8 Signs of True Love
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- Опубліковано 19 жов 2020
- In this day and age, it’s easy to confuse love for mere infatuation, attraction, or desire. The truth is, true love is about so much more than just chasing that fleeting “fairytale feeling”. True love is about compatibility, commitment, and dependability. And it takes a lot of time and effort to make a relationship work. Have you found your true love yet? If not, don't worry, join our #singlessquad :)
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i do believe in true love
Have no idea.
I have always been single and hurt to many times.
@@gabrielmoralesgonzalez6471 You’ll find your true love soon! I am sorry to hear that you were hurt many times, but keep your chin up! True love will show its self, when you least expect it!
nope
A true relationship is two imperfect people refusing to give up on each other.
This one is the BEST DEFINITION I EVER GOT..❤💯👏👏
Does that also include 1 bad choice one may make that might hurt the other?
Refusing to give up on each other despite how bad the original choice was.
👍👏👏👏💯💖💖💖
That was beautiful... (T__T)
When silence isn't awkward. You can just be silent together, and its comforting.
i couldn't agree more, that is pure love
this
lol that is so true
Well, that's true, except if it's a new relationship, you have anxiety, you're awkward, you have social anxiety.
We sometimes just don't have anything to say and we're on video call(cause social distance and everything we can't really see each other) and we just sit there in silence looking at each other IT FEELS SO COMFORTABLE AND PEACEFUL
0:36 - You understand each other
1:10 - You respect one another
1:49 - You look out for each other
2:27 - You're supportive of one another
3:02 - You're patient with each other
3:36 - You're both willing to compromise
4:19 - You're not interested in anyone else
5:03 - You change each other for the better
😔
Thank you 😊
We have every thing that was written by you but she blocked me for disturbing her and said " i'm not the one you're looking for that you don't understand my situation ; find someone else" 😢
@@Jamesbond-sc6te how long have you known each other?
@@joeshabe over one year
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 ❤️
Amen!
Amen!
ኣሜን!
Yes!!
i’m no longer christian but i’ve always loved this verse and i still keep it close to me
Amen ❤
Love is much more than a feeling, it’s a decision to choose that person over and over again.
I wish I wasent aromantic
Very true
@@ivythealiencat hey even if you are aromatic you still have people who loves you in your life .
I think for me its still same not everyone need romantic or sexual relationship but people who truly loves you as you (that include family and friends)
(Just my thought )
@@MunniKumari-kx2bx but I still wish I could love people.. I watch anime and I ship people and like people but I cant seem to catch feels for irl people
@@ivythealiencat I know its same case with me ( i am just confused about sexuality) but i guess we can only wish 😓 so i just don't think to much but Even i wish i could
the lesson I've learned about "true love" is, when its mutual. No chasing, no forcing. Mutual feelings, mutual efforts. It feels so peaceful, calm, like coming home.
You describe it so well
Thanks for sharing this with us! That's so true!
Have u found it ?
@@laroseblanche9435 🙈haha thanks!
@@vanshika3123 yeep experience never lies! 😅
Getting over the honeymoon phase of any new relationship his a MUST. It's when you can continue building your relationship beyond that physical and "new and exciting" phase.
Well we’re past the honeymoon phase 3 years together and it feels like the honeymoon phase every time I see her.
We don't need to consciously get over the honeymoon phase, the phase comes naturally with any new relationship and it sometimes fizzles out NATURALLY or ages well like a wine.. NATURALLY.
Experience life as it comes.. things that are meant to be will always find its way.
The foundation of any relationship becomes strong when you face worst of life together not just the best.
For some people, worst of life may come after 2 years of relationship, for some it may come in just the honeymoon phase..in the first 2-3 months even. If you deal with the phase together, doesn't matter even if you're in your honeymoon phase, your relationship will strengthen in that phase too.
Most relationships don’t make it past the honeymoon stage when things start to get tough the first fight even I would know
@@aadtie5633 Gold advice
@@trailerkeller6760 that's a great feeling man
Watching this I realize I've never been truly loved. And I'm finally ok with it. Learning to respect and love oneself enough to not be a target or doormat for another person is also a form of true love. I'm grateful for the life lessons and I'm happy to be alive 😊 I wish everyone peace and happiness!!
I can relate to your words!! Loving yourself is important. You can't love others if you don't love yourself.
You aren't alone. Which is why we need to love ourselves. It's great that you know this. Not everyone does.
I just kinda love myself
@@bernardinoaguirre-on3grlol same
@@bernardinoaguirre-on3gr I don't fully love myself either which is hard because I am alone. I have felt loved before. Love is powerful. I keep telling myself I've moved on and seeing a video like this makes me excited for the future. In reality I've never had a girlfriend and at the time of this comment I am 35 and unsure of myself. I am trying to be open to meeting my partner 100% present and hopeful when soever that may be. I have distanced myself from organized religion but I find myself considering religion in order to meet my soulmate. I want to meet her soon but feel I shouldn't try to rush it.
Sign of true love :
-They don't play mindgame
-share little thing to each other
-love starts with friendship
Yeah first two are right but not every love starts with friendship
@@jhsemoxitha3821 yaa if love doesnt start with friendship then they should be bestfriend after relationship which is rare.
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death.
Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance.
I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner is. Also, you would more likely be much closer to a person who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a partner or spouse.
People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
Also, there are a lot of toxic romantic relationships, while there isn't that many toxic platonic relationships. Like an example is that abuse happens a lot in romantic relationships, while abuse is rare in platonic relationships. So there is a lot of abusive romantic relationships, while there is isn't that many abusive platonic relationships.
