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Women try to come back because the man may owe her money Melannie. I got friend zoned early in the morning. I was watching the news and this beautiful lady was doing the weather forecast. A'lls I could recall saying was, "this one fine lady right here." I wonder whats her name? All of a sudden she pulled out a remote and changed the channel on my T.V.
I am a woman and in the same situation as you. He didn’t see my value in my prime, now he wants me when he has a baby with an ex narcissist. Although I am still very attracted to him, I just can’t handle the situation he is in now...
Any women who has rejected and tries to come back doesn't get a second chance with me. If I'm not what they want, that's not on me. I don't have time for head games.
All I can say is that you have to go through pain and loneliness for a while, but you will end up with the right one. I am so glad that I didn‘t end up with the girl I thought I loved in college. She was a materialist and later in life she got really fat. So essentially I would have been married to a female Jabba the Hutt. I will take my Peruvian dream girl any day over that!
Wow.. you know how rude you sound . This comment gives the same energy as a kind of man who starts calling a girl ' she was not even that pretty' after getting rejected by her...
@@rahatthakur4480 : Thacker, I am not talking to you. Why do you feel the need to bother me? Don‘t answer that. It is a rhetorical question. Bye bye bye and bye.
@@Storytime2023x well this is just a public platform , if you commented be ready to get some replies ... But now clearly telling me to go off , okay :-) Nice strategy man
The biggest thing do is play games. All of them. Only children and dogs get anything close to unconditional love. A man is only loved for what he can provide. The secret is men, looking for a woman that brings something to the relationship. Both people come giving 100%
Funny how it seems only man have to work on themselves… specially nowadays, girls need to work on themselves more than ever. So guys. Stop sim ping and respect yourself more
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@@CoachMelannie here's another woman's logic for you: turns down a man simply because he never lost his virginity and gets enraged when another woman offers to be his first.
And why would you want to go back anyway? Once you and your ex split especially if you have no kids the break is easy. You should have nothing else to say to her. She will try and return, BUT DON’T ACCEPT HER!
If she friendzones or rejects you. Work improve your self and become man she wants but can not have. So do not take her if she have rejected you before. You do not need her.
When a person has no self respect for herself or himself, then that person will constantly be treated with disrespect. What you tolerate becomes the standard norm, and you allow to continue.
Yes, that. Exactly. Once rejected or friendzoned by a female and she comes back at you when you have evolved, do not concern yourself with her. It will not help you grow.
Those girls that friend zoned me when I was younger are still single. They're still waiting on Mr. Perfect to come along. It's too bad. I feel sorry for them now.
the moment i get that she is not interested, i just walk away n why not when there r lots of women out there who will n can treat me right? why stick with someone who shows no interest n be friend zoned? its better to walk away
Yes almost all my past girlfriends and wives have tried to come back after a break up , unfortunately for them I am neither that desperate nor that stupid to forgive and forget . There are far to many available women for anyone to put up with cheaters and mind games . Ex's turning up again after walking out is about as welcome as a dose of the flu
@@ronjones2435 Yes and it took about 2 weeks for the excuses to start . It really isn't a matter of staying strong it's a matter of how bad do you want a disease , a repeat of the same thing later down the road , and the complete loss of self respect because you accepted the worst disrespect possible
Had this happen by girls I knew in highschool. They came sniffing around about ten years after graduation. I was in peak physical condition and had a fantastic job. Let's just say, the answer was no.
Bro, I had a friend in High School tell on the girl I had a crush on. She turned around and said "EWWW GROSS!" that was a sophmore in High School. 5 years later after college and job I run into her. I have my first fulltime career job and bought a car. She was working at Staples taking time off from school to save money but take a break. Here she is trying to remember who I am, hitting on me, flirting on me, telling me her schedule to drop on by. I smiled and paid for my items and never returned and ordered online. Karma.
