‘Why Are You So Insecure?’ Dr. Phil Asks Man
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- Опубліковано 26 сер 2024
- A woman claims her husband runs their home like a dictator. When Dr. Phil questions him about his family's allegations, what does he admit?
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Phil dislikes this guy so much he left the comment section open lol
I love when this happens. It's so rare lol
Denise Radley he usually keeps it open
Screaming 😂😂😂😂
It’s been open for a while
Denise Radley fr tho
Hes a textbook narcissist. Talks about her depressed child and he responds, i was depressed teenager too. What????
My mother said that to me. She also said, when I was suicidal following a date rape: ok Al! I'll go get my gun and we can play Russian roulette!
Psycho. Complete psycho.
@@allisonfick7748 I'm so sorry to hear that and happy you're alive.
Lol I’d punch my depressed teen
@@allisonfick7748 Those of us that survived psychotic mothers/fathers and dysfunctional families, come out of it as strong men and women that wont take any bs. I know I dont know you but I am proud of you for surviving that. Keep being strong sugar!
@@allisonfick7748 I'm so sorry you had to experience that. As a fellow rape survivor, I am pleased you have come through it. Keep strong xx
“She had depression.”
“Well, I had depression too!”
Holy narcissism Batman!
Katrina Yarbro my parents died when i was only 8 years old...
Katrina Yarbro I’m absolutely Cheddarfied
Katrina Yarbro how dare you bring batman into this lol
My parents in a nutshell.
They have everything I have apparently.
And if I do something good, it's apparently all thanks to my father. He gave me my good genetics and talents 🙄
Ethereal System Sounds like a very challenging situation for anyone to be in. Yup that sounds like textbook narcissism. If you think you're in a difficult position, that's because you ARE being put in a difficult situation. But hopefully your life gets better ... Stay safe :)
"that's his version too"
next sentence: "he does'nt even remember the incident"
Hahaha I was scrolling waiting for someone to call that one lol 😂
I noticed that too
What a disgusting excuse of a father.
hi knight. btw wobba wobba
A disgusting excuse of a human in total.
JODisHere ??
And she’s a disgusting mom, using dr. Phil has a platform for attention. Send them both to jail
Jleggs ok boomer
The guy is just an arrogant, stubborn teenager inside
hi freecko. btw wobba wobba
@@JODRecaps my dude, why you're everywhere?!
@@freeckotreecko look at his channel lol
Yes. All I can think is how much he acts like a 14 year old boy would.
Who probably listens to Limp Bizkit. Or really baggy pants sounding metal or something.
“Because he’s not yelled at all the time he pissed his pants” 🤦🏾♂️.who yells at anybody or anything all the time?period.he’s a control freak 😂
B-Y Been Him Man.. if you’re yelling at everyone you gotta have some extra energy you keeping somewhere. Me yelling at anyone for just 5 minutes hurts.. Hurts physically and quite honestly mentally. I hate yelling at people, just like I hate being yelled at. Might be a big control freak if you’re first instinct is to yell and deflect the conversation, like this guy.
When a narcissist marries a co-dependent passive-aggressive partner, it's always a sh--show.
Mom: “she was depressed at the age of 13”
Father figure: *comebacks* “I WAS DEPRESSED AT THE AGE OF 13 TOO”
NARCISSIST
🤣🤣🤣🤣 well i mean...he is sorta right lmao
This guy is narcissistic.
He really thinks he's being attacked by his own children. Come on. You're grown.
He knows he’s not. He just uses that because it’s convenient
@Ruben Feneser he slammed his daughter though
@Nenethegreat W and why did you answer back at your mother for 2 hours? Why didn't you have respect for her? Even if you didn't agree with what she said just say okay and move on. Can you imagine your 11 year old child yelling at you for 2 hours? Come on
@@CaSama we do not know the reason, probably this Mother was really very rude, selfish and lived only her own authority and views. Every story has 2 sides, but probably this girl tried To persuade her Mother and take care of her feelings and needs better.
