She Rejected Me But Still Acts Interested. Here’s What To Do
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She rejected me but still acts interested....still wants to be friends...and still talks to me. You're in a conundrum.
Guys, I have a confession to make. Years ago, I rejected a couple of guys and still acted interested in them. It's a difficult place for a woman to find herself in, and I want to share my story with you.
So in today's video I'm gonna show you a bunch of ways you can improve yourself and your situation so you can move on when you get rejected and find a woman who wants to spend all the time with you :)
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Did a woman you're dating reject you, but still acting a bit interested? Share your story below. I shared mine :)
My situation is one of my co workers is married i approached her and she rejected me but she keeps staring at me and acting interested but everytime i ask for her number or can i take her out but she rejects me but still flirts. Its irritating and im interested and i feel as if its a game so im giving her the cold shoulder because this not that and ever since i did that she keep coming to my work space and trying to get a reaction out of me all i wanna know is whats her problem
@@zachcollins1864 bruh she is married.. she is just enjoying the attention you give her. Stop acting like a weak man and move on
no dude buys stuff for women as friends
It is not "painting you in the best light" but its called devious wickedness to highest degree
no the issue was you lead him on. you knew he liked you and it made you feel good ,so you did"t tell him you did"t like him in the beginging you let him take you out to diner sand on trips. men do"t care if you like us or not but it piss us off when you use us. talk about playing games
amen brother… met a girl hit it off for a yr. It’s the weirdest thing she didnt want us to have a label but we were basically sleeping together, and for a few months lived with me but when the moment i asked her the question she rejected me but still wanted to be friends with benefits while she goes around and flirt with other men. I felt shitty after the fact knowing that i changed myself for her and wasted my goddamn time.
I totally agree with you. She used this guy from beginning to end.
I totally agree with you.
Heard & Agreed
I agree
You are no shit the realest person on this topic, thank you for your candor, you've got a permanent subscriber.
Ahhh. That means so much to me. Thanks. Feel free and join my free FB group too! facebook.com/groups/thedatingformula/
Had an old female friend that would always touch me and flirt with me but when I told her I liked her she said she didn't like me. She would continue to touch me and flirt with me though. I don't talk to her anymore
I like ur honesty. I respect it & it gives u more credibility.
I know this is a old video but really appreciate your transparency
Very great advice Love to listen to your video have me looking at my own dating rountine
My mindset towards dating and relationships has changed over the years, but the way I see it, it's only guys, men, who need to know or how to get a date or get a girlfriend, not the other way around though.
Women are definitely more selective which means there is more competition between men and the courting phase is harder for men. This is true in all species where one gender has greater parental investment than the other. Also why you see sexual dimorphism like in the peacock where the male has beautiful feathers and the female does not or the male deer has antlers and the female deer does not. Sexual selection differentiates the species and places a greater demand on whichever sex has less parental investment. If men could make babies in a womb and women couldn’t, there would be more competition for men because they would become the more selective of the two.
@@emlovz sounds very solid, I just posted that because it annoys me when women ask dating advice on how to attract a guy or how to get a date since women play a passive role so it doesn't make sense when they ask advice
You never heard of nepotism and discrimination in the workplace ? I understand discrimination is illegal, but it still happens. Laws were created to be broken and discrimination is impossible to prove.
@@emlovz Why are women constantly thinking of locking a man down so they can have babies. It’s called dating not marriage. Can’t women just relax and concentrate on the first few dates instead of beating the hell out of a man mentally with all kinds of shit tests to see if he’s THE ONE!
@@nobodysperfect06 Even if men were the ones who initiate the process... what makes the man WANT to initiate the process? The one who DON'T initiate it can't still want for someone to INITIATE it? How to "attract" a guy? Doesn't that line describe your viewpoint EXACTLY? Attract a guy.... if they are attracting the guy they are doing something to GET the guy to INITIATE the process....
SOMETHING makes you want to start an interaction with the "passive" role... so... even playing the "passive role" they will still play an ACTIVE part in the big picture.
Think of it like this.... you go fishing... when you fish are you playing the "active" or "passive" role in the process? You are playing the PASSIVE role. You want to CATCH a fish but to do so you sit there and WAIT for the ACTIVE role to take a bite of your BAIT. Until you entice the aggressor to aggress YOU, you will never GET the aggressor to BITE and thus will NEVER catch the fish. So how do you CATCH the fish? You seek ADVICE to find out what the fish LIKES, what triggers it, what makes it want YOU (or your bait) and then you adjust your strategy accordingly in order to trigger the fish to strike your bait so you can then pull it in. You LITTERALLY throw your line out and let the bait SIT THERE until the ACTIVE ROLE aggressor takes the BAIT and you get a "bite".
