Typical a femme statement!! 'Let him come (pursue/chase) to you. Why YOU as a female won't do that?!?!? If you choose the one sided way...he will lose respect for you...mark my words! I mean you can make it clear you like him by giving him attention TOO. Doesn't need to be ofen. But YOU SHOULD AND MUST also take actions to meet him outside and also a important thing woman.... when he pays for things...do it back! He will think youre a respwctfull lady and high value and no gold digging 304 or evil princess!!
I'm a guy and I watched this anyway :) Agree with a lot of this... Yes, when it comes to playing hard to get....sure....we'll persue you and let you know we want you. But...if you are playing hard to get or not showing any interest we will just assume you're not interested. As for the point about us being little boys who want to be loved by our mommies...... Sure. To a point. But as a masculine man, what we also need to feel is that we are needed/wanted/desired......our need to protect and provide for you guys is huge. And as a man, when you like a girl and she shows she needs/wants you, it feels amazing...
I want this kind of man in my life. All this time I've only met a guy who wanted me to baby him, a guy who played guessing game, and a "masculine" man whom I feel like my existence is only to feed his ego. I want a man who makes me feel safe and has a desire to protect me and provide for me. Is it too much to ask? :(
AS A GUY (and I'm very self aware) If you want only to hook up: you don't need to make us chase and you don't even need to be pretty. Just be as easy & direct as possible and dress provocative. If you want a relationship: Dress a little less provocative. Make sure you are pretty and in good shape. Play the psychological "games" as in the video explained but don't overdo it. Very important: Act a little bit shy and feminine. Kiss on the 1st date but don't sleep with us before the 3rd or 4th date. PS: When we say we care about your Job and carreeer we are lying in order to look good. When we say we don't care about your body count again we are lying. Also confidence is ok, but it doesn't turn us on or anything. We mainly care about looks and a warm feminine personality when it comes to relationships. And we lower our Standards for hookups immensely. You are welcome.
Thank you for sharing that! I've met a guy who has only the intention of sleeping with me even though he said he wants something more meaningful. He wanted to sex on the 1st date, I said let's wait and take it slow. We said we would meet soon and we were planning on even going for a little trip. But then yesterday he texted me and told me he met someone, which is so weird and so disappointing.
@@xw6475 A guy here: What the above guy shared about kissing on the first date and not sleeping until 3rd or 4th date, that isn't a magic trick to make ANY guy get into a relationship with you. The guy has to be interested in you as well for a relationship. If he just wants sleep with you and not get into a relationship, he is just not into you. Thats the straight answer. What the guy said about not sleeping on the first date only works when the guy is genuinely interested in you. But by sleeping with him on the first date, you show him that you neither respect yourself, nor this relationship with him is special (because you must do it with every other guy). And then, the guy loses interest. Thats when this rule works. However, in your case, the guy just doesn't seem interested to be in a relationship with you. Accept that. And move on. Dont take it personally Someone might like you. Someone wont. (In the similar way that you might like a guy , but maybe your friend won't. Everyone has their choices.) Keep doing what you are doing. Know your social value. If you want a better guy than your current self, increase your own social value. Sooner or later, someone will click with you.
Let me tell you girls, if a guy dosent want you he doesn't want you, whatever you do, but if he does you have to do nothing for that. Besides its not that hard for a lady to find a man.
What are you even doing on a women centric channel. There's enough for males. Ask your bros to step up rather than asking women here to play direct. We all know the category of men who want to play but don't want to be played. She's talking about cases over here in which off course initial interest has been expressed yet as time passes by sometimes dynamics change and how to get the balance in you favor is on you.
2:40 you shouldn't need a guy that you've just met anyways. mind blown. that's an amazing comeback for ppl who say playing hard to get is wrong in the beginning of a relationship
I'm a guy and I agree to a lot of this, specially the part where she tells not to play "hard to get" for too long. It works for the first 3-4 times and that's enough for to make most of the guys to fall for you. That guy might not tell you but he's definitely into you. But even after that if you still play like you're hard to get, then that guy is gonna question his self respect and gonna think that you're not into him and he's eventually gonna leave you . So, do play like you're hard to get but DON'T TAKE IT TOO FAR.
As a guy i can tell you, if a guy likes a girl, all he wants from the girl is signs of interest and affection. if you give him enough positive signs (good eye contact, smiling, initiating conversation etc) he will make a move. you don't need to do anything else. no mind games, no playing hard to get. i find them so pointless and unnecessary. and many times they are off putting even.
I don't agree w you. Or maybe I would only if it's a good man who have values and care for leveling up and taking on his masculinity to lead a relationship. Some guys are the one who playing hard to get like smah
*The key is to be authentic and let a connection evolve naturally. These steps provide a great guide on how to do just that. Let's use this advice to build meaningful relationships based on respect and genuine attraction.*
This was something important I learned early in my life: for some people we're just not compatible and that's ok! It don't have to mean that we have something wrong, or even them! And I just love that! The world is different so everyone can find its best for ourselves. ♥
Guys....keep your life simple!!! Don't go for such stuff, whether it's a girl or boy, if you aren't meant to be together, no matter what you do, you're not gonna get that person!!! Let me give you some tips: 1.Just be yourself 2. Be confident 3. Focus on studies/work The person who belongs in your life, will organically come to you!
