Signs She Wants You To Make a Move
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Are you waiting for her to make the first move, or even just give you a sign that you can move forward with the relationship? I bet she already has! You probably don't even know that she has given you a sign to go ahead and make a move on her.
Watch this entire video and you'll learn all the signs that she wants you to make a move!
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Tell me if one of my tactics worked for you.....did you make that move?
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I'm not sure if I'm asking this right and understandingly but what if you're at work and she's at work and or she's at the store and you see her on the spot and you only have a limited amount of time left to make a move without making her feel awkward and or uncomfortable and you getta feeling you'll never see her again. What should I do and say
And sometimes I'll know she's interested in me but I try not to freeze up I just don't know what to do and say 🙂
@@vincent9329 keep it simple. Here's what you do. Say "Hey, how's a going?" Whatever she says after that, listen to her. Once she's done talking say " We should go (pick activity to do). Don't say " you wanna do something?" or frame it as a question, it makes her feel on the spot. Say what you want the two of you to do and be decisive and pick one thing. Don't go " we can go watch a movie or go to the park? Since you know she likes you she will definetely say yes or reschedule another time to be with you.
I felt the part about how singles look at each other was quite riveting never heard that before. So true hope you continue making content your approach is very nuance with a niche totally your own, thank you.
A woman approaching a man making us feel weird ? Speaking for myself and my friends : we would love it. We would really respect her for it. Very little chance of her being rejected , because there would have been signs of interest beforehand. We might be startled a little ( it being so rare ) , but pleasantly surprised.
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You probably will blow it, it happens to me before it doesn't feel natural and the woman usually will ask you stupid questions expecting you to ask her out and if u don't it just turns awkward, I understand now why it's men's job to approach woman cause a woman doesn't know how to seal the deal.
A 💯 per cent sir.
This happened to me once when I was 23-24 working at a movie theater. One of my co-workers was super hot, but 17, so I just kept it friendly. However, for some reason she developed a huge crush on me. She started giving me those long sexy looks. One day she told me she thought I was really cute. A few other things happened, but I didn't take it seriously, because A) I thought she was jailbait because I thought here was an age gap law for anyone under 18, and I was more than 5 years older, B) I heard she had a boyfriend, and C) I was moving away in 2 months. Anyway, on my last week at the theater, she walked up to me and said "Feel my hair. Isn't it soft?" and leaned in close. Sexiest thing someone I barely knew has ever done. I asked her about those three things, but instead of answering, she just stood there holding her sexy pose. I didn't want to go to jail or hurt her feelings since I was moving away, so I forced myself to make a silly face and hold it. This allowed me to break the spell. After a while, she gave up and walked away. In those moments, she could have easily seduced me by saying something silly like "Age is just a number" and run a finger down my arm. Later I learned that she was legal in that state, but it was both too late, and my other two concerns remained.
Anyway, my point is, her approaching me like that was sexy as hell, and I loved it. I just hope she eventually figured out I didn't take her up on it because of my concerns, and not because I didn't like her approaching me.
@Trifler power to you for abstaining from going down the minor route. Showed good will power, self restraint and made the right decision
If you are talking to a girl move back a big step. She will usually follow you. I used to do this with a group of girls and they would all move their chairs closer each time.
What she describes reminds me of grade school, before maturing and being direct and going after what you want (both genders).
I knew A girl wanted me to "make A move." I was right! She DID want me to make A move! Out of State.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAA thats so funny bro. Wait its not a joke-?
@aebious8886 Ot probably was for the best..everything GLITTER aint gold 😂😂😂..Take that as a Good thing women have gone crazy 😂😂😂😂😂😂
If you walk in to a room or say a gym, and you notice a woman taking inventory of you,,,,she is interested. You will know ,that she knows ,,,you are there…..
Hi Emma, just discovered your channel after usually reading your really good articles. Interesting points.
I love you. Thank you for not sugar coating. And being truthful and real.
I'm glad you mentioned all the pressure we men are facing to be extra careful around women. I've been worried that a simple pat on the back might land me in court with charges of attempted rape. It sounds irrational when I put it into words, but look how overprotective and paranoid this world has become. As far as I'm concerned, the more educated I am about this subject, the better.
Never pat her own the back
never touch a female co worker period unless she touches you first, or like a hug or handhsake if she attempts it first! like Snoop Doggy Dogg said "FUCK THOSE HOES"
Exactly, she could crave for attention, even if she is a long time friend, using these foward move to play a victim and shame you to firends. Sady This happen so ofthen.
@@dpa2102 I was just giving an example. I don't remember ever giving a girl a pat on the back before.
