9 Female ENFPs w/ Heart of Michi, Ask A Hippie, Lexa, Ori, Madeline, Kels, Deb D, Mandy Jones, Aisha
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- Опубліковано 19 жов 2024
- 9 ENFP females discuss their experiences as ENFPs.
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MY HEART IS FULL
XD MICHAEL
@@JoyceMeng22 I THOUGHT that was Michael!! Cool! I just subscribed to his channel too!
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OMG, 9 female ENFPs!! How fun! 😃 I love your channel Joyce and I like the intros! We need them since we don't know the people. It would be weird and frustrating to just start talking without introductions.
Yes!! All the ENFPs!!! I am here for this energy. Thanks so much for the encouragement to keep doing what I am doing - I'll leave in the intros :)
Thanks for having me, Joyce!
Of course!! You are such a musical genius, Mandy. :) My ears thank you for coming on.
I like how the panel was well-represented by different enneagram types! Something I've been thinking about is a panel of the same enneagram type but different MBTI personalities. I think it would help untangle the expression of cognition from the person's cognitive process.
What helped me think of this is watching Shan deliver capsules of concentrated knowledge during this discussion. As a 5/4 INFJ I've done the same exact thing in similar discussion groups. But till now I had always considered that knowledge drop an Ni thing even though any type could have the same characteristics. Now I know to look much deeper towards their cognitive process. Thought maybe this would help other people also.
P.S. Joyce, you are quite brave for putting 9 ENFP's on the panel :) It was awesome!
I will definitely host an Enneagram panel with the same Enneagram type but different MBTI personalities someday! Thank you for the kind words, EDventureous :D
As a INFJ male, I adore ENFP females.
Can't blame ya - ENFP females are another level of charming!
I met an ENFP INFJ couple this spring. The male was INFJ so you can get your wish.
@@silentgrove7670ENFPs are my favorite type. Though, as male INFJ I can’t help but feel overwhelmed with their ideas and possibilities, makes me overthink. They’re lovely though and I enjoy being around them.
I am a fellow ENFP and I loved this. I was watching this so intently nodding in validation lol. hope you are all having a nice day. keep it up Joyce you are such a nice person, how much you appreciate everyone.
So glad you enjoyed it, @Jamnetics Blogs! ENFPs represent :)
so relatable 1:25:00 : "people can take us so seriously for one little thing we said“; ironically though on the other spectrum people sometimes don't take us seriously enough.
P.S.: love your talks Joyce! You're an amazing host - asking relevant questions and including everyone in the conversation 🐯
Yes it can be so frustrating for ENFPs to not be taken seriously. Very well said, Sydney! You pointed out a very true phenomena for the personality type.
Thank you so much for the compliment. :) Happy you enjoyed watching.
Around certain people enfps are visibly energized. And then the way they talk they are like the little league baseball coach managing their ‘energy’ team.
Nice analogy!
Thank you for bringing these nine LOVELY ENFP Ladies. Much Love.
Our pleasure! Happy you enjoyed watching :)
LOVED this video!! So great to see NINE ENFPS!!😱😍😃🥰
You ENFPs are literally home to me. :)
Joyce Meng ❤️💕💫🦋love
I LOVE what Mandy said near 1:12. I have discerned this in people as well that some are either always nice to the point of having weak boundaries or backbone or the opposite extreme of being too harsh and tough. For example, people say they are "brutally honest" as if it's something to be proud of. But you don't have to be brutal to be honest. The way I see it, true honesty is never brutal. The reason is that true honesty sees all sides of a person, not just the bad so if you are being brutal you are being very narrowly-focused and only seeing the negative qualities but if you are going to be truly honest, then you have to see the positives as well. People are incredibly complex and there is always a positive aspect to a person. If you choose to ignore that part of them then you can't call yourself honest in my opinion. I am very discerning about this with people I allow into my life. If I detect that they are not able to have the fair heart and mind and good faith with true honesty, then I don't have time for them in my life.
I love this panel. My best friend since junior high (for 38 years) is an ENFP and she is sooooo much like these ladies. She too has a disparate group of friends that are all separate. And she has had issues with her boundaries and had a couple of toxic relationships although I think she's overcome that pretty well. She also thinks she's an introvert sometimes because she enjoys spending time alone. I always tell her, "You can still be an extrovert even if you like alone time. In fact, ENFPs are the most introverted of all the extroverts."
