How to Find Your Purpose (in 10-min)
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- Want to finally find your purpose? This video will give you my fav 4-questions I used to go from stuck to stoked! Hope they help you. If you're serious about crushing it this year and applying everything we talk about in these videos... check out how you can work directly with me to create the 2.0 you in under 10 weeks. More info here 👉 www.clarkkegley.com/free-case...
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Want to finally find your purpose? This video will give you my fav 4-questions I used to go from stuck to stoked! Hope they help you. If you're serious about crushing it this year and applying everything we talk about in these videos... check out how you can work directly with me to create the 2.0 you in under 10 weeks. More info here 👉 www.clarkkegley.com/free-case-study?sl=yt-purpose11924
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trying to apply and I cant get through
Please don´t recommend the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator aka 16 Personalities or MBTI test! It´s widely regarded as pseudoscience and completely pointless. Katharine Cook Briggs und Isabel Myers had no psychological expertise. It´s not a scienticically valid test and likely produces a different outcome everytime you take the test (unless maybe if you do them right after each other). Rather do a Big Five personality test. Those have been scientifically verified and are not pseudoscience like the MBTI!
I was at the lowest point in my life and suddenly youtube suggested your content… you saved me…
How
I'd love to hear more about it. Seriously, I'm in a rough spot myself.
Me too.
Ahh yes another narcissist seeking attention.
bro, actually everyone is narcissist? stop acting like that, you are losing your time@@SophiaAphrodite
The point is.. stop worrying about arriving at sucess.. Just enjoy the pro ess of moving in that general direction..
A bit like Lennon's "life is what happens when you're making other plans" 😊
going to the gym must be my purpose. the best place i’ve ever gone
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you cant be happy all the time.
perspective is the key word.
keep it up!
Its a balance
I’ve been on a self improvement journey the last year or so. Hit bottom, had a rude awakening. Audiobooks, podcasts, and channels like yours are the only things that keeps my attention nowadays. This journey consumes me now, benefits my 7yr old son as I have made huge strides in this time. Down 50lbs in 5 months. 34 and healthier than I’ve been since a teen. Facing myself, the tough internal dialogues it took were not easy.
If someone else is on this journey too and needs a sign to keep pushing, use me. I will tell you I was worse off than most and shouldn’t even be alive, but I am. For a purpose now… I am improving myself as a man, so I can RAISE/CREATE a better man than myself for the world to be blessed with!
Thank you for what you do.
Might I suggest Reality Transurfing.
whats that man@@AgentFenix117
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Thank you for sharing. Very relatable. I hope your journey is still going well.
I am actually extremely excited to hear this.i felt you had so much more to share. You and and two other spiritually minded creators help me find the courage to start my own UA-cam channel my own UA-cam channel UA-cam channel! Which I am incredibly grateful for. I am so looking forward to seeing how we can all evolve together. Thank you
Grateful for your content
You are the new generation of self improvement teachers Clark , You perfectly take teachings from Wayne Dyer to Marcus Aurelius and put them together beautifully. Gratitude ✌& ❤
Amazing comment, i do believe the same!
When we get comfortable in doing what we do, it can be scary to make the move to what we think would be more purposeful in our life.
But , I made that jump a couple of time in my life so far, and as scary as it might look , after you make that jump, you would never go back.
FIND YOUR PURPOSE PEOPLE, We all have one❤️💥
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3:36 I laughed so hard at this bc it’s true. “I came alive with purpose” 🙃
When you mentioned the true meaning of enthusiasm, you really got me! This was amazing - thank you!!
For years I have made so many sacrifices just to improve my finances that I no longer even know what I’m excited/passionate about… I feel like a leaf blowing through the wind.
Have you tried journaling?
I’m an ENFJ - A I loved taking that test. It was so helpful to see what my strengths are!
Take the test again in a few month and you´ll likely get a completely different outcome. The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator is pseudoscience nonsense. If you want a more scientifically grounded test make a Big Five personality test.
