Why Disaster Awaits The Narcissist.

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  • @chriscole5990
    @chriscole5990 Рік тому +63

    I know how you felt Dave my friend. After I was discarded last year I felt broken in spirit and I do remember me saying this one thing. I said too myself she took everything from me but she didn't take God. 🙏🏾 Jesus restored me gave me a new spirit 10 fold!

    • @angelacahill9083
      @angelacahill9083 Рік тому +4

      Same here.Discarded and my family divided after over three decades last year. Left broken and in despair but like you, took everything from me but the one thing he failed at was my relationship with God. We are blessed to know the love of God. All I can do is pray for my husband but my soul is healing and that's the power of God. God bless. 🙏

    • @ninath13
      @ninath13 Рік тому +3

      Yess Powerful ❤

    • @chriscole5990
      @chriscole5990 Рік тому +1

      @@angelacahill9083 Amen too that. ❤️🙏🏾

    • @sp8813
      @sp8813 Рік тому +2

      Thank you for this comment. That's where in at, I'm trying to be in that space

  • @ShawnaMondry
    @ShawnaMondry Рік тому +34

    My narcissist was very jealous of my son. He would always get mad at me when I always put my son first. He never talked to my son. He acted like my son was invisible. After 14 years I discarded him.

    • @Thrivar
      @Thrivar Рік тому +4

      I went through the same thing.....the narc never acknowledged my daughter and always sneered at me how I was giving her a lot of attention......he severally commented about her feeding in a derogatory way....after 15vyears of abuse, I left and it has never been better.....freedom from narc abuse is real

    • @heavyweight1028
      @heavyweight1028 Рік тому +8

      Nothing makes them less attractive or more pathetic than being jealous of a child.

  • @Narcologyunscripted
    @Narcologyunscripted  Рік тому +44

    Mrs. A - Moves on with discernment and understands the toxicity of their Narcissist mate or Ex who could not or would not change. This person is or was wearing a mask and is willing to say anything to keep the gaslighting and abuse going. No matter what the Narcissist throws at her (Good or Bad) she knows by entertaining any correspondence with the Narc will indeed without a doubt hinder her true purpose in life, and will inevitably destroy it.
    Mrs. B - Is waiting impatiently for answers and will go along with anything the Narcissist has for her to keep the abuse in tact in her life. Mrs. B typically has child-hood wounds that keeps her codependent. Looking for the toxic person to come back so she can please the abuser and prove to the abuser that she is worthy of him. Mrs. B never fulfills her purpose in life. Mrs. B never relies on God, only tries to fill the void with other abusive people.
    (Mrs. A & B can be Male or Female)

    • @ak-47intelligence75
      @ak-47intelligence75 Рік тому +6

      I am a female. I was Mrs.B for the LONGEST time. Almost my entire life.
      I have to admit, I did seek out other abusive people to fill the void. I kept traumatizing myself 😢 Glad I am OUT of that cycle ❤ You articulated this phenomenon so well. It was healing. Thank you, Dave.

  • @mbrowne5105
    @mbrowne5105 Рік тому +30

    If you can move, I think it’s one of the best ways to get over a narcissist. I noticed I didn’t think about the ex narc at all on vacation, but the minute I got home, the rumination started again.😢

  • @JamesNGames
    @JamesNGames Рік тому +35

    In the realm of life, disaster forever lurks in the shadows of a narcissist's reflection, for their self-absorption blinds them to the genuine connections and compassion that safeguards our world.

    • @lilfairycupcake
      @lilfairycupcake Рік тому

      they are the most self defeating creature on the planet, what a sad existence. the bitch of it is they know exactly what they are doing.

  • @JaneJ993
    @JaneJ993 Рік тому +5

    Mrs B can't be sad, mad, happy, lonely. Nothing. We had to be need free to get along with them

  • @Ptowngirl
    @Ptowngirl Рік тому +21

    When you don’t have the NPD knowledge, you are destined to be Mrs B. I am a Mrs. A now. I was a month behind learning the knowledge before God discarded him. I now know he was living a double, triple life. Dave, I was a Mrs. C. I should have saw the red flag week 2! He introduced me to his sisters as “Wendy”, that was his former girlfriend. I truly believe he was going between the both of us. When he did that I walked out of his sister’s daughter’s home and down the street. He chased after me and love bombed sweet nothings. The red flags are there, but we don’t know their Narcdom playbook. Knowledge is key. 10 years later. God knows I loved him with a pure heart and helped his three children and grandkids. Ladies and gentlemen look for those signs. If it doesn’t feel right the Holy Spirit is trying to get your attention. Also, have Grace for yourself after being discarded. The Narcissist loved your light. Don’t let them extinguish that from you.

