When You Push a LOYAL Sigma Male Too Far, He Will Do THIS
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When You Push a LOYAL Sigma Male Too Far, He Will Do THIS
When you push a loyal Sigma Male too far, there’s a point of no return. Sigma Males are known for their quiet strength, independence, and unwavering loyalty. But what happens when their patience runs out? In this video, we’ll explore the psychology of Sigma Males, their boundaries, and what they do when pushed to their limits.
Discover the hidden traits of Sigma Males that make them stand apart from Alphas and Betas, why their loyalty is unmatched, and how they deal with betrayal, disrespect, and manipulation. Whether you're curious about Sigma Male personality traits, their approach to relationships, or how they handle challenges, this video covers it all.
Topics Covered:
What drives a Sigma Male's loyalty
The Silent Power of Sigma Males
How Sigma Males respond to betrayal
Why pushing a Sigma Male too far is a mistake
If you’ve ever wondered why Sigma Males are dangerous when provoked, this is a must-watch! Perfect for those exploring Sigma Male psychology, self-improvement, and understanding modern relationships.
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It's a lonely road, but one filled with inner peace and strength.
Same ^^
I don't find it lonely at all
@@topro941 It does get less lonely with age.
You're only as lonely as you decide to be. The sea may be full of fish, but the majority need to be thrown back in. There are indeed few keepers. The only one you have to keep is yourself. Make sure you recognize who you are first. Give to yourself first what you'd like others to give to you. You can't give from an empty cup. Finally, trust that those in the same wavelength will come along and recognize you.
@@manadam7669 says the self-anointed “sigma”
Why argue with someone that you are done with?
Exactly
Re-labelling an introvert as a sigma male is genius... Now you don't have to be a social outcast..But as an introvert who cares its amazing like being totally free of societies rules and norms..
Why argue with people that are just waiting for their turn to speak
keep talking im almost finished
Right never Argue with a Idiot they will drag you down to their level and then Beat you with Experience
When people ask me ‘how come you don’t have any friends?’ My response ‘I fired them all’
😂😂😂
Including family!
Ditto to that all 😊
lol.
Especially families
" the biggest insult an opponent can recieve is to be ignored' - Ghengis Khan. It took me years to learn the best way to deal with the legions of clowns in this circus we call society is to ignore them completely. 😊
And yet, He MASSACRED Anyone and Everyone who Snubbed him!!!!!:/
@@sgt_slobber.7628say to him that Genghis khan never said that...he must be a childish fan of khan...
Might as well. Society has been overrun by braying jackasses, and unfortunately, they won by numbers.
He meant ghengis ignored them ,after the chopped them up
Exactly 👍
This so described my dad. It’s wild. I’ve always had a ton of respect for him because he’s always had bulletproof, patience and kindness but at the same time he does have boundaries and it’s not hard to respect him because he’s such a solid dude.
@volatile2805 That's Awesome! My
Daughter feels same with me!
I had someone ask me how to walk away from people who were detrimental. As a sigma I have done this many times. I honestly just said: just do it and don't look back. No regrets
Sometime you may frustrate by this kind of person in the question. Because they will come back to the detrimental one at last. It's wasted of time to answer them because they know the answer already.
With women, I do them 3 times more and leave. Try that, in the 3, why they are being exited becomes very clear.
When you end the mind games and move on...
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As do I. It is a survival tactic
Never ever look and never ever feel sorry
This is how every true man should act. Being a man is not about being aggresive or a simp its being this sort of person. The system really as messed alot of men up.
This 100 percent. All three sentences.
I wouldn't say that is how a man should act. Men have different personalities which is healthiest if they try to be themselves vs what they should be.
The flaw with Sigma behavior is these boundaries prevent support from fleeting allies which are often more supportive than not.
Usually the Toxic Masculinity is from men trying to act like a stereotype of a personality that they aren't.
Exactly. Before people were called sigma male, I called them mature male.
Fully agree
It's about trust and dignity.
Too many these days playing games...
Too much disappointment, but so much growth.
When the respect is gone Soo is the sigma.
I left my disrespectful family years ago and have never spoken to them since. I moved to another State and after watching this video, I realize why.
We are aligned. Same journey.
