7 Female ENFPs w/ Psychology & Chill Michi, Boontarika Sripom, Jenna, Melanie, Lily, Phoebe & Sheri
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- Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
- 7 ENFP females talk about their experience as their personality type.
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It would literally be dream to be in a zoom meeting with all ENFPs! ❤️
-INFJ.
I really enjoy hearing the perspective of older ENFPs. This whole video is so relatable.
When Sheri said she feels like she is more of an intellectual ENFP I totally felt that and finally feel like someone put words to something that I’ve been trying to say for a while 😅 I’m not shy and I love people so much but I most definitely prefer one on one. I’m not a fan of huge groups of people. But I’m constantly taking in various information from all over the place which my friends find funny 😂 but I’m so happy someone else feels the same way. Sometimes I feel like maybe I’m not living up to what an ENFP “should” be but this makes me feel a lot better
Thanks again for having me on, Joyce! It's always a JOY-ce to talk to you! ;)
Fellow ENFPs who may be watching, I hope you are able to glean something helpful or validating from the chat.
And thanks again Michelle, Phoebe, Melanie, Lily, Sheri and Boonie for sharing your minds/hearts through your words. It was a delight to talk to you all. I hope everyone has a beautiful week!
Jenna
You're such a gem, Jenna! The world is lucky to have you here. Thank you for being a part of the panel. :)
Jenna's comment about talking with a top Ni user who listens to all their ideas and gives a distillation in response was a very interesting topic; kinda wish that was explored further! Hearing the Ne dominant's perspective was so unique.
As an INTJ almost through the introduction part, my first take is ENFPs have happy eyes. ENFPs have a light.
Having Phoebe and Sheri was a great idea. Please have them on more often.
ENFPs... Soo warm, cute, fun and just.. LOVELY!! :D So many things I could 'comment on' for each individual here, but it would be lengthy.
Thank you for being you, dear ENFPs
Look at that warm, kind smile of Sheri :)))
Lily is a sweetheart!!!
Loved this so much! One of the best ENFP chats. Phoebe is just a joy to be around, I relate to her so much
- enfp
As a fellow NP, I fully feel the statement "I still love you even if you're not in my life anymore". I find that makes some people so angry, especially judging types. When this person tells other people that I hate them, I have to laugh because it isn't the truth at all but I've come to the realization that they are toxic to me and the fact they would say that about me to others only underscores that. They want to be seen as a victim by saying I'm a horrible person and all I can do is walk away because to get visibly upset or deny it would only be used to hurt me further and used as demonstration of what they want others to see. The truth shall instead be found in our actions and our words.
I am an ENFP male officially typed by Joyce. What the ENFP ladies are describing resonate with me really deeply, wow!
As a 73 yo ENFP I have recently (Oct 2017) decided that I am a philosophical journalist. I tested as an ENFP back in the early 80s when I liked to think of myself as a philosopher-scientist. I was in a PhD program in mathematics and was working in a research lab providing software support to a group of research scientists. Towards the end of the 80s I realized that my real dream was to go into the arts and humanities and left the PhD program ABD with an MSc. Thereafter my interest has been focused on mythology, clinical psychology, and political psychology(and a whole lot more). I am able to maintain focus (six years in a PhD program where a professor volunteered to supervise my dissertation should be enough to prove that) but I like to jump from one subject to another frequently returning to many localized areas many times. My basic overarching interests are philosophical (what is truth, what is reality, what does it mean to be human, what is good and what is beauty etc) but I am all over the map as to where I will go to investigate. I still have laser focus, I just don't care all that much to maintain it on one small area for any length of time. My basic paradigm is the story of the blind men and the elephant. The universe (elephant) is so big and life is so damn short. But I am still having a hoot of a life and being authentic has never been an issue for me. Very few people can understand me, but that is their problem, not mine. I often get into conversations with university professors and it doesn't take them all that long to realize that my intelligence level is commensurate with most professors, even at the "good" schools. Often, they will shake their heads and say "What a waste". Almost all academics are siloed in their micro-niche of research and that ethos is so strong, they can't imagine that there might be validity in choosing a different path. I have joined Polymath Place on Facebook but that is a minor diversion at the present time. I am delighted to hear how similar the motivations are for the women on the panel with my own. I am very happy to be a philosophical journalist. There is no publication I know of that might be a home but I am seriously looking at Aeon. I don't need anyone to tell me I haven't wasted my life but it would be nice to know a few people who are on a similar quest. I did a statistical analysis on two psychometric variables using community detection research from social network theory to estimate the density of people who might fit into such a community(the psychometric variables were IQ and openness to experience from the five factor model (OCEAN)) and to my dismay only 1 in 14,000 people would fit into that community. So "my tribe" is scattered far and wide. Obviously, "my tribe" almost certainly could not be conditioned on only two psychometric variables even if they are strong separators in community formation, so I've resigned myself to being a loner but with Buddhist upaya (skillful means) I am able to participate in some communities and that will likely have to be good enough.
