I struggle with obsession. I am currently getting over someone I began obsessing about last summer. He did something that triggered a tidal wave of feelings within me. I found him attractive, yes, but it was about more than just that. It highlighted how empty my life had become and how I need to grow as a person to avoid falling in to this obsessional pattern again.
@@ayugoslav5554why did you reply to something like this? We’re talking about something serious, if you find it funny then you didn’t understand anything
you can be very likely in a state of limerence with someone who is your twin flame (they trigger something in the unconcious, spiritual) but that doesn't mean you belong with them
"Twinflame" is such a toxic concept. I wasted three years on someone toxic because they tried to convince me they are my twinflame. They treated me so poorly. But there was a lot of magical synchronous stuff. And I left everything and joined a monastery for a year and now I can breathe again. Soul is whole and complete! You are not a half!!!
OMG! Been on that path. When I look back I feel so silly and stupid. But I embraced my masculine and this made all the difference. Thanks for making this video ❤❤❤
Obsession is energy. It’s overused energy on a thought. Once you find ways to fill life- there’s less space & time to obsess about 1 thing. It’s not foolproof- a theory of mine.
@@weareadventuresam I think so too. More or less atleast. I think obsession is a natural inclination that arises from boredom and the brain needs stimulation.. so it's just a way to stimulate itself, perhaps!?!
A lot of people are very near to understand obsession, but not grasping as to where it begins, especially when it comes to obsessing over a specific person. Most people who had a loving childhood don't have this obsessive issue because they understand healthy love. But the ones who never learned about love in their childhood discover it in a person afterwards, hence associating love with that person. Its the reason why so many people fall for toxic men and women because they associate love with toxicity as that is how they were introduced to what love is. Same goes for obsession in general - some people made you feel certain way that you never got to experience before. A good way to help yourself overcome obsession with someone when those thoughts come is to remind yourself that you need to be kind to yourself as this is just unresolved childhood trauma manifesting. Once you start healing this hurt, it goes away and you feel at peace with yourself. Hope that helps!
My problem isn’t me obsessing about someone, it’s the person believe that I’m obsessed with him and keep pestering me, hacked into my devices, and some more this person is a celebrity, it’s a huge problem, I doubt anyone has any experience like mine. He is only there to make me feel damn miserable coz he keeps spying on me n can see me through cctv system and call me fugly every single day without fail. I can’t go out freely. I lost my freedom, but this person still think it’s because I’m obsessed with him and that’s a problem, he should just get out of all my devices but he has trouble getting out because he wants to keep me as a “fan” and spy on me. The problem is I just want to live my life with the freedom of a general audience, freely making comments about any subject. help me please☹️
My problem isn’t me obsessing about someone, it’s the person believe that I’m obsessed with him and keep pestering me, hacked into my devices, and some more this person is a celebrity, it’s a huge problem, I doubt anyone has any experience like mine. He is only there to make me feel damn miserable coz he keeps spying on me n can see me through cctv system and call me fugly every single day without fail. Changed all my algorithm, and have suggested videos that he WANT me to watch that he think will trigger me. I can’t go out freely. I can’t watch videos freely. I feel controlled. I lost my freedom, but this person still think it’s because I’m obsessed with him and that’s a problem, he should just get out of all my devices but he has trouble getting out because he wants to keep me as a “fan” and spy on me. The problem is I just want to live my life with the freedom of a general audience, freely making comments about any subject. AND go out freely not feeling as if I’m being spied on and ridiculed. help me please☹️
@@cuixue-rs3mii had a quite attractive and wealthy man who decided he deserved me. He has been a military IT guy and put some very comprehensive spyway in my phone after drugging me and learning my pin to unlock my phone. After he took me home I slept off the drugs realizing I had missed my opportunity to get tested. I came to realizing I could no longer access my Google, Amazon, and Gmail; and that both the microphone and camera were active. He actually called me and told me what he did. I unplugged my phone and played Spotify til it died. After a couple of days I got a new phone not orally communicating. I wrote a note to the phone rep and explained I needed a new phone and I wanted my name corrected on my account (it was spelled wrong). Then I set up fb, Gmail, new Google under my 1st husbands last name. I have been free since then.
Wow, the timing of me seeing this video is perfect, I was with a narcissist for 4 years, and when we stopped seeing each other, i found the love of my life, and because i was trauma bonded, i ended up ruining things but i realized my mistake and did all i could to make sure i got her back
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain , after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me.
Obsession is a powerful force, but there is always a way to overcome it. It starts with self-awareness, recognizing the grip it has on your mind, and then consciously redirecting that energy into growth and purpose. Every obsession can be transformed into a journey of balance and self-discovery - Need help than connect
My problem isn’t me obsessing about someone, it’s the person believe that I’m obsessed with him and keep pestering me, hacked into my devices, and some more this person is a celebrity, it’s a huge problem, I doubt anyone has any experience like mine. He is only there to make me feel damn miserable coz he keeps spying on me n can see me through cctv system and call me fugly every single day without fail. I can’t go out freely. I lost my freedom, but this person still think it’s because I’m obsessed with him and that’s a problem, he should just get out of all my devices but he has trouble getting out because he wants to keep me as a “fan” and spy on me. The problem is I just want to live my life with the freedom of a general audience. help me please.
@@cuixue-rs3mi , Document Everything Record every incident, including dates, times, and specifics of what occurred. Save any messages, screenshots, or evidence that can support your case. Seek Legal Aid If you have enough proof, consult with a lawyer specializing in cyberstalking or harassment. They can guide you on the legal steps to take, even if you wish to remain anonymous. Be Anonymous If you’re worried about retaliation or exposure, consider reporting the issue anonymously. Many organizations and legal aid services allow you to protect your identity while pursuing justice.
@@cuixue-rs3mi you need to quickly factory reset your phone & devices Delete all the data , change your number & don't give him the phone anymore Tell the police if it gets too serious & try to tell your seniors if you are at an institution that he is bullying you
@@LoveDrivesOutFear absolutely! Your subconscious is maybe reminding you to be grateful to have that person - keep them close! 🙏 Thank you for your beautiful message ❤️
I agree. That is what has happened to me the last year! It had been an indicator of how I want that person to heal and how I am part of his healing! ❤️🩹
Yeah their is “limerence” and then their is genuine mutual attraction. It’s not as though there are never situations where two people really are just awkward as hell/nervous as hell and can’t make the first move. I think your own intuition will guide you the right way if you allow it
I find myself alone in my life. Wife, children, parents, siblings. And yet I feel completely alone. I've done right by my family. I've done everything that I could to make their life better than mine. I expected gratitude, result. But I find that life steers in the direction it wants to go, regardless. Maybe I have given too much love for others and kept none for myself. Now, I find myself falling in love with an idea of someone who will love me back. Who will be grateful, who will give for me as much as I have tried to give to everyone. Oh, a man can dream though, a man can dream.
I can tell you that there is no perfect man we could find as such... There are some good men and some bad men... We need to find our motive for our own life n then everything will fall in place
Loving others is a great thing to do but to truly love another you must first learn to truly love yourself. This video has great advise about being aware of your inner-self. There are many on youtube to help you along that path, I have found the guru Mooji Baba as a good resource for me along my journeys. Best wishes for the true-inner you.
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
I realized this before even watching this video. Been thinking more and more about a guy I've been seeing. Though he's the same age as me, he still has so much faith in humanity and refuses to see the world from a jaded perspective even though he's been hurt many times before. I've been toughening myself up all these years to protect myself from the shit in this world, so I've become a cold-hearted steely person. Everyone I've dated before was just as jaded as me. I know I yearn to be the good and caring and positive person I once was. All it took was meeting this one person to want to belive in humanity again.
@@LilyBlossom8 beautiful message Lily! There are no coincidences in life. I believe you were meant to meet that person so he could make you realize things about yourself. Wishing you the best 🙏
There is just as much good, if not more, than there is bad in this world. There is a reason why the media focuses only on the bad. It is a trick to manipulate you into the realm of fear because that is the only realm they can fully control. You cannot control love. I love life and am not jaded, but that doesn't mean I don't know of evil. I walk with our Heavenly Father and he shows me good and orders my steps away from bad.
this beautiful and make me tear up a little haha-because I am just like this guy and I've had to promise to keep my inner child alive-no matter bc it can really have this effect on someone who needs it
it's funny because the more I like someone, develop feelings for them, the more I fall in love with myself. The more I fantasize them, the more I become aware of the fact that i am actually capable of loving myself, unconditionally. Having a crush on someone is fun! Not exactly meaning u fell in love with them but crush is simply misinformation right? It's like having a crush on someone is giving me permission to like myself lol.
Maybe that person you have a crush on is making you realize parts of yourself that you LOVE! I think that's a wonderful feeling and we should all surround ourselves with people who uplift us, make us feel valued and appreciated!
a big part of limerance that nobody talks about is how it isnt just fantasies of the person, its mainly fantasies of an idealized version of yourself. it's really more about how you think they could perceive you, and make you feel seen for qualities you've always wished to been seen for. I guess its easier to love yourself through the eyes of someone else, it makes you feel lovable. I have the same issue now and then
Been obsessed with a woman for the past 15 years. Been working on figuring this out and moving on completely. Certainly relates to my lack of confidence and low self-esteem.
My obsession made me realize how I allowed my shame and feelings of inadequacy to linger in my life. It was a powerful insight about a debilitating shame that got me when I was once rejected. Recognizing this has turned on a light to be self compassionate and begin healing from my past😊
It's about the idea of them that made you feel obsessed over them. More likely your mind is creating a false reality. It's so important to study how the brain works to avoid excessive thoughts.
