I guarantee they've told her why they are upset a thousand times but she's in denial. My mom is the same way. She constantly says 'i never get drunk' because she has to convince herself
Exactly. I had to distance myself from my mom. Relationship is two way if the other side won't work for whatever reasons it's sad but you gotta set healthy boundaries.
Shes so defensive. "If I'm such a POS, why do you wanna be apart of it?" I dunno maybe because they want their mother to not die an early death and are trying to fix this toxic relationship. They want to see their MOMMA again not whatever this woman has become.
I absolutely despise people who are always defensive and in denial. They are the most unbearable people to be around, their deflection tactics and lack of insight truly make me sick!
I have a few family members that are like this. I love them, but being with them is excruciating, hence why I visit them once in blue moon. Dealing with their nonsense is unbearable.
The phrase "You walk in my shoes for a minute" is abusive. It means 'your pain and your experiences are worthless compared to mine, so shut up'. Snobby, entitled, and definitely NOT what a parent should say.
HauntedShadowsLegacy I don’t think the statement “walk in my shoes for a minute” is abusive. I think it’s trying to say can you look at it from another perspective. Can you try to place yourself in my situation. That’s all.
Destiny tran that makes no sense. just because it’s a female hairstyle it can’t be luxurious? if a female had that hairstyle it would be luxurious, right?
Bruh I want mine to go on Dr Phil. She legit is in and has been in California for a month and a half and I am 15 in New York with nothin but my cats and my ex boyfriends money he's been sending me each month.
She is just pretending like she doesnt know. She is in denial. Parents like that are the MOST annoying to deal with because they will sit there and lie about how they didnt know it bothered you after saying it over and over. Shes just trying to justify why she acts that way. If she is buying drugs that require a prescription from "friends" then she clearly has a problem.
I don't wanna get a prescription of a strong painkiller because I'll become a prescription dug abuser but I'll buy drugs off of a friend Lmao ok there mum but that's illegal👀
TIO I had shoulder surgery two weeks ago. I took those oxycodone for the first two days than flushed the rest. If it gets that bad I’ll take some Tylenol and deal with the rest of the pain. I’ve known to many people to OD and most got started on pills after an injury. We need to manage ourselves, don’t let yourself become a addict. Don’t even finish that whole first prescription & don’t ask for more.
@@aaronburratwood.6957 Both of my parents at one point had to take oxy, and both of them took their entire bottle of pills, and used their refills until they were better. Then they stopped taking them. People act like it has to be all or nothing, and it doesn't.
@@ScreamingDucksShotMyMother Right, the science indicates that addiction has very little to do with what you're taking and all about psychological and emotional well-being
@@aaronburratwood.6957 I understand that's you, but there are people who abuse the health are system after they get access. I've known people who get oxy and get hooked. They love the feeling it gives them, so they go back for more. "oh I'm in so much pain" "I finished my prescription but need more, I'm still in sooo much pain" and when that doesn't work, they'll buy it. It's down to realising how dependent you are. If you're prescription drugs are what you need to make it through the day because you are so mentally dependent on them, no matter if it's a painkiller a cough syrup or anything else you could get over the counter, if you have to depend on it because mentally and physically without it you struggle because you're addicted to it, you need to realise the issue and tell your medical professional. Because at that point your addiction will get out of hand and you will struggle to get clean. What I'm not saying is you can't get any prescription. You should take your painkiller and pills, you should take your prescription, but don't abuse the doctors and system because your hooked and don't want to face the truth.
RiverRat RVR there’s nothing wrong with having problems but when you deny problems that’s another problem in itself and is ridiculous, you know when you’re an alcoholic, if you deny it then that’s a bigger problem that can easily be solved if the person would swallow their pride
They've probably tried to tell her in the past why they're upset with her and she just dismissed it. Now she wonders why her children are upset with her. 🙄
'When she drinks like an addict, pops pills like an addict, and feels chronically sorry for herself and expects you to give her a great big blob of pity, daily, she just might be an addict. Her kids need to treasure one another. You can help her kids, but she is responsible for saving herself.
