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Hi, dave! your videos about narcissism have really helped me through the healing process.. I was just wondering if would you ever make videos like these again? I have seen that this is your latest video for the last 3 months. God bless you always.
Pray for their spirits to change.. with the Holy Spirit. It’s the only way. Finding forgiveness when you let them go also releases you slowly. Not easy, but also possible with the Holy Spirit.
They don't want to repent or change they are reprobates God won't force anyone to come to him there is still a chance while alive if they die the way they are then its set judgement.
I honestly don’t know how I got the courage to cut him off and go contact. It’s been a year. He Hoovered me at 4 months while driving by while I was out running. The puppy dog eyes and the flashy grin were top notch. I got an unexpected hit on the narc pipe that day but didn’t respond. He wanted me to contact him. He didn’t want me before so I didn’t understand the desperation at the time. I’m a proud Mrs. A but honestly I still struggle but try to hide it. This experience was the worst thing I have ever been through. God help us all. There is no hope with a narcissist. None
You’re so strong and I hope it gets easier for you! The thought of their puppy dog eyes makes me sick now like what else can you offer? You got this and stay strong 💪
It took me almost 2 yrs to officially release my narc. As I continued to work on my healing it got easier. But it's work u continue the rest of ur life so another narc can't come around. Hang in there. Sending u love lite and healing ❤
After 6 years , i was plotting my " escape " . Bought a house , waiting for the closing , she was aware and no longer wanted me around . But something bad happened that i couldnt take it anymore and i started packing , before my house closure . She sensed i was going and called me at work and accused me of taking a DVD. She said get out today , threw me out ! I stayed in a motel for 2 months until my house closure.. HERE IS THE KICKER : I worked with her , refused to speak with her ( 5 months ) . She started talking with me again , said she wanted to meet . We met and she gave me a sob story on how she treated me .... WAIT....there is more ...during our meeting she told me witthin a month of discarding me , she moved her ex husband back in . That was over a year ago , she spent the last year to convince me she was throwing him out , i got sucked back in , its my fault shes not throwing him out she told me , i told her see where it goes , no guarantees , she wanted a guarantee we would be together forever 😅😅! So blocked her 3 months ago , all platforms! Just recently realized it was narcissism, and am working out the trauma bond ...better everyday and no longer work together .
@@lindaallotey6257 I can not diagnose my toxic person, I have no idea if she's a narcissist, I know she's troubled but it's not my cross to bare , I tried friends and the chemistry always gets in the way, she has a lot of good things about her , being in a domestic relationship is not one of them .
They will just fall in the ditch they dug for us in time don't do revenge God has you covered he hates injustice he will avenged you. Give it too him relax! 😊🙏🏾❤️
God truly did intervene, sometimes I find myself grateful that it’s over but at other times upset because I feel I’ve been wronged by him but He didn’t wrong me. It was her. I have to remind myself that a lot.. that’s how messed up things were
7 years later, I won't even let people touch me anymore, hugs feel alien and I will never under any circumstance date again. Life feels like prison now. Who have I become? Even my shrink is baffled. And I am completely transparent with her.
Like many of us, you got burned, plain and simple. It hurts like a lifetime of pain. They are liars, deceivers, users and abusers. We can't wrap our heads around that and never will. I'm right there with you. I will never trust another man or anybody else. We have our defenses up, that's all. It's a very harsh circumstance of our lives. It's truly criminal on the narc's part to what they have done to us. Don't expect any of your family or friends to understand unless they have been through it. And unless your shrink has gone through it, they won't understand either. Not all people are cruel. I stick close to who I can trust. I assure you that it's just a few.
Spend a few years living for YOU! You’re free now, take a deep breath and enjoy your life. This is your time now! 🎉 anything can happen in the future, you’re just craving time to finally live for yourself now without any strings attached to anyone. God bless you. 💜
@@tuoctran43 I am stuck in a rental where the landlord comes and goes , he is a late boomer and has all manner of anger and NPD issues. Things will clear once I can get out of here. Just can't get clear of these suffocating monsters. These clowns that i rent from even contributed to the break up of me and my ex. My shrink says i need to get out before i get killed, yeah, it is that bad. My best life is lived ALL alone, I have had plenty of people, had my fill. Thanks for your comment.
I wish I had something useful to say in response, but all I can do is nod my head in understanding because I totally get where you are coming from. I am forcing myself to talk to people but I trust nobody. I see through everyone. At least I can see the red flags now. It came at a price though. Tell your shrink there are many of us like this.
The extent of my ex wife's cheating was unbelievable. Trauma from my youth made me a prime target for narcissistic exploitation. The whole time I was so confused. I found out she was cheating for at least 3 years of our marriage, while denying me intimacy for 7 years of our marriage. It still hurts. But wait until you meet someone who has empathy. Whoa! I didn't realize that someone could love me like this. It's amazing. You've got to become indifferent to the narc. They like the negative attention more than affection. You have to "stop caring' about them. It's a big lesson on forgiveness. The narcissist is the way they are because they lack a relation ship with God or are developmentally stunted in their spiritual maturity. They can't love themselves or others because they define love as people "doing" things for them and not love being an attitude towards someone.