She rejected me because she wasn't ready at that moment , after 2 years she is trying to come back but it's too late now She said she wanted to make it up with me , but there was NOTHING between us because she rejected me LMAO
I rather have a woman see me at my worst and stay with me than just a woman suddenly likes me because I am developed. I want her to be a part of that journey
I cant even begin to explain how 100% spot on you are about toxic women. All they care about is drama and bullying. Im going through it right now. Thank you for opening my eyes!!!
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A woman shouldn't try and come back if she rejected you, specially if you're doing good because it's not convenient for us, if she tries and comes back it tells me that she's not doing too well and if I'm doing good. I'm not trying to get somebody to knock me off my track to where I'm getting at, to complete my accomplishments, if she had a chance before she shouldn't have a chance again, no contact means no contact forever that'll make her realize you're worth and teach her a lesson to accept someone for who they are.
A girl that rejected me after I asked her out on a date in high school came to my work and tried to ask me out after she became a single mom. I shook my head no and went back to work.
that is true.. good video. it happened to me. i wanted this woman, and I acted needy, so she rejected me harshly. she went off with another guy, whom I told her that he was giving me a bad vibe. she said I just said that because I wanted her. I told her part of it is true, but he still gave me a bad vibe... after two or three months, he used her up and dumped her... later, she tried to come back to me.. but it was too late.. I had moved on.... her loss...women have to remember the bad boy isnt gonna stick around.. if she hadn't done that, we probably would have been married...
Such a shame and yet at the same time a tragedy. I guess she'll have to live with that for the rest of her life. Time can be measured by her imput. I moved on with dating multiple girls and then she tried to come back after she went off with another dude. Her loss - totally. This video talks about toxic women and sadly she was. Some girls sadly just never learn. I don't think she ever will.
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"If you come across as pushy, aggressive, or creepy..." Translation: you aren't attractive enough for her This has been the universal lesson for all guys in every generation.
Frankly, I don't want her back. SHE made the decision NOT ME. I see this as part of the abundance mentality: she had her chance (sometimes more than 1).
I got rejected by a girl and she came back! She texted me happy birthday, congrats on your job interview and said she wanted to hang out sometime. So I just "GHOSTED" her!!!! Ghosting is a great way to hurt a woman's ego! I mean, why would you take someone back if she didn't see any value in you in the first place?
Great video and just discovered your content. Guys just be yourself and if they reject you..well it's their loss. Be the best you and don't accept anything you don't deserve. When you meet the right woman they'll put effort.
She may reject you and certainly TRY Again. Don't fall for it guys. Just "don't CREEP Her Out" and you will be fine. Problem is guys you can never know what behaviour of yours creeped-her-out in the first place. And it could well have been bad LEARNED Behaviour of hers which was really responsible for the "rejection" in the first place. Don't LET THEM Back... you will really be to blame trust me.
Why women come back? Its happened to me twice were women came back but one who came back only done so after 3 of her boyfriend she was seeing over 6 years left, cheated or had health problems. When she did come back. I lost all my feelings for her. The other person who came back after rejecting me was other a few months. I got dumped by email and I chose not to reply to her. She was on my FB and I moved on with my life and forgot about her but she was possibly following what I was doing beciasebfast foward about 9 months later she messages me to get back to me. Its also happned to a couple of my friends but I found out most came back because all their other options were bad or just dried up.
They come back after the monkey branch breaks; that is, when she exhausts all of her better options. Then, and only then is it your turn. But beware, because she will take the next opportunity to monkey-branch when it presents itself, and that means it is no longer your turn
Let's be honest girl reject man because she think she can find somebody better than him,and after years passed she realised she didn't find anybody so she says hmm maybe this guy can save me so she tries to get him
If she rejects you, never look back. If you are a decent man, with higher education than her, higher social status, good looking and financially stable and STILL she rejected you, she is NOT worth giving her a second opportunity. Let her delude herself into thinking that she was above you. Never take her back after she rejected you unless she is a woman of virtue. 99% are not.
I've come to the conclusion that it just isn't worth it at all. Pursuing a woman is a waste of time, money, resources and effort when you could being using all that towards something else that is more productive. Also as time goes on it just becomes less and less valuable. If you are over 35 why bother?