She definitely has Borderline Personality with Narcissistic traits. I have B.P.D so I see why she acts the way she does. She cannot take care of herself so she takes drugs, and alcohol to number her pain.
@@haleyb.1341 My whole family has addiction issues, and mental health issues. Mental illness and addiction go together often. I'm speaking about this because from experience, not for no reason. I used to be addicted to drugs/alcohol too so I do know addict behavior. People with B.P.D. can have addiction issues and narcissistic traits. I'm just stating my opinion from what I see also because I have been through it myself.
First off, as obnoxious as she is, if she’s still got that much pain she needs to be in Pain Management and medically supervised. Maybe she IS in pain, she’s also a drunk and abused meds, that completely negates her pain claim! I say this as a person who has major spine and neck problems including 4 major surgeries and more to come. You’d never know it by looking at me either. Unless you’ve had spine problems you just don’t get it. I didn’t until it was me! That being said I haven’t drank alcohol since! I don’t wanna be the nodding out drunk! LOL! She needs to put the booze down and get proper medical help. If she legitimately does need Pain Management then she needs to not abuse it. Then and only then do her kids need to knock it off, if it’s legitimate. My mantra has become “ but for the grace of God” You know the rest!
Charlie Horan Do you mean cracking? I honestly don’t know, lots of people do it. I do know that when I first started having major pain, that wouldn’t stop, I used to have my husband LITERALLY hold me upside down by my ankles! LMAO! Apparently getting an inversion table didn’t occur to us! LMAO! Thank God for him I don’t weigh that much LMAO! Can you picture that? We’d crack up during cause if a neighbor saw this they’d think we we were weirdos! I’d say if you are having problems, even occasionally, go to an Orthopedic Dr and make SURE there’s nothing wrong. I’d ask a Dr about the back cracking too. Once you’ve got spine problems they don’t go away. SUCKS! I hope you are ok! Best Wishes!!
The war on drugs is illegal and unconstitutional at any rate. Opioids fall into the category of depressant, the same as alcohol, and the 21st amendment rescinded prohibition because it doesn't work. We have a right to own lethal weapons but can't have access to painkillers? What sense does that make?
@@jasonwhite7905 We shouldn't have access to lethal weapons, and we definitely shouldn't have access to medical treatments (opioids) without a physician's order. Otherwise people like this ruin their lives without knowing how opioids work or how addicting they can be. It is VERY easy to overdose.
If any of them live with her in the same house then they should be helping to pay bills. If they work and share a house then it is their job to put in for bills.
She implied it was their fault she drank. She said 'If I'm having a bad day or getting blamed for stuff'. This woman needs help but she has to admit she has a problem first.
Dealing with a mother like myself, besides being an alcoholic, never took any responsibility for her actions, neglected me, etc,. I cut her off last July and it was like a huge weight lifted off of my whole body.
Good for you. It's absolutely vital to take care of yourself and in doing so, if you need to cut out a toxic person that's on them, not you. Same thing with my cousin and people would say "but she's your mother" and try to guilt her. She'd say "she gave birth to me yes. That doesn't mean she was a mother". Now that she's married with a family there is no way she'd let that horrible person back their lives.
shes numb. she feels nothing the numbness allows her to push everything in a dark place to be forgotten or not thought therefore she's clueless. this entire family it hurting. my heart is hurting for them.
I grew up with an alcoholic mother who also abused pills. She died two years ago from cirrhosis of the liver, 3 days before she turned 54. This is what will happen to her if she stays in denial.