@@ivblizzard3616 No, no worries at all. Thank you very much for explaining. Well, I believe where you meet these men. I've deleted online dating apps, because most of the men on these apps are looking for this 1 thing. It's so disappointing
1% is high value guys who are aware of the mind games and if You don’t fix it, You’ll Lose a great person for a guy who can be manipulated. Lol, seriously educated man can read through it like a charm. High value woman doesn’t need cheap mind games.
I stuy psychiatry, and let me tell you that these are just childish narcissistic games to protect your ego because you are afraid to show your vulnerability and become attached due to fear of losing someone you got attached to and the fear of being rejected. There's no sincerity in these games, you're always scared of losing control, you don't follow your true feelings and you're repressing them, you're only following your ego, you're always isolating yourself, you develop paranoid thoughts if you finally get with someone in a relationship, you treat your partner like a doggie to whom you give candy every time he behaves well. etc. And when your ego is hurt because your partner didn't behave the way you wanted, you hurt them by depriving them of your presence and your attention or by taking revenge in some way. That's how you fall into sadism. And thinking like that is the best way to end up alone or never be happy in a relationship. This way of thinking is the exact opposite of religion. This is how bad people act. Be sincere, show your vulnerability, be ready to lose the person you care about or be manipulated and communicate with him/her if that happens. If the relationship doesn't work out, be proud that you showed your vulnerability and that you showed to someone your sincere feelings. This is what real strength and true love is.
I showed every vulnerability to my crush and in the end I even revealed that I had feelings for him.he reacted very positively that he isn't intrested because he was very weak,and by chance if I leave him,then it would be an agony for him.i am happy that I displayed my feelings for him and he too.we parted in good terms,and I still remember him as gentle person like he is.i have met the similar person now but he loves his space,and I have shown him much more intrest than he do,and I now want to take a break and continue my goals and success.
I agree but - lets be honest -most ppl DO need that because hardly ANY childhoods provided it nor our v screwed society encouraged it -so a little validation with encouragement to find their own -is the loving route :)
As a guy I will these 2: dont play games plus be fun and kind to be with. As a bonus, just be straightforward. Don't say thing in codes or twist things and such,we want you to tell simple and plain what you want.
I find you fascinating. At times, I really agree with what you say. Other times, I find your perspective to be a bit a bit "off" in a way, but yet really respect the reasoning behind it.
Don't play hard to get until you show affection. Change the order. Approach the guy. Show him affection Play hard to get, let him cling for affection. Then show it back. Once you have approached, he may not like you at all. He may start liking you after showing him affection.
same.. uh.. this one guy asked fir my number and compliments me and “asked me out” but idk if hes just being nice.. this other guy is also touchy and “flirts” with me but i also think hes just joking
No tengo asperguer pero tampoco logro entender los coqueteos , no te preocupes si ellos quieren tener exito contigo te preguntarán que piensas hacer con ellos y tú simplemente le dirás no te entiendo, aclara tu punto de forma directa y lo harán!
if you play it too long. He will think you are using him for just ATTENTION and giving FREE VALIDATION. it's your fault he thinks that way!! Then you will think 'he isn't that much into me'...WRONG..he WAS.. but lost that attraction because you had bad behaviour!
Yes , girls today play this flirt games and for a guy is a must to know them, but if you look at how s people get with each other decades or even hundred years ago, you realise that today people live in an never ending adolescence, which is a sign that people din t grow up. In a healthy society this flirt games would be play only for adolescence 14 17 years old, not by adults
@@scarlettdevina7054 yes you are right,but I would rather go and learn from the Brazilian female teachers they're funny and beautiful and well worth the money.
Yeah.. im a guy and kind of used this reversely to make it work for me.. cuz we all know men and women are mostly alike just as you said aswell..... Also damn right Frank was ! Guys are like little babies that they just need a mummy(not mommy) to take care of them and love them.Girls are the same as that .... Im getting better cuz of you, girl
As a guy I don't think playing hard to get or pretending to be busy is attractive, I think you should show that you are interested and I think neediness is attractive but only if the girl is attractive. If I were to be approached by a girl who wanted to date me, the way to do it is to be direct
YOU SHOULD BE needy and clingy right AWAY. I mean not takng with him the WHOLE day and everyday. But you must interact with him pretty long and then end it. Its about respect! Menaing both parties should and MUST interact wth eachother and bot must make a start oe else he will lose interest bevasue he sees you as 'Immature, dont know what you want, strining him along!!' WOman are way to affraid of rejection!! Then they act stupid. sorry but think and handle simple. DOnt LIE/JOKING when he say if you like him. The hard to get game is actually a turn off for MOST men. Men are direct and woman are INDIRECT'
Playing hard to get is probably the dumbest thing anyone can ever do. You’re playing games and it’s immature. We could die at any given moment, life doesn’t give second chances after death.
One thing to keep in mind is if you're dealing with a man that has experience, these steps won't work. The guy will disappear like the Lochness Monster.
