What To Do To Be Successful | Jordan B Peterson

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  • @user-lo4er8wy9l
    @user-lo4er8wy9l 4 роки тому +3071

    If you are in your teens and twenties, consider yourself lucky to have found Dr. Peterson at this time in your life. No BS, just the straight dope.

    • @finessinglife9257
      @finessinglife9257 4 роки тому +118

      im 19 and my friends call me crazy for listening to jordan peterson and others like david goggins

    • @krukrok5218
      @krukrok5218 4 роки тому +35

      I'm 17 thank you

    • @AbsvInFeRnO
      @AbsvInFeRnO 4 роки тому +52

      I found JBP during the darkest time in my life last year. The impact that he’s had on my life is astounding. I’m so thankful to have found him, and I hope to be able to pass his lessons onto my future kids.

    • @lucasliew7902
      @lucasliew7902 4 роки тому +7

      @@finessinglife9257 What does goggins teach?

    • @finessinglife9257
      @finessinglife9257 4 роки тому +30

      @@lucasliew7902 to stay hard! After listening to him he makes you want to go run and do something

  • @PSYCHONIHC
    @PSYCHONIHC 4 роки тому +2125

    The father that I never had. The advice that I always needed.

    • @WinkLinkletter
      @WinkLinkletter 4 роки тому +27

      This is pretty much what my parents said about success to me growing up, repeatedly, endlessly. It became like background noise. Maybe it's because I'm getting older or Dr. Peterson's knack for clarity (likely both) but somehow I can hear and believe when he says it.
      Please don't think this is to criticize my folks, lord knows they tried and still do...

    • @johndowe7003
      @johndowe7003 4 роки тому +18

      if you dont have a good dad/role model then find one. jordan peterson is great

    • @naryainc
      @naryainc 4 роки тому +2

      @abcd3625 My instinct is not to mock, but I feel really sad too. I feel sad that anyone has to grasp at Peterson as some father figure which he clearly isn't. He will never speak to most of his audience in person, never really give them time or attention, yet he is at the tip of their tongue as "the father" they never had. Wonder what their actual fathers feel about their sons and their sad attachment to Peterson. Maybe they should instead fix their relationship to their own father and give him a chance. Teach him to be a better father, a better role model.

    • @hajismind557
      @hajismind557 4 роки тому +6

      naryainc you and abc should vent your irrational beliefs to councillors that can show you why you think that! Psycho you’re doing well take information from a pool of good individuals to avoid major bias! Jordan Peterson is just a guy who has studied and examined a lot. Yeah you might think he has a cult behind him and if that’s true I’m happy someone’s sticking up against the other growing cults. I wouldn’t even think cult is a appropriate word in this case and I would really suggest you read up on cults in history very deeply before throwing around such a vulgar term

    • @stvb2123
      @stvb2123 4 роки тому +2

      It's ok. There will always be people who will want to mock an idea/way of thinking, or those who don't agree/believe. It doesn't diminish what is said [in this case what Peterson is teaching] & how those of us who do find value in what he says will use it.
      I also don't think people should confuse the wishing for good/ sage advice [that most people would wish to have known earlier] with wanting a tight/tighter relationship with a parent- not necessarily the same thing at all. There's so much more to a 'father figure/ relationship' than sound advice.

  • @arogueburrito
    @arogueburrito 4 роки тому +2115

    We can't wait for fresh content Dr. Peterson. Godspeed to your total health recovery.

    • @ivaldinissan3638
      @ivaldinissan3638 4 роки тому +5

      Why ? What health problem does he have?

    • @arogueburrito
      @arogueburrito 4 роки тому +29

      @@ivaldinissan3638I believe he was dependant on an antidepressant. It wasn't recovery from an addiction, but more so detox

    • @ivaldinissan3638
      @ivaldinissan3638 4 роки тому +7

      @@arogueburrito Oh ok I hope he recovers quick too... Thanks!

    • @raymondmaglaris4149
      @raymondmaglaris4149 4 роки тому +13

      @@ivaldinissan3638 theres a video of his daughter explaining it on yt

    • @ivaldinissan3638
      @ivaldinissan3638 4 роки тому +4

      @@raymondmaglaris4149 Ok I will see it thanks again

  • @kshitijkulshreshtha5505
    @kshitijkulshreshtha5505 4 роки тому +964

    He is like an inspirational speaker but without the bullshit.

    • @donalbradley8090
      @donalbradley8090 4 роки тому +3

      Kshitij Kulshreshtha exactly

    • @ALI02115
      @ALI02115 4 роки тому +16

      Psychonaut this man is known world class psychologist how make millions of dollars each , and help a lot of people on personal level ,, he suffers from chronic depression which he is very open about .. that doesn’t make him a clown , no one is perfect in this life , and at least he’s trying... now tell me what the hell did you do with your life ?

    • @panickp
      @panickp 4 роки тому

      EXACTLY!!! I was just thinking that.

