsking Рік тому +209

    This thing about waiting to "feel like it" is really a true trap. It happens to me. I used to always feel like it and got everything done, but after I had a TIA stroke, I have never "felt like it" since. Some circuitry changed and I have to force myself into whatever, usually ironing! LOL! But once I get going, I just go till I'm done. Having a scheduled day with times to rest a bit and fairly frequent changes of action helps. I'm just a 'go till it's done' person, so it's easy to get bored to death and exhausted. It's better to break whatever it is I have to do into time increments and come back to it later. I have to give myself a variety of things to do in a circular schedule and then I don't get bored or exhausted. It's a better way to fight procrastination. Im going to try this 54321 trick and see if it won't help me cut thru my own excuses!

    • @Goodbyeeveryonehere
      @Goodbyeeveryonehere 2 місяці тому

      You were very lucky that you used to always feel like it. Most people don't.

  • @gusromanalucero8082
    @gusromanalucero8082 5 років тому +876

    I’m probably one the laziest person in the world because I’ve been doing a lot of thinking instead of making things happen that even lead me to severe depression. I felt so hopeless for not being productive and thought I needed help from other people just to keep me going. Thank you! This is the best straightforward advice I need.

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  5 років тому +10

      Thanks Gus!

    • @motivation-it7pt
      @motivation-it7pt 4 роки тому +12

      me too but from this day i will try this method and change

    • @kayligo
      @kayligo 4 роки тому +9

      Gus Romana Lucero how are things going now?

    • @declana.7848
      @declana.7848 4 роки тому +40

      same! I went through a really hard decade where i was severely depressed and didnt *want* to change, so nothing ever did. when things were worse than ever, i had this weird moment of clarity where I thought “I don’t want to be like this anymore. I want to be happy.” and from then I really put in an effort to try all those ‘coping mechanisms’ that I brushed off as worthless or stupid, and I really looked at myself and what I wanted to do, and then I just... started doing those things that terrified me but I knew were good for me. I still lose motivation sometimes (hence why I’m here now lol), but now that theres something I want, a future that I really want to have, I havent gotten near as low in my mental health. Good luck to you, and I hope youre doing better now!

    • @user-qe7bt9dz1l
      @user-qe7bt9dz1l 4 роки тому +33

      Gus Romana Lucero Nothing depresses you more than having an accumulation of problems that you never took action on because of hesitation. I KNOW THIS FROM EXPERIENCE!

  • @nancybrooklyn
    @nancybrooklyn 5 років тому +979

    The best part of her conversation is that she actually lived and experienced bad times ... and she explains how hard it is to motivate ourselves to get moving and how to start overcoming our procrastination.

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  5 років тому +12

      agreed, thanks for watching Nancy!

    • @chebetcheruiyot7446
      @chebetcheruiyot7446 5 років тому +2

      true

    • @NathalieLazo
      @NathalieLazo 3 роки тому +1

      You explained this really well! 😄
      Thanks for the great points about motivating ourselves and beating procrastination!
      I'll remember this for next time!

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      @ninukrishna6563 Рік тому

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      @ninukrishna6563 Рік тому

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  • @LIND311
    @LIND311 5 років тому +473

    "Waiting to be picked... by who?!?!" SUUUCH good advice!

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  5 років тому +4

      thanks Lindsay!

    • @sarahissy4241
      @sarahissy4241 5 років тому +1

      Its fab advise ¬¬

    • @achiles6928
      @achiles6928 4 роки тому +1

      yeah right

    • @pikachu-hd6lr
      @pikachu-hd6lr 4 роки тому +2

      From my future self
      (I know its stupid i used to think like that )
      Now im so happy to watch these videos

    • @mirian593
      @mirian593 3 роки тому

      Everyone is waiting for Jesus lol 😂

  • @Shivdotb
    @Shivdotb 4 роки тому +143

    “You’re never gonna feel ready”

    • @jonnycpardoe
      @jonnycpardoe 3 роки тому +5

      Agreed. If you wait until you are, you will wait a long time... or ever.