@@CaSama Why is it relevant? If an 11 year old can come up with a 2 hoour long argument then maybe they might just be in the right here, bud. Also, parents should never act physically on their children and there is NO excuse
This guy speaks like onision
Arts & Crafts Yikes your right
Arts & Crafts YES.
Textbook narcissist
*Pulls out Kombucha on stage*
Arts & Crafts oh boy here we go
This guy can write a book with his excuses😂
Moments that prove he's an unstable mental case:
0:29 "it's his version too" in the same breath as "he doesn't even remember"
2:25 "I was depressed at 13 too" which is totally irrelevant
3:50 him cursing at his child because his child cursed
Logik
This guy actually thinks if he yammers on long enough, he can justify his abusive behaviour. He just admitted to screaming at his kindergarten-age kid and scaring him so much he PEED HIS PANTS. The fact he didn't then and doesn't now acknowledge that as a HUGE PROBLEM just goes to show what an abuser he is.
hi zammer. btw wobba wobba
JODisHere u tryna get ppl to watch ur videos lol
They always have an excuse.
“He doesn’t even remember it!” Well probably because he dissociated from those interactions to continue onward. Jesus Christ, what a mess. Pathetic excuse for a man.
Trump Twin
He needs lots of therapy, preferably in prison considering what he's gotten away with.
What about her? No prison for physical abuse? For letting his son sell drugs?
No double standards at all, hey!
He's a narcissist, nothing can help him. He doesn't believe he has done anything wrong
Mark Lawson why do you have to bring politics into this🙄🙄
Truuuueee
She should also done something, helping her kids, left that house and move away from him or something. She knew everything!
The fact that this man was such a narcissist “ Well I was going through depression at the age of 13 too.” Okay but she was referring to YOUR daughters health smh bless her heart
Lol
l love how all the abusive narcissists are always like "well I don't remember/I don't recall!"... My mom was like that too
Everything is Everybody's fault its never his
Its like the ABC of deflection
I have dealt with many of these types, .. so afraid of or desperately seeking to avoid responsibility, blame, in every aspect
Even avoiding accepting blame for the little things ..
I missed the memo sent out that admitting to eating the last of the loaf of bread was a crime punishable by death or something,
These people can be in an elevator with one other person, fart, and blame the other person
hi Lauve. btw wobba wobba
Everything is Everybody's fault it's never hers.
@@mahmoudsalah6418 Definitely
This guy turns my stomach. He taught his daughter that adult behaviour is violence. What a monster.
All you need to be self confident is love
@@marie-heleneallesiardi4989true, but a woman’s love map starts with her father. If her father is abusive and belittles her, her way of looking at men will be silvery flawed and damaged. That poor girl! 😢
This man sparks a level of anger in me and I can’t deal with it
Talk about gaslighting. What a real POS. He's always the victim. Every once in a while it's not a bad idea to leave someone stuck in a room with a bigger and worse version of themselves. 😉
“Well I was going through depression at age 13 too” was that an attempt to make us feel for him- this man is absurd
I think that sounded cleaver in his head
I laughed when he said that lmao
lmao she is 13, she is not depressed, at that age you dont know wat being depressed is lmao
@@enriquesuarez7113 you don't know jack about 13 year olds.
"I was going through a depression when I was 13 too" omg I know this type of dude. Narcissist slash sociopath. Cant see children as children
No he was stating that he was going through depression at 13 too. That most people do go through emotional problems when they’re developing hormones as a preteen ,young adult. You can hear in his tone of voice, that it’s not an excuse for her behaviors.
@@ysabelgodi6955
I think what he meant is that he thinks that his daughter was mistaking her period of teenage rebellion for depression which is absolutely disgusting on his part.
He was basically saying that his daughter did all of this for attention...God I hate this type of people so much.
Just talk with your kid, maybe she was suffering from something very serious.
If gaslighting were a person, that man would be it. He seems like he would murder the entire family. I hope Dr Phil got them the help they needed.
He has no respect for others! he’s dangerous and need to go to prison ASAP!