Sorry for double post: About playing hard to get: I actually tend to view playing hard to get as you showing low self-esteem, rather than you trying to show interest or make me chase you. I tend to get really annoyed and get the "oh my fucking god ANOTHER woman who tries this fucking bullshit with me". Disclaimer: I'm a 31-year old guy, who has been unhappily single for almost all my life. I want to find a girlfriend, but it's very difficult for me for some reason. I am thus extremely self-sufficient, i own my own house and car, i'm financially independent, have a great job and i can basically live this entire life alone. So what i look for in a woman, is someone who is able to be in there, and to make things EASY on me. If you are deliberately trying to put PROBLEMS in my life, and take my time away from things i would rather do, i tend to get really annoyed with you. And no, it has nothing to do with how attractive you are. I will be annoyed with the woman whether she is a 10/10 or a 5/10. If i like you, i will want you right now, and i want it to be easy, and i don't want any games. I won't play any with you, and i expect you to do the same and just tell me what you want. I sure as hell will with you.
1) be into programming 2) know how to build a pc 3) dont be easy to get as in impressed by everything you hear just cuz a guy is cute or funny. 4) able to accept him for who he REALLY is and not just for his looks nor money or whatever. (can be vice versa) Because what if he gets bigger or gets any imperfections? what you gonna leave him cuz he has a daddy bod or has a hair style u don't approve off. Yeah make sure you accept him for who he is and not what he looks like.
Why can’t I chase women? It’s definitely not that I’m not confident enough, because I talk to everyone. I’ll start a conversation with people randomly, yet it’s never “chased” it’s just natural. If it comes by it comes by, if it doesn’t then 🤷♂️
4 simple steps for women not having to do a single thing and not having to put themselves on the line, while getting free attention and ego boost and wasting men's time.
Well to be high value all you need is to be is hot and feminine. Im a man and we mostly care about looks so unless you look good don’t your dare call yourself “high value”
There is no magic trick to make any guy chase you. That's just a catchy clickbait title. Reality is that most people already know about this stuff (I am a man myself), and red pill is exploding among men just due to this very reason. Good men are looking for loving, loyal, caring women with individual preferences on appearance. No magic mindf*ck trick will cut it, and make the guy of you dreams suddenly become your servant (if that even is what you really want), if you are not a good and honest person yourself. Just a take from my own perspective ... I never chase women. I talk to them and see, if we have some common ground. Then I go for friendhsip and then I look, if there is something more. But when somebody plays games or doesn't value my approach, then they will surely not hear from me again.
Yes , girls today play this flort games and for a guy is a must to know them, but if you look at how s people get with each other decades or even hundred years ago, you realise that today people live in an never ending adolescence, which is a sign that people din t grow up. In a healthy society this flort games would be play only for adolescence 14 17 years old, not by adults.
I started watching advice for women to be aware of some of the sometimes ridiculous advice/tactics that are suggested. (the equivalent of PUA tactics for women) I can guarantee that one and two won’t get a reaction out of me, and I sure as hell don’t want affection from someone I am not/could not be interested in. As far as psychology goes, the average person does not often realize that much is generalized and not always absolute, we are all different, and as an extreme example, the psychology of a a simp and a Sigma are no doubt very different, and so is what it takes to interest them.
Around 30s is the thing most women gaslight themselves and other into. Also confirmed by men when they white lie. "I'm not ready for a relationship " "he was not ready for a relationship," etc.. When a guy meets the right girl, he is ready. It's just that it isn't you. That is ok because not everyone fits for everyone. It's just that for him you are not the one. This is important for all women to learn.
Nah, I wouldn't chase a girl with this. This is not for marriage potential. It is more for the buy a cat girls. Go instead to Giordana Toccaceli, she is amazing and I love her principles.
🤣🤣🤣⭐😎 I DONT CHASE SHIT!!! I WANT ONE GIRL AND THATS IT!!! ✌ I HAVE NEVER BEEN .MARRIED! I HAVE HELPED RAISED 2 KIDS! EVERY GIRL I HAVE EVER BEEN FRIENDS WITH HAS BECAME VERY INDEPENDENT AND AN AWESOME PERSON!!! 😎👍
hi baby!! what are the things he should be doing at the beginning?? sorry I don't get it and I am just meeting a guy. i don't know what to expect from him at this stage. i feel insecure sometimes so i don't know when it is normal or when it is mean he isn't just into me and I should move on... thanks!
You know i can understand how people who genuinely want someone , wish their one person chases them but for women I'll say if you truly want someone to chase you make it a 50-50 effort. Chase him too if you really want to keep him and I mean for life or for long he will really appreciate that,the small nice things you girls do are sweet and we like it. So I know you girls don't like to be direct but at times make it somewhat more obvious too. Because if you really want to keep him you can manipulate him. The smart ones will always know ther being tempered with. Peace
How to manipulate ☺️as I am someone who is in relationship for the first time... And he already had an ex... He treated me so well in the beginning and chasing me but when I accepted him he just don't care ..
@@Introvert.124 if you really love him. Try to be what you are honestly. All this manipulation wont make this relationship you have genuine. If its meant to be itll be. Or else you guys will keep playing this game. Still if you want to do something about this. I suggest matching his energy for once and mirror his action and then lets see if he recognizes his faults. Peace to you.
