In a lot of cases near the end of peoples addiction they tend to not like the life they're living hence what they are doing but cant stop do to addiction...
Nah she’s actually a very good speaker her cadence is extremely educated and easy to listen to , especially when it comes to something this sensitive and because it’s a women she deserves more praise because they don’t have the same speaking talents men usually do the aggression and strong tone
I know it’s good seeing men talk about this, but seeing a FEMALE talk about this topic makes me even happier. I love it! Because I feel like really no women out there stand up to this and talk about what’s wrong with it. I respect this lady right here!
She's making money out of it one way or another. Doesn't seem to be honest or more than all negativist...I'm never eating swedish meatballs again!! Rots the brain!!!!!
I think alot of this has to do with your up bringing and what u expose yourself too.. im 34 n some of the things she is talking about is new to me..🤷🏾♂️ don't get me wrong I've herd of some but, she taught me something new..
Donald Ford absolutely but it’s just crazy to see what the future generation will evolve to and what’s the norm and what’s not. Especially this online fans page thing, girls go online to get donations from their viewers and these viewers actually pay. They don’t know how to interact with one another in real life but online there’s no boundaries.
No, restricting your children will only make them become liars and go behind your back. Instead, teach them the bad about it. And talk about it with them. Especially in there teen years.
This is a very sensitive topic. It takes great courage to be able to carry out this kind of research (without getting addicted to it yourself) and give this kind of presentation publicly. Welldone.. keep up the good work. Your work will transform countless lives positively...
@@luckystoller6171 The world has been manipulated to be backwards. However we all have to work tegether to make a kind loving compassionate world for all.
The first part is admitting that you are addicted. I used to give any reason other than addiction for quitting, I then used to say that I was kind of addicted but not that bad but now I am strong enough say that I am addicted. 10 days without so far.
Notice how expressionless the audience is. You know they were uncomfortable, and they knew exactly what she was talking about. It's not always easy to be called out.
@@anshik.k.t I must say that some of the things she said were worthy of applause or sign of acknowledgement at the least. They, as you can see, are as cold as ice.
I'm sure she could perform a fantastic job elsewhere as well. One where she won't have to talk so much but should still moisten her lips regularly. She could be a great flute player in a Grand Band.
I've seen funerals with a more cheerful audience...but she did a great job addressing such an uncomfortable issue! Although I feel a little sorry for her, since I'm guessing most crowds she talks to are too awkward by the topic to give a laugh at any of her jokes, kind of like this one
I have a guess why this happened. I am living myself in Gothenburg for a few years now and have to admit that Scandinavian audience is a bit cold. Not because they don’t enjoy it but that’s a part of mentality 😊 They less expressive.
@@iandres2394 Yes. Tons of changes. I stopped lusting over women. I Felt calmer all around. I slept better. I had more time because I didn't have to do that every single night for an hour after work. I loved having that extra hour! I used that hour for meditation and exercise instead. Thank you for your comment.
@@WarriorsFanSince-ur3zu Honestly, sometimes, I don't know. I wouldn't recommend this but I happened to move states. From California to Colorado. Maybe it was the mountain air although the air quality actually is not that good after all in Colorado. I got here and on my first night here pulled up my laptop per the usual but just decided at the moment not to. Then decided the next day I would continue trying that. In a way I believe it to be some type of spiritual experience. Ever since that day I have not returned to it.
@@kyleisom962 For me personally around day 7 I started to feel a bit better then around day 20 I could really start to feel a difference and then day after day continued to feel better some days not always but yeah definitely worth it.
Brilliant talks about this major hidden issues. It’s a quick quit for sure. Everything is about mentality and how strong you can divert your focus to other positive things like healthy hobbies. Thank you, Maria x
@thegrandfinale2 if it was as easy as that people wouldn't be struggling. Everyone has their Q you have to find yours maybe going to gym or maybe reading novels, going to church etc
It's heartening to see so many men in the comments addressing this addiction in their own life. I'm sure it's not easy but I hope that this addiction will be replaced with joyous and fulfilling relationships in your life with real partners. I'm nobody to you, but for what it's worth, and in case no one else says it, I'M PROUD OF YOU. ✌🙌👏
@@scooby6147 need to say it- the most people making jokes about that I know working for a motel. Coincedence? I am sad that those people do not think about their own daughter. This problem is somethning every girl and woman face eaxh day - and the big majority of their husbands, brothers and and fathers just looking the other direction. Dont joke. Blame the joker. Let them feel what tjey give their girls. That is the only way this will not happen to your own daughter or granddaughter.
The most amazing speech ever… I normally don’t write comments unless the speech touches me for its content and has an impact for critical societies unspoken topics. This lady is a gem 💎 for all the globe 🌎. I liked her elaboration on the subject, her confidence and she seemed that she absorbed and understood the topic from the A to Z. As a coach and scientist I understood her very well and understood my coachees who come to ask for help. God bless her
Thank you for speaking on this very important and heavily normalized issue. This is incredibly brave because a lot of people don't take it seriously. I support your work and I loved this talk. :)
I started when I was 9. I am 23 now and I stopped counting my No cap Streak. I stopped sometime last year. I Will not relapse I strongly believe. From Nigeria.