Is it only me or does every bad parent seem to think they are always right and when we (their kids) tell them their faults they always get defensive and say we are in the wrong :/
She just used the term, 'eat em like they're candy', that's only a term an addict would use, fo everyone else its, 'take them' , and as an addict with over 15 years sober, I k ow the lingo, thatsthe one thing g that gives it away, shes an addict amd needs help, but no one will get help until they want to stop chasing that dragon, one cant do it fr anyone other than themselves
My my, this poor woman is so much in denial. I drink more frequently than her most of the times, but I do accept that I am an alcoholic (not that it makes me better than her in any way). The way she describes it, says it all. What that lady said - that she could go 4-6 days without a drink would be ok (even though I think that that's not the case), but the "I CAN go..." Not "I go...", says it all. She's so clearly in denial. Also the "I DON'T TAKE oxy" and then in the same breath "well, like when my back hurts I take oxy" - if she wasn't in denial and knew that she honestly used these as prescribed, then she would've just said "I take oxy for my back pain exactly as my doctor prescribed it" smh. I feel bad for her. Denial is the devil. She is very lucky to have so many nice children that really care about her and do whatever they can to help without abandoning her. Also it's how she said she doesn't take opioids, but she "only took one last week" and got it from a friend, because she didn't want 30 (also Idk how it is in America but in my country doctors can prescribe you 10 tablets from a 30-pack and you can get it from certain pharmacies (mostly ones close to different hospitals/clinics, who have like a legal agreement with the clinic to do this, I think, and in certain cases get smaller amounts straight from the doctors and they just write it up). Or when you are in really-really high risk for recreational use then they would just search for other, less addictive options for you.
My back hurts too. I’ve been in a few car accidents. But I would rather endure the pain than risk getting addicted. I had another condition that I could not figure out so my doctor gave me some pain meds. When I finally figured it out, I was asked to go to physical therapy so I did. I also use two hard balls and a heating pad. I’m completely addicted to my heating pad. I just leave it in my bed.
Just because you say your having a “Cocktail” doesn’t make it better...a drink is a drink....alcohol is alcohol. So tired of people saying i just had a cocktail like it makes drinking alcohol better! Puh-lease! What’s wrong with parents these days...Grow up and be a parent!
"You're alllwayyss falling back" Uh yea. That's how it works. You're going to fall back when you're fighting your inner demons, especially if you're an addict. Recovery and success is not a straight line. But they can get back on their feet. And when they do, they get back to where they last were even faster than before and they take more steps forward. Criticizing them, being an enemy, is not how you help them 🙄
@@starmanda88 nah the only bullcrap is you putting words in my mouth 🤣🤣 I said criticizing and demeaning them is not the right move. I never said to put up with it or excuse anything 🙄 the fact that those are the only options that come to your mind just shows how small minded you are 😂😂💀
They arent being an enemy, they are expressing the pain she's put them through and has to take responsibility for Her constant fall backs means she cant recover on her own, so this is the help her kids sought
I feel for her kids I pray she can get her act together or they become courageous enough to cut ties with their toxic mother. She honestly raised good looking caring kids I actually kind of feel bad for her because she has a problem and doesn’t really know yet
My friend had scoliosis when she was 7 and had surgery for it by the age of 8, since her teen years she always made sure to work out and keep her back bone strong. If she doesn't work out for a whole week her back feels stiff again and hurts but she never takes medication for that cause she knows working out is healthy and helps in her case. I'm not saying what this woman has is the same but if it is scoliosis surgery she had I'd suggest working out aswell instead of using medication to drug herself
A former addict turned counsellor told me that alcohol is an addicts *solution* to their underlying emotional problems - that they are A) unaware of (it's buried in their subconscious mind, where we operate from 90% of the time) , and B) they don't have coping skills to deal with that problem (Who teaches us about negative emotions and how to handle them?) But having alcohol so readily available for consumption isn't helping anyone in society. It causes too many problems - just get rid of it altogether. We don't NEED alcohol.
I guarantee they've told her why they are upset a thousand times but she's in denial. My mom is the same way. She constantly says 'i never get drunk' because she has to convince herself
Jane Doe how do you deal with it? 😕
Exactly. I had to distance myself from my mom. Relationship is two way if the other side won't work for whatever reasons it's sad but you gotta set healthy boundaries.
@@michele2855 you don't.. you just save money until you can move away
Jane Doe good for you. I wish you the best. You sound sensible 👍🏽
@@trollingmermaids same situation here. we got this.
Mama is as HIGH as the cost of living.