@@PTSmash ya I know bro just agreeing with you I pat this girl on the back once and she was like thats sexual harassment when I pat her on the back to get her attention in a non sexual way ever since then I wont pat a female on the back unless I know her because some chicks are weird and the worse thing ever is to get a charge because you were trying to get someones attention
You are so amazing it was such an honour to meet you ❤️🏋🏼♀️
Thanks for the video. Working on FWB and would like to do this soon
Hard to meet women, when you've become invisible.
"Sometimes we're not totally aware of what we're doing as women" lol wtf😂 that shit took me out
sometimes this doesn't actually work even if the woman are showing this signs in a guy some would still reject us because they are only looking for attention but actually not attracted to you
Good point" sometimes it's only a tease"
True....a bored women or a women thinking their not getting enough attention, or feeling lonely or trying to get another guy jealous or heard you have $$$$ or a nice car. Very rare it's because she actually likes you you as a Man , because most times when a women really likes a guy she becomes not herself and is very embarrassed and shy and afraid of rejection. You will catch her staring from time to time and looking for ways to be in your line of vision sneakily . When a women acts the ways as the host mentions she wants something from you but not necessarily you
Wow !!! With your videos I am and have come back to Women College !!! Hopefully this time I Graduate ????
Your suggestion #2 was like listening to 1984!! Friends!!
I keep seeing the "her friends will talk to" topic come up all over the internet and I have never once seen it happen to me nor to any of my friends. I think it does happen, but that's more of the rare one or during the puppy-love phases like high school.
Yeah- you're right. It's rare but it can definitely happen. The FB group helps with this kind of stuff! facebook.com/groups/thedatingformula
You are absolutely amazing young lady. Love you videos
My life experiences have shown me. If she is interested she will let you know. Up to you to pick up on her vibe. If you can't oh well
This is the second video of your ‘series’ that ive watched. Lots of good stuff in there that you present really well and in a fun way. I was curious, when you made the invite to the casino date, did you do it strictly because you were interested or because he was giving you signs of interest (obviously, along with you being at least somewhat interested!)?
I'm learning more and more everyday. I guess I don't know as much as I thought 🤔 thank you great video 👍 September 5, 2022
Thank you! My coaching program has all my most transformational content :-)
If she stares at you for 3 years then that's a sign she's already dead 💀
Omae wa mou shinderu...
bahahaha.😂😂😂 3 yrs
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Agreed Sir!!!! 😂
... or my last date.
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Thank you emlov very good
Good points.
Great advice been there done most everything you talk about it usually works most time your right on.
She says take me shopping!
This is solid
Thanks! Hows dating going for you? You have a cool vibe. You should join my FB group. facebook.com/groups/thedatingformula
Hi, Em. Good work here. A request : If not done already, would you improve the audio quality of your videos? Those I have watched, there is some reverb of your voice, and the overall sound is tinny.
I think it comes from these factors :
1. No microphone close to you.
When we sit kind of far from the camera and microphone, we talk louder. That's more likely to make noticeable reverberations, which kind of muddy the hearing of some letters, and so some words.
2. Room with hard surfaces, I suppose. Sound bounces around, back to the mic. I guess you've seen, audio recording studios have a lot of soft material, all sides, to prevent reverb.
3. As you are excited about helping men, and seem to want men to be stimulated to pay attention, you speak with more energy than a conversational tone usually has. Faster and higher pitch. The higher pitch and reverb make the tinny overall tone.
If you would wear a mic, then you could stay as far from the camera and speak with less energy, to reduce reverb. To me, quieter and mellower is more attractive, any way. Find it hard to listen to a whole video, because I feel irritated by the sound. ... But I like your advice. So, if the audience experience is more pleasant, I'd be more willing to watch videos instead of skip some, and more willing to recommend to friends.
May this be helpful.
yup, this burden, onus, will forever be one-sided, men have always done and always will do the heavy-lifting in dating and relationships, well especially the beginning. I read a discussion elsewhere, they were saying the main challenges for men and women in the dating game, they said for men, the biggest issue and challenge is building the attraction, for women, its keeping a guy around, they often say, a woman doesn't need to learn or know how to get a man, but only keep him around.
2:15 scanning the room lol 😆
I’m literally 40 seconds into the video and I want to say thank you.
Thanks. Come join my free dating advice group: facebook.com/groups/thedatingformula/
Me too
"guys, it's not that complicated"
*cuts to a shot of the Labryinth from GoW 3*
In Elizabethan England a woman would maintain plausible deniability by dropping her handkerchief (perfumed) in front of the man she was interested in. Result: Instant conversation yet if it crashes and burns, she can say something like "Ooh, I was so clumsy & now I need to get to an appointemnt"! Works every time.
