The ENFP Brain - Dr. Dario Nardi Author of "Neuroscience of Personality" | PersonalityHacker.com

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  • Опубліковано 22 чер 2019
  • ProfilerTraining.com | Shot live on the main stage of the Profiler Training Class in Washington DC - Former UCLA professor and author, Dario Nardi, has discovered that people of different personality types don't merely rely on different brain regions -- they use their brains in fundamentally different ways.
    In this talk Dr. Nardi demonstrates how the ENFP brain shows up on EEG machines and scanning devices.
    Using colorful anecdotes and brain imagery, Dr. Nardi shares key insights from his lab. Among these insights: how people of different personalities can find and sustain a state of creative flow. This talk references the Myers-Briggs personality type system.
    #ENFP #personality #MBTI

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  • @karthikdill
    @karthikdill 4 роки тому +2269

    You know if you are an ENFP when you read this while the video is playing!

  • @lovelylittlegirl3332
    @lovelylittlegirl3332 4 роки тому +1601

    Making a 2 hour video about ENFPs is the worst thing you could do for ENFPs. So far, I've taken a break to watch three other videos (which I also haven't finished) and keep surfing through the comments.

    • @9Geeple
      @9Geeple 4 роки тому +34

      I made it to 5:04 after daydreaming a bit - X'ing out of this entirely and 4 videos going on other screens - Def have got other things to do hmmm on several tables and in diff rooms Lots 😜 yoga mat work, sewing a top, hunting down & killing bugs, my kaleidoscopes!, gotta keep checking the diffuser I have going; oh yeah my substance of choice is laying out, I forgot

    • @lovelylittlegirl3332
      @lovelylittlegirl3332 4 роки тому +3

      @@9Geeple respect!

    • @armella.h
      @armella.h 4 роки тому +1

      True af xD

    • @rachels5918
      @rachels5918 4 роки тому +19

      At least we’re practiced in the art of coming back to projects and multitasking

    • @lovelylittlegirl3332
      @lovelylittlegirl3332 4 роки тому +2

      @@rachels5918 yeah, I agree

  • @kaashkaash8695
    @kaashkaash8695 4 роки тому +1118

    You know you're and ENFP when you are waiting for him to get to the point....

    • @EspritArkitekt
      @EspritArkitekt 4 роки тому +38

      Enfps never get to the point

    • @noviacalista1408
      @noviacalista1408 4 роки тому +12

      So true🤪🤣🤣

    • @PhenomResurrections08
      @PhenomResurrections08 4 роки тому +68

      @@EspritArkitekt yes we do. Everyone just always misses them.

    • @EspritArkitekt
      @EspritArkitekt 4 роки тому +23

      @@PhenomResurrections08 coz ENFPs either never get to the point or never make their point clear OR have bored their audience with a 3 hour long story that the audience has forgotten what the conversation was even about

    • @Wooist
      @Wooist 4 роки тому +61

      @@PhenomResurrections08 yes we don't talk directly but we use metaphors and we take you on a journey and bring it all together so you get the entire context

  • @noahgmorgan
    @noahgmorgan 4 роки тому +1487

    Definitely an ENFP thing of me to watch a 2 hour lecture to understand myself better

    • @petravanderwalt2830
      @petravanderwalt2830 4 роки тому +21

      Ohhh I can relate👀😁👌👍

    • @fakefakefake7952
      @fakefakefake7952 4 роки тому +17

      Just an Enfp thing, I think are beautiful. Just stopped by to appreciate that. Good day noah

    • @Bharatultra
      @Bharatultra 4 роки тому +42

      Into 2 seconds of this video and I'm here in comments n see what I see🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @mkeyankee9628
      @mkeyankee9628 4 роки тому +5

      That's what's brought me here!♡

    • @thunder_sama8401
      @thunder_sama8401 4 роки тому +5

      Bharat Tanwar oh gosh yes it was two seconds for me as well

  • @Sunny-ip7um
    @Sunny-ip7um 4 роки тому +769

    I'm an ENFP and I've added this to my Watch Later list. You know how we deal with lists, we don't...

    • @Selinabaptiste
      @Selinabaptiste 4 роки тому +40

      700 videos in my watch later 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @Sunny-ip7um
      @Sunny-ip7um 4 роки тому +15

      @@Selinabaptiste I just checked, 172 in mine 🙈 why do we even bother adding it. FOMO but still never get to it. Such a short attention span here.

    • @luffytaro3044
      @luffytaro3044 3 роки тому +12

      Yoo its so trueee damn straight i always see an interesting video title/thumbnail then instead of watching just add in watch later never to be cleared everr again ✌🏻😹

    • @makemusicwithmian1668
      @makemusicwithmian1668 3 роки тому +6

      It's something we truly meet half-way and never feel regret or grief over it, unlike love and ex-boyfriends.

    • @imbored9955
      @imbored9955 3 роки тому +13

      1,139 videos in my watch later 💀

  • @philliplanos
    @philliplanos 2 роки тому +375

    For any ENFPs that just arrived: Start at 21:42 to avoid being discouraged that the information you were looking for isn’t here. Its what I feared but then took on the mission of doing this for all of us ENFPs lol

    • @favouradis
      @favouradis 2 роки тому +3

      😂😂😂😅

    • @officialtrailerify
      @officialtrailerify 2 роки тому +3

      tenkyu I will skip to it XD

    • @heathertoomey7068
      @heathertoomey7068 2 роки тому +21

      This is why I should not feel embarrassed for reading the comments while the video is going.

    • @dogdonut3
      @dogdonut3 2 роки тому +9

      I skipped to 20 minutes in before surfing the comments while listening, then found your comment. Classic.

