6 Signs You're Attractive Emotionally, NOT LOOKS!

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  • Have you ever had those deep emotional crushes where our attraction goes beyond simply good looks? There are a few common traits and habits that can make someone more emotionally attractive. Do you have any of them? You may not be aware you are magnetic in this way!
    Are you more attractive than you think? Watch this video to find out: • 8 Subtle Signs You're ...
    Writer: Michal Mitchell
    Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
    VO: Amanda Silvera
    Animator: Kayla Ramirez
    UA-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
    References:
    Camins, S. (2021, March 21). Setting Emotional Boundaries in Relationships. Road to Growth Counseling. roadtogrowthcounseling.com/im....
    Rane, Z. (2020, September 12). 8 Science-Backed Habits to Become More Emotionally Attractive. Medium. / 8-habits-of-emotionall... .
    Brown, L. (2021, April 12). 19 clear-cut signs you're attractive to other people. Hack Spirit. hackspirit.com/signs-you-are-....
    The Gottman Institute. (2021, February 15). Homework Assignment: How To Increase Emotional Attraction. The Gottman Institute. www.gottman.com/blog/weekend-....
    Fellizar, K. (2018, July 12). 7 Subtle Ways To Create Emotional Attraction With Someone You're Interested In. Bustle. www.bustle.com/p/7-subtle-way....
    Papa, A. (2018, June 8). What Is Emotional Attraction and Why Is It Important? The Date Mix. www.zoosk.com/date-mix/dating....
    Lamothe, C. (2019, October 14). Emotional Attraction: 16 FAQs, Signs, and Tips. Healthline. www.healthline.com/health/emo....

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  2 роки тому +2362

    We love you just the way you are.

  • @ComicalRealm
    @ComicalRealm 2 роки тому +4252

    "You don't love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song _only_ you can hear." - Barney Rubble

    • @thinkbooth
      @thinkbooth 2 роки тому +91

      That's real fact. Thanks for sharing

    • @ADAPTATION7
      @ADAPTATION7 2 роки тому +11

      He said that?

    • @niqzey6506
      @niqzey6506 2 роки тому +34

      That’s an amazing quote. Thanks for making my day!

    • @childe5906
      @childe5906 2 роки тому +8

      @@niqzey6506, omg you also watching this? xD

    • @idreamindarknessandsleepto1475
      @idreamindarknessandsleepto1475 2 роки тому +10

      I'm not attractive emotionally and so that means that I can only get filthy sluts to like me for my looks.

  • @datboi6954
    @datboi6954 2 роки тому +4082

    1. you express your true self 0:33
    2. you like to get to know someone emotionally rather than just superficially 1:12
    3. you remember the little details about someone or some things 1:39
    4. you're comfortable saying 'no' to uncomfortable requests 2:23
    5. you're open-minded 3:10
    6. you are passionate 3:40
    I hope I could help!

  • @omnid.slayer7244
    @omnid.slayer7244 2 роки тому +1665

    Having this kind of attractiveness is such a hidden gem..because in the end our outside appearance will rott as the years go by,as we grow older while our inside attractiveness will never wither..it will forever remain the most beautiful thing we have as individuals

    • @thinkbooth
      @thinkbooth 2 роки тому +19

      A Real hidden gem

    • @druthibhargav910
      @druthibhargav910 2 роки тому +11

      I agree 😊....it's so true

    • @childe5906
      @childe5906 2 роки тому +15

      So true. Have never looked at it this way.

    • @YoRHaUnit2Babe
      @YoRHaUnit2Babe 2 роки тому +10

      thats.... really uh, wholesome for a slayer

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 роки тому +6

      Your appearance will rot...
      ...unless you live in Japan.

  • @Caddyleadz
    @Caddyleadz 2 роки тому +656

    The sad thing is self awareness plays a big part in being able to honestly relate to this, but most people aren't self aware, they are self involved.

  • @taabishkhanself-improvemen7331
    @taabishkhanself-improvemen7331 2 роки тому +449

    3 Quotes to Live By:
    1) "Don't compare yourself to someone else, compare yourself to your yesterday's self."
    2) “You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending”
    3) "Once you decide your lifes purpose, you will only have to pack one thing: "Your Heart."
    Love from a small UA-camr💙

    • @albertocontreras7341
      @albertocontreras7341 2 роки тому +3

      My favorite quote
      "You can only die once, make sure it is worth it"

    • @toasterchair2095
      @toasterchair2095 2 роки тому +1

      Personality is how and what you interact with other people and yourself! 👑💖✨

    • @TheAmazingAimee
      @TheAmazingAimee 2 роки тому +1

      Number 2 is what I needed to hear right now :)

  • @pyschologygeek
    @pyschologygeek 2 роки тому +439

    Emotional attraction definition is when you feel connected to someone's mind, personality, and spirit. You look at the other aspects of an individual and are appreciative of it rather than just their physical features. When you are emotionally attracted to someone, you seek a meaningful, secure, and long-lasting bond.