    • @mohammadusama7929
      @mohammadusama7929 4 роки тому +9

      Psychonaut Him suffering from chronic depression has nothing to do with his message. His message has touched and helped possibly millions of people who are trying to sort their lives out. His lectures and books have been watched and read by millions around the world and have also changed the course of the lives of millions around the world. And then you come and call him a clown? I’m not here to defend the man cause to be honest his work speaks of itself so I’m not gonna go deeper into that. But I’m just baffled that after this man has dedicated almost all his life for the betterment of humanity some people like you are so filled with hate that the moment the man slips up they call him a clown. That’s very sad man I hope you really reevaluate the way you speak about people in general and I hope you could use your words in a way that is beneficial rather than degrading to anyone suffering from an actual problem.

    • @uter
      @uter 4 роки тому +7

      Psychonaut First of all, it's a fallacy to conclude that because he has a pharmaceutical dependence that the things he says are invalid. Second, just because a field is a soft science doesn't mean it has no value.
      If you actually listen to what he says, much of it is self-evident, particularly in this video. You're not arguing against anything he says, you've just decided that if a person is ever overwhelmed by a weakness, they are worthless.

  • @jacky7878
    @jacky7878 3 роки тому +787

    1. IQ - Exercise (Aerobic + Anaerobic)
    2. Conscientiousness (Orderliness and Industriousness)
    a. Specify goals and vision that you actually value
    - What would you want from your friendships?
    - What would you want from your intimate relationship
    - How would you like to structure your family
    - What do you want for your career
    - How are you going to use your time outside of your job
    - How are you gonna regulate your mental and physical health + drug and alcohol use
    b. Micro-habits (Schedule) - that make every day worth living and stick to it
    - Set up the best possible day you could
    - Responsibility + Reward

    • @AustrianEconomist
      @AustrianEconomist 3 роки тому +9

      This is a great little recap post-video. Thank you.

    • @auraandrei146
      @auraandrei146 3 роки тому +6

      Good outline. People also need to learn to expect sabotage and failure, not necessarily correlated. And success means different things to different people. Thanks

    • @malahari123
      @malahari123 3 роки тому +2

      Thank you @Jacky

    • @johnmichaelgastador9651
      @johnmichaelgastador9651 Рік тому

      Thanks, champ!

    • @seemantadas9369
      @seemantadas9369 Рік тому

      Thanks man.

  • @ady7618
    @ady7618 4 роки тому +764

    The more I listen to him, the more I realize that I have to improve my English first

    • @dailydoseofmooda
      @dailydoseofmooda 4 роки тому +17

      I feel ya brother xD

    • @arogueburrito
      @arogueburrito 4 роки тому +63

      He speaks very high level english

    • @hollydabral
      @hollydabral 4 роки тому +49

      @@arogueburrito He does, and he makes all of our English better by listening to him. Thanks Jordan Peterson.

    • @raffcummins
      @raffcummins 4 роки тому +22

      This is university level English there are very specific psychology terms that he is using that only about 5% of English speakers would actually know the meaning

    • @ady7618
      @ady7618 4 роки тому +11

      @@raffcummins oh i see, sometimes i scroll down in comments to read other people's favourite line from the video that they had quoted and futher explained. That kinda helps lol.

  • @ThuyNguyen-bu9ge
    @ThuyNguyen-bu9ge 4 роки тому +2756

    Nothing will motivate me to exercise more than knowing that if I don't, my brain is not getting the oxygen it needs to stay healthy.

    • @chubbymike3372
      @chubbymike3372 4 роки тому +14

      Vahva Fitness on YT,
      I'm not being paid

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor 4 роки тому +72

      As a thin asian girl, just look at some of these American walking heart attacks and you'll get motivated enough......

    • @frankyu6984
      @frankyu6984 4 роки тому +67

      Whatever turns your crank

    • @AxeKick80
      @AxeKick80 4 роки тому +17

      Frank Yu turning cranks can be good exercise, man 💪

    • @kenburns4547
      @kenburns4547 4 роки тому +1

      Thuy Nguyen: man does not live by air alone, but by the God's truth.
      As Johann Wolfgang von Goethe said, "there are none more enslaved, than those who falsely think they're free."
      But since Peterson is employed licensed and accredited by the state, he won't address that. Psychology is the SCIENCE of validating the state oligarchy by Gaslighting the individual. He is just a political puppet, who engages in Political Abuse of Psychiatry to validate its power, while maintaining the delusion of liberty and democracy under government-dictated ultimatums called "elections."

  • @Apollothecrowing
    @Apollothecrowing 4 роки тому +929

    Whatever turns your crank, man

    • @heizie88
      @heizie88 4 роки тому +26

      This always makes me laugh. I'm laughing so hard even now.

    • @Apollothecrowing
      @Apollothecrowing 4 роки тому +4

      Hilarious

    • @Apollothecrowing
      @Apollothecrowing 4 роки тому +1

      🤦‍♂️

    • @Apollothecrowing
      @Apollothecrowing 4 роки тому +5

      @Psychonaut you've expressed your opinion on several people's comments, please leave me be. I'm not interested in engaging in this line of dialogue with you.