Exactly we mould people to how we'd like them. I thought I had a thing for a neighbour but nope id drive her mad and she would me. So bloody positive not tgat I'm always negative I've seen a different side of life and I find those people naive tbh. She has .my interests at heart which I appreciate.
I urge you to look into Joseph Murphy and Neville Goddards books. Stay away from the youtube shit since now people just use AI to create new nonsense and play it off like its rare unheard of recordings.
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I'm so glad you explained this, thank you! After 4 years I had a dream about my ex and the next day he contacted me. I knew why as I already saw what happened in the dream. I have so many mixed emotions. But after listening to your video I realise that this is synchronization. The universe wants to wake me up. To make matters even more weird...as I drove home I saw a sign with an arrow and his initials on it. What the hell is going on?! But I realise now I'm running away from myself not being able to receive love for myself and the need to please others. I have to work on myself Now. So everybody happy new year and put yourself first once and for all🙏🏼🥰🧡
@@theesteward9150It is the realization that it wasn't the other person whom got in the way but it was yourself all along. Eventually there is just NoBody....but this goes much deeper 😊
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Or your ex understands the spiritual realm more than you realize and is using that against you. Many of us are walking around totally naked, not realizing we need to don spiritual Armour as well as cancel dreams from the kingdom of darkness. What you see as synchronization, I see as spiritual manipulation...
We often believe that a soulmate or twin flame will magically show up and make us complete, and maybe that's true.We first must be willing to face our own shadows and become centered and balanced by doing the the inner work of self mastery to attract what we think we want from another.As we complete ourselves we no longer project imagined happiness out onto the world but find it is within where it's been all along.
This makes so much sense. One of my very good friends is constantly on my mind and the only thing I could think as to why is a crush. But I’ve never had a crush on this person at all, I even asked myself if they were attractive to me and they weren’t so I was confused why I could never get them off my mind. They are very inspiring to me (we are very similar but they’ve made better life decisions lol) and I guess they are reflecting what I deep down need to fix and work on in myself.
My problem isn’t me obsessing about someone, it’s the person believe that I’m obsessed with him and keep pestering me, hacked into my devices, and some more this person is a celebrity, it’s a huge problem, I doubt anyone has any experience like mine. He is only there to make me feel damn miserable coz he keeps spying on me n can see me through cctv system and call me fugly every single day without fail. Changed all my algorithm, and have suggested videos that he WANT me to watch that he think will trigger me. I can’t go out freely. I can’t watch videos freely. I feel controlled. I lost my freedom, but this person still think it’s because I’m obsessed with him and that’s a problem, he should just get out of all my devices but he has trouble getting out because he wants to keep me as a “fan” and spy on me. The problem is I just want to live my life with the freedom of a general audience, freely making comments about any subject. AND go out freely not feeling as if I’m being spied on and ridiculed. help me please☹️
@ 🤣 you’re triiipping bruh. They don’t consent to having any part of their identity (name, race, gender, etc) on the internet so ofc im going to describe them in an ambiguous way. What a random comment to even make 😭
The reason why I deal with the obsession is because I was attacked and this person just ghosted as if it didn’t matter. Left severe damage on my mind. I never really had crushes, I got over them pretty easy. It was when I got hurt, I focused on it.
I just went through a bizarre 24 hour mind f*** but with a happy ending. I heard that my ex had been found dead in an alley. I'd made him leave my house because he started drinking again ( he's a sever alcoholic). I was heart broken to think of him out there in the cold, dying alone. Next day his daughter informed me that the body wasn't him after all!! Then someone had discovered that he is in a halfway house, clean & sober and doing well!! Not exactly about obsession. But what an emotional roller coaster!!!
I so feel you... I had a very strong Connection with a guy everything clicks. Married so I kept him on distance I DJ a lot outside and he kept coming and deep conversations a couple if tines but never long enough. My older kids loved him and he loved them. I had to reject him from physical disaster 2 times. It was so hard to do and he is the type normally never would cheat. It's just that can happen two people suddenly fall in love ,it could happen to everybody. It's not blessed when steal someone's partner so I wrote him a letter with long stuff to explain myself I knew it would stop but I didn't expected the rude last words he had to me. Starting to act weird at that daily open place we met with others there. Started to ignore me, like he hated me. I asked in the letter to stay friends ,he couldn't cope with it ok..but to act this way was so painful I can hardly move on. So unnecessary to do that. Childish etc. He is unhappily married for at least 8 years now from the 18 years. He also told me before he never has any humor with her and I saw her a lot and she has zero interest in who he is, as long he has paycheck and pampers their grown children. A good mother but no interest in her hub at all. I'm glad nothing physical happend cause I don't want to be responsible for such things. A very sad story cause in a distant I see he is unhappy I'm not there anymore for 8 months now he often looks depressed. Fun thing we never flirted we knew we fell for one another. Naturally and have so much in common yet being differently too. Iv'e lost the love of my life. I wished i never met him😢 ❤ the best to you dear
I love this. I was treated so poorly by someone who displayed alot of red flags and narcissistic traits, he carried a heavy weight of emotional baggage and projected unto me all the time. He eventually abandoned me without any apology for his cruel actions and never spoke to me again. No resolutions, he just disappeared. His actions have evoked a strong wave of questions deep within me about how I allowed him to treat me, about my self worth. It's been almost obsessive because the whole situation has sparked a reawakening. His actions have caused me alot of frustration and sadness but it's in turn made me question so much. I knew that when I met him, I had a strong feeling, it was going to be short lived. I feel like we crossed paths to shake each other up in whatever way it was for us personally. It wasn't pleasant but now I am healing I am asking myself all the right questions and have definitely grown. I just keep trusting that the universe will guide on this journey and that one day someone who will truly care deeply about me will appear.
I feel you. For 4 years I was in limerence for a friend who I later realized possesses narcissistic traits and was manipulating me. It prevented me from having interest in other people, it was extremely painful and I cried a lot. It ended after we went on vacation together and I never heard from him again. The discard after so much time and emotional investment was excruciating, but the best thing he’s done for me. It’s been over 2 years now of no contact, and I realized that I’m better off staying single and not even caring about relationships. My mental health improved so much. I joined the gym, working on my business, moved back to where I have a few more friends. Every once in a while he pops into my mind and it upsets me. I feel shame for having been so invested and attached to someone who mistreated me for years and triangulated me, gave me bread crumbs of affection and then starve me of affection. I never felt so rejected by anyone before. Honestly, made me mistrust romantic relationships.
@@artbygilik Sorry that happened to you. It's awful and so painful but it sounds like you have grown so much. Don't give up on love though. There are good people out there. 🙏
@ thank you. I’m actually content now with being on my own, I realized that the times I’ve been in relationships or craving them were the times that I was the most stressed and depressed. I’m free now.
Best way to deal with infatuation is remove yourself from the equation. I had this bad once with a girl that was constantly playing mind games.. I switched suburbs. Took me a couple of weeks and I never saw her again. It took 3 months before the infatuation wore off.
When I finally looked deep inside I realized what the connection is. She fell in love with me in the purest form based on innocence and that opened my heart. No other woman could ever love me in that way. We also have a special history and she's the mother of my children. I messed it up. It's too late but I truly hope she's happy. She deserves it 🙂 Now I have to concentrate on not being homeless.
@@inheralchemist Thank you..somehow I missed that last word😒 I guess ones action depend so much of them arhetype... If does nothing or not much...since there is this saying love can moove mountanins
This is true, I think about my ex a lot and my therapist told me that my mind thinks about her because my mind sees her as the representation of love. Growing up I had a high school crush on her and had always wanted to be with her. At the time I really thought she was the one. So naturally my mind put her and the meaning of love together as one. So even tho we broke up and logically I know we didn’t work out my meaning of what love is was attached to her. Now it doesn’t bother me that she’s in my mind I just get along with life.
You get along with life because you know that your feelings are making a bigger deal of her than what she actually is? Also, if you were to have married her and there not be the issues that the break up occurred over, wouldn't attributing her to love itself make you like her more?
@ I guess so yes which is why when we broke up it was like as if my mind flipped upside down. Then again it could be something deeper than love and could be that my mind is telling me that I’m lacking self esteem or self love, etc…
"Mind-blowing! It’s incredible how Carl Jung explains the deeper reasons behind why certain people stay on our minds. Thanks for sharing this wisdom! 🧠✨"
Its very true that it is our shadows, i cannot tell how many people i have attracted in my life who actually brought the things i needed to deal with. I believe we all experience this❤
When I felt limerence over a very unsavory, alcoholic and unemployed bum, it was a wake-up call that I needed to heal many issues. Being attracted a toxic, morally bankrupt person who was totally opposite of everything about me was the strangest experience in my life. I can’t thank my therapist enough for setting me straight. Luckily the attraction wasn’t mutual! He was terrified of beautiful, successful, and educated women.
"Jung’s insights are always so profound! This video truly explains why certain people occupy our thoughts constantly. It’s amazing how psychology and spirituality intersect here. 🌟💭 Thanks for sharing such deep wisdom!
