What to do when she rejects you

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  • @TheSingleGuy
    @TheSingleGuy  2 роки тому +280

    Do not move on to try and win her back. Do it for yourself.

    • @randomclipsuntil
      @randomclipsuntil Рік тому +7

      Nah Man im chilling with boys

    • @wilkinstokarev5705
      @wilkinstokarev5705 11 місяців тому +4

      Nah man i rather try my luck in japan first coz many high value girls there that are in the right heads.

    • @GlorytotheAutomatons
      @GlorytotheAutomatons 10 місяців тому

      @@wilkinstokarev5705I lived in Japan for 2 years and I noticed that most of the girls are very very professional

    • @virtual240
      @virtual240 5 місяців тому

      Ive never had a woman who rejected me ever change her mind. They all wanted nothing to do with me. Ive gotten bitter and resentful towards women because they lack empathy for my situation. 9/10 have rejected me because of my looks and attitude. The reality is that the women I like dont like me. Im considering suicide in the coming months because I have NPD and women dont view me as being datable.

    • @talktalk2412
      @talktalk2412 День тому

      But then the next one rejects me!!! :@

  • @VikesHike
    @VikesHike 2 роки тому +821

    The rejection thing doesn’t bother me much anymore. I’m just happy that I actually tried by approaching a lady

    • @TheSingleGuy
      @TheSingleGuy  2 роки тому +125

      I love this mentality

    • @shashwat3653
      @shashwat3653 2 роки тому +38

      But the worst part is that they reject you and go after someone who is below u or beneath you in every aspect ..

    • @dcrawley507
      @dcrawley507 2 роки тому +15

      Thats really all that matters that you tried

    • @dez9950
      @dez9950 Рік тому +9

      Yea better do it than regret it later

    • @dez9950
      @dez9950 Рік тому +1

      @@shashwat3653 yea because they want to compete in a rela and be the dominant one..

  • @gvisoso780
    @gvisoso780 Рік тому +187

    If she rejects you she’s betting you aren’t good enough or ever be good enough. It’s your job to make sure she loses that bet

    • @ttamcc.4674
      @ttamcc.4674 Рік тому +14

      Exactly!!! Love this comment

    • @innavision1920
      @innavision1920 7 місяців тому +6

      Yessir

    • @kevinbrooks9074
      @kevinbrooks9074 5 місяців тому +3

      Eye for an eye

    • @EmilyGloeggler7984
      @EmilyGloeggler7984 3 місяці тому +2

      She doesn’t lose the bet. She can find better. I did. :)

    • @kevinbrooks9074
      @kevinbrooks9074 3 місяці тому +1

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      In this enchanted scene, the ocean became a sanctuary where acceptance reigned supreme. The mermaids, united by the bonds of love, swirled within the embrace of the tide, casting aside any societal currents that sought to divide them. With tails entwined and hearts connected, they embodied a powerful testament to the beauty of love's diversity, transcending both land and sea.
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  • @imcoop
    @imcoop Рік тому +182

    Best thing to do to a woman when she rejects you is to ignore, move on and don't give the person the satisfaction of seeing you hurt.

    • @stevo6891
      @stevo6891 Рік тому +13

      What I do!! When I’m rejected I forget them like they never existed!!

    • @alphap9007
      @alphap9007 9 місяців тому +5

      No, don’t take it personally and don’t accept hurt in the first place.
      How do you know It’s a negative thing?? If you brought your best self, she could be nervous, intimidated. She could of just had a bad day. Could be heart broken from a previous relationship.
      You could be too much for her.
      Girls reject guys for many different reasons, bring your best self and never take it personally.

    • @EmilyGloeggler7984
      @EmilyGloeggler7984 3 місяці тому

      Classic ego stroking and self delusion.

  • @avici0182
    @avici0182 2 роки тому +56

    The greatest form of skill a man could learn is to know humility and acceptance on when to walk away. It's a form of self love.

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      ☝️☝️☝️He is the best at fixing broken relationship restoration and attracting love💕💕💕

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      👆👆👆Hello if you want to get your ex back, you want to get a third party out of your relationship, love spell, reading, money spell♻️♻️

  • @ShadowKing1993
    @ShadowKing1993 Рік тому +42

    Rejection is a part of life. Don’t be mad at the one who rejected you. I was for the longest time. Till one day I heard about my old crush’s ill reputation. Sometimes rejection can be a blessing for you.

  • @silviosarunic3234
    @silviosarunic3234 7 місяців тому +90

    If someone rejects you:
    - she knows what you wanted and what she did to you
    - she knows what she did to you
    - she knows that its over from her side
    - never chase that girl
    - forget her
    - immediately go to full no contact and don’t accept her trying to stay in contact with her
    - forget her and move on
    - take all your previous attention from her
    - respect yourself
    - she rejected you because she doesn’t care , so why should you care for someone who left you at the begging of something you wanted…
    - case close , never contact her again, because she could reject you again…

    • @zlyzly6860
      @zlyzly6860 5 місяців тому +6

      Thanks bro, your words make
      me feel motivated.

    • @bobjohn6022
      @bobjohn6022 4 місяці тому +2

      needed this rn ty bro, 👑

    • @hot_guy997
      @hot_guy997 26 днів тому +3

      And if she does gain interest you will know!