I always feel better after listening to you! 🙏
thank you so much for your time clark 🥺🙏🏻💕
Thank you for sharing your gift with us. Love your content!
Brilliant ! ...people undervalue what they're good at coz it comes so naturally to them...
Recognizing this in my later years.
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Great video Clark, well explained and really thought provoking! Keep up the positive work and amazing content!
The first thing I thought of when you asked "when do you come alive" was seeing people do incredible things...so silly...like shows where the underdog comes out and sings something incredible on the voice 😅 or the petite woman conquering the Americam Ninja Warrior obstacle course...people breaking records and hearing the story of how they got there. Basically witnessing people beat the odds. I root for the unserdog. How on earth do I integrate that into a life path!? I'm a freakin Hairstylist
Hi, just stumbled onto this. You and this have been super helpful. Thank you. Finally feeling hopeful that I can get myself out of that "I don't know what to do with myself" rut. A huge thank you.
Thank you so much. Found this video right when I needed . I was really lost, tried everything but was not feeling excited about life. Appreciate your video. ❤
I have just started watching your channel. Why do I get chills??? If I think about what your saying if a chill goes up my spin.
Oh wow! I love the Picasso quote. Very inspiring ❤ Thank you for sharing this x
Love this channel. Some of the best simple ideas I have learned are coming from you. With gratitude ❤️🤗
Thank you so much Clark. It’s crystal clear that you have discovered your Life Purpose /Multidimensional gifts 💝/ strengths / interests 🐸 / excitement 🤗 / passions ❤️🔥.
Continue SHINING 🌟BRIGHT 🌅, 🪨⭐️!! 😎
Clark I don't know if you'll see this but I just want to say that in the ~7 minutes of this video so far I've had the THING emerge for me in such alarming clarity I can't actually believe it eluded me for so long. I think you just changed my life.
...and enlightened your consciousness. You can't unseen it.
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Dude, this was sooo good. Thank you for this.
Excellent video. Incredibly powerful points. Cheers to each of you in stepping into your truest and highest version. The world is waiting for your magic to come alive!
Took a break from UA-cam, but I always come back to you!😎🙌 thanks for your work
Thanks a ton! you are one of the bests!
Thank you, I needed this today
Right on time 😊 very good questions 👏👏👏
looking forward to digging, appreciate the VID!
I am excited now!! Ty!
Thank you. This is really helpful!
Thank you 🙂 I learn few good things 😇
I just did the test, wow 🤯 so glad I found this video. Thank you
Hey Clark i gave the test and i anwer was Enfj. Thanks... You are like a big brother for me. ♥️ 🙏🏽 RESPECT
Great tips and questions!
So much love ❤️
This video was really helpful ❤
I am ENFJ too! ENFJs are born leaders, which explains why these personalities can be found among many notable politicians, coaches, and teachers. Their passion and charisma allow them to inspire others not just in their careers but in every arena of their lives, including their relationships. Few things bring people with the ENFJ personality type a deeper sense of joy and fulfillment than guiding friends and loved ones to grow into their best selves.
Omg I am an ENFJ-A protagonist I never met another one! I am so excited to find you. I am going back to school and needing your videos. Please keep them coming. 😊
This was so great. I really appreciate your videos 😊 - fellow enfj here 💪🏼
That was inspiring, as I remain laying on the couch.
Beautiful ❤thank you! I’m still trying to find my Ikigai
I really appreciate you Clark! I did the 16personalities and it is pretty good! It nailed it to my personality just with a few questions! Thanks for sharing! ❤
The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator is pseudoscientific at best. Make a Big Five personality test instead, those are rooted in science and developed by people who were actually educated in psychology in contrast to Myers and Briggs who just "read a book about C.G.Jung" and wrote erotic fiction about him.
I havent seen a Clark video in awhile. ❤
Super content! Thank you.
Off topic here, but I just wanted to say how handsome you look in this vid, Clark. Thank you for all of your encouraging content! I've been a sub of your channel for many years and find it to be so helpful.