Mrs. Reeves 😂😂
BIG CHUNGUS it’s a joke. Ya don’t gotta suck the fun outta everything, do ya?
Mrs. Reeves your response was brilliant
Mrs. Reeves 🤣 I’ve never heard that expression before. I wasn’t ready 🤣🤣🤣
She has that raspy junkie voice.
Shes so defensive. "If I'm such a POS, why do you wanna be apart of it?" I dunno maybe because they want their mother to not die an early death and are trying to fix this toxic relationship. They want to see their MOMMA again not whatever this woman has become.
👏🙌
It's like she cant understand love
I absolutely despise people who are always defensive and in denial. They are the most unbearable people to be around, their deflection tactics and lack of insight truly make me sick!
Its so toxic. I agree
DeathRow yes. I’m glad my immediate family is not like that
That would be hard to deal with all the time
I have a few family members that are like this. I love them, but being with them is excruciating, hence why I visit them once in blue moon. Dealing with their nonsense is unbearable.
I agree! They need to just admit what they did wrong because they’ll just embarrass themselves more if they keep denying facts!
DeathRow so damn true. I am a therapist and don’t feel bad, they do it to us all the time.
The phrase "You walk in my shoes for a minute" is abusive. It means 'your pain and your experiences are worthless compared to mine, so shut up'. Snobby, entitled, and definitely NOT what a parent should say.
HauntedShadowsLegacy I don’t think the statement “walk in my shoes for a minute” is abusive. I think it’s trying to say can you look at it from another perspective. Can you try to place yourself in my situation. That’s all.
My father pulled the same thing on me after the suicide of my mother. They were divorced by the time I was three and never got along after it.
It's not abusive...she's lost her husband for crying out loud!
This, exactly this
RiverRat RVR they lost their father. They’re all in pain
The son has lovely luxurious hair.
I was noticing that too. Gorgeous.
Destiny tran So? OP’s comment still applies
It’s so good 😻
Destiny tran that makes no sense. just because it’s a female hairstyle it can’t be luxurious? if a female had that hairstyle it would be luxurious, right?
Just because he let his natural male hair grow now he has a female hairstyle... Read that again, ignorance is a choice 😂
I’m not a parent but I pray my children never take me to Dr. Phil 💀
Pearl Swirl don’t do what this lady did bail on her kids till there adults and ask for money because she spent all hers
Same here lol
☠️☠️☠️. They want even make it to the phone with me.☠️
Pearl Swirl 😂😂
Bruh I want mine to go on Dr Phil. She legit is in and has been in California for a month and a half and I am 15 in New York with nothin but my cats and my ex boyfriends money he's been sending me each month.
SIS slapped herself and said OWWE 😂😂
Pearl Swirl 😂😂😂
I love your profile pic so much
Joe thank you 😅💕
I am really impressed seeing the mom so out of it, yet still being able to take a drag on her cigarette.
My response to her "Everything is in the past" - "You're right it is, it happened just before you got to the show. It already happened." 🙄 smh
Good one! Thanks you cracked me up!
Ya, my response to that would be "and if you don't acknowledge that it happened and that you're sorry, that means it's still going on in the present."
She is just pretending like she doesnt know. She is in denial. Parents like that are the MOST annoying to deal with because they will sit there and lie about how they didnt know it bothered you after saying it over and over. Shes just trying to justify why she acts that way. If she is buying drugs that require a prescription from "friends" then she clearly has a problem.
Exactly!
'Just step up and pay ONE BILL'. Wow, entitled much?
Hope she gets help...
But srsly look at her son he is FINE
Omg I'm sitting here crying and this comment made me stop. I haven't seen him yet
IKR, he is very handsome
2:30 - you sure we’re looking at the same thing? 🤨 He ain’t no David Gandy y’know.
humixmusic4lyf truss meee😂😂
For real
Her son is so handsome
He looks like Andy gibb
Nunya Bizzz was just thinking that!!!
@@nunyabizzz1135 yep I was just 'bout to say, getting those Gibb vibes!