I have a story to tell 😂 I spent 5 years being friends with this girl I knew. We had a lot in common and we spent time going out for lunch or hanging out. Spent hours on the phone and called me when I got off of work. But in the last year she recently became single and I didn’t wanna force myself on to her after she had a long term relationship so I kept my distance. But after a few months she started to talk to other guys. Guys that maybe were better options. I tried to maintain the friendship but my feelings got the best of me and I couldn’t bare it. I told her how I felt and she just told me to get over it. The worst part is I felt like she was a completely different person and I was just something to pass the time. Once she became more serious and started dating one of the guys, our conversations stopped. We still text her and there but honestly I feel like I holding on to someone I’ll never have. I tried my best for 5 years and it got me no where. I fell into a deep depression and a loneliness that I can’t shake. And I hate that when she starts talking to me again I get excited but for what :/
Exactly! They only want validation! Nothing more! I've been working on myself when she left town for two weeks + with her bf. The purpose I was on during her absence made me feel I am worth more. The time I spent being her simping and tailoring to her just dwindled. I was the fixer upper guy whenever she needed help. In other words, an emotional doormat. Be strong my frd, you are worth way more. Walking away is thr healthier option
Please go to Reddit pages of Intermittent Fasting and Keto Diet. There are many who have come out of depression successfully and gone on to build better quality lives. Please dont ignore it for your own good. My stroy is similar so I feel like helping you out. All the best.
I’d have to disagree with something you said here. If a female really want you, she will keep waiting for you if your moving slower or even faster. And that’s the female you want. That’s the girl that’s gonna give you the world and make your life easy
If any woman rejected you for not having your career yet or money together but later you became successful and well off and now she wants you, you dodged a bullet. You don't want someone that's that shallow. Never accept a woman that rejects you.
Another major reason why a girl will come back around is because she sees you with a hotter girl then her. That is your best chance at getting out of the friendzone/turning a rejection around
I agree. I’ve been hit on when with a woman. Very rare if I’m alone. Once in the midst of a break up I criticized a guy she had a date with and she said “At least he has the chicks”. Of course that meant something obvious.
I'm putting a channel together for women so they will know. There are women that do know how to treat men well. I teach you how to find and attract those women!
I'm so sorry that has been your experience. The truth is good women DO NOT enjoy rejecting men. It sounds like you could have had some toxic women in your life. These videos will explain. ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html The other important thing to remember is a good woman will walk away if she doesn't feel like the 2 of you are compatible.
@@CoachMelannie don't be. I played smart & learnt my lesson from my elder brother's mistakes. Thank God for elder brothers! And I never asked any woman twice & never responded when they tried to contact me later (my buddy's advice). Life's good when it's lived on your terms, isn't it? Now I'm blessed with a virtuous wife & two fabulous boys.
My take on this? Well let me relate one of the few times girls have approached me (yes, it happened once in in a while). There was this one time, I was totally engrossed with eating a burrito, and this attractive girl (again, yes it does happen) approached me. The first thing I noticed was that she was rather dressed up for Saturday morning. She quickly asked me, “do I have a light?” To which I answered honestly and straight forwardly (like guys) do, “Uh no. I don’t smoke.” Now, before I even had a chance to offer her a seat so we could chat, she beat a hasty walk (really a trot) of shame out of there. What was the lesson? The lesson was that she was so sure of rejection, that she assumed my answer was a brush-off. It dawned on me that she had been observing (I don’t like the term stalking, because it is demeaning and disrespectful) me for weeks and had worked out a plan to pop the question --- I always had a breakfast burrito at that place around the same time every Saturday morning. I checked back a couple of times in the weeks following, but she never showed up again. I wouldn’t recognize this girl if I saw her today, but if I did, I’d tell her that it was all in her mind. I was interested. No. VERY interested. She just assumed the worst… and things never got started. I do not think that most women who “reject” a man are actually saying, “never”. They are just not sure, and “no” is just being cautious. Also, many people misread interactions. If you are really interested in a woman, and you are self-aware enough to have already made yourself worthy, then trust your instincts. She may not really be rejecting you AND saying no is just being cautious (or both of you are too nervous to read the situation correctly). So, if they always come back, it is because they do want to give it (not you, but the both of you) a second chance. Just sayin’
I think something like this happened to me bro. But in my case she bought me carrots and offered to buy some broccoli too but I simply said "No" because I didn't know her and I don't take stuff from strangers. Immediately I said no, she just walked off like that and I never saw her again.