    • @ntsikeleloncakana1329
      @ntsikeleloncakana1329 2 роки тому +1

      🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 thanks

  • @anonymousperson6805
    @anonymousperson6805 3 роки тому +203

    I would rather watch 200 different videos about an ENFP rather than a hour and 50 minutes vid

  • @weiwen
    @weiwen 4 роки тому +552

    Any other ENFPs started watching in 1.75 speed?

    • @Expireddepression
      @Expireddepression 4 роки тому +23

      I am so curious which ones of us do this, I see this type of comment so often!

    • @Bharatultra
      @Bharatultra 4 роки тому +28

      2.0

    • @mutantmacrophage6653
      @mutantmacrophage6653 4 роки тому +16

      Hey, that's a good idea! I'll start with 1.5x
      - a filthy non-ENFP peasant

    • @taravatrasooli6470
      @taravatrasooli6470 4 роки тому +3

      Me😂😂😂😂

    • @SapirKLeary
      @SapirKLeary 4 роки тому +20

      Can't believe I didn't think about that option before 🤯

  • @annatownsend1869
    @annatownsend1869 4 роки тому +395

    He starts talking about our brains at 12:32

  • @eott42
    @eott42 4 роки тому +350

    “You need to put your half-baked idea back into the philosophy oven.”
    That’s my sentence. - An ENFP

    • @CelestialBlossoms
      @CelestialBlossoms 3 роки тому +3

      LOVE it!

    • @summerrain3695
      @summerrain3695 3 роки тому +4

      I really like your philosophy...OVEN shit I forgot the oven! Nooo! ( sad ENFP looking at black Pizza XD )

    • @bellyfulochelly4222
      @bellyfulochelly4222 3 роки тому

      @@summerrain3695 Exactly lol
      This is why I set timers for everything 👍

    • @thebiggusdonnus8453
      @thebiggusdonnus8453 3 роки тому +8

      @@bellyfulochelly4222 You know you're an ENFP when you clean the entire house while juggling psychology and quantum physics lectures 😂

    • @itsmeraz3008
      @itsmeraz3008 3 роки тому +1

      @@thebiggusdonnus8453 haha, I listen to stuff during cooking and ironing!

  • @rashaseden7062
    @rashaseden7062 Рік тому +49

    As an INFJ, I listened to this in a very protective mode for my ENFPs

  • @danyagha5654
    @danyagha5654 2 роки тому +18

    The best way to describe an ENFP is
    “Idk what I’m doing, but I do know how to do it”

  • @mokari9268
    @mokari9268 3 роки тому +157

    I think 33:44 may be good or meatier for ENFPs, goes into how the ENFP brain works Male/Female and goes onto careers.
    "Career Insights For ENFPs" 52:44 Goes into brain imaging and some anecdotes.
    1:05-1:07 Personal Development and the essence of the ENFP throughout life by decade.

  • @arpitadasgupta9213
    @arpitadasgupta9213 4 роки тому +316

    Being an ENFP i cannot watch such a long video. No matter what is in it. 😁

    • @cheyennenelson1584
      @cheyennenelson1584 4 роки тому +13

      Arpita Dasgupta sane I listen to it to fall asleep

    • @arpitadasgupta9213
      @arpitadasgupta9213 4 роки тому +5

      @@cheyennenelson1584 😂🤓

    • @Copaloma
      @Copaloma 4 роки тому +14

      Hahaa, I watched it in three parts But it took me 5 sessions because I forgot the previous part.

    • @louiselysadulle6082
      @louiselysadulle6082 4 роки тому +5

      Arpita Dasgupta I can but I have to get snacks and breaks.

    • @OskarsFeldmanis
      @OskarsFeldmanis 4 роки тому +16

      The length isn't the issue. You just feel that there is a loooot of filler info. I wish he would be more to the point type of person. I don't need the fluff.

  • @09rew
    @09rew 3 роки тому +97

    “There is no such thing as a stupid question”
    Me as an enfp: I hate when people ask stupid questions

    • @MoPoppins
      @MoPoppins 2 роки тому +2

      An INTJ asks:
      1) Is it because the answer is “obvious,” at least to you?
      2) What do you do when YOU have a “stupid” question? Do you ask it because you really want/need to know the answer, or do you keep it inside out of embarrassment, knowing that derision is possible/imminent? 🤔
      Thanks in advance to anyone who responds! 🤙

    • @barabasztrzynasty1704
      @barabasztrzynasty1704 2 роки тому +6

      @@MoPoppins Might be a late answer but whatever. As an ENFP i can answer: 1: We may not like stupid questions because we consider everything we do then reconsider, then think about it deeply, then look at it from other perspective and we already had a whole conversation with ourselves that explains every aspect of something and someone just asking it so shallowly seems little ignorant mainly because it's for us super obvious. Then we get little annoyed because we have to explain it, so we usually do it with our deep and little quirky way and thus we might seem a little weird and intense (we know it - that's the main reason of annoyance but some of us really love it. Most likely those with more extroverted side - like me and enjoy the silence of amusement about a thing they never thought about .) 2: As for myself i ask every question i can and usually do it in details so i can understand why i can't understand something and the subject LOL. There is also a skill that we naturally have, which is being present and actually focusing on someone, when he tells us a thing we were curious about. So if I ask a question and someone answers, I try to get as much informations as i can and listen respectfully. People love it. ENFPs love to share their knowledge and learn new things (although they aren't usually something they should be doing to make a living, most likely just to feed our hungry of informations brains). I love to confront people with things i learnt and discuss about deeper meaning of subjects. English is not my first language but i tried to express how i see it as well as i could :)

    • @letsreadtextbook1687
      @letsreadtextbook1687 Рік тому

      *evil grin*
      If you squeeze all the juices out of watermelon, can you call the scraps, melon?