Why do you think abusive romantic relationships have a term for them called "domestic violence", while abusive platonic relationships don't have a term for them? It's because abuse in platonic relationships are very rare, while abuse in romantic relationships happens a lot.
And also, a lot of people cheat on their romantic partners with someone else, while most people won't do stuff like that with their platonic best friends.
Also, I heard that most people can live a life without romance and can still be happy. But most of the time, if someone doesn't have any platonic friends in their life, it can effect them really bad mentally; much worse than living a life without a romantic partner. In today's world, less people are dating and getting married now, and they seem to be more happy being single rather than being in romantic relationship with someone.
Also, you're going to have a much deeper spoken understanding and connection with your best friend than you are with a romantic partner or spouse.
So those are other reasons why romantic love isn't real or special, while platonic love is.
And also, it seems that fathers usually hate it whenever their daughter gets a boyfriend (even if the boyfriend is a good guy), and it seems that they often hate the idea of their daughter dating, and many fathers seem against the idea of their daughters dating. There are even shirts made for daughters that say "I'M NOT ALLOWED TO EVER DATE" and shirts made for fathers that say "DADS AGAINST DAUGHTERS DATING".
Brothers also tend to act the same way that fathers do whenever their sister gets a boyfriend (even if the boyfriend is a good guy). It seems brothers (like fathers) hate the idea of their sisters dating.
So it seems that most fathers don't ever want their daughters to find love and be in a romantic relationship with someone, and it also seems that most brothers don't ever want their sisters to find love and be in a romantic relationship with someone.
So those could also be other reasons why the concept of romantic relationships isn't a good thing because of how protective fathers and brothers tend to be whenever their daughter or sister dates someone.
most people waste their time trying to find the perfect love instead of creating the perfect love
Exactly 🥺
I’m trying to create one with my current boyfriend. It’s been 3 years. Slot of ups and downs. A break up.. back together now, we are working at it.
Or simply being someone's perfect love.. in essence, being the best you you can be.
@@311soul5 it's great that you're working at it and congrats on the 3 years but a person can only take so much before they break
From my personal experience, when you need to work on a relationship early on (less than a year), it is not a relationship to keep going
And if you think about her while watching this...that's true love
I’m so embarrassed
I always think about the person I love even through these videos
I searched for third thinking of her
Literally I was thinking about him🤪
Or him
(Or them)
Watching this makes me realize just how one-sided things have been with many of my past situations...including this most recent one. It's kind of painful to think about, but I know that being alone right now instead of chasing them away from other people is better for my own mental health.
I‘m sorry to hear that :(
Just hold on. True love does exist, and it will find you. Until then, love yourself and the qualities that you have so that others can see them and love you for who you are.
I’m really sorry, amanda. But please, don’t lose hope. Take every experience as a chance to learn and work on it. Then maybe you’ll find someone fit for you-and stick with them!
Kudos to you for doing what's best for you, not everyone has that strength
The mistake that most people do is that they expect all of these to happen at the beginning of the relationship. It takes patience, and by patience, time and effort must done by both individuals.
Indeed. My ex dumped me after 6 months together. She said that she easily gave up on people when things don't go her way. And I just walk away
@@Mohamadxeltxz I feel you bruv, mine lasted only for 8months. Left me hangin’ but it’s all good, we just gotta have to keep on moving forward. It is what it is.
Take years for me, i wonder my self why i didnt just gave up like in other previous relationship. But no 8 is the reward not just for our personal growth but the partner personal growth too.
@@laroseblanche9435 well said 💯
When i first started dating my partner i had a very unhealthy view of love and dating. And i treated them more like a fling than anything. I regret that too this day bc im absolutely in love with them now and vice versa. Its been 2 strong years and everyday i hope for more.
I wish you all find your true loves one day
3 days ago;-;
I wish the same to you
Thanks man you too
I don't think I have a chance of that happening to me, idk maybe it's just me but Have a doubt a girl will ever satisfy me in a partnership or ever actually love me or care. Thanks though.
@@TheDannyjoblack It will happen bro, just take your time.
I don't have a girlfriend too but im trying to be OPTIMISTIC and wait for the right time. 😊
To me :
-they put you first always
-they love you unconditionally
-they care for you so much
- they make your problems there own just so you don’t have to go through them alone
- they keep their promises
- they respect your boundaries
-they never leave you
-they’re willing to sacrifice anything for you
- they need you in good and bad times
-you have unforgettable love moments that you both cherish
- you would never break each others hearts
- you never mean hurtful things you say to them accidentally when you fight
- you believe in forever friendship and relationship
- you support each other in everything
- your relationship is not one-sided
-you talk about all ur issues
-you try to work on you relationship even when it seems failing you try to hold it to keep the memories you had together
- you only have eyes for them
- you love being together more than doing anything else
-you complement each other a lot
That's a pretty extensive list there. Doubt you'll find somebody that ticks every box, but I wish you the best of luck!
@@Dipped1234 i found, so will you🎉
@@llirik699 wish me too
The "only have eyes for them" bit gets me. I have everything else on this list but variety is something no individual can provide.
For me some of these are simping brother
through life i realised that, when you find the right someone, it just clicks and goes naturally. no forcing, faking and negative feelings.
Summary:
1. You understand each other 0:35
2. You respect one another 1:10
3. You look out for each other 1:49
4. You're supportive of one another 2:26
5. You're patient with one each other 3:01
6. You're both telling to compromise 3:34
7. You're not interested in anyone else 4:21
8. You change each other for the better 5:01
Thanks for reading :D (or the opposite???)