People are saying “she shouldn’t have married him,” literally there are people who end up changing and showing their true colors once they’re married or in a committed relationship because they know it’s going to be harder to lose the person that they’re with.
Sana S mom chose to stay and raise her children in this environment
Not true. They just missed the red flags. People never 180 their behavior with the blink of an eye.
USERNOTFOUND Although that is true, on the other hand narcissists are master manipulators. He probably got his way out of every red flag
Agreed. People do change once they’re in the marriage. Once those vows are said and you live together things can go downhill so fast.
USERNOTFOUND have u ever heard of psychopaths? Lmao it is possible
When people don''t stop childhood bullies, they will continue until jail stops them.
Even then, jail won't fix him, if anything he'll probably be worse.
hi Danielle. btw wobba wobba
JODisHere shut up about wobba wobba it’s prolly ain’t that good a video yo
@@JODRecaps stfu
@@JODRecaps who are you i see you in multiple comment sections
This man is INSANE how does he even HAVE a family
The person saying the words always forgets. It's the person the words are spoken to, that's burdened with the memory.
He doesn’t sound like the kind of guy who would be calling in his wife when he needs help disciplining his kids.
Erin Flick yeah calling her to not intervene
It pisses me off how the mom acts all self-righteous. She let him abuse those kids for years. If you stand there watching a man scream and choke a 4 yr old child, you are just as evil if not more.
She was/is getting abused just as much as the kids were. I know it seems simple to think 'if i saw someone do that to my kids i'd leave' but it is much more complex than that.
Jen - Jen they remind me of my parents it’s so upsetting how so many parents allow this to their children
Jen - Jen She was getting abused too
What an ignorant comment
Amz96 exactly
Lol this is literally my father. Proud of that girl for speaking out. It gets better!
Believe it or not, there’s a lot of men walking around that think like this and talk like this and as are delusional as this. More ppl are just good at hiding it or hiding behind a fake image.
Or don't go on to Dr Phil
The funny part is that he’s the same type of guy to talk about what a good guy he is and how women don’t appreciate him because he’s “too nice.”
My stepdad
He wasn’t doing those things because he was insecure, he did that because he enjoyed the feeling of power and domination. He’s babbling here because the idea of his actions being known by the world is the most terrifying thing in the world.
.
Narcissists hate being exposed for who they truly are
That’s a trait of a sociopath.
He enjoys the feeling of power and domination BECAUSE he is insecure, which is like you said why he is terrified of everyone knowing the monster he is because people no longer fear him, but are disgusted by him.
Jen - Jen
Abusers are so used to rewriting the story in their own head they think everyone else will believe it too.
@@LAinAustralia exactly. It's funny yet sad and scary how much they believe in their own justification for abusing others that they honestly expect everyone else to agree with it too.
“What happened was...” that’s a filler so that he can think up lies
He has answer for literally EVERYTHING. He must be exhausting to live with 😩
"She was suffering depression at the age of 13."
"I suffered depression at the age of 13 too!"
... the beast did not-
Every one can see right thru this guy. It doesnt take a PhD to tell how narcassistic he is. And saying his daughter is a "control freak"... Pot, meet kettle!
Debbie Rice the apple doesn’t fall from the tree
This is what happens when adults with a child mentality have children. Children raising children has GOT to stop!
I wonder what his relationship with his father was like. Probably also abusive.
This has been so exasperating to watch. I forgot the video was only four minutes long. I've had to pause several times to mentally recharge. I feel for his children. 😪
"Well I was going through a depression at the age 13 too" I have no idea how Dr Phil has been able to stop himself from slamming a chair over his head.
why they got married at first place, man like him should be single forever
Because he has a few flaws he should never be able to work on them???
What about the mom? She should not "be single forever" too? For physically abusing her kids, letting her son sell drugs?
He's ugly on the inside, she's ugly on the out
Expod how can he work on himself/his flaws if he doesn’t acknowledge that he’s done anything wrong?
@@ericaschaidt8588 Damn, 2 minutes in and your comment already has a like! I'm sure you didn't like it yourself!
