Better Intimacy For Her, Better Sex For Him & Vice Versa | Amy Color | TEDxStanleyPark
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- Опубліковано 4 кві 2018
- Sex is not intimacy. How can you be a great lover and have an intimate connection? How do you increase relationship and sexual satisfaction? What is an orgasm and what does chocolate have to do with it? Can you save a sexless marriage? What’s the difference between porn, masturbation and reality? How do you manage resentment, stress, kids, affairs, trauma and sexual challenges? Can you connect physically without just talking about it? Amy Color’s answers educate and inspire. Intimacy Therapy Coach, international trainer, clinical supervisor, Amy Color has defined the science and sound of intimacy. She’s created practical solutions based on decades of research with proven results. She shares her recipes for physical and emotional intimacy that foster deep secure connection in a respectful and entertaining way. Amy@amycolor.com wants everyone to feel sexually confident. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
1 Mmhhmm
2 Hero hold (say/do nothing else)
3 Follow requests with "for me"
4 mutual games
5 anticipation
6 mmhhmm can help bring either or both partner/s back to the moment
7 read and express pleasure
8 keep curiosity alive
9. follow her channel to stay in touch 😘Thank You for sharing your notes! Extra liquorice ~ for you! ❤
Dude she was dropping bars left and right! Absolutely insane metaphors
Thank You for picking them up 'for me'!
her rythm, her different tones, volume, jokes and great information made this ted talk one of the bests I've listened to
"Change her mind and her body will follow"? Love that!
I'm so glad Gina. Hero hold for You! mhm!
Appreciate video content! Sorry for butting in, I would love your opinion. Have you heard the talk about - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (do a google search)? It is an awesome exclusive guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the normal expense. Ive heard some incredible things about it and my friend after a lifetime of fighting got cool success with it.
Excellent video content! Apologies for the intrusion, I would appreciate your thoughts. Have you considered - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (google it)? It is an awesome one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the hard work. Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my GF got great success with it.
Why must everything be about doing things for women. It takes two.
@@jayboddie8744 I help men get 'more' and feel more satisfied with their partners ~ without even talking about it!! I've created man friendly couples therapy/coaching! I would say that is all about doing things for the men!!
It took years to learn these methods and this lady is definitely on cue I'm in love with my wife she is my rock my lover my best friend and sparks nearly every night 🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇
I love hearing this. Lucky lady!! You Rock!! 🥰
Newly Weds......
Good to hear. Hold on to that. It seems to be pretty rare.
@@oldsalt8011 must be
‚M o da amigs die 😆😚🙃😗🌞🌝
She has a voice for radio. Very good program
Janet Holzlohner Yeah she should make a podcast!!
@@MiVidaBellisima Thank You! I'll soon be doing readings of my books!
@Euphora eup Thank You! You have a great comment. I'll soon be recording my books.
Appreciate video content! Excuse me for chiming in, I would appreciate your thoughts. Have you tried - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (should be on google have a look)? It is a good exclusive product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the normal expense. Ive heard some incredible things about it and my buddy got great results with it.
Thanks for the video content! Forgive me for butting in, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you heard the talk about - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (probably on Google)? It is a good one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the normal expense. Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my cousin after a lifetime of fighting got amazing success with it.
It was funny to see the folks in audience who were either very embarrassed or very clueless! lol
Riiiight!? LOL I hear my humor make it easier and less embarrassing.
She slayed! This woman knows how to work a crowd.
Thank You - It's all about the intimate connection!
@@AmyColor mmmmmhmmm! ;)
She certainly does! And this is her true personality. A bright and loving soul.
@@melissajhaynes awww gee shucks. You da best! I carry your laugh and your support in my heart.
Cheers for the Video clip! Apologies for butting in, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you researched - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (just google it)? It is a smashing exclusive product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the hard work. Ive heard some amazing things about it and my cousin after a lifetime of fighting got great success with it.
And this needs to be at every pre marital meeting.
I agree. If you dont grow together you will grow apart ❤
Rarely see such an enthusiastically engaged audience...That talk was more valuable than gold. Mmhmm!
Your comment is more valuable than gold to me mmhmm delicious!! Thanks!!
Yes!! It’s such a juicy topic..have come come across bonding based lovemaking?
