Married 14 years. She is 100% correct. She's calling it "manipulate" but what she's really saying is that if you support and encourage your man to pursue his passions then his chances of success go up 10 fold. If you try to push him in the direction you think he should go in he'll push back, treading water and fall into a depression. Ask me how I know?
I think this is opposite 🤔 I'll explain why. Every scenario is different. Push him to pursue his dreams, leaves you in the dust... With his mom, or he gets cancer after made millions, or gets with another out if status or fame. All is impermanent. End of day save as much as you can throughout the years, as I didn't so you go back to abuse and if nicer after cancer depending on the age of the man. 30 is dirty... not evolved. 60 us companionship but health issues may arise. It does depend on age, who you are at heart and them. To salvage anything means willing to sacrifice your needs for them if they want to provide and you shut your mouth be a kept somewhat women and put needs on weekends or be the teacher if you can't get there without vehicle or transportation, find friends, people who inspire, and if there wiling to fly you back home do it again and again 😉 influence is key 🔑 because you as a women will never get ahead worth millions and if they have you on their will its all fair in love and war. Abuse before health happens so they realize your worth that's 😢sucks!!!! Passion is immature lystful no gamble leave that behind. True love will let you go but ultimately knows you want freedom and independence even if they tey to keep or bond you with money. Get put while you can on your own two feet if not without a child make your MILLIONS You tube 🎉🎉🎉channel or not, or have them pay for nursing, just do it. Everything they want they know a woman beeds..needs... and what they bring to table bit NEVER SACRIFICE YOURSELF YOUR LIFE, YOUR PEACE, DESIRES, WANTS ETC FOR ANYONE! One of my hardest lessons last 2 years.
@@madisonmcgettigan3296 if that's the case...why are you with him? Let's be serious ladies. When you started dating him he was already that way, so why would he change now? Yo accepted him that way. And if not...ok well, then you separate from him. Why? How? Because if you have to choose between letting someone down or yourself, let them down. And how? Doing it. Is difficult of course, but if you don't the only person suffering is you.
Don't listen to these miserable people big sisssss. I'm 22 and you've honestly given me so many gems for the relationship i am in and how to own my energy and have a fruitful life
We have 7.5 children 🤣 where they are gonna go?! Margarita, you are definitely doing everything right. They are talking about you and attracting even more attention to you. Being married with children and slavic (in UK), what you are saying is very useful for me and reasonates with me nicely. My husband is occupied with some project I don't believe in. It has started arguments, since it's the only thing he wants to do. I now remember how I supported him always and it has paid us back nicely and have multiplied our collaborative energy. So why break now what was working nicely? We also know there is nothing wrong about lavish lifestyle, if I can get it by listening to you, so be it.
I imagine it was a lot easier to support your husband in projects that you did believe in whereas now (or at least when you posted) you don’t believe in his current project. Here’s the thing you’re being 100% genuine and you’re trying to remain genuine, that is admirable. Now her advice is correct you need to support the current project, you just have to find a facet of this project (aside from the fact that he’s committed to it) that you do believe in so that you can pour your genuine enthusiasm into him. If you don’t like it, perhaps the skills he uses in pursuing it are transferable? You’ll find an angle.
i suggest that you are always honest about things with your partner if someone liking or disliking his idea about something affects his own opinion about that idea he didnt think thru that much, someone liking or disliking idea doesn`t mean that idea is bad or good is just individual opinion if he really thinks is a good idea it can actually help to challenge his views and opinions about it because he can then maybe realize what he didnt think thru or didnt saw as a problem in that idea if you just support him for him to feel good and his opinion will change based on someone else`s view of that idea is not good idea in the first place. Also a lot of times motivation to prove someone wrong that you can do something and to "go against the wolrd" can be better motivator then support from everyone.
Perhaps one should ask one’s self what type of caliber person they are to be inclined to share a life with someone that they feel it necessary to manipulate their counterpart and justify that as logical behavior somehow vs truly being supportive or being one that your significant other would respect your honest feedback , concepts or ideas regarding any prospective decisions , so that it’s a mutual benefit as a unit . If a man or woman feels they need to manipulate the person they chose to spend their life with even if for the time being then they have already proven to be a weak person on multiple levels . Look up what it means to manipulate someone. Perhaps it would be helpful to provide guidance to be a person that respects oneself and has basic morals and positive character traits so that one can recognize these same qualities in a prospective counter part so there can be mutual respect and no need to feel the need to manipulate others. But that’s not the type of content that gets much attention I suppose so perhaps this observation, point , and concept is not applicable here . Common sense is free yet society is vastly broke indeed unfortunately. It’s interesting also to note that typically people who think they are quite slick and feel they are playing others to be naive and easily ( manipulated ) are actually also being played for a fool by the person they consider to clueless as to the tactics and games people play .
@@Akzel_ Who said that I sleep around? The problem is that men disappear the moment I tell them that I want to wait till marriage. It is not that simple. Many women sleep around and then find good husbands. Do you have any other advice? I want to know how long to wait for the ring and how to make him wait? Is it better to be friends first and do not accept being his girlfriend?
This battle is over. Now go pay your own bills. Men should simply not marry. Marriage is only gonna lead a man to financial and social ruin. I personally advice younger man to not even go for the girlfriend, just to keep at the "situationship" level, and to look up common-law marriage laws. At least in my state they are roughless. I just my girl sign a contract a few months ago stating that she is not my wife, we're not co-living and she is not dependent on me on any capacity.
@@ghfudrs93uuu It is better to be alone than in the wrong company. Marriage is a beautiful commitment God or the Universe gave us; if you meet a good person, you don't have to worry about your money. Also, men are natural providers and protectors. You can't change nature and what feels good for a masculine man. Women lose as much in divorce as men. And what about her time, youth, and money? If your girl is happy with that situation then fine. But thankfully not all men think like that.
@@shalimar29 if you think divorce is as bad for women as it is for men you're delusional. The point it is that it doesn't matter what she wants. If she wants something else she can go find it somewhere else. I was raised to believe my duty was to protect, elevate and make women happy, and I took it to heart. But now that is over. The fact is that you may have the best woman in the world, divorce is not beneath her, tarnishing my reputation is not beneath her, trying to financially destroy me is not beneath her, alienating me from my children is not beneath her. So, I think the best woman in the world may as well go eat grass. The majority of men think like this.
There is nothing more anti-woman than a female that under appreciates or ignores her femininity. Since when has kindness and reciprocity towards your partner gone out of style? Never. You don’t have to be a selfish hardass to garner respect. Kudos for your courage in this mixed up ‘’modernism.’ It’s not at all progressive.
There's a difference though. It needs to come naturally from her....not just because she's getting more love from you. If you truly love someone be it either man or woman....why wouldn't you want the best for them?? That's my opinion anyway.
@@dijonvolner6024 none of this is natural. You naturally want to leave your woman and sleep with 1,000’s of 18 year olds. You are naturally lazy and undisciplined. Naturally, you would never change or work on yourself. So it takes discipline to be a good partner. You have to work on consciously doing these things. Like constantly having patience and being able to give your undivided attention to your woman when she wants to talk. Women need to do the same except they need to show support for their men.