  • @matthewcomino4762
    @matthewcomino4762 2 роки тому +516

    If she rejected you it's because in her eyes, you're not good enough for her. Nothing is really gonna change that. Sorry to burst everyone's bubble but if she rejects you, odds are she won't change her mind. Even if she sees you 'levelling up'. Just move on to someone else and forget about her.

    • @Pakit0PT
      @Pakit0PT 2 роки тому +6

      I needed to read that. Thank you

    • @Lvl22Cowboy
      @Lvl22Cowboy 2 роки тому +16

      Speak for yourself bud lol

    • @SimonTheRock1
      @SimonTheRock1 Рік тому +9

      @@Lvl22Cowboy You sound hurt. Guy actually gave you a hint to work on yourself.

    • @markangelogarcia2584
      @markangelogarcia2584 Рік тому +17

      this vid making FALSE HOPES to those guys that got rejected

    • @EmilyGloeggler7984
      @EmilyGloeggler7984 Рік тому +11

      She already moved onto someone else

  • @longydongy1004
    @longydongy1004 Рік тому +38

    I’ve dealt with nonstop rejection from 12 years old all the way into my late 30s. Once I hit 40 and was more financially successful I stopped caring and now focus on spending my money on myself.

    • @kevinbrooks9074
      @kevinbrooks9074 5 місяців тому +1

      A democrat member of Congress pulled a fire alarm to avoid a vote... and the media supported it

  • @lp1785
    @lp1785 2 роки тому +144

    More like “complete rejection doesn’t exist.” She may reject you at one time, accept you the next. But for a long-term relationship you want someone who won’t put you through those ups and downs.

  • @violeteyes5255
    @violeteyes5255 Рік тому +100

    When she rejects you, you accept it and move on. Life is too short to fret over someone saying "No" to you. As far as I'm concerned, no means no, "They're not interested", so why waste your time even thinking about it. I once asked a woman out and she politely declined by saying, "Thank You For Asking, But No Thank You". I accepted it and moved on. Six months later I happen to run into this woman again and she came up to me with a big smile on her face and started asking me how I was and what's been going on. We chatted for a few minutes when out of the blue she said this to me, "When Are You Going To Ask Me Out?" I told her that I had already asked her out and that she told me thank you, but no thank you. She laughed and said this to me, "You Give Up Too Easy". I said to her, "What Do You Mean? I Asked You Out And You Said No And No To Me Means That You're Not Interested." I then went on to tell her that she never gave me any kind of reason to ask again, that she said "No" and didn't elaborate by saying something like, "Maybe Some Other Time" or "Not Now Because (Whatever)", or anything, that she said "No" and as far as I was concerned that was that. I also told her that I don't chase anyone, I ask once, and if the answer is no, I move on and never ask again. So, she then said this to me, "Then That Means You're Never Going To Ask Me Out Again?" I politely said "No", told her to have a nice evening and left. The shocked look on her face was priceless.

    • @iambeloved496
      @iambeloved496 Рік тому +5

      Lol nice. In my opinion I'd say that was the right choice as it seems possible she was trying to play games with you but who knows.

    • @violeteyes5255
      @violeteyes5255 Рік тому +2

      @iambeloved The indecisiveness of women can drive you crazy if you let it, but I don't. I don't allow myself to get wrapped up in any women's madness.

    • @iambeloved496
      @iambeloved496 Рік тому

      @@violeteyes5255 I am unfortunately an overthinker so I get all kinds of crap that goes through my head. Trying to figure out ways to stop doing that.

    • @violeteyes5255
      @violeteyes5255 Рік тому +7

      @iambeloved I used to be an overthinker, but one day, I discovered I was just wasting my time, and my time is worth much more than any woman's inability to make up her mind. Life is too short, and I have better things to do with my time than to be going around and around in circles getting nowhere. I don't play mind games, and I don't allow women to trap me in them. It makes life so much easier when you simplify.

    • @iambeloved496
      @iambeloved496 Рік тому +1

      @@violeteyes5255 good deal thank you for sharing maybe I stand a chance

  • @TYE2020
    @TYE2020 2 роки тому +62

    We should move on and let it go if we get rejected

    • @TheSingleGuy
      @TheSingleGuy  2 роки тому +10

      Exactly

    • @TYE2020
      @TYE2020 2 роки тому +3

      @@TheSingleGuy I could be wrong it’s just in my opinion

    • @ttamcc.4674
      @ttamcc.4674 Рік тому +2

      @@TYE2020 you should but they do come back, so don’t neglect that

  • @ericephemetherson3964
    @ericephemetherson3964 Рік тому +58

    The power of silence is the best. In my cases I usually don't give a damn about someone that rejected me.

  • @tamastoth7068
    @tamastoth7068 2 роки тому +23

    I just move on. Plenty fish in the sea. The key word here is abundance mindset guys.

    • @TheSingleGuy
      @TheSingleGuy  2 роки тому +1

      100%

    • @EmilyGloeggler7984
      @EmilyGloeggler7984 Рік тому +1

      Those are called players and the wise woman knows to avoid modern Don Juans who could replace a woman whenever they feel like it. Ladies or men who act like that with that toxic mindset deserve no one.

