Jordan Peterson: Why some men can't get women
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I cleaned my room. I swear it changed my life. In no time I was cleaning the house then I was cleaning up my life.
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The fact that this man is giving away this knowledge for free and that he has haters in the world proves how messed up people are.
It's true. People don't give him a chance or actually listen to what he has to say, which if they did might save many of them a lot of pain and suffering throughout their lives because *no one* else talks about personal responsibility. If you don't learn it from your parents then man you are really fucked.
I think most people that criticise him do it because of his political statements and stuff like that. Not because of his psychological advice.
True, but my faith in humanity is restored when I see mostly positive comments like yours under his videos. The haters are just a loud and vocal minority.
True
Are you kidding me? This prick has made millions of dollars. Just because you're watching it on UA-cam doesn't mean he does what he does for no financial gain.
I remember that my boss once pointed to my desk, which was a mess. He said that a cluttered desk is the sign of a cluttered mind. He wasn't too happy when I pointed out that his desk was empty.
Why, having an empty mind purposefully is blissful.
Lol
Could it be that you are busy?
Your savage bro
Sure ok, whatever you say buddy. Now go eat a popsicle and watch some spongebob
I love education but hates school. I enjoy learning on my own pace rather than being forced to take in some information just to be able to put it on a piece of paper for a grade. Videos like these are my favorite
WOW! This is how I feel. You said what I was thinking. 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
"School" was absolute fucking hell for me on multiple levels. Education, on the other hand, is glorious. Education is actual learning. "School" is mostly indoctrination and the teachers are mostly unqualified to truly educate.
But if you paid attention in school, you'd realize that "hates" should have been written "hate."
Same here man. I learn at a slower rate than others and am always made fun by others for it. Yet I know more and have a better understanding than others and see the big picture.
111Buckethead while I don’t want to blame teachers too much I think they should at least try and make teaching engaging and interesting for students even if the topic may be boring. There were plenty of examples in my school where the teachers were bored to teach a topic and that would make every student in the class not want to take part in the learning.
Jordan: go clean your room
Guy: is that psycho therapy?
Jordan: Well it depends on how you conceive the limits of your being
if you want to make an apple pie from scratch, you must first invent the universe....
@@josephroman9947 he man is such a dick i just HATE listening to his rigid voice
@@VictoriaWonders I don’t remember asking but let me evaluate my metaphysical existence first
I read this comment EXACTLY when Jordan spoke them 😳
@@VictoriaWonders YET YOU'RE HERE
I’m so happy that this guy is in our generation. He is brilliant
When the world most needed him, he was there.
Hes a nut, and a drug addict, actually...
@@Maverick.D. go clean your room
Brilliant is a bit much
He uses Jungian theory, which is interesting, but totally outdated and unscientific.... archetypes 🤣🤣
“Once you aim, the world will reconfigure itself around that aim.” Who else feels like this is really true and has happened to them in one way or another?
🙋♀️ 💯 Soon as I heard him say it, it felt like a hidden lock snapping open somewhere in deepest part of my soul. LOVE his powerful use of words to open us up 😁
It's true, the law of attraction and what you desire, you will obtain it sooner or later! Try it! Test as much as you can...
not at all...
Is this esoteric?
@@halo091 no
ok so now i have cleaned my room
i guess girls are on their way to my house
@@220p2 i was just kidding boomer
I’m coming over
Actually, David de Angelo said: have your room ready to invite a lady without being ashamed. If you look at this as: "I am not expecting anything, but I am prepared" , you don't lose any chance. Good luck.
I am waiting outside, deddy
Well how were you going to lure a girl into a dirty room?
It's crazy how knowledge can make you cry, realizing how wrong you were from the start.
The best part is when you keep watching the video and you realize also that it's not too late to fix what you couldn't fix before
Jordan must do a lot of crying then. He’s usually wrong about everything
What you stopped hating someone?
@@itsrobbylolNot enough mate. Give us some examples.
@@itsrobbylolClean your room
Key points:
1. Your room is a reflection of your mind, which reflects your life
2. Improve your room, so you can improve your life
3. Be careful what you focus on. Spend your time on good goals
4. Be open to learning new things from others
5. Good relationships make you grow
thanks!
And Fully listen and engage when speaking with someone and block out premeditated thought of being right because of ego
@bmo thanks ! You helped me a lot :))
6. Good relationships are based on exchanging truth.
Hes just talking and talking and not saying nothing waste of my time
I just click on the video to know how to get women, 15 mins later I cleaning up my room and start cleaning up my life and basically my life was saved. God dammit you tricked me!
