Are Narcissists Created?

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  • Опубліковано 10 бер 2024
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    Are Narcissists Created? How do they become this way? In this video I explain the making of a narcissist so that you can understand how and why this happens.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 40

  • @lovetobe30
    @lovetobe30 3 місяці тому +12

    I watched this over and over again to realise that I have been living a lie my whole life!! I was living someone elses life and not mine!😖

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  3 місяці тому +1

      Oh I’m so sorry, but the truth will set you free ❤

    • @crystalH30
      @crystalH30 3 місяці тому +1

      I can totally relate to this..

  • @kobra4422
    @kobra4422 3 місяці тому +6

    "You lose the people's who want you to lose" perfectly said 💯💯

  • @sudoku47
    @sudoku47 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for the above video. As an adult who (at least occasionally) displays narcissistic traits, I can’t help feeling that the most obvious cradle of anyone’s narcissism must be the narcissist’s birth FAMILY!
    I grew up in an extremely narcissistic family and I feel lucky that I have not turned into a full-blown narcissist, but I certainly do NOT mind admitting that I have narcissistic tendencies. My healing endeavour will not end until and unless I am absolutely sure that narcissism has totally disappeared from every fibre of my being once and for all!

  • @dv52528
    @dv52528 3 місяці тому +6

    Yesssss ! No wonder my entire family always competes with me, I always found it strange.
    I removed myself physically but went back because I wanted reconciliation but I was used again.
    I decided to remove myself physically and emotionally! Even if I am alone now, I have always felt alone with them anyway.

  • @davegarski1548
    @davegarski1548 3 місяці тому +5

    Thank-you so much, Candace! So validating, so vindicating. Just fantastic help here. I will be echoing your phrase, "You're losing the people who want you to lose", from now on - when I describe what I've been through with my dysfunctional family and narcissistic mother.

  • @visakgopinath3135
    @visakgopinath3135 3 місяці тому +2

    Another peculiarity of a narcissit is unhealthy competition, competition upto certain level is good because it can enhance efficiency, but a narcissit do anything to beat their rival because they are highly jealous

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  3 місяці тому

      Yes and this Includes narc parents and their children

    • @visakgopinath3135
      @visakgopinath3135 3 місяці тому

      @@CandacevanDell is it include scapegoat

    • @rayeannebrewer1458
      @rayeannebrewer1458 3 місяці тому

      My sister who is an emotional clone of my mother. She was always in competition with me. I was the scapegoat. She was the Golden Child. I was made to feel so inadequate. It took decades to realize she was always competing with me.

    • @visakgopinath3135
      @visakgopinath3135 3 місяці тому

      @@rayeannebrewer1458 narcissit simply steal the stage with their award winning performance, but behind the curtain they are devising tactics to trap the scape goat, narcissit especially covert narcissit are fond of public appreciation so they directly don't do any harm to the scapegoat, but indirectly they even dare to kill scape goat (sorry for the delay in replay

  • @florinegrange850
    @florinegrange850 3 місяці тому +1

    That's really profund! I realize we have to heal the original person, the original wounder first . That's not easy to see clearly when we are in thoses dynamics since a while , that's paintful but it liberating . Thank you so much . I resonate 💓

  • @btlfilmmedia9514
    @btlfilmmedia9514 3 місяці тому +2

    Thanks you really get it sadly many of us have had to breakaway from family and our children who are caught in the web of lies and trauma

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  3 місяці тому +1

      Yes I absolutely agree! It’s so painful but it is the only way to freedom and healing ✨

    • @spaceskipster4412
      @spaceskipster4412 3 місяці тому

      True 😢

  • @dv52528
    @dv52528 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Candace ❤

  • @neolovesworshipsthegoddess13
    @neolovesworshipsthegoddess13 3 місяці тому

    Thank you

  • @moonstar4806
    @moonstar4806 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi Ma'am hope you are doing well? Thanks for sharing this video. I didn't know much earlier how narcissistic people take much advantage of good ones. Unfortunately I am surrounded by alot of them at work and they try to always full message down. I recently again started working out and I am trying to cope up with all the damages. I used always blame myself for everything but I need to heal alot. :)

  • @allylight8656
    @allylight8656 3 місяці тому

    What makeup are you wearing I love ❤️ ❤❤

  • @lindahowe7221
    @lindahowe7221 3 місяці тому

    Candace ! What time Friday is Truth Room I signed up I missed first one was it taped how can I listen to it before Friday ? I live East NJ! How many weeks is truth room? I want to join inner in April I’m loving listening to you ! Thank you. Linda Howe

  • @lovetobe30
    @lovetobe30 3 місяці тому +2

    Why do we have the feeling to help them heal? 😫

    • @kobra4422
      @kobra4422 3 місяці тому +2

      Because you're good person but also you're not fully aware of your power and godness so you want to help others before you can be comfortable in yourself.

    • @lovetobe30
      @lovetobe30 3 місяці тому +1

      @@kobra4422 I am a good person indeed!! Thats why I have trouble to believe that other people can be so bad. Because I have been taking alot of abuse because of that!

    • @rongike
      @rongike 3 місяці тому

      @@lovetobe30they are sooo scared and unsure of themselves, that they just lack the brain capacity to gaf about the needs of anyone else bc they can barely sustain their own basic needs.

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  3 місяці тому +1

      I call it the unhealed empaths syndrome. You think If you fix them they will finally love you properly. You value becomes how you serve them

    • @lovetobe30
      @lovetobe30 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@CandacevanDellThat means I dont feel worthy! Thats so sad😢

  • @brittanyann869
    @brittanyann869 3 місяці тому +1

    So how did you come up with this info?

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  3 місяці тому

      A decade of coaching and studying abuse victims and narcissist themselves. I dive into the original family system and the generational tribal wounds as well

  • @PathosTaeManicCartoon
    @PathosTaeManicCartoon 3 місяці тому

    You see i`m necromancer Pinecyan (A 1)cause vomit matters to chicken (A 2)