I have a problem. I just can't help myself doing it over and over again. I just can't stop eating food. Each time when I stop, I get that craving inside, that it wants food again. I can't resist it.
@@Doomemdtrader firstly if you can try to have a mirror in the kitchen. Second, it's not only the taste that we're after but also full tummy feeling and the process of eating itself. So find out which one you're after and do this. Taste: try eating some candy or some very small alternative. Eating: chewing gum. Full tummy: soup or drink or something in those lines. All of these are just quick fixes, but if you want to stop eating more, try a 24 hrs fasting your stomach will shrink and eating one plate feels full and be more discipline you know? . Tell your friends that you're eating less. And please avoid junk food, fast food, they numb your brain making you feel dizzy ALL THE TIME. this should get you through.
I find it both silly and morally wrong to pay for people to be pretending and prostituting their bodies - all the while plentiful amateurs are eager to share online their much more normal (physically and psychologically) adventures.
I agree, it's pretty ironic. The narc-alert rings, maybe just another narcissistic woman that rob's energy of the most energetic issue. Nowadays a lot of narcs try to abuse the awareness-times with "real talk".
@@peterheinz7065 Spot on what I was suspecting but couldn't quite put into words. There's something about her vibe that just... annoys me. The topic is so important though.
This is not just some random girl that they have picked, this is Maria Ahlin. She has worked with this issue for over thirteen years and have started a youth organisation called Changing Attitudes that are stationed in several countries. She holds speaches about this topick on a daily basis and have written a book about it aswell. And no, ( if that is of very much importance) her tan is not fake..she spend the winter months in Asia so its very real, and yes she is truly gorgeous.
I can give a great speech but being so honest, brutal and confident on stage for this topic (being a woman) makes me shiver to my core and give blessing to this woman to make some lives better who understand what this means!
Ron Beck lol that’s an autonomic response. You physiologically can’t not breathe. You have absolutely no choice. You can try, but your brain is going to turn off the power and your are going to pass out and start breathing again. Same reason why drowning victims have lungs full of water. If you don’t breathe your brain is going to take control from yo crazy self. It’s not an addiction though because there are no withdrawals from not breathing.....physical or physiological
@@jimbowaldrop221 ok... how about food addiction. Do we need bland food to stay in control. How about anti-tobacco-like adverts to help recultivate a shaming atmosphere to remind us how food might harm us, especially with all that butter.
Don't feel bad or ashamed about that feeling, it's completely natural for healthy human beings. So much so, it's actually part of a protocol for studying social stress... Turns out nothing is more stressful than a non-responding audience.
No, it should be talked about by parents. Why does everyone think schools should be raising children, their job is to educate them in primarily academic subjects.
@@SylvanApe i agree with you but you cannot make sure every family Is doing a good job or Is teaching these things. Having It teached in schools May Be a safer way for many people to have access to this kind of education
No idea how inspiring this was to have seen pop up in my feed and watched. Truly amazing. Relapses and setbacks mustn't hold one back from believing that he or she cannot overcome this compulsive behavior. The brain is created to change and will do so, so keep working at it and you will surely succeed!
Day 103 free after almost 16 years addiction to this destructive act i want to thank every one help me in my journey including you with this video 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Do not trap your kids in the car. They’ll just never want to be in the car with you. If you raised your kid right, they’ll be able to tolerate discomfort and won’t try to run away from you if you’re showing them that you’re trying to communicate something important
She didn't even get to how it has done tremendous damage to multiple families; in various ways. (Divorce, adultery, expectations, trauma, inadequacies, etc).
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I'm glad i've found this talks about he issue. Makes a lot mote easier to understand what is keeping you addicted. Started on my journey last week after getting tired of the control of my life fleeing from me. *I'M STOPPING THIS THING FOR GOOD.*
Appreciated to discuss this topic You're absolutely right. Media and culture play crucial roles in shaping society and influencing people's perspectives. Controlling or managing these influences can indeed be challenging due to their pervasive nature and impact on our daily lives.
there's an app for that where you don't just have to listen but you can actually see Ass2mouth, deep throathing and choking. Time to educate the younger generations properly. Learning by doing always works best.
"Wanting something without liking it" is the most succinct definition I have ever heard for addiction.
Hart Weber Yes! That was very well said!
In a lot of cases near the end of peoples addiction they tend to not like the life they're living hence what they are doing but cant stop do to addiction...
Yep, just to be able to be able to half way function & feel "normal".
Jacob Alanheimer and also find a woman that doesn’t judge u by looks or money Which is IMPOSSIBLE!
literally me with the juul.... hate it so much but can't stop craving it... very confusing feeling
U Never really know u r addicted until u try to quit...
I can completely relate.n
Exactly🔥
Me
Fax
Very true
The people in the crowd all deleting their search histories
Kingfckn Cole lmao 😂 😂😂😂😂
😂
Get serious. Grow up bro.
