Bad parents are those who blame it on the kid and never ever think they might improve their behavior. A good person will question themselves first and see whats the problem and try to solve it. Werent they frraking worried when he tried to kill himself? Like what he has to do to get their attention? Dont they see he is desperate for their love :(
@What path will you take next people who usually weren’t severely abused don’t understand the manipulation parents use and the gaslighting. He wanted to leave after they had threatened him/ kicked him out. The police reports don’t always show what actually happened.
@What path will you take next not necessarily- I was severely abused and I stayed because my mom gaslit me telling me that if I called the cops etc I would be raped by them. Programming to fear talking to other people about the abuse started since I was born. So, it wasn’t until I was 14 that I realized how bad it all was and that I could trust people…by the time I was 16/17 I was out of the house and left high school eventually to support myself.
@What path will you take next I didn’t have food. I didn’t know who to ask for help. Of course it wasn’t a good choice but it was the choice I had to make when faced with either being homeless or having a roof over my head and food in my gut.
@Maddie 18 you can tell by how they act and carry themselves lol. Acting like complete narcissist and overcompensating to make it look like theyre innocent.
The son is right. Those parents DID do bad stuff to him. He finally had enough, and rebelled in his teens. I hope he DOES stay away from them. They are sick, to this day. They take zero responsibility. Say goodby to them, young man.
Er no, he’s a lunatic. His parents aren’t much better. And before you say “just blame the parents”, then in that case let’s just blame the parents’ parents too. The buck has to stop somewhere.
Dude, I don't belive he is the nice friendly neighbour's boy either... he wouldn't have the confidence, courage and will to try blaming and whiping the floor with his parents in front of the whole world! He probs is very similar to his parents actually
I understand what Stephen goes through the parents are Malignant covert narcisists that do what's called reaction abuse it's where you intentionally provoke a person until they can no longer handle it and lash out.
Stephen’s definitely telling the truth. The way his parent’s are acting are pretty typical of abusive parents. Also when he said “my parent’s kicked me out the day I turned 16”, his mom smiled and said “no we didn’t” and laughed. She’s obviously lying.
Why why why parents have always right what they want to do to their child even they’re killed themm but whyyy whyyy is that they gave both to their children i want the world to change that children had rights to do anything in their life why because it’s their life
Why is Dr Phil making the son out to be the bad guy and not on the abusive parents??? You’re just enabling the predators when you should be protecting the victims!!
calling parents child abusers is a tabboo but being bigotted against kids is not because .. WE SUCK AS A SOCIETY . make parents accountable.. emotionally abusing a kid every day of their is child abuse - there is something biologically deranged about these parents
Dr phil isn't capable of seeing how abusive the parents are , my parents would punch and kick me if it wasn't for me being courageous enough to put an end to it and even after one big fight we had on the street me and my father they still hurt me physically for the stupidest of reasons , if dr phil won't stand up for this guy then I definitely will , this guy shouldn't take it and stay silent about it , use your fists and fight those narcissistic idiots
Live and fight , if life is horrible to you then make it horrible for your abusers , hurt them , ruin their lives , break their properties , damage their houses , don't admit any mistake because they won't
Would you believe a child that says that he wanted to go to the gym? Or a mother that claimed that his 15 year old son smashed the computer on her arm, threw her down the stairs, karate chop her back and threw her into the toilet. Who would you believe?
His reaction to being told no was completely disproportionate, even if he didn’t attack her, slamming her computer shut was ridiculous. He’s no innocent angel in all this
@@andrewf.1598 At the same time he was a teenager, and having mentally and physically abusive parents myself victims of course at a young age tend to act out like that. Is it excusable, of course not. Understandable, I say absolutely in my personal experience.
it's very hard to tell who is the abuser, maybe it's a nest of narcissists where each one of them tries to take control by gaslighting, lying, twisting the truth a bit, you know, all that stuff
So many red flags here. Parents are immediately defensive. Good God, how many times are police to be called to a home before someone intervenes? It’s a wonder that young man was able to survive, let alone cultivate a trusting relationship.