Haha , Jordan the Trickster ✌🏻
Happy accidents
He is a genius.
re: "God dammit tricked me!" Nahhhhhh ... God is not into "damming" or "tricking" His creation.
Think how mind blown you will be now when you start getting women 🤯
Watching this three years after he really changed my life is incredible! So many of these things he's saying are implicitly understood by me now. Retrospective confidence is great!
0:00 to avoid inner chaos start make order in your own living space
9:34 on communication in relationships
Keep things simple. Let's go Yankees 🎉 FJB, OMB, CYR
@@StalkedHuman TLA FTW
when my room is a mess, I feel the discrepancy with my psyche and my room, then I clean it up,and I feel much better....it IS psychotherapy ! :-)
The moment he went on to this, I was thinking: "Damn, that's some ontological level stuff!"
Or you can be a woman
Or you can be on your period
Or you can be a woman.
@@ХристоМартунковграфЛозенски u I uu by u
Nah it's just OCD
I have to throw this crap away , i have to break up ,
Random guy: Why am I not getting any women?
Jordan Peterson: You've not cleaned your room, punk!
I haven't watched the whole peace, but i couldn't find any tip on the subject (nor in the same guy other videos either) :(
@@johnnyapoliyo421 Peterson isn't a dating coach. He's a clinical psychologist. And if you do what he recommends (get your act together), a lotnof things in your life become better. And through that, it just might get you a lot closer to getting a girlfriend.
@@johnnyapoliyo421 seems like you want a magical video or quotes to get you a girl. Stop looking for shortcuts and do the necessary things to get a girl. This is a comment and it may seem like I'm being rude but seriously don't expect the world to happen for you, because it won't.
Good. I like my room deisotganized and a bit dirty. An ageing moist fish taco ain't worth the pleasure I have of keeping my room the way I wanted. By the way, humanity lived 99.9 percent of our evist without "rooms".
@@battlewithintraining things like what?
It's a really good message. Woman (good women) want a man who is competent which can be confused with confidence. Competency is much more and is a true confidence without the messy overuse of Ego. You attract people based on your competency. Cleaning the room is not about being organized it's about taking CONTROL of your surroundings. Great message, far from easy but it's a pattern of behavior just like bad patterns of behavior.
What use is that? Society's hierarchy is corrupt. Being complicit in this is good? There's worse things than death. Consider the trouble with having competency in a wicked society
My point is, the competency in temporal power is not necessarily a good thing.
That sounds like it would be reasonable but that is not my experience. My experience is that what women are attracted to is actually neither confidence or competence, but arrogance.
I cleaned my room, did the dishes, took a shower and am currently crying myself to sleep.....
Am I alpha yet?
So we live the same life?
Looool
Yes
clean the bathroom, then wax car, sand floor, paint fence, Danielsan
Keep doing steps 1 through 3. Continuing to do them makes you an alpha
12 years ago, in the midst of a period of confusion, I decided to write down on paper what my real wants and desires in life were rather that having a mass of jumbled up expectations that were mostly unfulfilled and still in my head. I looked at that paper on most days and realized just how powerfully it confirmed that I now had a real direction.
As Jordan say's, the world really did seem to 'reconfigure itself', not in an immediately obvious way, but opportunities and choices became clearer and easier to make along with the realization that I'd been going in a direction that was not right for me. The key for me is staying true to what you truly want from life and being truthful to yourself.
Amen 🙏
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Have an excellent day :)
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Am scrolling up now 🙄
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This guy is intense. I would say something more witty but really he makes so many good points and so seamlessly integrates his research into the discussion that it is pretty overwhelming trying to comment on his presentations. The man has a way with words. An orator, and a scholar.
You can say something witty it just doesn't mean in the end
I don’t who all these kids are, but they were extremely lucky to have had these classes with him.
I think there at Harvard
University of Toronto, all of his classes that I have watched on yt are from there
And why was a girl doing her crochet? !
the fact none of those kids did anything useful is a great teller of how useless he is (e.g. Look up the Acton school of business, in which he used to collaborate - and see how they accomplished absolute fuckall)
@@DR-om9ce Toronto, cheif. Also...They're. Pretty ironic to mention Harvard beside your grammatical error
Haven't been in a physical class for so long I almost started writing notes through this lecture and caught myself wondering when the midterm is going to be.
thats some serious trauma my dude,
but i have to say i relate unfortunately
He seems to have something to say. It is just so hard to untangle.