My problem isn’t me obsessing about someone, it’s the person believe that I’m obsessed with him and keep pestering me, hacked into my devices, and some more this person is a celebrity, it’s a huge problem, I doubt anyone has any experience like mine. He is only there to make me feel damn miserable coz he keeps spying on me n can see me through cctv system and call me fugly every single day without fail. Changed all my algorithm, and have suggested videos that he WANT me to watch that he think will trigger me. I can’t go out freely. I can’t watch videos freely. I feel controlled. I lost my freedom, but this person still think it’s because I’m obsessed with him and that’s a problem, he should just get out of all my devices but he has trouble getting out because he wants to keep me as a “fan” and spy on me. The problem is I just want to live my life with the freedom of a general audience, freely making comments about any subject. AND go out freely not feeling as if I’m being spied on and ridiculed. help me please☹️ if that person die, I shall be free. The problem now is when i look at my ruined face, coz he ruined my face by constantly cursing my look, I feel it’s the mark he left, and I want to remove and changed it back to how it was. I pray my face will recover to its best in JESUS NAME I PRAY. AMEN AMEN AMEN
My problem isn’t me obsessing about someone, it’s the person believe that I’m obsessed with him and keep pestering me, hacked into my devices, and some more this person is a celebrity, it’s a huge problem, I doubt anyone has any experience like mine. He is only there to make me feel damn miserable coz he keeps spying on me n can see me through cctv system and call me fugly every single day without fail. Changed all my algorithm, and have suggested videos that he WANT me to watch that he think will trigger me. I can’t go out freely. I can’t watch videos freely. I feel controlled. I lost my freedom, but this person still think it’s because I’m obsessed with him and that’s a problem, he should just get out of all my devices but he has trouble getting out because he wants to keep me as a “fan” and spy on me. The problem is I just want to live my life with the freedom of a general audience, freely making comments about any subject. AND go out freely not feeling as if I’m being spied on and ridiculed. help me please☹️ if that person die, I shall be free. The problem now is when i look at my ruined face, coz he ruined my face by constantly cursing my look, I feel it’s the mark he left, and I want to remove and changed it back to how it was. I pray my face will recover to its best in JESUS NAME I PRAY. AMEN AMEN AMEN
@cuixue-rs3mi I recommend a media detox. Instead of watching and engaging in any media, spend time in nature and in meditation. Spend quiet time with yourself, read the Bible, pray, talk to God, and write in a journal. You will heal and grow. I'm praying for you 🙏
This vid found me just in time, I was feeling a void and sense of confusion regarding a few people and this brought me so much of clarity. Thankyou so much for sharing ❤🥺 Happy new year !
My former crush had a quick brain and a creative thinker. I finally uncovered why I’ve been obsessing over him for three years. I wish I had the same creativity and the same critical thinking skills that he has that’s why he’s living rent free in my head I want to be able to think like him. This video has been very helpful to uncover why I can’t get this man out of my brain.
Dawg it's not just about having her on my mind, I'm deadass having conversations with her as if shes inront of me, it's just like when im speaking with myself or talking to my inner council. The thing is me and her rarely ever speak when we are working together. Its bizarre but i just accept it , eventually life will progress and this cycle shall too pass 😂
@@PracticalStoic2025 Im a new hire at my job been there for like a month almost 2 and for the first 2/3 weeks she kept rubbing againt's me or just accidently touching me, now as a guy who's been touch deprived of non family woman for 22 years, her doing this to me it felt like someone watering a flower in a crack in a desert. I felt alive, i felt seen, i felt acknowledged, like my life wasn't as meaningless as i perceived it to be.Like i was a person that actually existed in the world now? And i wasn't some invisible figure just flowing through life. A passerby if you will. Now personally, i know what i look, Although i have my mirror covered now so i don't look at myself i still can remember my features and so i know having a gf or wife is never going to happen for someone like me. So i eventually chalked it as her just doing it by accident as we work in a small building making food and sometimes i touch my other coworkers but NOT as much as we were touching each other. Now do i wish something was there? @practicalStoic2025, Idk i have a fear of bw and the universe of things they come with so i'd rather not be chosen by them as a mate and just left alone like they've been doing for the past 22year's. It's just funny cause I'm not rejecting her in any way but if she feels like i did because i didn't act on her choosing signals if that's what they even were then so be it. I don't want her let alone ANY woman to pursue me while i'm not where i want to be in life let alone when i've established myself , my business, and have begun to aquire different skillsets to survive out in the wilderness and this systemic world. I truly want to be left alone by humanity. But other than that my soul mate, my twin flame, my universe, my goddess and god, my most high mother cosmos and father nature are the only ones i need at the end of the journey of life im on so if i never have a woman to journey with so be it. I'm perfectly content with protecting providing and cultivating father nature and listening to my most high mother cosmos till she calls me back home to his dirt. Apologies for the yap man
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@@HikikoCel You have NOTHING to apologize for! I hear you. You're focused on yourself, your mission and in developing your skills and mind. I believe that's the best calling for personal growth. I can relate in the sense that sometimes, I just want to be left alone. Sometimes I even ask myself "Should I just live by myself in a forest". Reality is, the world we live in is a crazy one and we're all here on this blue marble in a massive universe trying to figure out this thing called "life". Anyway, from what I read, I can tell you have a good head on your shoulders - bless you and I'm wishing you continued success, wealth, happiness and strength for 2025 and beyond. Check out our latest video on Socrates' advice to THRIVE in 2025 - I believe you're already on that path and hopefully you'll find some nuggets of wisdom to help you!
No other humans can love me and understand me as deep as i love and understand myself on this planet earth even though yes we need human connections, care and support at all times! Thank u very much universe! Sending Gratitude 🙏
To me is reallity scaping. I like to think about someone that I know is impossible to have any contact just to avoid see the reality that is I'm not able to attract someone to my life, whatever if is because I live alone or if is because all people are dating or looking dating from mobiles. So the easiest way to give myself romantically dopamine is creating this obsession mind about someone not feasible.
What a timely post, I needed this, as when I'm obsessing over someone, it makes me sleepy~ I sleep more often and it disrupt my routine. I don't want to be with that cycle again.
Many years ago, in pre. Internet days, I wrote a letter to The Amazing Kreskin to share a mind boggling coincidence I experienced. He directed me to Carl Jung and the concept of Synchronicity. I then discovered that Carl Jung died on the day I was born which is June 6th, 1961. Thoughts anyone?
Here's another more recent odd item. This woman I have been seeing last name is on the the gravestone absolutely right next to my parent's gravestone with my last name. Explain that one?
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Yes! I've definitely obsessed with the thought, 'but I was so loving' I'd never felt such deep love before. I was being my best loving self at the time, and I just so happened to associate it with another person.
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Wow, “twin flame” made me delusional I now see it’s not him I liked but how he brought out my feminine. I felt so gentle sweet and loving. I always had it in me, I just need to bring it out myself. Then I’ll attract people on the same level.
I have dealt with this for the last 20 years, and recently realized that the reason was zero self esteem. No more rent free living in my brain. Taking my power back.
My problem isn’t me obsessing about someone, it’s the person believe that I’m obsessed with him and keep pestering me, hacked into my devices, and some more this person is a celebrity, it’s a huge problem, I doubt anyone has any experience like mine. He is only there to make me feel damn miserable coz he keeps spying on me n can see me through cctv system and call me fugly every single day without fail. Changed all my algorithm, and have suggested videos that he WANT me to watch that he think will trigger me. I can’t go out freely. I can’t watch videos freely. I feel controlled. I lost my freedom, but this person still think it’s because I’m obsessed with him and that’s a problem, he should just get out of all my devices but he has trouble getting out because he wants to keep me as a “fan” and spy on me. The problem is I just want to live my life with the freedom of a general audience, freely making comments about any subject. AND go out freely not feeling as if I’m being spied on and ridiculed. help me please☹️ The problem now is when i look at my ruined face, coz he ruined my face by constantly cursing my look, I feel it’s the mark he left, and I want to remove and changed it back to how it was. I pray my face will recover to its best in JESUS NAME I PRAY. AMEN AMEN AMEN
@joen8529 haunted by someone whom you don't like romantically? That never happened to me in a magical sense. Once I obsessed over a colleague who plotted against me to take my job. And I kept obsessing. Not Because any part of me dreamt of becoming or resonating with them. Simply Because I contemplated on the ways to kill them without being messy. Here's the line: I DONT THINK THIS IS ENTIRELY WRONG BUT I DONT ALSO THINK THIS IS THE ONLY EXPLANATION. We do like people who are like us, we do envy those who are what we want to become. But Sometimes things are just simple.The idea of meaningful coincidence can be labelled as " synchronicity " a driving force of human. Could be! The odds of those coincidences to occur, despite those may feel very real and very meaningful to us not ZERO. We like to pin significance onto everything. Sometimes there isn't much. And the mechanism under the hood is really really simple.
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Occupy your brain. Read, take some online classes, never give him/her a second thought as it could lead to sadness. (Once the silly crush is over believe me I know)
I do all that, but she comes back creeping into my mind. Tried thinking about other things and even other women but she comes crawling back although I want to get her out of my mind
At most time, since the first minute I listened this video, my mind automatically thinking is there any coincident or relation between this with twin flame journey.. both having similar view of points. If yes, well it make my day for having another backup explanation about my own inner growth ❤
Don’t overthink things too much. Sometimes, there are things that we don’t need to try and completely understand in life as it serves no purpose understanding them, there are things we should ask about or dive deep in them as they’ll only hurt us if revealed.
I obsess about someone I met on a plane from Dubai in 2017. I suffered air sick for the first time and hoped to talk after feeling a little better. There was no one on the middle seat for a while and when he took it we both lamentedwith a deep eye look. I never did till we landed and I spent most of the time being a bad passenger to my seat mates. Flight of shame for me. I keep going back to his eyes and nape. I wish I had his name.
Is it possible that someone might be obsessed with you because they envy you and want what you have? Like you have a great life, great career etc. and they think they deserve the same things or better?