Feels better in the long run
Ditto
1 here
You are not alone 😊
A woman that can withstand this personality, without taking advantage of it, or taking it forgranted, will be the most loved and supported and protected woman.
Agreed! If this man is a king she will be revealed as his appropriate queen. One who can withstand this personality because she understands herself, and she is able to sync with him and absorb the strength of his offer of loyalty. It's almost a bit mysterious how he is able and willing to love and support a relationship (and a woman) in such a way that she will only see the depth of his evolution *if she is all in* (not taking advantage or taking him for granted, as you stated). Alison Armstrong... The Queen's Code. Such women are very fortunate, very quiet with what they have come to know, and very praised by their small circle of trusted brothers, uncles, admirers, and husbands. Often, other women are envious or jealous about the secret of their success - hiding in plain sight for anyone to see.
You got that exactly right!
Who asked you to reveal our secrets..
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Believe me very few will stumble on this unless they are Sigma seekers 😂😂
How come that you know me so well.
Excellent question!
I believe this applies to all types of relationships that the Sigma male has.
The best revenge is no revenge. It's loving yourself harder.
Indeed. I'm amongst my tribe😂😂😂😂
Naw...its waiting a while, and calculating.
Thank you.
It's actually being honest with yourself!!
Doesn't your arm get tired after a while though ?
"No man is free, who isn't master of himself"
Nothing to be added here.
Let's goooooo
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@@ChosesinWon 🤣
You have just completely described me!!! I never known why I act the way I do..... But you've just nailed how I think and work!!
This is absolutely correct. I have a long fuse but if it goes, it goes big!
Quite simply, people who treat you like this are not worth your time, your energy, your emotion and at work this can be vicious when the sigma male stops helping you..forever. Someone pulled this on me in my first job. I used to help everyone but once that person crossed the line, I stopped helping them. They had to quit and move to another state because they could not do the job without me carrying them. I was never mad, just disappointed that they did not value my time the way I valued theirs.
I let the universe destroy my enemies and rivals, I don't not care, by ignoring someone it takes their power, leaves them totally defeated. Silent treatment is gold
I've been this way my entire life. This video nails it. I'm often criticized for being too patient. Talk is cheap, but it takes time to gather convincing evidence that actions don't (and won't) align. But once that line is crossed, it's all over like flipping a light switch. They're not done; I am. And there's no going back. Excuses are the big red flag. Big talk, no action (big hat, no cattle) is the American way now.
I am a sigma. This is me. Track record means a lot. When the line is crossed and no evidence anything will change, done. I will be in a room with you and not recognize your existence. My time is precious. I don't waste time with people when they've wasted mine
@@RockAndDoubleBassWithAaronJoySo have I, don't have time for ignorance, stupidity or arguments.
Yes, like a light switch. It doesn't turn off as if moving from empathetic to sociopathic, but we just don't care anymore. And we're good with that.
This is me.
I had never heard of the Sigma male. I had heard of an alpha male. I never had thought of myself as an alpha male..and now I know why ..because I'm a Sigma male
There's no such thing as either. Its all horseshit. Look it up. The biologist who created the concept has now rejected it as nonsense.
Of course you are.
Everyone who isn't alpha is a sigma. That's what they want you to believe. That everyone is strong. No, they are not. There is no such thing as a sigma. The alpha beta hierarchy does not apply to humans and this has been scientificly proven.
@@bmw9616 This stuff is just astrology for ditzy dudes
Don’t believe This garbage 😂
This video gave me chills it’s like looking into a mirror for the first time
Lmaooo
Beta af
it fits me so perfectly. have myself been in many of the situations where you have tried to build close friendships, which have not been reciprocated in the same way, I have my inner values, which I stand unwaveringly on. and are the cornerstones of my life.
And if some then what to say...are not honest with me, or start slandering me, or abuse my trust.
Then I completely lose respect for this kind of person, and quietly pull myself out of it, without bothering to start arguing for my inner values.
INFP
Personal growth instead of revenge. To leave bullies with their problems they never solve.
Bear in mind, being called sigma is not meant to be a flex, or inflate narcissistic tones to ones character. Its just a state of mind, like stoicism. Anyone using these terms for unconstructive reasons, are not these terms. This video is one of many to bring clarity, not pride.
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The psychological definition from a sigma male is far removed from the general idea of a sigma male that lives in the zeitgeist these days, you're def not wrong about that.