    • @Jarrion2x
      @Jarrion2x Рік тому

      @@EmilyGloeggler7984 not a toxic mindset at all, im not gonna chase a woman, period, it lowers confidence and people lead into depression

  • @jasmeetsingh5
    @jasmeetsingh5 2 роки тому +33

    If she rejects you, walk away. If you keep pursuing her, then you're harassing her.

    • @ForeverBennett
      @ForeverBennett 16 днів тому

      Yep, walk away and pretend she never existed.

  • @FJano12
    @FJano12 2 роки тому +41

    Think about all that money you saved. You can even thank she rejected you lol

    • @TheSingleGuy
      @TheSingleGuy  2 роки тому +11

      haha and all the time you saved too

    • @FJano12
      @FJano12 2 роки тому

      @@TheSingleGuy Yeah time too! Since I think like this rejection never hurt me :)

    • @wayneatchison2077
      @wayneatchison2077 2 роки тому +3

      LOL!! This made me laught because its what I just felt. The girl I liked and asked out made up a "rule" that she couldn't date a guy that she saw at her job (she works at my gym). It was just 3 weeks ago and still hurts a little but right after she said no I put money in my savings at home that I planned on spending on the date. More money for me I guess.

    • @mharrtj6350
      @mharrtj6350 Рік тому

      @@FJano12 Bro I always chase the bag and purpose. Thought of approaching a girl or dating never crossed my mind. Once I started seeing girls throwing themselves at me with choosing signals. I became curious and learned about it. I started regretting because alot of high quality sexy girls wanted me to approach them all along. This made me fired up and angry. I always had unshakable self esteem and self confidence but this boosted it even more. Now all I had to do was learn how to approach and socialise with a girl as I had no prior experiences. I decided to take the coldest toughest doomed to go wrong path. I went out of bed, went to the mall, searched and found the most hottest, sexiest, gorgeous girl I ever saw and I approached her. The social anxiety as an introvert kicked in and I wanted to run away so bad but when I did, it stung me in the heart because I was doing the same mistake of not approaching due to social fear. So I conquered myself and cold approached her. I got rejected due to flawed inexperienced approach game but it gave me positive results because if I can approach the most sexiest girl without knowing her, then i can approach any girl, and this means it’s way easy to approach a girl who gives me choosing signals like most of them one before did. So my self esteem and self confidence as a high value man still remained intact, she just put a scratch which will heal. So yeah over all it was a positive result with a pinch of salt.

  • @thrasher2753
    @thrasher2753 2 роки тому +87

    You speak the truth man. This happened to me last year. It's a burden to carry, but I stood tall and walked away after the rejection and continued on my path. Guess what? As of a couple months ago, shes constantly trying to initiate conversations with me and even wants to hang out with me at times(even with her still with the dude/new bf she chose over me). But nah, still not giving in, as I'm doing better than ever. This made me also realize why even try to date her anymore if shes trying to talk to me even with her new bf lol.

    • @josephhill2868
      @josephhill2868 2 роки тому +6

      Yes brother love that!

    • @illahee24
      @illahee24 2 роки тому +13

      She still wants to know you have those feelings for her. It's a trap and you made the right move

  • @Tsathogguah
    @Tsathogguah 2 роки тому +48

    Good advice. Best thing to do when rejected is to act polite and nonchalant about it. Never burn a bridge but quickly move on to other opportunities. A certain SMALL percentage of the time, there may be an opportunity with her in the future so don't sabotage that, but don't count on it either.

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      👆👆👆Hello if you want to get your ex back, you want to get a third party out of your relationship, love spell, reading, money spell♻️♻️

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      ☝️☝️☝️He is the best at fixing broken relationship restoration and attracting love💕💕💕

    • @ttamcc.4674
      @ttamcc.4674 Рік тому

      Out of every comment I read on here yours made so much sense, thank you!!

    • @scorpion1828
      @scorpion1828 8 місяців тому

      Nope if she didn’t wanted me in the first time I won’t give second chance

  • @gigachad6162
    @gigachad6162 2 роки тому +47

    My view on rejection is who gives a shit she “rejects” you. It’s not personal, maybe she doesn’t like the way you talk, or the way you eat. Maybe she thinks you’re ugly, maybe there’s an ex, who cares. It doesn’t matter the reason, you’ll just be wasting time thinking of why instead of moving on to a woman who values you.

    • @tomjones5338
      @tomjones5338 8 місяців тому +1

      Do nothing seriously don't worry about or think about it if u see her be cool normal smile look happy don't worry the key is she sees nothing is gotten to u she'll respect you don't pursue at all

    • @kevinbrooks9074
      @kevinbrooks9074 5 місяців тому +1

      What if it is personal?

    • @rizvaldo7209
      @rizvaldo7209 9 днів тому

      ​@kevinbrooks9074 it doesn't matter what it is or isn't. What matters is letting go and moving forward. Forget her.

  • @dalujose
    @dalujose Рік тому +29

    Well i got rejected twice from the same girl. And i was planning to ask her again, but after this video i got some confidence and i realized that will be a needy thing. Well said. Thanks for this.

    • @b4p2max82
      @b4p2max82 8 днів тому +1

      How's it going bro

  • @MrSulimanaloraini
    @MrSulimanaloraini 2 роки тому +23

    Getting rejectied is much better than not trying to approach a woman! At least, at the end of the day you'll not regret that you didn't approach her!

