Super underrated video! Thank you Melody, God Bless! Just a quick question though, how can we tell between relationship anxiety vs being with the wrong person/our gut telling us something is off.
Thanks for your kind words! I learned from my past experiences how important it is to trust your gut. For me, one big indicator is how my partner responds to me opening up about my struggles/anxiety. One was defensive and made me feel even more anxious/like there was something wrong with me while the other was patient, understanding and tried his best to reassure me.
@@burnttcaramel what if it’s the second (tries to change or not get mad) but you don’t feel like things are changing or feel like it’s not really in their capability ? If that makes sense sorry
Hmm I think that's when you have to ask yourself whether you're truly happy and if this is really what you want in a relationship! Sometimes, your partner might be truly trying their best but it might just be that your values and priorities do not align. I made a video on this, feel free to check it out! ua-cam.com/video/quj7Jyg7r08/v-deo.htmlsi=X-PFLzkS44Q6ezv-@@ItsSimplyAless
There is a proverb: being alone is better than being badly accompanied.
So true!
@@burnttcaramel I think it's a French proverb 😉.
Super underrated video! Thank you Melody, God Bless! Just a quick question though, how can we tell between relationship anxiety vs being with the wrong person/our gut telling us something is off.
Thanks for your kind words! I learned from my past experiences how important it is to trust your gut. For me, one big indicator is how my partner responds to me opening up about my struggles/anxiety. One was defensive and made me feel even more anxious/like there was something wrong with me while the other was patient, understanding and tried his best to reassure me.
@@burnttcaramel what if it’s the second (tries to change or not get mad) but you don’t feel like things are changing or feel like it’s not really in their capability ? If that makes sense sorry
Hmm I think that's when you have to ask yourself whether you're truly happy and if this is really what you want in a relationship! Sometimes, your partner might be truly trying their best but it might just be that your values and priorities do not align. I made a video on this, feel free to check it out! ua-cam.com/video/quj7Jyg7r08/v-deo.htmlsi=X-PFLzkS44Q6ezv-@@ItsSimplyAless
Very helpful, thank you
You're most welcome, glad it helped ❤
i see anxiety girl. i subscribed
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