I’m now 67 years old & as a 11/12 year old I was molested by 2 family members, at different times. Trust no one! No matter how well you think you know them! It really messed up my life!
bchlowr I’m sorry that happened to you😞. I myself went through the same thing were 2 family members molested me. I am now 50 and I stayed with me all my life, but if it wasn’t for my believe and love of my Lord I wouldn’t feel at peace today.
I know the pain of losing a family member at the hands of another. Sadly in our case, no one had any doubt that my uncle had murdered my grandmother. It is an abhorrence to even think about such things being done, and in this instance it would be even worse as it seems that he displayed little if any evidence of such inclinations. I say we err on the side of mercy and not judge any of this family too harshly for their denial.
They may still be in disbelief or shock, it might be impossible for them to process the true nature of this. Events such as these bring out the worst in people.
Because the brain protects us from anything too shocking, until we get to a place emotionally where we can accept it. But at first the shock would be profound,
I had one that molested me and he was my favorite uncle. A month afterwards she was diagnosed with lung cancer that had went to his brain and he died 6 months later.
@@melaniemann4873 You are right about that...statistics state that 4,8% of the 29859 kidnapped kids were taken by family members. That means 95.2% are stranger abductions. And statistics about homicide by family vs non family is slightly in favor of non family.
Just because he was high on weed doesn't mean anything. He went into it wanting to do harm to his niece. What a sick man. That is just disgusting that people choose to do such heinous acts.
I smoke cannabis and it doesn't make me want to go out and kill or harm anyone. In fact cannabis users are usually laid back and like those who drink too much. Those people wake up with hangovers and are late to work.
@@WVgrl59 Exactly. As a full blown stoney I can say in confidence that weed has never caused any compulsions to kill or hurt anyone. I'm always too high to leave the couch, there's no way weed was to blame.
@@debbiebasche7760 There is literally no such thing. They think pot is gonna drive someone insane, they clearly haven't heard of drugs like coke, heroin, meth, and flakka.
If anyone in my family is suspected of a crime like this and the evidence is already so compelling, I don’t care how much I love them I will do everything in my power to make sure I can help bring them in if they did it. No way in hell I’d ever shield a child predator.
How would you know for certain they did it though? You do know law enforcement often tamper with evidence I'm sure to get a conviction. I guess only the family would know if he did it or not based off knowing him personally. His sister did say he was slow, so maybe that's why he can't keep his story straight. He may also have a mental illness which probably is the reason of him talking about a "a murder" but that "it wasn't him". Then again, you never know. The evidence didn't point to anyone else but him. But you never really know. Like the bloodied fast food cup, one side of the family said it was from a nose bleed the child had while in the car . The other insisted it was from her murder. Who knows. This is a case that involves family which I'm sure involves a lot of in denial.
My (now ex) fiance's niece was murdered by one of her uncles. She was 5, about to graduate from kindergarten and was a newly big sister. He raped, murdered, and hid her body for 5 days. He told the police her location in order to get the death penalty off the table. My heart breaks for this family. My (almost) niece, Lizzy Shelley was an angel.
Gosh, I am so sorry that happened to your family. I knew a lady whose daughter's killer drove around with his victim in the car for days(it was winter) and it left the mom with a kind of thousand yard stare. She was always beautifully dressed but looked like her thoughts often went to terrible places.
Yeah, but that’s just the FIRST 38 years of marijuana usage. Everyone knows you’re gonna want to start killing people once you get around the 43rd year. XD
If I thought a family member did something to my child, let alone raping and killing them , they would have had to amend the warrant to arrest me....without a body.
I would drop the body on the steps of the homicide unit, tell them good luck trying to identify him because he is mutilated beyond recognition and then tell em to book me 🤷🏻♀️
Dont forget the stages of grief. They were in denial and also afraid of losing another family member. It’s not unusual. People need to be fully convinced that to accept something like that and while I am convinced he did it I can see how someone in that state could be resistant because really there was no 100% solid evidence that it was him. Just enough probable evidence that it makes it very unlikely that he didn’t do it.
@carlos bond What he did to his family. I swear. I wish I was his cell mate. And as part of community guidelines ill leave it at that. You can only imagine what.... Anyhow, moving forward my rescue kitten is head butting me. Clicking on cougar attack vids for the kitty.
I know what you are saying. I can't imagine how terrible the parents and all the adults in the family must feel. They lost a kid, so they feel guilt over not protecting her and rage at the person who took her and hurt her. Now the police are telling them that it is the brother. A person who they always looked after and protected because of his developmental issues. Imagine how much betrayal and guilt they now feel. On top of all that, we all know the police a human and make mistakes. Especially in a case with so little forensic evidence. I feel like his sister is clinging to straws to avoid facing the enormity of the tragedy. I wonder if she's changed her mind now that the initial shock and grief has had a chance to cool down.
I can’t imagine the pain of losing a child and then discovering it was your brother. Heartbreaking and tragic. I have to wonder if the brother had shown signs of abnormal behaviour - I find it difficult to believe he hadn’t shown signs before this and I get a sense the family may have been potentially used to making excuses and covering for any of the uncle’s dodgy behaviour.
I agree...what a heartbreaker of a story. It sounds like the brother was perhaps developmentally disabled, or maybe just low IQ. I'm sure his sister and parents were used to protecting him from bullies. Plus he was an adult with his own apt. I imagine it would be easy to overlook or excuse any warning signs.
His sister and family still think he's innocent. Which shows how naive she was back then and still is. She still doesn't believe her brother did it even with all the damming evidence.
@josh hopper I said damming evidence, I said nothing about manipulation. They proved without a reasonable doubt he did it. Go read the complete court hearing it's public as they all are. Just because he has special needs doesn't mean he doesn't know right from wrong or he can't kill or rape. People that think that way are their typical victims. He's the one that did all the manipulating.
@Melissa Streeter I’m so sorry that those poor excuse for human beings and a father failed to protect you… I hope that you are truly able to heal and find solace on your journey. Much love 💜🌺🌸🕉
Same here, mostly because im the wild child, and i dont enjoy most people, but also my uncles know im can be hard to handle and i talk a lot and can become really annoying.
A little surprising they didn't go much harder on the uncle in interrogation considering they knew he was the last to see her, his alibi didn't check out, his story changed, then there's the "vision."
Right? That's what I was thinking. He seemed pretty weak, if they leaned on him a little harder I bet he would've broken. I'm shocked the family didn't believe the overwhelming evidence in its totality. Pretty damning.
The family say he's slow & that I get but he drove, worked, smoked pot & drank beer that isn't slow enough for me to excuse what he did to his Niece whether it was Premeditated or not!!! What I don't get is the Mother sticking up for him even after the facts, that's your daughter above all else!!! If if that had been me I can't begin to tell you what I'd have done to him.. Just mind boggling...
& to think Eddie Milka will be eligible for parole in 2025! There’s no excuses for his depravity. I hope he never sees the light of day outside those prison walls.
One way to decrease this happening is harsher penalties. If you rape a kid that should carry mandatory life sentence or the death penalty. Society as a whole has no use for a reformed child molester. They should also have to serve that sentence in a regular cell with the rest of the inmates. As of right now most child molesters in prison serve that in an isolated wing of the prison with prisoners that have the same case/charge. That's for their protection from other inmates. Fuck protecting them they chose to take advantage of a child. Why are we worried about their protection.
@@Cool-Aid5564 I can't imagine the uncle, Eddie Milka, had had an honest reputation before this happened. His family, at least, must have known him for a liar and a pothead. Liars are the worst. He was a total Liar. That's why I laughed when detective said he liked it when someone lied but admitted it and then said, ``now'' they were going to tell the truth. Why would you believe anything they said after that?! And why were her mother's prints in the car? And why was grandma Milka saying the victim had once had a nosebleed in the car?! Trying to protect the creep?!