  • @Onedejenny
    @Onedejenny 5 років тому +403

    It's not the stupidest thing. It's the most brilliant thing. Simplicity is the most genius 🙏🏼

  • @larryk1153
    @larryk1153 2 роки тому +104

    I learned about this two years ago, and I inspired my friend, she got promoted twice at her job. The only thing is , my procrastination is platinum level, so I did countdown and said 5 seconds later I'll count again. However this rule, saved me when I was ready to take my life.

    • @HupernikaoRom837
      @HupernikaoRom837 2 роки тому +2

      PRAISE GOD

    • @ladyc09
      @ladyc09 2 роки тому +4

      So glad you're still here. Be gentle with yourself

    • @camm8832
      @camm8832 2 роки тому +1

      I am glad you decided to stay. Thank you for sharing this. 🌞✌️

    • @robertahernandez5607
      @robertahernandez5607 2 роки тому +1

      I'm happy it helped you saved your life. It truly touch my heart.

    • @tashaleahchongo715
      @tashaleahchongo715 Рік тому +1

      I happy you’re still here. 😊

  • @codinginflow
    @codinginflow 3 роки тому +757

    She's not exaggerating, this trick is incredibly effective

  • @joannecoffey2999
    @joannecoffey2999 Місяць тому +4

    Mel, girl, it’s not stupid. It’s genius! Simple is best. Thank you for sharing this beautiful knowledge.

  • @joycemeyerministries7669
    @joycemeyerministries7669 3 роки тому +114

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    It was really so bad that she attempted committing murder until you invited Mrs Lyra Holt Dean for your TED show program.
    Am really so grateful for her finical assistance in my daughters life thank you so much once again.

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      @joycemeyerministries7669 3 роки тому

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      It looked like a scam until we took the risk and tired it out and it worked

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      @joycemeyerministries7669 3 роки тому

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    • @joycemeyerministries7669
      @joycemeyerministries7669 3 роки тому

      @Lewis Hamilton Sure
      Kindly contact@lyraholtdean. com that her direct mail feel free talking her and talk me later SMILES.

    • @angelbelieves7496
      @angelbelieves7496 2 роки тому

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  • @grisselritchie9459
    @grisselritchie9459 4 роки тому +367

    I always apply the 5 sec rule to skip ads 😂

  • @rtcapy
    @rtcapy Рік тому +20

    Mel Robbins taught me how to disregard my feelings and start doing things I need to do. That has been life-changing for me.

  • @heavenlypickler
    @heavenlypickler 4 роки тому +78

    Yes, her 5 seconds work on me three years ago. I am mentally stronger and don't be afraid anymore now.

  • @jonathanmort4518
    @jonathanmort4518 5 років тому +149

    I've been applying the 5 second rule to stop negative feelings from traumatic memories. It's inevitable to sometimes remember frustrating or annoying experiences, but it is definitely our decision to focus on what really matters.

  • @HolaYarii
    @HolaYarii 4 роки тому +75

    This is soo true!! For the last 2 weeks ive been trying to get up at 5:30am to go to the gym. And i would have this little talk with myself the night before. And as soon as that alarm sounds, my mind will talk me out of it!! And when i finally do wake up, i feel so guilty and mad at myself 😩😩😩 its beyond annoying.
    Will definitely try the 5 second rule tomorrow morning

    • @Merryyy203
      @Merryyy203 4 роки тому +2

      Did it work?

    • @HolaYarii
      @HolaYarii 4 роки тому +5

      AllergicRants yess! Tried it this morning

    • @dimpy3442
      @dimpy3442 4 роки тому

      Did you continue to wake up early?

    • @adios131313
      @adios131313 4 роки тому +6

      Dimpy she is sleeping 😂

    • @margaretdoliet1630
      @margaretdoliet1630 2 роки тому

      I know how you feel 😁the same happens to me.