This woman is brilliant and talented. Whatever she's selling I'm buying.
This comment is brilliant. Thank you. I'm giving away love and selling books and courses, find my UA-cam channel. ⭐️
Twice on Saturdays. Lol
Great comparrison... to watch football on tv in the dark every day, and than try to play on the field 😁🤘
Thanks! What's a meta-for!? 😁 And remember when there is a foul (and there will be a foul) it's not the end of the game!!
I absolutely love this talk, it has to be one of my favorites and I have watched a ton of TED talks!! I love the humor and the knowledge that is sprinkled all throughout! Thank you so much!
Wow! Thank You so much @Carrie Williams! I love this comment and sprinkles!
Mmhmm agreed!
Hi
Like and agree with you Carrie Engelbrecht.
@@naawkhoornaawkhoor5928 Hi. I see you.
Amazing talk! Not everyone can make this “talk” as flawless as you did. Love it!
Amazing comment!! Thank You!! Books are on the way!!
I totally agree..have come come across bonding based lovemaking?
I wish she was my therapist 😂😂😢❤️
I can be. Let's grant that wish!
@@AmyColor yes please!! How do we make this happen?
Lovely Video! Sorry for chiming in, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you considered - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (search on google)? It is a great exclusive guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the normal expense. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my mate at very last got amazing success with it.
Great Work Amy! A little Mae West and a little Dr. Ruth all rolled into one.
Thank You Victoria! Classics both of them.
All I can say is ...."mmmmhmmm" Fabulous talk, Amy! A great conversation for all of us to share with our loved ones.
Share mhm it's better than talking! ;)
She has a voice for radio. Very good program
Yes!! It’s such a juicy topic..have come come across bonding based lovemaking?
The BEST public speaker I have ever watched!!
The BEST comment I have ever read!! Thank You - the checks in the male. 😋
Your talk was spectacular, Amy! You have developed a surefire way of reaching all the sexes. Through gentleness, humour, and compassion. A great teacher for a great and very touchy subject. Well done!
Yes!! It’s such a juicy topic..have come come across bonding based lovemaking?
@@CarolinHauser thanks to your comment I just subscribed to you and learned a ton! Thanks for that!
wow and wow. That was the best talk on intimacy. I used to make that same sound for years with my wife. I will have to start again. Amy made that presentation so well.
..have come come across bonding based lovemaking?
I'm alone watching this an at the stand I give her a standing ovation .. literally in my room. Excellence is Excellent.
Thank You! Thank You! Thank You for this comment, I took a bow! 🥰 Catch the rest of my excellence on my channel. 😁
It's an honour to have you respond and I'm definitely catching up other works on your channel but you added no links .. links pls??
@@andrewijogi4390 smack that logo!! ;)
what a woman what a talk. we need more of this to place the path to balance in society, the option to do what is right and not to look for oscure things, every thing at plane sight ,doing what is right will keep everything right.
I agree - do the right thing and the right thing happens!! Thanks for this wonderful comment!! Keep It Simple Sweetheart (KISS)
"He can have his lollipop of she gets her licorice"..... hahaha... I love that!!! Laughed so hard!
Riiiiight!!? We know who's initiating now! 😛 Thanks for the comment.
Wtf is that?
@@2011hib Hi. Wtf is what?
I'll trade you. I love licorice over lollipop
@@jimwilliams4088 You're Delicious and Fun!!
Love that presentation style as it makes absorbing your information easy and fun. Ahem...Thanks, Amy.
Amy Color channeling Mae West. Excellent.
Thank You for noticing! 😘"Anything worth doing is worth doing slowly.” -Mae West (and me) 😉
Best Speaker (Comedian) Ever ‼️
Best Comment Ever ‼I make love fun/ny. ❤
Thank You Amy. My wife always bring up intimacy. This actually helped me overstand a bit more.
Reach out for a consultation! I'm happy to help. The world needs more overstanding! ❤️
"The Hero Hold" - that's nice! Great presentation, Amy
We all need a Hero Hold now and again, even the Kevins. {{
I LOVE how you came up with this name, the Hero Hold, makes men feel loved and appreciated!