There's no way I'd be shielding my brother if there was a whiff of proof that he killed my daughter. And regarding the jury - he wouldn't have had to kill his niece if he hadn't raped her. Guilty on both charges. Note to Real Crime: Please correct Loose in the title
I no longer feel sorry for the mom! How dare her trade out her own daughter and change her story to protect her killer....I don't care if it's her brother....that's your child!!!! I have watched tons of Dateline etc and never seen not one mother go in there dead child's room and destroy their stuff!!!! Wth!!! Everyone grieves differently but Never has one mother in any case I've watched destroy their dead child's stuff in their room!!! That is not right and apparently mental problems run deep in this family
So sad, this is why the 'Veil of Tears' quote is so true. You don't get over this type of pain, you learn to live with it, that's the best to expect. Doesn't matter how many years it's been, I'm praying for your family.
I can’t believe the mother saying “she knows he didn’t do it” !! My jaw dropped to the ground and then changing her story to try not keep the finger pointed at him!! Then to stand up for him in court!! That poor girl in her abuse and murder her mother chose her brother. Wouldn’t matter who it was friends, family and anyone did this to my child they would want to hope the police threw them in jail before I got to them.!
Visions? Dude went from "slow" to clairvoyant real quick 🤨. "Cold & wet." Sounds like 'guilty & guilty' to me. Any family member that waste time having the police run around verifying lies during a search for your missing child can't be trusted.
She doesn’t want to believe her brother did this which I understand no one wants to believe their brother would kill their child but she needs to really look at the facts and the evidence. It ALL points to him!!!
Yes! The mom came across as slow to me! The way she talked and her lack of common sense and rational thought is a huge red flag. Also who tf destroys their murdered daughters belongings??!! It was as if she blamed her daughter for her brother being in trouble.
The 80s and 90s were completely different times. My rules growing up were to comin home before the street lights went on. I grew up in a small town tho so even if I came home a little late my mom wouldn’t think I went missing. Everyone knew everyone where I grew up and I was known as a “troublemaker” and would even get blamed for stuff I didn’t do. I grew up in the 90s. I consider myself fortunate nothing like that ever happened to me or anyone I went to school with. Nowadays,you can’t even find a playground with more than 2-3 kids playing on it. I hated to stay inside, it was considered a punishment. Tell a kid nowadays to stay inside and they’ll just say I wasn’t going out anyway. Different times, different crimes.
So true. I’d always be out till 8 during summer days with friend and my cousins playing in the street. We were stalked and approached by pedos on multiple occasions though. Even once on school campus. I remember we were approached by a very attractive guy in his early 20s who resembled Leonardo DiCaprio. He tried to get my friend and I to go home with him to hang out. Well dressed and well spoken. Teach your kids not to trust anyone and not to ever go with a stranger, even if they claim that the parent sent them to pick up the child. This is a tactic pedos use often to get children to go in their cars. That or toys, candy, and pets
You are not talking about a suburb of Chicago in the `90's. And I am not buying Wendy saying her five-year-old was ``too little to go to the playground.'' If my 11-year-old wanted to go to the playground, I'd follow them and let the five-year-old play while I watched the older kids from a distance. The ``yes, Brittany, you can go to the park and your little brother and I will go to Aunt Pam's'' seems like mom wanted to go have a beer w/Aunt Pam.
I used to go loads of places on my own as a kid. I used to play up at the back track behind my suburb & go to the shops 20 mins walk away & heaps of places. Fortunately, nothing bad ever happened to me. Now my parents won’t even let my nieces & nephew swim in their pool on their own & they’re all teenagers who have been swimming since they were little. Times have definitely changed! I’m glad I grew up when I did
The moment he mentioned (her uncle) that she was wet. The police should have started searching all the water ways. Creeks, lakes ,rivers, streams. He was trying to tell them where she was but at the same time not implicate himself. But thank God the couple found her.
@@Malia849 Oh I'm so sorry, sweetie, I hate that you went through that no one should ever have to go through that type of abuse or torture, I have a support group online. If you ever need to talk, let me know I'm always here.
Thanks sweety but its hard talking about that I can't share that because I been keeping that for Longer when happened I was just 9 years old am sorry can't share it's so hard thanks for want to help
@@Malia849 That's okay, you don't have to share it with me it started with me when I was four so I completely understand just know that if you ever do want to talk all you have to do is reach out to me and I'm sorry that you're still struggling with it I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers....
@@k33k32 Do you have statistics proving that? Because from what I read it's the quite opposite they're just the ones that get the most media attention. Not sure where you got that information from, but I would like to know? Or is it all speculation from watching True Crime videos?
@@FarmerFpv just google it, 90-95% of offenders are close friends and/or family. They have easy access, after they are caught, they go from known to unknown victims and rarely leave the victim alive. PROVEN FACTS! The only thing they learn from being in jail is to kill the next victim, if they were executed that would completely cure them.
“Has it ever struck you that life is all memory, except for the one present moment that goes by you so quick you hardly catch it going?”― Tennessee Williams...
Right? I'm sure she feels horrible. However, she should've just left it INSIDE the house. Hindsight is always 20/20 though. Sad sad story. I wonder if he has ever finally come clean to his sister while sitting in prison. It's been 23 years since this horrible crime.
I had a touchy uncle too..he was a bit slow and an alcoholic..but I would check him real quick and I told him, if he didn't get tf away from me I was gonna tell my parents and they would beat his ass.. that was the first adult I ever cussed out.
When I was a child, I was molested by my uncle. Three years ago, I was in the hospital and someone had to mind the children. My brother looked after them for a couple of days. He was a religious man. Three months ago, my daughter told me that my brother used to scare her nonverbal, special needs brother. He also made him wore my bra and laughed at him. That turned my stomach. God only knows what he subjected, my son, to when I wasn't around. I've already cut off all ties with that brother. He'll never come near my children. I have also told my other sister, so she doesn't let him near her child.
He- the Uncle pretty much admitted to killing her with his "so called" premonition & the Mom doesn't believe it?SMH His story was just too close to how she was found to not think he did it..
Makes my stomach turn that news stations would say no. How can someone say no to a young child being missing. I hope they felt real great about themselves when others stations started playing what really happened to her in the end.
They always have taken it seriously. The only difference now is the technology at their disposal helping them. There are also many more crazy people these days.
They used to wait 24hrs before looking too seriously cause back when I was a kid in the 60's & 70's we were more independent and would be running around town, or going farther than next door to play at a friends house. Like it was 6 - 7 blocks to the school play ground or 1- 2 miles to my bff's house. Or we would ride out to the lake by ourselves which was 7miles away from home this was normal for us to do back then. Yes we would tell our moms where we were going but it would be several hours before we were expected to be home for supper. We were lucly but if we had been missing they wouldn't have begun looking for us for several hours. Times have changed and unfortunately sometimes not for the better.
They’ve always taken the disappearance of children seriously, but the fact they may have run away (especially if they have a history of it) does affect things a bit. It’s adults they wait for, since they are independent & less predictable than kids
@@FarmerFpv no not always, especially if it's a child over 12 years old, they automatically assume they ran away or they are just running around with friends and will eventually show up. There are tons of case's like that. There was one in Australia where a 16 year old went missing and her old babysitter had her, she was jealous of her, she held her hostage for a few day's and then killed her. Had the police listened to her parents they could have possibly found her before that crazy b!@#$ killed her.
As a general psychiatrist who works in forensic psychiatry, I must say that I really enjoy your content. It’s unusual to find a missing person after about a day but it does happen. Fascinating case.