She and I have a perfect friendship for me where we get together once every few months and it's like we just saw each other so we pick up where we left off. We don't have to keep up with each other constantly but when we do get together it's awesome. She would actually want to get together more because she often says she misses me and I had to explain that as an INTJ I am more of the limiting factor because I am always starving for more alone time and never have a chance to miss people. But we do always make a point to get together several times a year and it's always so much fun. We just talk NON-STOP and I am the one who just wants to keep talking all day (we usually spend an afternoon together). After about 6-8 hours she starts to get sleepy (she's more in touch with her Si and goes to bed much earlier than I; so, while she's the one who usually initiates our visits, I'm the one who keeps them going longer. It works so well and we just love each other. We have the BEST conversations.
You're owning this comment section lol
When I put on jeans, my kids always ask me what I’m dressed up for. -Enfp
🤣 this is lovely haha
Whose idea was it to bring in NINE ENFPs? Either way, I’m ready for the chaos! 😅
Chaos in a panel!! Hope you enjoy, Krystal. :)
I was surprised at how subdued they were for enfps 😂. Not all had that bubbly energy.
@@M.Moadeli123 I think the bubbliness only comes out in certain circumstances. Like for me as an ENFP I can be really bubbly at a party, but I will be more subdued most of the time actually.
This is a great talk. I love ENFPs. Its funny how alot of them have like little creases at the side of their mouths like a little sort of smile alot of the time.
The outro music is killer! Oooh and the musician has mixes on her youtube channel.
One of my favorite things is when Joyce ends the video with thank yous for what each type brings to the world. I appreciate the detailed and true observations about what makes each type distinct, and the way it is shared truly feels like the spirit of generosity, bravery, and gratitude.
Thank you, @Rewfrog! Your comment very easily made my day.
Hi there, as an INFP male, I enjoyed the ENFP insight. I have a little knowledge of ENFPs for knowing a couple, and sharing the same dominant functions. Good to get a deeper understanding. Very interesting seeing not one enneagram the same.
Wonderful! Glad it was enriching for you @Mentos jones =].
I am a male ENFP with a female INFP friend. Its a good pairing as we share many similarities. I find few people can connect with Fi and its sensitive nature. My friend is also HSP as am I.
ENFP too here and love hearing this! Relate to so much! From the seeing potential in others, putting others before self, focus level fluctuations.
Here is my contribution on the childhood question topic:
When I was in 1st grade I cornered my mom in the kitchen and asked,
Me: mom you would never lie to me about something that was really, really important to me, would you?
Mom: no of course not. Not if it was really important to you.
Me: Ok it’s really important to me. Is Santa real?
Mom: (jaw drops, and the truth comes out)
Aaaaand I cry and proceed to tell all the neighborhood kids the TRUTH and that the parents have been lying to us this whole time! We deserve the truth! Lifting the veil of the adults LIES!
I still can vividly remember this pain of my own intelligent strategy showing me a hurtful truth. 😤
Class of ENFP women - Chernobyl 2.0 (energy overload)
-INTJ
Ah yes
Oh wow, the outro music by Mandy is wonderful!!
Thank you, Aubrey!
She’s so talented 😍
Ikr?? Mandy is such a talented music artist!!
@@JoyceMeng22 She really is! Thanks for playing it.
Yes I relate 100% to what Kelsie said. And my ENFJ friend also told me to just be myself. I was just so shell-shocked by how my being too much made them feel and didn't want to risk that again.
Oh! Love @Heart of Michi... wanna go and actually listen 🎧 to this now... but my babies aren’t in bed yet for me to binge on anything 😫... lol
Gonna be a midnight binge 🍿 can’t wait 😁
12:25 @deb totally relate to this... it keeps me up at night sometimes haha.
16:51 shape shifter... is that something like OP’s jumper theory
23:36 @joyce meng 😂 that “focus” question really triggered quite a genuine response from everyone... 😅
49:36 @michi agree and a great way to test for trustworthiness.
55:26 lol 👖 my favorite question by far
As a male ENFP, this conversation has been extremely illuminating. Thanks Joyce and all participants ❤
Glad it was enlightening for you, Habib! :) Thank you for watching
THANK YOU JOYCE FOR THIS ENJOYABLE & REALLY INTERESTING ENFP - SESSION❣❣❣
PLZ KEEP ON POSTING MORE ENFP CONTENT, YOUR INSIGHT TO THIS WIRING IS DEEP AND TOO VALUABLE NOT TO BE SHARED!