    • @cynthiabiel7714
      @cynthiabiel7714 Рік тому +1

      I fear he did dim my light to a flicker.....I was very empathic and spiritual ...I am depressed and mistrust people now.

    • @Ptowngirl
      @Ptowngirl Рік тому +2

      Hang in there. It took me over a year to get strong. I am in the Word and doing therapy with a Christian therapist. It will get better. The abusive fog has to go. You were addicted to the Narcissist. Our bodies have to adjust and the nervous system has to calm down. Watch Narc Con with Paula . She is fabulous like Dave. God sees your pain. He saw and still sees mine. Take care

  • @metv4254
    @metv4254 Рік тому +13

    I wish I watched your videos years ago. Even though I know he was a narcissist, I find myself missing him out of my own boredom

  • @haileybut
    @haileybut Рік тому +8

    God is separating the Wheat from the tares.

    • @angelacahill9083
      @angelacahill9083 Рік тому +2

      Yes, I believe that's what God is doing. In the Bible verse, He lets the bad seed grow beside the good seed, and He cuts both at the time of harvesting. The good He puts in His store room and the bad, he burns in the fire. He removed them from our lives to protect us because God knew that they would eventually choke us and prevent us from being what He created us for, which is to bear much fruit.

    • @haileybut
      @haileybut Рік тому

      @@angelacahill9083 Matthew 13

  • @ST-cy6we
    @ST-cy6we Рік тому +12

    I love that you quoted me in this video. My wife and I are 3 months away from divorce court, she moved in with him 1500 miles away. There are pictures of them all online, and hilariously, some pictures are off this guy pathetically trying to kiss my wife, while her body language says "yuck". In every picture, she looks miserable, but hey, he is worth millions. She left her medical career, her 3 grown daughters, her beloved grand babies and her life here in the country, to live in Los Angeles. She has no family or no friends there, no support system at all. When there is an argument, how does she run?
    I have been binge watching your videos. They have taught me so much. Thank you for making them. I have to admit that, while I'm working to move on with my life, I am detouring a little bit and watching her slow-motion train wreck happen online. It is quite entertaining.

  • @gailyhanna510
    @gailyhanna510 Рік тому +17

    So grateful to feel like a Mrs. A, most days. I was definitely a Mrs. B, for the duration of my relationship with the narc, and after my horrific discard. It's been almost 5 months, and I feel stronger every day.
    Thank you, Dave, for all of your insight.❤

  • @stevetrivago
    @stevetrivago Рік тому +26

    2 1/2 years sober and Narc free… I had a decision to make when I stopped drinking and committed to sobriety….
    Staying sober wasn’t going to happen with her…. Very difficult to end a relationship with someone you thought you loved unconditionally…. Thanks to this creator and a couple others…,, I’m blessed…. 🙏🏼 Still have trust issues and I’m ok with that…. I’m aware and won’t allow it to ever happen again when I decide to date again.

    • @ST-cy6we
      @ST-cy6we Рік тому +4

      I stopped drinking too, the day she changed her phone number and ghosted me.. My question is which came first, the chicken or the egg? Did I begin drinking too much because of her abuse or did my drinking cause her to act that way? Either way, I'm not drinking and feeling good. Keep up the good work!

    • @pamelabarone5868
      @pamelabarone5868 Рік тому +2

      @Steve same and I never been happier. ❤️🙏

    • @ladyvirgo013
      @ladyvirgo013 Рік тому +3

      Very similar situation for me, I stopped drinking, my husband went back to drinking 7 nights a week. He recently discarded me very brutally and is now shacked up with the secretary from his work (of course I found out he was grooming her and most certainly in bed with her before he left me) these people are evil 😈

    • @maggiemcdonald3185
      @maggiemcdonald3185 Рік тому +1

      Same i'm over 3 yr cocaine free i ended up in by court order in a rehab 😖 worst days of my life , not now lifes great still cant beleive it was me that finally discarded him he woulda went on till the end of me 🤬 praise Jesus Christ 🙏👑

  • @tarawhite4419
    @tarawhite4419 Рік тому +20

    I like sleeping eating and existing alone

    • @esthero1994
      @esthero1994 Рік тому +2

      Its never felt so good, until the narcopath discard. I really appreciate my aloneness more nowadays.