@@Abhishek-bv3lt I truely love him this comment is of 4 months old but still the pain is same .. even I missed him today truly .. .. today is the the day when he decided to cheat on me with my bestie .. it's been 1 year of this thing still it is hurting me to death .. i know how much I cried ... Today also I wrote that comment just 1 day before the break-up ... Now these things are just useless
@@Abhishek-bv3lt I did I mirror this action to him I confronted him .. he said there are no such thing like love and I know u genuinely and sincerely loved me and I am 100% sure nobody not gonna love me the way u love me .. and I am 100% sure u will love me till the end .. but i don't like the fact that u confronted me ... I accepted that I cheated on u countless times with ur closed ones but I am not giving uh any answer that I love you or not and y I cheated on u and y I am being in relationship with my ex even she is not my ex she is my gf till today I just dated u for years when she gave me some free time so I dated uh and u were too good to lose that's y I continued to date for years and yeah I am breaking up because u confronted me and i don't like the fact that u confronted me .. after these sentences I said sorry and begged that please forgive me for confronting.. how stupid I am but still I truly love him
I really think this is the wrong way around, we are not the same. The man has to be the prize and the woman need to feel like she got a better deal than expected.
I don’t thnk what all she’s saying is correct. True love relationship is about freedom, not walls and boundaries. You’re never going to get 100% of the guy if you’ve put conditions of love for him. There should always be freedom to say what’s on yr mind and also freedom to disagree. As far as I’m concerned there is no hard and fast rule in a relationship. Each one has it merits and demerits. What works for one may not work for another. Human behavior is so varied.
As a guy I can say do NOT play "hard to get" because it's easy to think that the girl has no interest in us. Just be open for him. People, can't we just act like adults and stop this bs with mind games and playing games? This is so immature and f-ed up.
You can be yourself without seeking compliments. Take care of your family first and build your feminity. Chase your passion and normalize being disliked.
I really struggle with boundaries or being firm when a guy is fairly nice and respectful for the most part, but does certain things that makes me uncomfortable or pouts/defensive when I call him out. I avoid the confrontation, but it feels like a compromise.
I feel like you are being really manipulative... A guy who is madly in love with a girl might not chase her, not because he doesn't like her, but because he doesn't want to be cheated by mind games taught to the girl by some other girl on the internet! He wants the real her, and he wants her without mind-games, without troubles, and he wants it to be easy, EXACTLY because he likes her. Do not frame your video like this...
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1. Be attractive
2. Let him come to you
3. Show affection
4. Set boundaries
Look I'm not letting you do quantum mechanics with me
Typical a femme statement!! 'Let him come (pursue/chase) to you. Why YOU as a female won't do that?!?!? If you choose the one sided way...he will lose respect for you...mark my words!
I mean you can make it clear you like him by giving him attention TOO. Doesn't need to be ofen. But YOU SHOULD AND MUST also take actions to meet him outside and also a important thing woman.... when he pays for things...do it back! He will think youre a respwctfull lady and high value and no gold digging 304 or evil princess!!
@@adaptercrash haha 😂
5. Be yourself
@@amandafriedly7724does being yourself mean not trying to be better ? As a person I mean?
I'm a guy and I watched this anyway :)
Agree with a lot of this... Yes, when it comes to playing hard to get....sure....we'll persue you and let you know we want you. But...if you are playing hard to get or not showing any interest we will just assume you're not interested.
As for the point about us being little boys who want to be loved by our mommies...... Sure. To a point. But as a masculine man, what we also need to feel is that we are needed/wanted/desired......our need to protect and provide for you guys is huge. And as a man, when you like a girl and she shows she needs/wants you, it feels amazing...
I want this kind of man in my life. All this time I've only met a guy who wanted me to baby him, a guy who played guessing game, and a "masculine" man whom I feel like my existence is only to feed his ego. I want a man who makes me feel safe and has a desire to protect me and provide for me. Is it too much to ask? :(
@@rosie2879 Absolutely not too much to ask for…. That’s sounds wonderful
@@rosie2879 yeah that is honestly lol
@@25-8 Oh really?
Totally.
AS A GUY (and I'm very self aware)
If you want only to hook up: you don't need to make us chase and you don't even need to be pretty. Just be as easy & direct as possible and dress provocative.
If you want a relationship: Dress a little less provocative. Make sure you are pretty and in good shape. Play the psychological "games" as in the video explained but don't overdo it. Very important: Act a little bit shy and feminine. Kiss on the 1st date but don't sleep with us before the 3rd or 4th date.
PS: When we say we care about your Job and carreeer we are lying in order to look good. When we say we don't care about your body count again we are lying. Also confidence is ok, but it doesn't turn us on or anything. We mainly care about looks and a warm feminine personality when it comes to relationships. And we lower our Standards for hookups immensely.
You are welcome.
“Make sure you are pretty and in good shape.” You sound like a real prize. 🤮
Dude, dont spill the secrets. These are our secret tools to really grade them
Thank you so much for these tips 😃😃😌
Thank you for sharing that! I've met a guy who has only the intention of sleeping with me even though he said he wants something more meaningful. He wanted to sex on the 1st date, I said let's wait and take it slow.
We said we would meet soon and we were planning on even going for a little trip. But then yesterday he texted me and told me he met someone, which is so weird and so disappointing.