    • @ncz7
      @ncz7 2 роки тому

      so true

    • @aiiiia9971
      @aiiiia9971 2 роки тому +7

      If you love someone you will find them psysically beautiful because their physical form is part of them, therefore lovable

    • @VeganSemihCyprus33
      @VeganSemihCyprus33 2 роки тому

      Watch 👉 The Connections (2021) [short documentary] 💖

    • @MoPoppins
      @MoPoppins 2 роки тому +6

      @@aiiiia9971 That’s true. I’ve experienced that before. If you like & care about someone, you’re endeared to them and will view them in a positive light (whether or not they’re conventionally attractive), just as parents who love their kids unconditionally would do.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 роки тому +7

      Well-said!

  • @hzyqh2254
    @hzyqh2254 2 роки тому +86

    I guess i'm a time traveler

  • @Ajs_studios
    @Ajs_studios 2 роки тому +55

    The animations just get better every video

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 роки тому +19

      Thank you so much! Do you recognize any of the references? - Cindy

    • @simonl446
      @simonl446 2 роки тому +2

      @@Psych2go the references are always amazing!

    • @victorsilva3312
      @victorsilva3312 2 роки тому +2

      @@Psych2goI loved to see Brook Sanji and Marco

    • @Ajs_studios
      @Ajs_studios 2 роки тому

      @@Psych2go I did they are always very cleverly done

  • @Phoennixxxx
    @Phoennixxxx 2 роки тому +129

    I realised i do all of these subconsciously and just feel like everyone can be like this and are like this most of the time. Everyone who i have talked to have grown emotionally and have helped me grow as well

    • @thinkbooth
      @thinkbooth 2 роки тому +1

      So you are emotionally attractive then

    • @Phoennixxxx
      @Phoennixxxx 2 роки тому +7

      @@thinkbooth maybe i am haha (idk why this sounds self centred)

    • @thinkbooth
      @thinkbooth 2 роки тому +4

      @@Phoennixxxx 😁😁 don't say maybe claim it and own it

    • @minakshipal16
      @minakshipal16 2 роки тому +2

      Me too....love to know people who they are inside !

    • @Phoennixxxx
      @Phoennixxxx 2 роки тому

      @@minakshipal16 yes it is , i like to think everyone should do this

  • @JuneStay
    @JuneStay 2 роки тому +371

    An emotionally intelligent guy beats someone who is just ‘good looking’. ALWAYS! 😍 most guys I’ve been with I fancy them once I know them xx

    • @thinkbooth
      @thinkbooth 2 роки тому +15

      Wow that's so revealing

    • @hel2727
      @hel2727 2 роки тому +36

      maybe but those who are good looking get attention first.

    • @orangeh1923
      @orangeh1923 2 роки тому +2

      A reason is probably why I like armin arlert 😗🤫

    • @FallenStarPunk
      @FallenStarPunk 2 роки тому +5

      Doesn’t always work for me. Girls hate me

    • @funnyvideoguy3216
      @funnyvideoguy3216 2 роки тому +5

      As a guy, I feel the same way about women

  • @taabishkhanself-improvemen7331
    @taabishkhanself-improvemen7331 2 роки тому +98

    *“You’ll watch an entire Netflix series even when the first episodes are slow just because someone told you that ‘it gets better’, but what if you looked at your goals like that and watched your life get better instead?”*
    Love from a small channel💙

  • @highliving-animatedvideos5831
    @highliving-animatedvideos5831 2 роки тому +60

    We’re all emotionally attractive here
    ❤️🚀🌙

  • @irithelsasaki
    @irithelsasaki 2 роки тому +147

    to be honest ugly or pretty are based on everyone's opinions or preferences, because a person might look attractive to me but to someone else is not, not only the looks but emotionally too.
    - idk if I explained it well but to everyone out there, you're not ugly ugliness doesn't really exist , you just look different to different people

    • @zachlewmedia
      @zachlewmedia 2 роки тому +3

      i've experienced this first hand. It's very true.

    • @supergeekjay
      @supergeekjay 2 роки тому +10

      I think the term you mean is "subjective". Every person sees you differently

    • @VeganSemihCyprus33
      @VeganSemihCyprus33 2 роки тому

      Watch 👉 The Connections (2021) [short documentary] 💖

    • @ichoosemysanity6467
      @ichoosemysanity6467 2 роки тому +1

      This should be common knowledge but I agree!