I've been allowing myself this game, this pretending to talk to an old friend from teenage years when it just kept coming up in my thoughts and indeed I report all wins. Difficult and challanging at times, I needed lots of grounding but it works. I continue to see that some parts of me that had no room before in my actual reality are now growing and want to manifest. In my teens I was not ready for adventures , journeys, travelling but now I am and this friend is all about taking risks and not conforming so I'll stop the illusion side of my loops and just walk more bravely towards adventure alone...I mean on my own, cause I never walk alone😅😊❤🎉 as I have so many friends I can talk to in my own head❤. Thanks all. Great topic, great comments
I’m confused, so just to clarify you’re pretending to talk to an old friend that’s not actually in your life at the moment? (No judgment bc I do that way more than I’d like to admit)
@SarahS-c9x yap. That is what I do and I do not judge myself anymore or get into illusions about the actual person. I found it helps me to act out in my day to day life in a new fresh way, to embody more of the way I felt in that interaction. Thanks. Have a great day and year🤗
I've lately felt an obsessive and envious feeling maybe even an attraction, to a person who I don't even know. I know him/her only as an avatar, I don't know their real name and have few details about their life. I think this person's unfamiliarity might serve as a blank slate on to who I can project idealized versions of me.
Greetings do not make people idols trust God love yourself help the poor in the homeless my goodness be happy alone and enjoy the beauty the rain the snow you see the flowers the trees anything get a pet help others we need to get outside of ourselves look up Amish culture in the United States men and like culture in the United States has to do in New York City this will be a great influence and great keep things in perspective and their lives truly inspiring
I’m obsessed with a friend of mine, and friend of mine that I never thought of… but one day I couldn’t stop thinking about her, it’s been 510 days without talking to her, until today, which I told her how lovely she looks and how much I miss her and invited her to have a drink, I need to explore my obsession, I’m no fantasizing she is perfect, nor inventing what she isn’t, I admire her because how responsible and tenacious she is, now we will see if she allows me to talk and explore, I hope she does
@ Well she replied, happy NY, how you doing? And we exchanged couple more Messages, and suddenly stop texting, first test appeared at the very beginning, now I’m waiting and leaving some space to show patience and will propose something to do, any activity or dinner
I've been obsessed with a person since 1 year. I know him from 12 years. But never before I had a crush on him. But now when I met his family last year, i started observing them more and more. The more i observed them, the more i drown in their thoughts. Basically what kept going in my mind was some fake scenarios of us being together and i interacting with his family although I had never talked to him directly. The obsession is so bad that it affected my studies and focusing capacity. They are my neighbours so can't avoid their sight. Also we have good family relations so my imagination was at its peak. Due to this video I realised the reason for why I'm so obsessed with him and day dreaming him. I'm writing it here to clear my brain and get some clarity. Also I look forward for the readers to suggest me how to get over this crush as it's ruining my studies... Looking at the signs of universe and my inner Instinct, I feel that we have some connection (can't write all of it here coz it's just too long) and possibilities are there that we may end up being together but I need not think that rn as both of us are busy in our career paths. I hope I get over this obsession soon. Please if you've read it till here, suggest me something to overcome this.
Hey it's quite subjective actually. But what I have observed that the more you'll keep these types of thoughts to yourself..the more it'll spiral into something very bad. Either you take a chance to tell him directly or talk to your close friends (siblings, if comfortable) about it first. I don't know about how much you're in talking terms with him. So, I cannot say much. But..if you're more concerned about your studies. Then, telling or not telling him..both not gonna help. Either way, it'll affect your studies. I would say...shift anywhere else. Focus on your studies. Focus on yourself. And if it's meant to be, it'll be in the end(as you said, there's a possibility). Good luck to you dear. There's more to life than all this. This is just a part. So, don't worry!!
What a crock! I have negative thoughts about my ex because he beat me up, cheated on me, always called me names etc. I'm obsessed with a gorgeous man because he's gorgeous.
My narcissistic father who is now in a retirement causing chaos, drama and stress. I went no contact. I wish I then what I do now. This made me realize to cut them off. I think he's on my mind because I'm grieving the cutting off. He doesn't care about me so that's the only reason I'm obssesing. I wanted him to be a father but this will never be. 😔 😔 ❤
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I struggle with obsession. I am currently getting over someone I began obsessing about last summer. He did something that triggered a tidal wave of feelings within me. I found him attractive, yes, but it was about more than just that. It highlighted how empty my life had become and how I need to grow as a person to avoid falling in to this obsessional pattern again.
Get a husband lol
Was it me , Mark ?
I feel you… for the first time in my life I thought “what can I do without him?” And that’s the start of the downfall
@@ayugoslav5554why did you reply to something like this? We’re talking about something serious, if you find it funny then you didn’t understand anything
Parents always masquerade as partners
"People who occupy our thoughts often reflect the most intimate parts of ourselves"
Heard of obeah
Beautiful!
@@karenknight7170yes
needed to hear this
What does that mean?
The most toxic thing can happen if you are in this limmerence state. Is that you think that person is your "twinflame".
I hate that my brain does this, it kills me 😔
you can be very likely in a state of limerence with someone who is your twin flame (they trigger something in the unconcious, spiritual) but that doesn't mean you belong with them
You can say that again
"Twinflame" is such a toxic concept. I wasted three years on someone toxic because they tried to convince me they are my twinflame. They treated me so poorly. But there was a lot of magical synchronous stuff. And I left everything and joined a monastery for a year and now I can breathe again. Soul is whole and complete! You are not a half!!!
OMG! Been on that path. When I look back I feel so silly and stupid. But I embraced my masculine and this made all the difference. Thanks for making this video ❤❤❤
Obsession is energy. It’s overused energy on a thought. Once you find ways to fill life- there’s less space & time to obsess about 1 thing. It’s not foolproof- a theory of mine.
Yes….the only cure is to force yourself to obsess over something else
No you’re 100% right, you can train it out by thinking of something else each time.
@@weareadventuresam I think so too. More or less atleast. I think obsession is a natural inclination that arises from boredom and the brain needs stimulation.. so it's just a way to stimulate itself, perhaps!?!
@@jellyjams7217 Sarcasm is not as useless as people presume..it would seem lol
Yes agreed.
A practical way
A lot of people are very near to understand obsession, but not grasping as to where it begins, especially when it comes to obsessing over a specific person. Most people who had a loving childhood don't have this obsessive issue because they understand healthy love. But the ones who never learned about love in their childhood discover it in a person afterwards, hence associating love with that person. Its the reason why so many people fall for toxic men and women because they associate love with toxicity as that is how they were introduced to what love is. Same goes for obsession in general - some people made you feel certain way that you never got to experience before. A good way to help yourself overcome obsession with someone when those thoughts come is to remind yourself that you need to be kind to yourself as this is just unresolved childhood trauma manifesting. Once you start healing this hurt, it goes away and you feel at peace with yourself. Hope that helps!
Wow, that comment is as powerful as this video.
My problem isn’t me obsessing about someone, it’s the person believe that I’m obsessed with him and keep pestering me, hacked into my devices, and some more this person is a celebrity, it’s a huge problem, I doubt anyone has any experience like mine. He is only there to make me feel damn miserable coz he keeps spying on me n can see me through cctv system and call me fugly every single day without fail. I can’t go out freely. I lost my freedom, but this person still think it’s because I’m obsessed with him and that’s a problem, he should just get out of all my devices but he has trouble getting out because he wants to keep me as a “fan” and spy on me. The problem is I just want to live my life with the freedom of a general audience, freely making comments about any subject.
help me please☹️
My problem isn’t me obsessing about someone, it’s the person believe that I’m obsessed with him and keep pestering me, hacked into my devices, and some more this person is a celebrity, it’s a huge problem, I doubt anyone has any experience like mine. He is only there to make me feel damn miserable coz he keeps spying on me n can see me through cctv system and call me fugly every single day without fail.
Changed all my algorithm, and have suggested videos that he WANT me to watch that he think will trigger me.
I can’t go out freely. I can’t watch videos freely. I feel controlled. I lost my freedom, but this person still think it’s because I’m obsessed with him and that’s a problem, he should just get out of all my devices but he has trouble getting out because he wants to keep me as a “fan” and spy on me.
The problem is I just want to live my life with the freedom of a general audience, freely making comments about any subject. AND go out freely not feeling as if I’m being spied on and ridiculed.
help me please☹️
@cuixue-rs3mi collect evidence of harassment, submit it to police, get a restraining order or talk to a lawyer
@@cuixue-rs3mii had a quite attractive and wealthy man who decided he deserved me. He has been a military IT guy and put some very comprehensive spyway in my phone after drugging me and learning my pin to unlock my phone. After he took me home I slept off the drugs realizing I had missed my opportunity to get tested. I came to realizing I could no longer access my Google, Amazon, and Gmail; and that both the microphone and camera were active. He actually called me and told me what he did. I unplugged my phone and played Spotify til it died. After a couple of days I got a new phone not orally communicating. I wrote a note to the phone rep and explained I needed a new phone and I wanted my name corrected on my account (it was spelled wrong). Then I set up fb, Gmail, new Google under my 1st husbands last name. I have been free since then.
Wow, the timing of me seeing this video is perfect, I was with a narcissist for 4 years, and when we stopped seeing each other, i found the love of my life, and because i was trauma bonded, i ended up ruining things but i realized my mistake and did all i could to make sure i got her back
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain , after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Obsession is a powerful force, but there is always a way to overcome it. It starts with self-awareness, recognizing the grip it has on your mind, and then consciously redirecting that energy into growth and purpose. Every obsession can be transformed into a journey of balance and self-discovery - Need help than connect
My problem isn’t me obsessing about someone, it’s the person believe that I’m obsessed with him and keep pestering me, hacked into my devices, and some more this person is a celebrity, it’s a huge problem, I doubt anyone has any experience like mine. He is only there to make me feel damn miserable coz he keeps spying on me n can see me through cctv system and call me fugly every single day without fail. I can’t go out freely. I lost my freedom, but this person still think it’s because I’m obsessed with him and that’s a problem, he should just get out of all my devices but he has trouble getting out because he wants to keep me as a “fan” and spy on me. The problem is I just want to live my life with the freedom of a general audience. help me please.