  • @artaabazi7544
    @artaabazi7544 2 роки тому +3

    There are people listening to this, thinking of excuses why this won’t work instead of why it could. I have been using this for a few months already and it has helped me a lot!

  • @ahmaddynugroho
    @ahmaddynugroho 4 роки тому +171

    Point:
    1:15 3 brain jobs
    2:24 true change comes down to 5 second windows
    3:26 5 second rule
    5:12 all u need to know to change anything
    7:22 greatest capacity to people
    8:13 example of 5 second rule

  • @karenc1733
    @karenc1733 4 роки тому +70

    “Most of us know what we need to do”. But we also know the battle that will ensue and sometimes that battle is just too fierce.

    • @thebigcountry8518
      @thebigcountry8518 4 роки тому +5

      That's how you know you're really confident. Confident enough to face adversities with an iron fist. The arena called life is fierce ! Nothing quaint about life ! Gotta take it on like a true Pioneer Woman , Gladiator or Mighty Mouse !...seriously :-)

    • @DC-nw3uc
      @DC-nw3uc 4 роки тому +7

      That's what she's talking about when she says you talk yourself out of it. Apply the 5 second rule and lean into the challenge. There's always one step forward you can take. Good luck!

    • @hofhofandaway
      @hofhofandaway 4 роки тому +3

      D C aaah it made so much sense with your additional words. Thanks!

    • @leesher1845
      @leesher1845 3 роки тому +1

      Well said.

  • @LaBridge211
    @LaBridge211 2 роки тому +15

    Get up and do the things you said you would, talk the way you said you would. Go deep inside and figure it out. So powerful.

  • @muntahasarfraz155
    @muntahasarfraz155 4 місяці тому +4

    Robbins you are the great. You are discussing the insights of the a lots of folks who are struggling to accomplish something significant in life, but whetherr they are constantly being trapped by their minds or don't have courage for terrifying something in life.

  • @debcantin6033
    @debcantin6033 4 роки тому +27

    Behind every feeling is a thought that is driving the feeling. If we get in touch with our thoughts, then we can control our feelings.

  • @chrisnaden
    @chrisnaden 5 років тому +175

    I use to use something like the 5 second rule in my college days. I use to be painfully shy about talking to women, but the I would count 3...2...1. By the time i went to 1, i would say "hi". My friends thought I was some bold and confident guy. But I was trying not to be single for the rest of my love. It worked. I'm now married and have a family. So, no need to use it for that purpose. But never thought about using this rule in other aspects of my life until now. This makes sense.

    • @wowster762
      @wowster762 5 років тому +13

      Ive used this to get out of bed but not to meet people, cool that you met people using this

    • @loganpatron6370
      @loganpatron6370 5 років тому +4

      I hope this happens for me as well

    • @GMoney-B
      @GMoney-B 5 років тому +6

      What a happy wonderful story. Thank you for sharing your experience! It helped me to imagine the possibility that I too can have a life with a wife, family, confidence/courage/persistence, success and the like. Thank you.

    • @hasnahharun1587
      @hasnahharun1587 3 роки тому

      @@wowster762 x

  • @valeriegregory6882
    @valeriegregory6882 2 роки тому +21

    Im almost 3 weeks into my fitness journey....I started to have self doubt and listened to this. I needed to hear this!

  • @guliz101
    @guliz101 3 роки тому +21

    The thing is i don’t want to force my self to get out of bed, i want it to be naturally happen.
    Like “ wow what a beautiful morning, lets live!” Thats what i want.

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  3 роки тому

      You've got to do what's best for you

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  3 роки тому +3

      JONES if I’m reading this correctly and taking it literally, it’s very important to reach out to friends or family right now. I’ve felt down like this and the most important thing is to talk to those who love you. Please do it right now.