@@avigujar2538 calm down incel
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🎯
Jesus how calmly can she talk about a sensitive subject....that's what I call confidence.
Atm is not the money machine 😂
You people over compliment bare minimum, just because it comes from a woman🙄🙄🙄
Nah she’s actually a very good speaker her cadence is extremely educated and easy to listen to , especially when it comes to something this sensitive and because it’s a women she deserves more praise because they don’t have the same speaking talents men usually do the aggression and strong tone
So no one has balls to stop this p rn
Very sickening 🤮
@@nickpenaranda725 do you know what the odds are of a sentence ending intelligently when starting with “you people”?
“When something is free, that means you’re the product”. Your attention and presence should always be properly compensated. Protect your energy kings.
And Queens
Kings? LULZ HAHAHAA!!
protect your energy worms
This just blew my mind rn. It's so obvious but I've never once thought about it.
Kings? Energy- kings ??, that hurt my frontal lobe dude, wtf did your last two words relate to?
How do you explain Ass2Mouth to a room-full of people with a straight face...
Start with explaining how it is not an ATM so you don't have to touch it
I mean, 3:56 says it all xD
On stage demo !
How about DP or choking...? and not even a peep from the audience...
😂🤣😂🤣
Prostitution is illegal unless you film it and sell it.
@@muhammedovezmuradov2910 Nothing, if it's not forced.
Muhammed Ovezmuradov shame on you for such comments
The shame is the government regulating people’s bodies and folks shaming people who think differently or feed themselves differently than you.
Taxation
So true....
I know it’s good seeing men talk about this, but seeing a FEMALE talk about this topic makes me even happier. I love it! Because I feel like really no women out there stand up to this and talk about what’s wrong with it. I respect this lady right here!
i wonder how much money she makes to talk rubbish
@@ivorjones6618 Some people like you just don't understand.
@@jjkv2686 what dont we understand tell me
@@ivorjones6618Even if you don't appreciate her for what she's doing, don't comment nonsense
@@jjkv2686 not nonsence you need to get a life and do what you want to do not what the bible says you should do
Watching random youtube videos is the same addiction. We don’t realise this problem at all.
Reading random comments is another 😵
We just gotta toss our phones away man
@@ethancohen12 My friend calls it the misery rectangle
How do I quit yt?
Your right on that
To anyone who is fighting this addiction, I hope you succeed. Stay strong and never give up the fight!
Why?
Hala madrid
hala madrid
Beat the addiction!
I just have a hentai addiction and have my fiancée that watches hentai with me.
In my recommended list? lol I guess incognito mode has failed me
William Mhl 😂😂😂😂💔
AHHAHA man of culture
What do you think that
What google is 😁
Me too brothaahhh, me too
Google got sued for $hit like dis.
I love her bravery. It is not easy to talk about it infront of an audience even though the audience was silent.
She's Swedish, i.e brought up differently than you seem to be.
@@jimmyolsenschannel6263 oh...ok
She's making money out of it one way or another. Doesn't seem to be honest or more than all negativist...I'm never eating swedish meatballs again!! Rots the brain!!!!!
@@yuppiemobile69 bot
You know the crowd is very much in tune when they are silent=listen
6 years old wtf I’m so glad I grew up before internet
Same, fam.
Same. Though I was born in 2000 I live in lebanon. We didn't know about the internet until 2008. And it didn't get popular until 2012
I think alot of this has to do with your up bringing and what u expose yourself too.. im 34 n some of the things she is talking about is new to me..🤷🏾♂️ don't get me wrong I've herd of some but, she taught me something new..
Donald Ford absolutely but it’s just crazy to see what the future generation will evolve to and what’s the norm and what’s not. Especially this online fans page thing, girls go online to get donations from their viewers and these viewers actually pay. They don’t know how to interact with one another in real life but online there’s no boundaries.
Haha 8 for me :)
Leaving your kid alone with a computer without proper restrictions can be just as dangerous as leaving them with a stranger.
no
True... they may figure out that god isn't real. Lmao. FREAK. Restricted access to information is literally the cause of all the world problems.
@@EnkiMMXII it's like you didn't even watch the video......
No, restricting your children will only make them become liars and go behind your back. Instead, teach them the bad about it. And talk about it with them. Especially in there teen years.
It's not just about kids... This applies to adults too.
Me : why is this in my recommendation?
UA-cam : hmm wonder how that happened?
google search history : I told them everything.
That why you delete your history😂
@@elite_mittens9483 that literally does nothing
Your FBI agent is trying to tell u something
Damn ! Lol
It’s all coming together now
This is a very sensitive topic. It takes great courage to be able to carry out this kind of research (without getting addicted to it yourself) and give this kind of presentation publicly. Welldone.. keep up the good work. Your work will transform countless lives positively...
Right on brother. And women deserve to be respected and elevated for the queens we are. And men should be protectors, not perpetrators. peace to you.