Brilliant vid. 👏🏽👏🏽
Thank you 🙏🏻
Clear and uplifting!
I am going to rewatch this video one more time to make notes, and then put it in action. That inner voice is such a problem, it holds me back for so many years…
I am grateful 🙏🏻
Many blessings 🌸
Day by day we must wrestle our internal dragging
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Love this 💭✨
Impressive. I just went though test and I'm INFP-A. So much more self awareness appeared🎉. Preparing to go to college . I'm gonna become a teacher really
Thank you 🦚 🦋 🌻
Very good. Thank u❤️🙏🏻
Journaling is KEY.
Very true, big advocate
Nice set of questions, but to most I really don't have an answer. Not even after 54 years of living.
I did do the MBTI test again, just for fun. And this time the INFP pop-up. In my life I have been several different ones. The I is usually there but also sometimes a 50/50 score. Same goes for the N.
In the past I usually ended with TJ, and now FP. Which is funny, as I am going thru a more intuitive and feeling phase of my life.
But the INFP does also shows my lack of direction. Again something that is also showing from my Human Design, and other tests I did.
Guess some people just don't have a purpose.
Excellent video.
Wow! I’m so glad I came across you. Your like the Tony Robbin’s for our generation 😅 Sending love from Australia 🇦🇺
I wanna do a wine harvest out there!
Great video brother
I literally just want to travel with my dogs, discuss health while traveling, go back to my home and take care of my dogs and health while documenting it all. That’s literally all I want to do. Oh, I’ll add mental health in there. The positive side of it.
Thank you! New sub!
Awesome work.
See you next time, mates.
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Thanks! 💝
Thank u would love to try ur program
I`m 43 still trying to figure ouy what I want to do
Thank you
How do I answer "what makes you come alive" when clinical depression has left me with a severe case of anhedonia? For example, I used to play my guitar 12 hours a day. It hasn't been out of the case for a year. How do I proceed?
Mental hugs to you.
@@wildanimus2559 Thank you so much. I've just reached the point where antidepressants aren't working, and I'm scared. Thank you again for your kind words
I was once in some awful online therapy, talking to someone who didn't understand that I couldn't find any enjoyment in anything. What do you enjoy doing? What do you want to do? The idiot typing at me couldn't understand that I didn't enjoy anything. She then changed the question. What did you used to enjoy? I couldn't think of anything for months but it was the one question she asked I couldn't really answer, and I thought there must be an answer. Eventually I wrote down 'watching live music'. I hadn't been out in the evenings for years, I'd had operations, physical pain, mental pain and had no inclination to do anything. So a couple of years later with only that one idea of something I might enjoy, I bought, on the spur of the moment a ticket for one of my favourite bands from my teenage years who I had never seen. I went alone, having lost many friends over the years but I loved it. Ended up on a spending spree of gigs but it got me out of the house and thinking about things that interest me...theatre, cinema, book signings, city walking tours.
Anyway, my point is that it's hard and it takes time but it also takes effort. Keep thinking about these questions, write down anything and everything until you find that thing that you do love. Don't give up the search. The fact that you watch videos like this means you're open to change, but the first thing to do is get out there, do something. Even if you don't feel like playing the guitar, start small and take it out of the case. It sounds stupid and obvious but nothing will happen unless you do something. I wish you all the best and good luck with finding what you want.
@bradparker9664 I totally understand because I've been there. I well remember the desperation I felt at that juncture. It took me a long time to realize there was no combination of pills that would help. But that doesn't mean I've given up on myself. Individual counseling and cognitive-behavioral therapy were helpful. I'm still on the quest to find alternative means to manage my condition. Love yourself where you are right now in your journey, including the good, bad, and ugly. Don't judge yourself using other people's rulers. Most importantly, don't give on yourself. Much love to you, fellow traveler.
@@wildanimus2559 And much to you as well. thanks so much for sharing...you know the apprehension of just "putting it out there.". Words I needed to hear, indeed. Here's wishing both of us a better 2024.