@@xw6475 A guy here:
What the above guy shared about kissing on the first date and not sleeping until 3rd or 4th date, that isn't a magic trick to make ANY guy get into a relationship with you. The guy has to be interested in you as well for a relationship. If he just wants sleep with you and not get into a relationship, he is just not into you. Thats the straight answer.
What the guy said about not sleeping on the first date only works when the guy is genuinely interested in you. But by sleeping with him on the first date, you show him that you neither respect yourself, nor this relationship with him is special (because you must do it with every other guy). And then, the guy loses interest. Thats when this rule works.
However, in your case, the guy just doesn't seem interested to be in a relationship with you. Accept that. And move on. Dont take it personally Someone might like you. Someone wont. (In the similar way that you might like a guy , but maybe your friend won't. Everyone has their choices.) Keep doing what you are doing. Know your social value. If you want a better guy than your current self, increase your own social value. Sooner or later, someone will click with you.
Let me tell you girls, if a guy dosent want you he doesn't want you, whatever you do, but if he does you have to do nothing for that. Besides its not that hard for a lady to find a man.
Yeah...bro...
Facts
A guy with a lot of options ......why should u play this games .........u don't have any personality to attract him
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What are you even doing on a women centric channel. There's enough for males. Ask your bros to step up rather than asking women here to play direct. We all know the category of men who want to play but don't want to be played.
She's talking about cases over here in which off course initial interest has been expressed yet as time passes by sometimes dynamics change and how to get the balance in you favor is on you.
2:40 you shouldn't need a guy that you've just met anyways.
mind blown. that's an amazing comeback for ppl who say playing hard to get is wrong in the beginning of a relationship
I'm a guy and I agree to a lot of this, specially the part where she tells not to play "hard to get" for too long. It works for the first 3-4 times and that's enough for to make most of the guys to fall for you.
That guy might not tell you but he's definitely into you.
But even after that if you still play like you're hard to get, then that guy is gonna question his self respect and gonna think that you're not into him and he's eventually gonna leave you .
So, do play like you're hard to get but DON'T TAKE IT TOO FAR.
As a guy i can tell you, if a guy likes a girl, all he wants from the girl is signs of interest and affection. if you give him enough positive signs (good eye contact, smiling, initiating conversation etc) he will make a move. you don't need to do anything else. no mind games, no playing hard to get. i find them so pointless and unnecessary. and many times they are off putting even.
I don't agree w you. Or maybe I would only if it's a good man who have values and care for leveling up and taking on his masculinity to lead a relationship. Some guys are the one who playing hard to get like smah
*The key is to be authentic and let a connection evolve naturally. These steps provide a great guide on how to do just that. Let's use this advice to build meaningful relationships based on respect and genuine attraction.*
This was something important I learned early in my life: for some people we're just not compatible and that's ok! It don't have to mean that we have something wrong, or even them! And I just love that! The world is different so everyone can find its best for ourselves. ♥
Guys....keep your life simple!!!
Don't go for such stuff, whether it's a girl or boy, if you aren't meant to be together, no matter what you do, you're not gonna get that person!!!
Let me give you some tips:
1.Just be yourself 2. Be confident
3. Focus on studies/work
The person who belongs in your life, will organically come to you!
It's exactly what Francesca said. Before criticizing, watch the video.
Cope
Why do Indians even date with faces like yours.
@@EloraSelah are you saying this to me? The person without DP😂
I don’t want a boy. I want a grown man.
If he isn't a chaser he isn't gonna chase ... but careful with chasers cause they chase many preys at the same time ;)
Modern dating is so hard. I have deleted these online dating apps because most of the men just want to sleep with you
@@xw6475 it's not hard to find completely men
@@ivblizzard3616 sorry I don't get it. What do you mean
@@xw6475 typo , my bad , I mean there are many many men who don't seek sex only and are emotionally available
@@ivblizzard3616 No, no worries at all. Thank you very much for explaining. Well, I believe where you meet these men. I've deleted online dating apps, because most of the men on these apps are looking for this 1 thing. It's so disappointing
He's consistent. Consistently disrespectful and consistently who comes and goes lol
He's just mirroring u
@@Rohit-ij7mb I am mirroring him lol
@@russllenoyou know when we place two mirrors in front of each other what happens? If you know then youv got the answer. Staf safe though
@@russlleno our story
1% is high value guys who are aware of the mind games and if You don’t fix it, You’ll Lose a great person for a guy who can be manipulated. Lol, seriously educated man can read through it like a charm. High value woman doesn’t need cheap mind games.
I stuy psychiatry, and let me tell you that these are just childish narcissistic games to protect your ego because you are afraid to show your vulnerability and become attached due to fear of losing someone you got attached to and the fear of being rejected. There's no sincerity in these games, you're always scared of losing control, you don't follow your true feelings and you're repressing them, you're only following your ego, you're always isolating yourself, you develop paranoid thoughts if you finally get with someone in a relationship, you treat your partner like a doggie to whom you give candy every time he behaves well. etc.
And when your ego is hurt because your partner didn't behave the way you wanted, you hurt them by depriving them of your presence and your attention or by taking revenge in some way. That's how you fall into sadism. And thinking like that is the best way to end up alone or never be happy in a relationship. This way of thinking is the exact opposite of religion. This is how bad people act.