As a man myself, I would say that the definition of “manipulate” has been misunderstood and, typically, spun by the media. It’s clearly about teamwork and supporting each other to achieve the best lifestyle for each other. This woman is a breath of fresh air and I would be perfectly happy to find someone like her to spend my life with.
Can I just say... You're a breath of fresh air. You're like the woman BFF I have never had. When I struggle with anxious attachment issues or with my concept of self I watch your videos. Not only does it calms me but it also brings me back on my path of healing. Thank you so much for everything you do. I truly appreciate your advice 💜😊
This is the third video I've watched of yours and everything you talk about is so healing for me. It just clicks. I watch and read self help and sometimes it just doesn't click. This week when I've needed it and been open to it, for whatever reason you just stumbled into my youtube suggestions. And you are hilarious, I've busted out laughing a couple times "attract more with honey than with .... SHIT". The anxious attachment videos are so clear. Teasing us without yelling at us or making us feel stupid,. Reminding us this was once you and that it's a journey, it takes dedication, and practice. Sometimes it feels like video's I've seen make you feel like "whats wrong with you just snap your fingers and be different!" Giving us tools to navigate that journey, not just with ourselves but with others too, it's so helpful. I'm grateful for finding your channel, to you for giving me a different perspective, and I appreciate your dedication to helping others. I look forward to future videos! Best wishes.
@@weekendwankere69 I don’t think you understand the concept . Man or woman whether you are protecting or being protected, when someone discusses a polarizing topic in genuine and honest manner, you protect that person because you value the insight.
@@ManuelaSeven I think how she explained the concept had depth and any man or woman that speak candidly about a serious topic should be protected period. I don’t care how many people have said it..doesnt change the fact that its true
No need for any explanations Margarita; you are far too intelligent for these critics who have no understanding of how to interpret what you say. You are terrific, super-brainy and funny. Those who know you and understand you know exactly what I'm saying! Nuff said.........❤
I was put off by the title but I missed the videos so I watched. The message to have mutual support in order to create a beautiful life for both is key. I don't know why people get so angry when there is a supportive healthy relationship.
would love to see you break down how to begin to build self confidence. I’ve been working on that for a while and have come a long way. Healing mild attachment and just caring too much about what he thinks. Wanting to learn to provide that for myself
You speak nothing but facts Margarita! You have completely changed my thinking over the course of a month! My life has never been better. You also are so funny! 🤣
Here from tik tok. Your content on that platform is GOLD and I'm glad you're bringing it to UA-cam because the advice you share is absolutely vital for women of today. Keep marching forward and doing the Lords work!
The woman who wrote the article sounds jealous and that's not a very attractive quality for a lady or a writer 😂 Women should uplift other women not manipulate to drag others down to try to lift themself up.
You’re not a manipulator! Those boys are so silly to even think that! Really sad actually this is becoming the new culture… we should not be pinning against each other, it’s about understanding each other! You’re so very much appreciated! 💕💕💕
It was a women who wrote the article. And a women who made this video to na.e it exactly same. Looks like your women arent too sharp with their feminism BS 😂
Good thing i am boy i was never manipulated by girls do your bulshit like you want to you will never manipulate me trust you can try but you wont manipulate peapole can try but they cant get me
Sometimes you need talk to a person in a certain way to get them to understand. If your calling that manipulative then so be it. I’ve seen this with my mum. She’ll say something to my dad. He goes in defence mode thinking she’s nagging. Then I say the same thing but worded in a manner that he understand and if he thinks I’m right then he’ll agree with me. I’ve told my mum and aunt dad’s sister. With my dad you need to word yourself strategically . So you can’t be blunt and say whatever thing you want in a straight forward way. Where’s with my bro he doesn’t like that you need to be blunt. Just like how everyone has a love language. Everyone also has a understanding language too. My friend understands what I’m trying to say because when I talk to her and I’m trying to get my point across I give her examples. I Have no children she has 2 but I did help my mum with my bro. So if we are talking about children I use my own experience or from my bro. She’s a female, when I talk to my bff from high school I’m 30 now so I know her for 15yrs. Again I’m direct with her but also tone into my emotions more. Because she’s a compassionate person too. So understands better if you talk emotionally. I don’t know what you call this or even if there’s a name for it. But that’s not me being manipulative . Because I have no bad intentions when I’m doing this. This works for me on men and women. All I’m doing is understanding any individual understanding language. For me it only works if I know the person. It would be wrong if I was trying to brainwash someone but even for that the individual has to use their own mind.
women please please please understand this garbage will only work on a man who isnt awake to his own power. you guys manipulate simps all day long stick with that. we can easily tell when someone isnt being genuine and honestly this womens ego is off the charts she wld t be around me period. do yourself a favor think for yourselves and most importantly be your unique feminine self. anyone who has to manipulate anyone then go on social media and tell others to do it isnt in their true power. real power doesnt take from others it gives especially feminine. i cldnt be in a relationship w her let alone any of yall following this crap. be yourself you will get alot further.
I'm here for the new content as well. As women I personally don't think that we have to be monolithic in our thinking. We are a many layer of things, with many different ideas about life and things. I mean just as you were " qualified " to speak on luxury items ( Because that is your real life) Let's be real. You are married to someone who's successful, and you seem to live a certain lifestyle that you can speak to as well. Like I said. I'm here for it!🤗
You are one of my most down to earth straight to the point UA-camr who I watch and enjoy. From fashion, new mum, lovely daughter, and amazing wife you always stand to your believes which are very relatable to many. Don’t have tik tok so hope you don’t stop posting on you tube. 🥰💖
Please do a video on healing from emotional neglect from your birth family and finding self love and building confidence from there. Thank you in advance!
Can you do a video on mamas boys & how to deal with in-laws who actively try to sabotage your relationship. I recall a tiktok you did about how you don’t owe anyone anything & to not go around family that is not kind to you. I would love something more in depth about this topic if you wouldn’t mind. Thanks so much for your videos!
Avoid using expressions that lead into dark places. Wanna improve you life experiences with your relations or improve the honesty with your partner? - Start by cleansing this toxic linguo and be mindful of the energy you send out with the power of your voices (because its vibration). We need to be aware on how the language is currently twisted and promoted to create more problems for the collective.
I had to take a step back from your older content because I sensed that you were capable of more than talking about Hermes, etc. Believe me, I love luxury content, too, but this type of content is fascinating and amazing, which you do so well! I'm glad you're following your intuition, Margarita! I personally avoid TicToc but will follow you here, for sure!
By encouraging each others 'dreams' that are 'practical' and making him believe in himself is a good thing. You play to a person's 'strength'. You both need to be 'content' and 'happy' in 'who you are'. All you need in life is for someone to believe in you, and together you 'both' make a difference. May we 'respectfully' support each other. You 'amplify' each other. Both 'compliment' each other. Everyone has naracistic traits but if you get to the end of the spectrum you have naracistic personality disorder. You have given 'suggestions'. Is giving 'suggestions' manipulation? We need to have 'mature' relationships based on mutual respect. The male and female compliment each other. When you combine these qualities things happen. You are 'giving' your man space. You need to 'keep yourself special'. Men only respect 'special' women. You 'support' your soulmate who is 'worthy' of respect. Keep yourself strong and remember that there are real gentlemen and real ladies in this world despite what the media seems to portray.