Here before it was finished 😳
Thank you so much. 🌸
Thank you!
thx and i was here before it was finished
Ikr same
1) U understand each other
2) Respect one another
3) U look out for one another
4) U support one another
5) Patience with one another
6) Willing to compromise
7) U are not interested in another ppl
8) Change each other for the better
Thanks for the tips😊
Love is support and respect yes
Thx ma dude
Was looking for this
@@krn5112
Pal, you have to move on. You will find someone better than her. She isn't worth it.
Seeing this video, I realize the relationship in my story is going in the right direction!
I hope I’ll be lucky to have someone as well…
Hope u get that person
@@donishanwar6385 so are you both together now ?
@@arto_voltaire i guess u made a wrong mention? 😅
this video was recommended to me in the most perfect timing xD
my boyfriend and i are celebrating our 8th year anniversary today and i couldn't be any happier to see that you described our relationship and its development over the years
Wooow i‘m so happy for you 🌟
time to get married bitch
I can't get my relationship right! Idk what's happening most of the points shared does not apply on our relation its breaking me to see this can you give me any suggestions? Or just suggestion in general?
I'm so happy for you ! I wish you good things :)
@@user-ku9ki3qc8e honey , it simply means he's not the one for u . but i think u should be a little patient with him and try to have a talk about your expectations :)
This sounds corny but we sometimes hold hand when we are sleeping.
I hold my own hand cuz it makes me feel less lonely lol
@@shijusachi haha good for you
Not corny at all! We've always done that. A lot of people want "their space" when they sleep, but the simple connection of hands gives security to the both of us.
bruhhh that's so cute!!!
thats not corny thats adorable :)
Right now, there are people all over the world just like you. They’re either lonely, they’re missing somebody, they’re depressed, they’re hurt,they’re scarred from the past, they’re having personal issues no one knows about, they have secrets you wouldn’t believe. They wish, they dream, and they hope. And right now, they are sitting there reading these words, and I’m writing this for you so you don’t feel alone anymore. Always remember, don’t be depressed about the past, don’t worry about the future, and just focus on today. If today’s not so great, don’t worry! Tomorrow’s a new chance. If you are reading this, be sure to share this around to make others feel better. Have a nice day!
amen!
Amen
Beautiful said as they say the truth hurts as if there’s a deep wound as I read this brought me tears 😭 in my eyes true love in the heart hurts ❤️
thank you so much.
Thank you so much, brought trears into my eyes. Have a wonderful day!!
11 years later and my husband is still wonderful and we are still each others best friend. Since having our daughter, things have gotten more difficult but we were ready for that.
I'm so glad he's such a kind, generous, gentle, patient soul. He's also crazy and silly and makes me smile ❣️ the only thing I'm afraid of is taking him for granted
being in an almost 3 yo relationship, taught me that ,even though I might sometimes feel the "fall out of love" emotion, it';s all about trying to find the solution, not just leaving ur partner behind. Sometimes it's just being overwhelmed, stressed that our mind is trying to blame on our love. I know that my relationship will last just because of how well we can communicate. Don't forget that love it's not effortless, and it won't always be the same as when you met each other.
Thank you so much for this video
One of my worst fears is being with someone for years, and having them fall out of love with me...
Oh my... same
In the end, We are our most relaible companions.
My fear is this:
I'm afraid we talk too much, we'll get bored of each other....but also afraid if we don't talk enough, we'll grow too far apart.
We love eachother deeply, but I still have my fears. The best thing you can do is discuss and reasure eachother about the future so that you have something to look foward to and accomplish with one enother in life.
@@pumpkin2084 that is my fear too.
Although its normal for people to get used to each other, my fear is whther that would compell him to accidentally fall in love with soneone else.
Of course he won't cheat or do anything that would hurt me, but what if for that reason he puts up with me with the image of the other woman still in his mind.
Its all confusing. Best thing to do is communicate and live in the moment
I have experienced this...i don't wanna talk about it..brief is..2 yr relationship...he just kicked me out of his lyf..even when i agreed to every single thing...things in which i was also not comfortable. I-...he never on cheated me..he loved me but- anywyas *sigh*...but i have experienced wht u said
@@madhubalasharma2625 I’m so sorry you had to go through this... I wish you the best💙
Brain: why are you watching this you don't even have a friend now.
Me: just in case, maybe in future.
hope you can find really nice persons to be on your side~ good luck buddy 😄
You're watching this video because you love yourself and you know you deserve the best thing in the world : to find true love. :)
You're preparing yourself to recognize and welcome this love into your life.
You're taking care of yourself and this is the best thing you can do for you ;)
@@Chryseis totally agree with you
Same
I here because I think I left the true love
I am planning on proposing next month, and this video definitely reaffirmed that we do in fact love each other 😊
I hope your plans went well?
@@Tomezilla514 they went great!!
@@hk_4014 We're happy for you, mate!
Whoa, it is actually so nice to see that we basically hit every one of these after 5 years of relationship. And here I was thinking about the lovely honeymoon phase as my friends start new relationships but now I understand that we have built something so much deeper together ^^
“You can’t just come into someone’s life,
make them feel special
then leave.”