Absolutely agree on this 👍
I agree, some people regard this as lack of emotional maturity. Problem is our bar can make this difficult to pass for others and some won't care you've dropped them because you've already served their purpose. It is something to wield carefully
This resonated with me a lot more than I thought it did. Even when I'm angry and vent in privacy, I just don't really feel like expending that energy all too much. Sometimes I've wondered if I had Asperger's or something, because I'd just move on and remain aloof. I'd simply disconnect and check out. Focus on what I need to do and nothing more. Loyalty is *everything* to me, so I don't take betrayals lightly.
This is a very good video which relays the fundemental stages yet....never forget that a Sigma is built, not automatically superman. So if you feel that only the first stages shown here resonate with you yet you still blow a fit after a few months & start doubting that you are a sigma...don't. Every stage is learnt through trial & error.
Remember, a Sigma is well aware of their own failures...ie trusting too much in the start, hence you got burnt. A Sigma also knows that without failure, growth does not occur, so, never fear failure, learn to lean into it & keep rising.
If you ever need a friend...seek out the interdependant people only. Those who are willing to be built, as well as build. Personally, i have two of them, whom i call my best friends, my only friends & the rest are basically npc's.
Keep going my friend, you will get there, everything worthwhile is built over time.
It's better to be alone than around Bad Company.
Do not spend time with people who make fun of you, roast you, or haze you, or people that make you doubt yourself.
And get to know your partner for at least 2 years before getting together in a relationship with them or marrying them.
Do not be the person that sleeps with someone on our first day and moves in on day three and then finding all kinds of crazy stuff about that person, as you are living with them.
@JB-lp9xr I guess it depending how it's done, but Hazing somebody is really bad.
But I guess it depends on all the horrible things being said I guess
Nah you too sensitive. People who make fun of you actually want you to be better. They most likely making fun of you for good reason . Its called masculine love. But yall cant handle the truth. Those people who roast you care about you possibly more then you care about yourself.
@matlabatt maybe you're right if I have bigger boobs than the ladies on the beach then there's a problem here.
Men should not have breasts
@@JB-lp9xr I find the difference between hazing and ribbing is that true friends will mock your strengths which can actually be extremely funny. Where as hazing is just looking to humiliate someone. The two experiences are completely different.
Never create negative chemicals in someones mind.
No inhibitory particles
A sigma peace is something that should never be crossed
I had never heard of being sigma until my girlfriends brother called me one. I now know that’s on brand.
. . . “ … on brand -?..” that inane and vapid choice of word and context …
disqualifies you at once …’on brand’?..
Me to a T. I keep the door open for so long but when I’m done I’m done. It’s not done out of anger or spite. It’s just disengaging and, redefine myself. To be honest it’s more a recognizing the immutability of a situation, accepting it, and detaching from it. Most times the people who cause the change are so confused at the level of interference…no anger, no malice, no partiality just the same person that’s now another person.
Dude at my work disrespected me in a team meeting. The guy knew less than me, wasn't as skilled as me and talked down to me as though I were an idiot.
He was a Team Lead, I was "just a peon"
I quit my job, took my savings and bought rental properties in a state that my savings could buy the properties without needing to get a mortgage, (because I did my research).
I no longer need any job, any disrespect, I have a property manager that works for me. Thanks Carlos for pushing me too far. I hope you enjoyed picking up the extra work that my leaving left for you.
Narcissists only change when they no longer breathe. Carlos dgaf.
Wow, you really showed him as he took over your position 😂😂
@@kyledavis5646 The dude was a team lead. He didn't take over my position, he got stuck with my work in addition to his work.
My projects were the most difficult because he made sure to funnel the hardest projects my way whilst giving his buds the easiest jobs.
By messing with me he ended up with work he didn't have the skill set to handle.
He didn't have the skill set to be a team lead in the first place.
Yes can relate, Then you get asked by management to fix all there f&*k ups
Wow to this day I find myself cross training team leads and supervisors who have combined more years on the job than myself. The conclusion I find is they ego trip about their position but don't have the knowledge nor supervision skills. It's funny but for some odd reason I seem to be the go to man which I am playing the dumb game for now on, no questions.