I took notes, but just on an app on my phone which I'll probably never revisit.
Bicky Gill then you are already avoiding a lesson from Prof. Peterson! He was once asked how to remember everything for longer periods. He told to not take notes while one on a lesson, lecture or in presentation, try to analyse, break it down, think it out and then write what you remember. Our brain shrink the bigger information into smaller essay(some kind of)
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while you already have 4 other exams to study for this week XD, that plus booze
During university finals, I always found it vital to first and constantly clean my room vs. studying my graduate material.
Most PhDs I know have messy desks and they are truly brilliant as they put ALL their mental energy into their field of study, not their immediate surroundings.
That’s a very small percent brother
Or they put all their effort into their work and neglect everything else around them. A lot of progress is made, but it is not sustainable. This may help to explain why some very intelligent people end up doing crazy things. A life inbalance that eventually overcorrects itself.
This is my excuse to not clean my room, but I must get onto it as soon as possible . Amen
Big 5 Personality metrics and what's going on at universities can explain why you are seeing this.
Students who had this man as a professor are lucky people.
People saying the title is misleading, the link is that girls avoid boys who have their life in shambles. Love yourself so that you can love and be loved.
I agree with that to a certain point you can love yourself to the endth degree But if you don’t have these three things women will not talk to you will not give me the time a day if you do not have money and stable living arrangement They will not give you the time of day especially if you’re living on disability because you’re not financially secure or you’re basically living poor trust me the reason I say that is because I live that life I am on disability
@@seanm7539 Every interaction you have is an exchange of resources, attention, time, money, energy, advice, you need to offer something for someone to want it and to want you.
I think it was the quote from 9:40. If you view women (or whomever you’re pursing) as a means to an end, your conversation will depict it. If you see women as a means to getting laid or getting a romantic partner, you aren’t creating “mutual satisfaction”. You need to realize that a girlfriend or boyfriend is not a goal or objective, it’s a commitment. You must have a “mutual willingness to be in contact” and seek “reciprocal communication” or the other person will realize you don’t see them as an equal.
@@exodus1759You just put my thoughts in words, thanks man.
@War X What's your point? The fact that relationships necessitate mutualism doesn't mean they can't be profound.
Prostitution is a type of relationship, but where the things that are exchanged aren't profound.
I see what you did there. Who knew there was such a thing as wholesome click-bait?
This cats getting hella breaddd up with whatever says JP On at.
Best sort of clickbait - use a catchy title to mask real content
sneaky....
It’s so confusing.. I have a friend who’s sent me a couple of his videos and he’s always like: please ignore the title 😂😂 on my own I’d probably never come across this man’s talks haha
Become the kind of person who will attract the kind of person you want to be with. Do you want to attract someone who is living below their capabilities and doesn't care about the pain they are causing to themselves and others?
Wherever I catch myself about to make a poor decision, Jordan Peterson’s voice pops in my head reinforcing the right choice- such an influential human
Lol
New title - jordan peterson: how to improve your life
That title works for almost all his videos...😁😁😁
@Moshe’s Corner• 😁😁😁
His book has the same title
Cleaning thy room shall clean thy mind
This is more motivating than anything to start something useful.
Motivation is worthless unless you start straight away. But instead you had the motivation to write this comment😀
I've tidied up my room, cleaned other rooms of the house, finished my studies for this semester with >90% passes and found some comfort with my absent father issues. Jordan 'internet dad' Peterson x
This video made me realize I’m a hoarder. I’m 24 still have school work from hs. Old checks my excuse is “ just Incase I need them again “
Is being a hoarder bad?
@@af3349 yes
@@fredericmoresmau4303 you have to take some responsibility for what happened. I've found in my life, that when people fuck me over it was because I allowed it to happen. Once I stopped allowing people to treat my badly & stood up for myself, only the people who actually cared stayed in my life
Yeah, I should probably finally empty out my hypodermic needles and dead mouse box's.