Predators will always be one step ahead, going to the park is normal (or at least before kids became glued to their phones and too lazy to go out) A friend of mine in school was kidnapped right out front of her house when we were 14 She was doing what all of us were back then waiting on her porch cause she missed curfew after attending another friends funeral. She ended up dismembered in concrete. To this day I have taught my girls to always be watching, be aware of your surroundings and don’t trust anyone! Whether you know them or not. I hate that I’m like this but I’d rather be safe than sorry
@@Pinocicci yes Thank god She was taken by Paul Bernardo and Karla holmolka I loathe using their names but I imagine what it’s like for her family and her best friends. We had hung out at some parties etc so we weren’t besties but definitely friends Her name was Leslie
@@dano1307 my city was much smaller back then (1990) it really affected everyone in that age/school friend group. It has made all of us hyper vigilant with our kids. Gosh still feels like yesterday
@@flashzhj1426 oh yes they can. I had 5 children and even when they were in university I knew where they were. And I'd do life for what I'd do to anyone who hurt any of them. Now all grown up and with responsible jobs they're the same with their children.
Yup! My kid's used to be mad that I wouldn't let them sleep over friends or even most of my family members house's and they were not allowed to leave the front of my house until they were well into their teens, even then I was on their asses! I constantly worried about weirdos preying on children.
I feel the mother should accept the evidence against her brother. Crimes cannot be covered up despite who commit them. This uncle needs to be kept away from society because he would do this again. If this was my brother I would rain terror down on him. He could never speak to me and I would never forgive him. Dont cover up crimes, expose it
When you become a mother, the anxieties that come along with that because of all the possible things that could happen is insane. Something happening to my child is my worst fear, my only fear actually. I can’t imagine my own family doing something to my child. I’d die.
This is so sad beyond words. As a dad I cant imagine the sadness and horror of such an evil act. May God grant her soul joy and comfort and console her loved ones and may demons with 2 foot phalluses with the texture of rough files eternally resize and abrade the bleeding rectums of rapists and pedophiles and be serenaded by their screams and whimpers-until the end of time! Sick bastards.
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Family or no family member anyone is capable of evil and if this was my child I was disowning him as a brother that goes to show he was eyeing his niece all the time yuck may her soul rest in peace she didn't deserve this no one does
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This story is really sad and disturbing. But what really made me angry is that news stations said NO to broadcasting a missing persons alert for a CHILD??? WOW! RIP that sweet little baby girl and May her loved ones find peace.
@@meganm3270 In the United States as of 1995, minor is generally legally defined as a person under the age of 18. "You might have heard that you need to wait 24 hours before reporting a missing person, but the waiting period is a myth. In fact, taking action within the first 48 hours is crucial to bringing a missing child home." **childfindofamerica.org/my-child-is-missing/
It never ceases to amaze me how a mother's instinct becomes cloudy when it comes to her children. People need to open their eyes to all people, including family. When people we love become the enemy, let God lead us not our own faulty thoughts. We will only fail. Praying for you in spirit beautiful child of God.
I feel for this mother, but in no way shape or form should you have protected your brother. When something like this happens, no one is innocent until proven different. Your brother would have been on my radar! I would have been watching and listening every action he displayed. I would have done that to any man that was family member, friend or neighbor. Our duty as mothers is to protect our daughters from ANY harm until they are able to do so on their own. Your brother did not have any cares for you or your daughter, or he would not have hurt her. He knew exactly what he had done.
Ahh, he didn't have anything to do with it, he just had a psych vision and was gonna help find her. Gotta admit that's pretty creative for him to try. Has to be 1 of the first-ever for that angle.
@Rebecca Farley ,,, i love my nieces,,, but not like that... when the one got married her dad noticed she had gained weight... i didn't really notice...
My uncle creepiest moments: When I was a child all the way until I was a teenager. I would be outside playing with my friends and I would see my uncle walking down the street, dressed like Rambo. Every time he stopped at a street light, he would start dancing like Michael Jackson. My uncle had a dripping Jerry curl, shoulder length lol and a pair of black Chinese shoes (Chinese shoes is what they were called back in the day).🤭🥴😂🤦🏾♀️ Everyone started calling him Rambo.😳 When I was younger, I would be embarrassed.😔 It never failed for one of my friend’s to yell, “hey there’s your uncle Rambo😒! I love him dearly though. Once I got a little older, I understood that my uncle has mental health issues. I wouldn’t trade uncle “Rambo” for anything.😊❤️ He never got any creepier than that.😁
@Rebecca Farley lol babygirl I was definitely safe, thank you.😊 My uncle couldn’t hurt a fly lol. He just walked around thinking he was Rambo and dancing like Michael Jackson🤷🏾🕺🏾😂
The grandmother making up the story about her innocent grand baby having a nose bleed answers every question about how this monster could even do this and how his sister thinks he's innocent smh!!!!! 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️
Thank you I thought I was going crazy and just imagined him since he clearly wasn’t in an advert and had no connection to or was a part of this case! Glad someone finally asked that question since I agree pointlessly random! 🤣🤣😂
If there is one crime that should ALWAYS warrant the death penalty it’s child murder, especially when rape is also involved. Very hard episode to watch.
A little innocent girl has been murdered, AND someone has left a comment on here because the title has been MISSPELT ! REALLY ! FGS .a CHILD MURDERED !!! and a family been TORN APART ..but they missed another O out of loose , OMG ! Is THAT really that IMPORTANT ? I mean “SOME PEOPLE “ have to get their PRIORITIES RIGHT don’t they ?
People like to point out the obvious. Yes its annoying, but what you're doing isn't any different. Priorities? Honey... you're yelling at a list of strangers over a grammatical error. Come on now...
Omg. Thank you. I just commented the same damned thing because that was screwed up. I like to hear all the evidence and at least guess the perpetrator. I started this not seeing the title, then glanced and it ruined the whole story.
@@Pau1ina21 well, yeah. I like to guess who may have done it throughout a crime story. But in this case, it didn't matter who they suspected, we knew it was the uncle all along because of the spoiler title.
I don't give a damn if it was my brother or my dad or my husband, if my baby was kidnapped and killed and there's evidence showing someone close to me is guilty No way would I be lying to cover it up for them!!! What kind of mother could stick up for the killer of their own child, any child?!
the type that would blame the child when they ask for help it happens a lot more than people like to believe. i recently came across a story of a man who unwittingly married the mother of his daughter's stalker and didn't believe his daughter until she got a recording of the step bro admitting it and went to her mom for help.
Wow, what kind of world are we living in today? When people are more concerned about the title or whether or not the word loose was spelled correctly... You guys need to check yourself!!
If you don’t seem concerned with proper spelling, it only goes to prove the absolute dumbing down of society. It is important. Lose and Loose are not the same.
OK uncle was the last person who saw this girl alive and what happened they didn't do nothing about it every time police say something to uncle he seems suspicious but hey didn't do their job how it was supposed to 🤦🏻♀🤦🏻♀🤦🏻♀🤦🏻♀
They knew he did it but they need solid evidence, not just circumstantial evidence and their suspicion. It's hard to build a good case on serious charges like that and they have to make sure they do everything correctly so the charges stick and they get a conviction. U can't tell the judge he is suspicious and that's it! They had to collect DNA and they need a warrant or for the suspect to willingly give it to them and then it takes weeks, sometimes months to get the DNA results because it takes time to do those tests and the labs are overflowing with tons of other cases they are working on. It takes time to build a strong murder case. If they take long that means they are doing a thorough good job. He is in prison because they did their job correctly.
Thanks for just uploading these in full instead of playing games like the show's channel does with 6 min teasings and spoiling what the episode is about before we see it lol.
When I was eleven I was brand new to the city we had just moved to, nonetheless my mother sent me off to take the bus to a place I had never been to. She did not work and would have had time to come with me, but she couldn't be bothered. I had to take three buses to get to my destination, which I managed fine, but on the way home got on the wrong bus. I was at the back of the bus when the driver pulled into the station at the end of his shift. I was crying, hungry, thirsty and scared. The bus driver took care of me and made sure that I got home. When I finally arrived back home, after having been gone for more than ten hours, I found out that neither my mother, or stepfather had been worried, or had bothered to make any effort to search for me. Instead I was chastised for getting on the wrong bus and making a fuss.
