🔴The Truth Behind a Narcissist's Downfall: They Know It All Too Well | Narcissism | NPD
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Hello everyone, and welcome back to our channel. Today, we are going to discuss a topic that many people can relate to: the reality of a Narcissist who has messed up their life, and the important fact that they are fully aware of it. It is crucial to understand that they do know what they have done. They have ventured out into what they believed were greener pastures, leaving you feeling abandoned and hurt. Now, they have come to realize who truly deserves their respect and love-who the real king or queen is-and they understand where they genuinely want to be. Ultimately, they want to be with you. Unfortunately, by the time this realization hits them, it is often too late. They failed to appreciate your presence when you were with them, so now they must confront the consequences of your absence.
When they had the opportunity to value you, they chose not to. They did not recognize your worth when you were by their side. Now, it is time for them to face the reality of your absence. The Narcissist has indeed messed up their life, and this is something they are coming to terms with. They find themselves in a new situation, possibly with a new partner who does not hold a candle to you. As they look into the eyes of this new supply, they may feel a sense of regret and confusion, thinking to themselves, "What have I done? Why did I make these choices?"
They are now backtracking, engaging in introspection, reflecting on their past decisions, and ruminating over the feelings they have for you. They cannot ignore the fact that you are out there, becoming stronger and more resilient every day. With each passing day, you are choosing to focus on your own growth rather than on them. This realization weighs heavily on the Narcissist, as they are becoming increasingly aware that you are moving forward without them.
It is possible that they are not aware that you are consuming content like this-videos that help you understand your worth and encourage your personal development. They might still hope that you are the same person who would wait for them, but you have been taking proactive steps to improve your life. You have endured pain and faced challenges, and while you may have some emotional scars, it is important to recognize that scars signify healing. Just as skin thickens over time, you are becoming tougher and more resilient. The Narcissist was not prepared for this transformation, and it leaves them feeling distraught.
Let’s take a moment to empathize with their situation. Imagine encountering something that appears absolutely perfect and wonderful, and feeling drawn to it. It’s like being in a desert, desperately thirsty, and spotting a well or a pool of water in the distance. You think to yourself, "I’m going to go over there and quench my thirst." However, upon reaching it, you discover that what you thought was water turns out to be sand-just a mirage. This feeling of disillusionment is akin to what the Narcissist is experiencing now. They chased after something that seemed promising but ultimately realized it was empty and unsatisfying.
"Disclaimer: The information provided in this video is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you suspect you or someone you know may be involved with a narcissist, or are dealing with any psychological issues, please consult a qualified healthcare professional. This content is shared to offer insights and perspectives and should not be considered as professional or medical counsel."
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🔴Why The Narcissist Can't Truly Move On from Their Former Supply 👇🏼
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Amazing information.
I could never go back, my feelings for this person have irreversibly changed.
Thank you for your comment! It's powerful to recognize how our experiences can change our feelings and perspective. Moving forward with that clarity is so important for your well-being!
Once you are awake your life will change forever, educate those dear to you and take pride that you are so much stronger than your narc ever thought you could be... You got this 💪
Absolutely! Awakening to these dynamics is a powerful step towards healing and empowerment. It's inspiring to see you encouraging others to recognize their strength-thank you for sharing such positive energy!
I don't do social medias, so the narcissist can't monitor me
That's a smart move! Protecting your space and privacy is so important, especially after dealing with a narcissist. It’s great to hear you’re prioritizing your well-being!
Same here, im only on UA-cam
😂😂same here and i don't have mutual friends with him either!
Same 🌺
Don’t worry; I WILL NOT be deceived again!
That's the spirit! It's great to hear that you're standing strong and learning from your experiences. Stay empowered and trust your instincts! 💪
In conclusion,all negative people only in this temporary world must be trapped by their own behavior and their own attitudes only 👹
That's a powerful conclusion! It's true that negative behaviors often lead to self-imposed limitations. Thank you for sharing your insightful perspective!
Yes, I loved and gave 200+ when he gave none!
It's so important to recognize the imbalance in those relationships. Your strength in giving so much reflects your capacity for love, and now it's time to focus on giving that love to yourself!