    • @MckenzieNienaber
      @MckenzieNienaber 2 роки тому +1

      Same. Life isn't fun

    • @katemckena
      @katemckena 22 дні тому

      I don’t force myself to get out of bed. I love my morning time in bed. Some days I get up early and some days I get up later. I love having that flexibility and doing what I feel. It’s more important to me to live in the moment acknowledging and honoring how I’m feeling.

  • @latoyamalone1423
    @latoyamalone1423 2 роки тому +19

    …and there is a name for it. I knew of this and have practiced it years ago… everything she is saying is so true. I went from not knowing to knowing. From being EXTREMELY indecisive to learning how to make quick decisions in all areas of life. Give yourself permission to learn this and master it. Whatever it is you don’t feel like doing, apply the rule and start seeing change.

    • @usmanojochenemiamina3086
      @usmanojochenemiamina3086 2 роки тому

      I know of a relationship except who can help you bring your broken relationship within 48hrs he is from Texas and he help me and my lover get back after many years of separation

    • @usmanojochenemiamina3086
      @usmanojochenemiamina3086 2 роки тому

      Text him would explain how it works +1 2 0 4 8 0 8 2 2 3 4..!!!!!!!!

    • @usmanojochenemiamina3086
      @usmanojochenemiamina3086 2 роки тому

      He is indeed problem a problem solve

  • @planneraddiction1277
    @planneraddiction1277 5 років тому +91

    You can't control how you feel.
    But
    When feelings rise up you can choose to act however you want despite them.
    Thank you so much♡♡♡♡

  • @youngandprofitingpodcast
    @youngandprofitingpodcast 3 роки тому +40

    We can truly never control what happens to us, but we can ALWAYS choose how to react. Taking 5 seconds to think about how we want to act or what we want to say can make a HUGE difference in how the situation plays out, ultimately affecting how we go about the rest of our day. Super valuable!

  • @asbaran
    @asbaran 4 роки тому +34

    9:45 "...I'm changing myself 5 seconds at a time" Such a powerful statement. Thank you for this tool which I will apply in my life now.

  • @theevapeterson
    @theevapeterson 4 роки тому +63

    Truth bombs dropping all over the place! Thank you!

  • @stevebennett7435
    @stevebennett7435 5 років тому +99

    Excellent work! Simplicity is the highest level of sophistication!

  • @jacquelinetillyer8666
    @jacquelinetillyer8666 3 роки тому +4

    'When the student is ready, the teacher will come' could be Mel Robbins will come. Thank you Mel for your knowledge, immense experience and straight talking, it hits you in the butt and boots you into meaningful action that benefits 100%.

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  3 роки тому +2

      thanks for watching Jacqueline!

    • @jacquelinetillyer8666
      @jacquelinetillyer8666 3 роки тому

      When times get hard I watch your videos and you swing me into action. Take care, be safe from London UK@@BehindtheBrand

  • @WeithintermMond
    @WeithintermMond 8 місяців тому +2

    Very true!
    "Transformation can only take place immediately; the revolution is now, not tomorrow." Jiddu Krishnamurti

  • @TheHonestPeanut
    @TheHonestPeanut Рік тому +5

    The trick is self discipline. One step at a time. Depression is a different story but in general, just self discipline.

  • @normalhasaname
    @normalhasaname 5 років тому +11

    Absolutely 100% relatable! Stop procrastinating and just do it!

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  5 років тому

      thanks for watching, was this the first video on my channel you've watched?

    • @normalhasaname
      @normalhasaname 5 років тому

      @@BehindtheBrand Yup. I was actually. Love it :)

  • @caseybunch
    @caseybunch 6 років тому +136

    This hit me so hard hearing this tonight. Thank you for posting such a simple "stupid" rule. I'm going to try this tonight just going on my treadmill that I've been putting off.