My bad, my apologies
I was selfish for a moment and focus my reaction in my position, was a reflect
The truth is that I’m really sorry that your situation escalated to this point
I hope everything turns up fine for you guys
My blessings
Great video! I'm an INFJ too :D :)
Superman is here to safe the day 🤙
Hey, Clark. Is there any way to get more clarity on the third question.. I'm having a hard time getting answers in that one.
Where did you get the shirt? 😮
Thankyou
What is a great book to read about self improvement and moving on from relationships?
You know what’s crazy? YOU! 😂
Can a life long learnig be a pupose?
and passion be a growth?
Another good hint on your gifts? The thing that pisses you off about other people / irritating traits, those are your strengths. Confidence for example is mine. I don't understand shy people. Look at your 'icks' and start there. Much love everyone!
Im naturally introverted but dominatley extroverted when i choose to be 😊
4 very helpful questions. I still get stuck as I seem to have a weakness opposing every strength. For example, I'm a good at teaching but I hate working with people. I'm good at art and video editing but I can't sit at a desk all day. It's a constant battle.
Same. I have so many weaknesses that I can't think of any strengths. I want to be a clinical psychologist or therapist, but I don't like talking to strangers😅
Maybe a good place to start is to observe what make you hate working with people; perhaps it's just our thoughts, expectations, and opinions about people or fear of them judging us? All these things can be worked out to allow one's gift of teaching to shine. Designing and art are fantastic skills, and maybe exercising and physical fitness can support the required number of sitting hours.
I agree, first step is to observe one's thought & ask observational questions.
Perhaps you can develop strategy to how you can grapple with the discomforts within our skills.
Ex:
I love talking. I hate writing.
I adopted Journaling as a way to refine my speaking skills & clarify thoughts.
Now, i enjoy writing (still love speaking over writing)
Oh no! These questions make me anxious.
Guys i am 15, i know it might be quite early to be thinking about all this but i have no idea what i want to do when im older or aspirations to work towards. MOCs and GCSEs are upcoming soon and other then revising i just feel as though im not putting my self in a better position for the future, any tips?
Your intentions are marvelous young one.
Your on the right path, my advice seeing how u might not have adult responsibilities yet is to take one day at a time, trust & respect the process of your development.
Similar to Ikigai. ENFJ here too. 👍🏻
I haven’t felt excitement in a long time and can’t actually think of anything. I’m thinking that’s me stuck in apathy.
Do you want a change?
If so, first step ill take is do a self analysis of ur life both professionally & personally. From that point, you'll get an idea or interest or no interest
I’ve never felt excited
Older trying to do this? Got any of those examples?
This reminds me of Ikigai
Everything circulates
Ahhh jeepers in 10 minutes! what a bargain!
What if you have no internal drive? I have nothing come up when I ask what would I do if I couldn't fail? Nothing. I only do things I think other people would like. I am empty inside.
You are not empty by any means!
Perhaps your just have been educationally industrialized that you adopt other ppls ideas.
Just by watching this video & commenting, ur on ur way to having your own answers.
Perhaps reforming the question, practice multiple times until something clicks.
I'm ENFP-A "campaigner" and it fits to a T
I Need All of the help I can get
First step- Start Journaling- helps with getting to know urself
You’ve got a tons of options in front of you if you’re young. I’m 60 now and regret all the missed opportunities.
Can being best version of myself be my pupose?
Its part of it, your adding to the collective consciousness by BEING the best version of urself
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This sounds like the Japanese Ikagai (finding purpose) method I read about recently
Yeah, have u found yours?
@@CannaWine yes helping others in spiritual growth
@rhythmicstu how are you approaching it?
I as well wish to help ppl connect have have their spiritual journey revealed to them.
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Thanks Clark! Great questions! But, sorry, that shirt is not flattering.
So everyone that made it was in basement living , doh😅!
I slept on my moms couch as i built my 1st business