A recruiting depot will solve all these problems...I know...I took my son to one 21 years ago...he went from drug using problem child to the corporate fuel manager for a major oil and gas dealer in Houston... He got the discipline he needed to succeed...
From what i've watched so far, he usually takes the parent's side. Also, the whole concept of his show, it's not exactly the kind of thing any actual psychologist would agree, they're issues people should treat in a safer and more private environment. If it was basically an interview format would be more ethical
Parents narcissistic, and boy getting gaslighted for looking crazy feom the parents who abused him. The issues he has are from his parents mental/emotional abuse. Let alone, the physical, mental and emotional abuse are the worst though.
I was cutting myself when i was 18 because my parents controlled me they did not even allowed me to walk outside but still they couldnt care less when i had panick attacks intrestingly i just cannot and do not want to forgive them but i definetly have social axiety because i was always judged as a kid im gypsy and i got bullied as a kid brutally even tho im a girl bunch of little boys tried to kill me sevaral times ironically i was called ugly but looking back i was the only little girl with a beautiful face and heart as a child so yeah i was humiliated a lot all of my exes were horrible people im all alone i only have my little brother who i live for myself of course and sadly that's all
Boomer Parents Just Like This Waste Your Tax Dollars on Bullsh!r Calls, DRAINS YOUR POCKETS, it’s plain to see these parents are abusing him probably his whole life of these Boomers Screaming Their Way Across every Situation! When They Raise their voices up over him repeatedly, IT SAYS IT ALL
This episode was from 2015. I wonder what career Stephen ended up with? Stephen seems like an immature brat. If his parents are so horrible....then go on your way. What is the point in blaming them now?
The father looks so hurt. The boy is so lying. There are people just born liar and evil. The parents must have struggled a lot through out all these years. They must have gone extreme some time. But calling them narcissistic, just proven how blind and immature you kids are. Get this boys reputation from his friends, neighbors, teachers, that how you know whether he is lying. Not through his own words. Only dumbs will take his face value and believe everything he tells.
You must be a narcissist too if you blame the kid. What parent fights with their kid when they try to kill themsleves or ask for attention and love? He is saying i am hurt and they just defend themsleves, they never ask, omg are you ok son? They are totaly in their heads, never gave love to their own son, its so sad
The comments are shocking 😄 I'm a parent of a kid like this..rewrites history to suit himself. Its painful as a parent to have raised and loved a child from when they're a little baby to find,as adults, they're nothing like you could have imagined. I no longer recognise the person my son has become. We've gone from closer than close to actively "hating" each other in the past yr. Coincidentally he too began a relationship at the same time as things started to break down with us. Never underestimate the impact a manipulative girlfriend/partner can have, love isn't just blind..it can allow the most rational of people to lose all sense of perspective.
When children are trying to kill themselves at the age of 15, have behavioral issues, and are always angry, something is OBVIOUSLY wrong.
Dr. Phil didn't see that. I totally agree with u
Sounds like me at 15
Bad parents are those who blame it on the kid and never ever think they might improve their behavior. A good person will question themselves first and see whats the problem and try to solve it. Werent they frraking worried when he tried to kill himself? Like what he has to do to get their attention? Dont they see he is desperate for their love :(
I'm just 11 and I'm suicidal
Please tell an adult you trust or call suicide hotline.
Praying for Stephen! His parents are total narcissists!!!
Exactly. His mom looks like a meth head
Lol 🤣🤣🤣
Yes, I went through it too. The gas lighting, the rewriting reality.
The only good narcissist is a dead narcissist.
I am suffering through the same thing I'm still struggling to get away from my grandparents at 20
Some narcissistic parents look nice and caring when in photos but behind the scenes, their real nature is exposed.
i should know man i've got parents who believe they're sunshine and rainbows but really they're not
Sort of like some of these actors who are nice out in public or on TV, but mean as snakes behind closed doors, right?
Same.. Treated other people better
The sad reality is that some people only want to have kids so they have someone to serve as their personal morality pet.
Oh they made themselves clear when they double teamed him whenever he spoke
notice how he’s staying calm and she is getting pissed off immediately.. yea no she’s insane
Also, she smiled when she denied kicking him out. That screams “liar”.