I will be honest, I stopped watching your instagram post and stories because your content went from lifestyle to more counselling and psychology. I was actually thinking you should do that as a career because you will be good at it. I will look forward to watching your fashion, lifestyle, beauty, travel videos and vlogs specially with your beautiful mum ❤❤❤
@@esmeraldadarlinggangmeilu5091 I know, I no longer subscribe to her because those videos are not tor me, it’s good for very young audience looking to get a boyfriend 🙂🙂🙂
00:28 📹 Margarita Nazarenko discusses how to manipulate men, emphasizing her recent success on TikTok and separating her life coaching content from luxury-focused videos. 01:54 🎙 She clarifies misconceptions about manipulation, stressing her focus on building positive relationships and encouraging mutual support between partners. 03:44 🤔 Margarita advocates for skillful influence rather than forceful manipulation, emphasizing the importance of feminine energy in achieving mutual goals. 07:38 💡 She advises against complaining and nagging, suggesting positive reinforcement and setting an example instead to foster healthy relationships. 10:26 🔒 Margarita recommends maintaining personal boundaries and not revealing intimate details early in dating to preserve self-value and confidence. 11:38 💑 She highlights the importance of supporting worthy partners in committed relationships, advocating for mutual respect and admiration. 13:40 📝 Margarita commits to providing more content, addressing viewer questions, and offering insights into various life subjects while incorporating fashion content.
Please continue with all this information that you’re providing us with as women. I am so grateful to have access to such information especially being a young 20 year old who eventually wants to get married and have a family at some point. Thank you so much From South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤️
The way you said “just do it” the second time made me laugh. Although your lifestyle is different than mine, you seem like you’d be a great friend to have. It’s nice to be around people who are real and authentically themselves. It’s refreshing!
Marg, your response to this is BRILLIANT 👏🏻 They should do a follow up on how you are a GAME CHANGER and advocate for embodying and exemplifying being an empowered woman in a highly masculine energy dominated society. I love and appreciate you, soul sis. Keep vibing high and shining in your be-YOU-tiful authentic light. The world is a brighter place when you do.👑💕✨️
You partner does need to know certain inner gritty stuff etc. To understand you but they need to earn that right. You need to form that trust before you deep dive in that direction. You can’t deep dive on the 1st, 3rd date. You owe them nothing and they owe you nothing.
Great excuse for a reason to abuse men when you're not in control of your emotions. If this was applied to men you would call it toxic. Hold up a minute, you do...
Women nag because the men put up with it. Or maybe the man is slacking, but rest assured he knows it you can let him know gracefully not nag, it's like calling y our lady fat or overweight, she knows but don't nag on it, embrace it. You will get old one day. This video is much different than the title suggested, well done. That thing with the pizza vendor and Obama, so true, Obama knocked the pizza guy, but she said if she would have stayed with the pizza guy he would have been the president, I like her for that. She stuck up for the pizza guy. 10:55 100% correct, first 3 dates if you even have any, don't spill it all, it creates an attachment, because when a man asks questions a woman ASSUMES he is interested, but typically it's just to get laid. Cheat code 101 for women still stuck in a loop. The big deal is, the media wants to push feminism and disrupt the family home, they don't want women supporting/raising the man up. They wanna chase anything that finishes first.
Speaking poorly of an ex to a potential is kind of like speaking poorly of your last job to your current future employer. It's just a bad look all around. Speak on them with respect and civility and leave it at that. I guess.
Anyone who actually watches your video's will already know that it is full of uplifting content. This negative press could actually peak some people's interest and get you more views on your channel. Even negative press can be used to your advantage. Celebrities and Political candidates use this to their advantage all the time! Negative gossip has been around for thousands of years, but those of us who really know you, know the real truth. I subscribed to your channel only with in watching just 3 video's. now i will do notifications too, just to spite the negative press.😊😊😊😊
Hi I’ve just come across your content and I’m finding it useful. I love how you’ve broken down the comments and set what was said about you straight, in a factual and respectful manner, beautiful.. I’m glad you came back to your channel so I can watch more of your content. Thank you for your time and effort, it’s deeply appreciated 🙏 Xx
So glad you’re posting about this. That journalist is insane, there is nothing manipulative about your content. I actually find you pretty straight forward!
Oh yes, sticking up for men to nit be manipulated is so insane. You know what really is insane? Abusing and manipulating us all while wondering why we won't take you all seriously...
Interesting that on dating apps all the women are saying what they like doing (camping, traveling etc.) rather than saying what they can do, like homemaking skills or business skills.
I must say that I’m loving the person you are. Your style of explaining the archetypes is so clever and unique, it makes so much sense. Just discovered you today and I just love how creative, honest and real you are in all your videos, your concepts are broken down so well. The writer completely butchered everything from that interview and that’s the only manipulation that took place.
I’ve never seen your tiktoks and I’ve only watched one video of yours. The title grabbed me. I really appreciate the content you put out as far as I’ve seen! In a man’s world, it helps with navigating complicated personal relationships. I especially appreciate the bit about asking my man a favor and giving him space. My partner takes a very long time to respond, even. But he usually does and it is strange to me, as someone who responds quickly and sometimes with too much gusto. Your direct way of speaking is very comforting as well.
I enjoy your content on UA-cam, whatever it may be, mainly because of your personality. I haven’t subscribed to TikTok because I barely look at Instagram. I just don’t have time, but I appreciate the efforts. It seems many journalists’ goal is to exaggerate to “elevate” themselves as a part of the story. It’s pretty gross and definitely misleading. When I saw the title of the video, I knew it had to be ironic or something. Good to see you!
Do you have any content about learning to express myself with a detached personality? I'm very desperate to learn how to successfully get my emotion across in the moment.
Sooo awesome to have you back here and I fully agree with what u said re supporting VS nagging❣️I have been married for 20yrs and it took most of those years to fully understand that if I really listen to him, give him the voice that I might have taken from him over the years by eyerolling at his outlandish ideas, I have helped to build his confidence to the point that he now successfully attempts projects that neither of us thought he could accomplish.
I really hope he sees this and divorces your ass. It's not because you nagged him that he's better. It's because he continued trying to make both of your lives better despite your misandric abuse.
Straight up, how pissed off would you be if everything you did to try to lose weight and look good for your husband he called stupid? Actually, don't answer. You don't seem like the type of women who gives a shit hiw their husband feels...