  • @theguynextdoor4978
    @theguynextdoor4978 Рік тому +6

    I normally just say something like: It's sad that you feel that way, but I respect your choice. Wish you all the best and proceed to move on.

  • @filipnyberg95
    @filipnyberg95 Рік тому +13

    A girl I had something going on with (we had met up about 7 times, and went on 1 date). Used the ”I see this more as a friendship” card on me. I told her that I have enough friends and wished her good luck on everthing going on in her life.

    • @barlescharkley3976
      @barlescharkley3976 Рік тому +1

      Hell nah man no friendship let her know you want something romantic

  • @CrypticDanny
    @CrypticDanny Рік тому +1

    Wow. I literally got rejected today and this came up on my suggestions. Shout out to the UA-cam algorithm! Great video btw

  • @m_jay5
    @m_jay5 7 місяців тому +6

    Once you get "friendzoned" (rejected) move on! Being rejected hurts way less than staying "friends" with a person that rejected you! There is NO BEING FRIENDS after GETTING REJECTED!

    • @kevinbrooks9074
      @kevinbrooks9074 5 місяців тому +1

      Incel

    • @ForeverBennett
      @ForeverBennett 16 днів тому +1

      Yeah, this chick who rejected me couldn't understand why I didn't want to talk to her and avoided/ignored her. She's like "What's the big deal?". She was clueless. I'm not gonna stay friends after that. Moving on, NEXT!

  • @goatt1299
    @goatt1299 Рік тому +5

    Rejection just a misunderstanding 💯

  • @teck1294
    @teck1294 2 роки тому +6

    Somehow heard a point of view I never did! Great video as usual. Keep up the underrated real tips.

  • @alphap9007
    @alphap9007 9 місяців тому +4

    This is hands down the best way to handle rejection. Respond with “ok no problem” and stay positive and up beat. Never act butt hurt. Ask her if her day is going ok and tell her it was nice speaking with her.
    She will never expect it.
    The Proof is bc it’s hard to do!! If you get rejected or dumped and you don’t know what to do, do what your feelings DON’T tell you to do.
    You’re feelings tell you look for an reason or explanation from her. Your feelings tell you to try again explain yourself, Your feelings tell you to get angry, get even, get revenge.
    But your feelings hardly ever tell you to walk away, treat the rejection as her problem, stay friendly and never take it personally and move on to another girl, the one that likes you.

  • @kreyaturr7960
    @kreyaturr7960 Рік тому

    Love that positive thinking be a beast

  • @BenAoA
    @BenAoA Рік тому +101

    Rejection is difficult for me. It’s been a lifelong issue. My own Dad rejected me when I was 12, so I’m always finding ways to deal with rejection, as a whole, in a more positive way.

    • @game_theory2547
      @game_theory2547 Рік тому +6

      sry to hear that smh. yo dad ain't shxt. u gon b aight tho

    • @Maya_heart
      @Maya_heart Рік тому

      I’m sorry to hear that as well. Rejection suck’s It’s the worst thing in life but u are closer to finding everything that’s ahead of u

    • @TubeDeviant
      @TubeDeviant Рік тому

      Or, you can think of it this way.. You father rejected you, so you can take ANY rejection from ANY woman.. Correct..? I say that because I was abandoned by my "father"..

    • @alexgavin1563
      @alexgavin1563 Рік тому

      @@Maya_heart I’ll kill it ver rejection

    • @AliOmar-np4pl
      @AliOmar-np4pl Рік тому +1

      Bro go for a sales job, you will forget your dad's rejection 😂 JK stay strong

  • @phamvuminh8435
    @phamvuminh8435 10 місяців тому +6

    This is so true. After so many rejections, I think the best way to deal with rejection is just simply by being true to yourself. Understanding who you are and just be nice to them. Hey you are living for yourself here, if you like them just like them, treat them nicely (without for wanting them to rethink of course) and if they don't like you back, yeah you still have your life ahead. Be nice yo everyone guys, the right ones will come.
    Thanks for the video TheSingleGuy :D

  • @psycho-logical3756
    @psycho-logical3756 Рік тому +1

    strong projection keep up the good work man

  • @edgarchristiansen2934
    @edgarchristiansen2934 2 роки тому +26

    The timing of this video is insane man! Just watched your video because this girl I liked was inviting me to go out a month ago and then she distanced herself for a while after a few weeks but she still watches my stories! I tried hitting her up today and a week before and I realized I’m the one that’s being too needy! I noticed when you let it come to you they come back it’s weird it’s like reverse psychology sometimes haha! So right now I’m playing it cool and just being supportive about it! Thank you for your videos Lloyd they have helped me out a lot in keeping my confidence while at the same time not losing myself over a girl or over rejections! Have a blessed day man and keep the videos coming!😁🤙

    • @thunderkatz4219
      @thunderkatz4219 2 роки тому +1

      Aye can you update us on what happened between you and her

  • @Neon_toaster
    @Neon_toaster 2 роки тому +7

    Really needed this, thanks king ❤️

  • @JordanBrotherInJesus
    @JordanBrotherInJesus 11 місяців тому

    Love your positivity and advice.