@@rowdy7480 I say just be a jerk but also be hilarious, don't feel bad for hurting people, the people (mainly girls) from America that u hurt go at night and block guys, get political, straight up toxic, and are rude to others, falsely accuse too, and even tell others how big of a "creep" this guy is for sliding into their dms
I originally saw the title as misleading but I find the information the video to be of value. Anything we want in life and feel we have a barrier to does not just happen. We approach any goal with a step. Living in a cluttered room/house can directly represent our thoughts and lifestyle. Its a small step but changing that can make us just feel more positive about our outlook and ourselves. Definitely something to consider
@7:30
He talks about having your emotions and your thoughts come into synch-this is exactly what finding your intention is about! Intention is everything!
Lmao the title is literally nothing about the video. Yet the video was hella good as always
I though it was some kind if hidden message so came to the coments to find out! 😂
@@nicosaccardo6297 Well, he gives us advices on how to make ourselves more attractive to women through being more desirable for women, rather than giving the 5 tips to get women you're not going to believe the fifth.
you understood nothing,
and everyone who liked this, why are you even here
@@Rumo_Notna its probably something like "lol thats funny, he didnt get it" or "I totally was looking for pick up tricks and he never talked about women:("
@Octavio Avila
If you listen and put the meaning together you can absorb alot that will make you more attractive to be in a relationship with.
Thanks. I was 6 minutes into the video and confused. I was like this advice is good but it applied to everyone. Good to know I'm not crazy.
TL;DW - Qui Gon Jinn was right when he told Anakin Skywalker "your focus determines your reality" 20 years ago.
Not just 20 years ago...a long, long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away...
The speech is fascinating but why is the title so misleading? It's called, "Why some men can't get women" and yet he doesn't even speak about that subject, at least not directly, even once in 15 minutes.
Ask the uploader.
"What you aim at determines how the world manifests itself to you."
"A fanatic is a person who redoubles his effort after he has forgotten his aim".
🔥
'If you want to organize your psyche, you could start by organizing your room.' This is what I need to hear! I'v always suspected being untidy in your space makes you untidy in your mind or vice versa- both are the same thing. Somehow hearing Jordan Peterson say it gives me hope that I can overcome it. Thank you...
I don’t think he was drawing such a direct conclusion. It was more about whether you fix the things that bother you and build an organized structure in your life that you’re happy with. The level of detail to which you can choose to organize your room can be defined by an infinite amount of different inconsequential things, so it’s just a matter of finding the point to which you start to feel satisfied with it or the process would be never ending. This is why he starts branching into the importance of defining life goals and aims after that.
xd4ve it was both.. and he WAS talking about literally tidying your room to feel less cluttered in your mind and he’s talked about this before. See many references from people about tidying their rooms...
Louise MC yeah alright.. I was just trying to get out of doing the cleaning 🤷🏻♂️ have a great day
Ha! Good comeback line 👍
I thought your avatar was spogoli for a sec
I’ve been in therapy before on a few occasions, and after a couple months or even less depending on how broad or narrow the therapist mind was just became sessions of repetitive repetition of the same shit in no time flat . Jordan brings something new every time he speaks on the same subject finding new and interesting ways to help understand the value in what he’s saying. He’s has put more time and effort in the practice of helping people than most that get paid for it . And Jordan gives so much of his talent away for nothing . His Altruism is second to none he’s as generous and genuine as they get a true gift to society .
Did anyone else laugh out loud when he straight up called a bad relationship "a primate dominance hierarchy dispute" ?
Yea well duh.
It's a funny way to put it but its true (in a BAD relationship that is)
Big Sasquatch can’t have whatever he wants just by pounding his chest.
Ivan The Tactical Men aren’t dominant. They’re just bullies. Now they’re putting skirts on and forcing everyone to say they’re women. Before that, they forced everyone to say God has a penis. Six thousand years of being special really did a number on the Doinguses.
@@blinkypushbuttons Nice troll m8, try harder next time
I thought at first that the title had nothing to do with the video. But, when you understand women want someone who will listen, actually listen, you realize the title is spot on.
I'm Australian and there's something so comforting about him saying words like 'rubbish', 'muck about' and 'tinkering' in that Canadian drawl. The last couple of minutes hit pretty hard.
Cleaning your room it does work .. having a vision about what you want with the hard work does manifest results.... he speaks the truth .. 🙏🏼❤️
I’m cleaning my room. 4 years later, after a major life loss. I’m already cleaning around the house, no questions about who causes the mess or why I need to clean it. Just doing it. Thanks JP
Good move, mate! I've been in your position. I know how it feels and it's hard. You're doing the right thing.