OMG! This is the closest thing to the presentation I had in mind for my work!! I see myself so much in you, Amy! Much of what you have to say goes so much deeper than what you are even saying...as you mentioned, it can heal trauma and open the door to so much more. This is brilliant! Great work.
Thank You Karen Grove! I know... mmhmm I know!
Damn this Ted talk is so underrated she killed it
Riiiight...!? Thanks 'A' I appreciate your comment. I continue to 'kill it' - Subscribe to my channel. 🙏
Omg WOW, I thoroughly enjoyed this. Her word play is excellent lol
Most excellent! She knows how to deliver a great message and stay connected with her audience throughout!
Sorta like a good intimate encounter. Am I right!? Mmhmm 😁 See what I did there. Thanks for the excellent comment. Keep in touch, subscribe and follow, the book is coming soon!
Her voice & tone of voice is so great
Good vibes = mmhmm!! The tone of this comment is so great too!
I've only listened to 2 minutes of this video so far-- it's great!
OMG! You are a stellar communicator! Learned alot and thoroughly enjoyed your presentation. Thank you.
IKR! Thank You for this stellar comment! 🌟
The first step towards achieving the goal of this video, as articulated by its title, is for the USA and Canada to end the routine circumcision of infant males for nontherapeutic reasons. This step is also an easy one to carry out.
Talk about putting some skin in the game! 😁 Thank You for your comment and sharing this thought. ⭐
Really good talk. She should do stand up!
I can listen to you for the whole day and still not get bored .
Thank You! I could talk to you all day and not get boring. Mmhmm!
Oh, Ms. Amy, you have the wisdom of Gandhi, the cunning of a fox, are as smooth as silk, and as brilliant as the Hope Diamond on the brightest display! The list obviously goes on and on, but your artistry, creativity, knowledge, and intelligence are always amazing -- oh, and you do a pretty mean presentation as well! I miss you!
I feel loved, supported, seen, understood and ready to help the world feel the same. Thank You my life long friends for your consistent support in my juicy uniqueness. I miss you too.
When the camera crew focused on the Asian family I laughed so hard !
ROR 😋
The parents looked bitter like the info was a little too familiar to them lol
... and why are the kids present in this conference?
@@CathyB-qq5tk A common question. There was a 12 year old who spoke that day, her family and friends were present. The parents knew of my content, message, and delivery. I don't think my information was dangerous I think it was a good foundation for conversation and fortunately they agreed.
Cheers for the video content! Excuse me for the intrusion, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you heard the talk about - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (google it)? It is a great one off product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the headache. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my BF at very last got excellent success with it.
I absolutely loved this one! I wish I could have her come to my city! She is amazing.
Intimacy: Into Me I See. Powerful
Right!? Thanks for the comment. 🌟
I love how she conveys all this....
@Adrianna Ellie I love how you commented on all this!! Thanks!!
Yes!! It’s such a juicy topic..have come come across bonding based lovemaking?
Amy, your take on this important yet sometimes 'behind closed doors' topic was humorous and resonated with the audience - Thank you for ensuring that intimacy is out for discussion!
You keep us healthy and I keep us connected.
Thanks for the Video clip! Apologies for chiming in, I would love your opinion. Have you thought about - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is a great one of a kind product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the hard work. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my BF at last got cool success with it.
Fun informative talk. Amy is a delight and full of good information to bring more intimacy and fun into relationships. Well done, Amy!
Thank You @Sheri Testerman! Delightful subject makes it easy.
What a load of rubbish!
So I think knowing facts and understanding each other s problems too helps us a lot and most importantly everyone s problems..thank you for giving this opportunity
Amy thank you for making me laugh out loud and get the message! Your authentic talk was brilliant. We truly got to see you and your wonderful spirit.
365give my 'pleasure', thank you for commenting. Spread the video share the love and laughter.
I loved this talk! So much humour mixed in with a topic that can be so serious. Loved it. MMhmmm
Thank You! I make everything fun/ny. Let's connect and collaborate on something.
Bravo! +Amy Color What a delicious presentation. You wowed the crowd! I imagine the candy stores are restocking daily and twice on Saturdays now. Thank you for your understanding and compassion around a most important subject.
LOL that was funny... or they are finally stocking licorice! Am-I-right!? Thank You!
So true!..have come come across bonding based lovemaking?