In my opinion, you shouldn’t even apologise…it’s in vain! They are not going to understand and you are wasting your time! I think you are very brave and your guidance is correct!❤
Hi Margarita, I started calling you “the goat of feminine coaching” on Tiktok, just checking you out here. I think the press can be wack and it’s just designed to build you up and tear you down, I suggest you ignore the haters and out of context criticism; treat them like the other girl a man might be checking out. It’s bound to happen, be prepared and stay in your confidence and power. What I wanted to mention is that I took your advice on embodying feminine energy and how to navigate male/female dynamics-and I saw results almost immediately. So haters can say what they want (they’re just doing their job😑) but I find value in your content and perspective esp if it’s result driven. I think I was getting caught up in a certain type of aggressive energy or just “calling out” stuff and even if you’re right-nobody wants to hear it. People don’t respond well to it, especially not men. When I listened to your advice and leaned back into my feminine, focused on me, improving myself (and how i present/look) and pretty much didn’t nag, chase and became “bored” and uninterested-suddenly there’s more texts, phone calls and wanting to show up. It’s just facts; dynamics between men/women are real and often predictable. Even in a fast paced, modern and evolving world--some aspects are just not cut out for women so knowing how to act and respond can really change or improve the energy or way you move in life as the fairer sex. Just wanted to give you some feedback and let you know your videos helped and that I also don’t think you should address the haters at all because there’s more coming and you need to be unbothered or just act like it. Only address something if it’s really crucial, relevant or important. Get used to being a star 💫 and keep shining bright 🌟. Thank you 😊
I find this woman humorous. She does videos on a general subject that consist of stream of consciousness rambling without ever actually explaining anything in any detail. And all the while she acts as though she is some kind of authority on everything. It’s perfect for an ADHD audience. LOL!
Margarita your videos are amazing!!! Don't waste your time giving explanations to those people that are criticizing your wisdom. Thank you for sharing.
Im truly in love with you! you really break things down into real realities. I must say since watching, listing and implementing the suggestions from your video's, there has been a threshold of shifts in my mindset. as for the media? well ? what did you expect? handle it as you always handle everything else, with style, grace, sass and being unbothered.
I appreciate the human being you are, I admire woman you are. And I find your teachings and dedication very benevolent and important. Thank you for your work and teachings. This has potential to improve women/men relationships.
Man I'm glad I found your tiktoks, I met a man that I fell head over heels for, the more I wrote and texted paragraphs the more he pushed away. I was chasing so bad and not getting what i wanted. I started listening to what you where saying. After I stopped texting and chasing he started coming back around. I felt better for not sitting g by the phone and waiting for his response. I took charge of my life, now if he wants me he will chase me. He hasn't chased much and that makes me move on to better..
They did you dirty on that article. A complete twist of words. Such a shame what they do for clicks and views nowadays. On a side not~ I am so freaking excited to hear this news! I love your content and lessons on Tik Tok and I have implemented a couple of things in my marriage already and I have noticed a definite change is our relationship and in his confidence and masculinity. Thank you! Tik Tok videos are not long enough! I am excited that your bringing this side of you over to YT.
hilarious. I'm entering my mid-30s and my work hard work is finally starting to pay off. I had some hard years at the start. Now I look at my father's life, and his father and the only conclusion I can draw is how little the best women offer your and how much the bad ones take away from you. If a woman wants to participate in my life, honestly, the only thing she can do is obey. You have nothing to offer.
Omg... Please do teach more women about this. Manipulation in this way to make a better relationship is fantastic. I use this same approach. And i am a crazy man with some crazy ideas. Crazy ideas are what make the world better. We need more women like this. Hearing your thinking gives me hope that the two sexes can make the world better.
It's so ridiculous that you're having to defend yourself like this! The press love to edit, twist and manipulate! It's so obvious what you meant, but some will always be hellbent on misinterpreting/ misunderstanding you. Keep doing you, they aren't worth the oxygen! I've followed you for years because you are authentic, there's never been anything about you that's remotely as you were portrayed! About content, I'm interested to hear if you've ever bought anything from The Frankie Shop (apologies if you've already talked about the brand) and what you think if you have? Keep doing what you've been doing XX
She literally put up a video on hiw to manipulate men and you're angry ger words "ArE bEiNg MaNiPuLaTeD bY tHe MeDiA!!!" Do you know what the word hypocrite means? While we're at it, do your know what the word misandry means? Actually, do you know what the word chauvinist means because quite literally all of 5 those words apply to you...
I didn’t know that. I would ask my ex to help me clean but he would go out to be in the garage all day, he’s come back in the afternoon and still hasn’t done what I had asked. I would feel let down because while he was in the garage pursuing his hobbies I was toiling away with housework. So I would just end up doing the task myself & when I would ask him why he didn’t do it he said there was other things he’d rather do with his time. Turns out he expected me to do all the housework because he put in more for bills. I’m confused if this was fair But he left me He said I was complaining and nagging about cleaning and he didn’t want to hear it anymore. One of the many reasons he gave for leaving me
Married 14 years. She is 100% correct. She's calling it "manipulate" but what she's really saying is that if you support and encourage your man to pursue his passions then his chances of success go up 10 fold. If you try to push him in the direction you think he should go in he'll push back, treading water and fall into a depression. Ask me how I know?
What if his passion is poker, gambling and video games
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This is only possible is if he respects you and you put up boundaries from the beginning. Healthy ones
I think this is opposite 🤔 I'll explain why.
Every scenario is different. Push him to pursue his dreams, leaves you in the dust...
With his mom, or he gets cancer after made millions, or gets with another out if status or fame. All is impermanent.
End of day save as much as you can throughout the years, as I didn't so you go back to abuse and if nicer after cancer depending on the age of the man. 30 is dirty... not evolved. 60 us companionship but health issues may arise. It does depend on age, who you are at heart and them. To salvage anything means willing to sacrifice your needs for them if they want to provide and you shut your mouth be a kept somewhat women and put needs on weekends or be the teacher if you can't get there without vehicle or transportation, find friends, people who inspire, and if there wiling to fly you back home do it again and again 😉 influence is key 🔑 because you as a women will never get ahead worth millions and if they have you on their will its all fair in love and war. Abuse before health happens so they realize your worth that's 😢sucks!!!!
Passion is immature lystful no gamble leave that behind. True love will let you go but ultimately knows you want freedom and independence even if they tey to keep or bond you with money.
Get put while you can on your own two feet if not without a child make your MILLIONS
You tube 🎉🎉🎉channel or not, or have them pay for nursing, just do it.
Everything they want they know a woman beeds..needs... and what they bring to table bit NEVER SACRIFICE YOURSELF YOUR LIFE, YOUR PEACE, DESIRES, WANTS ETC FOR ANYONE!
One of my hardest lessons last 2 years.
@@madisonmcgettigan3296 if that's the case...why are you with him? Let's be serious ladies. When you started dating him he was already that way, so why would he change now? Yo accepted him that way. And if not...ok well, then you separate from him. Why? How? Because if you have to choose between letting someone down or yourself, let them down. And how? Doing it. Is difficult of course, but if you don't the only person suffering is you.
Don't listen to these miserable people big sisssss. I'm 22 and you've honestly given me so many gems for the relationship i am in and how to own my energy and have a fruitful life
Beautifully shed your light where she tried to throw shade. Grateful for you and your content 💖
We have 7.5 children 🤣 where they are gonna go?!
Margarita, you are definitely doing everything right. They are talking about you and attracting even more attention to you.
Being married with children and slavic (in UK), what you are saying is very useful for me and reasonates with me nicely. My husband is occupied with some project I don't believe in. It has started arguments, since it's the only thing he wants to do. I now remember how I supported him always and it has paid us back nicely and have multiplied our collaborative energy. So why break now what was working nicely?
We also know there is nothing wrong about lavish lifestyle, if I can get it by listening to you, so be it.