Get some help bro@@cuixue-rs3mi
@@cuixue-rs3mi ,
Document Everything
Record every incident, including dates, times, and specifics of what occurred. Save any messages, screenshots, or evidence that can support your case.
Seek Legal Aid
If you have enough proof, consult with a lawyer specializing in cyberstalking or harassment. They can guide you on the legal steps to take, even if you wish to remain anonymous.
Be Anonymous
If you’re worried about retaliation or exposure, consider reporting the issue anonymously. Many organizations and legal aid services allow you to protect your identity while pursuing justice.
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@@cuixue-rs3mi you need to quickly factory reset your phone & devices
Delete all the data , change your number & don't give him the phone anymore
Tell the police if it gets too serious & try to tell your seniors if you are at an institution that he is bullying you
"I am not, what you say I am. You are, what you say I am"
I am not what I think I am. I am not what you think I am. I am what I think you think I am ❤
I know you are, but what am I
@@lolizorz I'm rubber you're glue,
whatever you call me bounces off me
and sticks to you = ]
Go read the bible ❤
Maybe the person that is constantly on your mind is just someone you just truly and deeply love. ❤😊
@@LoveDrivesOutFear absolutely!
Your subconscious is maybe reminding you to be grateful to have that person - keep them close! 🙏
Thank you for your beautiful message ❤️
I agree. That is what has happened to me the last year! It had been an indicator of how I want that person to heal and how I am part of his healing! ❤️🩹
Yeah their is “limerence” and then their is genuine mutual attraction. It’s not as though there are never situations where two people really are just awkward as hell/nervous as hell and can’t make the first move. I think your own intuition will guide you the right way if you allow it
I find myself alone in my life. Wife, children, parents, siblings. And yet I feel completely alone. I've done right by my family. I've done everything that I could to make their life better than mine. I expected gratitude, result. But I find that life steers in the direction it wants to go, regardless. Maybe I have given too much love for others and kept none for myself. Now, I find myself falling in love with an idea of someone who will love me back. Who will be grateful, who will give for me as much as I have tried to give to everyone. Oh, a man can dream though, a man can dream.
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I can tell you that there is no perfect man we could find as such... There are some good men and some bad men... We need to find our motive for our own life n then everything will fall in place
Loving others is a great thing to do but to truly love another you must first learn to truly love yourself. This video has great advise about being aware of your inner-self. There are many on youtube to help you along that path, I have found the guru Mooji Baba as a good resource for me along my journeys. Best wishes for the true-inner you.
Strange isn't it I'm quite solitary and have few people it suits me though I'm not meant for settling down.
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him or her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Nah man, forget about that. You have a much more amazing thing to pay attention. The future in front of you. Write it.
I realized this before even watching this video. Been thinking more and more about a guy I've been seeing. Though he's the same age as me, he still has so much faith in humanity and refuses to see the world from a jaded perspective even though he's been hurt many times before.
I've been toughening myself up all these years to protect myself from the shit in this world, so I've become a cold-hearted steely person. Everyone I've dated before was just as jaded as me. I know I yearn to be the good and caring and positive person I once was.
All it took was meeting this one person to want to belive in humanity again.
@@LilyBlossom8 beautiful message Lily!
There are no coincidences in life. I believe you were meant to meet that person so he could make you realize things about yourself.
Wishing you the best 🙏
There is just as much good, if not more, than there is bad in this world. There is a reason why the media focuses only on the bad. It is a trick to manipulate you into the realm of fear because that is the only realm they can fully control. You cannot control love. I love life and am not jaded, but that doesn't mean I don't know of evil. I walk with our Heavenly Father and he shows me good and orders my steps away from bad.
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Read Rutger Bergman: "Human kind" it helps
this beautiful and make me tear up a little haha-because I am just like this guy and I've had to promise to keep my inner child alive-no matter bc it can really have this effect on someone who needs it
it's funny because the more I like someone, develop feelings for them, the more I fall in love with myself. The more I fantasize them, the more I become aware of the fact that i am actually capable of loving myself, unconditionally. Having a crush on someone is fun! Not exactly meaning u fell in love with them but crush is simply misinformation right? It's like having a crush on someone is giving me permission to like myself lol.
Maybe that person you have a crush on is making you realize parts of yourself that you LOVE!
I think that's a wonderful feeling and we should all surround ourselves with people who uplift us, make us feel valued and appreciated!
What Both of you said here, is what am going through these days. Wonderful 😊
What do you mean by love yourself?
How? Can you please elaborate? How do you love yourself more by having a crush on someone else?
a big part of limerance that nobody talks about is how it isnt just fantasies of the person, its mainly fantasies of an idealized version of yourself. it's really more about how you think they could perceive you, and make you feel seen for qualities you've always wished to been seen for. I guess its easier to love yourself through the eyes of someone else, it makes you feel lovable. I have the same issue now and then
Been obsessed with a woman for the past 15 years. Been working on figuring this out and moving on completely. Certainly relates to my lack of confidence and low self-esteem.
Google coach Corey Wayne.
Do you think it has been a waste of time at all?
@@Bouzoukiellas Ya know, it has been motivation to keep pushing myself in my career endeavors. As if I need to prove to her I am worthy. Crazy, eh.
@@mr.wildcat405 Search for Corey Wayne. Good info for your mindset.
Stems from your low self esteem
This is very true. I have gone thru this and people come into your life for a reason. 2025 is now about growth thru reflection and self love
Best comment yet
Growing and maturing is always good, but not always fun.......
Your comment sounds meaningless
My obsession made me realize how I allowed my shame and feelings of inadequacy to linger in my life. It was a powerful insight about a debilitating shame that got me when I was once rejected. Recognizing this has turned on a light to be self compassionate and begin healing from my past😊
Thanks for sharing!
It's about the idea of them that made you feel obsessed over them. More likely your mind is creating a false reality. It's so important to study how the brain works to avoid excessive thoughts.
Exactly we mould people to how we'd like them.
I thought I had a thing for a neighbour but nope id drive her mad and she would me. So bloody positive not tgat I'm always negative I've seen a different side of life and I find those people naive tbh. She has .my interests at heart which I appreciate.
reading banned books on fathomora about the law of attraction is like unlocking a hidden side of manifesting
I urge you to look into Joseph Murphy and Neville Goddards books. Stay away from the youtube shit since now people just use AI to create new nonsense and play it off like its rare unheard of recordings.
Hey where to get this fathomora website from?
The term "Fathomora" doesn't seem to refer to anything widely known or established. It might be a unique name, concept, or term you encountered in a specific context. Could you provide more details or the context in which you found it? This will help clarify its meaning or origin.
Bot ass comment
But what do you know about Urantia ?
I'm so glad you explained this, thank you! After 4 years I had a dream about my ex and the next day he contacted me. I knew why as I already saw what happened in the dream. I have so many mixed emotions. But after listening to your video I realise that this is synchronization. The universe wants to wake me up. To make matters even more weird...as I drove home I saw a sign with an arrow and his initials on it. What the hell is going on?! But I realise now I'm running away from myself not being able to receive love for myself and the need to please others. I have to work on myself Now. So everybody happy new year and put yourself first once and for all🙏🏼🥰🧡
Just wait until you realise that they're still in your mind after realising and working through that hahahaha
@@theesteward9150It is the realization that it wasn't the other person whom got in the way but it was yourself all along. Eventually there is just NoBody....but this goes much deeper 😊
GREETINGS FROM KENTUCKY BUT WE HAVE TO LOVE OURSELVES RESPECT OURSELVES WE'RE SUPPOSED TO HELP OTHERS OKAY LOOK UP NARCISSISTIC PEOPLE THEY DON'T THEY'RE STINGY THEY DON'T BELIEVE IN HELPING OKAY LOVE YOURSELF BE GOOD ALONE THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT HELP THE POOR HELP THE POOR IN THE HOMELESS HELP FAMILIES HELP YOUR OWN PARENTS GET A PET MY GOSH ENJOY THE BEAUTIFUL FLOWERS THE RAIN THE SNOW THERE'S SO MUCH MORE TO LIFE THAN CALL THIS
Yep work on loving and liking you.💜
Or your ex understands the spiritual realm more than you realize and is using that against you. Many of us are walking around totally naked, not realizing we need to don spiritual Armour as well as cancel dreams from the kingdom of darkness. What you see as synchronization, I see as spiritual manipulation...
We often believe that a soulmate or twin flame will magically show up and make us complete, and maybe that's true.We first must be willing to face our own shadows and become centered and balanced by doing the the inner work of self mastery to attract what we think we want from another.As we complete ourselves we no longer project imagined happiness out onto the world but find it is within where it's been all along.
absolutely
Obsession over a person is dangerous guys. It can give you real clinical depression
Obsession is a Symptom, not the cause.
Yes it can I agree with you
obsession is when you cant stop talking about them???
I have Stockholm Syndrome
This makes so much sense. One of my very good friends is constantly on my mind and the only thing I could think as to why is a crush. But I’ve never had a crush on this person at all, I even asked myself if they were attractive to me and they weren’t so I was confused why I could never get them off my mind. They are very inspiring to me (we are very similar but they’ve made better life decisions lol) and I guess they are reflecting what I deep down need to fix and work on in myself.