Glad you liked it. Your information is highly value added! I do not understand why modern women don't occasionally, rarely, use the Elizabethan Technique or some variant of it today. Nearing 80 myself including a successful 34 year marriage until widowed, I think it could be because men are often just boys in men's bodies so to speak and incapable of responding appropriately. How wrong am I?
hi, like your content. I think you should upgrade your sound.
Many thanks for another useful video. The gambling approach you employed to initiate a date is a good idea, for then, as you indicate, you're on a date before realisation sets in. Folks out there just remember that gambling in all of its forms can become quickly & highly addictive, fine if you win, not so fine if you lose! Go carefully. Women approaching men should never be a problem, for if you are with someone simply reply "I am honoured, however I am in a committed relationship at present & wouldn't do anything to jeopardise that, & I'm pretty sure that if you were with me you'd agree with what I said just then". Otherwise, if you like her go for it! Naturally, if eye contact has, prior to her approach, played a part in all this then you are likely to be unattached anyway & I doubt many guys would need a ring putting through their nose to gain your approval 😉. Thanks once again for a most interesting & informative presentation on the way ahead in this ever more confusing world in which we live.
If a woman, near my age, looks at me and smiles and she’s not trying to sell something, I assume she wants me to make a move. But will I make a move? Probably not.
Thank you ❤
Brilliant
No your just being nice nothing is wrong .When it comes to marital status it is a big maturity .
There is a much,much, younger woman that is giving me all the signs, but I just can’t believe it. I don’t know what to do.
5:46 OK now that is a new tip. When you touch her she moves closer to you noted. I've had that happen just did not know it was listed as one of the signs
ive gone in the full passive mode over the years..i just dont have time for games and reading signs and such rubish..when i was younger it worked well women approaching me so i prefer it that way ..just stuck with that..never really tried the otehr way but who knows a little it worked but idk.
Hang in there. Thanks for the note.
2:13 That's funny but it sounds true .the single people are the ones scanning the room using eye contact to communicate that they are single
I believe this is somewhat age specific. It would be cool if you had a quest speaker on your channel that was closer to retirement age, and could add or subtract from your ideas. Old people can be "single" too, some not by their own choice etc. But the hormone driven "move" has long since disappeared.
Will try! I have worked with many, many men in their 50’s, 60’s, and even one guy who is 81.
Thank you 🙏 i’ve met the woman of my dreams on tinder. She is way out of my league. We have only so far exchange, phone numbers and or texting back-and-forth so I’m taking baby steps and I will be watching a lot more of your videos. Very informative. Thank you again.
Oh god. I hope your not like me and really suck at communicating to women through texting. That's a good way to kill it before it starts.
Is this a joke comment? Lmao tinder is a one night stand hookup app
Worked, kissed, offered to drive her home or provide and uber. Made plans for a date the following night. She cancelled and then apologized for the previous night and not ready to date.
Omg. You called "Hitch" an "old movie" and now I feel so old. 😢 😔
How to let the person know I’m not interested in her without saying that I’m not interested in her? Usually I ignore. But some women are persistent and sometimes I’m persistent with other women 🤔🤕🥺 mostly online chat. I’m great at finding engaged women, women in flings and or women in relationships that run away in person 😂🤣 9/10 times. Or I dance awkwardly near them and meet through a friend, sometimes just end up talking on the dance floor. So I don’t really enjoy the going out and finding prefer to build a relationship prior online and then invite out or invite over.
Why not just be direct? Saves a lot of time and hassle
2:38 I had that happen to me once and yes it seems like grade shool all over again and that's what she said When I finally spoke with her.
So I recently went out to dinner with a friend, first time we’ve meet but we’ve know eachother for 5 or 6 years now, she asked me if I wanted a cooler she was getting rid of was gonna throw it away, as away to invite me into her hotel room, I kinda chocked it up to nothing but when I was telling my sister how it went she was like dude you were on a date basically
How about use your words?
I decided to go up to this older cute gal at a Mexican restaurant who was with her friends or co workers, seem pretty startled when I ask her if she was single( she said she was). tried to apologize if I startled her and seem to be somewhat communicative when I asked her for her phone #, she said it wasn’t me, but it was her. I asked her what she did for work and was a buyer like me, told her we have something in common but seem reluctant to make a connection, I told her if she came her often maybe I’d see her more.