    • @zoedegenerate6703
      @zoedegenerate6703 2 роки тому +2

      would go further than that tbh it's not just a preference but moreso what people are taught to find attractive

  • @highliving-animatedvideos5831
    @highliving-animatedvideos5831 2 роки тому +190

    *6 Signs you're attractive emotionally - NOT LOOKS!*
    0:33 - You express your true self
    1:12 - You like to get to know someone emotionally rather than just superficially
    1:39 - You remember the little details about someone or some things
    2:24 - You're comfortable saying 'no' to uncomfortable requests
    3:10 - You are open-minded
    3:40 - You are passionate
    Anyone scoring 6/6? ❤️🚀🌙

  • @alexandriahunt6058
    @alexandriahunt6058 2 роки тому +48

    This reminds me of something that happened after high school. A classmate found my mom on Facebook and double-checked to make sure she was MY mom. I was surprised he remembered me because we weren't friends; we just happened to go to the same elementary, middle, and high school.
    He told my mom that he remembered me because I was kind to everyone, even if that kindness wasn't reciprocated. Y'all, I started crying on the spot 😭 I was so convinced he would have remembered me for my acne or frizzy hair or awkward mannerisms.

    • @VeganSemihCyprus33
      @VeganSemihCyprus33 2 роки тому

      Watch 👉 The Connections (2021) [short documentary] 💖

    • @MoPoppins
      @MoPoppins 2 роки тому +1

      I also remember the sweet kids, because it’s amazing how disregulated people are. They comprise the majority of the human population.

  • @chewthegum
    @chewthegum 2 роки тому +69

    Everyone: Wow, this makes so much sense, I do all of this without even thinking!
    Me: *_dying inside_*

    • @aiiiia9971
      @aiiiia9971 2 роки тому +10

      I assure you, you're not alone is struggling to line up with these traits.
      But every journey starts somewhere right?

    • @NamelessAnimat0r
      @NamelessAnimat0r 2 роки тому +4

      I can relate

    • @vondervent
      @vondervent 2 роки тому

      Nah, you're fine.

  • @snailracer4082
    @snailracer4082 2 роки тому +32

    The cute tones, occasional lip syncs, and references to _Bold and Brash_ as well as Rin...I resonate with Kayla's art style.

    • @VeganSemihCyprus33
      @VeganSemihCyprus33 2 роки тому

      Watch 👉 The Connections (2021) [short documentary] 💖

  • @annieweasley3339
    @annieweasley3339 2 роки тому +15

    0:00-0:05 Sanji and Pudding look so cute 💕💕

  • @esthetiqueBae
    @esthetiqueBae 2 роки тому +209

    She could be showing us how to boil an egg, yet shes teaching us about mental well-being and helping us cope with anxiety and depression. And also shows us adorable animations...💕
    Edit: thx for 200 hundred likes! 💕🦄

  • @mingsipeng4708
    @mingsipeng4708 2 роки тому +105

    “You show your true self”
    Flashbacks to me walking around like a crab hunching its back with arms that looks broken in public

  • @womenwhodate7643
    @womenwhodate7643 2 роки тому +8

    “That's always seemed so ridiculous to me, that people want to be around someone because they're pretty. It's like picking your breakfeast cereals based on color instead of taste.” John Green

  • @LadyIgiko
    @LadyIgiko 2 роки тому +15

    I love the Mary/Ib and Fate cameos in this video 😭💚

  • @DrJustininJapan
    @DrJustininJapan 2 роки тому +21

    At 0:26 seconds, Amanda Silvera speaks as one of the animation characters!!! I WAS SO SURPRISED. I LOVE THAT:) AND Kayla Ramirez did such a good job with animation!! Such good quality and fun to watch

    • @N0__N4M3
      @N0__N4M3 2 роки тому +1

      The mouth movement was so good.

  • @jennies_chanel7560
    @jennies_chanel7560 2 роки тому +22

    Best UA-camr of the year award goes to
    Physc2go 💞💞

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 роки тому +7

      💕 Best supporter ever, BLINK

    • @aiiiia9971
      @aiiiia9971 2 роки тому +3

      This is so wholsome
      (also can we take a moment to appreciate that this channel gets millions of views but they still make an effort to personally engage with as many viewers as they can)

  • @leonardm490
    @leonardm490 2 роки тому +27

    0:48 That SpongeBob reference in the back caught me off guard, and I absolutely love it

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 роки тому +3

      Where?

    • @jakekrause4015
      @jakekrause4015 2 роки тому +3

      @@greatwavefan397 It's a reference to squidward's painting; "Bold and Brash" from the episode: "Artist Unknown"

    • @SweetSerenadeXyWem
      @SweetSerenadeXyWem 2 роки тому +1

      Oo I was wondering where I had seen it before. Thanks!

    • @VeganSemihCyprus33
      @VeganSemihCyprus33 2 роки тому

      Watch 👉 The Connections (2021) [short documentary] 💖

  • @artlygalkd3502
    @artlygalkd3502 2 роки тому +5

    I actually never thought about this until I saw this video. I asked my friends if they agree and even asked my ex. They all said that they agree.
    They fell for me cause of who I am, while strangers who didn't know me insulted me and put me down for what I looked like.