@@sheogorathprinceofmadness2223 Thanks Sheogorath. Getting motivation from you just reminds me of how important doing this is, because I'm pretty sure I left the Wabbajack in one of these boxes...
@@AdrianMark
I don't blame you. It's pretty shitty. 'Tis why I gave it to you mortals. 🙃
@@sheogorathprinceofmadness2223 Your wisdom and forethought surprise and impress me Prince :)
@tony montana that's the plan
i just want to leave a comment for any struggling depressed guys out there. do not worry about if you can get women or not lol... focus on yourself, achieve, succeed.
when you start winning, people take notice.
Imagine being in Jordan Petersons class and hearing this stuff everyday and being amazed and then seeing other students working on stuff from different laptops on their computers like how can you not love what this guy has to say lol
"Why some men can't get women"
Here I am, with a now clean room, having fixed some stuff that's been annoying me and planning on looking into what I can do to increase my efficiency when doing the things I do on a daily basis.
May be when you get to busy for chasing women, then they start to look you appealing ... what a crap
Could be because you didn't understand what he meant, you just scratched the surface and thought it was the key, but what actually is helpful is the deeper insight those words have, and they're not about getting girls, these things will help you get your life together and be more efficient and better than others.
@@_Shivam_Shah Umm.. no. I was merely stating that the advice he gave was helpful. It was unexpected, considering the title of the video, but it was helpful in its own right. I wasn't being sarcastic. I was being honest.
I've always tried to improve myself but never read self improvement book because I wanted do it myself to be myself. Dr. Peterson's book at my current age of 66 can only help. Thank you.
For once I don’t feel like I’ve been scammed by click bait
It wasnt clickbait though it's just the truth. He told you the truth of reality, you listened to him and realized he was right. He wasnt lying to you, click bait lies to you so the person that did it can have power over you. If you dont fall for click bait but instead listen and read into what the person is saying you will realize they are lying and making up stories to make it seem like they know and they are always right. Dont believe it.
I just realised that Jordan is really worth listening to.
What did you think before?
This video really teached me two things about myself. 1. I don't clean my room often enough. 2. I am far to easily manipulated into doing things i don't really want to do...
I do the “room cleaning” all the time. This video is Gold
@John Monday oh heck
Lol
Wow, yeah. I got my first actual girlfriend at 30, and MAGICALLY my home turned into a castle of absolute technological wonder and awe. My own words, mind. Now I'm single again and looking forward to integrating my toaster and my coffee maker with my open-source smarthome ecosystem so that I can keep statistical data on how long it takes my toaster to toast THAT specific piece of bread to just the right kind of brown and crispy.
No need for video games anymore. No need for women either. No need for sex. Just statistical data analysis for the perfect coffee and the perfect toast, dude.
That's psychotherapy!!!!!!!
How was the first break up experience?
@@redblackeagle13 he went mgtow 😜
Dude that’s the basis for fight club and why Edward Norton’s character goes insane in the first place...
@@redblackeagle13 Horrible and liberating all at once. The narcissism was strong in this relationship, probably made it all the worse.
What a golden words professor has said : a truth is a healer. 🥺👏👏👏👏👏
“You see what you aim at... so be careful what you aim at... because what you aim at determines the way the world manifests to you.”
That is one powerful Jordan Peterson quote!
Okay I hate to be that guy who brings his religious books into everything...but I must point out that...something along the similar lines has been said in verse in Hindu Upanishads in a Sanskrit axiom, "Yatha Drishti tatha Srishti" which literally means "As is outlook, so is universe"
Those college kids are getting more than their (parent’s?) money’s worth.
Actually no, if you're paying tens or even hundreds of thousands of dollars, this is what you would expect to get in return.
usernaames it’s the University of Toronto, if they are Canadian they pay roughly $6,100 while starting price for international students is $21,000-64,000.
usernaames lol, I’m getting it for free
Warelves Exactly. Sure we need to save money to go to university but it’s really cheap compared to the US (EVEN WITH TAXES, AMERICANS).
@Shutbyotch yeah same that bright futures scholarship came in clutchhh
It's funny how when I was a child, my room was messy, but my life was okay. Now, my room is in order, but my life is in ruins. :D Problem is, I was visiting quite a few psychologists in the last 10 years, but me getting better was always just a temporary thing - like cleaning off the dust. For a short time, the room is clean, but then it gets dusty again.
The mind loves to revert back to the familiar inmo our issues are managed not cured...if you're not always on guard your brain reverts to old patterns inmo
7:29 whats your aim?
