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- Why You Became The Biggest Regret For The Narcissist
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Just a disclaimer from someone who has had two back to back narcissistic relationships that became dangerous: Please DO NOT invite these individuals back into your life, after God has set you free. I understand the strength of the emotional pull, and the appeal to forgive and take them back, because you're thinking things will be like they were 10, 25, 30 years ago when you met, but the reality is, the person you left, or that discarded you IS the real person. You experienced them at their best, because that was the facade they had you to believe in them, for THEIR best interest, not yours.
So having done it twice, and had many bad dates before those two, please don't go back to them. Allow God to heal you, and bring someone worthwhile into your life.
You literally echoed my experience 2 back to back ones, mine were both abusive but in different ways and not immediately of course , but we are STRONG. And you are right once the masks slips and you see who they REALLY are you can’t go back!! ❤
Such great advice, Michael. Thank you! You are helping people.
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Thank you.
Surely by your logic if 'God' set you free then surely "God' brought you together with the Narc in the first place ?
Get the lesson - solitude is a worthy path! Think about it, many things are solitary anyway. Do you swim with your partner on your back? I swim alone, I cycle alone, I walk alone and play football without any partner nearby. I shop alone, I clean alone, I cook alone etc. I have no partner. Everything I do alone and am I the worse for it? Nope. I teach with ease and don't need a guiding hand there. God is my guide.
This is Gold
Me Too 😊❤
I’m doing the exact same thing, and God the is my guide. Jesus is with me through it all. We’re never really alone.
Great! Thank you
Same❤
Been doing everything alone for 7 1/2 years now after a 20 year fraud marriage. And I couldn’t be happier. I have a full life with excellent relationships with my children and I ask no one for anything I do it myself and I’m happy to do it. Jesus is my constant companion. It’s a beautiful life .
I am healed from my narc now, thank God. He is with a woman who has her own home, great job, great cook, great gardener, all of that. Not that I'm without my own skills and talents. But, he thinks he's got it made and she walks around acting like she's hit the jackpot with this wonderful, kind, caring gift from God of a man. Thats the most chilling thing because she doesn't know he's really a demonic nightmare. And no, I'm not going to say a thing, she' ll find out. 💯
"you have to work for them.... work to produce that dopamine in their brains" 🎯
it's a full-time job
I wore myself out completely now he with the lowest hanging fruit wish her tons of luck 😅
Even when you ask for something so small, they act like you are asking them to jump the Snake River like Evel Knievel.
from Germany,
happy narcfree year to all the brave survivors from around the world !
I remember asking her to bring me some salad for lunch the next day because I had run out of salad. She reacted by rolling her eyes and saying I was really annoying. You would think I had asked her to give me one of her kidneys. When I look back, I see lots of examples of these little red flags. Be honest, everyone. See them for what they really are.
My soon ex husband, rolled his eyes at me often, like a little immature teen girl
I love the way you describe it ! On point.
Yes! they view any request or need as a burden or inconvenience despite you making all the concessions in the relationship.
Mick I was mending her fence and as I was holding the fence up the hammer was just out to reach and I asked her to pass it to me...'why can't you get it?'. I'm holding the fence up, I said. She came over, walked passed the hammer and held the fence and said 'you can fetch it now'...unbelievable!!!
Yes, see them for what they are.complete and utter erse holes
"It just gets better with God" ~Dave
AMEN!!!!!!!
Thanks Dave!!!!!
I’m pretty sure I was the best slave in his lifetime. Even then, it wasn’t good enough. Real love is somewhere- God willing.
Dating phase w/ N never ends. They are constantly re-evaluating whether you are worthy or not. Even when married.
Guys, i have to get this out there. There is a major shaking going on. I went no contact with my ex narc after discovering she was cheating with multiple complete strangers. Thank God my divorce was finalized a week ago. I have a few narcissist family members, an abusive grandparent, parent and sibling. I also have many coworker narcs. I see them falling all around me. Their health and relationships are failing. I don't think it's a coincidence that these evil creatures are being exposed everywhere. Stay the path and keep the faith, your obedience is being rewarded. I truly believe that justice is coming.
Time is very short right now. Be courageous, choose forgiveness (= freedom), pray for protection and discernment, help others - we’re almost there! ♥️🙏🏻🕊️🏁
The great revealing. I know exactly what you are talking about - it is happening all around me !
Right it is mine just got exposed now I see very clearly
May he have a long life with other dusty narcs who use him.