SO MANY ENFP'S WILL BENEFIT FROM IT. ALSO, THANK YOU ALL 9 ENFP'S FOR SHARING!!!🙏🙏🙏
Thank you! Will do! Your comment made me smile real wide. I appreciate you taking the time to write this, Alexa. :)
oh this will be so exciting 😍
🥰 haha definitely so!! You ENFPs bring me so much joy
Ahahaha any other INTJ's watching this so they can try to better recognize ENFP's in real life? 😆 LOL and 9 person, side by side head shot of facial expressions has made observation much easier. 😁👍
That is SO FUNNY about the pants. I'm going to have to ask my bff about that. Come to think of it, in 38 years I don't think I've ever seen her in a pair of jeans! And she does wear dresses or skirts often. Oh wow! Regarding the arguing/devil's advocate behavior from ENFPs, I have not noticed that. But then again maybe it's because I am INTJ and seeing all sides is pretty natural for me and doesn't feel like an argument? Idk. I was shocked to hear Mandy say that she gets more arguments back from ENFPs that all thinkers combined. I haven't noticed arguing so much as exploring ideas. To me that is really different than arguing or playing devil's advocate (which can feel adversarial); whereas exploring ideas can be a shared activity.
I love mbti vids. My mom also told me to stop asking her questions when I was young because apparently I was relentless.
Ahhhh I can't wait to hear what they have to say this is great I love your videos so much Joyce!! I only saw that part about wearing jeans, I also only own one pair of jeans XD I don't like the feeling of them and I mostly wear skirts and dresses, it's really difficult to wear jeans at home I always disliked it so much and always changed as soon as I got home when I was younger. I could never understand why my ISFJ friend was wearing jeans at HOME all the time..! But sometimes it looks good and feels nice. Haha.
Haha - 1 pair of pants. That's great! 😂 I love that. Thank you for being such an avid watcher of my videos @XGoldenPhoenixX.
Please do more of these discussions panels. I'm finding out so much about myself.
I love your channel. It gave me a great insight into MBTI. Actually I'v got a question. I'm writing an essay about Napoleon Bonaparte and I'm wondering which personality type he might have been. I'm not really good at typing people and I'm new to MBTI but I think he might have been an ENTJ, i guess...
I'm so glad you're enjoying my channel!! :) Much love to you. x
Napoleon is an ESTJ imo. Here's an article on Practical Typing explaining why: practicaltyping.com/2020/08/27/napoleon-bonaparte-estj/
@@JoyceMeng22 Thank you so much!
Eyyy, not everyday you come across another enfp 7w6 sx/sp. Helly Mandy. :)
You seem like myself on first impressions. I can be quite intense for an enfp.
How serendipitous for you to share so much with Mandy. ENFP 7w6 sx/sps represent :)!!
@@JoyceMeng22 And how beautiful your agreeable and affirming fe is. You sweetheart :)
Hey, Sara! It’s fun to hear this! We are definitely our own breed, huh :)
@@mandyjonesmusic absolutely. Do you find your sx/sp making you more subdued and infp like?
To me, being so last I've had moments where I didn't relate to some enfp stereotypes such as being fickle and sociable.
Ohhhh, the quote ending made me sad. I LOVE good quotes and I had a huge collection I had curated on Facebook that I had typed into the the About section and when they updated Facebook, all my quotes disappeared. I was crushed. I still think I'm going to try to recreate the list some day but it's so hard because I worked so hard on it for a really long time and there's no way I'll ever be able to remember them all to get them back. 😢 Fukken Facebook. 😡 I've actually boycotted it since then. I just lost my positive feelings for it after that. I still have my profile but I only go on there like twice a year now.
that's your weak si. don't want to go over the past. get it done or it'll bother you forever!
Joyce you are so right. I m an ENFP and I can’t stand things that make me feel restricted in any way. I agree with them all about pants and jeans. I can’t even hardly stand to get an IV in the hospital even when I need it because it makes me feel restricted
12:56 Speaking of ENFPs don't stick to most of their ideas.
As an INTJ, I tried so hard to keep up with EVERY idea that my ENFP friend had. I would even come up with plans to help her with her plans. And this would always use up so much of my energy, because most of her ideas were so unrealistic from my point of view.
And then she would forget about something that she told me like a few days ago. And that would make me feel so dumb and mad lmao
So I stopped taking ALL of her ideas so seriously, I know that she will forget about them anyway lmao
Yeah, we're just chucking out ideas to see which ones will take hold in out imagination. It's when you see or hear of us actioning our ideas that you need to take it seriously, and then you better get a seat belt because it can be full steam ahead!
I totally relate to asking a question whenever I feel like it hahaha. But yeah it sometimes backfires.