The Narcissist will ALWAYS choose the path to rock bottom in life... You were a diamond ..You were the best thing that ever happened in the Narcissist's life... They still cheated on you behind your back...They still discarded you ...They still "Traded you in" for low-hanging fruit.... Remember the Narcissist always chooses the path of least resistance.. But just know this, The Narcissist became disgusted with the "New supply" ..The "New supply" could not tie your shoelaces (Metaphorically speaking)
This is when you will see the narcissist try to "Hoover" you back into the toxic relationship. They always THINK the "Grass is greener" with someone else.
The narcissist ends up a sad and lonely pathetic individual once their looks fade. I have seen this many times with narcissists. Once their looks and charm have faded they often resort to getting pet cats or dogs, Very easy for the Narcissist to "control" and "Bully" (Unlike the people they abused who eventually got wise to them and want nothing more to do with them)
Narcissists always choose the path to rock bottom in life. Often they turn to alcohol/gambling & drugs to numb the pain... Don't be dragged into the gutter with them. They are "Empty meat suits" Sucks to be them!
Thank you for this video.
Thank you for sharing such a powerful perspective! It's true that narcissists often struggle with their choices and may not realize the value of what they had until it's gone. Your insights highlight the importance of recognizing our worth and not getting pulled back into toxic dynamics. Stay strong and keep shining!
Mine said she had Covid again trying to make me sad or sorry for. She knows how good I took care of her with this.
Good Luck.....
It sounds like you’ve been through a lot, and it's tough when someone tries to manipulate your feelings. It's great that you recognize this behavior. take care of yourself and keep focusing on your own well-being.
I told him I was whole and well established before him. I still am that person again. He didn’t deserve me. I told him!
That’s an empowering realization! Recognizing your worth and reclaiming your identity is so important. It’s great to hear that you’re back to being the strong, whole person you were before. You deserve someone who appreciates you!
Once I truly lost feelings for him and completely detached myself- he got arrested and is facing a felony for the first time in his life. Cant get a job, now has no car, its just all bad. And I don't feel even the least bit sorry for him because he is the fool described in proverbs 100% and he thinks there is nothing wrong with the way he lives, but it's crazy though once I took myself out of the picture, it's like God could finally lay his judgment on him without me in the way praying for him
It sounds like you’ve found a strong sense of clarity and empowerment by detaching yourself from that situation. Sometimes, stepping back allows things to unfold as they should. It's important to prioritize your own well-being, and it’s clear you’ve done just that. Thank you for sharing your experience!
Yes, I was. I did everything for him. Now he graduated with good job, he left!
I'm sorry to hear that you went through that. It's tough to invest so much in someone who doesn't appreciate it. Remember, your worth isn't defined by others, and it's important to focus on your own growth and happiness now!
She doesn't want anything to do with me. Im guilty of Reactionary Abuse. Big time. That's on me AND that's not good. I won't talk or text for 2 or 3 weeks. AND there she is sneaking on my phone with another number. TRIGGERING me to no end. She needs to stay out of my LIFE .. because it doesn't feel good literally crushing her verbally. Saying things that I actually feel bad about later because I have way more empathy than her . Please stay Educated AND Dedicated..break the Trauma Bonding....❤❤
It sounds like you’re going through a really tough time, and it's commendable that you’re reflecting on your feelings and actions. Breaking the trauma bond is a challenging but important journey, and it’s great that you’re committed to healing. Wishing you strength as you navigate this! ❤
Very helpful. I know it but it somehow comforts to hear. I needed to hear the last part for sure. Shiny object syndrome? I can tolerate being alone and won't be long.
I'm glad to hear that you found comfort in the discussion! It’s great that you’re recognizing the importance of your own well-being and can tolerate being alone. Staying focused on your own journey is key. You got this!