After months and months of back and forth. Mostly, me waiting on him to come back, as he always did. I blocked on every social media site, changed my number. Deleted all digital memories. Now, my task is to stop reminiscing and the constant urge to check my phone. It is a relief that there isn't anything left to check anymore!! 🙌
My narc will never move on and it took me years to realize I was being played. A butt dial 5 years ago revealed an affair but she led me to believe we’d work on things. It never happened and I kept finding evidence of the affair on our phone bill ect to the point I called her boss and he confirmed everything. Then we finally agreed to a dissolution which the narc forever ignored while I paid and did almost everything. So I mentioned I signed the divorce and once she realized there would finally be consequences, she asked if she had to pay child support, would I give the money back to her??
Nice to see you again, Dave! Hope all is well with you and everyone in this community. I’m NO contact 5 years now, healing all the way, just like to check in on everyone every once and a while. Stay strong in your belief of YOURSELF!!🙏🙏🙏
That shadowy dark figure was perched on his right shoulder as I confronted him about food he'd given me that made me seriously ill. He just continued staring, memorizing me as he usually did so he would have something to say or do that were my words and actions. That time I demanded a response and waited...and waited. Finally I said, don't you have anything to say about causing me to get so sick? He looked at me with vacant eyes and said, I didn't understand one word you spoke. As usual he went to the door to leave.I thank God for restraining me then, and not allowing him back in again. He still calls everyday trying to return but it will never happen. He controls all property, finances, health insurance, etc. everything, so I can't go complete no contact. But Jesus helps me all the time. God led me to your channel to learn about narcissism from you, Dave. Your prayer today is very powerful. Thank you for it and all the care you share with us.
I usually don’t write comments, but I watch your videos often! I was with the narcissist for 10 years, married for 5. Ihad no idea what a narcissist was. I was lovebombed until we were married. His whole attitude towards me began to change right after marriage, but it was a slow process! I started watching videos on narcissists and began to figure out what was going on! I left him, changed my phone number and am currently healing. The aftermath of being married and in love with a narcissist is still in effect even after leaving him. It’s been 8 months since I left and changed my number and I’m still trying to deal with how to get rid of the trauma bond! Unfortunately it’s still there! I have not had any contact with my husband, nor a peep since me leaving, but I’m having so much trouble getting past this! Please send me a message that might help me through this! Thank you so much! The Lord is the one that gave me the strength to do what I had to do to leave him, and I keep watching the videos, but I think about the whole 10 year experience with a narcissist often! I can’t seem to get it off my mind!
Pausing at 4 minute mark: I did the reverse discard no contact now 3 months. Everything you have said up to this point is spot on with her!!! And Me Too As Miss (Mr) A She had me for three years; took me a year and a half to figure what was going on but still kept going till I said no more
Thanks!Wow it's been so long your hair has grown lol. Want to thank you. I was going down bad a few years back. U helped me so much. The key was really my own healing that I needed to do. Im a true Mrs. A now. Empathy is leaving the narc to his own healing. I also released friends he had been sending my way 2 spy. He can't c me anymore. I feel no guilt. I released him to God.❤
This Blessed me Sir. The Narc texted me while watching this so I know this was for me. I am still ignoring him and trusting God to fully continue to deliver me. God Bless you! 🙏🏾
So so true, all of a sudden they start saying ‘ im not sure’ I don’t know ‘ wow they want you to be low and down and hurting all the time . Then they want you in the friend zone to pick up and play with all the time … I know it’s so hard but you must block, they only care about themselves and how they feel !!! X
I'm currently dealing with no contact with two narcissists..one was my ex boyfriend of 8 dreadful years, the other was a friend of mine for over 10 years. I ignored so many red flags, never again. I'm tired of feeling emotionally and mentally held captive by people who don't care how they make people feel.
Omg great to have you back Dave! I left with my kids after 25 years … I tried so many times to make it work bc I loved him and felt sorry for his very sad childhood. And yes I wanted to believe in love. Then I left another one for the same reasons. I know they are narcs in my head - but my heart is broken… void is horrible and I’m in despair. If I didn’t have my kids I wouldn’t want to live anymore. This world is less and less my home anyways. Clinging to Jesus ❤️🙏🏻🕊️✝️
The spiritual aspects you bring up are so true, thanks for drawing the connection it helps in understanding what and why things happened the way they did with these individuals and with ourselves.
Dave, you make me laugh and make me cry at the same time. You are speaking both The Spirit's beautiful truth and the ugly truth of the NPD, and it is comical sometimes - which helps to absorb and process this soul-wrenching information. Thank you for doing this work that God has called you to. It is desperately needed and appreciated. God bless you.