18:03 that's so interesting, I've noticed that ENFPs jump into relationships quickly. I'm an ENFP but I'm the opposite way - maybe it also has to do with childhood, life experiences, enneagram etc.? If I don't feel a special deep connection with someone I don't even want to try... and obviously that's very rare so because of that I don't get into relationships easily at all.
I'm exactly the same, I really just leave it if I don't feel a deeper connection, I can't feel attracted to someone if it never happens... :/
@@XGoldenPhoenixX yep same
Alexandra What enneagram are you? I think I’m a 4w5
@@XGoldenPhoenixX No clue, I relate to: 1 3 4 5 7 8 ... i can't pick just one 😂
Alexandra Haha I see, I could also relate to all it seemed at first XD But then I took a test somewhere, I don’t remember which, and I was mostly 4, 7 and 9, and I relate to all of them but most to 4w5 I think... i don’t take it so seriously though haha, it’s just fun and a bit relieving when people can relate 🌸
HYPEEEE!!
Super excited to see this!! Hey there to my fellow ENFPs!!❤️💕💫🦋
@@ArianaReflects ayyyyy
You are sheer amazingness in a human, Michelle!! Thanks for coming on :))
@@JoyceMeng22 joyce, you are doing amazing things for our community with your channel and im just grateful you are letting me join along in the journey!
Maybe I'm biased, but those ENFP women sure are beautiful!! ♥️🌈
They are SO gorgeous.
Fairy lights are a thing for enfp. - istj
Yess. it seems to be the choice of décor for some ENFPs for sure!
I'm a male ENFP and I can confirm. 😂
OMG even *more* ENFPs!
_Yasss_
😂 A personal heaven for you.
You can tell Joyce is an INFJ... all that nodding (ie validating) oozes Fe. I do that too LOL
*nods to comment*
That’s not an fe thing. That’s an NF or even an Sf thing. Aka what feelers do. Talk to most enfp’s in life and you’ll see them doing this as you talk to them because even though they have Fi, fi is able to understand others emotions and stories and sentiments well and shows validation to the talker in the moment.
@@Julsies7 NF and SF includes Fe. And I was watching the ENFP video... with as much as Joyce was nodding the ENFP crowd had minimal response.
@@grumpyschnauzer I know nf and sf includes Fe- that’s not my point. I’m saying that the nodding of the head is primarily and NF thing (and sometimes sf too - not so much infp but definitely Enfp, enfj, and infj. NF’s are going to nod their head more because their intuition allows them to understand the feelings of others in real time. Enfps actually have a high level of fe despite it not being in their function stack.
And this video is not a good example of nodding because the enfps are not the main speaker here who is facilitating this video. They’re here to share - not run the scene and ensure things go smoothly like Joyce’s job is to.
If you talk to enfps in real life, trust me, you’ll get the nods.
@Joyce, 1:26:00 Explaining Ne is is like a Prosecutor bringing evidence to a Jury. We have collected various facts, over various times and various locations, and various refined situations, but line up in the same category. Trying to explain those thoughts would be the equivalent of winning a court case. No one has time for all of that, and without that explanation, no one understands the logic. For example, I have understood for a long time that many psycopaths and sociopath types are CEO's of corporations and companies, but until an actual study came out making that same point, it would have been pointless to have that conversation with someone who was not Ne.
Totally with Michelle on the friendships, as a Dom Ne.
I dig the outro music lol
Good to know :) Props to Mandy!!
Thank you!!
Deb (not Debbie!) is the sage of all ENFPs in the video :D
Sage Deb has a nice ring to it! I'll be collaborating with Deb sometime soon on my channel again, so stay tuned :)
43:33 - 47:40 The vulnerable giggly and crazy (in a good way) feminine side is what I love about ENFPs (and INFPs) the most. I don't know if I as an ISTP can make you feel like it's safe and appreciated to be that way around me, but it is.
And yeah, it's great when you are also strong and independent and such but if that's all I wanted then I'd probably go looking for a TJ or so.
[I'm thinking primarily about females in a potentially romantic sense here, but I guess it would apply in a platonic setting and with other genders as well.]
Regarding the pants situation. As a male P-type the only way I can relate is like this: I basically only wear Jeans outside the house, because it's the most practical thing a man can wear while still looking adequate and it's resilient enough so that I can move and sit however I want without having to worry about tearing any seams or fabric (it has happened to me with other kinds of pants before). But as soon as I come home I'll immediately switch to sweat pants. There's nothing more comfortable and liberating than this.
This was interesting. I have to ask, does Oriana have any social media?
Let me ask her right now!