That said after watching more I agree, he seems incapable of introspection and both parents are really bad parents in that case.
@@fl260 they both definitely need to work on themselves and in order to do that they need to be honest with themselves and as you said practice some level of introspection.
Oh he is THAT guy.
Kid 1 hits Kid 2.
Kid 2 cries.
THAT guy hits Kid 1 while shouting "We don't hit people!"
His soul was damaged as a child and now he damages other souls. How very sad.
He has an explanation for everything it's unbelievable how much he's in defensive mode and can't assume his decisions
This man is more of a child than his children.
It hurts my heart.
But she is still in the house with this man with your children so who is the crazy one. Leave with your children and get a great psychiatrist for you and your children to get pass this trauma.
Deana Wells agreed
Do you think money just grows on trees and people pick it when they need to get out of abusive relationships?
@@jacencade4019 money is not the issue when it comes to your life idiot
@@damien1781 actually it is
@@pinkpugginz no it's not, I ran away with a few dollars in my pocket and took a bus to run while my ex was at work. No amount of abuse should be tolerated over money, gather your few belongings and leave period. LEAVE YOUR POSSESSIONS IF YOU HAVE TO, YOU WILL ONE DAY GET MORE !
This is a rare time where I hope Dr Phil gets this guy what he deserves
He seems so proud of himself when he admits to being arrested
She shouldn’t have married him and had kids when he was like this. Bringing kids into a relationship that was already toxic when she had an affair on him prior to having kids is just selfish. Both are as bad as each other.
Yes exactly.
hello Zara. btw wobba wobba
@@JODRecaps wobba wobba
It's so easy for us to say "she shouldn't have married him" when we aren't the ones involved in the relationship.
Cat Mac oh stop if he was like this from the beginning she should’ve never stayed AND had kids with him.
“Dr Phil, I have a long winded answer to any and every question you can ask.”
Edit: this guy has the most amazing memory when it comes to the failures of everyone else.
He lies so much, he's actually believing his own lies... What a sad life
Daughter is "acting like an adult", so that gives him permission to grab her? Adults don't grab hold of one another.
The fear of ending up married to a man like this has kept me from ever marrying. Unfortunately, my own father was no better.
Judith Neeley you just have to find the good ones they are out there! My husband actually had father like this and his both parents are drug addicted. His father beat his mother all the time. They are now out of his life for the most part and my husband is the sweetest man ever never hurt me in anyway so find a good one!
They aren't all like this
@@EatBeets maybe you are an abuser.
Judith Neeley - I was in a 12 year marriage with an abusive woman. She left many injuries. 5 years of self work, I was able to build the trust to date another woman who is the very opposite. The point of the story, is not all men or women, are abusive. We all deserve love.
My father was a narcissistic abuser as well, so I can understand that fear. And don’t let ANYONE tell you that it’s irrational!
That is one angry dude. You can see it boiling and boiling.
Dude has a whole lotta ANGER inside. He needs help or I feel like this family could be in trouble.
You can see his smirk when he lies about not saying "if she kills herself to not make a mess"
Wow, classic narcissist. It’s amazing how they have a perfect recollection of events to excuse their behavior. He is exhausting to listen to. They all need therapy and distance.
My mom is like this. Okay she's not nearly as bad as this, but it is frustrating.
Dr. Phil: If I need your help, I know where you will be
I'm dying
Dr Phil is so god damn alpha every time.
hi Wolfpack. btw wobba wobba
@@JODRecaps What? Bruh What are you even saying?
Wolfpack 101 are you dying of laughter because Dr Phil is right on or do you mean you have a terminal illness? I’m sorry if that’s the case. I hope it’s not.
@@kayesguineapigs laughter
Thank you Dr Phil for everything you’re doing for mental health! Your videos have helped me understand my past traumas so much better! 🙌🏽
"Thats his version too.....he doesn't even remember the incident"......This guy is the worst.