The "passive" role in your eyes are like the fisherman trying to get YOU to take a "bite". What does the phrase "____ is a good catch" refer to? is it the guy who says the girl is a "good catch" or is it commonly reffering to a girl saying the guy is a "good catch" ? EXACTLY! :)
Em...thanks for your honesty.
Back in the 80's and 90's, if this "using" thing happened to me, I found that the swiftest way for me to accept the silent rejection was to play a brilliant song to myself for a while and I soon came out of that bullcrap area.
"SHIPS" by BIG COUNTRY...Stewart Adamson who sang it was from a place called Dunfermline in Fife, Scotland, where I was raised as a child...I even when on to be a songwriter and singer too.
Must have been something in the water there.
This song ships is applicable to both sexes.
You were doing an experiment Em...sharp folk will realise that...anybody who judges you for this..well, we used to have a great saying for that.."those fools can JOG ON!!"....
GREAT CHANNEL EM!!!...always loved your content..and your honesty.
RESPECT ALWAYS.
Thanks for the kind words!
@@emlovz Most welcome.
Damn. This is so accurate ... Lessons learnt - never again.
This helped clear up why they did what they did .I won't be their fall Guy to take them out when I know their FWB ( no me) was too busy or ignored them.
I admire your honesty very few ladies would admit they have dated guys just for them to pay stuff for them lol
Thank you for this advise..!! Very relative..!!
You’re welcome jerry
Yeah, I remember a few women who tried to use me as an accessory. Most of time I wouldn't even give them a reason before cutting all contact. That's low, on their part. Men and women alike are not there to be used as a resource.
Totally agree.
@@emlovz What you did was absolutely horrible
I just subscribed to your channel and I love your advice...
Thanks Allen!!!! Happy to have you here.
I really enjoy your videos. Thank you so much
The friend things/romantic things.
100% you know what you did was EVIL and 100% romantic stuff.
How do you not spend any money on the second date? I’m also fascinated that your talking about transmuting rejection energy into positive energy nervy.
Im a woman.. this is great advice for men.. and kudos for being honest.. men need to hear that women truly can enjoy your company and if you seem happy to spend your time and money to be in our company.. we will make plans with you... i myself am always up front after date 1 if i have friendship chemistry or more... believe me, if a woman feels more, you will usually know.. we will usually be flirty and even touchy feely with you;).. give attention, but don't profess all your feelings right away.. women get scared off and need to wonder a bit what your thinking and feeling... it's a fine line though.. if you give no attention or show no interest that's not good either..
Thanks DD :)
No, it’s that she didn’t really meet someone else and is surprised you gave up so easily. I’m not as thick headed as I act.
Hi Emily l approch girl talk and then ask gir out for coffee she said l dont have time what is that mean
No one is for anyone we all settle for whatever?
"He often paid for things, and bought me gifts and I enjoyed that" obviously.
Why would a man bother if he's not getting anything sexual.
My wild guess is because you are in the friend zone
Only if you accept friend zone. Stop all forward progression with her and move on. She’ll come back for you or she won’t. Either way it’s a win
Same here she rejected me and she call only she needs something.should i stop receiving her call
So I have this situation where I was with her over the summer. We hooked up multiple times. She indicated she wanted to just hook up, but eventually became flaky. There was likely another guy in the pic. When that happened, I didn’t get mad whatsoever just told her to hit me up when she was free sometime and I went no contact. Over the last 3 months she has broke no contact 3 times to ask how I was doing etc but has never offered to get together. Recently she hit me up after 2 mths no contact. She asked how I was and if I was seeing anyone:m. I told her I got out of something recently and that I was scheduled for a date that night. I followed up with her 2 days later and she asked in a playful way if I was looking to cash in a previous offer of hers to help me with my new iPhone (I’m older than her ). I said “maybe :) depends if the offer is still good lol.” She didn’t respond. I guess that’s an answer. I guess I just won’t contact her. I’m just trying to make sense of her reaching out and appearing to show interest.
Yeah. The Friend Zone. Got it.
What if you don’t give nothing to her barely even attention and she still acts friendly
Either she’s being nice or she likes you
From a cultural standpoint, many women in latin countries still expect a man to pay because it is the "gentleman" thing to do when you go out, this can make say American men mis-understand.
As for now, I have given up. I'm tired of hearing that I'm too short (5'7), not making enough money and that I'm not the type of the hot girls I want. The really attractive women I want, seems to only go for the above average men. The previous girl I liked, a hot Central-Asian girl, just straight up told me that she needs a man who can offer her more than I can.