    • @Fred26498
      @Fred26498 4 роки тому +5

      @Psychonaut it's actually not that logic, because to be a coach you don't have to be able to do something better, but you have to know how to do something better. Otherwise you wouldn't be coaching, you'd be acting instead. Coaches in sports for example aren't better than their players, they are usually worse but they know how to do it better. Same goes for doctors they know how to be live healthy does it mean they usually do? No. Also you could say even before Dr. Peterson gained public attention he was pretty successful already. He wasn't able to cope with the sudden attention very well, which doesn't devalue his life and isn't very uncommon either if you look at drug use across celebrities.

  • @brandonrobinson1603
    @brandonrobinson1603 4 роки тому +972

    The worst part about every Jordan Peterson video is when it ends

    • @Studio-IV
      @Studio-IV 4 роки тому +3

      @abcd3625 oh cuz you’re so smert huh

    • @MrDomwilson21
      @MrDomwilson21 4 роки тому

      Forever interrupted 😂🔥🐐

    • @scahsaint6249
      @scahsaint6249 4 роки тому +10

      It's good that ends so people can actually go out and apply these principles. Many people will sit and watch an infinite string of videos if possible, yet nothing will change.

    • @jinpoloperez6682
      @jinpoloperez6682 3 роки тому +1

      No. It's when there's a sudden ad popping out of nowhere.

    • @padarousou
      @padarousou Рік тому

      ​@@scahsaint6249 ya that's a nice thought, but most people will just watch another one 😂

  • @Theodor1st
    @Theodor1st 4 роки тому +289

    I liked very much this part:
    "It's like you're a bad employee and a worse boss, and both of those work for you. You don't know what you wanna do, and when you tell yourself what to do, you don't do it anyways. You should fire yourself and find someone else to be..."

    • @genevieverenaud2537
      @genevieverenaud2537 3 роки тому +10

      Ikr, it was so funny. The best part is the little smirk at his own joke, so heartwhelming lol

    • @nuzhatsuraiya8367
      @nuzhatsuraiya8367 3 роки тому +1

      How do i do that? What if it gets worse while trying to become someone else

    • @nuzhatsuraiya8367
      @nuzhatsuraiya8367 3 роки тому +1

      Well i dont like my current self either. So, how bad would it be anyway. I think answered my own question. Idk what im doing here

    • @gregh5061
      @gregh5061 3 роки тому

      @@genevieverenaud2537 heart warming*

    • @genevieverenaud2537
      @genevieverenaud2537 3 роки тому

      @@gregh5061 No i wanted to say heartwhelming, but thanks for trying to expand my vocabulary ;)

  • @9words40
    @9words40 4 роки тому +359

    I have heard the same lecture times and times again, never get enough

    • @9words40
      @9words40 4 роки тому +9

      @Psychonaut actually my life is still a mess, but its heading up, i think

    • @remkojerphanion4686
      @remkojerphanion4686 4 роки тому

      Yeah, I never get enough of JP either. Damn, maybe I'm addicted to these lectures... JP, help!

    • @ruslanuchan8880
      @ruslanuchan8880 4 роки тому +12

      Me too. It's like masturbating to the idea of being productive without being productive. It feels horrible

    • @trevorfreebie5942
      @trevorfreebie5942 4 роки тому

      @@ruslanuchan8880 True

    • @ultraali453
      @ultraali453 4 роки тому

      I heard this clip before, and I have to say that I needed to hear it again. What he said about schedules really hit home..

  • @marktapia3731
    @marktapia3731 4 роки тому +103

    For every two minutes he talks, a normal professor would have taken an hour. What a class to be in.

  • @SgtJuls
    @SgtJuls 4 роки тому +133

    Man if my college classes would’ve been all like this I never would’ve missed or slept through a single class... now I’m watching other people’s college classes and learning more than I ever did in any of mine

    • @thatguybob6088
      @thatguybob6088 3 роки тому +10

      True, my classes are all dry bullshit from recycled slides from 10 years ago. The professors really don't give a shit. Wish Jordan Peterson was my professor

    • @JGComments
      @JGComments Рік тому +2

      And now they basically kicked him out of the classroom. Unbelievable.

    • @PsychedelicAnxiety
      @PsychedelicAnxiety Рік тому

      Jordan Peterson resonates a lot with the sorts of people who slept through their classes

    • @SgtJuls
      @SgtJuls Рік тому +3

      @@PsychedelicAnxiety yea, I believe he resonates with people that actually wanted to get something out of their classes, something truly valuable

    • @andreapinelli3348
      @andreapinelli3348 Рік тому +2

      When I watch these videos I always think about the students in the class and if they knew how lucky they were on that moment to witness such knowledge being displayed and described right before their eyes

  • @ridethelapras
    @ridethelapras 29 днів тому +2

    I love this classic Peterson format. He really has come a long way.