this girl ghosted me for a week after telling me she always have fun with me. She texted me back a week later my teeth messed up and I stink when I just took a shower before seeing her the final time. She told me I just "doesn't care to have a friendship". 2 month later she comes back texting me. I haven't responded and I wont. I talked to this girl for a year and she came on to me saying she wants to be my friend I really liked her but im not falling for that trick again.
😂😂😂😂 my old crush from high-school rejected me 2 times during high school. I tried my entire time there to date her, but it seems like I was always hitting a brick wall. Eventually I just stopped and moved on. Fast forward 4 years from now. After 4 years of grinding and working on myself. I was living excellent getting multiple jobs opportunities, I’m on track to graduate from college. I got a good paying job, I’m financing a vehicle, building my credit score. I’m working out. Then one day I got a call. It was her. She said that she’s in town and wants to catch up with her past self. She wants to reconnect, that if I have time she would like to go see a movie. I took her up on her offer. After the movie, she wanted to finally give me the chance. I just laugh it out and walked away. 😂😂😂
Don't be needy, and be yourself don't change urself just to make them laugh, be the best version of yourself and prove that you are the one who loves her forever.
No matter what , if you have an iota of self respect and have 1 percent manliness left , no matter what and who’s coming back , as man you must not get with the person who rejected your romantic advances. Remember, when she rejected you because of what she thought about you 😬. Never take her back . Just Move on
You're missing the whole point. Her EX she went back to him but she never came back and the relationship's is long over.,,i wasn't needy,,or over pursuing,,,she just wasn't over him...
No means no. I only need to hear it once. Never let them do it twice. I dont need a dream girlfriend, I dont need a partner. I have made my own life, made my own way. While a good partner might be nice, a bad one is a total disaster and who wants to deal w the learning curve?
Money is very important to men and women. It takes money to live and a lot of money to live well. Those are facts. However, if you find that the women you are attracting want only your money, you are probably attracting toxic women. Here are some videos that will help you. ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html I hope that helps. God bless!
Hi everybody that's very nice to talk and important too... we are all different and we all need love in my case,i ve been rejected cause within the circumstances of my life my reaction towards a beautiful woman was taken by her part probably as i rejected her .but no i didn't...i came to her to see her and i was insecure how she was feeling for me and that... still remains in my heart i would like to be with her, but, there's this gap i can't blame her... i think im gonna do one more try in a different way maybe, we get lucky if she still feel for it good evening
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Careful with that ladies...He is still the guy you rejected underneath and now he's out of your league. It's not a lost cause, but she better put her big girl pants on.
If I wasn't good enough when she rejected me, I'm not good enough when I either improve myself or when I move on. I've been in both situations before and I subsequently rejected the two different women who had initially rejected me. I'm personally not into the Elizabeth Taylor/Richard Burton type of relationships. Once and done.
I got rejected by a girl and she came back! She texted me happy birthday, congrats on your job interview and said she wanted to hang out sometime. So I just "GHOSTED" her!!!! A year and a half later she sends me a friend request on social media. I ignored her and moved on and she decided to block me after I didn't respond to her. WTF is wrong with some women? Can't they get a hint?
How about if I was married for almost 8 years and 1 day my wife returned our rings and left me? She is acting like she is not coming back. I did everything in the world for her and her kid and was very used by her and we even owned a home. What can I do?