-Kim TaeHyung
A lot of credit goes to this Great Man💯 who helped me to bring back my ex lover. He can also help you in any kind of problem you may be facing right now❤
@@melissamoore3651 i know 💜
Love you 💜 when did he said that ?
thats the opposite for me since I made someone feel special they left me
Good
1. Understand each other
0:35-1:10
2. Respect
1:10-1:49
3. Look out for each other
1:49-2:27
4. Supportive of one another
2:27-3:02
5. Patient with each other
3:02-3:36
6. Willing to compromise
3:36-4:19
7. Not interested in anyone else
4:19-5:02
8. Change each other for the better
5:02-6:10
My man.! I came to comments section searching for someone like you.! 👍🏼🙌🏻
@Tanya Collett ooooooof
The hero we all need, thank you
I disagree with the seventh one. What about polyamory?
thx!!!!
I've been realizing that I've been unknowingly pushing those who love me away, friends, family, and everything in between. I've been learning to love myself and I'm seeing how important that is in all my relationships.
I've had some rocky times recently, but I can tell it's because people are truly trying to help me grow, even if it requires a metaphorical slap in the face. Out of all the things in this video, patience has been my struggle recently.
I'm feeling very hopeful, I'm gaining back my ability to love others by first knowing what it means to love myself. Letting go of expectations of what love will look like in others is liberating.
Never forget the role of smell in relationships.
What is the role?
Being with my girlfriend doesn’t feel like an obligation or a chore. I don’t feel forced to share my time or anything else with her. Everything that I do for her feels natural and open. I may be young but idc, she really exhibits all these traits and we are both growing and I can’t wait to tell her how in love with her I am
Congrat🤍✨
Your good man. Your one of the rare people in this world that are actually a good person. I seen a lot of people but your the few that are hard to find now and days.
@@Grim45120 Thanks man. I really want to improve from before cause depression and anxiety can’t really fuck you up. I’m better than I was before and I’m so grateful
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Praying for everyone to experience this true love.
😭 thank you.
Im going through like this stage I'm 14 what advice do u give me
@@AbdulRahman-om2kf good for you,yet know that you're still young,know your limits.
@@axhye I don’t quite understand you Ashley would you care to simplify your statement
@@AbdulRahman-om2kf know your limits
Excellent video. It's about "serving" one another and accepting ones flaws. It's being a "giver" and not a "taker" and making sure nothing bad happens to your partner. Not criticizing them when a big mistake happens. Standing by them.
Being faithful is so important
Which seems like not many people can do anymore just be faithful
Exactly
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.”
1 Corinthians 13:4-5, 7-8
Straight from the Holy book🤍
Praise be to Jesus! Thank you so much.😊👏✝️💖
my favorite verse
This is so true.💖
I was thinking about these exact verses the whole time I was watching this! Amen ❤
Me, who has been single the entire life:
Imma watch this anyway
Same.
Me too...
Same. I feel like I'm watching a travel show even though I can't afford to travel anywhere and don't even feel like travelling anymore
Im my own 69th like
The Hunt went weird but nice
@@TheMCzorro Oh my God, yes
Wow, that's actually a good video about love. Not the usual superficial attributes people normally talk about wanting in their potential partner. Nice to see someone spread the idea that love ist actually something that is built over time and not just something that appears out of nowhere and stays forever
My partner was cheating on me while we were leaving together for 2 years. Although there were so many some red flag, but she never stopped telling me how much she loved me and want to spend the rest of her life with me. So I kept on believing her lies and shoving the red flags. . Never knowing that she was having an affair with a guy that I know and they both kept it a secret. I got to find out when I open up to a very good business partner. How I have been noticing some red flags and he advised me on what to do and to find out for sure if she is being faithful. It was then that I realized that she was having an affair with this guy and they were secretly making future plans.. I was so heart broken by this but still grateful that I did the needful to actually find out. It is really such a painful thing how people plays with ones emotions.
The email address above helped me discover everything. In doubt, send him an email and thank me later.
please how did you get to find out?
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So actually if you feel a connection and physical attraction towards someone you can create true love with anyone just by working on it together. I always thought I need to find a "perfect match" when in reality we actually create it. Love this, thank you so much!
Compatibility still plays an important part. Just because you can coexist with just about anyone doesn’t mean it’s love or that you will be happy with them. Even if you can fix things doesn’t always means it’s worth the time or effort or that the other person feels the same. That’s just called settling. It’s better to find someone that you harmonize well with and don’t have to constantly fight either. It’s not impossible.
@@P00CHEZ thank you for the reply. Unfortunately I was in 7 relationships and still no luck with a partner for life. I though I was compatible with some, but then something changed and it didn't work out. I guess compatibility is just as temporary as emotions we experience at the beginning. I don't know what works in relationships anymore because everything I tried has failed. So I decided just to enjoy life as it is. Still, it's not easy.
@@menahealing Love is a verb not a feeling. We love someone by showing them we care through acts. Every day we must wake up a choose to love our partner whether we are pissed off with them or overjoyed with them. Once infatuation fades you can choose to either focus your time on building this true love with the person or move onto more infatuation with someone else. Of course you must be relatively compatible and the relationship should always feel safe.
@@menahealing i think it depends on the circumstances when you talk about compatibility; sometimes if there is a huge cultural difference or religious difference etc it may turn out messy at some point when its time to make life decisions such as marriage or how you will raise children if you decide to have any, also cultural and religious differences sometimes have different ways to show ''respect'' and ''care'' or handle arguments which will make it feel like an endless battle to prove a point to one another all the time, but like i said it all just depends. Its one of those topics that can go on forever lol
@@Harry_irl im feeling like the infatuation is over, and im scared because i know that i want to stay with him but im now questioning whether i love him..because the butterflies i was feeling are gone.