  • @CharlotteForbes
    @CharlotteForbes 4 роки тому +52

    Just don't forget the number one most important goal in life: Having a clean room.
    On a more serious note, the world will welcome Dr. Peterson back when he's recovered and ready to offer us more wisdom. Thank you for helping us out, and best wishes to you in return.

    • @shemi404
      @shemi404 4 роки тому +1

      he is getting okay though, he stated in his daughter's podcast that he is getting better, heck, even continued to writing and editing his current book.

    • @tomu7942
      @tomu7942 4 роки тому +1

      What if i dont have a room? I'll clean the bathroom instead 😂

    • @sulaimanalmahrooqi188
      @sulaimanalmahrooqi188 4 роки тому

      Well. He is back now. Fully!

  • @waltermatthewberg
    @waltermatthewberg 4 роки тому +189

    I think I've seen this clip 4 or 5 times. It still helps me because I tend to stray from the path of the righteous man.

    • @andrewculross9421
      @andrewculross9421 4 роки тому +18

      The fact that you are actively working on yourself, keeping yourself on the line proves that you are on the path. Don’t sell yourself short man.

    • @vladydadygrenades3507
      @vladydadygrenades3507 4 роки тому +3

      Keep watching it over n over as well as other positive videos as well. I would recommend cutting out pessimistic n negative vids,people and thoughts n just fill up your life with motivated positive n optimistic people,vids n thought process. Best wishes for u

    • @miblert3717
      @miblert3717 4 роки тому +1

      Oh wow I've found myself a twin!

    • @joshuam.2685
      @joshuam.2685 4 роки тому +1

      We all do, Kemosabee. That you can recognize and Hear it, is a Blessing, Your Soul knows the rest . Keep tuned.

    • @munchenonyou3774
      @munchenonyou3774 4 роки тому

      We are working on it. Nobody is perfect 24/7
      But that doesnt mean we shouldnt try for it 💪👌

  • @M0stlyStormie
    @M0stlyStormie 4 роки тому +401

    And you’re useless and horrible so you’ll only hit it with about 70% accuracy, but that beats the hell out of zero !
    This guy is my hero

    • @themalachilee
      @themalachilee 3 роки тому

      Real Truth 💪🏽

    • @gregh5061
      @gregh5061 3 роки тому +6

      70% is genuinely amazing anyways considering most people only hit 35%

    • @TILsquared96
      @TILsquared96 3 роки тому

      @@gregh5061 Yeah, when JP was saying to get 70/50% accuracy on your scheduled tasks, I was thinking "Whoa!! Those are incredible scores!" 😂 Glad to know I'm not the only one thinking that those percentages are fantastic

    • @LeanBack_HaveASnack_TakeANap
      @LeanBack_HaveASnack_TakeANap 3 роки тому

      A hall of fame baseball player didn't get on base 60-70% of the time.

  • @victornaut
    @victornaut 4 роки тому +74

    I noticed myself getting dumber and less focused in the last few months. Working a terrible job that gave me so much anxiety/stress I started smoking.. but this man's words... this man's words is what I needed to try and stand straight. Look at myself and at life more critically and start working on things now not to be sorry tomorrow. Thanks for posting this video. I'll try to come back here to post my progress.
    Thank you very much.

    • @ayodhyapillay985
      @ayodhyapillay985 3 роки тому +1

      Wishing you all the best. Don't be too hard on yourself.

    • @GabrielSantos-ys7sl
      @GabrielSantos-ys7sl 2 роки тому +6

      it's been a year. How are you now?

    • @padarousou
      @padarousou Рік тому

      I was the same way and ended up quitting my job after over 2 years because I was sick of it. Started smoking more again then the isolation event in 2020 happened and have been a shut in since. These videos really help to pick me up again

  • @YawMoney
    @YawMoney 4 роки тому +92

    Have a value goal that transcends you and what failure looks like. Keep what is in control under control including scheduling. Do all to increase the probability of success. Have faith and Hope

    • @comichacker
      @comichacker 4 роки тому +1

      Providing value is one thing and providing amusements is another thing . The latter is which MOST of the companies provide today. Take FB for example; about 25% of the population uses it,and is advertised as tool for communication. Yet not ONE NOBEL LAUREATE. sure, it sometimes provides incredible value. But it only does it when it matches with THEIR business ethics

    • @dancer1
      @dancer1 4 роки тому

      What’s yours?

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor 4 роки тому

      Faith and hope 😂😂😂. I try hard work instead. I've been a company man for a couple places that just don't give a shit and use you up. Do HUGE hours like 84 hour weeks and the best response they give you is trying to rip off your paycheck to under 80 hours a week so they can get out of a 10 dollar daily meal allowance. Not that you can even BUY a McDonald's meal for that.

  • @austonian08
    @austonian08 4 роки тому +557

    "Its no joke, man!"

    • @SparqXL
      @SparqXL 4 роки тому +22

      Whenever he's says that...I rewind the video to make I didn't miss anything 👌🏾

    • @StayClear4321
      @StayClear4321 4 роки тому +2

      @@SparqXL facts

    • @draganminic4928
      @draganminic4928 4 роки тому

      @Jacob Alanheimer how can you tell that?
      Are you perhaps self reflecting?
      My questions are not rhetorical. We are all waiting for your answers.