Common sense isn't all to common and the ones who take accountability for a job well done but get butt hurt and start the back stabbing and pointing the finger when they fail. Take ownership and keep in mind there's always room for improvement and enlighten to having responsibility goes along way.
I now limit myself and my resources cause if you don't care why should I.
when people you love more than air decide that your not worth the bell dings, the light turns on and you go your way and throw away the rear view mirror
Try an I.N.F.J. sigma, never mistake kindness for weakness, silence for ignorance and calmness for acceptance.
INTP full sig
Appreciate the video, I am a sigma but used the realization not to brag but to realize I've cut off a lot of family over the years and I should give them another chance. Don't want my emotional and physical absence to become bitterness.
I carry a lot of these traits. I am fiercely independent, and have never understood the concept of "needing" someone in my life. If I am wronged, I walk away. Sure, I love to have people in my life, but no specific individual is too valuable to walk away from once the line is crossed. Logic and stoic values are paramount in my life.
Sounds a lot like a beta
I often say that the biggest mistake you can ever make with me is to underestimate me. Don't mistake my patience with you as being dependent on you. Just because I don't say it, don't assume that I don't see it. Not having many friends doesn't mean I'm desperate for your friendship. When you think I "changed all of sudden" in reality, you chose not to see me for who I am. Just because you lasted longer than others you thought your time wouldn't come. You thought the rules didn't apply to you. In the end I'll always show you better than I can tell you. By the time you "get it" I'll be gone.
It's common sense to just slowly and amicably walk out of toxic or energy draining situation. If things don't work out, there is no need to overly accommodate, nor there is a need to have more enemies.
this is very true...."revenge" is a dish best served cold.
A Sigma male is not a beta loser, he will at first speak up and he will argue but later if its pointless he will just ignore you and is done with you and just moves on. I know because i am a Sigma.
Loser is such a gay sounding word
Facts!!!
A true sigma doesn’t have to announce he’s sigma
@@nickcarroll8565 and a beta has to announce that a true Sigma wouldn't have to announce that he is a Sigma. You see how your brainrot argument works in both ways, that's the beauty of baseless claims.
@@stevensteven3417 sorry for your feelings
These sigma videos really help me better understand myself. It’s mind-blowing how accurately they describe me and my behavior. It’s weird that we have to be classified as sigma. i feel like it’s just values of self-worth, self-esteem, and self-respect and at the same time understanding that others are deserving of the same. Emotional intelligence and fairness? Maturity? Embodiment of the words “liberty and justice for all”? 🤷 wtf do I know?
This video pretty much describes my entire life. I used to be such a pushover to these people because I used to think that what they had to say mattered. Eventually after enough times I just gave up completely
This was a good watch for me. I have gone somewhere between 'grey-wall' and no contact with my family due to their endless criticism of most topics I bring up. And I have grown tired of conversations of turmoil and misery about this world.
This reassured me and also told me how to use this to move on
"He is King who knows how to rule himself" Plutarch.
I avoid retreating into silence. I just quietly retreat into something more worthy of my time and energy. And I see my mind as being more like a garden than a weapon.
"I was the idiot shouting at the hurricane
Never realizing my silence could deafen the world"--lil Gangrel
Very interesting and very informative 👌 👍 🤔
“We move forward, not backwards”
Excatly
Exactly 👍
As a Sigma myself i love your positive spin on this. Personaly speaking i have had times when emotionaly disconnecting after toxic engagements and taking the time to reflect or re-establish boundaries has been negatively viewed upon by others, it thought there was something wrong with me but your video just demonstrates we are all different and some just lack understanding. Thank you for this content
This is one of the most accurate videos Ive seen on the subject of the true Sigma Personality.
It's a long path to the self mastery, few Men have the courage to make it to that point as it takes a huge amount of deep inner reflection!!
Thank you 🙏
@@HierarchiesofManYou are most welcome. Keep up the Great Work 😊🙏
I totally agree with this. I also read about this in a book 'Charmflow Secrets', and the thing is that communication and seduction isn't just expressing your needs, but also knowing how to listen to others carefully and to be assertive with your words when you communicate with other people. It can change so much if you do it properly. Really great book.
Thank you. Good video. I'm a sigma male and surprise people when I "let them have it".
Thanks for sharing!