I'm glad you grew because your story in the first couple minutes kind of disgusted me... If a man is taking you out to dinner and vacations.. no matter how naive you may have been but I can't believe you wouldnt have known this... Young and dumb is always the excuse but I wish people had more integrity and thinking of the other person. I mean at one point you really need to ask, "would a friend offer to buy and take me on vacation?"... the answer is no
Perfectly put my guy.
I would just like to add, the way she preferences, the video I was about to give her credit for at least taking accountability and learning from it but then of course here comes the shift. Like most women they can’t take full accountability for their actions and end it there without finding a way to shift blame somehow.
At 4:00 “Men would offer”. Like she had no choice “I had to say yes, it was all his fault” shifted blame. You can see the mental gymnastics going on in her head as she says it her eyes shifting back-and-forth during as she attempts the catapult in her brain and she lands and sticks! Other woman judges give her a 4.5 4.9 and a 3 good job! You know that one jealous friend. Lol
Anyway, as if he didn’t “offer” all the trips, dinners and gifts she would have still stuck around. I think not. And did she “offer” back?
Side note: when you’re a traditional man dealing with modern women you will get used. She said it herself she never had any intentions on ever being/hooking up with him yet used him for 1,000’s of dollars and gave it up to Chad for free. Never let a woman try to shame you by saying “you’re not a real man if you don’t buy me this or pay for that” chivalry is dead because of women actions like this. Modern women would use your traditional mindset against. If you’re a traditional guy modern women will make you pay for it. Literally and figuratively.
Just because it sounds like they are about to take accountability listen for the shift fellas, the verbal gymnastic, they pull to shift blame. Remember accountability is like kryptonite to these women. I’ll give her credit though most women wouldn’t admit anything it would just be all men are trash, and all women are perfect so I’ll give her that.
This is very common with some women. If they tell you they are not interested and want to be "friends" and you do not walk away and still want to see her and pay for stuff, they feel then that is kind of on you, and you are an orbiter to them. Girls like having orbiters, it makes them feel very attractive because what is the old cliche..hot women have a bunch of guys around them that will do anything and she just does nothing for it.
lies you knew how to say NO when he asked you out but that would have been no fun for you.the way you tell it one day you woke up and knew you did"t like him and knew now to tell him.
Ive got a similar issue at the moment but I have no doubt she's physically attracted to me, as she was always the one to initiate sex in the beginning and I think a lack of initiation from me is why things didn't persist. Now she hits me up every couple of days with random memes and whatnot despite having friendzoned me. I imagine there is still some interest there but not sure what to do with it.
No matter what, its still disrespectful to men
Everythings fine til the money runs out.
Depends on the lady
Only spend $10 first date remember 😂
I once heard it said: "Women are like cats. If you seek them out, they shy away. If you are a bit indifferent to them, they seek you out."
That is not an exact quote, I modified some of the wording, but it's essentially true.
OMG- so true! Do you use that in your dating?
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@@emlovz - Quite honestly, I've kinda given up on dating. The hardest thing for me is to get a girl to stick around.
@@thecowboy9698 The answer is to improve yourself. Become a better person, and you will attract women. Do what makes YOU happy.
you should go on fresh and fit
Hey
She gave me all the signs and even my friend used to tease me with her name coz they thought she likes me
But sometimes she used to give mix signals
But one day she called me bro
So I asked her y u called me.bro
And told that I got feelings for u and every thing
But she said no
Nothing like that
U ppl saw wrong.
I didn't gave any sign etc etc
But after 1-2 days
We met again in college
And I ignored her
But she again showed me every sign that she likes me
Like staring , coming closer, starting conversation , touching etc
But now I'm confused that
Even after she knows I like her than why she wants me to be with her
Or wants to be close to me?
Shall I move on
Coz it's hurting me
Jazakallah
I completely agree, I still ain't leaving unless I start a conversation with that certain female, got any advice to give me?
😅😂🤣 omg do not wear old underwear 😅😂🤣 great advice 😅😂🤣
Got milk and cookies
There's a line of chicks wanting me
Stop giving attention as well
If the want your money it's Nit love ❤️
Not
Yep 100%
Don't go to supercuts. Go to a barbershop. Lol everyone knows not to go there
You’d be surprised
It's the love of money that is destroying the planet and it destroys True Love ❤️
The greed of money yes.
Ohh sheet she was dating my mate she used him for trips & free sheet
Women always have a choice in dating, most women lack integrity.
Some women, not all
Most@@emlovz
Jesus Crist I though that I would know something smart,but this video is for 15 year men ,even though I could understand that when I was 15.
Good Evening 🌆, Emily, I have been rejected by certain random women over 1,000 times, I'm afraid that I would never come across somebody of my equal and my caliber, I also admitted that I wanted what they have, got any advice?
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