I still blush when I think about us holding hands. We've been dating for a year now.
Congrat✨🤍
Same
Omw awww
I still try not to cry when I think about my ex. It’s been 4 years since we broke up.
has he smashed yet
I am almost crying out of joy. Because I may have found my one true love. I am so thankful for this!. Thank you
Spot on well done 👏 and one extra is every cell in you're body tingles and jumps with joy when you have met the one ❤❤❤🎉
I think the best romantic relationships come from friendships!
Nahh
@@lazyfvckx fr you don’t think so? 😮
Well, I can relate. Even tho it didn't end well, one of my best relationships came from a friendship
@@jinphany. exactly that's what I always feel when you are friends you know each other in a special way and true friendship is rare just like true love
Depends
This is a positive sign.
You're right where you need to be. You are worthy. You are brilliant. You are loved. May all your worries wash away and you find the love of your dreams 💗 Dr. Liz
thank you. sending love and light💕
Thank you 😔
I'm right where I need to be huh?
Yup I guess I deserve to be here
Saw this at 333 likes with 3 replies. I will take this is as a sign 😌
Me who just plays video games all day and is hated by every girl: yeah sure i am i excepted to be noley years ago doesent even hurt anymore.
I got Tears of Joy after watching this cuz I changed my crush's life. It was like I'm the light who's saving her from any darkness. She was depressed, Angry as always before we met cuz of her fake friends, bullies. I'm very kind, caring, respectful person who loves to give ppl a smile. She loves me so much dat I rlly found my perfect soulmate. We have patients to meet eachother cuz we're at Long Distance Relationship between Philippines (Me) n Mongolia (My crush). Thanks for reading this, I hope u learned something here
I knew a woman from Mongolia, very good person. I wish u all the best in love 🥰
Thx
thank you!! finally a much more less sleepy narration and this is great information that got my attention too.... my goodness, i fall asleep everytime the other lady's narrates with her sleepy voice...
My soul mate recently passed away. He met all the signs. It was all so beautiful and perfect that not even I believed that would happen in reality. I miss him 😭
Sending lots of love 🥺 he’s with you every step of the way
@@annwinner810 they died not left them
Stay strong my friend, he's in a better place now, and watching over you.
Sorry for your loss😔 Sending lots of love to you❤️
@@annwinner810 he passed away. He's not alive
Here's my goal in my love life:
Find someone who likes my weirdness and make sure we aren't afraid to be ridiculous in front of one another
Someone who loves my ADHD personality 😂
Yeah, in my case that weirdness of mine is metaphysics.
My previous boyfriend could not stand my weirdness, he would point it out and make me feel ashamed “why are you being so weird?” etc..
But my boyfriend now (and I’m keeping this one!) absolutely loves my weirdness! He tells me all the time and laughs with me all the time about it. He constantly asks me to do my weird stuff and then proceeds to laugh in that amazing laugh of his. It’s so so wonderful to have someone supportive in your life!
I’m praying God will lead someone like that for you!
@@aubreymarquardt1818 that’s so sweet 🥺
@@loganwolv3393 , don’t settle. You will find that, I promise you. But please don’t settle. I found my person after years of looking.
When I was watching this, I was checking of the boxes just to make sure it was true love, the person I'm currently in a relationship with is something I can't just describe because there is so much hope and dedication that I share with them that it's overwhelming sometimes. I hadn't heard from them in months, until Saturday, when I got an anonymous call that turned out to be them. We rarely ever see each other, and it turns out that they had moved, not out of state though which is very fortunate. We both started crying when we heard each other's voices for the first time in what felt like a very long time, it was almost alien to her their voice again, but I was overjoyed that I could hear from them again. What really hurts is that I just started high school (my significant other is a grade lower than me), they are in a different school and my parents are downgrading every dream I have of keeping some of my friends after school and still having a strong relationship with them. This is only because they each only have one friend from school that they never talk to but still have in their contacts or on Facebook. What they don't know is that I will NOT be like them. And I will find a way to keep what I have.
Sending good vibes for you my dude. If your friends are worth fighting for then go for it, fight for them. It's very essential to have friends who will have your back in the coming years. Cuz really it's tough out there in the real world and having your squad with you will make it a heck lot easier to get by.
Thank you for your advice, I will take them into account. Thanks to your video, I was able to make up with a loved one
I am so grateful that I have someone in my life that has ALL these characteristics!!!!!!!! ☺️☺️☺️
Same here. 💜
same
Lucky 🥺
Same here 🥺
Lucky
"you can never be wise all the time when you're inlove."
-Bob Ross
True love just don't pop up overnight. It needs constant work and dedication. You water your relationship like a young plant and make it grow into a flourishing tree. It takes time and effort to do so. But it will become our priority when we are in love.All the points stated in the video is true about real love. Nice video🥰
"They inspire you to want to become a better version of yourself" Yep. He got me into playing guitar again so i can make music for and with him. I started to sing songs to him because my confidence is up because he tells me he loves my voice. Im eating better. My mood is stable and even when im frustrated I know he'll be waiting for me at the end of the day. God I love him so much.
Love is not a feeling. It's a behavior, and you need to keep behaving it year after year after year. It's wonderful when it's done right.