@@rachelgoodkind6545 So true.❤
@@luckystoller6171 The world has been manipulated to be backwards. However we all have to work tegether to make a kind loving compassionate world for all.
@@rachelgoodkind6545 ❤You are so right!
@@rachelgoodkind6545 I don't like how you said that but at least you didn't leave men out of the picture
I stopped a few years ago. Best decision ever made. My social life improved 100%.
In what ways?
Yeah, in what ways?
I am also curious of how your life improved, please elaborate
@@patrikmartinec6149 Did you not watch the video?
@@themacocko6311 did you not watch the video?
"Chains of habits are too light to be felt until they are too heavy to be broken"
Cheers mate
My grandma said it first
@@NotaPersin6504 lmao
Bertrand Russell wrote this
Cheers mate
*opens safari*
A whole audience of people acting like this is the first time they've heard of these things :p
Clutterlicious; keep in mind that this was in Sweden and for many in the audience English may be there second or third language
Thanks
You'd be surprised. There are still people out there that wince if they hear an F bomb.
@@luminous6969 True, depends on your upbringing/environment in my opinion.
🤣🤣🤣🤣💀
This delivery is Topclass.
That is true. There are many contradictions, lies and omissions but she keeps on going.
Uhhh here’s a solution, stop giving your kids tablets and smartphones at age 2
I'm just wondering why you're comenting that twice
Fax tho, i seen a 5yr old kid w the newest iphone
I agree, kids need to read more books fr
If I ever have kids I actually plan on giving them a playstation or an Xbox to keep them distracted from the internet or phones.
Read more books? Lol.
I say more life experience.
You’re disconnected from reality when you got an iPad shoved up your face.
It's hilarious how uncomfortable the audience looks.
Side splitting...
well, the audience is Swedish in general they are reserved and shy in public spaces, unless they've had a few drinks! Skal!
It's also hilarious how she's oblivious to it all.
🤣🤣🤣 kills me everytime
Mjolnir G. Skål
its actually sad the amount of people that will laugh this off because they themselves are addicted
and aren't able to admit it
The first part is admitting that you are addicted. I used to give any reason other than addiction for quitting, I then used to say that I was kind of addicted but not that bad but now I am strong enough say that I am addicted. 10 days without so far.
@@fn9six Stay my brother. We both know you got this!
@@mshbeatbox thanks bro. You gave me that little extra strength I needed to get through this evening
Will sub you too
@@fn9six No subs needed. Just understand that you are better than this addiction!
this is so eye-opening. I didn't realize how normalized all of this is becoming until she pointed it out
Notice how expressionless the audience is. You know they were uncomfortable, and they knew exactly what she was talking about. It's not always easy to be called out.
What do you expect from them man?
@@anshik.k.t what do you expect from them?
@@christianwood8328 i expect that silence that they are having.
@@anshik.k.t I must say that some of the things she said were worthy of applause or sign of acknowledgement at the least. They, as you can see, are as cold as ice.
@@meenakshi.v7385 it's confirmation. Initially it was awkward, then no one gathered courage to start it. Nothing to bother.
I’m so glad more people are starting to talk about this. She did a fantastic job.
@@gedazcrew Not the focus of the video...
@@gedazcrew yes she is a beautiful person, but that’s not what you should’ve gotten out of this video.
Yeah I fapped with this video.
Absolutely
I'm sure she could perform a fantastic job elsewhere as well. One where she won't have to talk so much but should still moisten her lips regularly.
She could be a great flute player in a Grand Band.
I knew this comment section was going to be lit
I'm really crackin up over here 😄
💯❌💯
LOL
You don't have the foggiest...
HAHAHHA
I've seen funerals with a more cheerful audience...but she did a great job addressing such an uncomfortable issue! Although I feel a little sorry for her, since I'm guessing most crowds she talks to are too awkward by the topic to give a laugh at any of her jokes, kind of like this one
unfortunately their faces were that way because most of them probably watch p***
I have a guess why this happened. I am living myself in Gothenburg for a few years now and have to admit that Scandinavian audience is a bit cold. Not because they don’t enjoy it but that’s a part of mentality 😊 They less expressive.
What is funny here?
Sweedish are good listeners, love göteborg 😊
To be fair it’s very surface level and boring (porn=bad) Everyone understands and knows all of this already.
0.5 seconds clean. Wish me luck.
How u doing?
@@irishking2428 at this moment. 30 seconds clean
@@mathsdebater lmao
😂😂
What about now?
i was an everyday "consumer" for about 12 years. i was able to stop and been off it now for almost 4 years.
Nice
How'd you do it?
@Newton Bridges noticed any change?
@@iandres2394 Yes. Tons of changes. I stopped lusting over women. I Felt calmer all around. I slept better. I had more time because I didn't have to do that every single night for an hour after work. I loved having that extra hour! I used that hour for meditation and exercise instead. Thank you for your comment.