  • @DallasSniper
    @DallasSniper 2 роки тому +16

    Focus on you, and the women will too

    • @TheSingleGuy
      @TheSingleGuy  2 роки тому +7

      yes but make sure they meet you at some point

  • @danieleliyahu3014
    @danieleliyahu3014 10 місяців тому

    Amazing video bro, like your attitude.
    It’s all about the mindset

  • @MatthewRumble
    @MatthewRumble 2 роки тому +6

    The quality of these videos are amazing

    • @TheSingleGuy
      @TheSingleGuy  2 роки тому +1

      thanks homie. I'm stepping it back up

  • @littlelily4
    @littlelily4 5 місяців тому +1

    I love your way of thinking ! I'm going to apply this to guys as well
    You are so right

  • @ttamcc.4674
    @ttamcc.4674 Рік тому

    I love how you said this, I needed this video❤

  • @jossell911
    @jossell911 Рік тому +1

    Awesome vid brotha. The message I got from this vid and what you did was indifference💯

  • @altafanverali9980
    @altafanverali9980 Рік тому

    Love the echo in ur room

  • @zukondis
    @zukondis 2 роки тому +30

    My dude this so true and I hope every viewer listens. Almost every time I got rejected I was nice but did try to convince them to give us a chance lol my goodness the cringe. Last girl I dated though, i wished her the best and played along. Did express i was thankful for my time with her, but only truthful stuff that i really meant. By this point I was happy myself to move along, and essentially ghosted her after since i didn’t owe her anything. Months and even more than a year after she’s been reaching out and wanting another chance. I can only feel sorry because i am not longer available for her, but it is worth pointing out that this girl DID mention that one main reason she wanted another chance was because other guys usually take rejection horribly and i was the first dude to not react that way. So yes, it truly flips the script. This isn’t to brag about this poor girl, she’s great and i hope she’s moved on to some other great dude, this is about the fact that trying to force things never works

    • @avici0182
      @avici0182 2 роки тому +2

      That my friend is a form of mind game. Props to you for moving forward

    • @zukondis
      @zukondis 2 роки тому +7

      @@avici0182 bro there’s no games here, It’s literally just being truthful, making a decision for your own well being and sticking to it. People, not just women, just respond very well to maturity and acting like a descent human being. It’s so rare that it makes you more attractive just by the scarcity of it.

    • @avici0182
      @avici0182 2 роки тому +4

      @@zukondis I totally agree with what you said from your original comment. What I meant by mind games is how she came back to you AFTER you moved on with your life. That to me is a form of mind games, it's as if she was just testing how you would take her rejection instead of just being honest with you.

    • @jcm2789
      @jcm2789 2 роки тому

      @@avici0182 I'm in this situation right now, I've courted this girl for 1 year. She's having a mental episodes where in she's slitting her wrist. I chat her if she needs someone to talk to, I'm here but her reply was " No, I don't need your help just leave me alone" so I gave what she wanted. It's been 3 weeks since that incident and she's fine now posting funny stuff in social media but I'm still not giving her attention or any form of communication I just go radio silent. P.S I've been in a roller coaster of a relationship with her due to her excuse of not being mentally stable but she's actively on fb and active commenting with her friends. It feels like she's not feeling sorry on what she said to me.

    • @avici0182
      @avici0182 2 роки тому +1

      @@jcm2789 that's a tough spot to be on man. Give her your best wish and focus on you. We cannot help someone else when us ourselves are falling apart.

  • @marioottaiano475
    @marioottaiano475 2 роки тому +42

    Awesome video Lloyd! Great advice, very good! You can always turn things around, in every situation in life, but the point is why should you exert efforts towards someone who rejected you? You are awesome and it's a privilege spending time with you, this is really the best way you should think about yourself

    • @TheSingleGuy
      @TheSingleGuy  2 роки тому +11

      Do not do this to try and 'win her back' do it for yourself

  • @FirstLast-uz4zz
    @FirstLast-uz4zz Місяць тому

    Thank you. I just got rejected because I am 15 years older and my height is short. This is enlightening. I appreciate your wisdom.

  • @mikerozic7225
    @mikerozic7225 Рік тому

    SingleGuy Thank You!

  • @agustingiraldo7385
    @agustingiraldo7385 2 роки тому +1

    Lloyd, i'm grateful for this video. You're awesome.

  • @JMBM44
    @JMBM44 2 роки тому +1

    Awesome tips brother.

  • @kxenyy
    @kxenyy 2 роки тому

    love the background dude

  • @juandelacruz5247
    @juandelacruz5247 Місяць тому

    I like your talking points man. There is a smile on my face the whole time I was listening to you. There is this girl whom I had a "love at first sight moment in 2013". I met her again in 2015 and from then on started hanging with her, hiking, going out on a trip with our families and etc. I'm not madly crazy in love with her, but grew to really care for her. I'll ask to start a courtship with her few days from now. I hope it will turn out good, but watching this to prepare myself 😅 just in case.

  • @Imran-Lalani
    @Imran-Lalani 6 місяців тому +1

    This is no different than a sales pitch. You are the product.

  • @lionboi3771
    @lionboi3771 2 роки тому +14

    I'm writing this as a successful man Lloyd. With your wisdom I lost my membership to the club if you know what I mean :) You're a lifesaver and I really appreciate what you're doing. Keep on doing your thing mate, respect.