And why did they not investigate more when they knew the uncle was lying just 24 hours later? But I find the punishment harsh for a mentally disabled killer especially that the first degree murder was ruled out.
If he helped her w/ the bike I bet his fingerprints were on that bike. He was a big dude & probably carried it down the steps w/ her or on his own. Like they said earlier, she struggled to get it up & down the steps. He probably carried it so he could get her out of there in a hurry. I wonder why that wasn't mentioned. Plus the fact that poor child was sexually assaulted by that animal, his semen must have been present in, on or maybe in her underwear, wasn't his DNA detected that way? I mean she was redressed, maybe back then DNA technology wasn't as strong as it is today. How awful for that poor baby anyways, what a horrible crime. I wonder if her mother has come to terms w/ it or if he has finally manned up & confessed. Sicko.
This is why it's not good to turn your eyes away from your children... don't let them do as they want especially for a long time out of sights.....you never know what might happen... there are lots of surprises lurking in the dark... trust no one that easy.
I’m now 67 years old & as a 11/12 year old I was molested by 2 family members, at different times. Trust no one! No matter how well you think you know them! It really messed up my life!
I’m sorry you’ve been through this... x
People are shit , im sorry you went thru this
bchlowr I’m sorry that happened to you😞. I myself went through the same thing were 2 family members molested me. I am now 50 and I stayed with me all my life, but if it wasn’t for my believe and love of my Lord I wouldn’t feel at peace today.
Ever considered calling them out?
@@abigailsanchez7722 did the family member got called out?
Her mother pissed me off so bad how can you defend someone like that ? I don’t care if it’s a brother or NOT your CHILD ALWAYS COMES FIRST
I know the pain of losing a family member at the hands of another. Sadly in our case, no one had any doubt that my uncle had murdered my grandmother. It is an abhorrence to even think about such things being done, and in this instance it would be even worse as it seems that he displayed little if any evidence of such inclinations. I say we err on the side of mercy and not judge any of this family too harshly for their denial.
They may still be in disbelief or shock, it might be impossible for them to process the true nature of this. Events such as these bring out the worst in people.
course no, silly
Your children are not that important.
@@jamie91433 Were you being sarcastic? If not, that's what your mom thought about you. Not important.
With the evidence...how could the mother of this girl keep protecting him? I don't care if he IS her brother.
exactly smh.. makes no sense. she needs to face the truth even if it hurts
@@o.lemon.o, that may help one appreciate why children are nearly always sexually assaulted by a family member or close friend.
Because the brain protects us from anything too shocking, until we get to a place emotionally where we can accept it. But at first the shock would be profound,
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@@o.lemon.o spud
I cannot believe this girl's mother defends him. The evidence clearly shows the one that did it. Total betrayal to her daughter's memory
if it was clear it would not have taken that long . reasonable doubt exists
@@tankthearc9875 it doesn't though.
We love to blame women for mens crimes
You can't betray a memory.
What most families fail to realize, most abductions of a child comes from a unstable family member. Numbers don't lie, but your uncle will
I had one that molested me and he was my favorite uncle. A month afterwards she was diagnosed with lung cancer that had went to his brain and he died 6 months later.
What numbers
@@melaniemann4873 You are right about that...statistics state that 4,8% of the 29859 kidnapped kids were taken by family members. That means 95.2% are stranger abductions. And statistics about homicide by family vs non family is slightly in favor of non family.
@@melaniemann4873 ty
Just because he was high on weed doesn't mean anything. He went into it wanting to do harm to his niece. What a sick man. That is just disgusting that people choose to do such heinous acts.
If anything, it's worse because weed was illegal at that time.
Weed doesn't make you violent unless you're a paranoid schizophrenic. Then it can. Otherwise, no.
I smoke cannabis and it doesn't make me want to go out and kill or harm anyone. In fact cannabis users are usually laid back and like those who drink too much. Those people wake up with hangovers and are late to work.
@@WVgrl59 Exactly. As a full blown stoney I can say in confidence that weed has never caused any compulsions to kill or hurt anyone. I'm always too high to leave the couch, there's no way weed was to blame.
@@debbiebasche7760 There is literally no such thing. They think pot is gonna drive someone insane, they clearly haven't heard of drugs like coke, heroin, meth, and flakka.
If anyone in my family is suspected of a crime like this and the evidence is already so compelling, I don’t care how much I love them I will do everything in my power to make sure I can help bring them in if they did it. No way in hell I’d ever shield a child predator.
How would you know for certain they did it though? You do know law enforcement often tamper with evidence I'm sure to get a conviction. I guess only the family would know if he did it or not based off knowing him personally. His sister did say he was slow, so maybe that's why he can't keep his story straight. He may also have a mental illness which probably is the reason of him talking about a "a murder" but that "it wasn't him". Then again, you never know. The evidence didn't point to anyone else but him. But you never really know. Like the bloodied fast food cup, one side of the family said it was from a nose bleed the child had while in the car . The other insisted it was from her murder. Who knows. This is a case that involves family which I'm sure involves a lot of in denial.
there was plenty of reasonable doubt in this case
Liar 🙄 you know all white males have these tendencies.
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Absolutely agree Same here how could your own family members do something like this
My (now ex) fiance's niece was murdered by one of her uncles. She was 5, about to graduate from kindergarten and was a newly big sister. He raped, murdered, and hid her body for 5 days. He told the police her location in order to get the death penalty off the table. My heart breaks for this family. My (almost) niece, Lizzy Shelley was an angel.
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Gosh, I am so sorry that happened to your family. I knew a lady whose daughter's killer drove around with his victim in the car for days(it was winter) and it left the mom with a kind of thousand yard stare. She was always beautifully dressed but looked like her thoughts often went to terrible places.
That’s horrible. What some humans do to children is horrific.
What a horrible case.
What an evil freak!
smoking weed from the age of 14 now aged 52 . not once have i wanted to kill rape or commit any type of crime
I hate that this guy smokes, just makes us look bad.
@@jdc4316 yes many use weed as some kind of excuse for what they have done
Yeah, but that’s just the FIRST 38 years of marijuana usage. Everyone knows you’re gonna want to start killing people once you get around the 43rd year. XD
@JohnnyJohn Exactly!!!
@@DizzyDez613 lol
If I thought a family member did something to my child, let alone raping and killing them , they would have had to amend the warrant to arrest me....without a body.
Oh...they'd find the body for me...I'd be ripping it apart in the street. So, so sad.
Your funeral. My trial.
I have to say the same, especially when they harm my baby, but it might take years to find the body, cause itll be in places that are hard to reach.
I wish You were my father.
I would drop the body on the steps of the homicide unit, tell them good luck trying to identify him because he is mutilated beyond recognition and then tell em to book me 🤷🏻♀️
You don’t sympathize with a monster nor do you protect them even if they’re family
Dont forget the stages of grief. They were in denial and also afraid of losing another family member. It’s not unusual. People need to be fully convinced that to accept something like that and while I am convinced he did it I can see how someone in that state could be resistant because really there was no 100% solid evidence that it was him. Just enough probable evidence that it makes it very unlikely that he didn’t do it.
Damn right!!!
Yup. It's called having a moral compass that will lead you In the right direction every time.
@carlos bond
What he did to his family. I swear. I wish I was his cell mate. And as part of community guidelines ill leave it at that. You can only imagine what....
Anyhow, moving forward my rescue kitten is head butting me.
Clicking on cougar attack vids for the kitty.