    • @michaelmorgan7893
      @michaelmorgan7893 Рік тому +4

      I do too, now. I did it for 40 years before I met my first narcissistic ex, and have done so for five years since my second narcissistic ex walked away, throwing me away like a piece of garbage.
      First off, I don't believe in relationship love, at least not anymore. It never came back those years ago when I could've supported someone, and I needed someone then, to build with me. Now that I'm disabled, I sure don't need them dragging me down and adding more trauma to my life.
      At 57, I'm learning that "less" actually is "more".

    • @Jl-ou4jt
      @Jl-ou4jt Рік тому +3

      Sleeping, eating, and existing alone, things that we take for granted, and they absolutely can destroy sleeping patterns, eating habits, every single thing, so yes, I love this comment.

  • @PebbleBeachLife
    @PebbleBeachLife Рік тому +8

    The grandiose narcissist underestimated me as a Sigma personality. She saw her end very quickly. It took a while for me to connect the dots, but once I did, it was game over. I let go of a 41 year old friendship in a twinkling of an eye. She only developed the NPD recently. The covert narcissist however was a difficult one for me to figure out. Not even psychologist have an easy time to connect the dots. Be very weary of them. I feel sorry for people who are in relationships with these demons or have close family that they cannot get away from. Please plan your escape no matter what. Preserve your own life at all cost!

  • @theresaalbano4363
    @theresaalbano4363 Рік тому +15

    I hope so. We’re in court in New York City August 17. He has not paid any child support or alimony after a 13 year abusive narcissistic marriage and I have a four year old child he owes 419,000 in back arrears and there has not been any justice served yet but I’m sure he either has lost his new supply or the viagra is not working because he just sent three horrible nasty emails a bitter, unhappy man at 63 years old God have mercy on his soul.🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @pamelabarone5868
      @pamelabarone5868 Рік тому +2

      Do not back down. 🙏

    • @gloryfavorforeverwchristje9343
      @gloryfavorforeverwchristje9343 Рік тому +3

      HE HAS NO SOUL, GIRLFRIEND, HE HATES HIS CHILD AND U.

    • @theresaalbano4363
      @theresaalbano4363 Рік тому +4

      @@pamelabarone5868 today I took those ugly emails that were so horrible and abusive and I went to the courthouse and got a restraining order on him and the judge to order a emergency $15,000 relief. Let’s see what he does now.!!

  • @Existmusiccloud
    @Existmusiccloud Рік тому +3

    My sociopath friend seems to be doing really well: manipulated friends enable and tolerate him, he’s wealthy , he brags constantly, and bounces from one lucky opportunity to another, dodges consequences, spins the plates, gets away with everything in a whirlwind of charisma

  • @iako...
    @iako... Рік тому +6

    Its amazing, once you make it to the other side how much light and peace is there.

  • @lisamooney6297
    @lisamooney6297 Рік тому +1

    The push pull treatment is like a bad carnival ride. The narcissist maybe a child but they know exactly what they are doing.

  • @lala4461
    @lala4461 Рік тому +1

    Mrs C. Wow! That just answered a question I had on another video of yours. I was a Ms A who turned into Ms B…so I thought. I’m actually a Ms C and have been. I’m a codependent, who obsesses over this person since he divorced me in 2017 and I’ve become Ms C. I’m Ms B with boundaries!!! You explained it. It was making me crazy. No I can start looking at how to self correct and get back to Ms A Status!!! Thank you!