Wow, what a fantastic speaker! LOVED the way she presented!
Thank You! I LOVE the way you comment!! (great logo!)
What a wonderful talk! Such an easy formula to improve intimacy and enrich relationships.
I've written the game plan!! Thanks for this wonderful comment!
Laughter is the best medicine! To play and laugh is best
freedom.. ever!!! It brings out your authentic self.... without fear or repreciousions! To be your own self... is liberating and sets you free! Touche ' . Amiee you're a miracle in physiology!!! Laughter is the best medicine so is confidence!!! Believe and feel the emotions... the body will follow!
Thank You for this generous comment. Miracle, confidence, laughter, believe, set you free. Mm-hmm!! I hope you will follow me.
Fabulous! You can see the crowd relax into this as it goes on, truly captivating
Laughter helps! Thank You.
Yes!! It’s such a juicy topic..have come come across bonding based lovemaking?
That's what you call a view with a room. Nailed it Amy Color! A real fun watch indeed.
Thanks Scoop! My favorite view of any room is from the stage, 'is this thing on'? ;)
Her voice
Thank You, dahling. I'm creating audio blueprints, meditation type offerings.
@@AmyColor that's great!! Will be sure to check them out.
Great talk Amy. Very thought provoking and great advice for those that are losing or have lost connection. What you do is so important.
Thank You for the support. I'm so glad there's something in it for you. I'm all about connection - we can always talk about it till later. :)
Thank You. {{{ hero hold }}}
She has great delivery, I love her! Great speaker
Thank You, great comment. I love you too!! ❤️
congratulations Amy on hitting 1 Million views
Thank You my friend. Yours will be next!! 🥰
Hey Amy, That was in one word amazing! You were so calm on stage. You are really inspiring. Was so much fun to watch you speak about this subject.
Thank You Jolanda!!
Yes!! It’s such a juicy topic..have come come across bonding based lovemaking?
Just a few minutes in.. I love her she is great and this is something I've started to speak on and noticed intimacy is KEYYYYY
Wonderful!! Thank You!! Keep speaking up!!
The way she talks is so sensual. It’s amazing.
This got me 😂 “if he wants a lollipop, I want some liquorice” 😆
"The way you do anything, is the way you do everything." 😉
Great talk, and awesome connecting to the crowd. But these tips only work when BOTH partners want it to work. I would say visit and read up on attachment styles. They will explain a lot.
wow! what a speech and how she presented it! excellent! loved it! I have more understanding now!
Wow! What an excellent comment, I love it! Thank You! 😘
Treat intimacy like every new moment, opening all the 114 Chakras, let every emotion & instinct of the sadness that you will never see her again, even to tears, every hug is like a kid wrapping his arms around her waist when she makes his favorite food. I want to be her hero like what I see of John Connor in the Terminator Saga.
Terminator meets Chakras "Namaste la vista, baby." 😂
Love this ! Great information and this woman could do stand up with this routine and be a superstar!
I got a million of 'em and I'm ready!! Send the contracts dahlings!! ☺️ Thanks for the great comment!
Ted talks usually kinda sucks. This is a gem. Good speaker!
This comment is a gem. Thanks!
Such Beautiful way to convey such a complex topic.
She was able to hook the audience and make them understand the concept.
👏👏👏 Wonderful job done ma'am.
Connection is the key! Wonderful comment, Thank You!
Excellent use of timing and wordplay :)
Wordplay is my favorite foreplay. 🤩 Excellent comment, Thank You!
Amy Color knows how to deliver! Very informative and entertaining.
Oh Jacky Thank You. It's all in the rhythm. :)
I wish I could like this twice
Thank You!! 💞 Thank You!! 💞 I wish I could like this comment twice!! 💞
Shift peoples intimate life for the better and everything shifts with it. Of course we'll never know the full extent of our impact but your words and work are making a massive shift. And you're so funny as well! Bravo!!
Lyle as you know when people are dancing to the beat of the same drummer they feel in rhythm with themselves, each other and the world. I hope we feel the heart beats synchronize. Thank You!
The best Ted Talk regarding the subject.
Wow!! Thank You!! Quite the compliment!! Please stay connected and find my channel. I want you on my team all the time. ⭐️❤️🙂
Well done Amy! Such a great topic and amazing connection with the audience!