@@WarriorsFanSince-ur3zu Honestly, sometimes, I don't know. I wouldn't recommend this but I happened to move states. From California to Colorado. Maybe it was the mountain air although the air quality actually is not that good after all in Colorado. I got here and on my first night here pulled up my laptop per the usual but just decided at the moment not to. Then decided the next day I would continue trying that. In a way I believe it to be some type of spiritual experience. Ever since that day I have not returned to it.
Currently on day 68 going strong! Feeling better then ever!
keep it up!!
Keep going
Congrats! I'm hoping to get there soon too. Keep up the good fight. You got this!
How long did it take to notice a change?
@@kyleisom962 For me personally around day 7 I started to feel a bit better then around day 20 I could really start to feel a difference and then day after day continued to feel better some days not always but yeah definitely worth it.
I'm 14 , and I'm really happy that I'm getting this education much earlier , and I'm learning to control myself 💜
I applaud you for this. Your love and s3x life are going to benefit a lot from this effort!
Blessings to you. Stay strong.
i'am so happy for you
Respect!
Never forget
Anybody gonna mention every title says stepmom, stepbrother, dad, etc... It's like what in the actual...????
You bad boy
when i read the statistics on that i was disgusted.. it wasnt like that 10 years ago.
@@limitedquantitysufiyyahexp3913 who's a bad boy?
Right? But without a valid passport to prove it's legit it's all nothing and just blah.
What are you doing stepbro?!
My brain: this is decently informative.
My other brain: she's so pretty!
TitusMatTurbo you’re toxic Bro 🤣🤣🤣
Objectifying someone who is fighting objectification
My brain: how do these people have two brains? Tf
I_am_sme11y two heads equals two brains, think about it
😂😂😂
The fact that this was on my recommended feed scares me
Do you think Google Chrome Incognito mode is hiding you?
Xddd same
Back Country Pastimes the NSA got your back...just trying to help you get better..
Oh oh
Probably because you have watched self improvement videos or other Ted talk vids
Brilliant talks about this major hidden issues. It’s a quick quit for sure. Everything is about mentality and how strong you can divert your focus to other positive things like healthy hobbies. Thank you, Maria x
All the guys in the audience be sweating just like the Key and Peal skit
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
Haha fuccccc
Great minds
Haha had the same thinking
You never really know you are addicted until you try to quit
And then the relapses kills you
When they addict a customer, they have a customer for life.
@@AO-qv5hl NO
@@Anonymous-uw4sr yes
@thegrandfinale2 if it was as easy as that people wouldn't be struggling.
Everyone has their Q you have to find yours maybe going to gym or maybe reading novels, going to church etc
🤣🤣
Girls locker room : this vid
Boys locker room : the comment section
😂
Not all men are degenerates.
yea boiii
Brilliant insight.
@GHOUL Ap u must live under a rock
This is excellent, this video needs to go viral. God bless the presenter and her work.
Yes, the simple-minded people are in awe now.
The balls u have to have to explain atm and gagging to an auditorium
Hahahahah true
I was trying to focus the whole time she was talking lol
right? kudos to her
I know
I love this chick man
she don't hav balls actually
First step to overcoming addiction is realizing you have a problem 💪🏽
Preach sir
So.... a massive bicep on one arm ? 🤷 😉
Thats why you included that emoji right? lol
I love it. No problem. Can't get a disease with it. Can't impregnate a chick. Saves time and money. I love it.
I have a problem
...technically the first step to overcoming addiction is becoming addicted
It's heartening to see so many men in the comments addressing this addiction in their own life. I'm sure it's not easy but I hope that this addiction will be replaced with joyous and fulfilling relationships in your life with real partners. I'm nobody to you, but for what it's worth, and in case no one else says it, I'M PROUD OF YOU. ✌🙌👏
Thank you!!!
I hope you know those boys are cap. 🤭🤭🤭
@@darielrowe1324 cap?
@@LookAroundMore means they're lying
what if you have all of those other trappings and you are not satsified. What if that is really nobody's fault.
She is such a role model in the way she speaks and approaches this topic.
I wonder if there is an audience member sitting next to their parents
same thing i was thinking about
Long drive home...talk time anyone? :)
There were lol 😂
What's up cuz?
@@sirgerbilmacintosh9101 long time no speak, how is mom?
majority of these comments prove her point.. props to the men/women speaking out and acknowledging this issue.
comments are jokes mostly dont take it too seriously :)
@@scooby6147 not all comments are jokes.. and this isn’t something to be joked about anyways.
@@scooby6147 need to say it- the most people making jokes about that I know working for a motel.
Coincedence?
I am sad that those people do not think about their own daughter. This problem is somethning every girl and woman face eaxh day - and the big majority of their husbands, brothers and and fathers just looking the other direction.
Dont joke. Blame the joker. Let them feel what tjey give their girls.
That is the only way this will not happen to your own daughter or granddaughter.
Nice rack.