I know what you are saying. I can't imagine how terrible the parents and all the adults in the family must feel. They lost a kid, so they feel guilt over not protecting her and rage at the person who took her and hurt her. Now the police are telling them that it is the brother. A person who they always looked after and protected because of his developmental issues. Imagine how much betrayal and guilt they now feel. On top of all that, we all know the police a human and make mistakes. Especially in a case with so little forensic evidence. I feel like his sister is clinging to straws to avoid facing the enormity of the tragedy. I wonder if she's changed her mind now that the initial shock and grief has had a chance to cool down.
I can’t imagine the pain of losing a child and then discovering it was your brother. Heartbreaking and tragic. I have to wonder if the brother had shown signs of abnormal behaviour - I find it difficult to believe he hadn’t shown signs before this and I get a sense the family may have been potentially used to making excuses and covering for any of the uncle’s dodgy behaviour.
I agree...what a heartbreaker of a story. It sounds like the brother was perhaps developmentally disabled, or maybe just low IQ. I'm sure his sister and parents were used to protecting him from bullies. Plus he was an adult with his own apt. I imagine it would be easy to overlook or excuse any warning signs.
His sister and family still think he's innocent. Which shows how naive she was back then and still is. She still doesn't believe her brother did it even with all the damming evidence.
@josh hopper I said damming evidence, I said nothing about manipulation. They proved without a reasonable doubt he did it. Go read the complete court hearing it's public as they all are. Just because he has special needs doesn't mean he doesn't know right from wrong or he can't kill or rape. People that think that way are their typical victims. He's the one that did all the manipulating.
@@FarmerFpv dam the mother still thinks he's innocent? That's a slap in the face to her dead daughter.
No one wants to think their brother could do this, or any family member to be honest. It's sad for everyone involved.
There should really be an automatic death sentence for the people who do this, not life without parole. A sick man.
Life without parole can also mean other inmates will take a run at him. And other prisoners don't like criminals who rape/murder children.
Death is too easy for those who murder children. Life in prison without parole can be literal hell on earth for him
Except that the neibor actually did it. Sad
@@ms51105 no actually him burning in hell is the real torture, not life in prison.
@@nopcshere6097 true, many child offenders are often either brutally beaten or sometimes killed, and to me they got what deserve.
This man says "hol' up, I got a vision"
right once he said that I’m like yea he did it smh, they be light on people
hes dr strange
If my brother killed my daughter he’d be dead to me.
Possible literally dead
@@realtimebiblicalinterpreta6972 bingo
Dead to the world, would I say-and in the ground
If that was my brother he'd just as DEAD as my daughter was!!! No effn joke!!!
All day long
people need to stop making excuses for family. holding those closest to us accountable is the only way
My family is huge, 7 uncles (6 aunts) and I’m happy to say that none of these problems existed and they were extremely protective of all of us 🙌🏾
You are lucky. God bless your family.
You are blessed
@Melissa Streeter I’m so sorry that those poor excuse for human beings and a father failed to protect you… I hope that you are truly able to heal and find solace on your journey. Much love 💜🌺🌸🕉
thank goodness
Same here, mostly because im the wild child, and i dont enjoy most people, but also my uncles know im can be hard to handle and i talk a lot and can become really annoying.
Wow! How can a mother ignore the facts? That was her daughter for Lords sake.
Disgusting when people protect abusers in the family!
A little surprising they didn't go much harder on the uncle in interrogation considering they knew he was the last to see her, his alibi didn't check out, his story changed, then there's the "vision."
Right? That's what I was thinking. He seemed pretty weak, if they leaned on him a little harder I bet he would've broken. I'm shocked the family didn't believe the overwhelming evidence in its totality. Pretty damning.
Stupid police
The family say he's slow & that I get but he drove, worked, smoked pot & drank beer that isn't slow enough for me to excuse what he did to his Niece whether it was Premeditated or not!!! What I don't get is the Mother sticking up for him even after the facts, that's your daughter above all else!!! If if that had been me I can't begin to tell you what I'd have done to him.. Just mind boggling...
Just of how hes acting, its obvious that he had something to do with her murder
& to think Eddie Milka will be eligible for parole in 2025! There’s no excuses for his depravity. I hope he never sees the light of day outside those prison walls.
Hopefully he never gets it. Eligibility doesn't guarantee parole, especially in the U.S.
Considering the awareness going around and protest to #savethechildren I doubt they will let him go
He will be out coz of old Biden
One way to decrease this happening is harsher penalties. If you rape a kid that should carry mandatory life sentence or the death penalty. Society as a whole has no use for a reformed child molester. They should also have to serve that sentence in a regular cell with the rest of the inmates. As of right now most child molesters in prison serve that in an isolated wing of the prison with prisoners that have the same case/charge. That's for their protection from other inmates. Fuck protecting them they chose to take advantage of a child. Why are we worried about their protection.
It wasn't the brother. It was the neibor. Check his bite mark.
I can't imagine my own brother betraying me and my daughter is this BRUTAL way
sheeeeesh
He didn't. It was the neighbor I bet.
@@Cool-Aid5564 I can't imagine the uncle, Eddie Milka, had had an honest reputation before this happened. His family, at least, must have known him for a liar and a pothead. Liars are the worst. He was a total Liar. That's why I laughed when detective said he liked it when someone lied but admitted it and then said, ``now'' they were going to tell the truth. Why would you believe anything they said after that?! And why were her mother's prints in the car? And why was grandma Milka saying the victim had once had a nosebleed in the car?! Trying to protect the creep?!
@@quickchris10 are you the neighbor guy?
@@Cool-Aid5564 What? How could it have been the neighbor? Where do you get that theory from?
Its funny the neighbor saw everything but the uncle
There's no way I'd be shielding my brother if there was a whiff of proof that he killed my daughter. And regarding the jury - he wouldn't have had to kill his niece if he hadn't raped her. Guilty on both charges. Note to Real Crime: Please correct Loose in the title
Thank you for bringing that up:) One of my pet peeves. Lose money and loose change.
Well said
Right there with you.
same. I'd be shocked. But I certainly wouldn't be changing my initial statement......
feuriger Stern Plus, “quite” & “quiet”! Oh & “couldn’t” care less & “could” care less!
I no longer feel sorry for the mom! How dare her trade out her own daughter and change her story to protect her killer....I don't care if it's her brother....that's your child!!!! I have watched tons of Dateline etc and never seen not one mother go in there dead child's room and destroy their stuff!!!! Wth!!! Everyone grieves differently but Never has one mother in any case I've watched destroy their dead child's stuff in their room!!! That is not right and apparently mental problems run deep in this family
So sad, this is why the 'Veil of Tears' quote is so true. You don't get over this type of pain, you learn to live with it, that's the best to expect. Doesn't matter how many years it's been, I'm praying for your family.
She has the most precious little face. She’d be 35 now. God rest her sweet soul. I pray her loved ones have peace.
Thank you for adding her age ❤️
I can’t believe the mother saying “she knows he didn’t do it” !! My jaw dropped to the ground and then changing her story to try not keep the finger pointed at him!! Then to stand up for him in court!!
That poor girl in her abuse and murder her mother chose her brother.
Wouldn’t matter who it was friends, family and anyone did this to my child they would want to hope the police threw them in jail before I got to them.!
Probably why the kid never told of abuse or creepiness from the uncle before. She knew the family adored him 💔
Visions? Dude went from "slow" to clairvoyant real quick 🤨. "Cold & wet." Sounds like 'guilty & guilty' to me. Any family member that waste time having the police run around verifying lies during a search for your missing child can't be trusted.
She doesn’t want to believe her brother did this which I understand no one wants to believe their brother would kill their child but she needs to really look at the facts and the evidence. It ALL points to him!!!
I think the Mom knew before her body was found and helped her brother cover it up. Sick.
Look, far as I learned here, the facts are very flimsy. Just maybe she understood that - and wanted the real murderer caught.
@@Nadia..J The real murderer was caught. It was your brother.
@@bonjovirocks24 You aren’t right in the head.