You can find her at @orianaaaaa_ on Instagram!
@@JoyceMeng22 Thank you. Does she have a Twitter or Facebook?
@@ghtyz9105 lol
@@JoyceMeng22 lol
i have a friend who asks me how to do something but has not even 1% chance of listening to what i say to the point they already know what they are going to do, so now i am like wasting zero energy on it any more.
WWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWHAT? What a great idea.. prizeworthy
As and an INTJ male, and 6w7, I feel a bit smitten with this group. - especially Madeline, Alexa, Madeline
Subconscious functions, are very variable , for enfp Se and Fe, so some enfps have lots of them, like Jennifer Lawrence and then the ? , is she enfp? Because she has so much Se some people say she is esfp, and other people since she has so much Fe say she is enfj. In any case ...I’m curious.
Wow Beautiful ENFPs - ESTJ
I think Michelle John and Cass of the Mamas and Papas are enfp. Michelle is the original California girl stylistically. So...California dreaming is an enfp ...quote.
25:07 I needed to hear that!!
Just an INFJ coming through getting first-hand knowledge of the ENFP brain. If this was an INFJ panel, it would have been 90 minutes of telepathic silence.
when we're trying out our ideas, i'd agree with joyce, we're overly complicating our ne because while we think we're open, we're really angling for the tribe to agree with our weak fi. we know what we think. we're afraid to lose the tribe. how to overcome fear of rejection?
Is a 9 INFJ panel coming soon?
@36:00 yes, endlessly fascinated about the right people for sure.
@37:24 Aish!!! Me Exactly! I don't want them to get attached because theyre gonna wanta hang out when I don't. 😄🔨
Lots of acquaintances, not eccentric per say
Amazing enfp's!
ENFP here. Wish I was in this crew!
Aaand this is how i know i am ENFP 🎉
Ask A Hippie
Shan
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Honestly the most beautiful is the most quiet.
INTJ 3w4 Sp/Sx.
ENFP females have very cute personality’s, from a INTJ male ;)
I think ENFP women are attractive and desirable; but they don’t seem to want to heed my wishes, necessarily.
I’ve talked to ENFP’s and a lot of them seem quite confused about me as an INTJ and don’t seem to understand what I want from them.
1:20:00 min exactly 💯 1:27:47 min
When joyce asked about focus, im same with them, giggling with that question. All enfps are not good with focus, thats a fact
If ENFPs aren't particularly attached to their ideas in the way us Ni users are, why would they be so grumpy about someone shooting an idea down? Is it less to do with the idea, and more to do with stifling them as a person, or perhaps even life in general?
They're not attached to the idea in the sense that they don't necessarily wantvto makr it happen. But Ne likes when people play with ideas. The ideation phase is not the time to shoot down ideas. There is a time and place for that, later down the line. Ideas beget more ideas - if you shoot down an idea in the ideation phase (I.e. top soon) instead of riffing off it or playing with the idea, the *NFP is unlikely to bring you any more ideas. It's like killing a seed. You can get an entire field of wildflowers from one seed (lots of other ideas), but if you kill the seed, you won't get anything from it. Have you heard of Walt Disney's structure for creating stories? There are different rooms from different parts of the creative process. The first room is the ideation one. In there, you're allowed to come up with the wildest ideas and no one is allowed to shoot down your idea. *NFP types thrive in this room. When they're giving you an idea, theyre not saying they want to make it happen. They don't even want to make it happen (probably).They're asking you to play with the idea with them - speculate, have fun together :)
@@danielleheyns7033 So what happens when an Ni dominant tries to focus your ideas?
i dont have any pants!
Do ENFP’s really like INTJ’s and vice versa?
As an INTJ you can tell me if you don’t like me, I won’t take offense. I usually prefer being left alone and on my own anyway. Not really much of a people person I guess. Only born to work.
I get the idea that most people don’t like INTJ’s…but that’s ok for me. We INTJ’s don’t really care for popularity.
Which of you have your own channels?
Nm, found the description
Joyce would you mind using woman rather then 'females'
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Heart of Michi is QUEEN 👑
31:15 🔨🔨🔨🔨
Oh my an ENFP harem💀
Aw no 8w7 ENFPs?? I feel like we're pretty rare...
Heidi Priebe is a 8w7! :) She's in the other ENFP panel
I’m an INTJ male and I thought all of this was pretty boring. I know everything that they are speaking about, I guess.
Guess I’m not very in favor of Ne; considering it to be a much more inferior function to Ni.
enfps are so damn selfish
Probably an Fe user HAHAHAHAH