I Spent 5 Years LETTING GO… (95% of People Get This Wrong)

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  • @clarkkegley
    @clarkkegley  8 місяців тому +5

    Ready to master the art of letting go? I've been on this journey for over 5 years, learning through trial and (lots of) error. In today's video, I'm excited to share the top lessons I've learned and introduce a powerful 3-step technique to help you let go instantly! Also - if letting go is really hard for you but you KNOW you need it… inside our coaching program, we dedicate an entire week to mastering this skill. You'll have the opportunity to work directly with a master-level shadow work coach who'll guide you through the process of letting go, step-by-step. Plus, you'll gain access to a ton more techniques, tutorials, and never before seen content you won't find anywhere else. If you're ready to transform your life, here’s your link: www.clarkkegley.com/free-case-study?sl=yt-Letgo224

  • @Manifesting4Men
    @Manifesting4Men 7 місяців тому +27

    One of my techniques is this: your thoughts and emotions are like you driving a train. They have a lot of momentum. In order to let them go, hop off the train and watch the train go by. When the train passes, cross the street.

  • @gnd333
    @gnd333 8 місяців тому +14

    For 12 years I smoked weed to numb my emotions, it wasn’t until this year I got 100% sober and man, all the emotions flooded in!! I’m finally in the headspace to acknowledge, process, and let them go. Thanks for the break down in this video!

    • @MusicLvr81281
      @MusicLvr81281 5 місяців тому

      Same here, always drank, quit and noticed the pain is real bad

  • @babys8640
    @babys8640 8 місяців тому +14

    such a good video. i’m currently going through a break up but it’s slowly getting better, even though i never thought it would some months ago. my biggest advice would be to be honest with yourself as shown in the video but if you’re going through a breakup, go no contact. and no contact also includes not stalking their social media. i know it’s hard but it helps a lot and it gets easier over time.

  • @lassgo
    @lassgo 8 місяців тому +26

    I got broken up with an do a lot of selfe improvement, i thought i was going to marry her, i was so fucking attatched to her. I go through all these stages everyday. I still have to see her everyday but i got this eventough sometimes i really miss my imagination of her, it can only get better from now. To everyone experiencing a similar thing your strong and i love you all.

    • @sk8orhate55
      @sk8orhate55 8 місяців тому

      Me and you both my brudda

    • @babys8640
      @babys8640 8 місяців тому +1

      maybe theres a way you don’t have to see her everyday :(? that sounds very hard. i’m proud of you!!

    • @alyssiagonzalez
      @alyssiagonzalez 7 місяців тому

      We love you to❤

  • @OmMyGod888
    @OmMyGod888 8 місяців тому +9

    One thing I always tell my clients/students/friend/whoever is that if you are still letting go, you haven’t let go. If you’re not sure of what to let go of, it’s usually the first thing that pops into your head when you ask yourself what do I need to let go of? Thank you, Clark.❤

  • @nitika008
    @nitika008 8 місяців тому +5

    I can relate to this video. Sometimes when emotions comes over me , I feel like to cry profusely and at that point of time I don’t stop my tears. I cry, I acknowledge that this what I am feeling at the moment and vent it out. I let that emotion pass through and eventually start feeling better. In my head I’ll say I’m not my thoughts and my brain is just trying to be over protective by releasing fear or negative emotions or attachment. I still struggle but working towards it. Thanks for such an amazing video.

  • @JPapismoothie
    @JPapismoothie 8 місяців тому +10

    This video came in as soon as I was thinking of my break up this is really helping me out ❤️

  • @BodyLabsFitness
    @BodyLabsFitness 8 місяців тому +4

    Best video I’ve seen on letting go thus far

    • @ELMcenter
      @ELMcenter 8 місяців тому

      Yeah.. he makes it super simple and clear.
      You’re very pretty, by the way 🥰

  • @TheJamieGambino
    @TheJamieGambino 7 місяців тому

    Man I have to admit I have been asking the question how do I actually let go to myself for so long and could never find the answer. You have made it so unbelievably clear and concise, I'm blown away. Thank you so much.