It was easy to trust my alcoholic narc ex when we met. He is a fireman and assured me repeatedly that “I save lives, I will never hurt you.” What he did to me, with all the lies, cheats, and abuse was beyond cruelty and decency. I am speaking up now and am exposing him to his fire department. He has also committed fraud. His doom day is coming.
I think you are also a narc and you donot know it
Since the X discarded me, I will not lie I do get lonely. For the first time since being without the X I feel peace.
Yes you do I'm working out in my purpose it' feels good.
Hi Dave, I'm glad you mentioned to some folks on here, that we can pray for the narcissists salvation, from faraway. And for those that are bitter from all the narcissists abusive behavior, they just need to understand that the flesh wars against the Spirit, and The Spirit wars against the flesh. They just need to ask the Lord to help strengthen their spirit and starve their flesh. May God bring much healing to all those that have been the narcissists victim, and from their cruel abuse. Jesus is close to the broken hearted
For the spirit needs the flesh to know that it's spirit... and the flesh cannot know it's flesh without the spirit... yin yang balance and all that stuff it's all the same
That's not Biblical, with those exact words. @@hd-be7di
I don't pray for IT, have to keep the soul ties separated. ❤
Forgiveness? Yes.
I pray for their salvation, because Hell is a horrible place to be in for eternity. I do however understand how the cords need to be severed by the Blood of Jesus. And when it's family narcs, it's somewhat painful to sever those soul ties. God Bless You @Healinglove😇🥰@@Healinglove
7.5 year trauma bond.... Im fighting it. Pray God continues to carry me through. This is so hard
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@@jefffunk863 ty
That chick lost everything trying to burn my life down..
And thankfully , I’m thriving now.
I’m hurt. But killing it.
And found my way back to God.
3 years it cost me.
And she Sabotaged our life together.
After threatening to call the police on my mother to get her stuff..
Painting me as an abuser to our entire commune..
Etc , etc , etc
She exposed herself and played the fool.
Was mortified publicly in front of the property manager
Melted down in a disgusting display of rage and hate.
She Got in a car wreck right after I blew her kiss while driving by
She wrecked her bike and road rashed her entire body after that..
She’s gone.
And I don’t think she’s coming back lol
They dont feel agape love, they know who they are inside, they know they're empty inside.
Do they know that they're serving the devil?
imho they justify what they do on the spot, and if you bring it on later they see it as you trying to shame them for no reason. What they say and do is very important, you're not. And off course the devil will use them, no doubt. But do they know ? nope. Can you do anything about it ? I have tried, can't convince. Maybe pray for them, and show them by example. Arguing is utterly useless.
My narc ex was 76 when we parted. He said he couldn't change. I pray 🙏 that God would have mercy on him and help him. Only God can save him. 🙏
Believe this man he knows what he’s talking about because I just went through it! His true colors were the most hideous ugliest experience I’ve ever been through. He tried to come back and I blocked him immediately everywhere
I was sad after the second discard, however I have seen my health improve. I’ve seen my money growing-when I was with him my account was close to negative at times, I was riddled with anxiety when he returned after the 1st discard but now leaving the depressed days I’m feeling happier. And not to forget I’ve lost 40lbs and his dead weight! Thank you for your videos Dave, they help me so much! ❤️
Not being mrs.B takes daily discipline, because I lost my best friend with this push/pull. Your videos help me the most to stay the mrs.A course. I pray a lot for strength.
I like a quote I read the other day. It said:
" You know you've healed and grown from a toxic relationship when your ex isn't your type anymore ".
To me, that's so true. Its a feeling of indifference. You no longer have any emotional or physical ties to your ex. They just become somebody you use to know.
Congrats Dave and Julie as you are blessed in 2024!
To all of your followers I want to validate the horrific pain to those fresh in the trauma. If you remain NO contact you will in time be renewed in the Lord. I came to learn with much shock that Narcissist treat beautiful kind people like candies in a giant Pez Dispenser they just punch the face of the dispenser and eat up the next one. The giant "supply" dispenser. Leave and never look back. Heal your deepest wounds.
4 years ago I was Mrs B, big time. If I had heard this then I wud not have believed it, and it wud have really hurt!! Now, over 3 yrs post narc, no contact. I'm living my best life, alone!! Praise jesus!!!
Don't believe the i love yous and crocodile tears from the narcissist. Were they crying when they humiliated you, belittled you, or cheated on you?