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

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    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      ☝️☝️☝️He is the best at fixing broken relationship restoration and attracting love💕💕💕..

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      @✛2348113028928👈⏩⏩눈‸눈..

  • @stevecavusoglu163
    @stevecavusoglu163 Рік тому +6

    Your being OK with her wanting to be with her friends signified "your self worth" to her. That you are a high caliber guy and its her loss and not yours. Bravo my friend!! Exactly how I would have acted. You have to look at yourself as being the prize and not her

    • @mharrtj6350
      @mharrtj6350 Рік тому +1

      Bro I always chase the bag and purpose. Thought of approaching a girl or dating never crossed my mind. Once I started seeing girls throwing themselves at me with choosing signals. I became curious and learned about it. I started regretting because alot of high quality sexy girls wanted me to approach them all along. This made me fired up and angry. I always had unshakable self esteem and self confidence but this boosted it even more. Now all I had to do was learn how to approach and socialise with a girl as I had no prior experiences. I decided to take the coldest toughest doomed to go wrong path. I went out of bed, went to the mall, searched and found the most hottest, sexiest, gorgeous girl I ever saw and I approached her. The social anxiety as an introvert kicked in and I wanted to run away so bad but when I did, it stung me in the heart because I was doing the same mistake of not approaching due to social fear. So I conquered myself and cold approached her. I got rejected due to flawed inexperienced approach game but it gave me positive results because if I can approach the most sexiest girl without knowing her, then k can approach any girl, and this means it’s way easy to approach a girl who gives me choosing signals like most of them one before did. So my self esteem and self confidence as a high value man still remained intact, she just put a scratch which will heal. So yeah over all it was a positive result with a pinch of salt. I am happy that I conquered a fear that held me back.

  • @jcm2789
    @jcm2789 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you for the positive and non toxic advice. I feel motivated to move on, if she comes to my life again thats great but i will not beg for her to come back right now I will be focusing on my self growth.

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      👆👆👆Hello if you want to get your ex back, you want to get a third party out of your relationship, love spell, reading, money spell♻️♻️

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      ☝️☝️☝️He is the best at fixing broken relationship restoration and attracting love💕💕💕

  • @jeonkyong3811
    @jeonkyong3811 2 роки тому +12

    Let her go its her loss

  • @sierra002hg2
    @sierra002hg2 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for your great advice. I appreciate you

  • @HigherEducationAwakening
    @HigherEducationAwakening Рік тому

    Mark this guy's words. Best video on this subject. More accept than support. one word answers of "okay" or "alright" are perfect

  • @andrewlenghel2818
    @andrewlenghel2818 2 роки тому +1

    Perfect timing for this video!

  • @JohnVincentMfitness
    @JohnVincentMfitness 2 роки тому +1

    I like the message of this video.ITS BURNING🔥

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      👆👆👆Hello if you want to get your ex back, you want to get a third party out of your relationship, love spell, reading, money spell♻️♻️

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      ☝️☝️☝️He is the best at fixing broken relationship restoration and attracting love💕💕💕

  • @ss3mania28
    @ss3mania28 7 днів тому

    AMAZING VIDEO

  • @Tom-cp6yj
    @Tom-cp6yj 4 місяці тому +5

    Sometimes, two great compatible people meet at the wrong time and just can't be together, and it has nothing to do with you!

  • @catinho9705
    @catinho9705 Рік тому

    Thanks bro this was very helpful

  • @nathaelgonzalez8991
    @nathaelgonzalez8991 Рік тому

    Great Advice ! Thanks

  • @ulrohermit1369
    @ulrohermit1369 9 місяців тому

    Thanks man i needed this

  • @arunkv3776
    @arunkv3776 2 роки тому +1

    Your advice is great man

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      👆👆👆Hello if you want to get your ex back, you want to get a third party out of your relationship, love spell, reading, money spell♻️♻️

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      ☝️☝️☝️He is the best at fixing broken relationship restoration and attracting love💕💕💕

  • @Gabriel_2929
    @Gabriel_2929 8 місяців тому

    Thx man! Respect ❤

  • @thevanegas9678
    @thevanegas9678 7 місяців тому

    Woah, amazing. Thank you.

  • @alex124241
    @alex124241 2 місяці тому

    This helps. A lot…Thank you so much

  • @joeblow1942
    @joeblow1942 11 місяців тому

    This is very wise advice.

  • @SunsetLights
    @SunsetLights 2 роки тому +2

    love this video man
    3:06 - 3:38 is gold, keep ya head up homies

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      👆👆👆Hello if you want to get your ex back, you want to get a third party out of your relationship, love spell, reading, money spell♻️♻️

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      ☝️☝️☝️He is the best at fixing broken relationship restoration and attracting love💕💕💕

  • @z.daniel6837
    @z.daniel6837 Рік тому +2

    Nice to meet yall my fellow rejected bros..

  • @albertnyorkor9248
    @albertnyorkor9248 11 місяців тому

    Thank God.
    You have delivered me.