  • @ildyivy
    @ildyivy Рік тому +9

    One of the last times I saw the handsome narcissist he acted frightening and I really should have left as soon as I saw the potential for this person to become violent, but I still went back a couple more times. I felt so degraded after I left his place that time and I notice I blocked it out or something. I didn’t forget I just had trouble with the cognitive dissonance and how he was behaving so scary and strange. I wish I could explain but it would be inappropriate to express that here. I won’t forget the way he looked me dead in the eyes and smiled but with a devious grin that was like the devil took over the person and it wasn’t the same person I had met or the person in the beginning. We were in the bathroom and he suddenly shoved/pushed me but in a way that was offputting. Like it wasn’t playful, it was aggression. It was a real wake-up to the true nature of the person I thought was not that bad. So basically he made the intimate relations very uncomfortable and like I shoulda got up and ran away but I was in serious shock and just frozen. This person was not like this for some time it began after he was comfortable or had begun to drop the mask, devalue me. I’m embarrassed that I didn’t end this so much sooner, b/c I knew I was causing harm to myself but yet it took me to watch these videos and other narcissist channels regularly and the Holy Spirit helps too. I relapsed once after I had told him I didn’t want him to contact me anymore. But I regretted soooo badly b/c I undid my progress so now I realize how serious it is that I cannot have contact with this person again. It’s sad that we can allow this treatment of us and come back for more and we aren’t even getting any real benefit from the relationship. Give me your crumbs any crumbs I’m so desperate 😂😩 I’m just kidding! But that’s us when we are Miss B’s. The struggle is with trying to reconcile that they won’t ever go back to like they were at the beginning. The ugly side of them comes out and it remains thereafter. This is how our mind tricks us into going back. We think, well maybe this time he will be like wen we first met. Not only this, but now that they have intimidated u, you’re going to act a little more on guard with them knowing they might pull some switcheroo of mood or unpredictable behavior. The trust is now gone and u don’t feel as safe with them as b4 and they probably pick up on that too.

    • @imbrium16
      @imbrium16 9 місяців тому +1

      You just described my whole last year with my narc. Please don't feel alone or silly, you're not. We do the best we can with the knowledge we have at the time until we get out or, hopefully, accept salvation from Jesus and get out.

  • @myralondon1272
    @myralondon1272 10 місяців тому +1

    I almost did 24 yrs....my 15 yr old would tell me, he's a narcissist, he's manipulating you mom. Crazy how my child sees this and I was blind because I loved. 😢 his own child didn't like him. And me oblivious couldn't believe he would do that to me.

  • @mykarateisstrong3885
    @mykarateisstrong3885 Рік тому +4

    Mantrums took me over the edge. My Narc accused me of stealing anything/everything. I would try to remain calm and help him ‘find’ the missing items. The words sad during the episode were scarring. He always found the ‘stolen’ items but never apologized. That is until after he drug my name through the dark man cave of maggots by telling all of his friends and family about how evil of a person I was. Explicitly calling me a liar and thief. I was Mrs. A.
    I started watching your videos and many other’s videos, along with research about narcissism in order to educate myself before I made the great escape. I reached out to my agape father and prayed and cried and went back to the narc over and over and over………Finally, I got down on my knees and begged for courage to leave. To go ‘no contact’.
    I am free. I am still hurting and crying as I am typing this, but peace is filling my heart more and more everyday. I thank you for your courage to reach out to the world of technology in order to share your experience. I hear you say that you hope you are helping someone or you hope someone hears you. I heard you and you helped me. God helped me.
    God bless you and I always remember Jeremiah 29:11

  • @aalexnavas
    @aalexnavas Рік тому +12

    After I was a doormat to her and spend thousands of dollars and made several trips to go fly to her country. Her biggest mistake was not to even contact me for my Birthday while I was in her country. She ghosted me when I was literally 15 minutes from her house in Dominican Republic. That’s when I decided she wasn’t the one for me that day I turned into Mr. A💪

  • @tamerastone4732
    @tamerastone4732 Рік тому +1

    I was a Mrs c, for a long time. Took sum scary domestic violence, and trauma, for me to get out!!! Thank you, Lord. 29 months post narc, no contact.

  • @Jessicaisfreee
    @Jessicaisfreee 5 місяців тому

    Let us all go to throne and be cleaned out by God. Healed and whole in him. Let’s all be Holy Ghost filled Ms. A’s! Amen to that!! 🙏✝️🕊️

  • @stephaniehall6309
    @stephaniehall6309 Рік тому +6

    Mine said I was too much for him lol, all because I would not stop standing up for myself and stuck to the truth . Truth is like kryptonite to them

  • @sp8813
    @sp8813 Рік тому +4

    I waa discarded because i was the Mrs B pushed beyond her brink, AND STAYED. Your channel is truly helping me right now. I'm slowly recreating MY ESSENCE AGAIN.

  • @PatrickRascon
    @PatrickRascon 8 місяців тому +1

    The pain hurts it's hard to concentrate and go back to work.
    Hard to eat losing weight hard to sleep.
    Even to pray again losing faith.

  • @timothyrday1390
    @timothyrday1390 Рік тому +3

    Narcissists respect boundaries in the same way that Ghengis Khan and the Golden Horde did.