  • @daderpycat5850
    @daderpycat5850 2 роки тому +4

    I watch these videos whenever I feel lonely or down
    They both help, making me feel better about me but also worse, making this stuff seem so easy

  • @dinasilva9263
    @dinasilva9263 2 роки тому +3

    This Channel deserves an award. Your work is more important than you may think. Thank you for all these vídeos.

  • @notsynth9706
    @notsynth9706 2 роки тому +26

    finally, a video that didn't make me 10x more depressed than i already was

  • @josevera6482
    @josevera6482 2 роки тому +6

    I love all the references in this vid.
    Thank you for good vibes as always.

  • @rebeccahjohnson9339
    @rebeccahjohnson9339 2 роки тому +29

    I don’t love how I am because I’m always being misunderstood or misrepresented in a negative manner and that’s not how I am. People find it easier to bring those who are different down when they should help bring them up. The world would be a much different place.
    ♥️😇

    • @sarakarthikeyan108
      @sarakarthikeyan108 2 роки тому +8

      People's perspective About us shouldn't be be considered cuz everyone thinks different and want us to be like they imagine we can't be a person for each and every guy/girl! People think negative about me too I just don't care about it anymore they pushed me into a limit where I don't care anymore and now they are saying what's wrong with you! Everytime ❤️

    • @jessicabellandy5687
      @jessicabellandy5687 2 роки тому

      Hundred percent agree

    • @jessicabellandy5687
      @jessicabellandy5687 2 роки тому +1

      @@sarakarthikeyan108 the problem is not caring about others is not good either, it's a tough balance.

    • @sans4124
      @sans4124 2 роки тому +1

      @@jessicabellandy5687 Yes you should just speak it right to there face
      That you do not like what they are doing and can not continue to talk to them if they dont stop doing so
      You need to make it clear if they still try to make shit up than just say it again
      Those people are just idiots

  • @markithh
    @markithh 2 роки тому +8

    i could listen to this woman’s voice all day

    • @cherjii
      @cherjii 2 роки тому

      She has a UA-cam channel! And yessss FR

    • @supergeekjay
      @supergeekjay 2 роки тому

      @Twst Stop overpromoting your own videos. It's NARCISSISTIC and shows YOUR TRUE personality. Stop it already!

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid 2 роки тому +33

    There are hundreds of languages in this world ,but a smile speaks them all

  • @divith6467
    @divith6467 2 роки тому +1

    The illustrations are really cool, it's so lovely

  • @aud6312
    @aud6312 2 роки тому

    OMG I LOVE THE ANIMATION SO MUCH

  • @Hopeyyhopp
    @Hopeyyhopp 2 роки тому +3

    Seeing you drew Marry and Ib made my day so much better. Ib was and still is my favorite game, and I highly recommend it to anyone who didn't played it.

  • @thesaddestdude3575
    @thesaddestdude3575 2 роки тому +22

    Sadly apparently im ugly in all ways, i thought i was but after years of rejection both platonically and romanticly. I was somwhat at peace with myself, but when others aren't then what gives.
    I was a bit of a people pleaser even though i was generally not very usefull i tried, but when i started saying no when i felt like i needed to, i just ended up pushing people away.
    When i talk about the things i like and are interested in people just don't care. Honestly i do most of this stuff. But it doesn't work out.

    • @alexanderavila8488
      @alexanderavila8488 2 роки тому +3

      im not sure what to tell you there are people who probably do care for you obviously but if its someone that you want maybe those are your best shot. What would help is a usage of analyzing certain things like behaviors and patterns. I don't want to sound grim or anything but this also seems like the situation in which you may not be really able to give it your all and mainly just have relationships for the beneficial part of it. There could some that may think in this manner but many that have are usually like this to an extent. Such thinking requires a very strong mind an example of it is how you react, how you argue, defend, and do things under certain situations. You could use emotions as an indicator from yourself or others but you can never truly act out on them if you don't have a logically possible reason to do so. It sounds sad but that's just how it is. Though it doesn't have to be plus you got a cool profile pic. Try being nice to someone and help them in times of need you don't really need to be involved deeply but that's where the analyzing of behaviors and patterns helps in.

    • @GabrielXDrums
      @GabrielXDrums 2 роки тому

      @@alexanderavila8488 what are you saying? Just sum it up, if they’re not interested they’re not, people are shit, that’s the truth.

    • @alexanderavila8488
      @alexanderavila8488 2 роки тому +2

      @@GabrielXDrums well the human mind isn't so simple. Things can be a bit more complicated and different than they seem whether for the worst or for the best.

    • @GabrielXDrums
      @GabrielXDrums 2 роки тому

      @@alexanderavila8488 make the best of it

    • @alexanderavila8488
      @alexanderavila8488 2 роки тому

      @@GabrielXDrums i suppose

  • @ms.rottenstrawberry1018
    @ms.rottenstrawberry1018 2 роки тому +1

    I love the little characters! The hairstyles are so interesting!!