My family still hasn't learned or understand even the first bit. And so they reel back when I burst at them when I'm given zero way out.
I’m 47, the older you get the more these attributes become more apparent. I think there are different versions , (not types) of sigma males, depending on upbringing and experiences. For years I thought I was just different until I heard the term, “sigma male.” It blew my mind how on target this was with my personality.
Glad you can relate to it
I told a friend of many years it was a minimum requirement for my friendship, not that we agree, but that she make a good fath effort to understand my perspective. When she continually forgot and interrupted with deflections, I simply said, "stay away from me". I blocked her number and haven't regretted never hearing from her again.
This is because by the time thier buttons are finally trespassed on, you're too used to getting away with stepping on them and they are finally done putting up with it
I did this (without knowing about sigma theory) and forced life-altering events for my former family, simple chess, deserved. Your silence will cripple nations. I will add one tip in the hopes of helping one single man out there, never do this alone, always with Jesus Christ who will guide you through the above instructions. Refuse Him, and you won’t get far with this. Be ruthless but in a kind way. You’re too strong to intentionally hurt anyone, this means you protect and live with honor, like a Dexter code. You have too many great things to accomplish and so many great people waiting for you. Go get them, you beast.
Great advice for any 'personality type' :)
#1 is definitely how I feel about disagreement
The more I mature the more sigma i relate with.
All I ever ask for is respect, in all areas of my life .
Nothing more . Insult me and I’ll make sure you’ll know exactly where you stand with me. Period.
I don’t forgive often and I’ll never forget.
Probably no one will read this and I never comment.
But I have never known whether to believe in this whole sigma, beta, alpha labelling….and to be honest, I never really cared to, I’m not even sure why I clicked this vid, except I just felt I should for some reason
But I will say, I have never experienced myself being broken down so systematically before as I have now…
Wow, like wow….i stand alone…as a husband and father of 3, with almost zero friends……I am one of the friendliest people you will meet..and can make an entire room laugh and have a good time…
But now I understand why I have never been willing to compromise my inner being for acceptance or friendship. Yet always done my utmost to be friendly..and serve and help….
I Live life educating myself daily, even though I HATED school, be respectful to any in Authority even though Authority means nothing to me
Give human respect to All and never more, until TRUE respect is deserved
And 98% of the time end up retreating from ALL relationships
Thanks for the vid….👍
I read this, and wow, I can really relate to what you are saying. I'm 51 now, and my life got so much better when I finally started trusting myself and cutting off people that didn't reciprocate.
I really hope your situation turns better, and know that you are not alone experiencing what you are going through. You have my respect, sir, and I wish you the best❤️
I can relate-also 51 damn. My interpersonal relationships are hurting bad right now. Wife getting cancer is like the last straw--talk about being pushed too far!
Reciprocity ...
Do not give the keys to the estate of friendship easily
Sorry to hear it bro, just remember, it is always darkest and coldest before the dawn….there are no guarantees in life except one.
If you work on yourself and your personal development according to what is true, not what we want to be true. You will ALWAYS come out on top. time is the key…
Stay strong brother and find a network near by, being self reliant, doesn’t mean you don’t need others support.
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I thought I was indestructible for most of my life. Help people, fix their vehicles, 'enjoying the company of people' and then...... I had a heart attack
I very quickly learnt that I had hit 62 and had No male friends.
Female friends can be much nicer people.
Not really a shock
Just disappointed.
It's been a long road to recovery and I don't really trust how I'm feeling.
This little episode makes a lot of sense.
I know I have scrubbed people off my 'friends list' when I realized, they're just people I met and there's little to no value being near them
Sad yes, but occasionally we've got to let 'drift wood' continue it's journey and not 'take it home'
This spoke to me. Came into my feed out if nowhere. I’ve been considering a complete reset, new place new environment, even new name and socials. Not sure about the last two though, but in spite of many attempts of understanding I’m being gaslit by closed ones. So much so that it’s almost funny. I still consider one last chance and then make it permanent, since these are people I still love dearly. But at some point I need to draw the line for good, or I won’t be able to get out of the rut all of this has caused me.
Thank goodness im not the only one that feels betrayal deeply
Like an ocean vs a puddle.
This was better than therapy. Thanks again! ✌🏿
We know when to act in order to achieve real useful results, there is no regression, only positive traction. Its gonna get done, regardless of whom receives the credit. Evolve!