Daughters have had enough. bless em
Why aren't they more upset about their dad's death, though?
JusticeForNichole they are focusing on the parent that is still alive before it’s too late (?)
@@chennykins1550 He died a year ago. It's like they don't care at all.
@@JusticeForNicholeAlloway What more is there to say about it? The mom is the one with a problem.
I went no contact one year. Very happy less stressed.
Exact same problem with my mom. Very frustrating to deal with someone in denial and lack of insight in problems it’s causing her loved ones.
I don't wanna get a prescription of a strong painkiller because I'll become a prescription dug abuser but I'll buy drugs off of a friend
Lmao ok there mum but that's illegal👀
TIO
I had shoulder surgery two weeks ago. I took those oxycodone for the first two days than flushed the rest. If it gets that bad I’ll take some Tylenol and deal with the rest of the pain. I’ve known to many people to OD and most got started on pills after an injury. We need to manage ourselves, don’t let yourself become a addict. Don’t even finish that whole first prescription & don’t ask for more.
@@aaronburratwood.6957 Both of my parents at one point had to take oxy, and both of them took their entire bottle of pills, and used their refills until they were better. Then they stopped taking them. People act like it has to be all or nothing, and it doesn't.
@@ScreamingDucksShotMyMother
Right, the science indicates that addiction has very little to do with what you're taking and all about psychological and emotional well-being
@@aaronburratwood.6957 I understand that's you, but there are people who abuse the health are system after they get access. I've known people who get oxy and get hooked. They love the feeling it gives them, so they go back for more. "oh I'm in so much pain" "I finished my prescription but need more, I'm still in sooo much pain" and when that doesn't work, they'll buy it.
It's down to realising how dependent you are. If you're prescription drugs are what you need to make it through the day because you are so mentally dependent on them, no matter if it's a painkiller a cough syrup or anything else you could get over the counter, if you have to depend on it because mentally and physically without it you struggle because you're addicted to it, you need to realise the issue and tell your medical professional. Because at that point your addiction will get out of hand and you will struggle to get clean.
What I'm not saying is you can't get any prescription. You should take your painkiller and pills, you should take your prescription, but don't abuse the doctors and system because your hooked and don't want to face the truth.
@@aaronburratwood.6957 you really shouldnt flush pills :c there are disposal places 4 dat cuz it can get into the water and affect people
Denial, denial, denial is all I'm seeing out of this woman.
some of these parents dont deserve to have kids
THAT GUY WITH THE LONG HAIR 😮
Rrrrriiiiiggggghhhhttttt
Nice.😊
Yesss.
I'm sorry, but her son✨... 💛
You're always drunk lady.This is why I never associate myself with people who get drunk 24/7 .
Oh because you're perfect, right? Honey, we all have demons, get over yourself!
RiverRat RVR there’s nothing wrong with having problems but when you deny problems that’s another problem in itself and is ridiculous, you know when you’re an alcoholic, if you deny it then that’s a bigger problem that can easily be solved if the person would swallow their pride
They've probably tried to tell her in the past why they're upset with her and she just dismissed it. Now she wonders why her children are upset with her. 🙄
" I do not take them at all anymore,"...." I took one last week." Ummm??
I would not waste one second if this was my mother. I would just go and live my best life.
Marcy Edwards sometimes it’s the only way she will destroy the family and there family that’s the only way
ALI jamac You gotta do what you gotta do yo. If your parents are toxic and you know they won’t benefit you in the long run. 🏃🏾💨
Me too I'm glad i have a good mom
I did it and didn't look back since
Marcy Edwards it’s still your mother tho :/
This mom is so in denial
'When she drinks like an addict, pops pills like an addict, and feels chronically sorry for herself and expects you to give her a great big blob of pity, daily, she just might be an addict. Her kids need to treasure one another. You can help her kids, but she is responsible for saving herself.
IM AWAKE IM AWAKE
They love their momma so much they just want her well💔 sad
Good morning Phillyheads!!
