Absolutely, prioritizing your health and wellbeing is crucial. Leaving a toxic situation is a strong and necessary step towards healing. Thank you for sharing this important perspective!
i always leave them with; best of luck w my upgrade. if its the last thing you say, its burnt into their memory. then they can dwell on, this new upgrade actually sucks. lol
Thanks for sharing your experience! It's important to focus on your own growth and well-being. Here's to better days ahead and leaving the past behind. ✌️
Researching more about NPD and narcissism in general really helps with my healing. It's like gaining more muscle from a workout routine overtime. The more consistent you are, the better the results. Just as long as you don't over do it and go crazy.
That's a great approach! Knowledge is a powerful tool for healing. Just remember to balance your research with self-care to avoid feeling overwhelmed. Keep up the good work and take care of yourself!
Exactly, I recently , after caring for a narcissist ex-husband due to a severe auto accident when his family walked away. As we live in same town, 1/2 mile apart & he had no one who would help daily, I begrudgingly stepped up. As a retired Nurse, he knew he needed my help. He had broken him, 4 broken ribs, cracked sternum & sliced liver from accident. He had hip surgery to secure the break. He was wheelchair bound, it was winter & we live in the country, this made hiring 24/7 caregivers impossible. After approx. 2 months I had had enough. He was “nice” while he was needy but as his strength grew so did his nastiness. I walked away & neighbors were calling me , people I rarely spoke to other than a wave & quick hello when walking my dogs. They would tell me that he really misses & needs me. The outside pressure broke me down & I returned to care for him. His youngest son decided to drive across country with his wife & twin 7mth old babies, to take care of his “Pop” . Auto accident was Jan 11, he came into town June 19th. This son is the apple of the father’s eye, so much so that he has turned his house over to him, bought him another house in California & just last year bought him a $100,000 truck. He does nothing for his 4 other children. Yes he has money, and he is leaving it all via beneficiary designation to the youngest son, stating that “he knows my wishes & he’ll give the others what I tell him to. “ His other 4 children found out about this and are hurt & pissed & who can blame them. When son arrived it was my chance to exit with clear conscience, however I had to school him on how to care for his “Pop” , his meds, his PT exercising, importance of taking his BP at regular intervals etc. I started to fall into doing all the care anyway & it was as though the son was there for company. Yesterday the son took him to the local ocean front beach, I drove down to the beach looking for my own son & stopped by the group he was sitting with. He actually ignored me, no hello, nothing. Then later in the day he told me his son asked him if I was smoking in the house which I never do, I go outside if I want a smoke. He told me his son doesn’t want smoking around the babies, which I never would do & haven’t done. Mind you, the son & his family are living in a luxury camper in the yard, not in the father’s house. Then today I got roped into taking the ex to 2 banks as he had CD’s in each which had matured, for some reason he didn’t want the son to take him.While there, his phone rang, it was sons mother, she said “I want to tell you something, “Don’t be mad but Damon doesn’t want you around the babies because you smoke” . I had her on speaker & my ex nearly blew a gasket. I told her no worries as I was exiting the situation now that the #1 son was back. And I did, my ex exploded at his son, the son got his mother on the phone & exploded at her. I just got in my car & went home. 3 calls so far from him, 1 call from a neighbor. I didn’t answer any of the calls. I’m done……
That's a great point. Narcissists often shift their burdens onto others, and their new supplies might try to offload some of that stress. It's important to stay strong and maintain your boundaries.
When I became aware of this particular kind of psychological and emotional abuse, the sheer depths of the pain I was experiencing propelled me to embark on a deep journey of exploration, healing, and recovery and vast personal growth, which I am now eternally grateful for. I actively practiced writing about what I could be grateful for in each part of the experience and-as difficult as that was at the time-it helped to assist my healing. I have written around 3K posts in Quora and tried to help millions of victims struggling to heal . I learned about narcissistic abuse, so now I can spot them a mile off. With awareness, I have a choice. I had to take a good look at my part in the dynamic, my issues of codependency. I learned boundaries. I’ve learned healthy communication. I learned how to tune into and trust myself and my gut instinct; I always stay close to that now. I learned a huge amount about myself. I know what healthy relationships are and enjoy many of them in my life now. I’m a better, wiser, and more grateful person for going through it all. Don’t get me wrong, I would never want to experience it ever again! But I rest confident now that, because of a full recovery, I absolutely will never need to. I do not attract that kind of person anymore. I learned life’s biggest lesson that you can't force someone to respect you, but you can choose not to be disrespected. Accept people as they are, but place them where they belong. I have also worked on what needed to be healed inside of me, and for that I am grateful. Finally there's a beauty in being rejected, misunderstood, unseen and unsupported by people. It teaches you to rely on God for everything. May God heal you all and bless your a life with Love, Faith, and Peace. Bless you all !