OMG Dave‼️ Had no idea this was your other channel, I started watching it this weekend after it came up in my feed and then I subscribed so I can binge watch at work. ❤ keep doing God’s work 💯
That's cool I'm from Albuquerque New Mexico I had a narcissistic abuse situation that happened she moved down from Aztec New Mexico to be with me didn't know what a narc was until I met her
“What man of you, having a hundred sheep, if he has lost one of them, does not leave the ninety-nine in the open country, and go after the one that is lost, until he finds it? Lord I thank you! God did not discard ME! 🙏🏾🙌🏽
God evening Dave and everyone happy Monday cheers 🍻 have my lemon tea. Moving on yes I am in school earning my BA degree the narcissist doesn't matter to me anymore my focus is my relationship with Christ 😊🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. Matthew 6 verse 33 Seek ye first the kingdom of God all His righteousness all these things will be added unto you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾.
Im just out of a narc situation. Lots of trauma. Would like friends again. Discouraging. intermittent re enforcement seems to be the norm of the day. Inconsistency. Friends but ghost. Triggers the trauma bonding im trying to heal from and overcome. Too hard. Easier to be alone than to be continually jerked around. Be my friend. Be consistent or leave me alone... Is what im thinking. Dont stop by randomly 1/ 3-4 mnths. A guy says hes interested.... See you in the spring. ( Many people here go douth in winter)Ghost when i wished happy new year. = Hes not into me at all. Just mad he would waste my time...not a wird all winter but fully expects to get to know me when he gets back... not now...... i will not be giving him the time of day in the spring. .....Any one else seeing this? Ya. Ya all just sit around and when he/ they get around to it, they migbt come around... Ugh
Right?! I don’t know u anymore wtf I don’t trust you! What a way to live with a Narcissist and yes walking on egg shells or a bomb ready to explode yuck!!!Wow you explained everything what he does!!!Omg!!!Thnz so much!!Amen 🙏🙏🙏
Great teaching brother in CHRIST!! You were talking to me today! THANKYOU for your powerful prayer- I prayed with you! I’m going to check that video out! JESUS I trust in You! We need you Dave; keep bringing us closer to JESUS and away from the evil narc! Glory to God!!🎉🎉🙏🙏🎉
Hi Dave, I just subscribed to your channel. I found you and heard your story on Julie’s “Saving the Afterlife” channel. My last two relationships of 24 years have been with mentally, physically and emotionally abusive narcissistic men. I got stuck and trapped in a cycle of heavy drugs and alcohol use. I was so desperate going day by day, searching for answers, but going to the wrong source, tarot readings and tarot cards, I was consumed by them and addicted to them every day. Clearly, I was going to the wrong source and on the wrong path with God. I too live in California and feel trapped in the evil. I’m stuck in a lease that I can’t afford,but need to get, aside from sharing a similar experience between the two channels, I am 52 years old as well!) Looking forward to listening here. I also have had more than one visit by the devil that were traumatizing to me and have been trying to get rid of sleep paralysis and nightmares. (when I get the courage, I will approach your girlfriend Julie, which I did not know you guys were together. I’m super excited! The two of you have been a real source of inspiration to me at a critical time, where I am, flat broke, lost, and seeking to mend my life, and my relationship with God. Thank you, Dave and Julie. You too have no idea until now how good of friends that you have been to me. 🙏🏻💖🙏🏻💖 Ps: God bless you and I’m glad that you didn’t take the deal. ⭐️
Way worse with age. My dad is 70 and he’s soo bad now. Every time I unblock him it gets worse and worse. I have to stay no contact for the rest of my life unfortunately.
I’m so glad that you continue to make these videos, Dave. The way that you tie things in with the supernatural realm really affirms what I feel in my spirit is happening with these people, so watching your videos keeps me sane in a way that other narc content doesn’t 🙌🏻
I knew the ex narc as a young teenager because he was friends with my brother so I had always had this kid crush ..he had a strange toxic relationship with his mother who he stabbed to death over 30 yrs ago. After doing 27 yrs he was let free and he found me on Fb. We had always wanted to be together so we met up ..he lost his looks and aged badly in prison. I gave him a chance because he seemed like a changed person..well the mask fell off I seen the evil he carry’s with him. Iv seen his face very calm and eyes black as he watched me have a break down.. he went back to drugs all his old ways that lead up to his mothers death ..who he claims he still loves! 😮..He’s moved on like he wanted to finding a woman that took him in .. after doing 27yrs I guess anything looks good to him smh yuck !! I never want to see him again because just thinking about it gives me a bad gut feeling. He did way to much damage around me to much drama ..I’m free but still have healing to do.
Love this channel. I'm struggling on how to walk away. My pride and stubbornness, of the years wasted. Knowing that I paid for the life we have. I'm holding on to God's Promises in Joel 2:28-29 God will restore the years verse 25.
Well, mine did and he moved on now. He's sleeping with my daughter. I don't think the narcissist cares one hoot who about you or me. They are evil Leave the past in the past and let GOD HEAL
My moto is ..LET THEM.. after my narc experience I let ppl show me who they are.. I used to justify people and that was a flaw I needed to change.. The Bible tells us to judge by the fruit ppl show us.. if we neglect to do this.. than we leave ourselves wide open to the devil sending a narcissist in to destroy
Thank God I dont have to deal with that mess anymore. 🎉🎉🎉 A completely draining rollercoaster. Yeah, the hit off the narc pipe...lol lasts about 5 seconds.