  • @brunoboligon4049
    @brunoboligon4049 2 роки тому

    i see that sanji and that marco you absolute wonder of a youtuber, love your content, please never stop

  • @alishaanimations3058
    @alishaanimations3058 2 роки тому +6

    Ah I’m confident in this one I am-
    YEP! I had no idea that it was a thing to be emotionally attractive! Got in the way of determining if I was aromantic or not haha

  • @sato6200
    @sato6200 2 роки тому +6

    It also seems we are attracted to people that are somehow similar to us (ex: personality, preferences, hobbies, dislikes and likes). But sometimes we are also attracted to our polar opposites.
    *My opinion* those who adapt or good at reading the room are attractive to me. They're flexible in conversations. They also show different sides that makes me curious to get to know them more.

  • @vanessasanchez6376
    @vanessasanchez6376 2 роки тому +2

    All of what you said is what I've wanted to be like from the beginning, but in doing that I stopped being myself, so I've decided I won't waste my time trying to be someone I'm not I'm improving my physical and mental needs, and I'm really thankful I found this page for helping me realize what I was missing in life, and helpful me realize it's not all about being popular, and being someone other then yourself it's about being who you are and loving yourself for it, thank you so much for everything I really appreciate it.

  • @danny-li6io
    @danny-li6io 2 роки тому

    This channel is AMAZING!!! Thank you!

  • @mango9808
    @mango9808 2 роки тому +6

    I've been wanting this video for so long tysmmm can we have a video about looks next time?

  • @loojyelsokny280
    @loojyelsokny280 2 роки тому +36

    I love how she throws one piece characters randomly

  • @deltaf.2005
    @deltaf.2005 2 роки тому +1

    I love the references!

  • @me-zs7tr
    @me-zs7tr 2 роки тому

    Amanda's voice is therapeutic

  • @allghilliedup21
    @allghilliedup21 2 роки тому +4

    I've been attracted to this girl for the past year but pandemic made it impossible for me to get to know them. Couldn't even say hi on social media because we never met previously before the pandemic.
    IDK...usually crushes and obsessions go away quickly, right? How come I can't stop thinking about her

  • @jelly278_
    @jelly278_ 2 роки тому +3

    1. you express your true self
    2. you like to get to know someone emotionally rather than just superficially
    3. you remember the little details about someone or some things
    4. you're comfortable saying 'no' to uncomfortable requests
    5. you're open-minded
    Okay, i might be emotionally attractive then...

  • @quocthaile5982
    @quocthaile5982 2 роки тому +2

    Considering good looks, not my type and not myself. Emotions are the tool I transmit to each other my compassion and love ❤️

  • @snowgirl926
    @snowgirl926 2 роки тому +1

    I have all the signs. That is probably why people around me at work are pretty happy. Thank you for sharing this which helps me understand myself better.

  • @fkez0510
    @fkez0510 2 роки тому +12

    2:11
    HOLD UP, HOLD UP, HOLD UP, HOLDDDD UPPPP
    That's a god damn Fate reference! I love you guys!
    I only noticed it because of Lancer in the back 🤣

    • @TheExtremeblarg
      @TheExtremeblarg 2 роки тому

      Same at 3:31, thought I was just playing FGO too much but I'm glad someone else is seeing it

  • @grammarnazi3876
    @grammarnazi3876 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you, Psych2Go, for the well needed confidence boost. I owe you one.

    • @thinkbooth
      @thinkbooth 2 роки тому +2

      Wondered what would have happened if Psych2Go didn't exist

  • @andreamanca1387
    @andreamanca1387 2 роки тому

    I like how you guys treat psychology subjects and your voice is damn lovely

  • @marleejade4852
    @marleejade4852 2 роки тому

    This art style is so adorable 😊

  • @MedicalMan917
    @MedicalMan917 2 роки тому +4

    Well atleast I know there's something than me just being very anti-social and socially anxious. Most of the time if I'm spoken to I guess I could say I would "ghost my emotions." It's hard. I can't communicate with emotion, but I can keep my anger back in public. Recently it's been a bit harder on me though.

  • @a_weird_mess3
    @a_weird_mess3 2 роки тому +13

    I guess, I’m emotionally attractive then, because I look ugly as hell…

    • @Lia-vv4xo
      @Lia-vv4xo 2 роки тому

      I doubt that everyone’s beautiful and remember that

    • @santiagouruenabrochero5820
      @santiagouruenabrochero5820 2 роки тому

      Same

    • @a_weird_mess3
      @a_weird_mess3 2 роки тому

      @@Lia-vv4xo I’m an exception 🙂

    • @Lia-vv4xo
      @Lia-vv4xo 2 роки тому

      @@a_weird_mess3 I used to be so insecure but just remember god or whatever religion you have made you the way you were supposed to be and they made everyone beautiful and unique and I’m so much more happy that I feel that way abt myself

