The Harsh Realities Of Dating Dutch Women
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- Опубліковано 5 сер 2024
- In this video, we are diving into a topic many of you have been asking about-dating Dutch women! I've made quite a few videos about dating Dutch men, and many of you were curious about the other side of the story. So, here it is!
I gathered a lot of stories from men sharing their experiences and tips on how to approach Dutch women. I also spoke with expat ladies and Dutch women themselves to get a well-rounded view. If you're interested in the results of my research and want to know what I have to say on the topic, keep watching!
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Contents:
00:00 Intro
00:30 1. Equality
01:01 2. Natural look
01:35 3. Self-expression
02:12 4. Laid-back approach
02:30 5. Not so direct
03:15 6. Planning
03:48 7. Low expectations
04:19 8. I don't date non-Dutch
05:47 How to approach a Dutch woman
07:58 My thoughts
08:33 The most important tip
09:20 Ontro
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Goede tips. Dank voor de video. Ik had gewild dat ik jonger ben zodat ik uw tips effectief kan gebruiken.
All good advice 🎉!
Thank you for watching 💙
I guess Dutch woman understand how to function in sink in Dutch customs and manners to the point that it makes foreigners very confused how to date Dutch people in general.
It may come over as rude and mean, but i have to make clear that foreigners choose to come here and expecting their way of friendship and dating manners to work lol..
But like everyone else, Dutch people are their own personality and having their own qualities and talents, it really depends from person to person.
Its all the same for Dutch people living in other countries and having to change their other customs so they can function in other cultures.
I do hope you have your luck here having to date a Dutch guy here and understanding how things actually work.. 👍👍
My advise is, take it easy and chill, Dutch men do not ask for too much otherwise just to get to know you better, then and they will do the effort to know you..
I hear that foreigners are often very alone and not be able to make friends and contact with Dutch people.
If expats and migrants were to learn the language first, it would make dating or building friendships with a Dutch person easier!!
Possibly! That's one of the reasons I included in the video. Thank you for watching! :)
I think the most important thing is that there is a spark because if it isnt there all your points can threw in a bin
Thank you for sharing your perspective!
Is their any app we can chat with Dutch people?
If their is then plz let us know.
International subscribers r waiting 😊
I'm not aware of an app for Dutch people only ;) You can try language exchange websites if you want to speak Dutch with the Dutch 😀
Great video, please do more videos about DATING DUTCH WOMEN.
Thank you! What would you be interested in?
@@theselfishcodependent how foreign guy date a Dutch woman with success?
@@ClintonSnow be tal and good looking,and not to old for her.
@@ClintonSnow depends where your from the norms are different in the lowlands (Belgium & Nederlands)
Als a halve Azish (Japanses van mij mouder) en Wit; Ik vind dat vrouwen uit Nederland leuk mij meer dan vrouwen uit Amerika of VK. It hulps dat Ik ben lang (185cm) en Nederlands spreken of probeer 😂
As as a half Asian (Japanese from my mum) and white; I like that Dutch women like me more than women from America or UK. It helps that I am tall (6'1") and I speak Dutch or try to. 😂
Interessant! Bedankt voor het delen 😀
Dutch is not complicated it’s a culture and a very successful i am Afrikaans but I hear Dutch speak it and write it. But the Netherlands is where I come from
My female friend told me that almost her all likes on Tinder would become a match so it's hard to balance between quality and quantity.
Good point! It's a flip side of the coin: what happens when there is too much variety?
How is your experience? Can you relate to what I've shared in the video? 🤔I am curious!
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Well, I have been following videos here of expats and migrants for years, and I find it interesting to see how they deal with culture and traditions.I think that is nice to see, and it also makes my vision of our country a little more positive.Because, as a born Dutchman, I look at our country very differently than expats and migrants do.But I often notice in the videos that after years of living here, not much has been done with the language.And my opinion is that that should be number 1 if you are going to live in another country. I would do that, if only out of respect for the population, and so that I understand better what is going on in the country.
@@user-rh4sq9cx1e awesome that you are interested in it! Since you mentioned that you'd like to learn different view points, I suggest you watch this video about learning Dutch. Perhaps, it can bring another perspective :)
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@@theselfishcodependent I have seen this video and already liked it, as a Dutch person I can only speak for myself. As expats and migrants, no matter how poorly Dutch they speak, I have the utmost respect for them.Maybe that is also because I have the principle that when I migrate to another country, I want to learn the language first because I want to make myself understood by the population.But you're doing well, respect. You're one of the people I regularly follow and like, but I'm just not a big chatter or texter myself.
@@user-rh4sq9cx1e oh so nice to hear :) Thanks so much for your support, I really appreciate it!
Dating starts from attracting people, so if you are as tall as or as good looking as local guys, you may have a higher chance compared to other internationals. Working on style, being jacked, improved social skills, and financial status would definitely help. A tall black guy may attract a Dutch girl in a club easily for a night but keeping her would be more challenfing because of cultural differences.
Thank you for sharing your point of view! I think while certain traits might catch someone's eye initially, genuine compatibility and understanding play crucial roles in the longevity of a relationship. And that requires a whole different set of skills that focuses more on connecting on a deeper level.
Im afraid most of these things won't help much in attracting Dutch women.
@@roy_for_real2674 good to know your point of view.
You forgot a fourth reason women don’t want to date foreigners. Because in a lot of cases it would be a step back. Dutch relations are very egalitarian. I’ve had several friends that dated a foreigner, and this was always the breaking point. Men expecting respect when they don’t deserve it.
A little example from statistics of teen pregnancies: Dutch teenagers use double protection during sex. A condom and contraceptive jelly. So Dutch boys take their responsibility. It’s the only country in the table (=world) for which this is mentioned.
So the first time a Dutch girl has sex with a foreigner she’s often confronted with a man that has no idea about his role in preventing pregnancies and STDs.
Of course foreign women like to date Dutch men. For them it’s a step forward.
And you should also include the fact that in a lot of cultures when a woman has had sex with a man without being married, they are automatically regarded as cheap whores which deserve to be treated as cheap whores. This conflicts with the open mindedness of Dutch women.
Dutch girls play games and make things very difficult, most are for fun only.
Sorry you've had this experience 🤗
How many ponies will it cost me to purchase a Dutch woman? Can I purchase multiple Dutch women with a single horse? An elephant?
Can you change a diaper?
@@jannetteberends8730 So? Dutch women don't have a sense of humor then. I think that was the point of the video. I was just testing whether this was true ✔
@@WilliamJones-sf5pt you are a perfect example of the forth reason we don’t want to date foreigners.
First, your joke isn’t funny at all for women with some self respect.
Second, you didn’t get the hint.
Most Dutch women don’t want a relationship with a man they have to educate to their own level.
lol