I imagine it was a lot easier to support your husband in projects that you did believe in whereas now (or at least when you posted) you don’t believe in his current project. Here’s the thing you’re being 100% genuine and you’re trying to remain genuine, that is admirable. Now her advice is correct you need to support the current project, you just have to find a facet of this project (aside from the fact that he’s committed to it) that you do believe in so that you can pour your genuine enthusiasm into him. If you don’t like it, perhaps the skills he uses in pursuing it are transferable? You’ll find an angle.
You are such an inspiration, not only for women. Thank you for your work!
I would definitely love to see more videos on your channel talking about the topics addressed in this video!
I have to assume this title was chosen for views. The title carries a very negative connotation, however I think the content is very positive.
I’ve decided that I wanna be your friend. Yes I know, I sound needy but it’s true. You’re spectacular!!
i suggest that you are always honest about things with your partner if someone liking or disliking his idea about something affects his own opinion about that idea he didnt think thru that much, someone liking or disliking idea doesn`t mean that idea is bad or good is just individual opinion if he really thinks is a good idea it can actually help to challenge his views and opinions about it because he can then maybe realize what he didnt think thru or didnt saw as a problem in that idea if you just support him for him to feel good and his opinion will change based on someone else`s view of that idea is not good idea in the first place. Also a lot of times motivation to prove someone wrong that you can do something and to "go against the wolrd" can be better motivator then support from everyone.
You are doing an amazing job so inspiring you are saving me mentally and just in general thank you !!!!❤
Perhaps one should ask one’s self what type of caliber person they are to be inclined to share a life with someone that they feel it necessary to manipulate their counterpart and justify that as logical behavior somehow vs truly being supportive or being one that your significant other would respect your honest feedback , concepts or ideas regarding any prospective decisions , so that it’s a mutual benefit as a unit . If a man or woman feels they need to manipulate the person they chose to spend their life with even if for the time being then they have already proven to be a weak person on multiple levels . Look up what it means to manipulate someone.
Perhaps it would be helpful to provide guidance to be a person that respects oneself and has basic morals and positive character traits so that one can recognize these same qualities in a prospective counter part so there can be mutual respect and no need to feel the need to manipulate others. But that’s not the type of content that gets much attention I suppose so perhaps this observation, point , and concept is not applicable here . Common sense is free yet society is vastly broke indeed unfortunately.
It’s interesting also to note that typically people who think they are quite slick and feel they are playing others to be naive and easily ( manipulated ) are actually also being played for a fool by the person they consider to clueless as to the tactics and games people play .
I love this woman! We are best friends & she doesn't even know it lol😅😭
Your strong delivery and beautiful insights are much appreciated. From a branding perspective, you should follow the lead of Esther Perel.
Not sure how I feel about this.. half genius and in support of the family, but also toxic at the same time
How long were you in a relationship before getting married? How can we avoid being girlfriends forever?
Dont sleep around
@@Akzel_ Who said that I sleep around? The problem is that men disappear the moment I tell them that I want to wait till marriage. It is not that simple. Many women sleep around and then find good husbands. Do you have any other advice? I want to know how long to wait for the ring and how to make him wait? Is it better to be friends first and do not accept being his girlfriend?
This battle is over. Now go pay your own bills.
Men should simply not marry. Marriage is only gonna lead a man to financial and social ruin.
I personally advice younger man to not even go for the girlfriend, just to keep at the "situationship" level, and to look up common-law marriage laws. At least in my state they are roughless. I just my girl sign a contract a few months ago stating that she is not my wife, we're not co-living and she is not dependent on me on any capacity.
@@ghfudrs93uuu It is better to be alone than in the wrong company. Marriage is a beautiful commitment God or the Universe gave us; if you meet a good person, you don't have to worry about your money. Also, men are natural providers and protectors. You can't change nature and what feels good for a masculine man. Women lose as much in divorce as men. And what about her time, youth, and money? If your girl is happy with that situation then fine. But thankfully not all men think like that.
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if you think divorce is as bad for women as it is for men you're delusional.
The point it is that it doesn't matter what she wants. If she wants something else she can go find it somewhere else.
I was raised to believe my duty was to protect, elevate and make women happy, and I took it to heart. But now that is over.
The fact is that you may have the best woman in the world, divorce is not beneath her, tarnishing my reputation is not beneath her, trying to financially destroy me is not beneath her, alienating me from my children is not beneath her. So, I think the best woman in the world may as well go eat grass.
The majority of men think like this.
There is nothing more anti-woman than a female that under appreciates or ignores her femininity. Since when has kindness and reciprocity towards your partner gone out of style? Never. You don’t have to be a selfish hardass to garner respect. Kudos for your courage in this mixed up ‘’modernism.’ It’s not at all progressive.
Man here, super accurate.
When my woman supports the weird ideas I have, it makes me love her even more.
There's a difference though. It needs to come naturally from her....not just because she's getting more love from you. If you truly love someone be it either man or woman....why wouldn't you want the best for them?? That's my opinion anyway.
@@dijonvolner6024 none of this is natural. You naturally want to leave your woman and sleep with 1,000’s of 18 year olds. You are naturally lazy and undisciplined. Naturally, you would never change or work on yourself.
So it takes discipline to be a good partner. You have to work on consciously doing these things. Like constantly having patience and being able to give your undivided attention to your woman when she wants to talk.
Women need to do the same except they need to show support for their men.
@@caleb6595 damn, you just told on yourself with the first sentence. that's disgusting. speak for yourself, weirdo.
@@caleb6595 ew 18 y/os ur weird asf
It's called falling in line. It's a great thing for both sides.
As a man myself, I would say that the definition of “manipulate” has been misunderstood and, typically, spun by the media. It’s clearly about teamwork and supporting each other to achieve the best lifestyle for each other. This woman is a breath of fresh air and I would be perfectly happy to find someone like her to spend my life with.
I love this! You nailed it! ❤️
BETA
@@amgadmansour5310 TROLL
Her manipulation worked on you 😂
having this mindset, you will
Can I just say... You're a breath of fresh air. You're like the woman BFF I have never had. When I struggle with anxious attachment issues or with my concept of self I watch your videos. Not only does it calms me but it also brings me back on my path of healing. Thank you so much for everything you do. I truly appreciate your advice 💜😊
I agree. She is the most grounded person I've come across on UA-cam. 💕
I want her to be MY best friend😂😂😂😂❤. If I could design one, it would be HER!!! I love her!😊♥️💛💜💚🤎
This is the third video I've watched of yours and everything you talk about is so healing for me. It just clicks. I watch and read self help and sometimes it just doesn't click. This week when I've needed it and been open to it, for whatever reason you just stumbled into my youtube suggestions. And you are hilarious, I've busted out laughing a couple times "attract more with honey than with .... SHIT". The anxious attachment videos are so clear. Teasing us without yelling at us or making us feel stupid,. Reminding us this was once you and that it's a journey, it takes dedication, and practice. Sometimes it feels like video's I've seen make you feel like "whats wrong with you just snap your fingers and be different!" Giving us tools to navigate that journey, not just with ourselves but with others too, it's so helpful. I'm grateful for finding your channel, to you for giving me a different perspective, and I appreciate your dedication to helping others. I look forward to future videos! Best wishes.