Be sincere, show your vulnerability, be ready to lose the person you care about or be manipulated and communicate with him/her if that happens. If the relationship doesn't work out, be proud that you showed your vulnerability and that you showed to someone your sincere feelings. This is what real strength and true love is.
I showed every vulnerability to my crush and in the end I even revealed that I had feelings for him.he reacted very positively that he isn't intrested because he was very weak,and by chance if I leave him,then it would be an agony for him.i am happy that I displayed my feelings for him and he too.we parted in good terms,and I still remember him as gentle person like he is.i have met the similar person now but he loves his space,and I have shown him much more intrest than he do,and I now want to take a break and continue my goals and success.
Men can sense if you are so desperately in need of emotional validation. This is a major turn off. Validate yourself.
I agree but - lets be honest -most ppl DO need that because hardly ANY childhoods provided it nor our v screwed society encouraged it -so a little validation with encouragement to find their own -is the loving route :)
Women can also sense the same in you. They can also sense if you’re a jackass.
@@rs5570 Straight off, from the bat. We enter at our peril. We do know.
You are gorgeous, thanks for posting🌸
"ask him for directions"
"If he doesn't come to you after you showed interest, he's not interested"
Me as a guy: What?????
😂
As a guy I will these 2: dont play games plus be fun and kind to be with. As a bonus, just be straightforward. Don't say thing in codes or twist things and such,we want you to tell simple and plain what you want.
I find you fascinating. At times, I really agree with what you say. Other times, I find your perspective to be a bit a bit "off" in a way, but yet really respect the reasoning behind it.
Don't play hard to get until you show affection. Change the order.
Approach the guy.
Show him affection
Play hard to get, let him cling for affection.
Then show it back.
Once you have approached, he may not like you at all. He may start liking you after showing him affection.
Damn she is just so beautiful
I have aspergers and have no idea if a guy is flirting with me or not. It's very hard for me to find the line between friendly and flirty.
same.. uh.. this one guy asked fir my number and compliments me and “asked me out” but idk if hes just being nice.. this other guy is also touchy and “flirts” with me but i also think hes just joking
No tengo asperguer pero tampoco logro entender los coqueteos , no te preocupes si ellos quieren tener exito contigo te preguntarán que piensas hacer con ellos y tú simplemente le dirás no te entiendo, aclara tu punto de forma directa y lo harán!
The “cute pie” slip… priceless 😂
1rst step if you are beautiful probably there are plenty of dudes attracted to you ! 2nd just be a kind person and that's it
Thank you I’m trying to get this creepy girl to stop talking to me and your videos are helping me make her leave me alone thx!
if you play it too long. He will think you are using him for just ATTENTION and giving FREE VALIDATION. it's your fault he thinks that way!!
Then you will think 'he isn't that much into me'...WRONG..he WAS.. but lost that attraction because you had bad behaviour!
Well said!
Yes , girls today play this flirt games and for a guy is a must to know them, but if you look at how s people get with each other decades or even hundred years ago, you realise that today people live in an never ending adolescence, which is a sign that people din t grow up. In a healthy society this flirt games would be play only for adolescence 14 17 years old, not by adults
V true!
"You play hard to get."
Stupid non-advice. Men start seeing through that garbage and will find someone else.
I Rather chase for kfc meal , its more cheaper and it yummy 😋 😜 😊
Maybe chase some English teachers, seems like you need one of them.
@@scarlettdevina7054 🤣
@@scarlettdevina7054 yes you are right,but I would rather go and learn from the Brazilian female teachers they're funny and beautiful and well worth the money.
@@rockykhan8351 worth the money? Your worth of money?
Yeah.. im a guy and kind of used this reversely to make it work for me.. cuz we all know men and women are mostly alike just as you said aswell.....
Also damn right Frank was ! Guys are like little babies that they just need a mummy(not mommy) to take care of them and love them.Girls are the same as that .... Im getting better cuz of you, girl
As a guy I don't think playing hard to get or pretending to be busy is attractive, I think you should show that you are interested and I think neediness is attractive but only if the girl is attractive. If I were to be approached by a girl who wanted to date me, the way to do it is to be direct
These are very true. People can fight you on it, but it's just not meant for them.
You have a very nice energy ❤
YOU SHOULD BE needy and clingy right AWAY. I mean not takng with him the WHOLE day and everyday. But you must interact with him pretty long and then end it. Its about respect! Menaing both parties should and MUST interact wth eachother and bot must make a start oe else he will lose interest bevasue he sees you as 'Immature, dont know what you want, strining him along!!'
WOman are way to affraid of rejection!! Then they act stupid. sorry but think and handle simple. DOnt LIE/JOKING when he say if you like him.
The hard to get game is actually a turn off for MOST men. Men are direct and woman are INDIRECT'
You sound like an 18 yr old boy.
Playing hard to get is probably the dumbest thing anyone can ever do. You’re playing games and it’s immature. We could die at any given moment, life doesn’t give second chances after death.
One thing to keep in mind is if you're dealing with a man that has experience, these steps won't work. The guy will disappear like the Lochness Monster.