The reason a lot of people don't fall in love is because of how they keep trying to look for it without just letting it happen
Thank you for the great and touching video. Hopefully we all find that person !!!
love is more than a feeling. It's nice to meet a new day with your love. Treasure these moments❤
I don't why I'm here, I don't even have a crush nor am I in a relationship lol
Might help in the future (:
Just in case lol
Thanks for sharing! What made you click on this video? :)
@@Psych2go well I'm a subscriber so whatever you post I just watch it 😅
Be prepared for any future relationship
I’m really in love with him and he’s in love with me. And I’m crying such happy tears about it not only because of the video but because of the experience I have with him
Awwww thats so wholesome I'm about to explode.
I'm happy for you. You're so lucky
I hope your relationship stays forever and becomes stronger day by day
@@madhubalasharma2625 me too
@@madhubalasharma2625 thank you for your message ❤️
I agree with those 8 ! And here are my essentials to make relationship last 4 ever : affection , forgiveness, mutual respect, communication, trust and a solid and constant commitment ❣ easy daisy 😉
Blah, blah, blah
Thank you so much for these wonderful tips.
I never dated anyone.
I hope that one day I'll find my true love.
Thanks for sharing!! How do you feel after watching this video?
@@Psych2go
I feel motivated after seeing this video, inspired to find the right person. :)
@@Psych2go ok ig
Good for you!!!
You will get better loving partner ❤️
I love someone who've been broken and hurt for so long. I just wanna make them feel loved and safe because they are the adorablest and cutest person I've ever met but sadly, the person I love is in love with someone else.
I know that completely. It's incredibly difficult to deal with, and I can only hope I find someone else I can feel like that with, as I know my current interest will never feel the same way for me as I do for them.
same my friend.....
Thanks for sharing. Sorry to hear. That must be very hurtful. How are you doing now?
@@Psych2go They're still love with someone else and they told me how much the other person means to them. I'm not really okay, I'm trying my best to move on but it's so hard. I still love them a lot. Thank you for caring, your videos helps me a lot!
@@user-dx4od4ck1m there are many other opportunities waiting for you and I sympathize with your situation. Take good care of yourself. Bad things happen and they happen for a reason. Maybe that person isnt destined to be yours, whatever it is do not lose hope and keep going :))
You don't assume they would do the same for you!! Best interest at heart!! THanks for that beautiful doc :D🥊💌
Real love is extensionality. Extensionality in essence is the ability to extend another person’s mind or life or possibilities. Wouldn’t that be nice? To have or be that person to another who will make you realize your possibilities and let you understand the world a little better? I thought, that IS love.
Love has been overly romanticized in movies and fairy tales; like love is some sort of magic that makes everything all rosy and shiny. It sets an expectation so high about what love should be that eventually sets us up for a glaring disappointment in our relationships.
Love is never steady. It fluctuates. Like you love yourself sometimes, other times you don’t. You’re lovestruck with your partner one time, another time, you’re just ok. And sometimes you just hate them for the littlest mistake they made that on any other day wouldn’t have bothered you at all. But it doesn’t mean you love them any less. It’s just the way it is. Therein lies the wonder of experiencing these fluctuations in love and life, for that matter; it makes us appreciate those moments of sheer happiness because we have experienced those moments of sheer desolation. For how can we know the difference if we have not experienced the other?
Am I the only person who watches these to be a better friend? I'm not in a romantic relationship but I have friends I care deeply about and I always want to be the best friend I can.
whats your zodiac sign? your moon sign?
As someone who didn't have a whole lot of friends growing up, I want to deeply care for and treasure the few precious friends I have now. I keep my friendships like a garden: what I sow and water will grow later!
@@suntrology1680 I'm sun capricorn and moon vergo
I think true love can be between friends as well, so I watch these to be a better friend too! This helps my romantic relationship as much as my platonic ones.
Your heart is in the right place. I started watching the videos about depression trying to find answers (it's burn out) & then started to look at my relationships... but I wasn't looking with my heart in the right place. It was just another answer to find & problem to fix. But recently I've been shifting my mind & heart to being a better person because most of my unhappiness is towards myself & I was projecting. So being a better friend, child, self, etc. is where we better our hearts. Good on you. (May you Live long & prosper)
8 signs of true love 💖:
-you understand each other
-you respect one another
-you look out for each other
-you’re supportive of one another
-you’re patient with each other
-you’re both willing to compromise
-you’re not interested in anyone else
-you change each other for the better
:)
@Patrick Not Star tf
So does 7 mean polyamory isn't true love?
i dont even know how to read what does this say
newphone who dis
Thank you :)
I was with someone in a ldr and thought it was true love at first but I quickly realized he never had my best intentions at heart. He caused a lot of problems but I have no Ill feelings toward it anymore. I’m grateful for the lessons I learned. Now I see love in someone else, he’s everything I’ve always wanted for myself and he knows me like no one else. He has taken care of me, made sure I ate whenever I forgot and he would give me hugs/cuddles whenever I got sad or stressed out. On days that seemed impossible he would take me out to do things together and simply always put me first. What we have between us I feel like it could turn into something like this but it’s not our time right now.
Lately I've realized #7 really hits home to me.. especially as of late. I look at pretty girls all around me and realize I do not care too much about it nor do I want a relationship with anyone else. #8 as well as I've changed so much!
Well my lamps are very patient, aren't interested in anyone else, respect me, and they always make my day brighter...