This women is pure gold and needs to be protected at all costs
@parisak6170 By a man? You've got equality, you protect her.
@@weekendwankere69 nobody gets protected by men. people need protection From men. even men. cope
@@weekendwankere69 I don’t think you understand the concept . Man or woman whether you are protecting or being protected, when someone discusses a polarizing topic in genuine and honest manner, you protect that person because you value the insight.
@@ManuelaSeven I think how she explained the concept had depth and any man or woman that speak candidly about a serious topic should be protected period. I don’t care how many people have said it..doesnt change the fact that its true
nah miss esther vilar needs protection
No need for any explanations Margarita; you are far too intelligent for these critics who have no understanding of how to interpret what you say. You are terrific, super-brainy and funny. Those who know you and understand you know exactly what I'm saying! Nuff said.........❤
When the mass media hates on you, that’s when you know that you’re doing something right
oh ok so that means edp445 is doing A LOT of things right, totally bro
@@Goofygoober-d8y love how brain dead people like you use extreme examples 😂
😂😂😂 when the mass media is part of the agenda
I was put off by the title but I missed the videos so I watched. The message to have mutual support in order to create a beautiful life for both is key. I don't know why people get so angry when there is a supportive healthy relationship.
im not sure why either... people are strange. thank you for leaving your supportive message
@@Margarita.Nazarenko I’m tryna get attached to you
would love to see you break down how to begin to build self confidence. I’ve been working on that for a while and have come a long way. Healing mild attachment and just caring too much about what he thinks. Wanting to learn to provide that for myself
Hello Lisa how are you
You speak nothing but facts Margarita! You have completely changed my thinking over the course of a month! My life has never been better. You also are so funny! 🤣
Here from tik tok. Your content on that platform is GOLD and I'm glad you're bringing it to UA-cam because the advice you share is absolutely vital for women of today. Keep marching forward and doing the Lords work!
The woman who wrote the article sounds jealous and that's not a very attractive quality for a lady or a writer 😂 Women should uplift other women not manipulate to drag others down to try to lift themself up.
The press really did twist your words😂
You’re not a manipulator! Those boys are so silly to even think that! Really sad actually this is becoming the new culture… we should not be pinning against each other, it’s about understanding each other! You’re so very much appreciated! 💕💕💕
So many Incels I swear… doesn’t even make sense since most women don’t need men nowadays. 😒 They refuse to self reflect and instead just hate women.
it wasn't boys it was a lady who wrote tha article
It was a women who wrote the article. And a women who made this video to na.e it exactly same. Looks like your women arent too sharp with their feminism BS 😂
Good thing i am boy i was never manipulated by girls do your bulshit like you want to you will never manipulate me trust you can try but you wont manipulate peapole can try but they cant get me
Sometimes you need talk to a person in a certain way to get them to understand. If your calling that manipulative then so be it. I’ve seen this with my mum. She’ll say something to my dad. He goes in defence mode thinking she’s nagging. Then I say the same thing but worded in a manner that he understand and if he thinks I’m right then he’ll agree with me. I’ve told my mum and aunt dad’s sister. With my dad you need to word yourself strategically . So you can’t be blunt and say whatever thing you want in a straight forward way. Where’s with my bro he doesn’t like that you need to be blunt. Just like how everyone has a love language. Everyone also has a understanding language too. My friend understands what I’m trying to say because when I talk to her and I’m trying to get my point across I give her examples. I Have no children she has 2 but I did help my mum with my bro. So if we are talking about children I use my own experience or from my bro. She’s a female, when I talk to my bff from high school I’m 30 now so I know her for 15yrs. Again I’m direct with her but also tone into my emotions more. Because she’s a compassionate person too. So understands better if you talk emotionally. I don’t know what you call this or even if there’s a name for it. But that’s not me being manipulative . Because I have no bad intentions when I’m doing this. This works for me on men and women. All I’m doing is understanding any individual understanding language. For me it only works if I know the person. It would be wrong if I was trying to brainwash someone but even for that the individual has to use their own mind.
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Missed you Margarita!! I don't have tik tok so had no idea - but good for you spreading positivity and trying to improve relationships !
women please please please understand this garbage will only work on a man who isnt awake to his own power. you guys manipulate simps all day long stick with that. we can easily tell when someone isnt being genuine and honestly this womens ego is off the charts she wld t be around me period. do yourself a favor think for yourselves and most importantly be your unique feminine self. anyone who has to manipulate anyone then go on social media and tell others to do it isnt in their true power. real power doesnt take from others it gives especially feminine. i cldnt be in a relationship w her let alone any of yall following this crap. be yourself you will get alot further.
I'm here for the new content as well. As women I personally don't think that we have to be monolithic in our thinking. We are a many layer of things, with many different ideas about life and things. I mean just as you were " qualified " to speak on luxury items ( Because that is your real life) Let's be real. You are married to someone who's successful, and you seem to live a certain lifestyle that you can speak to as well. Like I said. I'm here for it!🤗
You are one of my most down to earth straight to the point UA-camr who I watch and enjoy.
From fashion, new mum, lovely daughter, and amazing wife you always stand to your believes which are very relatable to many.
Don’t have tik tok so hope you don’t stop posting on you tube. 🥰💖
This girl must be single. After 5min I'm exhausted.
Please do a video on healing from emotional neglect from your birth family and finding self love and building confidence from there. Thank you in advance!
I will try. It’s a big topic x
I lasted 5 minutes in and she is annoying. Just get to the point!
Can you do a video on mamas boys & how to deal with in-laws who actively try to sabotage your relationship. I recall a tiktok you did about how you don’t owe anyone anything & to not go around family that is not kind to you. I would love something more in depth about this topic if you wouldn’t mind. Thanks so much for your videos!
Avoid using expressions that lead into dark places.
Wanna improve you life experiences with your relations or improve the honesty with your partner?
- Start by cleansing this toxic linguo and be mindful of the energy you send out with the power of your voices (because its vibration).
We need to be aware on how the language is currently twisted and promoted to create more problems for the collective.
🐋 aware
I had to take a step back from your older content because I sensed that you were capable of more than talking about Hermes, etc. Believe me, I love luxury content, too, but this type of content is fascinating and amazing, which you do so well! I'm glad you're following your intuition, Margarita! I personally avoid TicToc but will follow you here, for sure!
I appreciate that and truly value you saying this thank you my love xxx
Hello pretty how are you
By encouraging each others 'dreams' that are 'practical' and making him believe in himself is a good thing. You play to a person's 'strength'. You both need to be 'content' and 'happy' in 'who you are'. All you need in life is for someone to believe in you, and together you 'both' make a difference. May we 'respectfully' support each other. You 'amplify' each other. Both 'compliment' each other. Everyone has naracistic traits but if you get to the end of the spectrum you have naracistic personality disorder. You have given 'suggestions'. Is giving 'suggestions' manipulation? We need to have 'mature' relationships based on mutual respect. The male and female compliment each other. When you combine these qualities things happen. You are 'giving' your man space. You need to 'keep yourself special'. Men only respect 'special' women. You 'support' your soulmate who is 'worthy' of respect. Keep yourself strong and remember that there are real gentlemen and real ladies in this world despite what the media seems to portray.