Yep how I feel right now. People want to overcomplicate and stress me , I just desire separation
They don't cause harm; they neutralize harm. They are selfless, united providers of justice and are incorruptible.
We are Authentic to the Bones ❤ Funny is, people cant read you, say you are mysterious and wanna know, how are you really...but we never play a role and they dont wants to believe it 😅
I am introverted. I don't have buttons to push, got my boundaries, don't socialize and ain't no doormat.
I try to lead by example and find the ones who have no clue seem to flock to my expertise with taking credit to their advantage and throwing me under the bus. I now find it necessary to live under the radar. Being quiet is really beneficial. I've been humbled and got wise real quick. Humility and wisdom goes along way. Don't question my integrity and my intentions. Nothing is a secret and don't tell people your next move.
I got broken up with by an ex and she tried lying and putting shame to my name after. I later started dating one of her friends after I got over her. She had a fit of rage finding out by going finding my instagram meanwhile I’m still in one of the happiest relationships I’ve been in despite the person being one of my ex’s friends.
"Wow, this video truly opened my eyes to how Sigma males handle situations when their loyalty is tested. It’s fascinating to see how they remain calm and collected but draw a clear line when pushed too far. Their ability to walk away with dignity rather than engaging in unnecessary drama is truly admirable. Loyalty is such a rare trait these days, and seeing how Sigma males value it while still maintaining their self-respect is inspiring. This video is a must-watch for anyone who wants to understand the depth of their character and why they command so much respect. Great content!"
I share a decent number of these traits, have had to put up permanent barriers and walk away from best friends of almost 30 years when it was the last straw. I left a job with cause in the middle of the work day after my big boss showed his hand too early he was getting rid of me like my original boss before he came along. I had reported a couple things before at the job that were basically illegal (violence, witnessing harassment) and when I put my notice in at 1pm, then the rest of HR and the CFO came in. I explained the situation they happened earlier in the day, told them it was retaliation and illegal, that I was getting my measly Missouri unemployment and I walking out the door and will not discuss this again without my lawyer. The CFO said “no problem” and even helped me take some things out of my office to my car. My dad died a few months before, and wasn’t going to take any more crap from that job and my boss. I know I made the right decision as I slept like a baby that night; and that only happens when I know I made the right decision.
I can say the hardest part is when I returned to being a hockey goalie after 27 years off and learned everything was “no contact.” How am I supposed to clear my crease without slashing someone’s ankle or knees? I did realize I don’t get as worked up as much when I played growing up as a kid, and that helps me focus, which is the biggest foundation of the position.
So I share quite a few things with this “Sigma” thing, but I don’t care about labels.
As someone who was once loyal to someone and had to walk away, I now understand why I did what I had to. Some people tend to take loyalty from someone for granted. Sometimes they even get it in their heads that they can use that for their own benefit. If you really understood why they were loyal then you’d understand why that is a terrible move. Sometimes saying nothing and walking away is extremely powerful
I am your ally, not your servant. Don’t think I’ll never notice your betrayal
And all of a sudden most men become sigma due to this video, truth be told i believe everyone has a bit of everything in them during certain circumstances , sometimes we are extroverts,sometimes introvert, sometimes Alpha,sometimes beta,sometines delta and whatever things you can think of to destroyer it,just because you internalise your emotionel and consider your actions do not mean you are sigma anything, as i said we all have abit of everyghing depending on enviroment, situation, lokation, circumstances.
🤔🤔🤔...Wow as a sigma I can testify that this is not click bait....infact It's astonishingly acurate... 🤔🤔...very well done!! 👏👏👏... 🤔...🤔🤔🤔...🤔🤔🤔...🤔🤔🤔...🤔🤔...
People get a probational period with me. I observe every aspect of their character in that time frame. Specifically intellect, honour, integrity and principles. If I find them to backpedal, deceive or be daft at all in that time... I drop them without a clue. Funny thing is every time I've done this, there's been no inquiry as to why. So, I've always been right about them. 90% of people have no character, no values, no scruples about them, thus are undeserving of my very valuable friendship.
Thank you for such clarity. This has helped me understand myself like never before.