  • @1st_agent
    @1st_agent Рік тому

    This is therapeutic

  • @dalitsobanda8295
    @dalitsobanda8295 2 роки тому +6

    Hey Loyd i recently just went into college i am still experiencing some rejection now and then both in school cumpus and back at the hotel were am staying for now it's no big deal to me lately coz i feel like am strong enough and this video really picked me up and I've kept pushing it came at a really perfect timing thanks a lot

  • @carloslp1431
    @carloslp1431 2 роки тому +27

    Three women I've met regretted rejecting me but it's not as satisfactory as some people think. I ended up confused, frustrated and I blamed myself for not knowing what do to. I'm considering calling them out if they keep doing this, at least there is a chance that they will acknowledge their immature behavior.

    • @carloslp1431
      @carloslp1431 2 роки тому +4

      @shafaat salisu you’re lucky that youtube doesn’t let me write bad words

    • @EmilyGloeggler7984
      @EmilyGloeggler7984 Рік тому +1

      The wise woman is the one who rejects and keeps walking away because she knows her own self value and knows what she wants and who realizes - I burnt the bridge. I do not have to go back.

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      👆👆👆Hello if you want to get your ex back, you want to get a third party out of your relationship, love spell, reading, money spell♻️♻️

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      ☝️☝️☝️He is the best at fixing broken relationship restoration and attracting love💕💕💕

    • @googleuser1894
      @googleuser1894 Рік тому +1

      ​​@@EmilyGloeggler7984 wise women even knows that she doesn't deserve that rejected guy because she's not worth for it instead she looks for a guy level Below her

  • @dr.maazasif5424
    @dr.maazasif5424 Рік тому

    Quite a video 👌💚💚

  • @AliKhan-zx4mn
    @AliKhan-zx4mn 11 місяців тому +1

    Timing is a factor

  • @jessedominguez1285
    @jessedominguez1285 2 місяці тому

    I found your video, helpful and as of today she said she didn’t see us turning into something more serious and our first date went good and I responded in a calm matter. So let’s see what happens next and I’m moving on.

  • @LoveKayee
    @LoveKayee 4 місяці тому

    Haha bout to go express my interest, knowing I'm probally gonna get rejected. But it would feel worse not to be open about it. This video resonates and helps with the confidence, thanks!

  • @tonypietraroia1388
    @tonypietraroia1388 16 днів тому

    Excellent

  • @weavorjjohanna5619
    @weavorjjohanna5619 Рік тому +5

    i just got rejected by my crush yesterday
    strange thing is... i actually feel really great ( which is kind disturbing yes i know but hear me out )
    The simple fact is : you don't chase the thing that trying to shoo you away, that's just logic, what i am trying to prove is, if you got rejected multiple times in your life, chances are, after about the 5th time, you probably will feel great afterward, they are the one who rejected you, show them the consequences of that action by : being happy, confident, don't chase them, work on yourself, be the best version of yourself, cause let be honest here, if you confessed your crush you probably already stir something up in that person, give them sometimes, and let them win you back ( since they chased you away, why are you the one who trying to pulling them back, you should let them put some effort into winning you back )

    • @noelgibson5956
      @noelgibson5956 11 місяців тому

      Some rejections are actually postponements.
      I got rejected by a crush years ago. I thanked her for her candacy and told her:- not a problem at all. About a week later, we were at the same dance function and she pulled me up for a dance, and told me I gave up too easily.
      What I did was leave it alone because I knew the ball was now in her court. I played my part prior. We went on to get married. We later got divorced.........but not before enjoying lots of good sex for a few years! 💃😁

    • @weavorjjohanna5619
      @weavorjjohanna5619 11 місяців тому

      @@noelgibson5956 well you see, you still need to let her go tho, but i really hope you are doing okay now, hope you will find someone better

  • @zekekillah
    @zekekillah 2 роки тому +20

    I still remember when I tried asking a girl for her number, and then suggest or she could have mine if she ever wanted to talk. She said no. I was like "alright, thats cool".
    2 weeks later she calls me, and my first response was "wow, how did you get my number?" and she sounded surprised I said that. And I was serious, like it was weird. A friend gave her my number. Still annoyed that she didn't ask me directly for it, because if a I did that to her I would be the enemy/weird.

    • @TheSingleGuy
      @TheSingleGuy  2 роки тому +6

      she obviously liked you

    • @anonymous2964
      @anonymous2964 2 роки тому

      @@TheSingleGuy I been going back & forth with this girl for over year. Recently I texted her that I wanted to talk but she insulted me said she didn't want to do anything with me. But after 2 hours called me for the first time ever. I didn't pick up the phone. How do I deal with her. Now her response as phone call is stuck in mind. Should I use middle person.

  • @christianrowbotham7386
    @christianrowbotham7386 10 місяців тому +2

    Ive been rejected way too many times that i should be used to it at this point, but honestly it really never gets any easier. Specially if you been seeing this person for a while.