@What will take place in 2022 His parents called the cops and he saw it as an opportunity to leave his horrible parents.
@What path will you take next people who usually weren’t severely abused don’t understand the manipulation parents use and the gaslighting. He wanted to leave after they had threatened him/ kicked him out. The police reports don’t always show what actually happened.
@What path will you take next not necessarily- I was severely abused and I stayed because my mom gaslit me telling me that if I called the cops etc I would be raped by them. Programming to fear talking to other people about the abuse started since I was born. So, it wasn’t until I was 14 that I realized how bad it all was and that I could trust people…by the time I was 16/17 I was out of the house and left high school eventually to support myself.
@What path will you take next I didn’t have food. I didn’t know who to ask for help. Of course it wasn’t a good choice but it was the choice I had to make when faced with either being homeless or having a roof over my head and food in my gut.
The mother’s face is just…indescribable
Are you saying she's minging? LOL
She looks like she used to be a pornstar
WOOF is more like it 😂
You can see the cynicism and manipulation on her face
She looks monstruous...
A lot of gaslighting here from his parents. I believe this guy.
Yea wit no proof good job💀
@Maddie 18 you can tell by how they act and carry themselves lol. Acting like complete narcissist and overcompensating to make it look like theyre innocent.
Parents are always good when it comes to denial.
The son is right. Those parents DID do bad stuff to him. He finally had enough, and rebelled in his teens. I hope he DOES stay away from them. They are sick, to this day. They take zero responsibility. Say goodby to them, young man.
I dont get her face. Whys it so discombobulated?
Lol
Hilarious description 😂
Drugs
@FAZE CAMPING AREA thats it. Shes been deflated
Meth
I feel like Dr.Phil is just interrogating this poor kid wtf
THE KIDS TELLING THE TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!
Parent really a good actor/actress 😁 just like my whole family tree act innocent infront other peoples.
These parents are awful
Abusive parents and bullies always claim they don't remember.
They sound like my parents I'm so agitated
I relate to this so much
How are you now? Leys chat
I know his mom is just like mine
@@ariefarief4808 he died
Me too
The mom’s smiling, avoiding eye contact, constantly moving, and attitude are telltale signs of a liar
It’s so obvious he didn’t pay respectful attention to this young man
Nothing worse than parents who are never wrong
Shame on you, Dr. Phil! 😡😡
I think he is very proper and pretty sane given the abuse he's been through. I believe him.
Er no, he’s a lunatic. His parents aren’t much better. And before you say “just blame the parents”, then in that case let’s just blame the parents’ parents too. The buck has to stop somewhere.
Dude, I don't belive he is the nice friendly neighbour's boy either... he wouldn't have the confidence, courage and will to try blaming and whiping the floor with his parents in front of the whole world!
He probs is very similar to his parents actually
Shoot all of em
@@hicrhodushicsalta4382Yeah, most abused children end up becoming like their parents.
She looks like the spider other mother from Caroline
COR aline.
Some people have kids so they can abuse them.
The son's "outbursts" screams 'Help me'
@What will take place in 2022 whatever you say abuser
I understand what Stephen goes through the parents are Malignant covert narcisists that do what's called reaction abuse it's where you intentionally provoke a person until they can no longer handle it and lash out.
I think the whole family is just messed up
Nah. It’s just the parents
It's her parent's
You can easily see how her son react to her parents...
In 15 years old and now...
@Daniel Nelson what? Why would you say that 😕 that's very disgusting
The parents are not being forthcoming here, I'm thinking there was definitely more back and forth than that
Shame on you Dr. Phil! Shame shame shame on you!
She is such a lier
Narcissism is a disaster only person dealing with family having this issue will understand
Honestly, this whole situation is a clusterfuk. Everyone should just go their separate ways.
Dr. Phil is the best man on Earth.
When I first saw this, I couldn’t decide if Stephen was the one lying about the abuse, or if his parents were lying and that they DID abuse him
So now what do you think?
Stephen’s definitely telling the truth. The way his parent’s are acting are pretty typical of abusive parents. Also when he said “my parent’s kicked me out the day I turned 16”, his mom smiled and said “no we didn’t” and laughed. She’s obviously lying.