It's fascinating to realize why a certain person is always on our minds! Happy that you had that realization Shannon!
My problem isn’t me obsessing about someone, it’s the person believe that I’m obsessed with him and keep pestering me, hacked into my devices, and some more this person is a celebrity, it’s a huge problem, I doubt anyone has any experience like mine. He is only there to make me feel damn miserable coz he keeps spying on me n can see me through cctv system and call me fugly every single day without fail.
Changed all my algorithm, and have suggested videos that he WANT me to watch that he think will trigger me.
I can’t go out freely. I can’t watch videos freely. I feel controlled. I lost my freedom, but this person still think it’s because I’m obsessed with him and that’s a problem, he should just get out of all my devices but he has trouble getting out because he wants to keep me as a “fan” and spy on me.
The problem is I just want to live my life with the freedom of a general audience, freely making comments about any subject. AND go out freely not feeling as if I’m being spied on and ridiculed.
help me please☹️
Oh you’re so PC woke - “them”
@ 🤣 you’re triiipping bruh. They don’t consent to having any part of their identity (name, race, gender, etc) on the internet so ofc im going to describe them in an ambiguous way. What a random comment to even make 😭
The reason why I deal with the obsession is because I was attacked and this person just ghosted as if it didn’t matter. Left severe damage on my mind. I never really had crushes, I got over them pretty easy. It was when I got hurt, I focused on it.
Literally me..😮
I just went through a bizarre 24 hour mind f*** but with a happy ending. I heard that my ex had been found dead in an alley. I'd made him leave my house because he started drinking again ( he's a sever alcoholic). I was heart broken to think of him out there in the cold, dying alone. Next day his daughter informed me that the body wasn't him after all!! Then someone had discovered that he is in a halfway house, clean & sober and doing well!! Not exactly about obsession. But what an emotional roller coaster!!!
Me
I'm in the same boat. I'm sorry this happened to you.
I so feel you... I had a very strong Connection with a guy everything clicks. Married so I kept him on distance I DJ a lot outside and he kept coming and deep conversations a couple if tines but never long enough. My older kids loved him and he loved them. I had to reject him from physical disaster 2 times. It was so hard to do and he is the type normally never would cheat. It's just that can happen two people suddenly fall in love ,it could happen to everybody. It's not blessed when steal someone's partner so I wrote him a letter with long stuff to explain myself I knew it would stop but I didn't expected the rude last words he had to me. Starting to act weird at that daily open place we met with others there. Started to ignore me, like he hated me. I asked in the letter to stay friends ,he couldn't cope with it ok..but to act this way was so painful I can hardly move on. So unnecessary to do that. Childish etc. He is unhappily married for at least 8 years now from the 18 years. He also told me before he never has any humor with her and I saw her a lot and she has zero interest in who he is, as long he has paycheck and pampers their grown children. A good mother but no interest in her hub at all. I'm glad nothing physical happend cause I don't want to be responsible for such things. A very sad story cause in a distant I see he is unhappy I'm not there anymore for 8 months now he often looks depressed. Fun thing we never flirted we knew we fell for one another. Naturally and have so much in common yet being differently too. Iv'e lost the love of my life. I wished i never met him😢 ❤ the best to you dear
I love this. I was treated so poorly by someone who displayed alot of red flags and narcissistic traits, he carried a heavy weight of emotional baggage and projected unto me all the time. He eventually abandoned me without any apology for his cruel actions and never spoke to me again. No resolutions, he just disappeared.
His actions have evoked a strong wave of questions deep within me about how I allowed him to treat me, about my self worth. It's been almost obsessive because the whole situation has sparked a reawakening. His actions have caused me alot of frustration and sadness but it's in turn made me question so much.
I knew that when I met him, I had a strong feeling, it was going to be short lived. I feel like we crossed paths to shake each other up in whatever way it was for us personally. It wasn't pleasant but now I am healing I am asking myself all the right questions and have definitely grown. I just keep trusting that the universe will guide on this journey and that one day someone who will truly care deeply about me will appear.
Going thru the same. Much luck to you!
I feel you. For 4 years I was in limerence for a friend who I later realized possesses narcissistic traits and was manipulating me. It prevented me from having interest in other people, it was extremely painful and I cried a lot. It ended after we went on vacation together and I never heard from him again. The discard after so much time and emotional investment was excruciating, but the best thing he’s done for me. It’s been over 2 years now of no contact, and I realized that I’m better off staying single and not even caring about relationships. My mental health improved so much. I joined the gym, working on my business, moved back to where I have a few more friends. Every once in a while he pops into my mind and it upsets me. I feel shame for having been so invested and attached to someone who mistreated me for years and triangulated me, gave me bread crumbs of affection and then starve me of affection. I never felt so rejected by anyone before. Honestly, made me mistrust romantic relationships.
@@saqueradry3629 Hope you heal 🙏🙏
@@artbygilik Sorry that happened to you. It's awful and so painful but it sounds like you have grown so much. Don't give up on love though. There are good people out there. 🙏
@ thank you. I’m actually content now with being on my own, I realized that the times I’ve been in relationships or craving them were the times that I was the most stressed and depressed. I’m free now.
Best way to deal with infatuation is remove yourself from the equation. I had this bad once with a girl that was constantly playing mind games.. I switched suburbs. Took me a couple of weeks and I never saw her again. It took 3 months before the infatuation wore off.
When I finally looked deep inside I realized what the connection is. She fell in love with me in the purest form based on innocence and that opened my heart. No other woman could ever love me in that way. We also have a special history and she's the mother of my children. I messed it up. It's too late but I truly hope she's happy. She deserves it 🙂 Now I have to concentrate on not being homeless.
Why can't You fix it and be with her again?😒😓
If you were able to love you wouldn’t have messed it up
It's never too late to Apologize.
@@csillam2658because hes homeless for one…. what mother needs that burden? romanticizing again, smh
@@inheralchemist Thank you..somehow I missed that last word😒 I guess ones action depend so much of them arhetype... If does nothing or not much...since there is this saying love can moove mountanins
The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
It's a scam
The fact that you are spreading lies speaks volumes about YOUR character!!! GET A LIFE & QUIT SPAMMING EVERY VIDEO WITH YOUR BS COMMENTS!!
@@deepcore2220why?
Marketing and fake likes
Twit!
It was really helpful! Thank you!😊
My pleasure! :)
This is true, I think about my ex a lot and my therapist told me that my mind thinks about her because my mind sees her as the representation of love. Growing up I had a high school crush on her and had always wanted to be with her. At the time I really thought she was the one. So naturally my mind put her and the meaning of love together as one. So even tho we broke up and logically I know we didn’t work out my meaning of what love is was attached to her. Now it doesn’t bother me that she’s in my mind I just get along with life.
You get along with life because you know that your feelings are making a bigger deal of her than what she actually is?
Also, if you were to have married her and there not be the issues that the break up occurred over, wouldn't attributing her to love itself make you like her more?
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I guess so yes which is why when we broke up it was like as if my mind flipped upside down. Then again it could be something deeper than love and could be that my mind is telling me that I’m lacking self esteem or self love, etc…
I really hope you will find another love in your life. It is possible. Believe in it and keep your heart open.❤
Parents always masquerade as partners 😉
Don't believe everything therapists say.
"Mind-blowing! It’s incredible how Carl Jung explains the deeper reasons behind why certain people stay on our minds. Thanks for sharing this wisdom! 🧠✨"
MY pleasure! Thank you for watching! Here's another piece of wisdom from Carl Jung: ua-cam.com/video/HYgmzLuyzBU/v-deo.htmlsi=sDB6GTjPXeHYhQlM
Its very true that it is our shadows, i cannot tell how many people i have attracted in my life who actually brought the things i needed to deal with. I believe we all experience this❤
When I felt limerence over a very unsavory, alcoholic and unemployed bum, it was a wake-up call that I needed to heal many issues. Being attracted a toxic, morally bankrupt person who was totally opposite of everything about me was the strangest experience in my life. I can’t thank my therapist enough for setting me straight. Luckily the attraction wasn’t mutual! He was terrified of beautiful, successful, and educated women.
I'm in a pretty similar situation now. I need to see a therapist but I can't afford it.
May I know what causes u to want him
👏👏👏
You sound like a liberal loony who votes Democrat
Your shadow is also parts of you as your inner child who needs to be reparented by you. Internal Family Systems matches this. Just different language.
"Jung’s insights are always so profound! This video truly explains why certain people occupy our thoughts constantly. It’s amazing how psychology and spirituality intersect here. 🌟💭 Thanks for sharing such deep wisdom!
My problem isn’t me obsessing about someone, it’s the person believe that I’m obsessed with him and keep pestering me, hacked into my devices, and some more this person is a celebrity, it’s a huge problem, I doubt anyone has any experience like mine. He is only there to make me feel damn miserable coz he keeps spying on me n can see me through cctv system and call me fugly every single day without fail.
Changed all my algorithm, and have suggested videos that he WANT me to watch that he think will trigger me.
I can’t go out freely. I can’t watch videos freely. I feel controlled. I lost my freedom, but this person still think it’s because I’m obsessed with him and that’s a problem, he should just get out of all my devices but he has trouble getting out because he wants to keep me as a “fan” and spy on me.
The problem is I just want to live my life with the freedom of a general audience, freely making comments about any subject. AND go out freely not feeling as if I’m being spied on and ridiculed.
help me please☹️ if that person die, I shall be free.
The problem now is when i look at my ruined face, coz he ruined my face by constantly cursing my look, I feel it’s the mark he left, and I want to remove and changed it back to how it was.