    • @vilmiswow
      @vilmiswow 3 роки тому

      I'd buy a tshirt like that

  • @allthatjazzshow3299
    @allthatjazzshow3299 4 роки тому +326

    Literally to the 1% who's reading this, God bless you, may all your dreams come true, may you be successful in all spheres of life, stay safe and have a wonderful day :)

  • @YogiLab
    @YogiLab 4 роки тому +150

    Straight facts, no fluff, he’s the teacher we always needed!

  • @mulletheadbanger
    @mulletheadbanger 4 роки тому +17

    I've watched a few of his videos and really all hes doing is explaing life to young people with stats to back it up .
    But at 68 and having the experience I've had in life this if by far the most worthwhile piece of free information I've ever heard .

  • @aryansarc
    @aryansarc 2 роки тому +18

    Watching this as an 18 yo just gives me so much clarity and advantage over my peers, I feel. I am already taking notes and will actually start implementing all this and see where it leads me!

    • @padarousou
      @padarousou Рік тому +6

      I was the same way when I discovered him at 17, just know that even though you are ahead it can still be easy to fall behind over time. Having wisdom and acting wise are not the same thing, as I learned the hard way.

    • @ontop8331
      @ontop8331 Рік тому +2

      Can you elaborate on thinking you had wisdom? I’m 17 aswell and I just want to know because I’m implementing these into my life yk

  • @graham5105
    @graham5105 4 роки тому +59

    Hope you're doing well Mr. Peterson. your videos never fail to get me thinking, you've been a great influence on my life.

  • @NorbuEbenezerTamang98
    @NorbuEbenezerTamang98 3 роки тому +8

    How blessed is the cameraman filming and receiving the wisdom LIVE!

  • @chiragmehta2955
    @chiragmehta2955 4 роки тому +4

    My fav
    7:00 special goal creates possibility of specific failure also so most people don't make specific goal so there is a chance they fail at all(not at nothing)
    8:11 make a damn schedule
    10:16 accuracy will increase

  • @vman99
    @vman99 Місяць тому +1

    I’ve been to therapy my whole life but Dr Peterson explained depression and alcoholism better than I ever heard.

  • @victorsantos4414
    @victorsantos4414 4 роки тому +17

    The amount of logic this man has, I feel like I’m listening to wisdom itself speak

    • @joshuam.2685
      @joshuam.2685 4 роки тому

      - Word .

    • @padarousou
      @padarousou Рік тому

      That's what happens when you study in school and don't mess around

  • @sd3776
    @sd3776 4 роки тому +2083

    How does this guy remember all this stuff, it's like he's got 20 chrome tabs open in his brain

    • @ShoRealTV
      @ShoRealTV 4 роки тому +125

      Hahaha and probably a few of them are 'incognito'

    • @lordxenrak1088
      @lordxenrak1088 4 роки тому +7

      Sho Real TV Hip Hop Media 😂😅

    • @archivedaccount2000
      @archivedaccount2000 4 роки тому +210

      it's because he genuinely understands his content yk - it is clear that he naturally thinks about this stuff alot, meaning that when he is lecturing he isn;'t 'memorising' in the traditional sense, but instead just speaking in flow about his interests / thoughts that he has had.

    • @rwinter13rw
      @rwinter13rw 4 роки тому +24

      @@ShoRealTV I don't think he watches porn

    • @cdarklock
      @cdarklock 4 роки тому +42

      @@archivedaccount2000 The key to that is "in flow." Even when you know a whole lot about a great many things, you don't start to look really SMART until you can connect all those things together and move between them seamlessly. I had a huge issue with that in my youth until it "clicked" for me that I had to connect things together in a sort of loose mental network. Then I went from looking crazy to looking smart, almost overnight, and tbh after 20+ years I am still not used to it and think I just look crazy all the time. I still expect everyone to respond to me the same way they did when I was 20 and didn't know squat about squat.

  • @karenmkrtumyan6902
    @karenmkrtumyan6902 4 роки тому +106

    The relationship between physical health and cognitive skills is somewhat self-evident, and still really easy to miss if you want to miss it :D . I think I'll start exercising.

  • @wesfin
    @wesfin 10 місяців тому

    2:10 increase industriousness
    2:41 sources of motivation (goals/purpose/potential and perceived deprivation towards them)

  • @houssamb1996
    @houssamb1996 4 роки тому +29

    I've been watching a similar part of this clip for years, more than 50 times I'd say. It really helped me achieve further success in my life, and I'll watch it again whenever I begin to procrastinate.

    • @padarousou
      @padarousou Рік тому +1

      It's nice to see it without all the "motivational" music and irrelevant clips. Just listening to the man speak is enough

  • @typorter-pp6lh
    @typorter-pp6lh 4 роки тому +3

    6:54 This part is so, so key to succeeding in life. So many people let their fear of failure hold them back from achieving their dreams.