    • @latokay1406
      @latokay1406 2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/channels/xkns2YWnOzSzcAvPFPcYzA.html

  • @Master_Haith
    @Master_Haith 2 роки тому

    Listening to you talk makes me feel good

  • @rujulashivanand5933
    @rujulashivanand5933 2 роки тому +1

    your videos make me feel so good about myself. I want to continue to be myself all the time

  • @LmaoMeowz
    @LmaoMeowz 2 роки тому +5

    My personality’s all i’ve got goin for me at this point so let’s gOOOO
    1: My emotions? No. My opinions? *You will hear them and you have no choice not to*
    2: I like to but usually only if my first impression is good (i tend to make deep things funnier because i have that comedian mindset)
    3: I do try, and i do it sometimes. but i’m not very good at it.
    4: Yeppers. i say no (usually in the politest way i can think of) a lot
    5: I listen to a certain extent but if it’s _really_ stupid then nahh. But a lot of the time i don’t agree with other opinions and I usually don’t change my mind. i’ll just go ‘let’s agree to disagree’ and move on from it unless it’s a bad or harmful opinion
    6: not really lol. I do have my hobbies but nothing i’m _really_ passionate about.

  • @justjack796
    @justjack796 2 роки тому +8

    Being emotionally attractive seems to be a detriment sometimes some say I’m too kind and let others take advantage of me when I get really close to someone I seem to get more attracted to them so it hurts if they’ve manipulated me and then abandon me. However even if it is painful i love people too much so I won’t change my open personality

    • @justjack796
      @justjack796 2 роки тому +1

      @Leeroy Jenkins yea very true

    • @aiiiia9971
      @aiiiia9971 2 роки тому +1

      This is why being able to say "no" is one of these qualities
      It hurts, but not as much as being manipulated or taken advantage of for a long time

    • @matthewcuriel991
      @matthewcuriel991 2 роки тому

      And you shouldn't... i believe myself to be very similar. But the difference is im also super assertive so i tend to make people fear slighting me or manipulating me.
      Like it would hurt their image to do that and i tend to have respect from a lot of people around me.
      But the only relationship i have where someone continuously does manipulate me is with my mom because she is supremely narcissistic... id even go as far to say my life outlook has been negatively impacted by this actually. Its sad and i still try to find reasons not to out right be vitriolic about how she is like that with no regard of how her actions impact others. And its worst when you know my siblings and eveny dad would enable her all my life ... and gaslight me should i have mentioned something.
      But the only reason they got away with all that is due to an inherent power imbalance ... but in every other avenue in life i tend to not have that with people and i dont allow people to have anything over me whether it be merit or emotions ... you cant let people have anything over you or they will take that power and manipulate. Unless of course you find a good person but thats not the common person sadly. People generally are terribly with some redeeming qualities ... its a sad reality we live in.
      But i hope you font ever let anyone change you out of who you are ... being radically kind is a beautiful thing that others take for granted. Be the person that shows you can go through life without becoming morally corrupt.

  • @Tagikakibau
    @Tagikakibau 2 роки тому

    This is such a unique channel - so glad I found it.

  • @katelinatwitcharchives
    @katelinatwitcharchives 2 роки тому +2

    This is actually me, and you explained so many properties in myself it's nice to see it in this video for other viewers to know what this is like 🥰

  • @taabishkhanself-improvemen7331
    @taabishkhanself-improvemen7331 2 роки тому +7

    “You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending...”
    ―C. S. Lewis
    Love from a small UA-camr💙

  • @dep.ressed_star3838
    @dep.ressed_star3838 2 роки тому +3

    Ok this video was made for me
    I literally have depression and social anxiety.
    I’m literally chatting with a new friend and I have all of these signs
    I said no to them without feeling guilt.
    I’m really happy.

    • @aiiiia9971
      @aiiiia9971 2 роки тому +1

      Good progress! Keep it up ^^

    • @miyut.5056
      @miyut.5056 2 роки тому +1

      I'm glad to hear that. :) being happy while struggling with depression and social anxiety is very difficult

  • @marquendra
    @marquendra 2 роки тому +1

    I have them all! This also explains why I've gained a following for my passion for the animals I love that most don't. I'm taking my next big step in my goals of making educational videos and vlogs since people seem to like me. I always found it odd that people wanted to be around me or watch how I live and such. I've even had a couple of unsavory experiences with manipulative people that sought to gain an ego boost by getting me to care about them, but seeing this video definitely answered some questions!

  • @zum0t073
    @zum0t073 2 роки тому

    The references in this vid, I love it!

  • @IronMoth.
    @IronMoth. 2 роки тому +3

    "You express your true self"
    My dumbass: welp, looks like im out of the picture!!