I pray my face will recover to its best in JESUS NAME I PRAY. AMEN AMEN AMEN
My problem isn’t me obsessing about someone, it’s the person believe that I’m obsessed with him and keep pestering me, hacked into my devices, and some more this person is a celebrity, it’s a huge problem, I doubt anyone has any experience like mine. He is only there to make me feel damn miserable coz he keeps spying on me n can see me through cctv system and call me fugly every single day without fail.
Changed all my algorithm, and have suggested videos that he WANT me to watch that he think will trigger me.
I can’t go out freely. I can’t watch videos freely. I feel controlled. I lost my freedom, but this person still think it’s because I’m obsessed with him and that’s a problem, he should just get out of all my devices but he has trouble getting out because he wants to keep me as a “fan” and spy on me.
The problem is I just want to live my life with the freedom of a general audience, freely making comments about any subject. AND go out freely not feeling as if I’m being spied on and ridiculed.
help me please☹️ if that person die, I shall be free.
The problem now is when i look at my ruined face, coz he ruined my face by constantly cursing my look, I feel it’s the mark he left, and I want to remove and changed it back to how it was.
I pray my face will recover to its best in JESUS NAME I PRAY. AMEN AMEN AMEN
@cuixue-rs3mi I recommend a media detox. Instead of watching and engaging in any media, spend time in nature and in meditation. Spend quiet time with yourself, read the Bible, pray, talk to God, and write in a journal. You will heal and grow. I'm praying for you 🙏
very smooth and peacefull for him to say. but under going the process internally is very painful.
This vid found me just in time, I was feeling a void and sense of confusion regarding a few people and this brought me so much of clarity. Thankyou so much for sharing ❤🥺
Happy new year !
It happens though that you meet people who you feel more at home with and are inable to explain why
Connection. Either soul mates (similar soul energy) or many common past lives.
Go read the bible ❤❤
Everyday since Saturday 9 September 2000. I have constantly thought of a person i met, EVERYDAY TO The PRESENT!
This is beyond obsession ...lol
you need to unpack this
what did they do
Move on unc 🥲
@@elenimckee7825 😂
Sometimes this happens to me when someone walks off with my pen and I don’t get it back 😂
HAHAHAH
Hahahaha 😂
You are one funny guy!!!
My former crush had a quick brain and a creative thinker. I finally uncovered why I’ve been obsessing over him for three years. I wish I had the same creativity and the same critical thinking skills that he has that’s why he’s living rent free in my head I want to be able to think like him. This video has been very helpful to uncover why I can’t get this man out of my brain.
Dawg it's not just about having her on my mind, I'm deadass having conversations with her as if shes inront of me, it's just like when im speaking with myself or talking to my inner council. The thing is me and her rarely ever speak when we are working together. Its bizarre but i just accept it , eventually life will progress and this cycle shall too pass 😂
Wow!
Is there a reason you don't speak in person?
@@PracticalStoic2025 Im a new hire at my job been there for like a month almost 2 and for the first 2/3 weeks she kept rubbing againt's me or just accidently touching me, now as a guy who's been touch deprived of non family woman for 22 years, her doing this to me it felt like someone watering a flower in a crack in a desert. I felt alive, i felt seen, i felt acknowledged, like my life wasn't as meaningless as i perceived it to be.Like i was a person that actually existed in the world now? And i wasn't some invisible figure just flowing through life. A passerby if you will. Now personally, i know what i look, Although i have my mirror covered now so i don't look at myself i still can remember my features and so i know having a gf or wife is never going to happen for someone like me. So i eventually chalked it as her just doing it by accident as we work in a small building making food and sometimes i touch my other coworkers but NOT as much as we were touching each other. Now do i wish something was there? @practicalStoic2025, Idk i have a fear of bw and the universe of things they come with so i'd rather not be chosen by them as a mate and just left alone like they've been doing for the past 22year's. It's just funny cause I'm not rejecting her in any way but if she feels like i did because i didn't act on her choosing signals if that's what they even were then so be it. I don't want her let alone ANY woman to pursue me while i'm not where i want to be in life let alone when i've established myself , my business, and have begun to aquire different skillsets to survive out in the wilderness and this systemic world. I truly want to be left alone by humanity. But other than that my soul mate, my twin flame, my universe, my goddess and god, my most high mother cosmos and father nature are the only ones i need at the end of the journey of life im on so if i never have a woman to journey with so be it. I'm perfectly content with protecting providing and cultivating father nature and listening to my most high mother cosmos till she calls me back home to his dirt. Apologies for the yap man
@@PracticalStoic2025 UA-cam won't let me post my comment, you have to go to your newest comments tab to see it. It's a long paragraph and i don't know what words are causing the algor to block the comment
@@HikikoCel You have NOTHING to apologize for!
I hear you. You're focused on yourself, your mission and in developing your skills and mind. I believe that's the best calling for personal growth.
I can relate in the sense that sometimes, I just want to be left alone. Sometimes I even ask myself "Should I just live by myself in a forest".
Reality is, the world we live in is a crazy one and we're all here on this blue marble in a massive universe trying to figure out this thing called "life".
Anyway, from what I read, I can tell you have a good head on your shoulders - bless you and I'm wishing you continued success, wealth, happiness and strength for 2025 and beyond.
Check out our latest video on Socrates' advice to THRIVE in 2025 - I believe you're already on that path and hopefully you'll find some nuggets of wisdom to help you!
@@HikikoCel Done! And just replied too! Hope you can see it
No other humans can love me and understand me as deep as i love and understand myself on this planet earth even though yes we need human connections, care and support at all times! Thank u very much universe! Sending Gratitude 🙏
Go read the bible ❤❤
To me is reallity scaping.
I like to think about someone that I know is impossible to have any contact just to avoid see the reality that is I'm not able to attract someone to my life, whatever if is because I live alone or if is because all people are dating or looking dating from mobiles. So the easiest way to give myself romantically dopamine is creating this obsession mind about someone not feasible.
MMM! Incredibly insightful. This sounds like me tbh
A good explanation
I would do the same, limerantly attaching to fictional characters.
Studying spirituality has helped me tremendously, not much fazes me now n find it hard to get angry, I just exude love now ❤
What a timely post, I needed this, as when I'm obsessing over someone, it makes me sleepy~ I sleep more often and it disrupt my routine. I don't want to be with that cycle again.
It makes me have insomnia, lol. And lose my appetite.
Many years ago, in pre. Internet days, I wrote a letter to The Amazing Kreskin to share a mind boggling coincidence I experienced.
He directed me to Carl Jung and the concept of Synchronicity. I then discovered that Carl Jung died on the day I was born which is June 6th, 1961.
Thoughts anyone?
@@BOBLOBSTER-sg3bl woahh, that is freaky!
You might be Carl Jung's soul descendant 😀 hehehe
Here's another more recent odd item. This woman I have been seeing last name is on the the gravestone absolutely right next to my parent's gravestone with my last name.
Explain that one?
@BOBLOBSTER-sg3bl hahahah 😆 don't you just love life's ironies?
Yes I do! Especially real solid ones like I mentioned.
Thanks for your input. Makes me feel better about things like this!
@ Of course man! To me, these are signs of the "Magic" of life. Some things are just meant to be mysteries!
It's one of the most underrated channels and videos.
@@InfoCodex thank you very much for your kind feedback!
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Yes! I've definitely obsessed with the thought, 'but I was so loving' I'd never felt such deep love before. I was being my best loving self at the time, and I just so happened to associate it with another person.
Rejection also breeds obsession
@@sarita-vq9id true that
@PracticalStoic2025 can you do a video on this topic ^^^^^
@ Do you mean on "Rejection" ?
@@PracticalStoic2025 rejection breeds obsession
@@keysha2030 That's a great suggestion! Stay tuned for it!
Also, we have a NEW Carl Jung Video coming up in a couple of days that you might enjoy.
Here's another one: ua-cam.com/video/HYgmzLuyzBU/v-deo.htmlsi=sDB6GTjPXeHYhQlM
And here's Sigmund Freud's take on Love: ua-cam.com/video/4BlqT0PCpT0/v-deo.htmlsi=kxvSouZXUyqgdv16
Wow, “twin flame” made me delusional
I now see it’s not him I liked but how he brought out my feminine. I felt so gentle sweet and loving.
I always had it in me, I just need to bring it out myself. Then I’ll attract people on the same level.
Yes i have to my ikigai and follow it.i donot want to be rude to me as well as to them.when I discover masculine as well as feminine,I may discover me
I have dealt with this for the last 20 years, and recently realized that the reason was zero self esteem.
No more rent free living in my brain. Taking my power back.
Look into attachment styles specifically the book attached. Also look into trauma. Long term abuse changes the brain. You got this!
no you're not -- none of us can
My problem isn’t me obsessing about someone, it’s the person believe that I’m obsessed with him and keep pestering me, hacked into my devices, and some more this person is a celebrity, it’s a huge problem, I doubt anyone has any experience like mine. He is only there to make me feel damn miserable coz he keeps spying on me n can see me through cctv system and call me fugly every single day without fail.
Changed all my algorithm, and have suggested videos that he WANT me to watch that he think will trigger me.
I can’t go out freely. I can’t watch videos freely. I feel controlled. I lost my freedom, but this person still think it’s because I’m obsessed with him and that’s a problem, he should just get out of all my devices but he has trouble getting out because he wants to keep me as a “fan” and spy on me.
The problem is I just want to live my life with the freedom of a general audience, freely making comments about any subject. AND go out freely not feeling as if I’m being spied on and ridiculed.
help me please☹️
The problem now is when i look at my ruined face, coz he ruined my face by constantly cursing my look, I feel it’s the mark he left, and I want to remove and changed it back to how it was.