    • @09rew
      @09rew Рік тому

      @@letsreadtextbook1687 I think I’ve changed from an enfp to entp

  • @frappalina
    @frappalina 3 роки тому +84

    I'm an enfp and I have been interested with science and art since I was a child. I studied digital media and then ended up as a front-end developer for around 10 years. Then I got into UX and became a digital product designer. The perfect career. I'm enjoying it so much.

    • @favouradis
      @favouradis 2 роки тому +2

      I'm happy for you 😊💚❤👏

    • @user-sj9lt2gv7q
      @user-sj9lt2gv7q 2 роки тому +1

      Thinking to fell there, also enfp a

    • @janissevalenzuela
      @janissevalenzuela 2 роки тому +6

      @frappacantu Wow, you answered the question I have been having for a while…. I’m an ENFP too and I’m curious in joining the UI/UX Design career, do you think this is a good career for long term or only short term? Also what do you think about an ENFP starting a UX Design Agency, is this the perfect career for our type of personality?

    • @federicadefebis2943
      @federicadefebis2943 Рік тому +1

      GANG GANG 💞

    • @ciggytwiggy
      @ciggytwiggy Рік тому +1

      Omg saaameee i am half half

  • @anettehardy19
    @anettehardy19 4 роки тому +85

    “Who’s an ENFP here?” **Me rising my hand and imagining he picks me.... second panel (years later in the future): I end up working with him at his lab even if I am a molecular biologist ** :’D

  • @paulb515
    @paulb515 4 роки тому +116

    As an INFJ not only do I adore my interactions with ENFP but I'm also extremely fascinated by how their minds operate. The best part and makes things easy is they more than often come to very similar conclusions. That makes everything even more interesting. The only annoying part is they have zero concept of time lol but easily forgiven because of their many other virtues.

    • @Mochi_Latte_
      @Mochi_Latte_ 3 роки тому +7

      Thats me ENFP and my daughter INFJ

    • @paulb515
      @paulb515 3 роки тому +11

      @@Mochi_Latte_ for me it feels as in comparison to a moth being drawn to a flame and loving every moment of the interaction without understanding why

    • @darwinwatterson4568
      @darwinwatterson4568 3 роки тому +4

      @@paulb515 wherever you are in the world right now, i love you ;_;
      - enfp :D

    • @paulb515
      @paulb515 3 роки тому +4

      @@darwinwatterson4568 while I have never met you, and no matter your culture or geographical location or gender, I'm sure I'd feel the same way upon if we meet. ENFPs and INFJs always have a connection instantly without explanation. Call it kindred soul's. My most painful and joyous memories revolve around ENFP personalities because they form such close connections.

    • @paulb515
      @paulb515 2 роки тому +2

      @@KenericTheGeneric i do adore them naturally (romantic or not) i don't even need to know what type they are and I still adore them unconsciously like two best friends who have rediscovered each other

  • @Oalbert2
    @Oalbert2 4 роки тому +69

    Its unfortunate but as an ENFP it will be really difficult to listen to this long talk, I listened to first 30seconds, skipped to 30min, went to read comments while the video played, realised I haven't heard anything being talked about. Came to write this comment and about to move to next interesting thing. Hopefully return to this video and start from the 30sec. Cheers. :D

    • @allisonadams3091
      @allisonadams3091 4 роки тому +4

      same

    • @willowstarfeather
      @willowstarfeather 3 роки тому +4

      Albert Offei I listened while writing information about herbs, drinking tea and moved onto cooking dinner. I usually drive and listen like in pod casts. I did have to watch a couple of times but I found doing other easy tasks while listening easier. If I had to watch I’d try eating dinner. Just some tips I’ve learnt over the years.

    • @hannalugg537
      @hannalugg537 3 роки тому +5

      Omg me too, this is way too much talking instead of presenting. He needs more bullet points and use more visuals to connect everything

    • @seanohays3275
      @seanohays3275 2 роки тому

      ngl i had to grab a smoke just walked back in this shit fire bro

    • @freedom7475
      @freedom7475 2 роки тому

      I know, toooo looong

  • @cup_o_TMarie
    @cup_o_TMarie 2 роки тому +16

    ENFP here & I researched some kitchen gadgets, organized all my kitchen drawers & cooked an entire meal from scratch to get through this and it was fascinating & bang on🙏🥰👏👏👏

  • @ranganaa
    @ranganaa 3 роки тому +58

    You're an ENFP if you're forwarding to sections you really wanna know about!!!

  • @thomaskourkoulis5726
    @thomaskourkoulis5726 4 роки тому +149

    ENFP*
    "I'm both interested and skeptical about this Myers Briggs system in general, as well as my being labeled ENFP in particular. Let me watch three hours of this point of view to understand it better."

    • @API-Beast
      @API-Beast 4 роки тому +6

      At first I was 9% sure I was ENFP (e.g. I thought I was ENTP but related a lot to ENFP), then I was 90% sure, then I was 99% sure, gotta get to that 99.9% somehow!

    • @PowerRedBullTypology
      @PowerRedBullTypology 4 роки тому +18

      it's typically ENFP to a distrust in being labeled" though...

    • @marvri9672
      @marvri9672 4 роки тому +3

      I resonate with this comment.

    • @PowerRedBullTypology
      @PowerRedBullTypology 4 роки тому +1

      @@API-Beast then just keep doing what you were doing to become more sure!

    • @PhenomResurrections08
      @PhenomResurrections08 4 роки тому +9

      You know you're an ENFP when you're constantly trying to find reason to change one of your letters and continue to fail miserably at it.