Long story short when she got up to leave With her co workers, She told me it was nice to meet me I front of my boss (had no clue I hit on her and was talking to someone else ) was next to me, I wish I could’ve got her number and maybe could’ve been a start of a romance and good relationship. Maybe I’ll see her again and planted a good seed.
What if you work with
The is this girl. She looks at me from distance. However upclose she looks down. She always bend over, clears her throat and whistles around me. However I gave her my number yet she has called or texted me.
All very good in theory however in real life most of these signs don't work being the nice guy and respectful seems to get you nowhere when going by these signs
A woman approaching a man first would make us men feel weird. That's not true for most men, including myself. Maybe a little surprised but I would really like her doing that and would have tremendous respect for her courage and it would make me more secure to ask her out on a date if I also felt attracted to her.
Sometimes I get confused with reading the signs if a woman finds me attractive or not and there has been some times when a woman was being very flirty with me for several months and even touching my back, chest, shoulders and arms sometimes but she already had a boyfriend. I was so confused and I told her how I felt etc but she rejected me and said she never felt attracted to me at all. But the thing is is that she continued her flirty bullshit with me and I told her to stop it and she stopped. Sometimes when a woman flirts with you it does not always mean she is attracted to you and could be just an attention-seeking tease for an appetite for an ego boost.
I see a lot of these videos about being in person with someone. What if you've talked with a woman over video chat?
I lost my job so I had to!
She's good
Personally if I am interested, I’ll look at the hand for a ring. So men better pay attention to that clue
What if you go in for kiss and get to has you said 90 but she doesn't move away or forward?
Look her in the eyes, see if she looks interested. If so, go full 100. If not, maybe pump the breaks
Okay I see you want me to make a move on you Emily!!!
If it flies, floats or phucks, rent it!
How would you handle someone oversleeping 2 times in a row on you prior to linking up but offers to reschedule but won’t talk to you in person nomore ?
Should i break the ice again and broach the subject or just keep it pushing ?
Let her go
I was getting all the signs from a girl i work with. I asked her if she wanted to have a drink after work and she said yes, so I decided to make the move and ask her for her number and she got all quiet and never gave it to me. I started to ignore her, Now she has been talking to me again. She acts hot and cold. She is a bit younger, But she came onto me first.
It’s very challenging to date where you work. She might not want to get fired or have it be weird if something doesn’t work out with you.
@@emlovz Funny thing is, When she first started flirting with me I wasn't really giving her too much attention, Then she started saying she loves me lol. That made me wonder if she had feelings. Thanks for taking the time to answer back!
To E or the community here, my 1st date went quite well and my date already invited me out to dinner to meet 2 of her family members.
I take this as a good sign and that she wants another set of eyes on me to receive additional input from them about me. Any thoughts about this?
Pretty quick to meet the fam but go for it
Hi Em,
Thanks for getting back to me so quickly.
I really appreciate your input.
I noticed this woman, that I'm dating, extremely careful approach to me as an extreme contrast in asking me to her quickly asking me to meet her family 👪 . It's confusing and not all that logical IMO. But, her sister is visiting her from out of state. She is extremely close to her and her aunt. Her aunt lives with her and if I visit her during the weekend, her aunt will be home and needs to feel safe and comfortable with me being in the house.
My hunch is that she wants me to visit her but she first needs to resolve the basic safety question for herself and her family. Her actions make more sense to me looking at things from that point of view.
Thanks Again Em for posting all these fun & really interesting dating video tips.
Your my fav dating coach on UA-cam
& there are a lot of them.
Regards,
Dave-
This video is hilarious 😂
Well I have a Wonderful woman Coach...🎉
She mirors me she looks at me I'm too shy to look back she doesn't talk to me plz tell me what to do
Ask her out! With a TDL
What about if we want you.
Do you have an email I can send you a question to? I have a more delicate situation that I would really appreciate some advice on.
Would love to help but I can only provide coaching to students in my program. You can learn more about it at emlovz.com/book
@@emlovz Thank you for responding. I will take that into heavy consideration. I am looking at your website now and I am not seeing what the cost of anything is. I am fairly low-income, I can't tell if I can even afford your course or a call.
Don’t use word date it is too official and it is easier to agree to go for a coffee. If u wanna be crystal clear you can Ask if she’s single.
I am female. I make long eye contact with everyone. I have no sexual interest in any man. I am just practicing my memory of what is he/she wearing and how tall is that person. Sometimes I am just watching him work on a car. I always pray that he doesn't come talk to me.
Being a nice guy can possibly put you in just the friends zone only and did and has but date maybe but try anyways !!!