I'm weirdly addicted to these videos nowadays 😂
She definitely has Borderline Personality with Narcissistic traits. I have B.P.D so I see why she acts the way she does. She cannot take care of herself so she takes drugs, and alcohol to number her pain.
Renee Gardner she’s a narc. She doesn’t have bpd, stop demonizing us.
shes prolly just a narcissist un denial
ღvanilla yoongiღ exactly
@@haleyb.1341 My whole family has addiction issues, and mental health issues. Mental illness and addiction go together often. I'm speaking about this because from experience, not for no reason. I used to be addicted to drugs/alcohol too so I do know addict behavior. People with B.P.D. can have addiction issues and narcissistic traits. I'm just stating my opinion from what I see also because I have been through it myself.
I dont take it anymore. I took one last week.
She seems like a hoot to hang around with
I highly recommend Al-anon for families of alcoholics. Also the book One Day at a Time in Al-anon. They will get support and education.
First off, as obnoxious as she is, if she’s still got that much pain she needs to be in Pain Management and medically supervised. Maybe she IS in pain, she’s also a drunk and abused meds, that completely negates her pain claim! I say this as a person who has major spine and neck problems including 4 major surgeries and more to come. You’d never know it by looking at me either. Unless you’ve had spine problems you just don’t get it. I didn’t until it was me! That being said I haven’t drank alcohol since! I don’t wanna be the nodding out drunk! LOL! She needs to put the booze down and get proper medical help. If she legitimately does need Pain Management then she needs to not abuse it. Then and only then do her kids need to knock it off, if it’s legitimate. My mantra has become “ but for the grace of God”
You know the rest!
E Rust is clicking your back bad for u
Just wondering cuz I do it and I don't want any problems
Charlie Horan Do you mean cracking? I honestly don’t know, lots of people do it. I do know that when I first started having major pain, that wouldn’t stop, I used to have my husband LITERALLY hold me upside down by my ankles! LMAO! Apparently getting an inversion table didn’t occur to us! LMAO! Thank God for him I don’t weigh that much LMAO! Can you picture that? We’d crack up during cause if a neighbor saw this they’d think we we were weirdos!
I’d say if you are having problems, even occasionally, go to an Orthopedic Dr and make SURE there’s nothing wrong. I’d ask a Dr about the back cracking too. Once you’ve got spine problems they don’t go away. SUCKS! I hope you are ok!
Best Wishes!!
The war on drugs is illegal and unconstitutional at any rate. Opioids fall into the category of depressant, the same as alcohol, and the 21st amendment rescinded prohibition because it doesn't work.
We have a right to own lethal weapons but can't have access to painkillers? What sense does that make?
It’s people like her they make real pain patients look bad therefore we don’t get medications we need... (at least in Canada that’s my experience)
@@jasonwhite7905 We shouldn't have access to lethal weapons, and we definitely shouldn't have access to medical treatments (opioids) without a physician's order. Otherwise people like this ruin their lives without knowing how opioids work or how addicting they can be. It is VERY easy to overdose.
I just love how she is like just pay my bills for me like that's their job.
What?
If any of them live with her in the same house then they should be helping to pay bills. If they work and share a house then it is their job to put in for bills.
@@neatznotso7424 Right, but her kids are saying that she isn't paying her bills with that money, she's spending it all on herself.
Love a clueless mother 👌🏻🤙🏻
So many ladies in love with this ladies sons hair 😂💕👏
🙄
Hard to find a man with good hair
Seems as if someone is in serious denial! 👀
She implied it was their fault she drank. She said 'If I'm having a bad day or getting blamed for stuff'. This woman needs help but she has to admit she has a problem first.
Mom does heroin I’ve lived with someone who did it and the way she talks and slurs and slaps herself almost in a sleep state looks exactly like it
My first thought when I seen her smoking a cigarette was that
so a narcissistic, abusive, substance-using mother. And another thing, your deceased husband left you money but you need help paying bills?
She needs to stop drinking
ಠ_ಠ this woman infuriates me. Poor kids gosh darn it.
Why do you have anger problems?