  • @marysheero6363
    @marysheero6363 7 місяців тому

    The best video from you Yet!!!!!!! Really good explanation. Been doing this for the last few weeks from reading the book "Letting go" and it's been liberating 🙏🏾

  • @RuudAwakening
    @RuudAwakening 8 місяців тому +1

    Clark spewing quality that solidifies one of the gems of the Metamorphic!

  • @pmao1998
    @pmao1998 4 місяці тому

    Your tips as always relatable and worth watching... Thank you once again. 😊

  • @Shelllmarieee
    @Shelllmarieee 7 місяців тому

    Coach Clark getting greys!!!! I like the visual with the flow chart there 🙏🏼 I also track emotions like every hour I’ll do a check in. Love the video

  • @methodmuse
    @methodmuse 8 місяців тому +1

    Love this! Great tips, thanks Clark! My whole day has been about processing emotions, this is the cherry on top.

  • @Igniteyourintellect01
    @Igniteyourintellect01 6 місяців тому

    Great content you can tell he really spent a lot of time focusing and studying letting go. Definitely not easy but necessary
    I’ve been going through the process for a couple years after noticing I’ve been hurting for over 15 years. What he is saying in the video is definitely facts. Peace and Love in the Pursuit of Happyness

  • @unveilyourpotential
    @unveilyourpotential 7 місяців тому

    Great and practical tips for me at the moment! Thank you!

  • @silverchairsg
    @silverchairsg 8 місяців тому +2

    I always get stuck when the emotion feels like it's never ending no matter how much I release.

    • @melssf7852
      @melssf7852 7 місяців тому

      Me too. I have the same issues. I release but it's like endless...but not sure if grief is the same thing or if it's a different method to ease this pain.

  • @rodrigoeloi
    @rodrigoeloi 8 місяців тому +1

    Emotions are energy that we are expressing to the world

  • @adamrafferty
    @adamrafferty 8 місяців тому +4

    David Hawkings & lester Levenson

  • @zan4984
    @zan4984 8 місяців тому +12

    Felt so attacked by the gym example and "hardstyle, anger and 700mg pre workout" 😂😂😂 just finished the exact same workout hahahah

    • @Purvisvarietyoflife
      @Purvisvarietyoflife 7 місяців тому +1

      😂Brought back memories of one of my toughest break up and I was in full-blown workout mode

    • @zan4984
      @zan4984 7 місяців тому

      @@Purvisvarietyoflife break ups really hit a special motivational spot that lasts for months.. 😂

  • @nasseraldoosary1988
    @nasseraldoosary1988 2 місяці тому

    Bro even thou I have red the book your video this a big add. ONE OF THE BEST!

  • @vivianavelastegui7844
    @vivianavelastegui7844 8 місяців тому +2

    I was hoping you would have elaborated a bit more on the “allowing” part.

  • @fredclarkson4642
    @fredclarkson4642 8 місяців тому +2

    Thanks Clark. God bless you

  • @yukinokuroshu
    @yukinokuroshu 6 місяців тому

    You had me there, I pressed the Like-button because you told me to in such an unexpected moment 😆

  • @StickyFingers-r6t
    @StickyFingers-r6t 8 місяців тому +1

    Excellent content 🧘‍♀️ thank you

  • @felicecancellara4524
    @felicecancellara4524 8 місяців тому +1

    One of your best video 👏

  • @graysonpeterjay
    @graysonpeterjay 8 місяців тому

    love your work clark. thanks

  • @alexryan2394
    @alexryan2394 8 місяців тому

    Very mature of you to own your mistakes and regrets like you do. GG

  • @Sergen1974
    @Sergen1974 8 місяців тому

    I love the soap bubble analogy❤

  • @tallspicy
    @tallspicy 8 місяців тому

    For sitting with and accepting. Get curious... what are my feelings beliefs thoughts and sensations ... go deep.

  • @antonnovo695
    @antonnovo695 7 місяців тому

    🎯🎯🎯
    Also, may I ask what watch are you wearing? Looks good. Thank you

  • @Truthseeker88888
    @Truthseeker88888 8 місяців тому +1

    Letting Go is the most powerful tool in the toolbox if used properly. Quantum shifts on the other side.