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I will be honest, I stopped watching your instagram post and stories because your content went from lifestyle to more counselling and psychology. I was actually thinking you should do that as a career because you will be good at it. I will look forward to watching your fashion, lifestyle, beauty, travel videos and vlogs specially with your beautiful mum ❤❤❤
Totally get it. It’s so hard to make the right content. The relationship stuff was really asked about but then the fashion people don’t want it
Oh, she's great at this!!
@@esmeraldadarlinggangmeilu5091 I know, I no longer subscribe to her because those videos are not tor me, it’s good for very young audience looking to get a boyfriend 🙂🙂🙂
00:28 📹 Margarita Nazarenko discusses how to manipulate men, emphasizing her recent success on TikTok and separating her life coaching content from luxury-focused videos.
01:54 🎙 She clarifies misconceptions about manipulation, stressing her focus on building positive relationships and encouraging mutual support between partners.
03:44 🤔 Margarita advocates for skillful influence rather than forceful manipulation, emphasizing the importance of feminine energy in achieving mutual goals.
07:38 💡 She advises against complaining and nagging, suggesting positive reinforcement and setting an example instead to foster healthy relationships.
10:26 🔒 Margarita recommends maintaining personal boundaries and not revealing intimate details early in dating to preserve self-value and confidence.
11:38 💑 She highlights the importance of supporting worthy partners in committed relationships, advocating for mutual respect and admiration.
13:40 📝 Margarita commits to providing more content, addressing viewer questions, and offering insights into various life subjects while incorporating fashion content.
Please continue with all this information that you’re providing us with as women. I am so grateful to have access to such information especially being a young 20 year old who eventually wants to get married and have a family at some point. Thank you so much From South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤️
Men watching this learning how not to be manipulated…
The way you said “just do it” the second time made me laugh. Although your lifestyle is different than mine, you seem like you’d be a great friend to have. It’s nice to be around people who are real and authentically themselves. It’s refreshing!
Marg, your response to this is BRILLIANT 👏🏻 They should do a follow up on how you are a GAME CHANGER and advocate for embodying and exemplifying being an empowered woman in a highly masculine energy dominated society. I love and appreciate you, soul sis. Keep vibing high and shining in your be-YOU-tiful authentic light. The world is a brighter place when you do.👑💕✨️
I have no idea why UA-cam offered me her video, but I must say she is 100% correct. The RV example is spot on. Lots of wisdom in her perspectives.
You partner does need to know certain inner gritty stuff etc. To understand you but they need to earn that right. You need to form that trust before you deep dive in that direction. You can’t deep dive on the 1st, 3rd date. You owe them nothing and they owe you nothing.
Great excuse for a reason to abuse men when you're not in control of your emotions. If this was applied to men you would call it toxic. Hold up a minute, you do...
Women nag because the men put up with it. Or maybe the man is slacking, but rest assured he knows it you can let him know gracefully not nag, it's like calling y our lady fat or overweight, she knows but don't nag on it, embrace it. You will get old one day. This video is much different than the title suggested, well done. That thing with the pizza vendor and Obama, so true, Obama knocked the pizza guy, but she said if she would have stayed with the pizza guy he would have been the president, I like her for that. She stuck up for the pizza guy.
10:55 100% correct, first 3 dates if you even have any, don't spill it all, it creates an attachment, because when a man asks questions a woman ASSUMES he is interested, but typically it's just to get laid. Cheat code 101 for women still stuck in a loop.
The big deal is, the media wants to push feminism and disrupt the family home, they don't want women supporting/raising the man up. They wanna chase anything that finishes first.
Speaking poorly of an ex to a potential is kind of like speaking poorly of your last job to your current future employer. It's just a bad look all around. Speak on them with respect and civility and leave it at that. I guess.
Anyone who actually watches your video's will already know that it is full of uplifting content. This negative press could actually peak some people's interest and get you more views on your channel. Even negative press can be used to your advantage. Celebrities and Political candidates use this to their advantage all the time!
Negative gossip has been around for thousands of years, but those of us who really know you, know the real truth. I subscribed to your channel only with in watching just 3 video's. now i will do notifications too, just to spite the negative press.😊😊😊😊
Guuuuurrrrrrlllll preach! As a therapist working with 95% men, I support your content 100%!
That's not Men you're working with 😂😂😂. That's shell of a man .
Hi I’ve just come across your content and I’m finding it useful. I love how you’ve broken down the comments and set what was said about you straight, in a factual and respectful manner, beautiful.. I’m glad you came back to your channel so I can watch more of your content. Thank you for your time and effort, it’s deeply appreciated 🙏 Xx
Try manipulating your equal ...a psychopath...🎉😂...nope .fail. !!
Deeem why do woman hate us so much 😨🌊🏄🏿♂️
So glad you’re posting about this. That journalist is insane, there is nothing manipulative about your content.
I actually find you pretty straight forward!
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Oh yes, sticking up for men to nit be manipulated is so insane. You know what really is insane? Abusing and manipulating us all while wondering why we won't take you all seriously...
Interesting that on dating apps all the women are saying what they like doing (camping, traveling etc.) rather than saying what they can do, like homemaking skills or business skills.
I was dreading the title but this is an amazing video. Yes thanks! Thank you Margarita
I must say that I’m loving the person you are. Your style of explaining the archetypes is so clever and unique, it makes so much sense. Just discovered you today and I just love how creative, honest and real you are in all your videos, your concepts are broken down so well.
The writer completely butchered everything from that interview and that’s the only manipulation that took place.
Isn't it ironic that the media wants to rip into someone for "manipulation" 🙄
I’ve never seen your tiktoks and I’ve only watched one video of yours. The title grabbed me. I really appreciate the content you put out as far as I’ve seen! In a man’s world, it helps with navigating complicated personal relationships. I especially appreciate the bit about asking my man a favor and giving him space. My partner takes a very long time to respond, even. But he usually does and it is strange to me, as someone who responds quickly and sometimes with too much gusto. Your direct way of speaking is very comforting as well.
Hello pretty how are you
I enjoy your content on UA-cam, whatever it may be, mainly because of your personality. I haven’t subscribed to TikTok because I barely look at Instagram. I just don’t have time, but I appreciate the efforts. It seems many journalists’ goal is to exaggerate to “elevate” themselves as a part of the story. It’s pretty gross and definitely misleading. When I saw the title of the video, I knew it had to be ironic or something. Good to see you!
You are the best, even the tone in your voice to do this video is not in anger nor defensive, rather calm and assertive. Good teachings 🙌🏻🙏🏻
Do you have any content about learning to express myself with a detached personality? I'm very desperate to learn how to successfully get my emotion across in the moment.
How to let go of the fear and lack of trust after husband cheats. If you stay together
Love u margerita... you're really my virtual mum on here, 23 and been growing my self confidence because of you
I was with an abusive psychopath for 21 years. Left him 6 years ago and not dated since. How do I not talk about it?
Well you talk about it when you feel you can trust the listener. And that takes time.