Why why why parents have always right what they want to do to their child even they’re killed themm but whyyy whyyy is that they gave both to their children i want the world to change that children had rights to do anything in their life why because it’s their life
This comment is stupid in so manny ways
@@littleog7398 oh shut up
@@littleog7398 get the f out of here
literally saying it means that we are lifeless our life is depended on the command of our parents we are AIs or puppets
The fact that he got kicked out at 16, even if it was legal in their state, shows how much of a non-loving parent these people are.
It's not. No state in America is that legal.
My parents are the exact same
I left my parents Iv been physically and verbally attacked by them I stopped talking to both of them last.
Where is the full episode??????😠
Narc parents?
Why is Dr Phil making the son out to be the bad guy and not on the abusive parents??? You’re just enabling the predators when you should be protecting the victims!!
I think the son is telling the truth because who would attempt suicide for no reason
well he is honest about it, so I don't see any problem with the kid.
calling parents child abusers is a tabboo but being bigotted against kids is not because .. WE SUCK AS A SOCIETY . make parents accountable.. emotionally abusing a kid every day of their is child abuse - there is something biologically deranged about these parents
Dr phil isn't capable of seeing how abusive the parents are , my parents would punch and kick me if it wasn't for me being courageous enough to put an end to it and even after one big fight we had on the street me and my father they still hurt me physically for the stupidest of reasons , if dr phil won't stand up for this guy then I definitely will , this guy shouldn't take it and stay silent about it , use your fists and fight those narcissistic idiots
Live and fight , if life is horrible to you then make it horrible for your abusers , hurt them , ruin their lives , break their properties , damage their houses , don't admit any mistake because they won't
Would you believe a child that says that he wanted to go to the gym? Or a mother that claimed that his 15 year old son smashed the computer on her arm, threw her down the stairs, karate chop her back and threw her into the toilet. Who would you believe?
His reaction to being told no was completely disproportionate, even if he didn’t attack her, slamming her computer shut was ridiculous. He’s no innocent angel in all this
@@andrewf.1598 At the same time he was a teenager, and having mentally and physically abusive parents myself victims of course at a young age tend to act out like that.
Is it excusable, of course not. Understandable, I say absolutely in my personal experience.
@@andrewf.1598 his mom could have just scolded him for misbehaving calling the cops is so bad for such a trivial reason
This mother is exactly like mine
it's very hard to tell who is the abuser, maybe it's a nest of narcissists where each one of them tries to take control by gaslighting, lying, twisting the truth a bit, you know, all that stuff
So many red flags here. Parents are immediately defensive. Good God, how many times are police to be called to a home before someone intervenes? It’s a wonder that young man was able to survive, let alone cultivate a trusting relationship.
Them parents lying on national tv thats sad
You know what those parents are just jerks they lie about everything even though they just abused him HOW DARE THEM!!!
Episode Number?
It’s obvious to a psychologist that kids conform to parents
A recruiting depot will solve all these problems...I know...I took my son to one 21 years ago...he went from drug using problem child to the corporate fuel manager for a major oil and gas dealer in Houston...
He got the discipline he needed to succeed...
Can someone tell me the season and episode numbers? I’m looking for a way to stream this online and I’m curious to know how the family is doing since.
The mother looks… skeletonized or something. 💀
I believe him. So thing with those parents repels me.
Full episode please
When you don’t know who to trust 🙃
If you didn't watch the first video of this then you won't wanna trust this guy's parents
Damn these parents are messed the f*ck up and child protective services should've been called a long time ago!
Same!The boy also seems like he is lying.
Did anyone ever find out what really went down?
I don’t like this. It seems like Dr. Phil’s interrogating Stephen.
Where can I watch the full episode? I honestly want to know whose side is telling the truth.