  • @kouloudgzima2299
    @kouloudgzima2299 4 роки тому +85

    can anyone give us the summary of this two hours lecture? I feel my life is slipping away listening to him trying to be funny AGHHHH

    • @ENFPerspectives
      @ENFPerspectives 4 роки тому +11

      @Kouloud Gzima
      Yeah he planned soooo poorly.
      But you can fast forward speed 1.75-2x speed 🙌🙌

    • @Fairybook896
      @Fairybook896 4 роки тому +27

      me an enfp lookin for a shortcut in the comments-plz someone post a summary

    • @Cymatic-Mage
      @Cymatic-Mage 3 роки тому +12

      He comes off as an INTP. Im INTJ and usually love listening to this type stuff while i work. It would help him if he were to record this... alone. And watch it a bunch of times and take notes on how to streamline his message. Just opinion

  • @ssLau633
    @ssLau633 4 роки тому +159

    The ENFP in me giving up listening to this guy. Losing patience.. sorry.

    • @ENFPerspectives
      @ENFPerspectives 4 роки тому +12

      He needed to plan this a lot more initially.

    • @dianag.1997
      @dianag.1997 4 роки тому +7

      And I was thinking, how would I feel , in case I would be on this lecture as an enfp and the lecture would be not on my type... how these other types managed to listen?:)) it is very interesting, though lots of datas and terms, I decided to quit too, but I'll be back))

    • @veraelina3009
      @veraelina3009 4 роки тому +7

      He’s rambling too much. Maybe he doesn’t really know what to say.

    • @samanthamarino4639
      @samanthamarino4639 3 роки тому

      Infj - in 3 min... the lack word economy made me wish he was British. 😅

  • @GBS4893
    @GBS4893 3 роки тому +58

    Self management is like "Everything is flying around me like a tornado but i have my stuff together."
    Yup, very relatable indeed ! xD
    But when i think about it, with the emphasis on processing and not on deciding i let you imagine the doubt factory running.

  • @Vuongedge
    @Vuongedge Рік тому +9

    ENFP here. I've worked on all my weaknesses and turned them into strengths. I'm far from completely but I feel like such a powerful sunshine of a human being. To all the other ENFPs out there, keep at it you're a wonderful type of person for this world :)

  • @nightmaredawn7333
    @nightmaredawn7333 4 роки тому +164

    darn I just day dreamed after the first 3 minutes...

    • @acharich
      @acharich 4 роки тому +1

      😅😅😅

    • @sandrad9695
      @sandrad9695 3 роки тому +1

      Lol!

    • @makemusicwithmian1668
      @makemusicwithmian1668 3 роки тому +6

      Took me 1 year to appreciate his talk until the end: he was teaching ENFP to be a better listener over the year.

    • @TNord.
      @TNord. 3 роки тому

      I can’t take in information that is slow, linear, and dry

  • @CelestialBlossoms
    @CelestialBlossoms 3 роки тому +22

    I'm an ENFP who loved Math as a kid and even in Uni. I was the kid who destroyed the curve on the test. LOL!

    • @Mochi_Latte_
      @Mochi_Latte_ 3 роки тому +3

      Me too

    • @presleyburk
      @presleyburk 2 роки тому +1

      mine is history. i feel bad for my class lol! we were all freshmen too taking the curriculum from a college (so not dual credit but actual just freshmans taking a college us history class). every single exam a straight 100!

    • @CelestialBlossoms
      @CelestialBlossoms 2 роки тому +2

      My final semester in Uni, I took all those classes I had been avoiding like Philosophy, Sociology, and other Social Sciences and realized that I really enjoyed social sciences. I would've been a sociology major had I found it earlier. It was so very interesting. Not sure if I could do anything with a sociology bachelors degree. But everything turns out the way it does for a reason. I was meant to study Math and Biological & Life Sciences in uni.

    • @AnneDalton82
      @AnneDalton82 9 місяців тому

      Man I'm an enfp who absolutely loathes math 😭😭
      But I am a magician with putting words together, writing, literature, telling a story? Sign me up. Adding numbers to that occasion?? Sign me out ☠️

  • @shellyk7049
    @shellyk7049 4 роки тому +60

    I'm an ENFP and find this really interesting, but I'm having to skip at lot Haha as all I can hear is blah blah blah, he should do a bullet point list for ENFPs. Thank you for the vid though.😊

    • @makemusicwithmian1668
      @makemusicwithmian1668 3 роки тому

      =)))))))

    • @lalalanding234
      @lalalanding234 2 роки тому +1

      Lol after seeing that it's a two hour video, even I skipped to 1:50 so that I can end it quickly

  • @melinamadrigal
    @melinamadrigal 2 роки тому +28

    I am an ENFP, film student and all of my friends family say I have adhd tendencies. I often complain about how busy my mind feels focused on too many things at once and how I try to follow too many paths and passions as once because I can’t decide on just one. This talk was so amazing and interesting I feel like it read me like a book and put into words exactly how I feel most of the time like I finally understand why I am drawn to certain things and notice/ think about things differently than some of my friends. It seems to all make sense perfectly and my mind is blown!!

    • @essennagerry
      @essennagerry Рік тому +1

      I'm ENFP and I also have ADHD and probably CPTSD too.
      A lot of ADHDers say they experiences negatives and positives. I see it this way: the ADHD spectrum of positives and negatives could be layed out in this way:
      Only positives: You're a healthy ENFP
      Positives and negatives: regular ole ADHD with or without other conditions
      Only negatives: CPTSD, or ADHD with CPTSD, regardless of personality type.
      Now I feel super weird bcs I feel I'm an ENFP with ADHD and CPTSD lol but if I didn't figure thigs out in the order in which I did it would have been very hard to figure it out. It had to go like personality --> neurodivergency --> trauma. I tried seeig the trauma before I had seen the neurodivergency and I couldn't. It had to fall into place in this order.
      It will probably take me a few years to heal but I'm actually quite excited to make videos about these three things. ADHD is so difficult to figure ot and people often struggle to distinguish what is ADHD, what is just personality, what is trauma, what could be related to another mental health issue, etc. I think I happen to be a combo that has an interesting perspective that might help people distinguish. But I think I need to do some personal healing first and grow more in my personal life and then I can attempt to put out my view. But I hope this was interesting to read!