  • @JayZ..
    @JayZ.. Рік тому

    Nailed it

  • @mt-cd4oy
    @mt-cd4oy 6 місяців тому

    Having compassion for others and ourselves is crucial

  • @SuperBaby11
    @SuperBaby11 Рік тому

    Bro your a g, helped me a lot. but the monk beads dont go with Player talk hahaha! all love

  • @youwouldntbelieveit89
    @youwouldntbelieveit89 Рік тому

    Man, excellent video 📸 thank you so much ☺️ She rejected me today, but I was cool with that, i have to accept it 😎😎😎

  • @thamuzm2684
    @thamuzm2684 2 роки тому

    Love this video

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      ☝️☝️☝️He is the best at fixing broken relationship restoration and attracting love💕💕💕

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      👆👆👆Hello if you want to get your ex back, you want to get a third party out of your relationship, love spell, reading, money spell♻️♻️

  • @YouilAushana
    @YouilAushana 2 роки тому +23

    I guess this goes along the same lines, I met someone and given the circumstance of how we met we were able to take it slow and got to know each other and not rush into a relationship. Over several months we found we had a lot in common, connected, communicated well and were actually supportive of each others needs. She tried to push me into a relationship when I wasn't comfortable due to other things in life. I guess she was taking it as a rejection from me and began acting real childish and immature. I was patient with her and still tried to connect with her b/c I thought she was different and we had grown close. I guess her attitude changed back to being positive b/c she saw I was patient with her and her issues that I perceived plus she wasn't super attractive and maybe felt she wasn't good enough for me. By the time she had seen the error of her ways I was fed up with her poor attitude, and had seen a different side to her. I guess she tried to be nice to me again but I said what I had to say in a kind and gentle manner regarding how offended I was by her. Then became completely cold towards her. She told me she didn't want to see me anymore, I accepted that graciously and walked away but I just feel super guilty about something that seemed like it could've been good but didn't turn out that way. I'm not sure if this falls under the situation you're referring to in the video?

  • @didierbaudot
    @didierbaudot 11 місяців тому

    I like the way you explain everything in a calm natural way, i guess i'm a bit nervous with lady's and should relax more and not try to impress them too much just Have a good conversation with women. Thank you for the useful video 👍

  • @euloghtos8177
    @euloghtos8177 6 місяців тому

    damn those comments are all fire!!! thumbs up brothers

  • @rohantaneja7500
    @rohantaneja7500 2 роки тому +1

    yo man could've used this video like 3 weeks ago. was talking to this girl and she rejected the idea of dating me and i tried so hard to make her stick around because i thought that was my job to do. to show her that i was good. from 3 weeks , i tried my best to make something happen but it didn't. last night i messaged for closure ( i was desperate ) and it got a bit heated. i got told that i wasnt a priority to her. should've left it at that. i made an assumption about why and that was very rude of me. apologized for it and told her she wont hear from me again. in hindsight, i shouldve stopped 3 weeks ago. but hey you learn something new everyday. thanks and keep the good stuff coming.

    • @Tsathogguah
      @Tsathogguah 2 роки тому

      A good lesson for you to learn. You put this girl on a pedestal and when it didn't go right, it took you 3 weeks to get over it and embarrass yourself in front of her in the process. Don't put anyone on a pedestal like that again. Don't let this stop you from asking other people out though, and if you get rejected again (you will, we all do), just say "that's cool" and move on.

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      👆👆👆Hello if you want to get your ex back, you want to get a third party out of your relationship, love spell, reading, money spell♻️♻️

    • @penny6989
      @penny6989 Рік тому

      ☝️☝️☝️He is the best at fixing broken relationship restoration and attracting love💕💕💕

  • @rizvaldo7209
    @rizvaldo7209 9 днів тому

    They usually wont even tell the truth about why they rejected either. So no point trying to salvage anything. Walk away and live your life. Life is short.

  • @usamamohammed2357
    @usamamohammed2357 Рік тому

    Don't change yourself for anyone

  • @vdl3984
    @vdl3984 2 роки тому

    Nice voice man!

    • @Boe3
      @Boe3 2 роки тому

      Not his real voice 😂 he said he got hurt

    • @TheSingleGuy
      @TheSingleGuy  2 роки тому +1

      Haha yeah its a little harsh right now

  • @Nicey90
    @Nicey90 10 місяців тому

    Thank you bro

  • @Antslimeball
    @Antslimeball 2 роки тому +1

    Best videos here

  • @jyoungspins2200
    @jyoungspins2200 Рік тому +2

    I was talking with a woman - we’re both very busy with work and college…I notice whenever I would ask her to go out - she would be busy with work - school project- etc. Recently, I asked her out to the movies and she told me “someone else asked first”…then she said she’s open to go with me afterwards…I felt a kind of way about that knowing that she prioritized someone else before me. Then, yesterday, being thanksgiving, I asked her what her plans were and she told me “someone” asked her to have dinner with their family so today, I just forthrightly asked if she was seeing someone else and she affirmed that she had “been” seeing someone. My heart dropped. This is what brought me to this video. Trying to find some understanding. Of course she tells me “I’ll also be her “friend” forever which doesn’t sound as pleasing as being her main man… so I’m somewhat in a sunken place…

    • @ttamcc.4674
      @ttamcc.4674 Рік тому

      Bruh ik what you feel I truly do, I had my heart broken last week

  • @Satoshinakamoto2009
    @Satoshinakamoto2009 5 місяців тому

    Thank you so much its her loss you so right

  • @richardburchett
    @richardburchett 10 місяців тому

    Thank you. I was starting to have thoughts of doing the wrong thing. She hasn’t even really rejected me; just stopped texting me for a long while. Her last message was totally positive. I’m not going to overthink it. Alright. I’ll just live my life. I’ve got enough to deal with anyways. She liked me before. Maybe when the time is right she’ll be interested again.