Welcome
I'm an old carpenter and mostly work for myself and by myself. I have worked union jobs and have walked away from a number of jobs because I have zero tolerance for aggressive Alpha male superintendents . I'm the best superintendent I've ever had. My grandfather once told me, "Don't stand and argue with another man, just hit him." Different times, but I get it .
Ancient Chinese secret right
Superbly done ! you cant change people , but you can decide who you want to interact with ! People who disrespect you , know they are wrong but will never admit it , and will therefore repeat their actions ! So move on with confidence ! They really are not worth the time anymore . Their actions prove that . They will soon realize that it is their loss not yours ! But their weak character will never let them admit it . Somebody else will appreciate you way more !
At 5:36, it reminds me of something Eddie Pinero said and aligns with. Also, “Value loyalty above all else.”
This is me! Many people's insecurities were exposed and they were frustrated because they couldn't sway me with raised voices, smug, arrogant, and condescending tones and attitudes, and their don't-you-question-me know-it-allisms!
This video has explained what a sigma male is so about. This video described my Son to the point. I'm happy he seems me this video, cause it will help me as his mother to understand him better. Thank you for this video and hope others will have a chance to read & listen to it. Thank you very much, God bless us all. A Mom with a Sigma male Son. Amen
That's so amazingly true, I never thought about that before. That's actually the next stage I'm thinking of going to next week at work by staying silent, because no one cares when I say to them what is upsetting me
Thank you Universe and thank you God 🙏😊❤
We can give someone the benefit of the doubt 20 times, but when we reach our limit, it's over, and there is no going back, we never go back, ever, not in a million years. What makes disloyalty intolerable to us, is that it reveals a profound lack of character, and there's nothing we despise more.
I left a friendship recently, I just vanished. Too must drama and disrespect.... I'm gone
The thing i hate about being a sgima is. I know human behavior very well. I always hope you prove me wrong, but you always prove me right
How good are you at it? For example, xan you tell the person I am just by looking at me or my profile/page?
@ReyBaby1736 lmao no. You can make judgments. But how do I know that's just one shot, 1000 shots, or Ai from that picture.
I see you walk in. Shake my hand, and speak to me for a few sentences, and I'll get a grip on who you are
Spot on !
Done talking! Nuff said!
That was awesome!! Thank you so much for sharing.
Being a Sigma has nothing to do introversion or even kindness, although sigmas are kind, they are not pushovers. They have evolved beyond that. Sigmas remain genuine authentic individuals by staying true to themselves. Those who disrespect their patience and kindness are soon left behind.
In an intimate relationship, the man (or woman) should pay attention to intuition. If there is concrete proof, then the better. Also use your brain, it will fill in otherwise unknown facts. Once, you have concluded your observation/ analysis and concluded that your intuition was correct, just walk away without explanation (you can explain once you have moved on)
This is me, yesterday, last week, and today. Going through a couple beautiful trials my boys. Saddle up!
Time to grind and rise!
I've watched a few of these and it makes me curious about these same traits in other aspects and I haven't heard it come up yet... The involuntary 'noticing of patterns', 'spotting (what we feel are) flaws and warnings', 'cutting right to the solution regardless of ego'... I would think that this personality type would, almost by default, be keen observers and problem solvers in general in other capacities whether it's mechanical engineering, architecture, music,... only to mention a few... (?)
You bring up a very good point. This is the first I've heard of or watched a Video on Sigma types. Everything here resonated with me and then as I'm reading the comments here I came across yours.
"Pattern Recognition" is an aspect of "my" personality that never shuts off it seems. I even kinda annoy myself from time to time by all of a sudden out of nowhere it seems, have an epiphany or strong assertion that "Something" is happening too often. Doesn't matter if it's a positive or a negative. It seems that once something has occurred a certain number of times in too short of a time frame or too many times to be something of chance or random It comes to the front of my mind. I don't always know exactly what it is when it happens, but I do know when this happens I have to mentally STOP and take account of what this could be. I usually figure it out pretty quickly and then after closely investigating it find that it definitely was a pattern starting that "I" need to pay attention to.