  • @Thomas-hw3pb
    @Thomas-hw3pb Рік тому +4

    This 5 second decision is for real I am so glad I heard this yesterday and I'm watching it again. I will be 70 this year and very youthfull and full of energy . I've had more ups and downs in my life that most people would have jumped off a building I lost several properties, over 250k Cash when I was my 40s but found a way to get back on my feet it took about 13 years of saving, saving , saving and investing of what little of I could tuck away. And I didn't know I was using the 5 second decisions back then. And you are so right 5 seconds to just out of bed in the mornings I do , make my bed I've learned at 5 years old or my Father guided us .....Thank you for the reminder Miss Robbins....very very much Oh ! I'm back in a buisn. school at this time thanks to the 5 second rule decide , decide , decide NOW ...........

  • @dlkm0309
    @dlkm0309 4 роки тому +634

    She sometimes sounds like Mrs. Incredible.

    • @clarisserobles2775
      @clarisserobles2775 4 роки тому +13

      Omg yes! The first time I listened to her audio book I looked up if she was the voice for mrs. Incredible! I love her

    • @Shadesof
      @Shadesof 4 роки тому +2

      Daria 😅😅😅😅so true 👍

    • @northerstar82
      @northerstar82 3 роки тому +1

      @@Shadesof c d

    • @itskheziabigail
      @itskheziabigail 3 роки тому +1

      Sure is incredible haha

    • @mandymae1313
      @mandymae1313 3 роки тому

      Agree!

  • @nickym4092
    @nickym4092 4 роки тому +36

    I do know what I need to do. Sometimes I do it, and sometimes I don't. The key is in your consistency or habits. Thank you. You're changing people's lives 5 seconds at a time!

  • @marshamccombie8206
    @marshamccombie8206 Рік тому +3

    I’m one minutes into this video and I just can’t believe I never came across this woman until the other day. Everything I’ve heard her say speaks so much to my soul. She’s brilliant.

  • @jojowallace5098
    @jojowallace5098 5 років тому +11

    Best conversation on this topic I have heard. Flip it. Switch out the anger to empathy. I will remember this tomorrow when I attend a funeral and see my brother from whom I have been estranged. Thanks.🧚‍♀️

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  5 років тому +1

      Thank you Jojo, sending good thoughts your way as you're dealing with difficult things

  • @cisilver5982
    @cisilver5982 4 роки тому +34

    This is what I freaking needed to hear! I've been in such a rut as of late, need to remember this 5 sec rule!

  • @michaelwilson6913
    @michaelwilson6913 3 роки тому +7

    I found this video during a process I’ve been going through of realizing that nobody is coming to save me and it’s up to me to do the things I need to do...the things I don’t want to do...the hard stuff. Hearing her say it still was powerful though.

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  3 роки тому

      Michael Wilson congrats!

    • @zeehuss7275
      @zeehuss7275 3 роки тому

      That's what she means when she talks about 'the power of you'. The answer to our problems is within ourselves.

    • @georgewilliams9372
      @georgewilliams9372 3 роки тому

      How are you doing

  • @Miss_meaux
    @Miss_meaux 3 роки тому +58

    Second time listening to her and it feels she’s here to kick my ass with her words😧

  • @LoveFamilyDollShow
    @LoveFamilyDollShow 2 роки тому +1

    There is power in positive thinking !! I just got a job offer from a major IT company because I prayed and thought positive about the entire scenario. “ Be transformed by the renewal of your mind “ 🙏🏽

  • @danabenson4019
    @danabenson4019 5 років тому +30

    Mel Robbins you are SO AMAZING!!!! These videos and your process has literally changed my entire life. I cannot thank you enough

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  5 років тому +1

      thanks for being part of the channel Dana!

  • @__Itsjustnia_
    @__Itsjustnia_ 5 років тому +29

    I love how all of her videos just makes so much sense. It’s impossible to skip pass a Mel video ... thank you 😊 for the motivation!

  • @babychrisss
    @babychrisss 5 років тому +3

    I've been using the 5 seconds rule... For a week already . And it works for me very well..
    I'm a depressed person and I lost almost every thing .. every penny that i have .. got physically abused and all.. but thank God .. there's one person that he give to the universe to help at least one people like me (if I'm the only one)

  • @cheryljune1603
    @cheryljune1603 4 роки тому +8

    Day 1 today. I just found her,my new daily must see
    5-4-3-2-1

  • @BehindtheBrandLIVE
    @BehindtheBrandLIVE 3 роки тому +144

    “You’re never going to feel like doing it...”