I pray my face will recover to its best in JESUS NAME I PRAY. AMEN AMEN AMEN
Thank you for this video. It came to me when I needed it most to understand why we get obsessed about a person or things
Can't we just love someone because they make us happy?
No every single word in your comment shows you know nothing about love or happiness
@@nilimaibrahim8865😂 you need help you sound cray
I think this is referring to different situations. Situations where you are almost …haunted… by someone.
@joen8529 haunted by someone whom you don't like romantically? That never happened to me in a magical sense. Once I obsessed over a colleague who plotted against me to take my job. And I kept obsessing. Not Because any part of me dreamt of becoming or resonating with them. Simply Because I contemplated on the ways to kill them without being messy. Here's the line: I DONT THINK THIS IS ENTIRELY WRONG BUT I DONT ALSO THINK THIS IS THE ONLY EXPLANATION. We do like people who are like us, we do envy those who are what we want to become. But Sometimes things are just simple.The idea of meaningful coincidence can be labelled as " synchronicity " a driving force of human. Could be! The odds of those coincidences to occur, despite those may feel very real and very meaningful to us not ZERO. We like to pin significance onto everything. Sometimes there isn't much. And the mechanism under the hood is really really simple.
No. You need to do a whole course on attachment theory to not fumble it
Amazing video, thank you for your time and effort to put it all together. I'm a fan.
So happy to hear you enjoyed it! You're very welcome!
Feel free to check the second Carl Jung video: ua-cam.com/video/HYgmzLuyzBU/v-deo.htmlsi=sDB6GTjPXeHYhQlM
Occupy your brain. Read, take some online classes, never give him/her a second thought as it could lead to sadness. (Once the silly crush is over believe me I know)
I do all that, but she comes back creeping into my mind. Tried thinking about other things and even other women but she comes crawling back although I want to get her out of my mind
"Such an insightful video! Carl Jung's perspective really helps me understand the deeper reasons behind our thoughts. 🙏"
@@PhilosophiesinLife very happy you found value in this! Stay tuned, the next Carl Jung video is coming out in 2 hours!!
Apparently,we attract what we are...❤❤
We attract what we are. Nice!!
Or We attract what we project. May be a shadow or idealized version.
I love the visuals in this presentation! ❤
it pains me how true this is…
At most time, since the first minute I listened this video, my mind automatically thinking is there any coincident or relation between this with twin flame journey.. both having similar view of points. If yes, well it make my day for having another backup explanation about my own inner growth ❤
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Don’t overthink things too much. Sometimes, there are things that we don’t need to try and completely understand in life as it serves no purpose understanding them, there are things we should ask about or dive deep in them as they’ll only hurt us if revealed.
I cut off all contact, never see them at all. They just pop into my thoughts randomly everyday. They probably have completely forgotten about me.
Why do you think you're still thinking about them? Is there something you wish you said?
I obsess about someone I met on a plane from Dubai in 2017. I suffered air sick for the first time and hoped to talk after feeling a little better. There was no one on the middle seat for a while and when he took it we both lamentedwith a deep eye look. I never did till we landed and I spent most of the time being a bad passenger to my seat mates. Flight of shame for me. I keep going back to his eyes and nape. I wish I had his name.
This is excellent. Love Carl Jung.
@@catmother03 thank you Patsy! Happy to hear you enjoyed this video!
Feel free to check out our latest Carl Jung video!
she’s the only reason I keep going
Is it possible that someone might be obsessed with you because they envy you and want what you have? Like you have a great life, great career etc. and they think they deserve the same things or better?
This explains a lot!!! Hence what I see folks who are obsessed with celebrities/sports trams/political party...yea makes sense now!
I don’t understand his point… please explain better?
I’ve never subscribed to a channel quicker than this one!
Next video on Carl Jung coming up on Friday! Stay tuned!
On second thought, we're releasing it in 9 minutes! :D
I've been allowing myself this game, this pretending to talk to an old friend from teenage years when it just kept coming up in my thoughts and indeed I report all wins. Difficult and challanging at times, I needed lots of grounding but it works. I continue to see that some parts of me that had no room before in my actual reality are now growing and want to manifest. In my teens I was not ready for adventures , journeys, travelling but now I am and this friend is all about taking risks and not conforming so I'll stop the illusion side of my loops and just walk more bravely towards adventure alone...I mean on my own, cause I never walk alone😅😊❤🎉 as I have so many friends I can talk to in my own head❤.
Thanks all. Great topic, great comments
I’m confused, so just to clarify you’re pretending to talk to an old friend that’s not actually in your life at the moment? (No judgment bc I do that way more than I’d like to admit)
@SarahS-c9x yap. That is what I do and I do not judge myself anymore or get into illusions about the actual person. I found it helps me to act out in my day to day life in a new fresh way, to embody more of the way I felt in that interaction.
Thanks. Have a great day and year🤗
Love is never in vain. Even unrequited love. It always brings something good into your life, even if it's not what you originally desired.
I've lately felt an obsessive and envious feeling maybe even an attraction, to a person who I don't even know. I know him/her only as an avatar, I don't know their real name and have few details about their life. I think this person's unfamiliarity might serve as a blank slate on to who I can project idealized versions of me.
Same! How is it possible?? No name, no nothing. Just appearance
The perfect explanation..!❤❤❤
Glad you think so!
Thank you for your content! You did a great job 👏 👍
May Father God in Heaven Bless you and your efforts 🙏
Thankyou for this 🙌🏼
The only person who is always in my mind is the celebrity from another country who doesn’t know I exist 😅
Greetings do not make people idols trust God love yourself help the poor in the homeless my goodness be happy alone and enjoy the beauty the rain the snow you see the flowers the trees anything get a pet help others we need to get outside of ourselves look up Amish culture in the United States men and like culture in the United States has to do in New York City this will be a great influence and great keep things in perspective and their lives truly inspiring
Who is it , Otto ?
😂
That someone is the myself, the Self, yourself.
I know for a fact that I live rent-free in my hater’s heads, but that’s not my problem - it’s theirs.
😂🙃😘
This resonates so much with me!
Happy to hear that!
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Man I tell you the ideas in this video just may have broken the spell
Lucky
Thank you! This was full of so much wisdom.
You are so welcome!
It’s over 5yrs since we broke up but I think about her daily and I hate it
Almost 10 years for me
Not obsessed but randomly thinking about someone quite a bit lately. Someone I used to work with and haven’t seen or talked to in a while…
This is great stuff
@@ellenorchid01 thank you Ellen! Happy to hear you enjoyed that!
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wow beautiful and provocative illustrations.
Merci! :)
I’m obsessed with a friend of mine, and friend of mine that I never thought of… but one day I couldn’t stop thinking about her, it’s been 510 days without talking to her, until today, which I told her how lovely she looks and how much I miss her and invited her to have a drink, I need to explore my obsession, I’m no fantasizing she is perfect, nor inventing what she isn’t, I admire her because how responsible and tenacious she is, now we will see if she allows me to talk and explore, I hope she does
What happened
@ Well she replied, happy NY, how you doing? And we exchanged couple more Messages, and suddenly stop texting, first test appeared at the very beginning, now I’m waiting and leaving some space to show patience and will propose something to do, any activity or dinner
I've been obsessed with a person since 1 year. I know him from 12 years. But never before I had a crush on him. But now when I met his family last year, i started observing them more and more. The more i observed them, the more i drown in their thoughts. Basically what kept going in my mind was some fake scenarios of us being together and i interacting with his family although I had never talked to him directly. The obsession is so bad that it affected my studies and focusing capacity. They are my neighbours so can't avoid their sight. Also we have good family relations so my imagination was at its peak.
Due to this video I realised the reason for why I'm so obsessed with him and day dreaming him. I'm writing it here to clear my brain and get some clarity. Also I look forward for the readers to suggest me how to get over this crush as it's ruining my studies...
Looking at the signs of universe and my inner Instinct, I feel that we have some connection (can't write all of it here coz it's just too long) and possibilities are there that we may end up being together but I need not think that rn as both of us are busy in our career paths.
I hope I get over this obsession soon. Please if you've read it till here, suggest me something to overcome this.
Hey it's quite subjective actually. But what I have observed that the more you'll keep these types of thoughts to yourself..the more it'll spiral into something very bad. Either you take a chance to tell him directly or talk to your close friends (siblings, if comfortable) about it first. I don't know about how much you're in talking terms with him. So, I cannot say much. But..if you're more concerned about your studies. Then, telling or not telling him..both not gonna help. Either way, it'll affect your studies. I would say...shift anywhere else. Focus on your studies. Focus on yourself. And if it's meant to be, it'll be in the end(as you said, there's a possibility). Good luck to you dear. There's more to life than all this. This is just a part. So, don't worry!!
What a crock! I have negative thoughts about my ex because he beat me up, cheated on me, always called me names etc. I'm obsessed with a gorgeous man because he's gorgeous.
thank you, I needed this video.
Amazing questions! Thank you! 🥰 Have a wonderful 2025!
Same to you! 🎉
thx a lot for a video , it comes just on time
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Need this. Thank you!!!
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I needed this ❤
Amazing, i had good understanding of this but this has helped me. This should be taught at school and children full stop.
Just Focus on yourself ✌️
My narcissistic father who is now in a retirement causing chaos, drama and stress. I went no contact. I wish I then what I do now. This made me realize to cut them off. I think he's on my mind because I'm grieving the cutting off. He doesn't care about me so that's the only reason I'm obssesing. I wanted him to be a father but this will never be. 😔 😔 ❤
Can I get what books is the reference? I want to read it😢
This video opened my eyes