Another good topic, your right my last serious relationship with a narc she started to try to separate me from my relationships with my kids and my friends right after she got me to move in with her. Plus when ever I would get into anything like playing my guitars or try to watch a football game she would decide it was time for US to partake in some project she wanted to do.
Well said, Dave. You explain this so well. Yes, these creatures can't love. They closed themselves off years ago, probably in childhood.
Dead on !! These demons need to be found out. I never knew these people existed until I married on . I'm single again and thank God I'm alive
Ironically I used to waffle between being mrs.B & mrs.A depending on the women and the situation. Thankfully experience and your website has helped me be firmly a mrs.A.
I love this community. It truly is the best. All I need is this and I keep telling people about it. They dont want to break the string holds.
Three months ago I didn't really understand what you where saying!! As for now i truly truly am getting it!! Yes he's left and come back and everytime he's been much worse!! He's probably doing the exact same thing now there with her!!
Good evening from Ireland
Happy New Year Dave! I can’t wait to find that person who loves me for me. I am closer to God more than ever. I have worked so hard to heal. However, i have a fear of meeting another narcissist and don’t date. Loneliness creeps in but I remind myself I am better off. I have been hovered, stalked on social media, had my phone hacked. I fear this man I loved.
I remind myself the Narc hates me and would like one more shot to finish me off. Walls are up.
He did nothing for me. Withdrew all love and affection.
You’re our gift. I always look forward to your words of encouragement.
Thank you!
Yes you do get scared that's why I'm praying for more discernment because I was dating a avodent Dismissive and they act just like narcissist in many ways so it puts a bad taste in your mouth.
Evil has a friendly face. Be on point !!
SO TRUE. THEY HIDE THEIR EVIL EXCEPT INSIDE THE FAMILY.
Just sit back and let their own bad decisions catch up with them. That same person who tried to destroy you will be the same person who returns. They may act contrite, remorseful, and apologetic but it is an act. You know who they are, they’ve shown themselves to you, how many times do they have to prove it?
Do they all really try to come back eventually? Did yours?
@@KP-tn9cq She left in August. The divorce finale Nov 15. She tried to come home Nov 27th with a text. When I didn’t answer the way she thought I should the next day she finally posted her and her new supply on FB. I knew what not giving the right answer meant. I knew not offering her a place to stay meant. It was the hardest thing I’ve done. You decide if they come back, not them. I’m sure it won’t be the last time either.
Let's say they weren't a narc or anything:
It really doesn't take 3 months for a sane person to realise that you may have been brutally left for no good reason at all... It should take them another day before they reach out to make amends.
Anyone comfortable with you not being part of their life like that is not worth it.., and will never appreciate your value when they come back.
💯 especially if you have kids with them, you think they would text how are the kids. With the 1st discard he texted “how is the girl?” You think he would’ve said how is our daughter or put her name instead of “the girl”. With this discard not even a text asking for her.
Great analogies, we appreciate you Dave!
I blocked my narcissistic ex girlfriend phone number and on social media and I’ve been getting these weird fake profiles trying to message me, I’m not even if it’s her but it’s just really strange timing and this fake profile asked me how I was doing. I just blocked them too
Same here. The timing made me think he's using fake profiles.
Mine made 37 fake profiles in 2 years. Some were random names and others were variations of pet names we had for each other. Please block them and don’t let them back in, I cracked after 2 years and it was the worse thing I ever did. Stay strong friend 💫
What I experienced is the fake requests would come in bunches like 5-6 requests in a day or two and then a month or so would pass and again the same cycle. I never responded, let the requests be there.
Im now 400 miles away from my narc. Our children are adults mid 20s. Last Spring and Summer she did 2 surprise visits. She drove 3 1/2 hours to my house without texting or calling me. W td...
Happy new year to you, your family and everything who watches your channel, Dave. Best wishes for a bright year ahead.
Thanks Dave, your videos are the soundtrack, that has literally saved my life
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Happy Birthday Dave and Julie. Prayers and blessings that 2024 will open new doors of blessings to you and family. God bless.
I was wondering. . . Why does he hate me so much!!?? I didn't do anything. And until I started researching this it haunted me. It's wild how hard our brains hit rock bottom after this relationship. I was struggling so much. I thought I was going to hsve to go to therapy just to recover. UA-cam has really helped me figure out how to heal.
Thank you for this channel.