Fascinating! Do you know your Enneagram type and wing? I knew someone a bit like you but they leaned in a heavier consensus direction and became a career academic.
I’m so happy to find a new ENFP group discussion video !! 😃. I love all your videos. You have an amazing channel
I am an ENFP married to an INTP for almost 18 years now. I can so relate to every word Jenna spoke about her TE and his Ti clashing😂😂😂. My hubby asks me the same question “why does that have to happen now?” 😂😂😂
I missed these videos. There has been a lot of Q&As after all and this change is welcome.
I love love loooove! these videos, hearing all of you amazing, lovely ENFPs share your stories that I relate to so much as an enfp is the best thing on the internet. Thank you Joyce for bringing them together xx 🌺🌸🌼
This panel is so joyful. Sheri and Phoebe are ADORABLE.
Also I (INTJ) am going to start *strongly* saying "arbitrary sense of urgency!!" and "3rd Te!!" to my ENFP mum when she goes off the rails 🤣
the synchronicity really resonates! myself and my other enfp friend notice them a lot, they're in a lot of our conversations.
When Jenna explained someone cutting off her ne thoughts and that giving her an "icky" fi feeling, I can very much relate. For me that same fi feeling happens after someone can't go into ni deep thought with me. They cut me off, or get lost, or worse they chuckle and say I "overthink". That feeling though doesnt feel so much like I misrepresented myself, as it feels like I'm not being true to myself by trying to conform to shallow topics just to maintain a less than stellar friendship. That feels not authentic, and like it's wasting my time. Like a combo fi/te "icky"
🤔🤔 That's interesting. As an enfp if someone tells me I'm confusing or why am I skipping around with topics I guess my fi kicks in and it feels like a personal attack. With age though I've learnt the environments where I can go full enfp and those where I have to hold back a bit.
ENFPs let INTPs like me feel extroverted for a day by going off on Ne, rather than requiring Se to engage in the world together. Because of that, I think ENFPs are the type of which I am fondest in the abstract (my own type included). This was fun to watch.
I love the content! I think it would be awesome to see the black enfp woman perspective in a panel discussion like this
Wow! So much wisdom and kindness! 🥰
Yessss
omgg this is sooo cute! lol I just pressed play and I'm smiling! lolll why are we like this
I'm only in the first few minutes, but already it's interesting to see how some find it difficult to introduce themselves. I really dislike introducing myself like that too, it makes me feel so 'on the spot' and I hate the all eyes on me for that moment, and I don't know what to say so I generally just say my name and big smiles, and maybe 1 or two sentences and turn to the person next to me so they can take the baton off me! hehe. (I also see my enfp children doing this too, they hate it when people look at them and trying to greet them- they end up reacting in such a strange way like hiding or go into themselves etc).
5:18 Lily introducing herself was like looking in a mirror, as an ENFP with ADD I relate so much to the "desperately trying to organize thoughts" ramble lol
6:01 BAHAHAHA I live in a city where there's a lot of dogs so when I hang out with my ENTJ friend she keeps track of how many times I point out a cute dog 😂
My love for dogs and cats overpowers the embarrassment of my camera roll being full of other people's pets lollll
It's slightly weird to have other people's dogs as your phone background but sometimes they're just too frickin cute and you have to 😂
Wait have you seen the Finnish president's dog? He's so weird you gotta google it haha
This was spot on! I actually am diagnosed with ADHD so it’s funny to think how you pointed this out 😁 No kidding, people will never understand my obsession for pointing out dogs (?) and promise it’s unintentional since I’ve been like this as a kid too. My motto is if we’re going to establish a friendship, all I ask is accept I will enthusiastically pointing out random dogs/cats and can spend hours just dog/cat watching whether you like it or not hahahah. 😆
@@imlily I kinda had a sense that you did, weird how that works! It almost seems like people with ADHD have a little radar for finding other people with ADHD, every time I meet someone and we find out that that the other person has it we're both like "yeah I could tell" or something haha. It's always the manner of speaking, waaaaaaaay too familiar haha. When you started talking my brain was like
ONE OF US
ONE OF US
And about the dog thing: I totally agree haha. I've done it ever since I was little, and my parents had to physically restrain me from petting them 😂 (up until I was 7 I lived in Ecuador where a lot of the dogs are strays).