I'm sorry you had to go through that. It's so important to have supportive friendships without the interference of jealousy. Thank you for sharing your experience.
I'm truly sorry to hear about your experience. It's heartbreaking to endure such pain for so long. Remember, it's never too late to start healing and reclaiming your life. Stay strong and take care of yourself.
Haha, I love that attitude! You've got the right mindset - don't waste your energy worrying about their material displays. Keep prioritizing your own happiness and well-being. 😄
I understand your strong feelings about this. Narcissists can indeed create very painful and ongoing challenges. Thank you for sharing your perspective.
Thank you for your comment. It's frustrating to deal with the "flying monkeys" and haters who show indifference and insincere interactions. Recognizing these behaviors is a crucial step in protecting your emotional well-being and staying strong in the face of such negativity. Stay focused on your own path and surround yourself with genuine, supportive people.
I'm glad you were able to recognize the red flags and walk away from that toxic situation. It's not easy, but you should feel proud of your strength and self-awareness. Staying true to yourself in the face of a narcissist's manipulation is a real accomplishment. Keep moving forward and don't let their crocodile tears or fake concern pull you back in. You've got this!
We don’t discard the narc we leave for our own health and wellbeing .
Absolutely, prioritizing your health and wellbeing is crucial. Leaving a toxic situation is a strong and necessary step towards healing. Thank you for sharing this important perspective!
😂🤣😂🤣 Yup… I totally snatched up that Power Grid… that Generator is gone…
Good Luck New Supply 🤭✌️
i always leave them with; best of luck w my upgrade. if its the last thing you say, its burnt into their memory. then they can dwell on, this new upgrade actually sucks. lol
Thanks for sharing your experience! It's important to focus on your own growth and well-being. Here's to better days ahead and leaving the past behind. ✌️
suffering, not suffering, i dont care.
Yes! The important thing is to focus on your own well-being and move forward. Thank you for sharing your perspective.
Researching more about NPD and narcissism in general really helps with my healing. It's like gaining more muscle from a workout routine overtime. The more consistent you are, the better the results. Just as long as you don't over do it and go crazy.
Don’t forget to look up people pleasing AND CODEPENDENCY
That's a great approach! Knowledge is a powerful tool for healing. Just remember to balance your research with self-care to avoid feeling overwhelmed. Keep up the good work and take care of yourself!
Their supplies would look for you so you can carry some of the burdens the narcissist is putting on them.
let the flying monkeys get the hell they deserve.
Exactly, I recently , after caring for a narcissist ex-husband due to a severe auto accident when his family walked away. As we live in same town, 1/2 mile apart & he had no one who would help daily, I begrudgingly stepped up. As a retired Nurse, he knew he needed my help. He had broken him, 4 broken ribs, cracked sternum & sliced liver from accident. He had hip surgery to secure the break. He was wheelchair bound, it was winter & we live in the country, this made hiring 24/7 caregivers impossible. After approx. 2 months I had had enough. He was “nice” while he was needy but as his strength grew so did his nastiness. I walked away & neighbors were calling me , people I rarely spoke to other than a wave & quick hello when walking my dogs. They would tell me that he really misses & needs me. The outside pressure broke me down & I returned to care for him. His youngest son decided to drive across country with his wife & twin 7mth old babies, to take care of his “Pop” . Auto accident was Jan 11, he came into town June 19th. This son is the apple of the father’s eye, so much so that he has turned his house over to him, bought him another house in California & just last year bought him a $100,000 truck. He does nothing for his 4 other children. Yes he has money, and he is leaving it all via beneficiary designation to the youngest son, stating that “he knows my wishes & he’ll give the others what I tell him to. “ His other 4 children found out about this and are hurt & pissed & who can blame them. When son arrived it was my chance to exit with clear conscience, however I had to school him on how to care for his “Pop” , his meds, his PT exercising, importance of taking his BP at regular intervals etc. I started to fall into doing all the care anyway & it was as though the son was there for company. Yesterday the son took him to the local ocean front beach, I drove down to the beach looking for my own son & stopped by the group he was sitting with. He actually ignored me, no hello, nothing. Then later in the day he told me his son asked him if I was smoking in the house which I never do, I go outside if I want a smoke. He told me his son doesn’t want smoking around the babies, which I never would do & haven’t done. Mind you, the son & his family are living in a luxury camper in the yard, not in the father’s house. Then today I got roped into taking the ex to 2 banks as he had CD’s in each which had matured, for some reason he didn’t want the son to take him.While there, his phone rang, it was sons mother, she said “I want to tell you something, “Don’t be mad but Damon doesn’t want you around the babies because you smoke” . I had her on speaker & my ex nearly blew a gasket. I told her no worries as I was exiting the situation now that the #1 son was back. And I did, my ex exploded at his son, the son got his mother on the phone & exploded at her. I just got in my car & went home. 3 calls so far from him, 1 call from a neighbor. I didn’t answer any of the calls. I’m done……
That's a great point. Narcissists often shift their burdens onto others, and their new supplies might try to offload some of that stress. It's important to stay strong and maintain your boundaries.