Blame the mother as well she's kept these children in this abusive household both parents putting them in danger
Yeah, but don't blame her for physically abusing the kids and letting the son sell drugs.
All blame should only go towards the man. Always.
@judi Just like abusive mothers. We can go around in circles all night that way!
@@fl260 It's not about the gender, you stupid idiot. It's about the fact the mother is a victim while the father is an abuser.
Would have been the exact damn thing if the roles were reversed.
Go get your frustration elsewhere.
@@petitesayo4542
You can tell very easily that mom is no angel in this situation.
Am I the only one that feels this show and them laughing will make him more violent towards his family like I’m scared for them after this show
Nope, you're not alone. Having him on this show was AS terrible, in its own right, as them being a family in the first place. At the very least, it should've been a show without the audience. I feel the audience is just a distraction and serves more to instigate drama.
Yes, Dr. Phil should really stop having an audience when these types of people are on and put them in an environment where they aren't playing to the crowd.
I dont understand why DR Phil is still on the airwaves. He has no sympathy at all and no remorse...
Sadly, I can relate to this. Me and my brother were terrified of our abusive mother when we were kids. Luckily, my mom got better and became an actual parent in my adult life.
It would be awesome if the Dr Phill show started airing the whole episode on UA-cam, not this 5min here & there.
PLEASE Consider it‼‼‼
God these poor children have no choice but to be damaged with these “parents”.
So....If he talks fast with his excuses, he's not abusive? Pathetic.
When his wife said "you're exhausting"... it was a perfect description of watching this guy try to wriggle out of his failures as a father and a man.
This guy is the type of guy to dent someone’s car right in front of them and tell them he didn’t do it.
This guy seems to be comparing his childhood to his kids childhood it's weird
C T:: Well, throughout his narcissistic demeanor, he proves he was obviously abused & bullied by his father/parents, yet the same -and most likely WORST scenario w/his family-the wife as well, hence why she is weak & an enabler for his abusive behavior towards her... For her to have such low self worth & esteem -which she verified by saying, when he told her she didn’t need to work for the last 19 years, which also proves the evidence of her passiveness w/his abuse of her indeed too!! He needs to be locked up & the key thrown away - what a complete worthless example of a human being that he could subject those kids -HIS OWN FLESH & BLOOD to such horrors as lil kids & still be trying to justify away his behavior - ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTINGLY PATHETIC!!!!!!! 👎👎👎👎👎😡😡😡🌀😓😓😓🌀😭😭😭❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️
Hes got an answer for everything
This is SO fascinating and sad at the same time.
I was fortunate to never have experienced this type of interaction growing up (I was the oldest, male and had two sister's, one 2 years younger and one 12yrs younger).
Our first is a daughter, now 24, college graduate and a son, 21 and a college senior.
We never have had any issues, profane language, yelling or even spanking etc.
My daughter is on her own and my son is so organized and responsible, I feel inadequate.
I don't know how it all happened.
We did a "ton" of family activities. They were home schooled through 6th grade with public schools the rest of the way.
We did family tent camping starting at 8 WEEKS, I don't know what possessed us! My daughter "aged out" at fifteen (her eyes "rolled back" in her head........nothing MORE embarrassing than to be seen in public with one's parents and younger brother).
We did a lot of hiking, picnicking, bicycling, Cub and Boy Scouts, downhill skiing, local state day trips, little league baseball, our daughter was a "swim-aholic" doing the whole cub swimming racing thing (HER idea! "legalized child abuse"). Not our son, hated swimming, too cold.
Our son ran high-school varsity x-country and downhill ski racing, tennis team (both my wife played tennis) and was in most of the theater productions and made it to state drama competitions (Wis.)
My daughter started organized choral singing at age six through a local university, eventually singing with the Milwaukee Symphony Orchestra Chorus as jr. in high-school (the only one in the chorus of 120).
She sang through college and still is.
Both started on band instruments through home school groups in 4th grade. Continuing through public middle and high-school (State Division AAAA band marching champions). Learning clarinet was not their idea, I had a clarinet/sax studio for years, they had no choice).