  • @fkez0510
    @fkez0510 2 роки тому +65

    "Expressing your true self"
    Well, when you happen to have ASPD like myself, expressing your true self isn't exactly what others consider good lmao

    • @funnyvideoguy3216
      @funnyvideoguy3216 2 роки тому

      I hope you don't mind me asking, but what is ASPD? This is the first time I've heard about it

    • @Ambutakam29
      @Ambutakam29 2 роки тому +1

      haha seb go s🅱️in

    • @larsswig912
      @larsswig912 2 роки тому +6

      @@funnyvideoguy3216 anti-social personality disorder.

    • @sakuranovaryan9261
      @sakuranovaryan9261 2 роки тому +4

      I def relate wid this...I have aspd too. My therapist keeps telling me to expose myself to more social situations. She believes one day I'll be able to socialize normally without anxiety and panic. So I try to put my belief on her belief ig.

    • @fkez0510
      @fkez0510 2 роки тому +3

      @@funnyvideoguy3216 Anti-Social Personality Disorder
      In simpler terms tho, I'm a Sociopath which I'll assume you've heard of

  • @-snowy980-
    @-snowy980- 2 роки тому

    I love Amanda's voice!

  • @tessg7616
    @tessg7616 2 роки тому

    The Ib reference made me happy💕

  • @slaygal9012
    @slaygal9012 2 роки тому +4

    As an asexual who always has to explain my emotional attraction to my gf this video summed it all up

  • @arushisharma9397
    @arushisharma9397 2 роки тому +3

    Omg, this is the content I was looking for... ❤

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 роки тому +1

      Let us know if this video helped you! Glad it came on the right timing!

    • @arushisharma9397
      @arushisharma9397 2 роки тому

      @@Psych2go yes it did :)

  • @lysolmyfish
    @lysolmyfish 2 роки тому +1

    I love your videos so much, keep it up!

  • @shadowwizardmoneygang_
    @shadowwizardmoneygang_ 2 роки тому +1

    AHHH TYTYTY EEEEE I’m extremely outgoing and those facts fit me all! Thank you for making my day 🥰🥰

  • @reiryuhnz1396
    @reiryuhnz1396 2 роки тому +4

    0:09 Apparently Psych2Go ships Skye and Yoru.

  • @TinyWaterBottle.
    @TinyWaterBottle. 2 роки тому +18

    I can see why bennett is one of the most lovable character in genshin

    • @sakuranovaryan9261
      @sakuranovaryan9261 2 роки тому

      Wht anime is this?

    • @Ardnahc_FL
      @Ardnahc_FL 2 роки тому

      @@sakuranovaryan9261 Genshin impact is a game that hasa manga

  • @psykix6361
    @psykix6361 2 роки тому +2

    "You don't love someone only because you need them but you're in need of them because you love them."

  • @beepboop4679
    @beepboop4679 2 роки тому +1

    Who else runs out of words of how great this video is...

  • @putriislayy5803
    @putriislayy5803 2 роки тому +4

    Me, a someone who likes him bc he is smart, confidence, socialize, pet person, talkative :
    *sure, let me comfirm it*

  • @sophiashen3084
    @sophiashen3084 2 роки тому +5

    the ones who pressed the dislike button were jumping with joy that they missed the like button

  • @ArcadeAce21
    @ArcadeAce21 2 роки тому +2

    I love watching your videos before I start my day.. Gives me motivation to keep up and do the best I can♥️

  • @_Tiaa_
    @_Tiaa_ 2 роки тому

    Thank you again, Psch2go for another great video!😊✨

  • @thesushirealm4532
    @thesushirealm4532 2 роки тому +12

    So this is why I'm not physically attractive- Sadly not many people go for personality rather than looks so yeah imma sit and eat pringles and be single and not mingle ;')

    • @lynzypooh80
      @lynzypooh80 2 роки тому +1

      Looks may help get you in the room but PERSONALITY will keep u there. Okurrr

    • @thesushirealm4532
      @thesushirealm4532 2 роки тому +2

      @@lynzypooh80 damn- this was one good piece of advice-

    • @lynzypooh80
      @lynzypooh80 2 роки тому +1

      @@thesushirealm4532 aww thanks 🙏🏽

    • @ahogammer6895
      @ahogammer6895 2 роки тому +1

      Hi

  • @TimurMamatov
    @TimurMamatov 2 роки тому +7

    Sorry but this is incredibly naive, according to this video I've been emotionally attractive my whole life but managed to get a stable relationship only after I lost 50 pounds or so. Yet cases of Jeremy Meeks and Cameron Herrin prove that if you are good looking enough you can even be seen as attractive despite literally being a criminal. Emotional attractiveness is important but it can't beat good looks.

    • @frog6054
      @frog6054 2 роки тому +2

      I agree, we should strive to beterring ourselves mentally and physically.

    • @krix4961
      @krix4961 2 роки тому

      most people don't want to date a fat person, no matter how good they look.

    • @frog6054
      @frog6054 2 роки тому

      @@krix4961
      Because fat people are unhealthy.