  • @kidrosskidrossproductions2906
    @kidrosskidrossproductions2906 10 місяців тому +1

    Ive been around narcissists my whole life …. The number 1 saying of all time that a narcissist says is he is a loser, she is a loser , they are losers … empathic people can say it if angered or pushed once in a blue moon but if you hear a person use loser on the regular or daily that absolutely is a narcissist .., loser is their favorite word of all time to use .. you hear that run

  • @tatucorreia
    @tatucorreia 23 дні тому

    Last contact i had with him before blocking him was "if i call will you pick up the phone?"
    "No"
    😅
    Once i got the knowledge i was thinking "i can't believe this idiot had been playing me for so long and i couldn't see it" 🙄 I was pissed!!!!! 😤
    Just need to remenber this forever!

  • @Thegamehhh449
    @Thegamehhh449 Рік тому +6

    I was also a misses c Dave, I had boundaries I got tiered of apologizing, I was fed up, but I also didn’t want to lose her, I wanted to save our family our marriage, in the end I understood God was removing her from my life and instead it became a blessing, thank you Dave and God bless you sir.

  • @sylviaamodeo7090
    @sylviaamodeo7090 Рік тому +5

    Narcissists will go as far to leave their ex on life insurance, and benefits.
    It's a great scheme for them to look like a "nice guy''', and keep old supply on the shelve for later USE!.[harem garage].lol

  • @teresaloscar285
    @teresaloscar285 11 місяців тому +1

    You're quite a blessing, God has truly given you a gift, so to help all of us who have suffered from narcissism... And you're absolutely right..we loved them so, poured our heart & soul out for them..but they really are empty... like a hollow fence post....

  • @jeanne5371
    @jeanne5371 Рік тому +5

    Dave I truly believe the Holy Spirit is speaking through you! I have listened to an abundant amount of videos; you are by far my fav and nobody tells it like you do and so play-by-play it’s absolutely uncanny! Thanks again for your remarkable work - you keep us all moving forward!

  • @beckywauer2291
    @beckywauer2291 9 місяців тому +1

    Mine always made me feel he was the people pleaser. It didn't seem that way. Out of the blue, he ask me if I knew what a gaslighter was and then had the audacity to ask me to explain it to him. I played the game, but wasn't blinded by what he was doing. No contact now!

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust Рік тому +4

    Hi Dave this is the absolute truth praying for you always in Jesus name 🙏🏾❤️

  • @sylviaamodeo7090
    @sylviaamodeo7090 Рік тому +6

    The Tantrums were nothing like I've seen. Even both of my son's as children did not behave in this manner. An adult throwing cell phones, rings, headphones, beer bottles, punching holes in the walls, slamming doors. That was just to name a few. lol oh yeah, flipping tables. Smashed hand through mom's tv, [could not get game on]. I hope they got some help for the anger.

  • @anonymousdogooder
    @anonymousdogooder Рік тому +3

    You and I were married to the same sort of person..same games, same lies. It's always uncanny hearing it though.

  • @smartsurvival2605
    @smartsurvival2605 Рік тому +2

    Hi, Dave. Well, what a twist of fate when I said NO. He really misinterpreted my response. I have boundaries. SURPRISE! LOL. The way they act I find absolutely disgusting.

  • @amandajohnson-williams7718
    @amandajohnson-williams7718 Рік тому +2

    I also asked for Gods help in those darkest moments. He's been guidind me ever since ❤❤❤

  • @linegregoire4869
    @linegregoire4869 Рік тому +3

    Love the definition of Mrs C. That's what I was. After God helped me rise from my ashes, I am not a Mrs A - free and at peace. Dave, your videos have helped me tremendously during those difficult years post discard. Thank you 🙏

  • @Jesusisking-tg8yi
    @Jesusisking-tg8yi Рік тому +3

    For we walk in the flesh we will never be it

  • @Jl-ou4jt
    @Jl-ou4jt Рік тому +4

    I have been watching your videos for a long time, I'm 48 years old, Narc Survivor.The knowledge I acquired from you and your spiritual awareness is probably one of the most important treasures in my life.
    I also enjoyed the Seal Team, first time learning about Mrs C.
    Thank you, Dave. I will never going to be Mrs. B again, you helped me to save my life during the last discard. I dont miss anything about the narc, it was only the fake mask, and behind the mask, pure evil, and people, the mask looks so similar. It's so predictable. Thank you

  • @Whymeahhh
    @Whymeahhh Рік тому +5

    Jesus is my Beloved and I’ve never felt more secure 🙌🏻 thank you brother Dave for your fellowship 🦋💜😇. Bless your kind heart ♥️

  • @cynthiabiel7714
    @cynthiabiel7714 Рік тому +3

    The narc wants you to me them the center of your life...and this is natural with you are young and feel this is your soul mate..but the narc does not make you the center of their lives......you are there for them all the time..and when you get sick or burned out then you get devalued and disgarded.