Kids need to move out already 👍🏼
She probably just ignores them
Dealing with a mother like myself, besides being an alcoholic, never took any responsibility for her actions, neglected me, etc,. I cut her off last July and it was like a huge weight lifted off of my whole body.
And my husband’s mother is like this as well. We’re both in therapy.
Good for you. It's absolutely vital to take care of yourself and in doing so, if you need to cut out a toxic person that's on them, not you. Same thing with my cousin and people would say "but she's your mother" and try to guilt her. She'd say "she gave birth to me yes. That doesn't mean she was a mother". Now that she's married with a family there is no way she'd let that horrible person back their lives.
shes numb. she feels nothing the numbness allows her to push everything in a dark place to be forgotten or not thought therefore she's clueless. this entire family it hurting. my heart is hurting for them.
ITS DOCTOR FILL TIME BOIZ WE ROASTING OUT HERE
Fill? Smfh 🤦♂️
Just take a look at the screen.. his name is write there... Phil...
Guys, I think he intentionally wrote ‘FIll’. Choose your battles, friends.
*slaps own leg* oww
Omg 😆 I get it! The son was doing the stewie Griffin bit from family guy.... *“mum....!!!....mum.....mum......!!”*
I grew up with an alcoholic mother who also abused pills. She died two years ago from cirrhosis of the liver, 3 days before she turned 54. This is what will happen to her if she stays in denial.
What a great looking son!
Lmaooo she hit herself and said ow 💀 I’m sorry but that was funny.
N June that part was funny
Am I the only person with “The BeeJees” playing in my head?
Great hair reference 🤣🤣
Take a lot less energy to admit your mistakes, ask for forgiveness & move on. Deflecting, defending & lying is exhausting!
Is it only me or does every bad parent seem to think they are always right and when we (their kids) tell them their faults they always get defensive and say we are in the wrong :/
Drug test me. I don't take opioids... buuut i did take """"one""" last week
She just used the term, 'eat em like they're candy', that's only a term an addict would use, fo everyone else its, 'take them' , and as an addict with over 15 years sober, I k ow the lingo, thatsthe one thing g that gives it away, shes an addict amd needs help, but no one will get help until they want to stop chasing that dragon, one cant do it fr anyone other than themselves
I'm sure her doctor would be happy to provide a lower dose than 30.
Run, kids.
My my, this poor woman is so much in denial. I drink more frequently than her most of the times, but I do accept that I am an alcoholic (not that it makes me better than her in any way). The way she describes it, says it all. What that lady said - that she could go 4-6 days without a drink would be ok (even though I think that that's not the case), but the "I CAN go..." Not "I go...", says it all. She's so clearly in denial. Also the "I DON'T TAKE oxy" and then in the same breath "well, like when my back hurts I take oxy" - if she wasn't in denial and knew that she honestly used these as prescribed, then she would've just said "I take oxy for my back pain exactly as my doctor prescribed it" smh. I feel bad for her. Denial is the devil. She is very lucky to have so many nice children that really care about her and do whatever they can to help without abandoning her.
Also it's how she said she doesn't take opioids, but she "only took one last week" and got it from a friend, because she didn't want 30 (also Idk how it is in America but in my country doctors can prescribe you 10 tablets from a 30-pack and you can get it from certain pharmacies (mostly ones close to different hospitals/clinics, who have like a legal agreement with the clinic to do this, I think, and in certain cases get smaller amounts straight from the doctors and they just write it up). Or when you are in really-really high risk for recreational use then they would just search for other, less addictive options for you.
Everyone saying her son is hot. I dont see it 🤷♀️ maybe it's just the hair lol
Ya I dont see it the hairs ok it's like the 60s
They are obsessed with her spending, but it was her money to spend. Her alcohol, drug use, and behavior is another matter.
Sirena Spades well said and I agree 100%
My back hurts too. I’ve been in a few car accidents. But I would rather endure the pain than risk getting addicted. I had another condition that I could not figure out so my doctor gave me some pain meds. When I finally figured it out, I was asked to go to physical therapy so I did. I also use two hard balls and a heating pad. I’m completely addicted to my heating pad. I just leave it in my bed.