You expecting things to get better and stay that way? Life is change. Deal with it and keep working at it.
I wonder if these kids know how blessed they are to have had a professor like this?
A very smart man. I understood everything he said, he is very good at explaining things.
You must be very smart to understand everything he said !
Imagine how lucky these kids are to take his class
@@BM-fz9yc da fuq??? 🤣
@@akomar93 someone left a comment under this like “repeat this alpha male mantra in the mirror every day ...” and I was responding to that lol
@@BM-fz9yc lmao idk wtf that means in response to your comment.
@@akomar93 well me either. But I had responded to him and he deleted his comment then I just looked like an idiot replying to myself with “I’m a girl” lol
Yes, nothing more rewarding than watching a man in a existential crisis trance state.
I call it MARGA - make a room great again
Hamid MN, this is MARGA Country
XD take a like
Thank you , thank you. That was great.😂😂
Those college kids are getting more than their (parent’s?) money’s worth.
In Indian langages Marga means way (to do something).
Now I really want to go back to school, if Jordan Peterson can be my teacher?
This confirms that I need to reorganize my closet. It bothers me that my long sleeve and short sleeve shirts are all mixed up and I have trouble finding a specific shirt sometimes.
I cleaned my room since I was a kid. Moved out young, still cleaned my room/house. Set up a business, still cleaning.....now someone else cleans it. I pay them well to do it. It works
I cleaned my room without hearing it from JP, and it's definitely helpfull. I actually find it fun and rewarding. Just work on you, when it comes to women. Make yourself proud of you, and others will be as well.
So what he is essentially saying is, communicate to your partner for a better relationship. It's a very basic ask, but it's one of the most important requirements, if not THE most important requirement for a good relationship. Sadly most of us fail to do so.
"How misleading do you want the title to be?"
This channel: "yes"
His scenarios presented are good stuff for men to sit down and just talk about. 👏🏾
As an engineer, I feel phycology is way more complex than engineering because it is trying to understand the most complex piece of machinery.
I would drive 10 HOURS to see THIS man speak. What a treasure. A human being of this caliber comes around once every 300 years. One of the great minds of our time ladies and gentlemen. And he comes to help use our minds for SELF empowerment and the benefit of our fellow man.
You would waste gas to listen to a transphobe moron who thinks women will stop facing sexual harassment in the workplace when they stop wearing makeup? He’s not a genius and definitely not someone to look up to
Why when you could just listen to him online?
Wow! 300 years is a long time. How does Professor Peterson compare against, say, Professor Irwin Corey?
The things you do everyday are the most important things. Reminds me about the speech of the Navy SEAL admiral, he said if you can’t get the little things right, you will never be able to do the big things right.
Make your bed everyday!
We've been working on cleaning our chaos. Started with the closet, then the laundry room, and now on to the garage and the kids' rooms!
Effective people take massive action within their actual sphere of influence. Ineffective people spend all their time complaining about things outside of their sphere of influence and pounding their firsts against brick walls.
More than anything I wish I heard these things at the age of 16 or so. Either way I will pass it on to the youth in my life. Am feel grateful to have found this
Getting one thing you didn't know out of a conversation is a rare thing indeed. It has to be a rare sort of conversation with a rare sort of person.
When you think about the cost of college, there should be dozens of Peterson's teaching. He is one of a kind and professors can learn a thing or two.
Universities and colleges don't have much to a chance of attracting and keeping people with PhDs of Dr. Peterson's caliber unless they offer tenure more often to their professors. Many people with PhDs would rather work elsewhere than be an eternal part time maybe maybe not employee.
@@proudatheist2042 You also need to curb your speech which what college was not supposed to be for.
This guy has more energy than a 19 year old. So talented, smart. Love JP
My house is already clean all the time. And that's the most depressing thing. I want to invite someone into it, but I just can't for some reason. So I sit in my tidy little apartment, glad how clean and neat it is, and waiting for months for someone else to come enjoy it.
This video randomly started playing when I was cleaning my room 😂
I started improving my environment and it really affected me as my surrounding cleared up so did my
self confidence
I have C-PTSD, major depressive disorder, and acute general anxiety disorder.
When I am in a HUGE depression wave my house shows it. But then I try to fight it after a few days by saying "well, I can clean the dishes and the kitchen today. Then tomorrow I can clean the living room."