    • @cynthiabiel7714
      @cynthiabiel7714 Рік тому

      The Narc wants you up and happy for THEM while using you and wearing you down....they lean on you with all of their problems so you can solve them for him and mentally abuses you then wants you to be happy..they are a bottomless pit..and they never fill your well up....

  • @SMH-rt4zd
    @SMH-rt4zd 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Dave. This was the best explanation for me and my situation. NC 1 1/2 years. The holidays are still hard, we have a son together but this was great help.

  • @lizi.2503
    @lizi.2503 Рік тому +2

    A narc that managed me at a restaurant for my side job is also my boyfriends close friend / housemates mother and she said she had a grudge against me and that she will cut my boyfriend off because of ME when I confronted her about spreading a false pregnancy rumor and she has the audacity to somehow play victim. She’s a mean manager and I quit straight away.

  • @CVICURN1
    @CVICURN1 10 місяців тому

    I couldn’t talk to my own mother w him around. Like you said, I ended up living another life separate from him. I was so exhausted.

  • @BEazy234
    @BEazy234 Рік тому +1

    So meticulously spot on! I went through all of this to a T last year. The whole walking on egg shells, always on alert to make sure she was ok. I was a total simp/doormat. Finally left her and then 8 months later she’s married…and yep, to a rich dude w 5 kids😳

  • @ALC77787
    @ALC77787 Рік тому +3

    I screwed up with Mum, I damaged her frying pan by accidentally one time burning my chicken, I tried my best to clean it but Mum says it is not clean at all, I have to replace her frying pan and her shower mat because it is dirty and she can't get the dirt off. I also damaged her black table by leaving a ring mark on it by placing the fryingpan there beside the sink for washing. Mum says I am not even sorry and that I am no longer ever allowed to use the cooker and that she will stay the entire time in the kitchen if she has to to prevent me from using her cooker. She told me that I did something bad to the dog because he was shaking and that she is scared of me so she locks her door because she does not know what I am going to do next and she is afraid of me. I bought milk for the both of us, water mainly for her and tropical juice, salmon and steak for the both of us. I live with Mum because I don't work at the moment and there is a housing crisis and she persuaded me and convinced me to move back in with her in December 2020 and I have been here ever since. I developed paranoia in 2018 or 2019 after going through fear with Mum of Mum at the time and most of the time I felt extremely drained tired when in her presence. Later in 2020 I got diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia so that doesn't help the situation at all. Anyway, just thought I should share my story. Thanks for listening.

  • @primsandwhims7533
    @primsandwhims7533 Рік тому

    Thankyou Dave. This spoke to me. Resonated and im paranoid they will come back. I don't want them to come back cause i just want to forget abd heal. Whether hes suffering as a borderline or narccist hes probably both from what ive bern through and witnessed. Im scared of that knock on the door. I will not be able to say no is what im afraid of. I hope they got so many other supplies they never return. The last time wasn't even a good time. It was more devaluing me and they couldn't be alone for one second.

  • @peasantambition
    @peasantambition Рік тому +6

    I feel like I treated the narcissist better than I can possibly give to a new partner. It's almost as if it isn't fair for that new partner because they aren't getting what I am capable of. How to handle loving again?

  • @goldmarie171
    @goldmarie171 Рік тому +1

    I really love this one. Very good. Going to listen again to this tonight on the road. Thank you very much

  • @ladyvirgo013
    @ladyvirgo013 Рік тому +3

    I dont know what Mrs i was but i was married to this covert monster for 12 years. The divorce has started. Hes shacked up with his next supply, shes just as vile. Coworkers always make great sources of supply.
    Wedding vows don't mean shit to anyone anymore. Im done, blocked him on email. Don't have his number and im not on social media thankfully.
    God is the only way im still standing

  • @lennie482
    @lennie482 Рік тому +2

    Hi! I love the way you explain things. Actually I have more understanding form your videos because you have God's perspectives and I love it🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @tineo4313
    @tineo4313 Рік тому +2