This eye contact thing is so grossly over rated. It does not mean she is single. And despite her bad advice if you approach that woman, it sounds like a quick trip to HR (the principal's office). The work place is verboten!. I went through the corporate anti harassment training over twenty years ago. Nothing has changed. Things have actually gotten worse. Women did this to themselves. She should be keeping her eyes on her work tasks.
I prefer to use my club instead of the "brush the hair off her shoulder" technique
Fail proof !
I quit chasing, if you don't show interest you're mean, if you do you're a creep. I broke up with my LTR a few months ago to pursue a life of my own because she controlled my every move and I've gotta say, I appreciate your positivity but let's be real, most of this doesn't work. Women are impossible to talk to anymore.
It works.
@@emlovz Maybe if you’re 6ft + and make 6 figures
Emily, what if she is Medusa and you make eye contact with her?
You turn to stone and die, is this a real question?
@@braziinc6960 What if Emily looks at her though?
@@JoePedo if Emily is human. She turns to stone.. is this a real question?
Oops! Are you sure this tricks really work? Cause I had a girl who showed all these signs but when I approached her, she turned me down
It happens. What I do know that works is Dating Decoded - my coaching program.
so what is your real job in life.
You are so nice, I like you a lot!
If she is, good for you. If not, more money for yourself.
I have a question
Ok, what is it?
There a girl at work always staring at me blushed when I talk to her talk to everyone except me and text me more than talk to me she say she doesn’t like me
She very shy
Sometimes she happy around me and one day not
Shes just being nice
@@dpa2102 you sure ? Because I constantly see her staring at me
@@dpa2102 another is when she talk to somebody and when I’m around that person she talking too her feet are pointed toward me
Reminds of getting an Americana over Starbucks
Lol!
What if you get most of these signs but at the same time they refuse to hang out one on one.
Then go for someone new.
@@emlovz I don't talk to her anymore. I thought we were at least friends but she refused to have a real conversation with me. Women only USE you if you aren't attractive enough. This has been my experience. I don't hate women but I definitely don't trust them. Been lead on, used and disrespected by too many of them
@ GB - Do not worry. They do not care at all about GUYS being disrespected. They still want men to pursue them . . . .
Public space is a little bit awkward with lots of social intrusions. Body language hard to read. Don’t go out in public much anymore.
It can be hard to put yourself out there especially after Covid. Why not try finding a class or something you like to do with the same group of people you see every week?
In the world 🌎 we live in let the woman make the move
If your wallet is fat, with a stranger it is flirting. If your wallet is lacking, you are harassing. That is how women think-period.
But sometimes when you look eye contact with her and then final decide to approach her, she begins to act all up ....weird isn't it?? 🤣
I'm not falling into that trap
You are amazing,thank you for helping me understand how women feel,because it is so difficult to know some times.There is one girl I am very interested in and I think you have given me the confidence to approach her.She is a lot younger than me,so I feel like a bit of a perv,however some girls like older guys and I really don''t want to upset her,what do you suggest.
Is that mean paying the bill first
Lol
Why do women get mad or feel a certain way when a guy they don't want or they turn down, shows interest in other women?
Cuz it hurts their ego... They want simps
You are one good looking Woman.
1:52..If I'm not attracted to her, it's weird.
If I'm attracted to her, it's great!!!
As a woman, there’s nothing sexier than a man saying “can I kiss you?” I will literally give him the kiss if he asked so politely
The couching is too bad for our Life here in mexico. It's just only business.
i don't get it. women are choosers and males are supposed to approach first ? what is the reason for a man to approach a woman if he is not a chooser ?
🦚 syndrome it all goes back to parental investment
How long do I have to keep staring at her before she understands that I want her to come over and talk to me???
Go talk to her homie
@@emlovz and say what exactly? I don't wanna screw it up and have her hate me or completely ignore me.
@ G - They are NOT going to discuss this with you . . .men are NOT approaching and they need more guys to do it and talk to her "homie ' . . .
@@enniswhalen2428 so what you are saying is she should approach me first? Cool!!!
@ G - This "push and pull" has been going on for a while. Women believe that they are entitled to have men do the "approaching" ,although they want to claim that THEY make the "first move ' by giving out obvious signs. Sounds like guys today either do not sense the signs or do NOT appreciate the entitlement attitudes and the MeToo headaches.Having women show REAL interest gets around all of that.There is ACTUALLY a female "dating coach" who insists that men REJECT women if they fail to respond to those obvious invitations to men for men to pursue them.
Other women say that they appear to be "too easy" if they do the approaching.Real fun day out there. . . .