Sorry for double post:
About playing hard to get: I actually tend to view playing hard to get as you showing low self-esteem, rather than you trying to show interest or make me chase you. I tend to get really annoyed and get the "oh my fucking god ANOTHER woman who tries this fucking bullshit with me".
Disclaimer: I'm a 31-year old guy, who has been unhappily single for almost all my life. I want to find a girlfriend, but it's very difficult for me for some reason. I am thus extremely self-sufficient, i own my own house and car, i'm financially independent, have a great job and i can basically live this entire life alone. So what i look for in a woman, is someone who is able to be in there, and to make things EASY on me. If you are deliberately trying to put PROBLEMS in my life, and take my time away from things i would rather do, i tend to get really annoyed with you. And no, it has nothing to do with how attractive you are. I will be annoyed with the woman whether she is a 10/10 or a 5/10. If i like you, i will want you right now, and i want it to be easy, and i don't want any games. I won't play any with you, and i expect you to do the same and just tell me what you want. I sure as hell will with you.
I lose all my interest the moment a girls start playing hard to get.
1) be into programming
2) know how to build a pc
3) dont be easy to get as in impressed by everything you hear just cuz a guy is cute or funny.
4) able to accept him for who he REALLY is and not just for his looks nor money or whatever. (can be vice versa) Because what if he gets bigger or gets any imperfections? what you gonna leave him cuz he has a daddy bod or has a hair style u don't approve off. Yeah make sure you accept him for who he is and not what he looks like.
Why can’t I chase women? It’s definitely not that I’m not confident enough, because I talk to everyone. I’ll start a conversation with people randomly, yet it’s never “chased” it’s just natural. If it comes by it comes by, if it doesn’t then 🤷♂️
Great advice! Thank you for your videos :)
There's a difference between playing hard to get and being hard to get. Playing hard to get is supposed to be playful.
4 simple steps for women not having to do a single thing and not having to put themselves on the line, while getting free attention and ego boost and wasting men's time.
That’s me out then at step one - I’m physically grotesque 😢
0:53 I know you meant “warm”, but worm works too… if you’re Heidi Klum.
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Games. Useless. Know your high value as a woman … simple. Men are magnetised.
Well to be high value all you need is to be is hot and feminine. Im a man and we mostly care about looks so unless you look good don’t your dare call yourself “high value”
Happy holidays! Great video.
he will laugh and chase the monjey. Noone needs you.
So crystal clear❤
5. Hypnotic long-drop earrings.
What is your accent, Swedish? I love it and you are gorgeous. Thanks angel
There is no magic trick to make any guy chase you. That's just a catchy clickbait title. Reality is that most people already know about this stuff (I am a man myself), and red pill is exploding among men just due to this very reason. Good men are looking for loving, loyal, caring women with individual preferences on appearance. No magic mindf*ck trick will cut it, and make the guy of you dreams suddenly become your servant (if that even is what you really want), if you are not a good and honest person yourself. Just a take from my own perspective ... I never chase women. I talk to them and see, if we have some common ground. Then I go for friendhsip and then I look, if there is something more. But when somebody plays games or doesn't value my approach, then they will surely not hear from me again.
It was a nice video but in my opinion I want someone to be in my life with physical ways without drama and analysis and accept me for who I am
Its not "lose interest at some point"
Its give up
Step 1 be pretty
Step 2 be alive
Good tips but it doesn't work with sigma males tho.
Yes , girls today play this flort games and for a guy is a must to know them, but if you look at how s people get with each other decades or even hundred years ago, you realise that today people live in an never ending adolescence, which is a sign that people din t grow up. In a healthy society this flort games would be play only for adolescence 14 17 years old, not by adults.
really realistic advice
You will show your vulnerabilities, when the guy shows he has worth. But as for playing a game about being in control, I'm not in favour of it.
I’m a sigma male and we don’t chase women. Show them interest they take you for granted what’s the point
No woman wants a sigma.
Very good video
If you are playing hard to get,you become hard to want
I started watching advice for women to be aware of some of the sometimes ridiculous advice/tactics that are suggested. (the equivalent of PUA tactics for women) I can guarantee that one and two won’t get a reaction out of me, and I sure as hell don’t want affection from someone I am not/could not be interested in.
As far as psychology goes, the average person does not often realize that much is generalized and not always absolute, we are all different, and as an extreme example, the psychology of a a simp and a Sigma are no doubt very different, and so is what it takes to interest them.
Around 30s is the thing most women gaslight themselves and other into. Also confirmed by men when they white lie. "I'm not ready for a relationship " "he was not ready for a relationship," etc.. When a guy meets the right girl, he is ready. It's just that it isn't you. That is ok because not everyone fits for everyone. It's just that for him you are not the one. This is important for all women to learn.
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I LOVE UR VIDS.
Hi 👋🏻 I'm from India.
I like your nature very much. 🧡
The life is already hard to live in this world. Why would anyone make it more hard? Better stay away.
Nah, I wouldn't chase a girl with this. This is not for marriage potential. It is more for the buy a cat girls. Go instead to Giordana Toccaceli, she is amazing and I love her principles.
As a guy I can tell you ladies:
1. Be hot.
The end.