  • @sabinapatel9029
    @sabinapatel9029 4 місяці тому

    Thank you I appreciate it

  • @UPCOMINGTRUE-SELF91767
    @UPCOMINGTRUE-SELF91767 8 місяців тому

    Love ya Clark!!💪🏽💪🏽✨🔥

  • @amandabarnard1495
    @amandabarnard1495 8 місяців тому

    the best thing video ever thank you sir thank you

  • @scientistwithanaxe2570
    @scientistwithanaxe2570 7 місяців тому

    How does one let go of their ego and desire to achieve without descending into self-deprecation and depression

  • @OneOfAMineRocks
    @OneOfAMineRocks 7 місяців тому

    Congrat on your 800+ days of sobriety Bruther!
    379 Days today after 50 yrs of alcoholism!
    Re-FN-Born-Baby!
    Just in TIME!
    Subscribed! ❤👈😎👉🙏

  • @janewang4242
    @janewang4242 4 місяці тому

    The chart is wrong but nice n simple explanation

  • @vividloverinthemultiverse
    @vividloverinthemultiverse 8 місяців тому

    Love & joy keep getting flipped around in their order of high vibe on your videos. I know they are both in the 2.0 and flow higher spot, but which is truly higher? Joy or love, or does it even matter, I realize you said there are variations of the graph, just wanting to clarify. Then what type of love is this on the scale? Romantic, consummate, love of humanity, love of the moment, love of oneself?

  • @salamchetori5022
    @salamchetori5022 7 місяців тому

    6month doing letting go and now I lost my motivations and have no intrest in anything. does anyone know what I should do?

  • @MDean888
    @MDean888 8 місяців тому

    Thank You…👍👍👍

  • @DarkChaos87
    @DarkChaos87 7 місяців тому +1

    Not that simple when you have David Guetta's song rolling in your head... 🎶It's the sound of letting go🎶
    Ever since i got to this point, its been very hard to let go of the annoying sound of letting go, replaying over and over. This one stupid song is ruining everything.

  • @RuudAwakening
    @RuudAwakening 8 місяців тому +1

    Signing up for AAA meetings
    Cheers!

  • @MagicMatt
    @MagicMatt 8 місяців тому

    Thank you

  • @nourali6312
    @nourali6312 7 місяців тому

    Your voice sounds different..??

  • @cognitivetrial
    @cognitivetrial 8 місяців тому

    Useful

  • @nevmedeiros1822
    @nevmedeiros1822 8 місяців тому +34

    Only 9%, that’s not bad

  • @alexpadilla6355
    @alexpadilla6355 8 місяців тому

    Why did it take me so dang long to see this video!!!!!!!!! 🙄

  • @TrentGoss-f3h
    @TrentGoss-f3h 8 місяців тому

    thanks :)

  • @Alphafx22
    @Alphafx22 8 місяців тому +1

    the frequency of love is lower tham joy and peace

  • @z01k1
    @z01k1 8 місяців тому +1

    i am more likely to be in 91% i guess

  • @TrentGoss-f3h
    @TrentGoss-f3h 8 місяців тому

    My family holds grudges from when I was 14. This is why we don't speak.

    • @carolyn9304
      @carolyn9304 8 місяців тому +1

      Just know this is their labels not yours. A friend once asked me to ask the question. How empty and sad is someone’s life where they only can focus on bringing others down? It made me think and start having more compassion. You don’t have to have a physical connection with your family to still love them.

  • @NeerajSingh-gn3hu
    @NeerajSingh-gn3hu 8 місяців тому

    i feel the sensations in my throat

    • @TaliaMichelleWheeler
      @TaliaMichelleWheeler 7 місяців тому

      I feel them in my chest! So interesting how everyone is different.

  • @Aakash23844
    @Aakash23844 8 місяців тому +1

    Peace

  • @roshankhatri8524
    @roshankhatri8524 8 місяців тому

    ❤❤

  • @AbrahamAndHerFriends
    @AbrahamAndHerFriends 8 місяців тому +1

    999 views Thanks for yet another angel message ❤️

  • @Sirach144
    @Sirach144 5 місяців тому

    He is soooooo fine!!!!

  • @rollinstolen7214
    @rollinstolen7214 8 місяців тому

    First here

  • @juliadavis945
    @juliadavis945 8 місяців тому

    Oh I’m early

  • @Florica-d9d
    @Florica-d9d 8 місяців тому

    Wish you to tell us something practical,some stories from your life 🫠✌️