Thank you for shedding light on emotional Intelligence which I feel is so super paramount in all dynamics ie work personal life ☯️✨️☯️
WE MISSED YOU MAMA❤️
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Sooo awesome to have you back here and I fully agree with what u said re supporting VS nagging❣️I have been married for 20yrs and it took most of those years to fully understand that if I really listen to him, give him the voice that I might have taken from him over the years by eyerolling at his outlandish ideas, I have helped to build his confidence to the point that he now successfully attempts projects that neither of us thought he could accomplish.
Love this!🎉
I really hope he sees this and divorces your ass. It's not because you nagged him that he's better. It's because he continued trying to make both of your lives better despite your misandric abuse.
Straight up, how pissed off would you be if everything you did to try to lose weight and look good for your husband he called stupid? Actually, don't answer. You don't seem like the type of women who gives a shit hiw their husband feels...
@@jimbovetteja5168 all my content is about respecting your husband and how he feels. you should watch it. you sound like you'd love it.
In my opinion, you shouldn’t even apologise…it’s in vain! They are not going to understand and you are wasting your time! I think you are very brave and your guidance is correct!❤
I find your clarity and logic very satisfying
Hi Margarita,
I started calling you “the goat of feminine coaching” on Tiktok, just checking you out here.
I think the press can be wack and it’s just designed to build you up and tear you down, I suggest you ignore the haters and out of context criticism; treat them like the other girl a man might be checking out. It’s bound to happen, be prepared and stay in your confidence and power. What I wanted to mention is that I took your advice on embodying feminine energy and how to navigate male/female dynamics-and I saw results almost immediately. So haters can say what they want (they’re just doing their job😑) but I find value in your content and perspective esp if it’s result driven. I think I was getting caught up in a certain type of aggressive energy or just “calling out” stuff and even if you’re right-nobody wants to hear it. People don’t respond well to it, especially not men. When I listened to your advice and leaned back into my feminine, focused on me, improving myself (and how i present/look) and pretty much didn’t nag, chase and became “bored” and uninterested-suddenly there’s more texts, phone calls and wanting to show up. It’s just facts; dynamics between men/women are real and often predictable. Even in a fast paced, modern and evolving world--some aspects are just not cut out for women so knowing how to act and respond can really change or improve the energy or way you move in life as the fairer sex. Just wanted to give you some feedback and let you know your videos helped and that I also don’t think you should address the haters at all because there’s more coming and you need to be unbothered or just act like it. Only address something if it’s really crucial, relevant or important. Get used to being a star 💫 and keep shining bright 🌟. Thank you 😊
I can see the evil spirit operating in her !
I find this woman humorous. She does videos on a general subject that consist of stream of consciousness rambling without ever actually explaining anything in any detail. And all the while she acts as though she is some kind of authority on everything. It’s perfect for an ADHD audience. LOL!
Margarita your videos are amazing!!! Don't waste your time giving explanations to those people that are criticizing your wisdom. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you. You help me have a sane, sereine, confident and happy relationship to people and to myself. Thank you. Go girl.
Im truly in love with you!
you really break things down into real realities.
I must say since watching, listing and implementing the suggestions from your video's, there has been a threshold of shifts in my mindset.
as for the media? well ? what did you expect?
handle it as you always handle everything else,
with style, grace, sass and being unbothered.
I appreciate the human being you are, I admire woman you are. And I find your teachings and dedication very benevolent and important. Thank you for your work and teachings. This has potential to improve women/men relationships.
I love that Margarita. It was my pleasure to listen to this whole video and say to myself I absolutely agree. 🎉🎉
You’re God’s gift to earth
Enjoy the background. 🏡
Thank you for the Tips 🙂
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Man I'm glad I found your tiktoks, I met a man that I fell head over heels for, the more I wrote and texted paragraphs the more he pushed away. I was chasing so bad and not getting what i wanted. I started listening to what you where saying. After I stopped texting and chasing he started coming back around. I felt better for not sitting g by the phone and waiting for his response. I took charge of my life, now if he wants me he will chase me. He hasn't chased much and that makes me move on to better..
Margaritas, you are Hilarious, and the near absolute confidence is inspiring...
God bless you physically, spiritually, mentally, and financially in the name of Jesus amen.
I definitely need a dive into divine femininity
Encouragement and manipulation are two different things. Strong minded men don't need either to achieve their goals.
You're so enthralling; love watching your videos! 🤩
Ypu prove that not only us misandry alive and well it's also socially acceptable. Congrats on the hypocrisy and misandry veiled as women empowerment.
If misandry is supporting your husband then I’ll take it x
They did you dirty on that article. A complete twist of words. Such a shame what they do for clicks and views nowadays.
On a side not~
I am so freaking excited to hear this news! I love your content and lessons on Tik Tok and I have implemented a couple of things in my marriage already and I have noticed a definite change is our relationship and in his confidence and masculinity. Thank you! Tik Tok videos are not long enough! I am excited that your bringing this side of you over to YT.
The more success/influence you have the more resistance you will face
hilarious.
I'm entering my mid-30s and my work hard work is finally starting to pay off. I had some hard years at the start.
Now I look at my father's life, and his father and the only conclusion I can draw is how little the best women offer your and how much the bad ones take away from you.
If a woman wants to participate in my life, honestly, the only thing she can do is obey.
You have nothing to offer.
Men: read Esther Vilar’s material! It will change your life!
Just done with the audio book . Waiting for the actual hard copy. Man was really baffled how subtle the manipulation was.
And when I seen this video I had a laugh 😂
You’re so smart and well spoken 🤩 thank you for this invaluable advice!
Omg... Please do teach more women about this. Manipulation in this way to make a better relationship is fantastic. I use this same approach. And i am a crazy man with some crazy ideas. Crazy ideas are what make the world better.
We need more women like this. Hearing your thinking gives me hope that the two sexes can make the world better.
It's so ridiculous that you're having to defend yourself like this!
The press love to edit, twist and manipulate! It's so obvious what you meant, but some will always be hellbent on misinterpreting/ misunderstanding you.
Keep doing you, they aren't worth the oxygen!
I've followed you for years because you are authentic, there's never been anything about you that's remotely as you were portrayed!
About content, I'm interested to hear if you've ever bought anything from The Frankie Shop (apologies if you've already talked about the brand) and what you think if you have?
Keep doing what you've been doing XX
I want to! And need to! Might do a video on Frankie shop!
She literally put up a video on hiw to manipulate men and you're angry ger words "ArE bEiNg MaNiPuLaTeD bY tHe MeDiA!!!" Do you know what the word hypocrite means? While we're at it, do your know what the word misandry means? Actually, do you know what the word chauvinist means because quite literally all of 5
those words apply to you...
@@jimbovetteja5168 manipulate men is irony. I am pro men and pro family unit. watch my content and you'll see. all the best
I didn’t know that.
I would ask my ex to help me clean but he would go out to be in the garage all day, he’s come back in the afternoon and still hasn’t done what I had asked.
I would feel let down because while he was in the garage pursuing his hobbies I was toiling away with housework.
So I would just end up doing the task myself & when I would ask him why he didn’t do it he said there was other things he’d rather do with his time.
Turns out he expected me to do all the housework because he put in more for bills.
I’m confused if this was fair
But he left me
He said I was complaining and nagging about cleaning and he didn’t want to hear it anymore.
One of the many reasons he gave for leaving me