You are speaking straight facts. I seen it all firsthand . Everything you say. My. Narc that I loved so much did every single thing you say. I always was attracted to narcissist. I never was attracted to sweet men. But after my last narc relationship. Everything changed. My views. What I want in life. I realize I don't want the bad boy. I don't know why I liked being treated bad. I know learned that I want real love. I love myself now.
You are so on point… it’s like you have created that man I’ve been with. He did exactly what you said 😢
Your voice is so comforting for such a heavy subject. Once again like hearing pouring of the water. Thank you sharing Jesus.
Blessings 🙏🏽❤️
Whew,agree ~ ☆ fake,,, and haye, no cure, alot to learn so it registers with me, Mrs. B
I’m just glad I had a really great girlfriend for 13 years because she showed me what a great girlfriend is all about and she was consistently a great girlfriend for 13 years til I moved across the country she’s married now and I couldn’t be happier for her. She showed me really great high quality hot smart attractive women do exist (although extra ordinarily rare) nobody wears a mask for 13 years she was legit loyal high class and quality and we also shared a trauma bond looking back. She was as great to me as I was to her. But she gave me a reference point of what a good woman is. Now when I date a narcissist, and they’re every place, the alarm bells go off early and often. As a guy I’m not gonna lie to you I have physical needs, and those snakes are good at meeting it, but do yourself a favor and don’t ever convince yourself that they are any good for anything else, to the extent that you do, is the extent that you will pay the price
You nail it every time, and I love your dry humor and the integration of the word of God
Narcology morning show, does god have a great sense of humor. What a name😂
I remember saying to my narc “but you were supposed to protect me!” He then said that really got to him, but I know it now that it didn’t. He was lying once again and happy I felt unprotected, of course.
Yes I wish I could completely prevent the message getting into the spam despite blocking I wish they wouldn’t go into the spam just not go anywhere near my inboxes
Happy New Year Dave 🎆🎊
Good video talk 👍
Hi from Scotland dave! Happy New year 👍
💙🏴💙🇺🇲💙
TERRY from UK Hi
It's not that easy to find a replacement when you're old. He's old. So good luck finding someone else to put up with his bs.
I met my second husband on a dating site..that's why I am a Christian..the two narcs in my life were not on a dating site or social media. I certainly cant find anybody at church....
Great video Dave and right on point, I have been on the end of narcissistic abuse for 11 years from the girl i fell in love with and her religious family led by a controlling mother, the endless pre ochestration, baiting, attention seeking, ghosting, gaslighting and all condoned by the church who fail completely to deal with all forms of abuse and are quite happy to turn a blind eye, watch people suffer and throw them under the bus, I will never lose my faith in god but everything else more or less has gone, keep up the great work
My ex narc turned out to have assaulted two women before me, he lied in court but I won. He was definitely seeing someone whilst visiting my town, it's obvious now. Anyways, it ended really bad for me, but i thank god he's gone. And I have been saved. Turns out he died with a brain tumour at 46. He leaves a new wife, theirson and her kids also his two other kids, lucky escape for all of us, he was so cruel. Amen. 🙏🏼
Hi Dave, and everyone. Well, I discarded him in his car. I didn't know he was a narcissist. I thought he was moody, GREEDY, and disrespect for his own parents. His Mother washed his clothes, folded them, and put them away. He didn't even pay board. He had a GREAT job, and was paid well, but he lied to me and said he was "saving for our wedding." That's why I paid for our dates. Between being engaged for 5 years, and being Gaslighted a lot, I had ENOUGH. I was even in the Hospital. When I left him, he looked SHOCKED and SURPRISED. I just got out of his car and got back into mine. Oh, sex? Lol, he was NOT a good partner in that department. 👎
How can you make true love to someone you don't love??
Appreciate all your knowledge on this subject, you have helped me a lot. 😊
Sad for that individual, he has a disorder and he was/is never going to change. I will pray for him, I forgive and trying to forget now. In God I trust. I’m free and in peace 🙏🏽
Theres video footage of Mr. Crocodie on patrol casually feeding at his leisure with his usual dominance over his domain. Being "Top of the Food Chain" at the river allows him to do that very thing. With a proud and haughty attitude about it too. Ah, but then he picked the wrong ol boy to pick on the wrong Empathic Electric Eel. And that was the last bite he ever took. The Almighty's Living Powerplant's 500 volts of A/C Alternating Current made Mr. Crocs last meal a...shocking experience. Something ironic about this especially since it's common knowledge these "Energy Vampires" steal an Empath's Energy.