🤣🤣🤣⭐😎 I DONT CHASE SHIT!!! I WANT ONE GIRL AND THATS IT!!! ✌ I HAVE NEVER BEEN .MARRIED! I HAVE HELPED RAISED 2 KIDS! EVERY GIRL I HAVE EVER BEEN FRIENDS WITH HAS BECAME VERY INDEPENDENT AND AN AWESOME PERSON!!! 😎👍
hi baby!! what are the things he should be doing at the beginning?? sorry I don't get it and I am just meeting a guy. i don't know what to expect from him at this stage. i feel insecure sometimes so i don't know when it is normal or when it is mean he isn't just into me and I should move on... thanks!
You should move on when he starts touching you.
Very good ❤❤
You know i can understand how people who genuinely want someone , wish their one person chases them but for women I'll say if you truly want someone to chase you make it a 50-50 effort. Chase him too if you really want to keep him and I mean for life or for long he will really appreciate that,the small nice things you girls do are sweet and we like it. So I know you girls don't like to be direct but at times make it somewhat more obvious too. Because if you really want to keep him you can manipulate him. The smart ones will always know ther being tempered with. Peace
How to manipulate ☺️as I am someone who is in relationship for the first time... And he already had an ex... He treated me so well in the beginning and chasing me but when I accepted him he just don't care ..
I really want to keep him but he made me the one who is chasing
@@Introvert.124 if you really love him. Try to be what you are honestly. All this manipulation wont make this relationship you have genuine. If its meant to be itll be. Or else you guys will keep playing this game.
Still if you want to do something about this. I suggest matching his energy for once and mirror his action and then lets see if he recognizes his faults. Peace to you.
@@Abhishek-bv3lt I truely love him this comment is of 4 months old but still the pain is same .. even I missed him today truly .. .. today is the the day when he decided to cheat on me with my bestie .. it's been 1 year of this thing still it is hurting me to death .. i know how much I cried ... Today also
I wrote that comment just 1 day before the break-up ... Now these things are just useless
@@Abhishek-bv3lt I did I mirror this action to him I confronted him .. he said there are no such thing like love and I know u genuinely and sincerely loved me and I am 100% sure nobody not gonna love me the way u love me .. and I am 100% sure u will love me till the end .. but i don't like the fact that u confronted me ... I accepted that I cheated on u countless times with ur closed ones but I am not giving uh any answer that I love you or not and y I cheated on u and y I am being in relationship with my ex even she is not my ex she is my gf till today I just dated u for years when she gave me some free time so I dated uh and u were too good to lose that's y I continued to date for years and yeah I am breaking up because u confronted me and i don't like the fact that u confronted me .. after these sentences I said sorry and begged that please forgive me for confronting.. how stupid I am but still I truly love him
Very smart! quality content 🌹
a man who really cares wont ever rsk cancelling a date or play games that diminish their chances
Damn why did i click on the video then. I'm stupid.
In English language there is a difference between "chase" and "pursue"
I really think this is the wrong way around, we are not the same. The man has to be the prize and the woman need to feel like she got a better deal than expected.
I don’t thnk what all she’s saying is correct. True love relationship is about freedom, not walls and boundaries. You’re never going to get 100% of the guy if you’ve put conditions of love for him. There should always be freedom to say what’s on yr mind and also freedom to disagree. As far as I’m concerned there is no hard and fast rule in a relationship. Each one has it merits and demerits. What works for one may not work for another. Human behavior is so varied.
It’s called choosing singles … that way he knows you are interested, and he starts the chase..,
🤣🤣so the men who won't chase you can't love
So a healthy relationship is when you make a man suffers by chasing you and stringing him along .This what evil is ,,being sadistic!
I know right, it’s immature
Video:for girls
The comments: lol
The guys watching this : 👀
Lol dont make him chase you most guys get turned off by girls trying to get them to chase them.
The video starts and ends at 0:42
She is right in so many ways. So its thumbs up and am a guy.
As a guy I can say do NOT play "hard to get" because it's easy to think that the girl has no interest in us. Just be open for him. People, can't we just act like adults and stop this bs with mind games and playing games? This is so immature and f-ed up.
Question for you Francesca. Are you married or in a relationship for 10plus years?
You need credibility before you believe the truth huh
You can be yourself without seeking compliments. Take care of your family first and build your feminity. Chase your passion and normalize being disliked.
The real Veronica is not dating meeting anything a guy. No, I need a lawyer.
Thanks a lot!!
“Let him come to you” - so what does that look like, is it when he starts a conversation with you?
I really struggle with boundaries or being firm when a guy is fairly nice and respectful for the most part, but does certain things that makes me uncomfortable or pouts/defensive when I call him out. I avoid the confrontation, but it feels like a compromise.
Sounds more like how to become more proficient in Mind-games.
I sometimes really feel sorry for men...
Thank you for this 🙏
Me as a guy watching n taking notes🤓
Of course, know your "enemy", or the other side.
But how do you get a guy to stop pursuing you even after you tell him to stop.
I feel like you are being really manipulative... A guy who is madly in love with a girl might not chase her, not because he doesn't like her, but because he doesn't want to be cheated by mind games taught to the girl by some other girl on the internet! He wants the real her, and he wants her without mind-games, without troubles, and he wants it to be easy, EXACTLY because he likes her.
Do not frame your video like this...