    • @hollydabral
      @hollydabral 4 роки тому +1

      TRUE. Lots of failure is part of the path to success.

    • @thatguybob6088
      @thatguybob6088 3 роки тому

      The way that he doesn't blame you and forces you to accept who you are, I've never heard anything like it. I was always taught that being afraid of big assignments meant I was lazy and needed to shape up, and that social life is just fun that takes away from studying. Furthest from the fucking truth

  • @AuditMadness
    @AuditMadness 4 роки тому +15

    As a business owner when he says "you're a bad employee and a worse boss but you work for yourself so those things work out for you" that is me spot on.

  • @Imawarrior
    @Imawarrior 4 роки тому +22

    This lecture is just one of the best, sums it it up in 11min. Our prayers for your quick recovery PROFESSOR J.P 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @khecharimudra9459
    @khecharimudra9459 4 роки тому +8

    Dr. Peterson is incredible, great thinker and communicator.

  • @gagi6294
    @gagi6294 6 годин тому

    I always felt that it is my responsibility, as someone with high IQ and a great potential, to become successful and provide for my family, friends and the world as a whole. I think all people should strive for such goal, because not everyone can be successful and live a good life, but I feel like everyone deserves it!

  • @modern.performer
    @modern.performer 4 роки тому +24

    I agree 100% on the schedule approach but I'm gonna put it out there right away: video games for only 15min will not work

  • @VincentMuambiAuthor
    @VincentMuambiAuthor Рік тому +4

    This is the sort of advice and education that I wish I had from my father, but also in life itself during my formative years. I'm thirty-seven years old and feel aimless despite my small accomplishments. Perhaps, this is what needs to be taught more often in our schools - which is not the case.

  • @vincentvideos99
    @vincentvideos99 4 роки тому +215

    ANAEROBIC AND AEROBIC

  • @danielfaller5617
    @danielfaller5617 3 роки тому

    5:07 - 5:18 is my favourite line
    so basically set the best goals you can and are not impossible at the same time. then figure out what is the fastest way to get there and what do you have to do today to get there.
    Also useful things:
    - phisical excercise to preserve your iq
    - possibly chose a job that fits your personality
    - use a scedule that you want to stick to
    - think about friends girlfriend(or boy for the few woman hanging around on youtube :)) career and time outside of work when you are setting your goal.

  • @aliasghar4409
    @aliasghar4409 4 роки тому +3

    Man i wish i have him as my teacher. Why don’t this world have more people like him? May God bless him with a long and healthy life.

  • @abhishekranjan4321
    @abhishekranjan4321 3 місяці тому

    Only if i had heard about this man and his lectures when i was in college. But still i consider myself fortunate to have found him.

  • @heizie88
    @heizie88 4 роки тому +7

    Love how I heard all of this amazing advice AFTER I just finished my finals. Nice.

  • @footballover01
    @footballover01 3 роки тому +1

    I keep coming back to this video, and I really don't think JBP has a more consice and packed video than this. I say that having watched the vast majority of his lecture, interviews and podcasts.
    Truly a treasure!

  • @mrandersong1
    @mrandersong1 4 роки тому +4

    So much respect for Dr. Peterson.. He’s a wealth of knowledge

  • @TheMalluFun
    @TheMalluFun 8 місяців тому

    I am grateful to UA-cam for recommending his video on 'wasting time' two years ago. It really did change my life. ❤❤

  • @DarksteelHeart
    @DarksteelHeart 4 роки тому +4

    I've heard this before but always find new knowledge when I come back to videos with him speaking.

  • @BeardnScars
    @BeardnScars 3 місяці тому

    Wisdom. Love and agree with his overview of success, especially being more mature as opposed to when my life was a mess. Nothing better than gaining knowledge from a genius who is simultaneously affirming the positive changes you’ve already made in your life from previous mistakes.

  • @danielwright6277
    @danielwright6277 4 роки тому +3

    I, as a sovereign individual, always have goals. Sometimes the goals push my gifts to the upward limit, but it's worth it.

  • @workinprogress0123
    @workinprogress0123 3 роки тому

    It has been like a month or two, and I have stopped watching almost every self help UA-cam channels, because almost everything is here. Dr. Jordan Peterson's lectures have been an ultimate tool for me to find my answers... So I don't need to keep wandering around in search of answer from different places, if I could find almost all of them here.

  • @samblack5313
    @samblack5313 3 роки тому +8

    “You don’t know what to do and when you tell yourself what to do, you don’t do it anyway”
    I laughed my ass off 😂

  • @branden3102
    @branden3102 3 роки тому

    His comment at 6:54 to 7:36 were very inspiring.

  • @masonripton2574
    @masonripton2574 4 роки тому +4

    This is something I really needed to hear right now

  • @hermit3933
    @hermit3933 Рік тому

    Thank you So much Dr Peterson for being an Angle on this hellish world

  • @bluehar5505
    @bluehar5505 4 роки тому +4

    This man has taught so much. Thank you Mr. Peterson, it all makes a little more sense.