The narcissist is the worst component the world has to offer these evil entities world take your strong hold and use it for a lights camera action show that's a NARC and these pure at heart have to worry about the zamtaszzy clinks and cuffs! We have these worst of narcs on the face of this earth and look I don't choose being disrespectful though factual is practical and what spectacular breath is the NARCISSISM BEAST PULLING ON THIS GLORIOUS day. 😂😢 pure evil meets pure heart thanks for these precious minutes!
My narc of 2023 told me she "cursed out God" and, after ghosting me with zero contact for 3 months, recently tried to hoover me with a long text. There is no accountability, no explanation of where she's been. I'm not buying, and I'm not saying a word to her.
I'm a Ms B+ thank you very much. I know away from the Narc is where I'm going and no contact is the only way even though the Sirens song I still fear. But I am seeking following Jesus and will get to total indifference. The divorce was final Monday on 4yr marriage its been surprisingly tough couple days but I feel the trauma bond illusion of a real love relationship being slowly blown like smoke in the wind.
Narcs tear u to shreds & break your Heart, but God is a Healer! When you finally feel heart healing from God you feel so much strength and so much self worth & you don’t even WANT THEM EVER AGAIN!
Out of the 5 years I say we've been intimate 50 times that's it, I wanna feel a mans touch , I'll be 57 years old in June, I just want him out of my head, he lives at the corner of my street, he can see my front porch from his brother's apartment
Yes Jesus is coming back I know I have to get right and I choose heaven. That's why I left the narc and I'm doing okay because I see the bigger picture. We are on a race to win souls.
How do they know if we moving? How do we know if they moving? There's full blockage from her side ( i dont know where is she and what is she doing) . I think she dont know as well what im doing . Unless she hacked, cloned my phone? ( doubt it..)
Dave evil go away In jesus name i pray 🙏❤️ as you were on I sprinkled black salt around my home and I’m burning sage because I just saw my narc ex husband pray people just pray
Dave, is it true that they always hoover? The vast majority of comments/videos say yes. I discarded her and told her about herself. Massive narc injury caused. 2.5 years and no hoover. I'm merely curious, i wouldn't even reply to her if she did.
@cc1658 I had to call the police to remove her from my property as she refused to leave and accept my choice to end the relationship. This whilst she played the victim and claimed i was the bad guy 😂😂. Insanity.
@@sdot6318 Thankfully she has no way of doing that. No public social media, no mutual connections and all potential channels of communication are blocked.
She still thinks about you occasionally. The negative event with you feeds her need to improve at whatever she deludes herself into thinking is worthwhile, usually shallow social activities. Without the fuel, they rot in their own existence… The silence is deafening for them.
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Hi, dave! your videos about narcissism have really helped me through the healing process.. I was just wondering if would you ever make videos like these again? I have seen that this is your latest video for the last 3 months. God bless you always.
This link does not seem work, is there another link? 🤓
When someone shows you who they are believe them.
Amen, Amen and Amen.
Exactly
You better believe it
Most narcissists are on a one way trip to hell, and they are aware of it. That is why they try to drag everyone down along with them.
Pray for their spirits to change.. with the Holy Spirit. It’s the only way. Finding forgiveness when you let them go also releases you slowly. Not easy, but also possible with the Holy Spirit.
They seem fully under the thumb of the adversary.
I think its more they are in hell already & sucking you in.
So its their victims on a one way trip to hell where Narcissist exists.
They don't want to repent or change they are reprobates God won't force anyone to come to him there is still a chance while alive if they die the way they are then its set judgement.
Theu are demons on earth recruiting
I honestly don’t know how I got the courage to cut him off and go contact. It’s been a year. He Hoovered me at 4 months while driving by while I was out running. The puppy dog eyes and the flashy grin were top notch. I got an unexpected hit on the narc pipe that day but didn’t respond. He wanted me to contact him. He didn’t want me before so I didn’t understand the desperation at the time. I’m a proud Mrs. A but honestly I still struggle but try to hide it. This experience was the worst thing I have ever been through. God help us all. There is no hope with a narcissist. None
You’re so strong and I hope it gets easier for you! The thought of their puppy dog eyes makes me sick now like what else can you offer? You got this and stay strong 💪
It took me almost 2 yrs to officially release my narc. As I continued to work on my healing it got easier. But it's work u continue the rest of ur life so another narc can't come around. Hang in there. Sending u love lite and healing ❤
YEAH, the Hoover is the narc. Trying to get you back to finish you off. Don't kid yourself for a New York Second.🌿💥🌿
I think narcissists are like flies…they smell your wounds and feed off them. When you’re not around, they have no supply to feed off.🥴
Gross but spot on. Then they get in there and everything gets infected
AGREED! You have the BEST testimony on TOUCHING the AFTERLIFE ever!!!
@@Narcologyunscripted no way!!! There are so many good ones so that’s such an honor, Dave! Praise God! It’s His kindness that leads us to repent.🥹🩷
They can’t handle that innocence always wins
A pure heart and innocence yes!! It’s saved me so many times!