*It's love*
Yes
POV: ur a moth
Haha
😂
Sad plot twist: they are not interested in you either cuz you know they're lamps
This is so accurate. I have never doubted that my fiancé is the real deal. We've been together for more than 8 years, we hardly ever argue and when we do, we always make sure to solve it before bed. I can always tell what he is thinking about and vice versa. We suprise each other from time to time with flowers, the other's favourite rare snack, or a special home-made meal. He supports me in my depression and I respect his boundaries when it comes to social activities (I am an extravert while he is an introvert). It just... works! We were going to get married this Thursday but had to postpone it for a year (thanks C-19), but we love each other so much we already consider ourselves husband and wife. ❤
Need a advice from you ,can you help me 🥺🥺
@@shivankchaudhary6438 Of course, what is it? Hope I can help.
Okay , I also need to ask u smth. What does crushing feel like? Can u describe it?
@@yoshuaisnotok8794 I think it's different from person to person and even from crush to crush. I've had crushes in the past but they weren't always the same. The things they had in common was 1. thinking about them all the time, 2. finding ways to be around them (usually when spending time with mutual friends) and 3. constantly blushing and being unable to stop smiling whenever talking to them. But the experience was different with each of them. One crush was exhausting and painful, another was exciting, sometimes it was both.
The trick is to know the difference between crushing on someone and falling in love. In my experience, the guys I have crushed on were surprisingly easy to get out of touch with. Out of sight, out of mind. But with my fiancé, it was different. A week without him felt like an eternity. I was uncharacteristically proactive in going to whatever party or movie he was going to with our mutual friends and I had even asked him out on our first date. I'd never even thought of doing anything like that before. It was a sense of certainty that we belonged together. He felt the same way, and we were both pretty honest and straightforward with each other about it, which was scary for both of us but formed a very solid start for our relationship.
All I can advise is: always be honest with yourself and the person you (think you) are crushing on. It's terrifying, but it's honestly the best way to go. Think to yourself first: could it work between us? Maybe start as friends and see if it can be built up to more than that, one step at a time. If it doesn't happen, that can be painful, but then someone else was meant for you. Never try to force it if it doesn't feel right.
Hope this helps a little?
@@TheKrazeeLadee thank you so much! I am aromantic so I don't know how it feels to have a crush , so I just wanted to know. You and your fiancé are so adorable!
I’ve never felt more accepted, understood and loved by the person I’m with right now. It’s crazy coming out of a relationship and not realising JUST how shitty it was until you find someone who really does love you and feels the exact same way you do
That’s right! I’m trying my best and learn harder and make a good quality and kindness to show and stay with him. Suddenly I don’t have any feeling for anyone else ❤Make a perfect self for him
*Love is not a temporary feeling or emotion. Emotion and feelings change sometimes daily, but true unconditional love is everlasting*
When you stare at him and suddenly you start crying but you’re not feeling sad nor empty, instead you feel very lucky ❤️
😢😢😢❤️
I really appreciate all your videos, growing up I only know tough love, and I am learning what real Love is by watching your videos I want to say thank you
truelove can be describe as extreme happiness, happines you never experience before or just thinking about him/her your heart is beating fast.
I feel true love is when u start to include them in your everyday prayers ❤️
🙏🏻😇
Definitely :))
what? what if you dont pray?
@@dabordietrying i guess if you don't pray it doesn't apply to you then
So im inlove with literally every person in the world? 😭
This isn't about true love at all, this is about what people do in healthy relationships. Regardless of if it's even love or not.
I can't agree more!
But do you think people would do all of that if they wouldn't be in love?
Falling in Love or Limerence isn't Love.
@@06chrissy07 It's the begin of it :)
Ya no matter how much you fit this criteria you can fall out of love with them still
Thanks for these ...it's really inspiring....hope for more good messages...and more lessons to learn
this kind of love is so NICE N WHOLESOME..you feel safe and secure!!!
TRUE LOVE DOES NOT NEED TO BE PRIMARILY RELATIONSHIPS I'm watching this and so many of my friends and I function like this, this also can be signs of true love in friendships
@hiya yeah, you're right. I also had that feelings what was described in this video.
It's just true love in friendship, on any kind of relationship to keep it healthy for both sides.
Ok and what is your point exactly?????their needs to be more true love in relationship's actually it is what is sadly LACKING IN THIS WORLD OK...
So, true friendship=true love?
Ikr! I feel so fulfilled all the time even when I am single. I am surrounded by excellent people and that is more than I could ask for. It's good to find that romantic love but it's not the driving force in my life because I think my family and friends are the loves of my life.
One memorable thing my boyfriend told me was: "You were a new step in my life and with you I finally started being the person I always wanted to be."
It's still one of the most beautiful sentences someone as ever told me and it always makes me tear up
Edit: xD we broke up HAHAHAHAHA he wanted something open because it fit his lifestyle better and I wanted a real relationship
So we both wanted to break up
Something open? Buy him a can of beer xD
Lmao 😂😂
Its ok, never get back with him 🤗 biggest blessings happen once, doesnt deserve another one 😁 you can watch tania lucely and mina the universe guru to understand why this is the best for you
A relationship is the perfect occasion to diminish your ego. Don't have any ill feelings towards him.
@@st0a gladly I don't:3 the breakup was actually great and he helped me realize a lot of things
I'm grateful I got to meet him
Beautiful video. Thank you 💜
Thanks for this video, now I know more. it was very helpful for me🙂
I would add one more: you say the same things at the same time✨
When you're in a true, long lasting, loving relationship your brains literally start getting wired together on some weird ethereal level, no joke.
I've been living together with my man for 4 years now and we dated for about 2 years before officially becoming a couple.