    Dave you once said in one of your videos that when it comes to the narcissist that inside it’s the 5 year old that abandoned that abounded their true selves.
    It’s that saying that kind of describes how I feel about myself. This is LEAP btw.
    I leaped towards the chance to turn to god when everything hit rock bottom.
    Am I bad person? Is what I often ask myself. In school all these bad memories that happened between my parents. They would REPLAY themselves in my head. I feel like just now I’m finally feeling like I’m finally finding my true self.
    Looking back at your past can be bad but it can also have so many answers. As I scrolled through my photos and videos I realized that in my later years I became a meaner person.
    “Go go” “shew shew” are what both my mother and biological father said to me. When I’m upset I often tell my mother “the second I turn 18 and I have everything set up I’m cleaning out my closet and I’m MOVING OUT” I’m discarding you for everything you and my stepfather put me through who I still love so much despite everything I’m GONE.
    Am I the “narcissist” for having this mentality? To swing out once I finally get the chance? I don’t think so.
    My mother calls it “disrespect” but it’s simply my own harsh truth. I know I can say it here. Which is why I love you and your channel so much.
    Ima sonic dash out of this trauma bond

  • @ladyvirgo013
    @ladyvirgo013 Рік тому +4

    They will make you codependent

  • @narcslayerg2631
    @narcslayerg2631 Рік тому +2

    This is perfection

  • @jmricht
    @jmricht Рік тому +1

    You’re backgrounds have changed! Nice! Take care, Dave!

  • @bellchrish6579
    @bellchrish6579 Рік тому

    I watch this episode daily;
    sometimes twice a day.
    I love this one Dave!!!
    It’s so funny 😂

    • @bellchrish6579
      @bellchrish6579 Рік тому

      Because now I can look back at the thankless job of a relationshit I was in!!!

  • @oliveoil8749
    @oliveoil8749 Рік тому +3

    The Wrath of God 💯

  • @flyawaybutterflyhealingchannel

    Great Title

  • @WoodenFeather-xm3vl
    @WoodenFeather-xm3vl Рік тому

    Once you accept there is no closure with the disordered persons, you go find your own. Heal your old wounds immediately, you will be too occupied developing a new life to care about the narcs, shallow people or distractions. We had our own maturity to achieve.

  • @tamerastone4732
    @tamerastone4732 Рік тому

    Also, thank u, for ur honesty about ur narc!!!! It helps!!!!

  • @peaceangel-rl2hf
    @peaceangel-rl2hf Рік тому

    Well, I certainly hope disaster awaits them...

  • @Tsharetrainer
    @Tsharetrainer 8 місяців тому

    What a video! Thank You for helping me understand so many things.

  • @anitaopdam
    @anitaopdam Рік тому

    Thank you!!! This is so spot on.

  • @zeldavanniekerk226
    @zeldavanniekerk226 Рік тому

    Thank you beautiful❤

  • @randybrinkman-do4xf
    @randybrinkman-do4xf Рік тому

    Council , is good , had someone yesterday they escaped the scapegoat role , and found another image more to their liking pointed out , that's another false idol , another false image , another fictitious role ! Thank You for your authenticity Dave ! I completely relate , yes I was a Mr b with boundaries, and not willing to move to absurdville ! No nothing healthy about that , and that isn't living hunkered in the bunker ! We fall in love , they fall in and out of fatuation! Cursory feeling , no concious thought or heart emotion or correlation between the two !

  • @naenaehuggins1726
    @naenaehuggins1726 10 місяців тому

    Man....I super got the raw deal! I thought this person was broken and needy...I thought the Jesus in me could love/serve the way to healing. I didn't get even quality manners much less love bombing lol....after I sent him packing I almost hurt myself to think of 1 single thing I miss. I'm rested..peaceful...sleeping...eating regularly and finally do little things for me! And....have the time to do so. Good/God riddens.

  • @prettynatural1973
    @prettynatural1973 Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @matthewberryhill6553
    @matthewberryhill6553 Рік тому +3

    I responded to one message from the ex narc gf, then I blocked her everywhere. Does that still make me a Mrs. A Dave?