After 6 years , i was plotting my " escape " . Bought a house , waiting for the closing , she was aware and no longer wanted me around . But something bad happened that i couldnt take it anymore and i started packing , before my house closure . She sensed i was going and called me at work and accused me of taking a DVD. She said get out today , threw me out ! I stayed in a motel for 2 months until my house closure.. HERE IS THE KICKER : I worked with her , refused to speak with her ( 5 months ) . She started talking with me again , said she wanted to meet . We met and she gave me a sob story on how she treated me .... WAIT....there is more ...during our meeting she told me witthin a month of discarding me , she moved her ex husband back in . That was over a year ago , she spent the last year to convince me she was throwing him out , i got sucked back in , its my fault shes not throwing him out she told me
, i told her see where it goes , no guarantees , she wanted a guarantee we would be together forever 😅😅! So blocked her 3 months ago , all platforms! Just recently realized it was narcissism, and am working out the trauma bond ...better everyday and no longer work together .
You are strong. Don’t go back. There is someone out there for you. Someone that will love you and treat you with the respect you deserve x
If only could keep chatting , take it from friendship then see if we are compatible, how amazing 2 empaths loving each other
@@lindaallotey6257 I can not diagnose my toxic person, I have no idea if she's a narcissist, I know she's troubled but it's not my cross to bare , I tried friends and the chemistry always gets in the way, she has a lot of good things about her , being in a domestic relationship is not one of them .
keep her blocked, and never look back.
They will just fall in the ditch they dug for us in time don't do revenge God has you covered he hates injustice he will avenged you. Give it too him relax! 😊🙏🏾❤️
That is the best advice.
Yes i just said this! ✨
Amen!!
Mrs A didnt stay with the narcissist can't stay with evil light and darkness can't fellowship at all thankful to God for making of escape🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾.
Good for you 😊🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Wife Julie!!??? Wait what!!?? When Dave??? CONGRATULATIONS 🎊 👏 💐 🥳 🎊 👏 💐 🥳 🎊 👏 💐
God truly did intervene, sometimes I find myself grateful that it’s over but at other times upset because I feel I’ve been wronged by him but He didn’t wrong me. It was her. I have to remind myself that a lot.. that’s how messed up things were
7 years later, I won't even let people touch me anymore, hugs feel alien and I will never under any circumstance date again. Life feels like prison now. Who have I become? Even my shrink is baffled. And I am completely transparent with her.
Like many of us, you got burned, plain and simple. It hurts like a lifetime of pain. They are liars, deceivers, users and abusers. We can't wrap our heads around that and never will. I'm right there with you. I will never trust another man or anybody else. We have our defenses up, that's all. It's a very harsh circumstance of our lives. It's truly criminal on the narc's part to what they have done to us. Don't expect any of your family or friends to understand unless they have been through it. And unless your shrink has gone through it, they won't understand either. Not all people are cruel. I stick close to who I can trust. I assure you that it's just a few.
Spend a few years living for YOU! You’re free now, take a deep breath and enjoy your life. This is your time now! 🎉 anything can happen in the future, you’re just craving time to finally live for yourself now without any strings attached to anyone. God bless you. 💜
@@tuoctran43 I am stuck in a rental where the landlord comes and goes , he is a late boomer and has all manner of anger and NPD issues. Things will clear once I can get out of here. Just can't get clear of these suffocating monsters. These clowns that i rent from even contributed to the break up of me and my ex. My shrink says i need to get out before i get killed, yeah, it is that bad. My best life is lived ALL alone, I have had plenty of people, had my fill. Thanks for your comment.
I understand
I wish I had something useful to say in response, but all I can do is nod my head in understanding because I totally get where you are coming from. I am forcing myself to talk to people but I trust nobody. I see through everyone. At least I can see the red flags now. It came at a price though. Tell your shrink there are many of us like this.
The extent of my ex wife's cheating was unbelievable. Trauma from my youth made me a prime target for narcissistic exploitation. The whole time I was so confused. I found out she was cheating for at least 3 years of our marriage, while denying me intimacy for 7 years of our marriage. It still hurts. But wait until you meet someone who has empathy. Whoa! I didn't realize that someone could love me like this. It's amazing. You've got to become indifferent to the narc. They like the negative attention more than affection. You have to "stop caring' about them. It's a big lesson on forgiveness. The narcissist is the way they are because they lack a relation ship with God or are developmentally stunted in their spiritual maturity. They can't love themselves or others because they define love as people "doing" things for them and not love being an attitude towards someone.
After months and months of back and forth. Mostly, me waiting on him to come back, as he always did. I blocked on every social media site, changed my number. Deleted all digital memories. Now, my task is to stop reminiscing and the constant urge to check my phone. It is a relief that there isn't anything left to check anymore!! 🙌
Omg Dave so true. There is no more hearing them out. You can't make sense of lies.
My narc will never move on and it took me years to realize I was being played. A butt dial 5 years ago revealed an affair but she led me to believe we’d work on things. It never happened and I kept finding evidence of the affair on our phone bill ect to the point I called her boss and he confirmed everything.
Then we finally agreed to a dissolution which the narc forever ignored while I paid and did almost everything. So I mentioned I signed the divorce and once she realized there would finally be consequences, she asked if she had to pay child support, would I give the money back to her??