So it’s OK for the son to be completely disrespectful and caused chaos throughout the home what at the parent supposed to do
i feel like phil is taking the parents side i hope he isn’t. if he is then i have lost total respect for him as a person and psychologist
From what i've watched so far, he usually takes the parent's side. Also, the whole concept of his show, it's not exactly the kind of thing any actual psychologist would agree, they're issues people should treat in a safer and more private environment. If it was basically an interview format would be more ethical
Parents narcissistic, and boy getting gaslighted for looking crazy feom the parents who abused him. The issues he has are from his parents mental/emotional abuse. Let alone, the physical, mental and emotional abuse are the worst though.
If Stephen actually ODd wouldn’t it make more sense to call an ambulance
There jelouse of his fittnes and the fact his healthy and young.
What season and what episode is this
What season and ep is this plz?
Knock Knock
Who's there
Me
Me who
Me having a war with my parents too!
Some parents just suck
I believe him
So, the father used drugs with his son and wonders why the kid had mood swings?
she said age 12 he threw a microwave 😭
Get a LIE DETECTOR. Then we’ll see who’s telling the truth.
I don't like Dr.Phil .Sorry for what this guy has been trough
I was cutting myself when i was 18 because my parents controlled me they did not even allowed me to walk outside but still they couldnt care less when i had panick attacks intrestingly i just cannot and do not want to forgive them but i definetly have social axiety because i was always judged as a kid im gypsy and i got bullied as a kid brutally even tho im a girl bunch of little boys tried to kill me sevaral times ironically i was called ugly but looking back i was the only little girl with a beautiful face and heart as a child so yeah i was humiliated a lot all of my exes were horrible people im all alone i only have my little brother who i live for myself of course and sadly that's all
Boomer Parents Just Like This Waste Your Tax Dollars on Bullsh!r Calls, DRAINS YOUR POCKETS, it’s plain to see these parents are abusing him probably his whole life of these Boomers Screaming Their Way Across every Situation! When They Raise their voices up over him repeatedly, IT SAYS IT ALL
Dr Phil is so lost
this guy looks like fred
Wow he is a psycho.. I can tell by watching his parents and dads sad reactions of his psychoness that it’s him. The crazy son. Wth.
I believe this kid
1:18 God damns you mom
Why didn't let him go to the gym??
Why?
Tell me whyyyy?
at the root it looks like he wasn't nurtured and they didn't bond, the rest is fruit of that poisonous tree.
Lie detector test. Problem solved
Look at his moms neck
Hello
I feel like this whole thing is staged.. I'm not sensing any kind of real emotional responses from any of them.
I feel like three of them are all narcissists. I don't believe any of them. The kid is all loud mouth too so it's hard to believe any of them
This episode was from 2015. I wonder what career Stephen ended up with? Stephen seems like an immature brat. If his parents are so horrible....then go on your way. What is the point in blaming them now?
They’re trash yeah
I can’t believe all these comments defending the narcissistic lunatic son. He sounds so arrogant and entitled
he is not arrogant its just the way of talking to an enemy the parents were big bastards to abuse their only child and lock his life off
The father looks so hurt. The boy is so lying. There are people just born liar and evil. The parents must have struggled a lot through out all these years. They must have gone extreme some time. But calling them narcissistic, just proven how blind and immature you kids are. Get this boys reputation from his friends, neighbors, teachers, that how you know whether he is lying. Not through his own words. Only dumbs will take his face value and believe everything he tells.
You must be a narcissist too if you blame the kid. What parent fights with their kid when they try to kill themsleves or ask for attention and love? He is saying i am hurt and they just defend themsleves, they never ask, omg are you ok son? They are totaly in their heads, never gave love to their own son, its so sad
The comments are shocking 😄 I'm a parent of a kid like this..rewrites history to suit himself. Its painful as a parent to have raised and loved a child from when they're a little baby to find,as adults, they're nothing like you could have imagined. I no longer recognise the person my son has become. We've gone from closer than close to actively "hating" each other in the past yr. Coincidentally he too began a relationship at the same time as things started to break down with us. Never underestimate the impact a manipulative girlfriend/partner can have, love isn't just blind..it can allow the most rational of people to lose all sense of perspective.
No matter how manipulative a partner can be, there's no way she possibly convinced him he was choked and abused.
Some parents deserve respect most of em don't
-geogre Carlin
2:18 she’s a liar