Dude turns into a psychic real quick hahahahaha
The family was stupid he was obviously guilty from the beginning. The whole damn damn family was a little too slow for me
Yes! The mom came across as slow to me! The way she talked and her lack of common sense and rational thought is a huge red flag. Also who tf destroys their murdered daughters belongings??!! It was as if she blamed her daughter for her brother being in trouble.
The 80s and 90s were completely different times. My rules growing up were to comin home before the street lights went on. I grew up in a small town tho so even if I came home a little late my mom wouldn’t think I went missing. Everyone knew everyone where I grew up and I was known as a “troublemaker” and would even get blamed for stuff I didn’t do. I grew up in the 90s. I consider myself fortunate nothing like that ever happened to me or anyone I went to school with. Nowadays,you can’t even find a playground with more than 2-3 kids playing on it. I hated to stay inside, it was considered a punishment. Tell a kid nowadays to stay inside and they’ll just say I wasn’t going out anyway. Different times, different crimes.
So true. I’d always be out till 8 during summer days with friend and my cousins playing in the street. We were stalked and approached by pedos on multiple occasions though. Even once on school campus. I remember we were approached by a very attractive guy in his early 20s who resembled Leonardo DiCaprio. He tried to get my friend and I to go home with him to hang out. Well dressed and well spoken. Teach your kids not to trust anyone and not to ever go with a stranger, even if they claim that the parent sent them to pick up the child. This is a tactic pedos use often to get children to go in their cars. That or toys, candy, and pets
You are not talking about a suburb of Chicago in the `90's. And I am not buying Wendy saying her five-year-old was ``too little to go to the playground.'' If my 11-year-old wanted to go to the playground, I'd follow them and let the five-year-old play while I watched the older kids from a distance. The ``yes, Brittany, you can go to the park and your little brother and I will go to Aunt Pam's'' seems like mom wanted to go have a beer w/Aunt Pam.
I used to go loads of places on my own as a kid. I used to play up at the back track behind my suburb & go to the shops 20 mins walk away & heaps of places. Fortunately, nothing bad ever happened to me. Now my parents won’t even let my nieces & nephew swim in their pool on their own & they’re all teenagers who have been swimming since they were little. Times have definitely changed! I’m glad I grew up when I did
And people were still getting kidnapped then
@@shiabutterfly8361 yeah but nobody knew it, except maybe locals. That kind of thing never made the national news.
The moment he mentioned (her uncle) that she was wet. The police should have started searching all the water ways. Creeks, lakes ,rivers, streams. He was trying to tell them where she was but at the same time not implicate himself. But thank God the couple found her.
There must have been a lot of water in the area or I’m sure they would have
Its the unkel son of a beach
I love the f.b.i agent and the way they handled the situation
This reminds me of my aunt her husband did this to me she didn't believe me until they were getting a divorce sickening....
Oh sorry about that sis even me happened to by my uncle he did that to me that time my mom was already dead and mother sister didn't believe me
@@Malia849 Oh I'm so sorry, sweetie, I hate that you went through that no one should ever have to go through that type of abuse or torture, I have a support group online. If you ever need to talk, let me know I'm always here.
Thanks sweety but its hard talking about that I can't share that because I been keeping that for Longer when happened I was just 9 years old am sorry can't share it's so hard thanks for want to help
@@Malia849 That's okay, you don't have to share it with me it started with me when I was four so I completely understand just know that if you ever do want to talk all you have to do is reach out to me and I'm sorry that you're still struggling with it I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers....
That's why kids don't tell......
Mother, father, sister, brother! I don’t gad who it is. You hurt my child, all bets are off! 😡😡
Sorry ,I think the mom might be a little slow too .
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Yeah, her drink cup from the Shed Aquarium was in his car, so . . .why does that not compute in her brain?
Sad but the people that abuse our children are the ones we let in our kid’s lives!
so true. There is much more abuse from family and acquaintances than from strangers.
Most murders are committed by someone close to the victim. That’s just sad and true facts
@@k33k32 Do you have statistics proving that? Because from what I read it's the quite opposite they're just the ones that get the most media attention. Not sure where you got that information from, but I would like to know? Or is it all speculation from watching True Crime videos?
exactly... usually from their own parents
@@FarmerFpv just google it, 90-95% of offenders are close friends and/or family. They have easy access, after they are caught, they go from known to unknown victims and rarely leave the victim alive. PROVEN FACTS! The only thing they learn from being in jail is to kill the next victim, if they were executed that would completely cure them.
This one made me sad and almost brought me to tears for the little girl. Her uncle is right where he belongs after doing what he did.
@Albert Einstein Did we watch the same video? Or is your name just meant to be ironic?
Hes 6 feet to high.
“Has it ever struck you that life is all memory, except for the one present moment that goes by you so quick you hardly catch it going?”― Tennessee Williams...
Now I feel sad for some reason, besides the video.
That's deep, yo. 🤍
I often think about this actually
Time is just the monitoring of changes it’s a construct we created to make sense of life and what’s happening around us
No I think William Montgomery said that...
What a big mastake to write a note in the door to let anyone know your kid will be home alone! Is a invitation for all the disturbed ppl!
Yeah true that's fucked some people have stupid actions leading to dangerous situations
@@khalilyusco5823 jkkj
Right? I'm sure she feels horrible. However, she should've just left it INSIDE the house. Hindsight is always 20/20 though. Sad sad story. I wonder if he has ever finally come clean to his sister while sitting in prison. It's been 23 years since this horrible crime.
@Boss bad sick people have always be around.
If it was different then why is she dead
There goes Uncle Touchy again. What is it with Uncles , its literally a thing. If it wasn't so tragic it would be comical lol
@Kelli id be like Sessions and smack him away from mine😡 he's nasty
I had a touchy uncle too..he was a bit slow and an alcoholic..but I would check him real quick and I told him, if he didn't get tf away from me I was gonna tell my parents and they would beat his ass.. that was the first adult I ever cussed out.
When I was a child, I was molested by my uncle. Three years ago, I was in the hospital and someone had to mind the children. My brother looked after them for a couple of days. He was a religious man. Three months ago, my daughter told me that my brother used to scare her nonverbal, special needs brother. He also made him wore my bra and laughed at him. That turned my stomach. God only knows what he subjected, my son, to when I wasn't around. I've already cut off all ties with that brother. He'll never come near my children. I have also told my other sister, so she doesn't let him near her child.
@KelliGreen Thumb Two dozen women have publically accused Trump of sexual assault. Bidens weirdness doesn't even compete.
How TF did they not find him guilty in the first degree!!! Of course he meant to kill his niece !
Never will I ever protect a family member accused of some sick shit, given substantial evidence…
He- the Uncle pretty much admitted to killing her with his "so called" premonition & the Mom doesn't believe it?SMH His story was just too close to how she was found to not think he did it..
"Police had nothing to hold him on" Nothing he said checked out! That made me mad.
Makes my stomach turn that news stations would say no. How can someone say no to a young child being missing. I hope they felt real great about themselves when others stations started playing what really happened to her in the end.
Lol who sits in their living room during a police visit with a basketball in one hand and a cigarette in the other
45 minutes later and the mum lost me.
How can tv/radio stations say not to help broadcast a missing child? Stop watching/ listening to those stations!
It's nice that they take the missing child seriously nowadays instead of just shrugging it off like they used to wait 24hrs before really looking.
They always have taken it seriously. The only difference now is the technology at their disposal helping them. There are also many more crazy people these days.
They used to wait 24hrs before looking too seriously cause back when I was a kid in the 60's & 70's we were more independent and would be running around town, or going farther than next door to play at a friends house. Like it was 6 - 7 blocks to the school play ground or 1- 2 miles to my bff's house. Or we would ride out to the lake by ourselves which was 7miles away from home this was normal for us to do back then. Yes we would tell our moms where we were going but it would be several hours before we were expected to be home for supper. We were lucly but if we had been missing they wouldn't have begun looking for us for several hours. Times have changed and unfortunately sometimes not for the better.