  • @freedom7475
    @freedom7475 2 роки тому +4

    Anyone else always have music/songs always playing in the background in your mind?

  • @silentgrove7670
    @silentgrove7670 4 роки тому +78

    Telling an ENFP "It's nice to have you in the lab", especially with that voice tone, isn't going to win you any points with us,

    • @layloxxx4196
      @layloxxx4196 4 роки тому +8

      The tonnnnneeee!

    • @silentgrove7670
      @silentgrove7670 4 роки тому +4

      @@layloxxx4196 Its around the 5:15 mark when I noticed it. I cannot even put my finger on it exactly.

    • @layloxxx4196
      @layloxxx4196 4 роки тому +1

      It's as if he was trying to pacify enfps. Eekk!

    • @AzaresAscending
      @AzaresAscending 4 роки тому +11

      I’m an ENFP and I met Dario to get my brain scanned. He is beyond kind and friendly.

    • @jume2685
      @jume2685 3 роки тому

      ENFP labrats

  • @chrissy9876
    @chrissy9876 4 роки тому +61

    Left handed ENFP here and I was super interested to hear if there was any differences and was kinda disappointed when he was like ‘eh, not really’. 😂 I wanna be more special

    • @superbettynow
      @superbettynow 4 роки тому +7

      I'm ENFP and as a teenager I wished I was lefthanded so I could be more special lol. So I practiced and I still show off (at 42 yrs old) that I can write very well with my left hand!

    • @mimibilling1770
      @mimibilling1770 4 роки тому +1

      Haha same.

    • @8o8en
      @8o8en 4 роки тому +1

      sameee

    • @thebiggusdonnus8453
      @thebiggusdonnus8453 3 роки тому +1

      @@superbettynow I learned German and French just to impress people 😂

    • @tessfairbridge
      @tessfairbridge 3 роки тому +1

      Oh but are you a left handed child of a left handed mother? Apparently my brain is switched. I hope someone scans it one day to find out if I'm a lefty with a righty brain. Because I'm a ENFP and love to be special ☺️😆

  • @harshitasarote2.0
    @harshitasarote2.0 2 роки тому +11

    Procrastinated for a year to watch it😭
    Finally, I'm here.. Hoping to finish it in a day 💕 ENFP peers 😂

  • @Selinabaptiste
    @Selinabaptiste 4 роки тому +12

    Who else scrolled through the comments and went to all the time stamps. 😂✌🏽

  • @barshaadhikari8973
    @barshaadhikari8973 3 роки тому +10

    Now I realize, I've never had a favorite color or flower or number. I always search for the best, the perfect one. Never had anything that screams 'favourite' in my 26 yrs of life.

  • @getreadywithmemamma6973
    @getreadywithmemamma6973 4 роки тому +25

    I’m a female ENFP and I tie a knot like a mother. I’m also a mother 😉🥰I was voted most overly energetic in high school, I’m a social butterfly, master of none, enthusiast of all, changes my major five times, have to bachelors and a semester of grad school... I am almost scary intuitive sometimes and can read a room which works in my job as a nurse... I started school in engineering and winged around music, psych and speech path. I loved this lecture thank you.

  • @myrrabaity7033
    @myrrabaity7033 3 роки тому +7

    When he was like “puppies” and “business deals” , I was thinking of what kinda business deals you can do with puppies, and then he said “usually places take care of puppies and cats seperately” , I was thinking about how that would work out and how maybe one place can .... before I could finish that thought he said “someone out there has thought of a business deal and good for them”, as an ENFP.... I felt like I was caught! How did he know I would be thinking about this?! You caught me Professor dude.

  • @Fernandapazlolas
    @Fernandapazlolas Рік тому +4

    “Inside an ENFP mind”
    Me being an INFJ like:
    🧐🧐🔍🔦👀👀👩‍🔬🌡️🧪
    …😦😦😦😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

  • @casian.l.mengher
    @casian.l.mengher 4 роки тому +17

    I'm a Dyslexic ENFP and "I love my brain"
    😂😂😂

  • @sophiaredwood5825
    @sophiaredwood5825 3 роки тому +6

    Time to save this to my watch later playlist with just about 800 videos on it

  • @sodaa2489
    @sodaa2489 3 роки тому +5

    Ooh my God, soon as he said "puppies and business deals", I was already cooking up a pet stores business.

  • @BenedictGS
    @BenedictGS 3 роки тому +23

    Book mentioned:
    -Character and personality type
    -Our brains in color
    -8 Keys to Self-Leadership: From Awareness to Action

  • @CaptainPnut1
    @CaptainPnut1 4 роки тому +96

    I’ve always been confused as I’m going through the treatment for ADHD but I found out I’m an ENFP. Does that mean I don’t have adhd and it’s just my personality orrrr what?

    • @andreaholliday6845
      @andreaholliday6845 4 роки тому +59

      It's quite possible. ENFPs like us have trouble focusing, especially on stuff that doesn't interest us.

    • @nataliecampos1732
      @nataliecampos1732 4 роки тому +7

      Yup, same thing happened to me as a kid.