Both attended one week summer music clinics run by the UW-MADISON music dept. (for the last 90yrs) through high-school).
My son entered college as an applied physics major, played in the 475 member university marching band, the largest Division Three marching band in the country.
He went to the "DARK-SIDE" last year, his idea, and is a music ed. major.
That's our "story", so it's difficult to comprehend being in a family dynamic that results in such dire situations. I guess we "lucked out".
I am SO impressed that their kids are such beautiful and pure human beings. I know the son struggles with drugs, but I don’t even think I would have survived a father like this. The strength that they have - WOW!
The lady is just as bad if not worse than the man surprisingly
The fact he has to justify EVERYTHING
She is justifying everything too though. How come you're not seeing that side? Weird heh?
Expod who is she ?
He has the mark of Cain, the first murderer over his brow.
Dr Phil drags people effortlessly. It’s amazing.
I’m so glad I left the man who treated me like that
This guy just about has "manipulative liar" written across his forehead
This woman deserves a medal for being with this guy for so long.
How many times did that dude say "incident" and "Situation"
Wait how is cussing yelling and being irate "acting like an adult"? And treating them like an adult mean physically grabbing them getting loud back and trying over power the other person.
But I do believe the part about his daughter acting like an adult.
JUST LEAVE THE GUY. THE mother could walk away forever since he got arrested but she choosing to stay with him.
You get what you allow.
Unfortunately, the children also get it. I will NEVER understand a mother that doesn't protect her children at all costs.
i’ve never seek someone as unreflective as this person
He aaaaallways has to explain something
The way he has an excuse ready for everything says it all.. the man needs some serious help and I hope he can get it.
Lmfao he’s a great story teller though gotta give him that
He actually thinks no one can tell that he is lying...
I think he just doesn't know he is lying at all
he’s so deluded, he thinks he’s right
This is how deranged he is; he really, truly believes the stories he tells! He couldn't possibly be wrong in thought or in deed so it has to be someone else's fault. He has an explanation for everything, and it all is slanted towards him being the 'good guy' and everyone else being stupid, lazy, disrespectful and out to get him.
It's not that he doesn't think anyone can tell he's lying. It's that HE doesn't even think that he's lying. He literally believes every single word he says. To him, everything he is saying is the truth.
This mother makes me as sick as the father does. Both victims in their minds and neither one puts those kids ahead of themselves.
he acts like I did when I was 9 and tried to justify why I punched my sister
So what do you do when your child yells at you?
A: remain calm to level the situation
B: manhandle your child and get physical and let yourself get angry
See how he twists the story in all the damn directions and then manipulates it later on? That’s a true narcissist and this woman needs to take her children and herself away from this manipulative and poor excuse for a father and get them away from the mental, emotional and physical abuse that is involved
This man’s insecurity is actually tragic. It’s so obvious to me how afraid he is that the truth about him is he’s worthless. Narcissists like this make themselves unbearably toxic for others to be around so they are so hard to help, but they are suffering deeply and that’s so transparent in this man :(
The “your exhausting” at the end is lowkey my mood, like I’ve never felt so disinterested in listening to a person speak in my life
The question is why is this lady still with this man if its that much of a problem🤔
“Identify as a controll freak” by whom a kindergarten teacher just wow
Skyler Muyskens Control freak is not a diagnosis nor does it make you an attention seeker either. This guy is all sorts of crazy
Has every sign of narcissism.
I hope his family heals from all this.
Narcissists leave life-long damage for those they abuse, I have been a victim of narcissistic abuse.
I have ZERO sympathy for narcissists.
Good luck in prison dude because I’ve heard prisoners hate people who hurt children.
Narcissist:"He doesn't even remember the situation!"
Me: Boy we all wonder how that happened.
“So it’s a yes?” “no but there was a situation” BOIIIIIIIIIII
I have a sister like this YOU CANT TELL A NARCISSIST ANYTHING BEST THING IS JUST TO LEAVE AND DONT LOOK BACK THATS THEIR DEMONS NOT YOURS