Nice to see you again, Dave! Hope all is well with you and everyone in this community. I’m NO contact 5 years now, healing all the way, just like to check in on everyone every once and a while. Stay strong in your belief of YOURSELF!!🙏🙏🙏
That shadowy dark figure was perched on his right shoulder as I confronted him about food he'd given me that made me seriously ill. He just continued staring, memorizing me as he usually did so he would have something to say or do that were my words and actions. That time I demanded a response and waited...and waited. Finally I said, don't you have anything to say about causing me to get so sick? He looked at me with vacant eyes and said, I didn't understand one word you spoke. As usual he went to the door to leave.I thank God for restraining me then, and not allowing him back in again. He still calls everyday trying to return but it will never happen. He controls all property, finances, health insurance, etc. everything, so I can't go complete no contact. But Jesus helps me all the time. God led me to your channel to learn about narcissism from you, Dave. Your prayer today is very powerful. Thank you for it and all the care you share with us.
PREACH and TEACH the truth!
Touching the afterlife is amazing. Love her.
I usually don’t write comments, but I watch your videos often! I was with the narcissist for 10 years, married for 5. Ihad no idea what a narcissist was. I was lovebombed until we were married. His whole attitude towards me began to change right after marriage, but it was a slow process! I started watching videos on narcissists and began to figure out what was going on! I left him, changed my phone number and am currently healing. The aftermath of being married and in love with a narcissist is still in effect even after leaving him. It’s been 8 months since I left and changed my number and I’m still trying to deal with how to get rid of the trauma bond! Unfortunately it’s still there! I have not had any contact with my husband, nor a peep since me leaving, but I’m having so much trouble getting past this! Please send me a message that might help me through this! Thank you so much! The Lord is the one that gave me the strength to do what I had to do to leave him, and I keep watching the videos, but I think about the whole 10 year experience with a narcissist often! I can’t seem to get it off my mind!
Pausing at 4 minute mark: I did the reverse discard no contact now 3 months. Everything you have said up to this point is spot on with her!!! And Me Too As Miss (Mr) A She had me for three years; took me a year and a half to figure what was going on but still kept going till I said no more
Thanks!Wow it's been so long your hair has grown lol. Want to thank you. I was going down bad a few years back. U helped me so much. The key was really my own healing that I needed to do. Im a true Mrs. A now. Empathy is leaving the narc to his own healing. I also released friends he had been sending my way 2 spy. He can't c me anymore. I feel no guilt. I released him to God.❤
Thank You, you rock! Glad you came back:)
This Blessed me Sir. The Narc texted me while watching this so I know this was for me. I am still ignoring him and trusting God to fully continue to deliver me. God Bless you! 🙏🏾
So so true, all of a sudden they start saying ‘ im not sure’ I don’t know ‘ wow they want you to be low and down and hurting all the time . Then they want you in the friend zone to pick up and play with all the time … I know it’s so hard but you must block, they only care about themselves and how they feel !!! X
I'm currently dealing with no contact with two narcissists..one was my ex boyfriend of 8 dreadful years, the other was a friend of mine for over 10 years. I ignored so many red flags, never again. I'm tired of feeling emotionally and mentally held captive by people who don't care how they make people feel.
😂He said he was not happy😂he was an abuser and fake happy, very callous person.
Omg great to have you back Dave! I left with my kids after 25 years … I tried so many times to make it work bc I loved him and felt sorry for his very sad childhood. And yes I wanted to believe in love. Then I left another one for the same reasons. I know they are narcs in my head - but my heart is broken… void is horrible and I’m in despair. If I didn’t have my kids I wouldn’t want to live anymore. This world is less and less my home anyways. Clinging to Jesus ❤️🙏🏻🕊️✝️
A hit of the NARC pipe. Wow, that was an excellent description.
It hurts...EVERYTHING you say happend. I want him back. But i cant God warned me. Ive seen it in my Dreams. 😢
Wow this is a good one. Thank you
BE the ONE that got away!!!
The spiritual aspects you bring up are so true, thanks for drawing the connection it helps in understanding what and why things happened the way they did with these individuals and with ourselves.
Dave, you make me laugh and make me cry at the same time. You are speaking both The Spirit's beautiful truth and the ugly truth of the NPD, and it is comical sometimes - which helps to absorb and process this soul-wrenching information. Thank you for doing this work that God has called you to. It is desperately needed and appreciated. God bless you.
OMG Dave‼️ Had no idea this was your other channel, I started watching it this weekend after it came up in my feed and then I subscribed so I can binge watch at work. ❤ keep doing God’s work 💯
Cheers Dave to all of us who survived and warrior fight far from that snare.
That's cool I'm from Albuquerque New Mexico I had a narcissistic abuse situation that happened she moved down from Aztec New Mexico to be with me didn't know what a narc was until I met her
God has given me the worst nightmare to wake me up to the intentions of that narc
First, hope y'all are doing gooood 😁
You too!!
“What man of you, having a hundred sheep, if he has lost one of them, does not leave the ninety-nine in the open country, and go after the one that is lost, until he finds it?