Happy New Year to all🙏 Thx Dave
Great vid too, by the way. God bless you, sweet man. Love from me in beautiful New Zealand. ❤
You we’re definitely speaking to me today!!! Been crying to God for answers 😢
Dave all of your videos are wonderful but this is another one that you totally blew out of the park! I am well past the trauma bond, so when I think back everything you say is so clear now and spot on and it’s sad for the newbies because they won’t see it at first. So all your new people listening to Dave, hang in there, you will have ups and downs, but you will see their toxicity
so clearly when you stay away from the narcissist. Thanks again Dave for all that you do.
She's still gone, we are still married and I, stupidly, miss her.
You're not stupid..probably a beautiful human being, don't beat yourself up ❤
That's your trauma bond-speaking
Thank you thank you for making this video!! You described a friendship I just left to a T!! I also have had experiences with one Narc after another probably because I came from a family of Narcs. Thank you so much!! You are spot on!! 💕🙏
This made so much sense to me , thank you xx
Glad it was helpful!
Spot on video David ! Not a better video to start 2024 ! 👍👍👍 up ⬆️ !!! I appreciate your words this morning !!!
Thanks 👍
Just been discarded. Found out everything. The stress and drama cause they were also a drug addict plus I believe they were also a sociopath. My counselor said she thinks personality disorder and he's dangerous. He even tattooed my nick name on his arm. He beats himself in the head. He is gone and I'm hurt but glad this drama is over. I am afraid they will come back. Im going to have to get a restraining order cause they always came back. Hopefully they don't cause I'm broken down so bad I can't explain. Please pray for me. It was the worst emotional abuse I've ever been through. A different person. A psychopath that has different personalities. I was left over and over and this time was enough cause my nerves are so bad. Yep had to not be needy cause they were out seeing other people. He went through my phone. And I seen his. He was talking to others. Meeting up with them. I'm sick over it. Please pray for me. Im having anxiety. They were extremely high on meth too. They think they can come and go. No I want far away. I'm too old for the drama and abuse I just went through. Please pray for me 😢
Dave you look so well - glad to see - x
I just want you to know you and your insight because you have lived it has saved me more than once already. I am so thankful you were here as I binge through your videos trying to find some way to comprehend how someone thinks and processes the way my ex narc did.. Her and I met and within the first 3 months of dating I became sick. Had no clue why.. We had flown to Florida to see her mother and while there I was getting sick sometimes 5 times in a day. I would have to say (in the back seat mind you) pull over and would be sick on the side of the road. I didn't know what was happening or what was wrong. I was gas lit that I was ruining the trip for her and her mother.. Came home and went to the doctor and was diagnosed with leukemia.. At first she acted as if she was all in.. She already was living with me because she was kicked out of one of her life long friends house due to reasons I still don't know truthfully why. I told her that we just met and if it was too much to take on I would completely understand. Nope she loved me and had my back. Well she was amazing and very attentive and caring.. Habitual love bombing. More and more frequently she would become someone else. Her mask as you would say would fall off and would become the most angry, damaging, and vitriol person I had ever met. Would say things such as, she didn't sign up for hospice. Just horrible things that I knew were meant to hurt.. She never worked a day the whole time. Would tell me that if I truly loved her I would suck it up and still work to take care of her like a man should. Mind you all the while going through chemo treatment. It's as if she hated me for becoming sick.. There is sooo much more to all of it.. it's been a month since she left to Florida to live with her mom because I was not a real man and would push through my cancer and still take care of her because I lied about loving her.. I have never dealt with anything like this in my entire life. I have felt so broken and confused.
What led me to finding your posts here on UA-cam was because I went alone to lunch at a restaurant here in the town I live and a complete stranger approached me. Said to me, "excuse me, you don't know me and I dont know you, but God told me that I needed to tell you that he loves you and everything will be ok. You will be ok, you are loved and it will be ok"
Have no clue who he was and still don't. He told me that with a comforting smile and then walked out of the Cafe. I have never been religious or a believer. That all changed that day.. I'm sorry it's such a long comment but I want you to know that you say at times, " you hope this is helping someone"
You have and never will know how much you have helped me, and have saved me more than once as I now go through this completely alone. Thank you for being selfless and giving this gift of knowledge and insight to someone that has been so unconditionally loving to another and not understanding why she did and said the things that she did.. It is still devastating what she did to my heart but at least now I know why.. Please do not stop posting. You have made a difference in my world.. Thank you..