If you move too fast, you’ll lose her. If you move too slow, you’ll lose her. If you seem needy, you’ll scare her… if you seem disinterested, she’ll get bored and leave. Genuine question, why is it so often the men that have to modify their behavior?
ikr. why in this world, men that need to change, need to be better, need to be like perfect person. why the women rarely changed themselves even when their partner told her to do that? if men try to change his women behaviour, society will say that " you need to accept her just the way she is blah blah blah "
The same way she left you for someone she thinks is better than you is the same way she will come crawling back to you if she sees you are doing better probably better than the guy she left you for. Lol
I scare many women because i look better than most of them… they have trust issues and acting always directly with their feelings… like they think why should i pick her when there are way more beutiful women out there->insecurity of women haha
4:04 this story reaches out to me because that's what's happening to me right now! Except we're far from the wedding part, because, we started dating about 13 weeks ago and we are officially a couple since 2 months ago ( in fact 2 months tomorrow ) But I was the one who rejected her, because I didn't feel ready to be in a relationship at the time ( 2 years ans 2 months ago ) and I knew I needed to work on myself for a time before being ready. And in fact I had given up on finding love and was perfectly fine being single and doing my own stuff solo, but fate put her back on my road again and I won her over without even trying and I wasn't looking for a relationship. I was just happy spending time with her again.
Same here. I was stupid and didn't realise i was being to weak and needy with my crush at work , trying to talk to her with too many texts, writing her a note telling her , i just want the best for her , i will support her always , i would like to get to know more about her on a personal level because she matters to me e.t.c. I just didn't and still don't want her to get hurt by some arsehole. So i apologised as she said "you made me a little uncomfortable and can we please stop with the messaging". I know you have good intentions. I think she blocked me on Instagram , because i came across as needy / weak and scared her accidentally. I have learnt my lesson , that is why i will still support her , but just not bother her though. So to hopefully win her back , i have to make sure i respect her wishes , which is wanting more space , stop being needy / weak and work on myself again because when you mess up like this and you concentrate on you then more than likely the women will too.
You should only do self improvement for yourself only, when you make it about the woman you develop a scarcity mindset. Continue to work on you and more options will come your way.
Hey Coach, I had proposed to a girl who actually turned me down saying that, we could only be friends but she kisses me sometimes. Am somehow confused, she misses me sometimes when I am not there but she doesn't want the relationship to be serious.
I'm so sorry! That is not nice or fair for her to do that to you. She could very likely be playing games and be toxic. These videos will help you a lot. ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html God bless! 😀
Lol Peanutbutter Cheesecake!! Soo... #3 is very true! I've learned the old saying "talk is cheap" and untill she shows me my worth my heart is locked!❤ good video
It just seems so hard! 😂 it’s like a course. I’ve been able to conquer tough stuff in my life. Got into a good job field, stronger physically, mentally, spiritually all hard stuff! but not as hard as this 😂 but I’m an optimist
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Yes
You're my dream girl ;)
Women try to come back because the man may owe her money Melannie.
I got friend zoned early in the morning. I was watching the news and this beautiful lady was doing the weather forecast. A'lls I could recall saying was, "this one fine lady right here." I wonder whats her name? All of a sudden she pulled out a remote and changed the channel on my T.V.
Please let me know thank you
She didn't want me in her prime.
I don't want her when she's a single mom with multiple kids from multiple dads.
Checkmate
I am a woman and in the same situation as you. He didn’t see my value in my prime, now he wants me when he has a baby with an ex narcissist.
Although I am still very attracted to him, I just can’t handle the situation he is in now...
If they know the dads.
You’re toxic
@@keesaa3588 How?
Any women who has rejected and tries to come back doesn't get a second chance with me. If I'm not what they want, that's not on me. I don't have time for head games.
you need to watch pride and prejudice lol
Yes, women are indeed the masters of playing games.
All I can say is that you have to go through pain and loneliness for a while, but you will end up with the right one. I am so glad that I didn‘t end up with the girl I thought I loved in college. She was a materialist and later in life she got really fat. So essentially I would have been married to a female Jabba the Hutt. I will take my Peruvian dream girl any day over that!
Wow.. you know how rude you sound . This comment gives the same energy as a kind of man who starts calling a girl ' she was not even that pretty' after getting rejected by her...