Lord I thank you! God did not discard ME! 🙏🏾🙌🏽
Oh Dave makes me laugh so much, really helped me break Narcs manipulations & power.
Humor is powerful tool 😂😇
Thank you I'm listening for the so many times past years.
Truth what your saying about Satan and his ways... all the way it's so much the truth. Thank you and Jesus Christ for being here right now for me
God evening Dave and everyone happy Monday cheers 🍻 have my lemon tea.
Moving on yes I am in school earning my BA degree the narcissist doesn't matter to me anymore my focus is my relationship with Christ 😊🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾.
Matthew 6 verse 33 Seek ye first the kingdom of God all His righteousness all these things will be added unto you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾.
He doesn't even have me as a contact in his phone
Im just out of a narc situation. Lots of trauma. Would like friends again. Discouraging. intermittent re enforcement seems to be the norm of the day. Inconsistency. Friends but ghost. Triggers the trauma bonding im trying to heal from and overcome. Too hard. Easier to be alone than to be continually jerked around. Be my friend. Be consistent or leave me alone... Is what im thinking. Dont stop by randomly 1/ 3-4 mnths. A guy says hes interested.... See you in the spring. ( Many people here go douth in winter)Ghost when i wished happy new year. = Hes not into me at all. Just mad he would waste my time...not a wird all winter but fully expects to get to know me when he gets back... not now...... i will not be giving him the time of day in the spring. .....Any one else seeing this? Ya. Ya all just sit around and when he/ they get around to it, they migbt come around... Ugh
Love the new hair ❤😊
Yes❤
I have and that’s why they keep trolling me
You really really helped me! Lord d I thank you for sending this message using this brother! 🙏🏾
How great is this video Dave, how GREAT is !!! Thank you 🙏🏻✨ God Bless u
Right?! I don’t know u anymore wtf I don’t trust you! What a way to live with a Narcissist and yes walking on egg shells or a bomb ready to explode yuck!!!Wow you explained everything what he does!!!Omg!!!Thnz so much!!Amen 🙏🙏🙏
Please pray for me, my narc ex literally almost killed me. It was evil-I love you all my brothers and sisters ❤
Dave is funny. I like the way you put a funny spin on this stuff. 😂😂😂😂
Nest of crows… 😂 I just had the first crow caw at me
Great teaching brother in CHRIST!!
You were talking to me today!
THANKYOU for your powerful prayer- I prayed with you!
I’m going to check that video out!
JESUS I trust in You!
We need you Dave; keep bringing us closer to JESUS and away from the evil narc!
Glory to God!!🎉🎉🙏🙏🎉
Hi Dave, I just subscribed to your channel. I found you and heard your story on Julie’s “Saving the Afterlife” channel. My last two relationships of 24 years have been with mentally, physically and emotionally abusive narcissistic men. I got stuck and trapped in a cycle of heavy drugs and alcohol use. I was so desperate going day by day, searching for answers, but going to the wrong source, tarot readings and tarot cards, I was consumed by them and addicted to them every day. Clearly, I was going to the wrong source and on the wrong path with God. I too live in California and feel trapped in the evil. I’m stuck in a lease that I can’t afford,but need to get, aside from sharing a similar experience between the two channels, I am 52 years old as well!) Looking forward to listening here. I also have had more than one visit by the devil that were traumatizing to me and have been trying to get rid of sleep paralysis and nightmares. (when I get the courage, I will approach your girlfriend Julie, which I did not know you guys were together. I’m super excited! The two of you have been a real source of inspiration to me at a critical time, where I am, flat broke, lost, and seeking to mend my life, and my relationship with God. Thank you, Dave and Julie. You too have no idea until now how good of friends that you have been to me. 🙏🏻💖🙏🏻💖
Ps: God bless you and I’m glad that you didn’t take the deal. ⭐️
My discard came after 24 years of marriage, and she kept her mask on to the end. I must have been the Saudi Arabia of supply
Count your blessings and never take her back. Heal while living happy and Go no contact
Thank you 🙏 ❤Dave couldn’t have said it better God Bless you abundantly
Dave has said it before. God is the answer. It is so clear lately. 🙏
Way worse with age. My dad is 70 and he’s soo bad now. Every time I unblock him it gets worse and worse. I have to stay no contact for the rest of my life unfortunately.
Man, this is great.
The best take yet Dave mother says to child " im not sure about this, im thinking of putting you up for adoption " 😮
I’m so glad that you continue to make these videos, Dave. The way that you tie things in with the supernatural realm really affirms what I feel in my spirit is happening with these people, so watching your videos keeps me sane in a way that other narc content doesn’t 🙌🏻
Thank u Dave total sign I saw you today be blessed
I knew the ex narc as a young teenager because he was friends with my brother so I had always had this kid crush ..he had a strange toxic relationship with his mother who he stabbed to death over 30 yrs ago. After doing 27 yrs he was let free and he found me on Fb. We had always wanted to be together so we met up ..he lost his looks and aged badly in prison. I gave him a chance because he seemed like a changed person..well the mask fell off I seen the evil he carry’s with him. Iv seen his face very calm and eyes black as he watched me have a break down.. he went back to drugs all his old ways that lead up to his mothers death ..who he claims he still loves! 😮..He’s moved on like he wanted to finding a woman that took him in .. after doing 27yrs I guess anything looks good to him smh yuck !! I never want to see him again because just thinking about it gives me a bad gut feeling. He did way to much damage around me to much drama ..I’m free but still have healing to do.