Thank you so much for this video! It really soothes and encourages my heart. ❤
I'm so glad to hear that the video resonated with you! Thank you for your kind words, and I wish you all the best on your journey! ❤️
Every thing you said is so true my Love about this Narcissist
Thank you so much! I'm glad the message resonates with you. It's important to shed light on these issues. Your support means a lot! ❤️
I don’t think my ex narc will ever think he screwed up. Not genuinely anyway. He’ll just miss what I did for his image of a “wholesome family man”. When he left me a few months ago, he said that I made him stale, I didn’t love him like I used to and I won’t give him anymore kids so he will find someone who will. He’s never been made accountable for his poor treatment of others, ever. So I won’t be any different even though I am the only person on this earth who has stuck around for as I long as I did. I am literally the only person who knows him like this. Scary.
It sounds like you've gained a deep understanding of your ex's behavior, and it's important to recognize that his perspective may never change. Prioritizing your own well-being and moving forward is crucial. You're brave for having stuck around and for now choosing to focus on yourself. Stay strong!
@@NarcPedia Thanks :)
This maybe, and yet I disagree with my covert narcissist wife. She has no regrets and is completely done.
It sounds like you're dealing with a challenging situation, and it's understandable to have differing perspectives. It's important to prioritize your own healing and well-being. Thank you for sharing your experience!
my ex will never get what i give her i dont understand why she would want to try and get better when i offered her the best life ever i know she will regret whst she lost in the end my love was true hers was false and she down graded massively
It sounds like you put a lot of love and effort into that relationship, and it's tough when it feels unreciprocated. Healing takes time, both for you and for her, and sometimes people need to go through their own journey to truly appreciate what they had. Thank you for sharing your experience!
Thanks for your information 🙂👍
You're welcome! I'm glad you found the information helpful🙂👍
Anyone shows interest in me, I just tell them that I’m fine, thank you. I am fine being alone. I really enjoy my alone time!
That's a great mindset! Embracing your alone time and prioritizing your peace is so important. It's wonderful to hear that you're content and finding joy in your own company!
Brilliant words my ex full of lies and she so bad she can't see it full of charm to men she gone on to new supply her mask will give way again in time with new supply
Thank you for your comment! It’s often surprising how some people can maintain their facade for a while, but the truth usually comes out eventually. Stay strong and focus on your own healing!
I don’t care. He can hold on to my things. I can buy new ones. Everything can be replaced!
That's a healthy mindset! It's great to see you focusing on what truly matters and not letting material things hold you back. Your peace of mind is far more valuable!
thank-you made my day
I'm so glad to hear that! Your support means a lot to me. Wishing you a wonderful day ahead! 😊
THANKS
You're welcome! If you have any questions or thoughts, feel free to share. I'm glad to have you here!
Your principal, a N never changes is well received and serves as a reminder, not to stay or return to that hope trap. maybe she’s matured or learned her lesson? Possible not probable. There’s a whole series about stay the marriage. Yet rarely is there a supporting narrative of this happening! Sadly one can catch these videos and climb back up on the fence of hope. Life simply passes.
You’ve made an important observation about the challenges of hope in these situations. It’s crucial to recognize the patterns and prioritize our well-being rather than getting caught in the cycle. Thank you for sharing your insights!
Meh do they really care ?
It's true that many narcissists may not show genuine care, even when they recognize the impact of their actions. They often prioritize their own needs over others. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
The video content is not right. It looks like it was written by a narcissist to gaslight the watcher to see them in a better justifying way for their doings. I had to stop listeming at 4:39. My impression is that the creator is not realy familiar with the subject.
I appreciate your feedback and understand that this topic can be very sensitive. I'm always open to constructive criticism, and I encourage diverse perspectives. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
@@NarcPedia of course the subject is sensitive since it is all what it is about. A narc will 'collect' insecurities to tap on them in the right time. A real Narc can not change. The Narc do not consider itself as such and will never ask itself if it is a Narc. There are so many factual false facts and contradictions that I would recommend you getting much closer look at the subject. What you describe is a person with a bad behaviour that can yet reflect and get into a normal improvemet process. Under 'a real Narc' I mean the real ones which are on the psychopathic spectrum. Their analyzed behaviour on all continents is identical. They can't basically change.
@@ulpansirtonim1987 Thank you for sharing your insights! You bring up important points about the nature of narcissism and the challenges in recognizing and addressing it. It's crucial to differentiate between behaviors and true personality disorders, and I appreciate your perspective on this complex topic.