  • @galacticplastic1741
    @galacticplastic1741 4 роки тому

    Wound a new word
    _7:32__-__7:37__ really wise words_ *_: Willful Blindness - You could've know but you choose not to._*

  • @josevanreyes
    @josevanreyes 3 роки тому +62

    "So these are the things you need to be successful
    Step 1: IQ"
    *closes laptop *

  • @hs1671
    @hs1671 4 роки тому +1

    His articulation is amazing

  • @oodlenoodle827
    @oodlenoodle827 3 роки тому +4

    damn i needed to hear this. im slowly gaining weight and still eating trash food. im already 330 pounds and i need to stick to my exercise. what ill do is workout consistently for like 3 or 4 days in a row and then stop working out for months until i feel so shitty and miserable about my decline that i workout again for 3 days. Thank you for Jordan Peterson!

  • @RichardWilliamDamien
    @RichardWilliamDamien 4 роки тому

    Not a clickbait.
    That’s maybe the most useful practical video speech of Peterson.
    Must be watched and rewatched.

  • @jdharddrive101
    @jdharddrive101 4 роки тому +12

    THHANKYOU you sir really made my day

  • @petersimthobele
    @petersimthobele Рік тому

    I started to listen Jordan P when I was doing my 1st year at Uni this guy literally helped me a lot mentally.🤞🏻

  • @gilbertcastro7621
    @gilbertcastro7621 4 роки тому +33

    Everybody says, if he is my
    teacher. I will go to school.
    Well, who the hell disagrees?
    🎤PETERSON UNIVERSITY
    👏PETERSON UNIVERSITY
    🎤PETERSON UNIVERSITY👊👏

  • @rbur5153
    @rbur5153 3 роки тому +2

    Make a schedule and set it up so you enjoy the activities that are set. Very powerful
    Creating a prison for yourself out of guilt and desire to change never lasts very long from experience.
    Another good one is recognizing moments of temptation, stepping back and embody the feeling present, really makes it seem small and easier to overcome.

  • @Chris3141592
    @Chris3141592 4 роки тому +3

    This is internet gold! - absolutely full of gems, each sentence uttered contains insight and value - it is dismaying to think the class don't hang on every word but instead appear largely disinterested. Their loss; our gain. Thanks for recording and double thanks for posting :-)

  • @mohamedrafireporter
    @mohamedrafireporter 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for your Good wishes and Advice.

  • @lordvoldemort4242
    @lordvoldemort4242 4 роки тому +206

    I’m 20 in university I have goals, friends,I’m talking care of myself, and I’m looking for a wife so I can start a family. Sounds good to me.

    • @niccolom4556
      @niccolom4556 4 роки тому +6

      Ezekiel Brown 👍🙌🌠

    • @henryac849
      @henryac849 4 роки тому +4

      👍🏼👍🏼

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor 4 роки тому +33

      Word of advice as a 38 year old. Be VERY WARY of wasting your time trying to find s white girl to marry. They'll wasye YEARS of your life and few intend on staying, some even calculating the divorce money they'd get around the time you move in together. Seriously. Try anything but white girls otherwise you'll end up 38 and still single. Earning big money and owning a house and a few cars MEANS NOTHING if you get the sense you're never going to have kids.

    • @niccolom4556
      @niccolom4556 4 роки тому +61

      Link Knight Thats really silly if you think all American women are influenced under the same, mainstream anti-marriage culture.

    • @forfreedom.3570
      @forfreedom.3570 4 роки тому +7

      @@niccolom4556 Statistics show that too.

  • @nake.glo9871
    @nake.glo9871 2 роки тому

    This is the greatest video on the entire platform hands down

  • @loicrgl8117
    @loicrgl8117 4 роки тому +3

    Thanks again for this clip (whoever is posting it). I got myself into the habit of always watching one of those before I get myself to work for uni. It's been incredibly helpful motivation wise and productivity wise.

  • @mohammadyousef5753
    @mohammadyousef5753 3 роки тому

    The part he talked about failure “we don’t like to be specific with our goals so we don’t tell when we fail b/c it’s painful”
    I think the pain mostly come from having a total thinking of saying “ I failed b/c I’m a failure instead of saying I failed and I’m glad I recognized it so that I can spot the thing that made me fail so I don’t repeat in the future, thus in a sense this is a winner mentality not a failure’s one.

  • @anitarussell1966
    @anitarussell1966 4 роки тому +3

    Welcome back - Gosh you have been such an inspiring person in my life 💖

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor 4 роки тому

      Just an old upload.

    • @AxeKick80
      @AxeKick80 4 роки тому

      Link Knight (don’t ruin this big moment of theirs 🤫) 😂

  • @marciopontes_
    @marciopontes_ 3 роки тому

    I'm here to improve my English and learn about life with the great Jordan Peterson. Thank you from Fortaleza, Brazil.

  • @bohoc4
    @bohoc4 4 роки тому +7

    10:20 in other words, work harder than last time.