    • @jamesmatthewcastillo2540
      @jamesmatthewcastillo2540 4 роки тому +13

      Yup same here, you just gotta train your mind to stop being so erratic and random lmao

    • @Gee-xb7rt
      @Gee-xb7rt 4 роки тому +6

      adhd is more than just trouble focusing. people with adhd ignore social boundaries, things like pushing people, pulling hair, spontaneously roughhousing at inappropriate times in inappropriate places, taking other people's belongings without permission, refusing to wait your turn, not just being impatient about waiting. A friend of mine is actually adhd, he used to jump out his bedroom window at night and sneak around in neighbors yards, getting into their stuff, etc. That kind of socially inappropriate behavior should be part of an adhd diagnosis, and its really pretty awful they just slap everyone with adhd to collect a check.

    • @CaptainPnut1
      @CaptainPnut1 4 роки тому +3

      gisforgary that is true yeah I was talking to a friend of mine who has that type of adhd too. She was saying she would beat up her brother and got into a lot of trouble at school.
      There are a few different types of adhd (in my humble research anyway), I however don’t have that hyperactive type, I would seem to have the one that is generally missed by teachers and everyone because I basically just blend in (inattentive type). It is a spectrum though so what one person with adhd has symptoms of another person might not. (Stop me if I’m ranting 😅)

  • @henkster6067
    @henkster6067 4 роки тому +68

    If you listen carefully, you can imagine that he is Sheldon Cooper talking to you about ENFPs,Which would never happen bwhaha! Must be an accent thing...

    • @Copaloma
      @Copaloma 4 роки тому +3

      Hahaa, that's what it was. Sheldon!

    • @ABG-yc7mo
      @ABG-yc7mo 4 роки тому +2

      sounds a little like Jordan Peterson and Kermit the frog as well

    • @StorytellingHeadshots
      @StorytellingHeadshots 4 роки тому +2

      Kermit the Peterson! :)

    • @ANGEL-eh6pd
      @ANGEL-eh6pd 3 роки тому +1

      Haha, thats exactly who I had in mind. Sheldon Cooper, for sure. I'm reading, while listening. Lol

  • @gronkigrolsk6782
    @gronkigrolsk6782 3 роки тому +5

    I found this so difficult to listen to. Think I will have to come back to it, was deliberate to stop ENFP’s having an insight into themselves 😂😂

  • @misterworldwide2793
    @misterworldwide2793 3 роки тому +6

    I don’t know any other ENFP in my environment I always felt different man

  • @ArtyMars
    @ArtyMars 4 роки тому +52

    I suddenly feel violated and attacked after discovering Dr. Dario is an INTJ haha of course he is qualified to ROAST the entire ENFP subsection of MBTI that's their specialty haha xD - ENFP

  • @tessfairbridge
    @tessfairbridge 3 роки тому +7

    While watching this on fast speed and reading the commends, jumping through time stamps etc, I saw a comment on ENFPs being like Eevees (my favourite Pokemon of course) and made a connection to a game I was playing wurh my child earlier today in which I chose the power shapeshifter, and realized that shapeshifter should just be part of my brand so I can stop trying to figure out what "my thing" is - given I write music and sing, and write, and lead circles, and love cultural commentary and and - and basically I realized we all have superpowers, and it doesn't matter what they are, we just have to learn to embrace them.

  • @ryr1974
    @ryr1974 4 роки тому +14

    Totally resonate with the description of my type (ENFP) and at the same time I think this type of inquiry is about as reliable as astrology.

  • @skiara4113
    @skiara4113 3 роки тому +9

    Is it only me who played this at 1.5x speed! Or do I have more ENFPs in my team?

  • @geheimeplaats
    @geheimeplaats 4 роки тому +10

    I must admit I might watch this in 5 sessions now that I know about the DOUBLE SPEED button!
    Thx for those comments. It is actually the perfect tempo. Sometimes he even seems to talk at a regular speed. Conclusion: he is sloooow :D.

  • @eilidhcordner3149
    @eilidhcordner3149 4 роки тому +25

    The first thing I thought when I saw the length of the video was ‘no enfp will sit through this entirety of this video in one sitting...’ 😂😬

    • @artbykuhoo
      @artbykuhoo 4 роки тому +3

      i went and ate lunch, did some drawing and the came back...and realized I dropped my tea last night - so I had to go clean that up. ad now i' like - I should really go practice dance...and I still have 30 mins left

    • @camrongraziano1254
      @camrongraziano1254 3 роки тому +2

      I did not sit through it all....I tried, gave up at about 1 h 30 m 🤷🏼‍♂️ he stops talking directly about us. 😅

  • @AzaresAscending
    @AzaresAscending 4 роки тому +14

    That participant who was attracted to the intern at 18:20-18:33... was me 😅🤣🙃

    • @frappalina
      @frappalina 3 роки тому +1

      How cute is that. I hope she sees the vid and you get her number

  • @nissamartinson4578
    @nissamartinson4578 4 роки тому +65

    You said something about watching ENFPs untie knots... One of the things I have always laughed at about myself, is the fact that I hate opening packages. I’m extremely impatient, and I just want the damn thing open. Usually resulting in a torn bag/box. It seems to frustrate other people, and I’ve tried to work on it, but I don’t know why I have no patience. I just give up even if it means ripping a package fully open where I have to use a Ziploc bag etc. for chips or something... 😂

    • @JanetPhillipsTheGrassIsGreener
      @JanetPhillipsTheGrassIsGreener 4 роки тому +3

      Wow! Ok!!!! YUHP! Chip clips ih huh!!! :) I am an enfp too that is married to an istj-a "The Logistician", and he doesn't get that I do that and that I have little success at changing it lol. That's so funny!