Your pic is apart of the problem
Sounds like she's done plenty of research.
coda creator lol haven’t we all 😏
🤣🤣
coda creator she’s really has, lol 10 years of experience
Sounds like her research is a bunch of junk science
coda creator this comment right here 😂🤣
The most amazing speech ever… I normally don’t write comments unless the speech touches me for its content and has an impact for critical societies unspoken topics. This lady is a gem 💎 for all the globe 🌎. I liked her elaboration on the subject, her confidence and she seemed that she absorbed and understood the topic from the A to Z. As a coach and scientist I understood her very well and understood my coachees who come to ask for help. God bless her
Amen, you're right.
Thank you for speaking on this very important and heavily normalized issue. This is incredibly brave because a lot of people don't take it seriously. I support your work and I loved this talk. :)
So did I
Well why should we quit
It's not affecting us financially
You call this work?
Because most people don’t realize that it’s the new drug. The brain becomes addicted the exact same way as alcohol and illegal drugs.
I'm stopping on the 1st of October. wish me luck.
Good luck brother
Same
Good luck mah dude (not meant in a sarcastic way, will be hard for me to stop completely too tbh)
I'm doing good so far boys. I'm craving it but i can control it and divert that energy into other things
@@deeluvsu4l great
I started when I was 9. I am 23 now and I stopped counting my No cap Streak. I stopped sometime last year. I Will not relapse I strongly believe. From Nigeria.
I’m proud
Stay strong my friend
9???
Hey man, I don't understand the topic completely. It's about stop watching it, not stopping to mast*rb*te?
@@JohnFlessas i started at 7
We also need to stop the insanity of sexualizing women. It's all over social media and advertising.
They are doing by themselves. Even more than man do.
Men and women. Stop ignoring a huge part of the issue
This insight does come from a femist or a sociologic point of view?
*Openly admitting you got a problem is the first step to recovery.*
-Gumball waterson
Why gumball lmfao
@@mikefin8847 watch the Darwin potato episode
I have a problem. I just can't help myself doing it over and over again. I just can't stop eating food. Each time when I stop, I get that craving inside, that it wants food again. I can't resist it.
@@Doomemdtrader firstly if you can try to have a mirror in the kitchen. Second, it's not only the taste that we're after but also full tummy feeling and the process of eating itself. So find out which one you're after and do this.
Taste: try eating some candy or some very small alternative.
Eating: chewing gum.
Full tummy: soup or drink or something in those lines.
All of these are just quick fixes, but if you want to stop eating more, try a 24 hrs fasting your stomach will shrink and eating one plate feels full and be more discipline you know? . Tell your friends that you're eating less. And please avoid junk food, fast food, they numb your brain making you feel dizzy ALL THE TIME. this should get you through.
...the first step to getting out of a hole is being in a hole
-Crash Raynor
I feel like the industry is going to get even bigger with the internet being our only connection to be with people
That's what they want
Its horrifying
@@hopewonder why would anyone consider it charity
it ain't a necessity
At the same time it can be your best friend and an enemy
It will get worse with virtual reality and the new gadgets there making
@@hopewonder It wasn't free acess, it was free acces to *premium content* . Normally, this site is free access all the time.
I am seriously stopping tomorrow. Wish me luck.
Ñ vais nada Zé.
@@crise_brown hehehe eu ja parei
How it’s going?
@@lizardbest8510 still going strong😁
You don't t need luck, you need to be determined and be disciplined!
I really surprised her confidence, even she talked about the most sensitive subject in front of the audience
Well done lady ❤
Good talk. Not to be rude or anything, but here's a tip for the other viewers : this video still manages to sound quite fine with 1.25x speed
it sounds normal with 2x
Too bad i read this with 1 minute left
Yes double time still wasn't fast enough it's like an intentional stretching of the information
Man, you're very respectful
thegrandfinale2 you tip on the video, on the upper right corner are 3 dots, you tip on them
Let's talk about tanning booths.
Wicked Jim funny
Shut up she looks great 😂😂
💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
She looks like a photo negative.
🤣🤣🤣
That part “no longer contributing to an offensive and obnoxious industry” hit hard.
Sarcasm?
that rammed the point home?
religion?
16:00... but listen well before so that you get the context better...
I find it both silly and morally wrong to pay for people to be pretending and prostituting their bodies - all the while plentiful amateurs are eager to share online their much more normal (physically and psychologically) adventures.
Glad to see more people talking about this.
Young men are being taught this is normal to do but it is slowly changing how they act and treat women.
She has taught this for over 10 years! how old is she? she looks 25 lol
Them Scandinavian countries bud
She included her own experiences pre-teaching, I guess
IntescyAvenger she started her talks at 12
Give it 5 years
@Übermensch i thought she was using other nicknames in her fb profile but i found already ,, anyway thanks
of course they manage to get THEE most attractive girl to talk about this...
She’s not bad, her tan looks fake, I’m talkin umpa lumpa lookin muh fuh
you really have a problem xD
I agree, it's pretty ironic.
The narc-alert rings, maybe just another narcissistic woman that rob's energy of the most energetic issue. Nowadays a lot of narcs try to abuse the awareness-times with "real talk".