Love this channel.
I'm struggling on how to walk away.
My pride and stubbornness, of the years wasted.
Knowing that I paid for the life we have.
I'm holding on to God's Promises in Joel 2:28-29
God will restore the years verse 25.
Ur channel is my favorite
Evening bub ❤ God bless
That’s exactly what happened. After something small. I asked him “Are we good?” And he said “Idk…”
That’s the truth
Well, mine did and he moved on now. He's sleeping with my daughter. I don't think the narcissist cares one hoot who about you or me. They are evil Leave the past in the past and let GOD HEAL
My moto is ..LET THEM.. after my narc experience I let ppl show me who they are.. I used to justify people and that was a flaw I needed to change.. The Bible tells us to judge by the fruit ppl show us.. if we neglect to do this.. than we leave ourselves wide open to the devil sending a narcissist in to destroy
Thank God I dont have to deal with that mess anymore. 🎉🎉🎉 A completely draining rollercoaster. Yeah, the hit off the narc pipe...lol lasts about 5 seconds.
The narcissist is the worst component the world has to offer these evil entities world take your strong hold and use it for a lights camera action show that's a NARC and these pure at heart have to worry about the zamtaszzy clinks and cuffs! We have these worst of narcs on the face of this earth and look I don't choose being disrespectful though factual is practical and what spectacular breath is the NARCISSISM BEAST PULLING ON THIS GLORIOUS day. 😂😢 pure evil meets pure heart thanks for these precious minutes!
I'm trying to move on!!! I I left him because I felt like I was loosing myself.
Why on earth are they so addictive,it's really hard 😢
You should do a take on how it doesn't matter at all what you say to them.. goes in one ear and out the other
My narc of 2023 told me she "cursed out God" and, after ghosting me with zero contact for 3 months, recently tried to hoover me with a long text. There is no accountability, no explanation of where she's been. I'm not buying, and I'm not saying a word to her.
Please stay NC. She will repeat cycle but worse. Reel you back in
God delivers from this insanity of deceitful games used by Satan
💚💚💚💚💚💚💚Thank You💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚
Danke!
You are great! Thank You
@@Narcologyunscripted Could have thought of it earlier.
I'm a Ms B+ thank you very much. I know away from the Narc is where I'm going and no contact is the only way even though the Sirens song I still fear. But I am seeking following Jesus and will get to total indifference. The divorce was final Monday on 4yr marriage its been surprisingly tough couple days but I feel the trauma bond illusion of a real love relationship being slowly blown like smoke in the wind.
Narcs tear u to shreds & break your Heart, but God is a Healer! When you finally feel heart healing from God you feel so much strength and so much self worth & you don’t even WANT THEM EVER AGAIN!
Crows are incredibly intelligent, not narcos! 🤡🤡🤡
Amen 🙏
They always have a rude comment, and presenting such a strong aggrance and my ex-girlfriend has more of bpd then nod!!
Out of the 5 years I say we've been intimate 50 times that's it, I wanna feel a mans touch , I'll be 57 years old in June, I just want him out of my head, he lives at the corner of my street, he can see my front porch from his brother's apartment
Yes Jesus is coming back I know I have to get right and I choose heaven. That's why I left the narc and I'm doing okay because I see the bigger picture. We are on a race to win souls.
Narc pipe ..very well 😅said
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I am finally a mrs A .
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I like your hair blonde...it goes with your blue eyes...i think you should do a bleach blonde cut with a spiky short look. ❤
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Hola Dave!
Hola!
How do they know if we moving? How do we know if they moving? There's full blockage from her side ( i dont know where is she and what is she doing) . I think she dont know as well what im doing . Unless she hacked, cloned my phone? ( doubt it..)
My ex-girlfriend is definitely has bpd more so then npd.
Dave evil go away In jesus name i pray 🙏❤️ as you were on I sprinkled black salt around my home and I’m burning sage because I just saw my narc ex husband pray people just pray
Dave, is it true that they always hoover? The vast majority of comments/videos say yes. I discarded her and told her about herself. Massive narc injury caused. 2.5 years and no hoover. I'm merely curious, i wouldn't even reply to her if she did.
@cc1658 I had to call the police to remove her from my property as she refused to leave and accept my choice to end the relationship. This whilst she played the victim and claimed i was the bad guy 😂😂. Insanity.
@cc1658narc spotted
Don't worry she's keeping tabs on you
@@sdot6318 Thankfully she has no way of doing that. No public social media, no mutual connections and all potential channels of communication are blocked.
She still thinks about you occasionally. The negative event with you feeds her need to improve at whatever she deludes herself into thinking is worthwhile, usually shallow social activities. Without the fuel, they rot in their own existence… The silence is deafening for them.
Narcs are possessed