They’ve always taken the disappearance of children seriously, but the fact they may have run away (especially if they have a history of it) does affect things a bit. It’s adults they wait for, since they are independent & less predictable than kids
@@FarmerFpv no not always, especially if it's a child over 12 years old, they automatically assume they ran away or they are just running around with friends and will eventually show up. There are tons of case's like that. There was one in Australia where a 16 year old went missing and her old babysitter had her, she was jealous of her, she held her hostage for a few day's and then killed her. Had the police listened to her parents they could have possibly found her before that crazy b!@#$ killed her.
As a general psychiatrist who works in forensic psychiatry, I must say that I really enjoy your content.
It’s unusual to find a missing person after about a day but it does happen. Fascinating case.
Predators will always be one step ahead, going to the park is normal (or at least before kids became glued to their phones and too lazy to go out)
A friend of mine in school was kidnapped right out front of her house when we were 14
She was doing what all of us were back then waiting on her porch cause she missed curfew after attending another friends funeral.
She ended up dismembered in concrete.
To this day I have taught my girls to always be watching, be aware of your surroundings and don’t trust anyone! Whether you know them or not.
I hate that I’m like this but I’d rather be safe than sorry
Did they ever find her killer? That’s awful!!
Terrible. I'm so sorry. I'm glad you're cautious.
jesus that is terrible. Sorry you had to go through that.
@@Pinocicci yes Thank god
She was taken by Paul Bernardo and Karla holmolka
I loathe using their names but I imagine what it’s like for her family and her best friends.
We had hung out at some parties etc so we weren’t besties but definitely friends
Her name was Leslie
@@dano1307 my city was much smaller back then (1990) it really affected everyone in that age/school friend group.
It has made all of us hyper vigilant with our kids.
Gosh still feels like yesterday
So the mother still believes her brother is innocent? 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Its 2020, stop imposing racial identity on your emojis
I know, its pathetic how people refuse to believe that someone in their family is evil.
@@reignsorrow2806 you're the only one imposing anything here..
Damn shame!!! Her mother acts like she doesn't Care and that she had something to do with it.
@@reignsorrow2806 you sound ignorant
Narrator is the best!
Beth Malarkey has to be the best name for an FBI investigator I've ever heard.
This is a perfect example as to why you should never leave your/a child(ren) alone without supervision
parents can't always follow their children.
@@flashzhj1426 oh yes they can. I had 5 children and even when they were in university I knew where they were. And I'd do life for what I'd do to anyone who hurt any of them. Now all grown up and with responsible jobs they're the same with their children.
Yup! My kid's used to be mad that I wouldn't let them sleep over friends or even most of my family members house's and they were not allowed to leave the front of my house until they were well into their teens, even then I was on their asses! I constantly worried about weirdos preying on children.
I feel the mother should accept the evidence against her brother. Crimes cannot be covered up despite who commit them. This uncle needs to be kept away from society because he would do this again. If this was my brother I would rain terror down on him. He could never speak to me and I would never forgive him. Dont cover up crimes, expose it
When you become a mother, the anxieties that come along with that because of all the possible things that could happen is insane. Something happening to my child is my worst fear, my only fear actually. I can’t imagine my own family doing something to my child. I’d die.
So true!
The worst thing about this video is that they gave the mystery away in the title: should have maintained the suspense
This is so sad beyond words. As a dad I cant imagine the sadness and horror of such an evil act. May God grant her soul joy and comfort and console her loved ones and may demons with 2 foot phalluses with the texture of rough files eternally resize and abrade the bleeding rectums of rapists and pedophiles and be serenaded by their screams and whimpers-until the end of time! Sick bastards.
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IT WILL HAPPEN SOMEDAY SOON 🙌🙌💯💯💯
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jesus christ man
@@jace9985 You feel they deserve pity Sir?
Police responded immediately. refreshing when usually 24-48 hours
Well she was only 11.
Why didn't these officers check that uncle car? Whatever he did was most likely done in the car.
Approximately around the15:33 time stamp, They searched his car.
I though it was going to be the neighbor, cuz mom gave him all the info and left a note too.
The caption reads uncle from hell
The fact that his mother ran with his madeup nosebleed story....sigh.
That mother should be ashamed protecting her daughter's killer. I understand being shocked and upset by this but come on....
rest in peace sweet angel may your love and light shine up in heaven. i'm so sorry this happened to you 💔
Dead kids can't read youtube comments.
@@littlejoe2595 hi
@@daanatomlin6358 Hey, what's up?
@@littlejoe2595 Who ar e u?!???????
@@daanatomlin6358 Well, as you can see, my name is Joseph, and my last name is Little. I live in Ukiah, Mendocino County. I work in a church. I live alone (wife and kids died in a car accident in 2013). I'm 63 years old. I like to read the Bible and Friedrich Nietzsche. I'm trying to practice Advaita Vedanta, but my Sanskrit sucks. I love animals in their natural habitat (no cages). I eat all kinds of food except fish and Turmeric. The doctor says I have the health of a 30-year-old, but I don't believe him. I consider myself heterosexual, but I'm not homophobic. I voted for Hillary in 2016 (Jill Stein in 2020). My mother has Alzheimer's, and my father died before I was born. Who are you?
The brother was stupid enough to think the cops thought he was a psychic or something.
Family or no family member anyone is capable of evil and if this was my child I was disowning him as a brother that goes to show he was eyeing his niece all the time yuck may her soul rest in peace she didn't deserve this no one does
Arlie Sam
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Why are people so blinded with family members? People please don’t trust your kids with anyone.
The biggest crime of all... forgetting that loose has 2 o’s
Finally, a kindred spirit. 🙂🐿
I teach English at a French Law university and a lot of future French lawyers are criminals indeed! ;-)
Same 😀But I do not hold it against this young man.
@Rebecca Farley to be fair, I commented before watching the video.
@Rebecca Farley I was actually commenting on the hyperbola, mind you, even if I thought it was a typically non-native speaker type of mistake.
This story is really sad and disturbing. But what really made me angry is that news stations said NO to broadcasting a missing persons alert for a CHILD??? WOW! RIP that sweet little baby girl and May her loved ones find peace.
This has always been one of my favorite true crime shows I wish they would produce more recent ones. Thank you for video.
Wow! Big 90's vibe from this. Kind of like it, not gonna lie.
Wow glad that you guys have listen to viewers and decreased the background music 🍻
Nowdays the person has to be unheard from in at least 24 hours before you can even file a police report. 😡😡
I don't think that applies to children.
@@d.d.mac.3773 10 and under probably not
@@meganm3270 In the United States as of 1995, minor is generally legally defined as a person under the age of 18. "You might have heard that you need to wait 24 hours before reporting a missing person, but the waiting period is a myth. In fact, taking action within the first 48 hours is crucial to bringing a missing child home." **childfindofamerica.org/my-child-is-missing/
@@d.d.mac.3773 That might be the laws but 9/10 they are labeled as a possible run away so they don't do nothing about it
@@meganm3270 Do you have facts to back up that claim or is it just your opinion?
It never ceases to amaze me how a mother's instinct becomes cloudy when it comes to her children. People need to open their eyes to all people, including family. When people we love become the enemy, let God lead us not our own faulty thoughts. We will only fail. Praying for you in spirit beautiful child of God.
THE TYPE OF WOMAN WHO WOULD PROTECT HER LOVER WHO WAS ABUSING HER CHILD
I feel for this mother, but in no way shape or form should you have protected your brother. When something like this happens, no one is innocent until proven different. Your brother would have been on my radar! I would have been watching and listening every action he displayed. I would have done that to any man that was family member, friend or neighbor. Our duty as mothers is to protect our daughters from ANY harm until they are able to do so on their own. Your brother did not have any cares for you or your daughter, or he would not have hurt her. He knew exactly what he had done.