  • @buttercup9903
    @buttercup9903 3 роки тому +4

    What she’s teaching us, is the power of acting. I feel it’s related with procrastination

  • @jacintakeeble1225
    @jacintakeeble1225 5 років тому +37

    Love her! The wisdom & confidence

  • @thehyeinyoon
    @thehyeinyoon 3 місяці тому +1

    The little things make a difference.
    We're never gonna feel like it. It's up to me. We are not a kid anymore. We can't choose how we feel. Your behavior & thoughs are the only one we can chosse. We already know what we should do. Stop thinking&complaining but just do it. Believe in yourself and follow it to become who you want to be.

  • @Dutchenter
    @Dutchenter Рік тому +3

    Action = positive reaction. Always.
    Action cures all.
    Don't be lazy and cure your anxiety ❤

  • @MatthewArmstrong
    @MatthewArmstrong 6 років тому +58

    Brilliant content and interview. You got the most important aspect of what she has to share in this one video. How dense!!!! Gonna listen a few more times it's so rich.

  • @yagirlxdan
    @yagirlxdan 2 роки тому +4

    Loved everything about this. Comfortability is deceiving, if you’re comfortable too long you’re not growing!

  • @sedoniadragotta8323
    @sedoniadragotta8323 4 роки тому +2

    I find this woman very self aware and spiritually awaken to life's truths. We all form bad habits . It is the knowing but not pushing yourself to change it .
    Create new habits , change your mind set .
    Little changes make big changes .
    Start changing your habits by believing that you can create any thing your heat desires .

  • @BoardMods
    @BoardMods Рік тому +2

    She makes a great point about tools for execution - to take action based on instinct.

  • @tgiltd12
    @tgiltd12 4 роки тому +3

    So accurate! I totally agree! Its doing what we ALREADY KNOW is the right thing to do no matter how we feel about it. Its the small positive changes and personal choices that make the difference. Brick by brick, day by day we become what WE truly want to be. Its ALL about balance and its all for our benefit...rest, good food, consistent exercise, good influences around us, doing what we really love to do in our own way.

  • @koco19tkb54
    @koco19tkb54 4 роки тому +25

    imagine sharing such a life changing idea. wow. God bless her

  • @LukeMindPower
    @LukeMindPower 2 роки тому +1

    Every family has one person who break the odds and achieve remarkable success. Thank your Self because its you reading this 🙏♥

  • @mashalakiana9358
    @mashalakiana9358 4 роки тому +15

    The fact that she has gone through the struggle and actually gave us part of the answer to fix our struggle is TRUE leadership. For the past 4 years I have become an entirely different person. Whether it was working out or being lazy else where. This video gave me an insight to look within myself and focus on that 5 seconds I take to make the decision to NOT do something. Thank you so much Ms. Mel Robbins.

  • @nancyliawoods
    @nancyliawoods 3 роки тому +5

    Hi!! 2 years ago I watched this video and I was like what a genius! So I started doing the 5 second routine- literally get out of bed the moment the alarm goes off (my hubby thinks I'm nuts but also is envious) and now over time I've trained myself to take 30 minute naps and use the 5 second rule to get up and over time its just become "normal". I apply your 5 second rules to many thing and always tell myself " don't talk yourself out of it!" Anyways. Just wanted to say thank you 🤍

  • @carris3ringcircus390
    @carris3ringcircus390 5 років тому +17

    Thank you Mel. As a mom of 3 that has suffered from severe depression for many years you're really helping me to think differently. I want to grow my UA-cam channel and I know doing that will also make me hold myself accountable. I will Have to get up, get dressed, clean the house ect. ❤😗

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  5 років тому +1

      Thanks for watching Carri!