  • @lorenznadua4271
    @lorenznadua4271 2 роки тому +1

    Psych2go is truly one of the best channels in UA-cam! Simply thanking you, because you help me and gives me tips on how to overcome my depression at school! Feeling burnout right now, but yeah fighting though!

  • @soloissolo7951
    @soloissolo7951 2 роки тому

    You have so soft voice, perfect to listen before fall asleep :)

  • @WaveEchos
    @WaveEchos 2 роки тому +8

    So... this is the secret behind the mysterious attractiveness of anime protagonists?

    • @rezkyilhamsaputra8472
      @rezkyilhamsaputra8472 2 роки тому +1

      Lol, i'm glad i'm not the only one who noticed it

    • @aiiiia9971
      @aiiiia9971 2 роки тому +1

      Really? I'm more into the villains, supporting characters, or anti-heroes....

    • @5-starmichelin760
      @5-starmichelin760 2 роки тому

      I'm more into supporting characters.

    • @WaveEchos
      @WaveEchos 2 роки тому

      Let's be clear. It's more about how the MC is to the other characters. Sometimes MCs are purposefuly designed to be averge.

  • @kenma4448
    @kenma4448 2 роки тому +3

    Time 1:43 Shoyo Yachi???

  • @GreasySenpai
    @GreasySenpai 2 роки тому +2

    When you are attractive physically and emotionally ❤

  • @queenofgoldenhearts
    @queenofgoldenhearts 2 роки тому

    omg that’s 100% me… i loved it!

  • @forgottenartform
    @forgottenartform 2 роки тому +9

    When you're emotionally attractive but lack the self confidence to take the step into the dating pool after the last really bad one and a history of bad experiences based on my appearance 😅

    • @miyut.5056
      @miyut.5056 2 роки тому +1

      The people that rejected you were not worth your time. The right one will accept and love you for both your personality and your appearance. It's like you said before, its all about confidence. I don't need everyone to tell me I'm attractive I just need to find the right one that sees beyond my appearance. Keep working on your self-confidence and you'll realize that your opinion of yourself is really the only one that matters.

    • @forgottenartform
      @forgottenartform 2 роки тому

      @@miyut.5056 thanks for that 😊 it's a work in progress but compared to where I was a few years ago I'm in a much better place - sometimes you need to look back to see how far you've come, not just focus on the end goal :)

    • @miyut.5056
      @miyut.5056 2 роки тому +1

      I'm glad you're doing better now :) and yes I agree the journey matters more than the end goal

    • @miyut.5056
      @miyut.5056 2 роки тому +1

      Why am I still on UA-cam? 🙈 I need a social media detox

  • @wildpigeon1230
    @wildpigeon1230 2 роки тому +15

    Still useless, no matter what I will never be attractive

  • @WorkHorse3002
    @WorkHorse3002 2 роки тому +1

    The art style was different in this one, and it was awesome

  • @SeelenTaucher
    @SeelenTaucher 2 роки тому

    Thank you psytogo much dear for doing that one 💕💕🌈💓🙏🏻

  • @JFMGaming-ef2ox
    @JFMGaming-ef2ox 2 роки тому +4

    There's this girl in my class that I like but I don't know how to start a conversation with her or if she's into me at all.
    I need help.

    • @sarakarthikeyan108
      @sarakarthikeyan108 2 роки тому +1

      Who doesn't , I also have the same problem , but everything is online now;-;"'

    • @JFMGaming-ef2ox
      @JFMGaming-ef2ox 2 роки тому

      @@sarakarthikeyan108 do you have any tips for me though please

    • @rahgurl2202
      @rahgurl2202 2 роки тому +1

      just be your self

    • @JFMGaming-ef2ox
      @JFMGaming-ef2ox 2 роки тому

      @@rahgurl2202 but I'm anxious and nervous to even talk to people I know more than her

    • @rahgurl2202
      @rahgurl2202 2 роки тому +1

      @@JFMGaming-ef2ox dont worry its okay to feel nervous just try ur best to talk to her like start with the things that interest you

  • @terrortalks3037
    @terrortalks3037 2 роки тому +2

    I've definitely felt emotionally attracted to someone, but I didn't have a name for it at the time. They were just so genuine and exhuberant it spread to me, I kept thinking "I like them, but why?" I was confused because I'm not used to coming across someone who is attractive that way.

  • @lula_freebird
    @lula_freebird 2 роки тому +2

    psych to go is literally amazing, you probably won't see this comment but I love yall so much, I get to enjoy a soothing voice while being educated and reassured. Psych to go is spreading the word about everything from romance, mental illness, a healthier person/personality and so much more. You are really underrated and I cant wait to have more psych2goers
    anyway toodles ^^

    • @aiiiia9971
      @aiiiia9971 2 роки тому

      Gotta agree
      I am so glad this channel exists to tell it like it is

  • @flakociclon44
    @flakociclon44 2 роки тому

    Basically the ability to empathize with those special people 😇