Horribly insensitive comment.
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Ahh, he didn't have anything to do with it, he just had a psych vision and was gonna help find her. Gotta admit that's pretty creative for him to try. Has to be 1 of the first-ever for that angle.
What the F is going on with all these creepy uncles.
@Rebecca Farley ,,, i love my nieces,,, but not like that... when the one got married her dad noticed she had gained weight... i didn't really notice...
My uncle creepiest moments: When I was a child all the way until I was a teenager. I would be outside playing with my friends and I would see my uncle walking down the street, dressed like Rambo. Every time he stopped at a street light, he would start dancing like Michael Jackson. My uncle had a dripping Jerry curl, shoulder length lol and a pair of black Chinese shoes (Chinese shoes is what they were called back in the day).🤭🥴😂🤦🏾♀️ Everyone started calling him Rambo.😳 When I was younger, I would be embarrassed.😔 It never failed for one of my friend’s to yell, “hey there’s your uncle Rambo😒! I love him dearly though. Once I got a little older, I understood that my uncle has mental health issues. I wouldn’t trade uncle “Rambo” for anything.😊❤️ He never got any creepier than that.😁
@Rebecca Farley lol babygirl I was definitely safe, thank you.😊 My uncle couldn’t hurt a fly lol. He just walked around thinking he was Rambo and dancing like Michael Jackson🤷🏾🕺🏾😂
the pervy uncle is a stereotype that is sadly true
@@jamesmueller8701 what??
The grandmother making up the story about her innocent grand baby having a nose bleed answers every question about how this monster could even do this and how his sister thinks he's innocent smh!!!!! 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️
Bad family member have been a down fall since the midevil days.
I agree. Its most often someone close that abuses, hurts or kills. Rarely, in comparison, is it a total stranger. Its terrifying :/
correct spelling is medieval, btw
@@steemdup i appreciate you and hate you at the same time
I don't feel so bad for not going to my nephew's band concerts no where near the worst uncle lol.
The investigators should have played the tape of his “visions” . That along with the DNA evidence should convince her of her brother’s guilt.
SO WHAT EXACTLY IS THE POINT OF THE BRITISH DUDE IN THE BEGINING?
exactly
Thank you I thought I was going crazy and just imagined him since he clearly wasn’t in an advert and had no connection to or was a part of this case! Glad someone finally asked that question since I agree pointlessly random! 🤣🤣😂
Same question I want to raise too 😂😂
If there is one crime that should ALWAYS warrant the death penalty it’s child murder, especially when rape is also involved. Very hard episode to watch.
Yes it was💔😢
A little innocent girl has been murdered, AND someone has left a comment on here because the title has been MISSPELT ! REALLY ! FGS .a CHILD MURDERED !!! and a family been TORN APART ..but they missed another O out of loose , OMG ! Is THAT really that IMPORTANT ? I mean “SOME PEOPLE “ have to get their PRIORITIES RIGHT don’t they ?
People like to point out the obvious. Yes its annoying, but what you're doing isn't any different. Priorities? Honey... you're yelling at a list of strangers over a grammatical error. Come on now...
HEY 👋 How about NOT having a spoiler alert as the goddamn title?! How about that? 😃
Omg. Thank you. I just commented the same damned thing because that was screwed up. I like to hear all the evidence and at least guess the perpetrator. I started this not seeing the title, then glanced and it ruined the whole story.
You trying to solve the crime before
Amen; when I saw the face and title, figure it was this case, which was my general area
@@Pau1ina21 well, yeah. I like to guess who may have done it throughout a crime story. But in this case, it didn't matter who they suspected, we knew it was the uncle all along because of the spoiler title.
No shit !
I can't believe the mother changing her statement to save her peodo brother I'd string mine up! Dirty bastard! RIP little girl 🙏🧸
I don't give a damn if it was my brother or my dad or my husband, if my baby was kidnapped and killed and there's evidence showing someone close to me is guilty No way would I be lying to cover it up for them!!! What kind of mother could stick up for the killer of their own child, any child?!
the type that would blame the child when they ask for help it happens a lot more than people like to believe. i recently came across a story of a man who unwittingly married the mother of his daughter's stalker and didn't believe his daughter until she got a recording of the step bro admitting it and went to her mom for help.
marijuana doesn't urge you to kill... NEVER
It would rather get the coward behaviour out of you
Go at 50:02
Let it play till the end.
Then press Replay.
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I will try that on future videos, thanks for the tip.
@@nightowl7459 You're welcome.
Just go at one second before the end of the video.
That's the trick.
@@Thanasis_Koligliatis 😊👍
Wow, what kind of world are we living in today? When people are more concerned about the title or whether or not the word loose was spelled correctly...
You guys need to check yourself!!
"You guys need to check YOURSELVES" .
@@littlejoe2595 absolutely
If you don’t seem concerned with proper spelling, it only goes to prove the absolute dumbing down of society. It is important. Lose and Loose are not the same.
OK uncle was the last person who saw this girl alive and what happened they didn't do nothing about it every time police say something to uncle he seems suspicious but hey didn't do their job how it was supposed to 🤦🏻♀🤦🏻♀🤦🏻♀🤦🏻♀
basically.
They knew he did it but they need solid evidence, not just circumstantial evidence and their suspicion. It's hard to build a good case on serious charges like that and they have to make sure they do everything correctly so the charges stick and they get a conviction. U can't tell the judge he is suspicious and that's it! They had to collect DNA and they need a warrant or for the suspect to willingly give it to them and then it takes weeks, sometimes months to get the DNA results because it takes time to do those tests and the labs are overflowing with tons of other cases they are working on. It takes time to build a strong murder case. If they take long that means they are doing a thorough good job. He is in prison because they did their job correctly.
Thanks for just uploading these in full instead of playing games like the show's channel does with 6 min teasings and spoiling what the episode is about before we see it lol.
This man on the lose. He's losing the rest of his life in prison now.
When I was eleven I was brand new to the city we had just moved to, nonetheless my mother sent me off to take the bus to a place I had never been to. She did not work and would have had time to come with me, but she couldn't be bothered. I had to take three buses to get to my destination, which I managed fine, but on the way home got on the wrong bus. I was at the back of the bus when the driver pulled into the station at the end of his shift. I was crying, hungry, thirsty and scared. The bus driver took care of me and made sure that I got home. When I finally arrived back home, after having been gone for more than ten hours, I found out that neither my mother, or stepfather had been worried, or had bothered to make any effort to search for me. Instead I was chastised for getting on the wrong bus and making a fuss.
The cops search her house to make sure the daughter wasn't hiding but they didn't see the bike in the basement?
And why did they not investigate more when they knew the uncle was lying just 24 hours later? But I find the punishment harsh for a mentally disabled killer especially that the first degree murder was ruled out.
If he helped her w/ the bike I bet his fingerprints were on that bike. He was a big dude & probably carried it down the steps w/ her or on his own. Like they said earlier, she struggled to get it up & down the steps. He probably carried it so he could get her out of there in a hurry. I wonder why that wasn't mentioned. Plus the fact that poor child was sexually assaulted by that animal, his semen must have been present in, on or maybe in her underwear, wasn't his DNA detected that way? I mean she was redressed, maybe back then DNA technology wasn't as strong as it is today. How awful for that poor baby anyways, what a horrible crime. I wonder if her mother has come to terms w/ it or if he has finally manned up & confessed. Sicko.
@@deniserossiter1059 She had started to decompose and couldn''t get good test results.
This is why it's not good to turn your eyes away from your children... don't let them do as they want especially for a long time out of sights.....you never know what might happen... there are lots of surprises lurking in the dark... trust no one that easy.