Happy new year Dave❤ best wishes
HAPPY NEW YEAR DAVE!
It is evening when I tune in, so I grab a beer. However, your coffee pour makes me want a coffee.
My ex was so nasty to me, knowing he cheated and lied. Even though the cheating ended it, the nastiness stopped any ability to feel anything. I expressed how i felt wronged and betrayed and the venom i got ( through text because he wasn’t “ready” to talk) was unbelievable. He said things like “you always have to be right. I was never good enough for you anyway. You can’t even let me say anything- even though he was texting paragraphs about how i’m a bully and being unfair after he cheated.
I'm out if that horrendous cycle now ive cut off contact , i started therapy , because i am struggling but a lot happier im not so anxious all the lies i can now see now I've stepped back i know hes probably smearing me to his family and so called friend's but i have really good family and friend's and they know what hes done , thank goodness for tge podcasts im listening too as they have helped so much thank you
I'm a cancer survivor and my narcissist married me while I was undergoing treatment so there was no lies on my end. It wasn't long before he started calling me dead wood. These are such disordered people. I increased my life and expectancy by leaving him.
Happy new year sir!
Oh I saw just didn’t realize what narcissm was ! I do now thank you Jesus
The only regret the narc has is that she didn't finish me.
I used to say about my future ex-spouse and enablers, “with friends like this, no one needs enemies” Now I know why I felt this way
Excelent 😊❤
Great vid Dave. My narc used to control how I dressed and what I could post on social media in case I got any likes or compliments from other people 😔 yet all the replacements he found were all half naked OF girls who showed everything off on social media even tho he claimed to dislike girls like that. Makes me feel so weak for letting him dictate how I looked and what I posted. May I ask please, I’m not religious, how else other than god would you recommended dealing with shame I still carry of letting someone abuse and mistreat me? Thank you
Mine told me i was a mistake, a regret. They think i am naive, not influential. I always knew they were beoken inside empty. When i had enough their reao nasty came out. Now im free. No going bsck.
It's like living with a head entity that poops in your bed everyday ...lesson learnt!
Just knowing how pathetically shallow and superficial he is will ALWAYS be enough for me to keep it moving. It’s exhausting having to “look hot” 24/7 for someone who doesn’t even appreciate it. Lol. For someone who sees how “hot” you are but always looks for someone hotter.
My future ex-spouse is the only person who I ever heard answer the phone with this greeting: “What’s wrong?” Anyone else experience this?
We have a short time that’s why we need to pray for each other and for discernment. We cannot deal with the demonic realm on a human level, but we can pray in Jesus name and forgive so we don’t become POWs. We can also teach our children to be Overcomers. I left with my kids after 25 years. It took a lot of courage and to face my wounds which I am with God’s grace and love (and Dave’s videos, God bless and protect you always Dave). ♥️🙏🏻🕊️🏁
I'm afraid of ever being in a relationship again. I just want peace and God's love.
Certain things come to mind after the fact that "ping" in my head like "now I get it." His mother said to me she saw me being a stabilizer for him. I surmize I stepped into the role she wanted rid of, but created nonetheless. The madness doesn't fall far from the tree. Although his engine ran somewhat smoother with my "stablizing" additives for a good while, it turned out I was managing a lemon. The high maintenance jalopy cruised on down the highway far from here, and now being managed by an oblivious mechanic (just his type and character I surmise!) Amen and thanking God every day!
Sometimes he would get annoyed when I asked him to get like a fork or a spoon out of the glove compartment for me ridiculous
...and England
Covert and vulnerable narcissists don't come across flashy. In fact, they're more trashy. But they are high maintenance behind the mask. Terrible with your money, but cheap with theirs. They're terrible with money period. They think money buys them happiness and/or supply. They're miserable black holes and souls. They're dead inside. The original narcissist injury was from childhood trauma that they will never tell you or admit and attempt to heal. My ex was 54. They get worse. Turn back to drugs etc.
Thank you so much sir for this message Happy New Year for 2024 I'm going to make it if God willing and yes the exmark is permanent out of my life I don't want to be bothered with him I mean he did a lot of things to me and I've only been with him for a year and a half and I know and since I was a kid that's crazy I said craziest sounds but I just I heard for the next night I hope of his best life or whoever that with
Happy new year :)
Same to you!
No matter what we do or say, we can’t save them, only God can, he left after 38 yrs, in process of divorce.
100%
Do they really believe that anyone can cure them?? :))) Lol