    • @brainiacbeats
      @brainiacbeats 5 років тому +1

      Carri's 3RingCircus Come on Carri you can do it, get your ass up and start growing your channel. One love one life ✌️❤️

    • @kamaramikel8607
      @kamaramikel8607 4 роки тому +1

      I am a 14-year survivor of Major Depressive Disorder, Acute Anxiety Disorder and PTSD. My new book, "Kept my enemy closer", details my true story of fight and survival and is on pre-sale now at www.kamaramikel.com for only $12.99. Once you visit my site, please drop me a line to let me know that you stopped by. "I invite you into my life as it began to unravel. If you find yourself in any semblance of despair, I hope that you are able to reach out and get help ... it literally saved my life." - Kamara Mikel
      KamaraMikel.com
      The Speaker. The Author.
      The Brand.

    • @carris2scents57
      @carris2scents57 2 роки тому

      @@brainiacbeats THANK YOU! I have come SO FAR in the past year ❤

  • @julielevesque2668
    @julielevesque2668 Рік тому +2

    I find the best thing to do is if it is something that is important to you then do it first thing in the morning. Have 4 goals first thing after waking up. For me it is drink coffee, eat breakfast, get my clothes ready to go biking, go biking. When you have 4 decisions first thing and nothing else matters right away, you will never skip the exercise. When I come home after biking and it is 7am on a weekend, I feel empowered and I got the exercise done so now...I start my day with momentum! The earlier I go, the less I hesitate and the excuses do not really show up just yet.

  • @michelleannmayorga3642
    @michelleannmayorga3642 4 роки тому +2

    I love you Mel Robbins! ❤️ You are the best!

  • @112antant
    @112antant 4 роки тому +6

    So much wisdom, reality, brutal truth in a way that is inspiring. Thank you!

  • @NessyJayakumar
    @NessyJayakumar Рік тому +3

    This actually works!. The 5 second!. It changed my life. Thank you so much Mel.

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 2 роки тому +2

    5...4...3...2...1 let's go! Level up! Level up! Level up! Level up! Level up! - Ciara
    Thank you Mel Robbins for this!

  • @foxinthefirewood3959
    @foxinthefirewood3959 Рік тому +1

    This was so powerful. And exactly what I needed to hear today. No excuses, just some tough love.

  • @larasmith2931
    @larasmith2931 4 роки тому +7

    🦋that’s why it’s so important to stop second guessing yourself

  • @cintiasilva8116
    @cintiasilva8116 5 років тому +38

    OMG! You are the best! I wish I could explain how much difference you do to people life... but I can’t !!! I just can say THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK you!!! God bless you Mel 🙏🏻

  • @talentspursmedianetwork2624
    @talentspursmedianetwork2624 5 років тому +4

    I have not tried this but I can see how wonderfully it’s going to work for me. Thank you, Mel.

  • @phoenixbangalore6998
    @phoenixbangalore6998 4 роки тому +2

    I am so obsessed with mel, I find it very effective and impactful on life.

  • @vrs4909
    @vrs4909 4 роки тому +4

    My mother just made me watch this and I'm grateful for it. I'm definitely going to do this tomorrow! Best advice ever!

  • @Shivdotb
    @Shivdotb 4 роки тому +11

    Always push yourself... that’s just how it is... else you’d start talking yourself out of it

  • @TucsonNative
    @TucsonNative 2 роки тому +1

    I used to say that the best sleep I got was in the 9-minute intervals between hitting the "Snooze" button, but like Mel, my life had become a train wreck and not getting up and facing it was compounding my problems. It's now about 4 years since I heard her talk about the 5-sec rule, and since then I haven't once hit the "Snooze" button and I totally turned my life around. I am very happy to get the message again because I have drifted away from the 5-sec rule and my life has gotten comfortable and there are way too many things I want to accomplish that won't happen until I start applying the 5-sec rule in all areas of my life. Glad I found this on UA-cam.