  • @alitalib3099
    @alitalib3099 7 місяців тому

    I wouldn’t get bored by watching this video 100 times

  • @aboldone3991
    @aboldone3991 4 роки тому +5

    "then you don't know when you fail" that hit me right to my solar plexus

  • @LBMUSICGR
    @LBMUSICGR 4 місяці тому

    I learned a lot though difficult times from Jordan B Peterson. Thank you Jordan!

  • @Ak24444
    @Ak24444 4 роки тому +13

    You don't want to set goals, because you don't want to set conditions for failures 🤯

  • @onegoestofour
    @onegoestofour 4 роки тому +1

    I mean this 10 minutes is like to learn something that normally you would learn in years or decades. Everybody should watch this like in every month...keep up the motivation!

  • @WinkLinkletter
    @WinkLinkletter 4 роки тому +7

    "The best possible day I can have...practically speaking..."

  • @laladywarriors820
    @laladywarriors820 3 роки тому +1

    For listening to him this whole quarantine
    Im not hurt anymore when he mention iq
    I gradually accept that

  • @vishaln1903
    @vishaln1903 4 роки тому +245

    so youre like a bad employee and a worse boss AT THE SAME TIME . SO YOU JUST FIRE YOURSELF ANYWAYS.

    • @Dabro1010
      @Dabro1010 4 роки тому +6

      Donald Trump are you listening!?

    • @georgebotelho288
      @georgebotelho288 4 роки тому +2

      * WORSE...
      P 1: Your breath is the WORST!
      P 2: Your breath is even WORSE.
      P 1: I like that you know the difference between worst, and worse, so I'm willing to let the breath thing slide for now.
      P 1: ...but take a fucking bath or something

    • @vishaln1903
      @vishaln1903 4 роки тому +7

      @@georgebotelho288 Twas a typo dear sir.

    • @georgebotelho288
      @georgebotelho288 4 роки тому +2

      @@vishaln1903 My ex girlfriend ate up all my patience with regard to the distinction between worse, worst, and worse, and now I can't help but correct everyone anytime I see/hear it.🧐

    • @theoriginalJP
      @theoriginalJP 4 роки тому +3

      I'd fire myself, but, I can't find someone else to do the job.

  • @ricklee9473
    @ricklee9473 4 роки тому

    This could be really his most bare -knuckle dad talk of all.😣 love it!!!!

  • @kerrymccarthy9713
    @kerrymccarthy9713 4 роки тому +6

    Idk why but I love when he says “well you can ask yourself that”

  • @hking1009
    @hking1009 2 роки тому +1

    thank you for constantly being a source of positivity and pragmatism

  • @Talahib92
    @Talahib92 4 роки тому +3

    "You're useless and horrible so you probably hit it with about 70% accuracy but that beats the hell out of zero."
    That's enough motivation for me to do something productive. Simple, honest, harsh but on point.

  • @CenterMind-tw8vp
    @CenterMind-tw8vp 6 місяців тому

    True Master of his words

  • @hollydabral
    @hollydabral 4 роки тому +4

    "You can work on micro-habits" to be more industrious. I need to identify my positive micro-habits.

  • @successisachoice1421
    @successisachoice1421 3 роки тому

    This is pure gold! It actually summarize the best of the best 100 self help / psychology books

  • @yomyomcam
    @yomyomcam 4 роки тому +3

    I do not feel less smart than almost 20 years ago, I actually understand and learn stuff better and faster now that I'm almost 40, than when I was 20. Interesting though.

    • @dextertan9073
      @dextertan9073 4 роки тому

      I think it' your experience that help you in connecting the dots

  • @saschapfluger9477
    @saschapfluger9477 Рік тому

    I was considering skipping training tomorrow. Thanks to Dr. Peterson i now know that PE is also good for your Brain. So, i will go.😎🤸😊

  • @snowframe2995
    @snowframe2995 4 роки тому +6

    1:19 i started breathing deeper after hearing this 😂😂

  • @MonkeyD_Luthy
    @MonkeyD_Luthy Рік тому

    Listening to this man gives me motivation and shines a light on what I should do moving forward to be successful

  • @diornodiovanna2838
    @diornodiovanna2838 3 роки тому +3

    just turned 19 and that cognitive decline thing is gonna save my life lol, fuck lifting to be hot im lifting to not be more dumb than i already am

  • @richardbowers3647
    @richardbowers3647 4 роки тому +1

    One of the best motivational speakers!!!

  • @jeremytan1051
    @jeremytan1051 4 роки тому +3

    The definition of lack of conscientiousness: "You're a bad employee and a worse boss"

  • @bluenotebook489
    @bluenotebook489 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you sir
    Love from India

  • @Doesrobotinyourface
    @Doesrobotinyourface 4 роки тому +4

    ...Then all you've got left is misery and suffering - that's a bad.... that's a bad deal.
    -JBP

  • @izawaniek2568
    @izawaniek2568 2 роки тому

    I agree with every word Jordan Peterson said. Thank you.