They should leave her alone
She’s thinking she’s fooling people
Atleast mother is doing to her own daughters instead of doing with daughter in laws
She sounds like Angela from 90 days fiance
stewie - mom mom mommy mama mom mom!
Hey, my mom too! Except it was with a machete when I was a young teen and a chef knife when I was in my early 20s
dont know how many times why watching this i said, "so like my mother then"
Lady: slaps her leg
Also Lady: OOWWWEEEE
She has very beautiful children
Just because you say your having a “Cocktail” doesn’t make it better...a drink is a drink....alcohol is alcohol. So tired of people saying i just had a cocktail like it makes drinking alcohol better! Puh-lease! What’s wrong with parents these days...Grow up and be a parent!
Olivia that’s like a heroin addict saying “I don’t inject it I snort it!” It’s still heroin lol
golgi apparatus so true!!!
She spent over $200k on nothing and then gets mad when they won’t pay her bills
They live in her house, rent-free! It’s her life and home! How she lives ( and grieves) is none of their business. They need to move out
I feel bad for her...death can cause a lot of problems to come to the surface
Stubborn, self-centered woman. Beautiful children that she takes for granted. I give her credit for raising lovely children.
"You're alllwayyss falling back"
Uh yea. That's how it works. You're going to fall back when you're fighting your inner demons, especially if you're an addict.
Recovery and success is not a straight line.
But they can get back on their feet. And when they do, they get back to where they last were even faster than before and they take more steps forward.
Criticizing them, being an enemy, is not how you help them 🙄
Yes so let's just put up with abusive behavior and excuse everything because "she's trying" . Bullcrap dude.
@@starmanda88 nah the only bullcrap is you putting words in my mouth 🤣🤣
I said criticizing and demeaning them is not the right move. I never said to put up with it or excuse anything 🙄 the fact that those are the only options that come to your mind just shows how small minded you are 😂😂💀
They arent being an enemy, they are expressing the pain she's put them through and has to take responsibility for
Her constant fall backs means she cant recover on her own, so this is the help her kids sought
why should they sit back and be quiet? shes just gonna keep spiralling if they dont speak up
I feel for her kids I pray she can get her act together or they become courageous enough to cut ties with their toxic mother. She honestly raised good looking caring kids
I actually kind of feel bad for her because she has a problem and doesn’t really know yet
the way dr phil ways what hahahha, “hwhuat” lol hahahahah
We need dr phil on Netflix
Man alcohol 🍸is so gross! Not worth it
THIS WAS UPLOADED ON MY BDAAAYY
Her kids do attack all at once.
God bless you woman sometimes people don't understand your struggle
My friend had scoliosis when she was 7 and had surgery for it by the age of 8, since her teen years she always made sure to work out and keep her back bone strong. If she doesn't work out for a whole week her back feels stiff again and hurts but she never takes medication for that cause she knows working out is healthy and helps in her case. I'm not saying what this woman has is the same but if it is scoliosis surgery she had I'd suggest working out aswell instead of using medication to drug herself
Omg the caption of this video is the story of my mother’s life.
A former addict turned counsellor told me that alcohol is an addicts *solution* to their underlying emotional problems - that they are A) unaware of (it's buried in their subconscious mind, where we operate from 90% of the time) , and B) they don't have coping skills to deal with that problem (Who teaches us about negative emotions and how to handle them?) But having alcohol so readily available for consumption isn't helping anyone in society. It causes too many problems - just get rid of it altogether. We don't NEED alcohol.
“I will sit down and have a cocktail”
Yea, of drugs 😂😂😂
I’m 25 diabetic on mental health meds and pain meds I have diabetic neuropathy
David Lahay Congrats
That was definitely a narcotic nood he captured.
She and my mother in law would be the best of friends 😕
Aralos N and my mother
Just let the lady grieve
“I don’t know what I did wrong but I am drunk a lot”
Her kids are awful. If mine spoke to me the way they do they'd be out of my house
I am also an alcoholic who calls it a cocktail.