  • @metv4254
    @metv4254 Рік тому +2

    You really know

  • @PeterShaw-ne1yq
    @PeterShaw-ne1yq Рік тому

    Regret is a better word than remorse 😉

  • @ronicatravis6264
    @ronicatravis6264 Рік тому

    Soo True 💯💯💯

  • @rossofficial
    @rossofficial Місяць тому

    Mine left day after being engaged 😅 silent since. This was 5 weeks ago. Heartbroken😢

  • @theresaalbano4363
    @theresaalbano4363 Рік тому +16

    Do you know the worst thing about being a Mrs. B, when I was for all those years, is what you put up with🥺 never mind the abuse but the fact that he wasn’t even a tender, loving good sexually intimate partner, and I still overlooked that and stayed!🫣 man I’m so glad I found your channel Dave you were the first one five years ago to enlighten me on what narcissism was and give me the strength it took a year but I was able to get him out of the house and I’m finally divorced now over a year but still battling in court, but at least he is away from me physically and I am allowed to heal!!!🙏🏻❤️‍🩹

  • @reeebok1
    @reeebok1 Рік тому

    👍🏻 nice 13min mark

  • @bashemadonI
    @bashemadonI Рік тому

    It doesn't matter what happens to a narc if they devoured your offspring... God's do something now

  • @gloryfavorforeverwchristje9343

    HELLO DURAN DURAN...AKA DAVE. HAVING A SPA DAY, UGLY DAY. LOOKING INTO MENTAL HEALTH WORKERS IN MY DINE FINE RED ROBE. WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT WEEKEND TOUR. CAN WE VISIT DOLLYWOOD.❤

  • @isla8718
    @isla8718 Рік тому

    Basically I believe I’m with a narcissist and he has isolated me my few friends hve gone away due to him and it’s the fact I will be alone if I left . That’s the sad reality of it I guess that was he’s plan all along

  • @stephaniehall6309
    @stephaniehall6309 Рік тому +3

    Yeah don’t listen to Nike and just do it when it comes to narcs , Don’t do it

  • @sp8813
    @sp8813 Рік тому

    Mrs B is ME. I child never be honest because i didn't trust him

  • @vincecavedog3219
    @vincecavedog3219 10 місяців тому

    Hey Dave also Mrs b can't be sick or they don't get their fuel.

  • @PeterShaw-ne1yq
    @PeterShaw-ne1yq Рік тому

    All our chickens come to roost 😉

  • @princessmandy1757
    @princessmandy1757 Рік тому

    Lol I think he's wading through the women to find another one to take care of him. He once told me, " I figure if I talk to a hundred women, I'll end up with at least twenty five that like me." 😝

  • @ThanosXenidis
    @ThanosXenidis Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @stevenkampmann9680
    @stevenkampmann9680 Рік тому +2

    2,300 views 8 hours ago but only 300 likes hmm does that mean 2,000 narcs are getting informed too?

  • @melindalemmon2149
    @melindalemmon2149 Рік тому +2

    Really low volume this time for me

  • @marmeg1118
    @marmeg1118 10 місяців тому

    Mrs B is not Mrs A. Lmao Mrs B is using them for supply too. Mrs B’s are using them too.

  • @francesbernard2445
    @francesbernard2445 Рік тому

    The theme music on this youtube channel sure does sound familiar. Why did it take so long for all inclusive against narcsissism only take so long to get established? Since I heard big shot Conrad Black say that the genocide of Indigenous people never happened in North America for sure there must be an older former Mrs. B. out there somewhere whom he was probable trying to cruel to at the time. Thank goodness none of us ever considered encouraging Conrad Black to become a politician to become prime minister of Canada eh? By the way I doubt his former narcissistic supply cares about what he says or does.

  • @TheFusedplug
    @TheFusedplug 9 місяців тому

    Im also a bad mr b i set boundaries on the ££ she's on drugs so it would all go in a day. She's got physically violent blah blah come on you know how it goes

  • @abva56
    @abva56 7 місяців тому

    Where is the disaster for the narc?

  • @Bl4zik3n
    @Bl4zik3n Рік тому

    @21:00 are all girls narcissists?

  • @JaneJ993
    @JaneJ993 Рік тому +2

    Happy Monday Dave! 101 in SoCal today🌤⛱️🌊

  • @philsee1287
    @philsee1287 Рік тому

    If you have freedom with God. If you really want to make a difference?
    Why don't you talk about family court and the sound of freedom movie comparisons.
    Talk about how family court traffics children for profit. To mothers for custody and child support.
    Now you know. If you ignore youre no better than family court and commit to a life without God.

  • @abva56
    @abva56 7 місяців тому

    Where is the disaster for the narc?