    • @barbararay1389
      @barbararay1389 4 роки тому +1

      @@JanetPhillipsTheGrassIsGreener good luck amd god bless you witj your istj dictator!😂

    • @barbararay1389
      @barbararay1389 4 роки тому +1

      You will rarely find a lid on my perfumes or body sprays etc.. I also rip bags or use my teeth.😂 We are super fast and and theirs no slowing us down. My istj soon to be X husband(abusive dictator) would get really pissed at these traits and im like who gives a shit? Why do i need a lid on my perfume or spray or anything that won't leak or get stale, etc.? 😂 this question i proposed and duh, he has no reason other than its the traditional way!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Em-jj2hp
      @Em-jj2hp 2 роки тому

      I once was so excited to open a package I accidentally cut my hand :((

    • @Chigger
      @Chigger 2 роки тому +2

      I'm very bad at opening things quietly, but I'm naturally skilled at untying knots and unwrapping candy bars with tearing the wrapper much (if at all).

  • @aditikulkarni8552
    @aditikulkarni8552 2 роки тому +3

    i am cleaning and listening cuz its so interesting! Plus if i sat and focused completely on the lecture, I'd give up in 5 minutes😂

  • @sinclairportis4812
    @sinclairportis4812 4 роки тому +29

    Fellow ENFPs just skip around a bit (or a lot) its okay!

  • @lauranatalie1434
    @lauranatalie1434 3 роки тому +4

    "Yeah, I've got my stuff together!"
    *stuff flies around them like a tornado*

  • @iolemaffei
    @iolemaffei 3 роки тому +7

    As an ENFP I was cooking and cleaning whilst listening to this😂 But very interesting lecture

  • @sechale
    @sechale 3 роки тому +11

    Haha 17:30: ENFP are drawn to business management ... eventually they're like "Ooh, money!" it true

  • @pearl6038
    @pearl6038 2 роки тому +6

    I watched it all! BOOYA! (I took the comments as motivation - determined to prove it wrong) 😅
    Dario is great. I’ve never gotten close to an INTJ so this was an interesting observational opportunity.
    I recognise a trait in myself - the propensity to trail off down every single thought in detail so no one can misconstrue my meaning. I feel more understanding for sensory types who just want you to get to the point 😅
    I feel proud of the fact we female ENFPs are more inclined to all over neural firing, and more self compassion that that’s pretty darn exhausting so no wonder I can’t do and practically achieve the things more linear (boring) types can and do 😜

  • @KarinSch18
    @KarinSch18 2 роки тому +3

    added this video about a year ago to my watch later list. Now came back to it but only because UA-cam algorithm kicked in😂 I am an enfp

  • @Soleille777
    @Soleille777 2 роки тому +2

    a free lecture on how my brain works, im blessed. Now ive started studying myself

  • @drowningblonde
    @drowningblonde 4 роки тому +2

    Dario Nardi is amazing, i could listen to him talk all day.

  • @coniferous6330
    @coniferous6330 3 роки тому +3

    Bold of you to assume I’ll stay for an entire hour and 55 minutes

  • @peppylemon1717
    @peppylemon1717 4 роки тому +5

    LOL As an intj i already had the urge to fast forward to get to the point. Im glad I didnt. Good information :) Will keep it in mind for my husband who is an ENFP

  • @neurologicalworms
    @neurologicalworms Рік тому +2

    I am an INFP and unllike my extroverted counterparts I actually picked this particular video because of how long it was. 😂 I figured a longer video means I don't have to keep going back to find a new video on the topic every 5 minutes.
    Anyway I really enjoy the research done by this man and would love to keep hearing more as he continues to research. I learned a lot here.
    Love you ENFPs. You're really my kinda people❤

  • @WinterSistaCh.STALIVE
    @WinterSistaCh.STALIVE Рік тому +2

    my ENFP friend is Whimsical... He keeps changing thoughts and goals. One day he likes Malaysia, so he went Malaysia to study Malay and made Malay friends..next day, he's into Spanish and he stopped talking to the Malay friends suddenly... He also said that he used to love Japan and studied Japanese...what a life ahaha

  • @brucebruno842
    @brucebruno842 3 роки тому +19

    In 2nd grade, I was thought to maybe have ADD or ADHD, but I was just a socially active intuitive, INFJ. A Dr. recommended that I stop drinking drinks with red dye and high sugar content; which obviously helped, but yeah I can see how intuitives can be seen to have ADD or ADHD at a young age. I wonder how many are just put on medication to make them focus instead of them developing a framework in which to focus from and in.

    • @jedizombiekiller9065
      @jedizombiekiller9065 2 роки тому +1

      For a 2nd, and probably now 3rd grader, thats a great observation. Great to see that prodigies still exist.

    • @DanniBby
      @DanniBby 8 місяців тому

      What’s interesting is that it could actually be both as if intuitive could present as adhd because they do actually have a different dopamine and interest based nervous system than others.

    • @DanniBby
      @DanniBby 8 місяців тому

      @@jedizombiekiller9065they’re not still in 2nd grade lol they meant when they were in 2nd grade

    • @jedizombiekiller9065
      @jedizombiekiller9065 8 місяців тому

      @@DanniBby lmao i realized far too late

  • @K10House
    @K10House 6 місяців тому

    I've been feeling increasingly shallow about my deep appreciation for the way some people look, and now I know it's actually a facet of my brain. Yay!

  • @holonaut
    @holonaut 3 роки тому +2

    As an ISTP I watched the video nonstop, apart from 3 cigarette breaks in between and at the 1 hour mark realised that I have to get up in 5 hours. Gonna watch the rest tomorrow

  • @mavr1215
    @mavr1215 3 роки тому +3

    Definitely a more zen and introverted ENFP now in my late 50’s ...thank goodness!

  • @tatsymarie3196
    @tatsymarie3196 4 роки тому +15

    I had an idea for a couple of experiments. They may have already been tried, but just in case this is what I thought of. The first one was having a person of one type blindfolded, and having a person from each of the other types randomly and quietly enter the room near them to see how and if there is a brain response. the second was to have one person of each type seated in a circle with opposing types across from one another (like poles) and see what responses happen. I would love to know if you've already tried these, or if you do what happens.