If I can connect with 2600 imagine what I can do with just one. Thanks Doc!
Thank You Dr!! You Rock!!
Thank you for your funny and amazing talk! Interpersonal relationships are indeed very important.
Thank You. Without them we have no one to care for us or sing to us. :)
Brilliant - no other word for it. This lady should be on national television.
Brilliant comment. Thank You. Although I was thinking inter-national television! 💞
Amy, you are hilarious, knowledgeable and will change the world with this talk! Thank you for sharing Mhm with the world!
We are going to FreeTheJiggle of the world together!!
My dearest Amy, it is too late discovering this video. I am crying watching this becox this is exactly what WE needed to fix our 18 years marriage...
I am now very happily engaged with my new guy, i will always remember your words and i do not want to repeat my mistakes once again. Thank you very much. I really appreciate it
Oh My Dear, I hear this all the time. Score with the new one!! Get my book 'The Huddle' and do the exercises together! And please follow my channel I have so much to share. ❤ Thank You for this powerful comment ⭐
Nice Amy 😂😂
Wow, what a talent and good delivery. Awesome lady . 👍🏿
What a wonderful comment. Appreciating you ❤️ Thank You @Moussa Sandwidi!
Super presentation. Built rapport with the audience perfectly.
Thank You! I walk my talk. 🥰
This is the funniest ted talk
Thank You. I find if I tickle their funny bone people can hear me regarding such a tender topic. 🥰😂
Most of bed problems start out of bed
Brava Amy!!!! You knocked it out of the park with your wit, presentational style and connection to your audience!!!
Thank You Carol KS for your support. I hope to hug you at conference.
@@AmyColor A hero hold? 😉
Hurrahh for this Lady! Easy presenation, her body language free an flowing. I am mmm in all day long.
Hurrahh for You and this comment!! Thank You!! Keep mm-hmm'ing 😊
Amy, Amy! i didn't want your talk to end 😍
Thank You, Thank You! To tell the truth... neither did I! 🥰
Love the message and the humor Amy!!! mmmmmhmmmm
'Edu-taining talk!
XOXO
Thanks Melissa for the coaching tips that were the finishing touches. You're an awesome coach and supporter.
Brilliant!
Incredible presentation!
Thank You for saying so. ❤️
Amazing. Thank you😭😭❤️✨
Ahhh mmhmm mazing - Thank YOU!!
She's great! With her confidence and wit, and the way she looks like, she reminds me of Afrodite, the goddess of love
You're great! May you be blessed with extra lollipops and lots-o-mmhmm!! ~ Afrodite ❤️
I LOVE this lady!
She has a youtube channel!! Yes!!
She is the master of making a dad/ punny joke actually funny. Great speech! "Eat your candy" FANTASTIC!
Thanks for the comment daddio! Got jellybeans? :)
"He gets a lollipop if I get licorice" Too good.
@@jeminacornejo27 🥰
What a great lecture . Terrific delivery
Thank You! What a great comment. Appreciated!! (subscribe to my channel)
Loved this Talk!!!!
Me too! And I love this comment - Thank You!!!
I didn't feel the 19min go by! Your story is so relate-able and funny! Thank you for the inspiration!
Thank You Melanie! Making time stand still so we can dance in deliciousness is a goal of mine. Eat some extra great chocolates! ;)
I heard you say your boyfriend loved it and laughed. Can he hero hold me? Teasing... mostly... he does make the most delicious chocolates in the world!! *mhm*
She’s being sexist and insidious about men!
...now this was truly a great talk!...
...not just the knowledge, but also the way of presentation...
...she should get more time on stage and on screen ...
Thank You ...this was a truly great comment! From your mouth to Oprah's ears! 🌟❤️
Awesome talk! Great advice. Sharing with my spouse. Thank you.
@Nina K Awesome share!! Let's connect. Hit me up for a FREE consult!!
Me too
@@sonalibhate255 So glad!! FREE consults for You and You and You for everyone!! 🥰
Absolutely loved this..
Thank You. I absolutely love You for saying so. ❤️
Great talk Amy!
Thank You!!
The best speaker ! ❤️
Thank You! The best comment! ❤️