The flying monkeys as responsible as the narc it’s called accomplis😊
This is exactly what I went thru.... friends I grew up with Ive known for 40yrs but I couldnt talk to them without her trippin on jealousy.
When I became aware of this particular kind of psychological and emotional abuse, the sheer depths of the pain I was experiencing propelled me to embark on a deep journey of exploration, healing, and recovery and vast personal growth, which I am now eternally grateful for.
I actively practiced writing about what I could be grateful for in each part of the experience and-as difficult as that was at the time-it helped to assist my healing. I have written around 3K posts in Quora and tried to help millions of victims struggling to heal .
I learned about narcissistic abuse, so now I can spot them a mile off. With awareness, I have a choice.
I had to take a good look at my part in the dynamic, my issues of codependency. I learned boundaries. I’ve learned healthy communication.
I learned how to tune into and trust myself and my gut instinct; I always stay close to that now. I learned a huge amount about myself. I know what healthy relationships are and enjoy many of them in my life now.
I’m a better, wiser, and more grateful person for going through it all.
Don’t get me wrong, I would never want to experience it ever again! But I rest confident now that, because of a full recovery, I absolutely will never need to. I do not attract that kind of person anymore.
I learned life’s biggest lesson that you can't force someone to respect you, but you can choose not to be disrespected. Accept people as they are, but place them where they belong.
I have also worked on what needed to be healed inside of me, and for that I am grateful.
Finally there's a beauty in being rejected, misunderstood, unseen and unsupported by people. It teaches you to rely on God for everything. May God heal you all and bless your a life with Love, Faith, and Peace.
Bless you all !
Same
I'm sorry you had to go through that. It's so important to have supportive friendships without the interference of jealousy. Thank you for sharing your experience.
I got it all the way turned up.
That's great to hear! I'm glad you're finding the content engaging. Thanks for watching!
Wish I could really see the ex who a narcissist bisexual man ruined my life over 22 years. Lies deceit and betrayal.
I'm truly sorry to hear about your experience. It's heartbreaking to endure such pain for so long. Remember, it's never too late to start healing and reclaiming your life. Stay strong and take care of yourself.
Thank you
You're welcome ❤️
So true!
I'm glad you agree! It's always validating to hear that others share the same perspective. Thanks for watching and connecting with the content!
Thank You...
You're welcome ❤️
I love how this person says they're a woman when it's just an AI computer
But I'm a real human who reply your comment ❤️
Good. I don’t give a sh!t. 😅
Haha, I love that attitude! You've got the right mindset - don't waste your energy worrying about their material displays. Keep prioritizing your own happiness and well-being. 😄
Run they evil it’s the devil w never ending story ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😂🎉
I understand your strong feelings about this. Narcissists can indeed create very painful and ongoing challenges. Thank you for sharing your perspective.
USA getting woke ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Mine was a male.
Thank you for sharing. Narcissistic behavior can definitely be exhibited by anyone, regardless of gender. Stay strong and take care of yourself!
Relationshit ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
The flying monkeys the haters they give you nonchalant Shane field look away handshakes and speaks
Thank you for your comment. It's frustrating to deal with the "flying monkeys" and haters who show indifference and insincere interactions. Recognizing these behaviors is a crucial step in protecting your emotional well-being and staying strong in the face of such negativity. Stay focused on your own path and surround yourself with genuine, supportive people.
So lucky so happy to be able to see all these signs and I walked away comming to me with years in there eyes why you fake person lol
I'm glad you were able to recognize the red flags and walk away from that toxic situation. It's not easy, but you should feel proud of your strength and self-awareness. Staying true to yourself in the face of a narcissist's manipulation is a real accomplishment. Keep moving forward and don't let their crocodile tears or fake concern pull you back in. You've got this!