@@peterheinz7065 Spot on what I was suspecting but couldn't quite put into words. There's something about her vibe that just... annoys me. The topic is so important though.
This is not just some random girl that they have picked, this is Maria Ahlin. She has worked with this issue for over thirteen years and have started a youth organisation called Changing Attitudes that are stationed in several countries. She holds speaches about this topick on a daily basis and have written a book about it aswell. And no, ( if that is of very much importance) her tan is not fake..she spend the winter months in Asia so its very real, and yes she is truly gorgeous.
So this is what they meant by "for research purposes"
I hope everyone understanding this comment will Like it , It's 10 likes now, I will see later
@@recoilzriot6211 😂😂😂😂
Yes that’s exactly what we mean
@@recoilzriot6211 Ah the investor
Underrated
Maria, your speech is extraordinary, This will greatly make impacts. Thank you
"Pimpin' ain't dead it just moved to the web" - Pimp C
Zyzzus Christ foreal 👍🏽
was pimp c around to see it on the web or am i tripping
@@blade7506 He passed away 2004, so he was around almost a decade
RIP the pimp.
UGK!
This makes me feel like the only one who doesn’t like the abusive and weird stuff.
nah u not.
You're a real man then
Anonyme User thank you
@@OutlandishOW ❤️😘
Good. Don't get sucked into it. You'll hate yourself.
I like how she is not afraid to confess that... she watch Friends!
What's there to be afraid of confessing about watching Friends?
@@Kiran-bp6iu it's ultra lame, normie and unfunny :D
Seinfeld>friends
@@plamenferdinandov5083 Okay, Calm down.
I want to he her friend
That was spectacular. Massively important topic. I hope all people and especially teenagers get to watch it!
we need more kids like you in this generation.
Agreed
You clearly don't actually know or understand our generation. You only think that this is rare because you believe in the media portrayal of us.
Then they created only fans...
Why?
Yess
I can give a great speech but being so honest, brutal and confident on stage for this topic (being a woman) makes me shiver to my core and give blessing to this woman to make some lives better who understand what this means!
@Alex Burch He was just being nice, Mr. Big Balls
WONDERFUL .... 2021
what does being a woman have to do with that? Either you are confident or you are not. The subject doesnt matter i feel.
siden
“Being a woman…” wtf??? She is from a civilized world…. Not like you moren…
That was a good ted talk with good examples. And the more she spoke about it the more you come to understand how serious this issue is.
For real😩
Thank to this girl for talking one of the most bad addiction courageously
I like how she’s giving definitions like these people need it.
Oh, so EVERYONE knows what those acts are?
@@SomeGal I know I didn't. I've only known ATM to be a machine to get money from. And I've done my share of "research" though the years,...LOL
I didn't know bout ATM
A lot of people do not know this stuff.
@@paigedygert7051 thats because it does not matter
I like how shes able to keep complete composure talking about these acts.
She's got experience
@@laurisaarinen1126 the less smart 😂😂 no just no...
@@laurisaarinen1126 you not telling a joke shows your comment is not true.
What other composure should she have?
Bottom line. I don’t want to doing anything that will turn me into an addict. That is a form of slavery because you are not in control of yourself.
2Driver pls
Stop breathing then. Itz adDICKtive.
Ron Beck .. sorry but I don’t get your reply.
Really now mate? As if that wasn't already obvious.
Ron Beck lol that’s an autonomic response. You physiologically can’t not breathe. You have absolutely no choice. You can try, but your brain is going to turn off the power and your are going to pass out and start breathing again. Same reason why drowning victims have lungs full of water. If you don’t breathe your brain is going to take control from yo crazy self. It’s not an addiction though because there are no withdrawals from not breathing.....physical or physiological
@@jimbowaldrop221 ok... how about food addiction. Do we need bland food to stay in control. How about anti-tobacco-like adverts to help recultivate a shaming atmosphere to remind us how food might harm us, especially with all that butter.
Educating the younger generation is key. Welldone Sis. Interesting insights
March 12, 2021. I am leaving this date here so I can come back and check if I made a successful move.
Wish Me Luck Guys.
You GOT this, keep fighting
Wish u all the best
@@hhsgdageh8784 Thanks pal. Even Today I got the urge, but I controlled myself sincerely.
I’m not gonna even try and do what you’re doing so all I can do is wish you luck 👍
Stay strong my friend, i am doing the same. When you think about it, just go do something else
How's it going lol
We need a TEDx talk about how Friends affects the brain
gave me unrealistic expectations for my relationships with others
It makes me laugh a lot and laughter is the best medicine.
@@flyingcolors21 it also enables u 2 talk abt atm 2 a roomful of strangers thinking they will take u srsly
SIGN ME IN!
Thanks Bill Clinton
finally, someone said it loud and clear
Thank you for the details. You opened my eyes as a parent and the potentials of what my kids have seen. This needs to be discussed.
daily reminder you're only watching this because there's a comment section...
Robert G 💯
Did you see that girl?