But, usually, once I start cleaning I cannot stop until the whole house is completely clean (military inspection ready; I am prior military). But very seldomly I do only clean bit-by-bit. After I clean, no matter which way, I feel like I can breathe again. I can actually relax and feel a sense of accomplishment and self-respect and dignity.
Your enviroment affects you just as much as you affect your enviroment.
I am turning 26 this year and it has applied since I was a teenager.
Sometimes giving up the chase will get you further. This applies to both genders really, it's hard to deal with emotionally dependent people, especially if they have a crush on you. Reflect on yourself, if you're a guy, imagine if a girl you don't want to date keeps on wanting to date you. You probably are viewed in same light by the person you are trying to impress.
Tldr:
Clean room, take realistic, clear, honest, and understandable responsibility with clear focus.
Have conversations not to impress/ respond cleverly or agreement but for earnest help and humility with what you dont know.
Theohybrid it’s a cold cruel world. Most people’s rooms are messy...
@@ericwalker6546 So it makes it far more imperative to get that messy room in order and even to recognize that it can even be tidied up!
Theohybrid it’s far more imperative to remove sin from our lives. Than cleaning our rooms. But that’s just me.
"If you want to organize your psyche, you start by organizing your room"
Unbelievably profound piece of advice!
Boy, he nails it.
This is why having ADHD is absolutely no fun. Yeah, you might be able come up with jokes easily, free-forming off the words and actions of those around you. But the inside "game" of the person with a.d.d., let alone a.d.h.d. is continuous stress, and lots of frustration and depression.
Yes I can relate to that unfortunately.
Me too
Hang in there brother I’m rooting for you
No . ADHD is Attention Deficit Hyper Domination. Learn to utilise it for your benefit. I did and it has benefited me to a great extent. The worst thing is to get set back by your fear of the unknown, most fear is the product of an over active imagination. That being said, the worst prison to live in is fear. The reason is that most of the walls are a product of your imagination. Remember this. The things in life you regret most are the risks you didn't take. Take it for what you will, you don't know me from Adam.
@@justinlitynski2347 this is genuinely a great comment and a great advice, thank you fellow adhd stranger!
You know what i appreciate about Dr. Jordon the most, and that is direct derive from this 15 min piece, is the fact that he fills in the mozaik of what I've come to understand through my experience of life while indicating at each point that there is so much more to this and its so much more complex yet simple at the same time.
All men should have the following;-
Attitude:- how you respond to the contrast surrounding you.
Self awareness:- who are you?
Optmistic view:- focus on good quality
Money; you can save a life or buying or repairing life.
I had a messy room for like 16 years and then I cleaned it and now it’s epic sauce
@War X the key is adderall one day and it was clean and it’s stayed good sense lmao
You see what you aim at. So be careful what you aim at”
That room thing is fricking mind-blowing!
I love how the uploader is titling these videos with clickbait in order to get people to hear really actually valuable ideas. Sly fellow.
" you will know the truth and the truth will set you free"
I enjoy this guy and probably absorb and appreciate his wisdom more than those in attendance.
I always think of him as a man that cured himself recently so he wants to share his happiness with us.
Isn't that pretty close to reality?
Right as he was talking about whether cleaning your living space is really cleaning up your mind, i was literally about to put a basket of clean clothes on the ground instead of putting it away. I realized that I put a smidge more chaos in my life with every out of place thing.
Really changed my thinking. I don't agree with JP 100% on everything but I do believe he has kind intentions for us all, and wants to help people.
Really enjoyed the video more than I thought I was. I do at times often struggle with what Peterson says but manage to make the picture but this was good how you broke it down😎👍
"If you have a Real Relationship, it´s therapeutic. If it isn´t, what you have is NOT a Relationship".
I suddenly realised watching this - whilst I am productive - I procrastinate. By helping others. It’s easy to help others. ‘Here are the resources’ and if they fail, That’s their fault. Whereas. If I used those resources my self … where would I be? What could I achieve? But then I might fail. Which is my fault.
I need to help myself. I may fail. But that is a lesson. There is a ‘me’ that needs help. To begin growing again
Someone said never delay something you can accomplish in under 5 minutes. Does that make sense in this context?
I feel like I have a PhD in psychology from JP lol. I took a few psychology classes in college. They barely scratch the surface compared to JP. I have probably view/listened to hundreds of hours of his lectures. Each one never disappoints.
He nails life and how to get the best out of it. Free therapy for my whale poo moods.