  • @lalmirch200
    @lalmirch200 4 роки тому +2

    I really love Mel. One of my favorite. Her words are really strong.

  • @avivbenor6454
    @avivbenor6454 6 років тому +29

    This should have all millennials (including me) tuned in like a CRAZY! What a great piece of content! thank you so much. keep it going!

  • @lonjemariesfashions5117
    @lonjemariesfashions5117 4 роки тому +12

    She has helped me so very very much to change my negative habits and attitudes.

  • @rachelvera234
    @rachelvera234 2 роки тому +1

    I WONT WAIT ANYMORE. I WONT LET MYSELF FALL FOR MY EXCUSES AGAIN. I WILL CHANGE NOW AND I WILL WORK TOWARDS MY GOAL!

  • @TheoMaupile
    @TheoMaupile Рік тому

    One of the best speech ever ! Understanding that you will never feel ready actually helps you feel ready, love it !

  • @badstar9670
    @badstar9670 Рік тому +4

    We need more of this, way too many people are in thier feelings and its exhausting

  • @chucklemethis3329
    @chucklemethis3329 2 роки тому +3

    One thing that really stood out to me about what she said within my own methods I've created, it's true we have the answers. We're always looking for a quick fix but throughout our lives and through other storms we were collecting data. Now is the time to use the tools. I will start applying her methods along with my own and I'm excited to see results.
    Thank you for sharing.

  • @Sav316
    @Sav316 4 роки тому +2

    Excellent advice! Thank you Mel Robbins!

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 2 роки тому +1

    @1:14
    1. The mind regulates the body to keep it alive?
    2. Half of the brain shuts down, the other half catalogues it for memories.
    3. It protects us It aka it keeps our --- alive! It overmagnifies stuff! It magnifies any conversation, any situation!

  • @firsthealth9080
    @firsthealth9080 4 роки тому +7

    Back in the day I had to travel far and pay large to meet awesome people with this kind of insight, now you just "click" them into your living room for FREE and follow the insight and wisdom they're sharing. That said there will always be the weaklings & haters (both the same) like the 303 who will never get better or experience more. This is a REAL woman, who turned things around, isn't afraid to drop the odd F bomb and share her wisdom! Mel ur a Queen!!!

  • @andreas4268
    @andreas4268 4 роки тому +5

    Awesome Mel, thank you and so very true!

  • @d.y.2355
    @d.y.2355 3 роки тому +2

    I remember that I used that trick to go out of bed when I was a young teenager. I did not recognise, until now, that this is actually a powerful tool.

  • @desireecastillo8796
    @desireecastillo8796 2 роки тому +1

    WOMAN I APPRECIATE YOU SHARING YOUR WISDOM

  • @manishapathania8603
    @manishapathania8603 4 роки тому +8

    This lady makes lots of sense. Let me try this 5 seconds rule tmrw morning to get me out of bed.

    • @vomnanlugal
      @vomnanlugal 4 роки тому

      It really works,but i did n't used it for waking up,but it worked for me to start my study...And for me starting is the hardest thing.

  • @JaredJacobsonLaw
    @JaredJacobsonLaw 4 роки тому +3

    Mel asking the real questions! Truth 🙏

  • @shesonabudget4046
    @shesonabudget4046 2 роки тому +2

    It's true. I've been a happy mum, but unhappy stay at home mum for 4 years, in the moment I considered going back to work I felt instantly at peace and felt relieved. I spent the next 4 weeks breaking down the decision and turning myself off the idea.. mum guilt. Thank you for this, I'm going to go back to work soon and I know my family will be so much happier.

  • @subarusti333
    @subarusti333 Рік тому +1

    I could listen to this charming and wise lady all day long... I do things, because I keep telling myself, that I have to do, but time after time excuses manages to step in. She is absolutely right and I'm glad she is sharing her experience, what a great learning curve this is! :)
    I can't wait to push myself more and try this 5sec rule :)