I have a few friends who are slightly annoyed by it and others who actively partake in the dog obsession, but I think my ENTJ friend just finds it amusing how much joy I get from it 😂
She doesn't even like dogs, she just finds it funny how much I like them lol
@@imlily Random question: did typology have an effect on how you viewed your ADHD? For me, since I have the inattentive presentation, I wasn't "acting out" in class so no one suspected anything was wrong. And when I did question wether or not I had it, I figured it was just me "being an ENFP" or something. This confusion made me wait longer before asking for help, and delayed my diagnosis. (I was 16 when I finally got tested). Has the similarity between ADHD descriptions and ENFP ones had an effect on you?
@@imlily CA is majestic! You did well here. Great job! Love hearing your thoughts. Where can we find you on social media?
So amazing and lovely! Greatly inspiring! - m ENFP-A, 4w5, Libra, HSP, num 22
Phoebe Buffay vibes 😂 They’re goofy and funny
1:40:45 is the most personally useful isoleted information of mbti that I ever saw. Thank you all!
36:02 : Yessss. I won’t let go of those in my Fi heart. Doesn’t matter what they could say or do. Anything, really. They’re mine forever and I’ll protect them and keep them and offer forgiveness in perpetuity. I’ve been typed as an ENTJ (unconscious developed and unconscious focused by one expert) but then typed as an ENFP by others who have studied the science. What you just said, Joyce, about this ENFP trait rings true for me.
Would love to have Jenna and Kristin on the same panel! Oh, and Kristin’s entp brother Cameron!
ENFPs don’t skip from one thing to the next. It’s like we have several pots on the stove and whatever gets cooked first is what is going to be eaten. But, if someone shows up with pizza, then we’ll eat that and put the other stuff away for leftovers. I always feel like things line up the way they need to and nothing I learn is wasted. I will use it somehow down the road.
Ne thing is possible!
I wish I meet my ENFP soon. I am an INFJ male and my ex was an ENTP. However, she broke up and then ghosted me for her career. Initially I was angry and heartbroken, but I later realized that True love is not always being together, but rather doing anything for the happiness of the person you love, even if it means separating from them. I didn't want to get in the way of her dreams and so I let her go. I still love her very much and I pray to God that she has a great life ahead. After she left, I was just waiting to fall in love with another ENTP or an ENFP. But I never met anyone. It's been 4 years now, but I am still waiting for my soulmate, I hope I meet her soon. God how I wish there were more ENFPs in the world...tough luck finding a soulmate.
14:25 I find this synchronicity topic really interesting, but I feel like I do it more subconsciously than on purpose. When I was little I would notice those little things all the time, but it kind of became a source of anxiety. Think about it: believing that these unrelated things can have an effect on what you connect it with can make you kinda paranoid and superstitious. It stressed me out, so I stopped doing it. I think some of it had to do with ADD and hyper fixation, because once I noticed one thing I couldn't stop noticing other things and it was kind of overwhelming. Now I just acknowledge it, laugh at the coincidence, and move on. I don't place any supernatural belief in it, because honestly it doesn't really make sense to. The occasional magic 8 ball can help make decisions if I'm really stuck, but im not assigning it any divination powers. Any meaning that comes from it is sheer coincidence. I can appreciate and laugh at these connections without perceiving them as direct causes.
“i have the social medias.” 🤣 ❤️
Searching for female ENTP panel...is there one in the works?🤷♀️
Phoebe and Sheri, sadly the push back to your advice may be more generational than typological. Thank you for sharing!
Joyce, did you type each of the panel members?
1:12:42 : “mode switch.” Yep! Relate! If someone disrespects me or someone I value, in any myriad ways, Te witch slap is gonna come for you. 😅 Maybe THAT’s why I presented as ENTJ? Oh, and it’s insufferable to me to hear folks Ti trickster shaming an ENFP. They’re definitely gonna get what they deserve with a big dose of Se demon.
Haha that demon Te voice is real 👿😅
Omg, Kristin’s sister Jenna 😁
ENFP-J here.
What's the collective term for a group of ENFPs? A garrulity? A yakfest? ;)
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I'm not convinced you're all ENFPs. - INTJ
I hear so much lack of accountability from this enfp panel. I hear the same from all enfp I know. I think this is soul age. I the the older souls take responsibility. This is not earth age I'm talking infinitely long soul ages.
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Are most ENFP’s woke or is it just Melanie?