This seems to happen in the back of my thoughts, almost subconsciously most of the time. It's not as if I was keeping a conscious tally of the events that suddenly come to the forefront of my thoughts. Although, over the decades I have learned to kind of harness this "Background Processing" so to speak. If I'm consciously working on something that I kinda hit a wall with, I just "jokingly" tell myself to "Work on This LATER while sleeping." Sometimes I'll forget I've told myself something like that and have moved on from whatever I was consciously working on and then here comes the solution later. The background processing stayed at the task even though I had consciously decided to re-channel my energy to something else.
Oh, and I can walk into a room that I've been in before and if something, almost anything that was there before has been moved, removed, replaced, or something NEW has been added
I will have an uneasy feeling and not be certain as to why. Then I'll stop and look around. I'd say that about 95% of the time I can find what has or was changed or added. The other 5% I chalk up to possible Color or Shade Difference due to time of day and contrast changes do the lighting. rofl
I'm a 3rd Generation US Marine and I also worked in a Prototype Machine Shop for a few decades and have a journal of "Improvements" to existing things. It's rare that I can come up with something out of thin air, but it seems all too easy to look at something and almost instantly see how it could be made to work better. lol
Anywho, Thank You for making and posting your comment here about Patterns and your experience.
@@codybanks9944 I'm so glad it reached you and thank you for your service :) One of my brothers is a Marine so I have a little favoritism going. Fond, fond memories of touring Paris Island and trying to spot him among ALL the other soldiers who looked just like him.
I think you've left a really nice description that could shed some light where needed.
Wow, 😮 I didn't realize I was a sigma male... This video was spot on.
"...the ones you should fear pushing too far." Because if you have pushed them too far that means you are not behaving like a human adult should be behaving, and you will be corrected, whether you like it or not. If you don't like it, you can f#$#$# off forever. It's a win-win for us.
Also, guarding your peace is a double edge situation.
That’s the dark side of betrayal: you continue working with and discerning actions to protect yourself.
It forces an extreme reaction, an entire NO!
Excellent 👍
Thank you! Cheers!
Everything you describe in this video is true I started changing 5 years ago and will continue to build. I lowered my tolerance for illogicality and stopped wasting energy on people or things that don't work in my favor. I would recommend everyone to watch this video.
Sigma's just walk away and will not waste any time trying to persuade you or change your mind. Sigma's do a great deal of research to come to the conclusions about life that they hold to and no one can change their minds by force or constantly repeating themselves. Sigma's just tune you out and will usually be thinking about something totally different if you start on a rant. If your goal is to change a Sigma's point of view on any topic you need a great deal of evidence substantiating your position. A Sigma will then consider the evidence and make a reasoned decision about it. Sigma's do not accept emotional arguments as having any merit on almost any topic. Emotions derail reason and a Sigma therefore gives them extremely low value in any debate. This does not mean Sigma's have no emotions, I myself am highly emotional and yet I suppress my emotions to think clearly about the evidence or problem and what is the best course of action for me to take as a result. In my case I learned to do this because I have an extremely high output of adrenaline and when I loose my temper bad things happen, so I learned to suppress the emotion in order to logically analyze and evaluate a proper response to the situation. People who mistake my trembling knees during confrontations for a fear response would be incorrect. It is called a fight or flight response for a reason after all. Which I explained to a young man at a bar one night when his friend attempted to provoke me into a fight. I told him how I learned the difference when my younger brother who outweighed me by fifty pounds and was a state champion wrestler tried to take me in a fight when I was fifteen. He bull rushed me hoping to use his weight advantage and was completely stunned when I snatched him by his T-shirt collar and threw him back in the direction He rushed me from like a rag doll. I told the young man who challenge me I would rather buy him a drink than fight but if He insisted lets take it outside. I think what convinced him to take the drink offer was how calmly I talked to them in spite of my trembling knees. He took the drink offer and I did not go to jail thankfully.
The description is stunning
I'm a not a Sigma male; I'm an INTJ female, but this video really resonates because the way I respond to toxic people and environments is very similar.
INTJ (or any of the Jungian/MB stuff) isn't considered opposite to MB types. So if the video resonates, it would be likely that you're a sigma whose MB type is INTJ. They don't cancel each other out. Women do get ignored when it comes to this alpha-beta-sigma social hierarchy stuff, so it's easy to forget that it actually applies to all humans.
I definitely have the light switch tendency if you cross the line there's no going back.
Great summary - spot on!
Glad you enjoyed it