Facts
got me there
She looks like she has been tangoed
One of the best TEDtalks I’ve ever seen, but one of the most quiet audience responses. We have issues...
They guilty asf
True... it is the most stone faced response
When you are guilty of what is been said you naturally go silent.
Most people are inhibited when it comes to the subject.. the low level responses are more about being pensive, I think..
😂 😂 Silence means consensus
irrelevant i know, but when people don’t even chuckle it makes me feel awkward ngl...
There's likely no mic on the audience.
Because they see themselves in a topic? oOOHHHHH
Don't feel bad or ashamed about that feeling, it's completely natural for healthy human beings. So much so, it's actually part of a protocol for studying social stress... Turns out nothing is more stressful than a non-responding audience.
Tbh, the clapping was quite quiet so it makes sense that we wouldn't hear juckles.
If you look close you can see plenty of people giggling.
Why can't America shut down this whole industry??!
This should be talked about in schools
We also need to talk about the dangers of marriage too where half of your assets can be seized by the gynocentrism
No, it should be talked about by parents. Why does everyone think schools should be raising children, their job is to educate them in primarily academic subjects.
@@SylvanApe Absolutely damn right
@@SylvanApe i agree with you but you cannot make sure every family Is doing a good job or Is teaching these things.
Having It teached in schools May Be a safer way for many people to have access to this kind of education
School is no place to discuss these matters. Home is where this belongs.
No idea how inspiring this was to have seen pop up in my feed and watched. Truly amazing. Relapses and setbacks mustn't hold one back from believing that he or she cannot overcome this compulsive behavior. The brain is created to change and will do so, so keep working at it and you will surely succeed!
It's like wrestling, as you discover that everything is fake you loose interest
Man, you read my mind
I lost interest in WWE after the fakeism🙄🙄
Most people know that WWE is staged, yet its popularity is no where near declining.
No you don't and a lot of it isn't fake
@@eduardgladkov46 no...
WWE flashback💔
One thing I hate about public talks and talk videos is the missing of dialogue. I have so much to ask and say and discuss.
Day 103 free after almost 16 years addiction to this destructive act i want to thank every one help me in my journey including you with this video 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
God bless man
@@Rozex9 thank you brother 💖💖💖
You're punishing yourself for no reason
Yoooo ..are you serious??? I am trying to get rid of the addiction. Please help me. I have failed 20+ times
Have you seen benefits my friend?
Whether it’s Good or Bad, remember people too much of anything is bad.
That my friend is the textbook definition of middle ground fallacy.
Some times even small thing is also dangerous. Try poison ..
Even too much peace and prosperity?
Wolfgang Andrew X life would be boring and have no thrill, people would still get depressed
@@wolfgangandrewx2416 No we mean excess of any activity or food or drink. Not intangible things.
19 days clean for me, it's rough but completely worth it.
Stay strong
Genuinley think you’re better for it mate?
How you get started
@@gameplaykingz9545 Certaintly I'm better than I were before! 24 days and counting.
@@afrodrummajors4lovepeacech508 The first step is to accept that there is a problem that you want to change!
Do not trap your kids in the car. They’ll just never want to be in the car with you. If you raised your kid right, they’ll be able to tolerate discomfort and won’t try to run away from you if you’re showing them that you’re trying to communicate something important
She didn't even get to how it has done tremendous damage to multiple families; in various ways. (Divorce, adultery, expectations, trauma, inadequacies, etc).
Well sayed
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Wondered about that myself . You hit the nail on the head . It's done it to mine .
I’m writing on book on the stuff she missed
@@Keshiaaa That should be an interesting read. Great luck to you and your project!
Aight imma head out and conduct some research on the subject at hand
What was the subject on?
Bahhahahaha
Now you are just one of many, not standing out from the crowd, not leaving the world a better place.
Nice try
lame
I'm glad i've found this talks about he issue.
Makes a lot mote easier to understand what is keeping you addicted.
Started on my journey last week after getting tired of the control of my life fleeing from me.
*I'M STOPPING THIS THING FOR GOOD.*
I hope your journey has gone well. Remember ups and downs are expected you don’t have to walk a straight line.
Appreciated to discuss this topic You're absolutely right. Media and culture play crucial roles in shaping society and influencing people's perspectives. Controlling or managing these influences can indeed be challenging due to their pervasive nature and impact on our daily lives.
I feel so bad for thinking she’s hot 😂
she is
😂🤣
HAHAHAHAHA Im thinking way more then that... damn it
It's The Holy Spirit that lives in her that you're attracted to
No Shame In That,She Is Beautiful.
Can schools please start showing this in the classroom? Educate us!
there's an app for that where you don't just have to listen but you can actually see Ass2mouth, deep throathing and choking. Time to educate the younger generations properly. Learning by doing always works best.
@@youngcaesar4538
It comes in handy in so many different situations in life!
Yes
Jessica try it in your school
@@tigerschildkrote4997 we did! I just wish more schools would.
one of the finest ted talks.
Wow this is so compelling. My deepest respect fo this woman.
deepest, i like that
She's hot