(we're planning to get married)
I swear we don't even have to talk anymore! 😂 We just look each other in the eyes and we both know what's up. We say the same things in the same manner at exactly the same time, then laugh, then both say "I love you" simultaneously, then laugh again about that 😁
True love feels like being the ultimate besties 💖
awwww im so happy for u guys! God bless
Wonder what that feels like… Good luck on maintaining your relationship! 👍
🥺❤✨
so happy for youuuuu
Well ok there's a classmate of mine who teases me alott like he just can't live for a day without irritating me by arguing with me and he laughs alot when I say anything but there's one issue that we say things at the same time or it happens like he says what I was actually going to ,,what I was thinking of and he also agrees with my sayings and says "I was also going to say this" (lots of says LMAO)..
But what does it means tho ..I get confused sometimes
This is a great video! Why is this unlisted? (I founded the video in the "Dating" playlist.)
Praveen Vijay yeah me too
Same
Ummm
How Was this comment 3 months ago
@@lagabbybubbles9344 did you even read what the initial comment said
Marrying the man I love this yr in Dec. I couldnt be happier knowing he really does love me and vise versa. I wasnt taught what that truly was when growing up, but I took care of myself, made myself knowledgable, and ended up with a best friend/fiance that taught it to me patiently. June 14th is our 9 yr anniversary. I cant believe its finally happening
I've had many failed relationships in the past. Every time we'd argue or fight, it would get ugly fast, and we'd always end up leaving that distasteful atmosphere hanging around with no resolution, hoping it would go away eventually. With my current partner, we still have disagreements, but we both clearly communicate our emotions, get to the root of the problem, and resolve things to the best of our ability, usually coming out stronger on the other side because of it. We've never once gone to bed feeling angry at each other. That's why I'm convinced I've found true love.
I’m in love with my best friend. She said she feels the same way but wants to wait till after high school. I said id have the patience to wait for however long she needs. All I want is her to be happy. And if in the meantime she finds feelings for someone else. I won’t hold her back. Either way her happiness is all I care for.
I hope things work out with you two!
I’m feel sad for y sorry😭
Hope you don’t separate or anything~
I think you’ll be happy together
@@j-hopearmy9470 accept it, nobody's perfect, let people be themselves, show some respect, if you feel insecure, your not happy, requires time and effort,conflict of interest, uncompromising and confrontational is not the way to go🆘🚩💲✅⛔
Watch as she changes her mind by the time
*When you've been single all your life so you think about how your characters you've created would feel instead, and see if they fall into any of these categories*
Omg I'm glad I'm not the only one-
*yes*
aww, I always do that! Somehow I've managed to write my favourite fictional couple ever (I mean, normally I'm not that proud of my work but I love those two characters and their relationship), now I think about them when watching/reading/listening about true love
@@magorzatabiakowska831 I love when that happens! I have a few couples I'm happy about too.
Yep absolutely me.
My OCS have a happier love life then me lmaoo
Neon and Blade:*Laughing in happy*
Your videos really help me learn new things about myself that I never knew thanks.
You're on point with everythin you said honestly.. there is a girl and I who are really great friends were not together but everythin you said seems like we are so thank you for sharin this video
I finally feel I've found my true love. There is hope everyone :') don't give up
I hope it works out for you
@@homerlol9058 thank u !! :')
Where and how did you guys meet? -I like to learn about how two people were destined to meet each other ;)
@@sameena713 I was attracted to him from the beginning lol. His name is Tim and he went to a school that i was new to and I already knew I had a little bit of a crush but did nothing about it. I got into a relationship with the complete wrong person and it was a very bad relationship. After me and my ex broke up and I had moved on from it i asked one of my friends to give me Tims phone number. Flash forward to quarantine and I was in one of the worst mental states I've ever been in. I cut myself off from everyone and went weeks without showering n all that jazz. One day I had become fully convinced that i wasn't a real person and all my memories were fake and I couldn't stand it and I don't know why but he's the one person I could bring myself to text at that time. Our whole relationship started out with me freaking out and delusional and him trying to help lol. I got better slowwwwly over time and we became best friends for a couple months. I knew I wanted to be in a relationship with him. The more we talked the more we seemed to get along and the more we seemed to have in common. Even from the beginning it was easy for me to talk to him which is uncommon for me with most people. We made a shared spotify playlist and we made plans to do fun stuff together post-quarantine and gave each other some hope :) it was very nice. I knew then that I was genuinely in love with him. Around the middle of summer he asked me to be his girlfriend (which I was going to do but he beat me to it). We have been going steady for months now and it's been absolutely amazing. I still definitely get my bad days but he supports me through them and we encourage each other to do good in school because it's hard to be motivated to do online school hahah it just feels so right to be with him I can't describe it. This is definitely true love. He's been patient with me, I've been patient with him, we respect each other, and I just feel 100% comfortable with him. I mean I'm not unrealistic I know that we are just teenagers and in the end it likely won't work out but our relationship is so healthy and we both are deeply in love with each other so that's why I call it true love. We may not last forever doesn't matter to me. I have him right now and that's all I need
@@beepboopienjoysoup8132 Thanks for sharing!! I think you're doing great by staying in the present moment and enjoying each other's company! Especially with someone who brings out the best in you!
I watched this video a few years ago when I was with my ex and kept justifying why not all of these qualities are needed to have true love. Just rewatched it today because it came up on my recommended and guys, I think I have it. I found mine. 🥺
I'm so happy for u!
Cherish them ❤️
happy for you
Yet this video is only a year old.
@@drakebalzer3950 oh good catch lol. Must’ve been a similar video
I truly agree with everything you said perfect. Been there but it didn't work out