  • @Chigger
    @Chigger 2 роки тому +6

    Of course we don't memorize by repetition. We absorb knowledge by osmosis.

  • @claudiamunsell4943
    @claudiamunsell4943 3 роки тому +9

    This is incredibly interesting with the p/j convergence. I’m a 20 year old enfp female who has noticed and taken the test multiple times in the past 3 years and noticed I am more or less 50% on the tests now where before I was definitely far leaning on the p. I’ve actually been looking for an explanation and this is perfect!

  • @lauramccann18
    @lauramccann18 3 роки тому +6

    A video of ENFPs that it's not for ENFPs.

  • @Niaxe111
    @Niaxe111 2 роки тому +7

    Being competitive within a strategic and fast pace game has given me so many benefits of being more focused, efficient, problem solving, all the things that i used to lack. My confidence in engaging more intellectuals has gone up 10x

    • @magy180300
      @magy180300 Рік тому +1

      How did you do it¿

    • @Niaxe111
      @Niaxe111 Рік тому +1

      @@magy180300 Having the passion for the game, and the desire of wanting to be better competitively, was the foundation. Once established, I had a goal in mind then studied, practiced, and implemented the teachings from people already at the level I wanted to be at.

  • @timothyguscoth490
    @timothyguscoth490 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Dr. Dario for sharing your research, methods and personality

  • @pennycurry2791
    @pennycurry2791 Рік тому +1

    You are very, very interesting..
    When I started studying ENFPs.
    At first, you were too much for me.
    I was baby stepping into the simple explanations of the personality.
    Love Love Love, This!!

  • @patricklennox9572
    @patricklennox9572 4 роки тому +14

    What about ENFPs who have synesthesia? What is the percentage of ENFPs with synesthesia? How would that affect the brain wiring diagram? Thanks.

  • @lemonjoyce3018
    @lemonjoyce3018 3 роки тому +3

    Guys I managed to get to 1 hour. I did a 3 hour nap an homework and I binge watched Pinterest but I did it

  • @justwondrin
    @justwondrin 7 місяців тому

    BRAVA!🎉 I’ve found my people! Thank you so much for this. I’m going to bring this to my Vocational Rehab counselor. I’m on disability, with a multi-faceted career involving communications/media/marketing/performance, 80% of the time self employed. Trying to find part-time work on disability approaching 60 is proving to be a big challenge. Vocational Rehab usually trades in pretty boring jobs. My counselor has been amazing, giving me years to get healthy, and totally open to helping me be self-emplowed again someday.

  • @SageMakesArt
    @SageMakesArt 4 роки тому +1

    I had to look up "ruminate" and it said think deeper as a definition but also "chew the cud". I couldn't help but laugh.

  • @august4838
    @august4838 2 роки тому +7

    I wish some INTJ came up here and made time stamps notes for us , ENFPs :3

  • @Kutthroatkawaii
    @Kutthroatkawaii 4 роки тому +11

    So ENFP's are Eevee's. That sounds about right.

    • @darwinwatterson4568
      @darwinwatterson4568 2 роки тому +1

      please tell me what this comment means oh my god do you mean eevee the pokemon, i dont know any other eevees lmao, and if so that's great

  • @lucianabolissima923
    @lucianabolissima923 3 роки тому +1

    I had such high hopes for this video

  • @srishtimishra8914
    @srishtimishra8914 4 роки тому +5

    Dw I’m sure I can watch this entire video
    In a week

  • @aditikulkarni8552
    @aditikulkarni8552 2 роки тому +4

    professor is amazing!

  • @oll236
    @oll236 3 роки тому +4

    I wish his tools were open source to test myself

  • @shea5542
    @shea5542 3 роки тому

    This is so interesting. Thank you

  • @aniokay
    @aniokay Рік тому

    I swear, this man is comedic gold.

  • @AnnaMidnightStar
    @AnnaMidnightStar 3 роки тому +2

    38:00 I'm an ENFP female and I literally have synaesthesia, which can give you an idea of how much my brain likes to fire up different parts simultaneously (the strong whole brain pattern)

  • @MeghanBean
    @MeghanBean 3 роки тому +3

    slightly defensive when he said we couldn't tie... knots lol
    *my C3 is AMAZING ty v much i came here to compliment fish*
    ..i need to go to bed

  • @acethebusydoctor2854
    @acethebusydoctor2854 Рік тому

    Thank you for taking your time to study us. Reading comments to get the quick full gist.

  • @oll236
    @oll236 3 роки тому +2

    Loved this talk

  • @mimibilling1770
    @mimibilling1770 4 роки тому +4

    I am a left handed Enfp. I think that the comment pertaining to that, it's at about 1:18:30, is interesting. I wonder perhaps if it could play out in my musicianship and fine motor skills. I have always been good at memorization, and I have been playing piano for over ten years. Just a curious observation. I am still terrible at dancing and other larger motor skills and coordination related actions, though.

  • @AngelicaAtomic
    @AngelicaAtomic 3 роки тому +8

    I am a 40 year old female ENFP but I’ve followed traditionally masculine career paths. I can’t wait to be age 55 and have my whole brain light up again. I think this is where we ENFPs are meant to be without the toxic masculinity culture (even as I kind of have a love for that culture as it was what it got me to go somewhere with my life.)

  • @extylerm
    @extylerm 6 місяців тому

    Super insightful.

  • @wenhanzhou5826
    @wenhanzhou5826 5 місяців тому +1

    I am on the INFJ spectrum, I have heard that ENFPs are great people, so it pleases me that there is a 2h video I can learn from. It is funny how the actual ENFPs (as far as I can see in the comment sections), don't watch these kind of videos :))