@@rahatthakur4480 : Thacker, I am not talking to you. Why do you feel the need to bother me? Don‘t answer that. It is a rhetorical question. Bye bye bye and bye.
@@Storytime2023x well this is just a public platform , if you commented be ready to get some replies ... But now clearly telling me to go off , okay :-)
Nice strategy man
The biggest thing do is play games. All of them. Only children and dogs get anything close to unconditional love. A man is only loved for what he can provide. The secret is men, looking for a woman that brings something to the relationship. Both people come giving 100%
What if she just wasn't in the right place or head space and didn't say that. What if it's not always malicious.
I love your videos!
Thanks for your kind words! I'm so happy you like my videos 🙏
Yes
Funny how it seems only man have to work on themselves… specially nowadays, girls need to work on themselves more than ever. So guys. Stop sim ping and respect yourself more
I would never tell any man to get involved with a women who isn't also working on improving herself.
Women come back because they don't have the same value or their options have dried up. Continue to build yourself into the best version of you.
And never settle for any woman! 🔥 Good on ya, bro!
The problem is she's so much younger. She's only 24, she's not hitting the wall anytime soon.
Henny Lopez it’ll happen .. sit back and watch the show :-)
@@robbieanderson227 what will happen?
Henny Lopez her hitting the wall
Womens logic:
Reject a guy because hes too much of a nice guy
Then gets jealous and enraged when that man finds a new woman.
This is true if you are talking about toxic women. Real women don't act this way at all. Here are some videos that will help you ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html And these ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-XV9YGvxOR5T79CbwLhJBKM.html Thanks for watching!
Men on Strike brought me here.
@@CoachMelannie they all do the same😂
True story. Been there.
@@CoachMelannie here's another woman's logic for you: turns down a man simply because he never lost his virginity and gets enraged when another woman offers to be his first.
Have a little self respect. Never take back someone who cheated or rejected you. Never ever
Well said!
Exactly
Amen
@Nobody Well done. I wish you the best. Happily ever after.
If they cheat once they'll cheat again. It's over once the trust is gone.
Woman logic: doesn't want to hurt a man's feelings by rejecting him so she leads him on with a false promise of giving him a time of day.
Real women /toxic women y'all jus choose to be toxic when you young and pretend to be be real women when you old and no more Chad's are available
Sorry, once you walk away the trust and respect is gone, theres no coming back.
That's pretty much what I say. Thanks for watching! 🙏
And why would you want to go back anyway? Once you and your ex split especially if you have no kids the break is easy. You should have nothing else to say to her. She will try and return, BUT DON’T ACCEPT HER!
If she friendzones or rejects you. Work improve your self and become man she wants but can not have.
So do not take her if she have rejected you before. You do not need her.
You've just spoke my mind....I agree100%😄🔥🔥
When a person has no self respect for herself or himself, then that person will constantly be treated with disrespect.
What you tolerate becomes the standard norm, and you allow to continue.
Yes, that. Exactly. Once rejected or friendzoned by a female and she comes back at you when you have evolved, do not concern yourself with her. It will not help you grow.
Those girls that friend zoned me when I was younger are still single. They're still waiting on Mr. Perfect to come along. It's too bad. I feel sorry for them now.
Don't feel sorry for them...laugh at them
Don't feel sorry for them. Show them a bit of you that they missed out on. 😂
You have an ego problem. No wonder those girls rejected you.
@@EmilyGloeggler7984 It happened 20 years ago, darlin'. It's called perspective.
@@EmilyGloeggler7984 u have an insecurities issue
the moment i get that she is not interested, i just walk away n why not when there r lots of women out there who will n can treat me right? why stick with someone who shows no interest n be friend zoned? its better to walk away
If the gal reject me, why would I want to get with her when she tries to come back. She had her chance, but she let it go.
That's a good way to look at it!
Yes almost all my past girlfriends and wives have tried to come back after a break up , unfortunately for them I am neither that desperate nor that stupid to forgive and forget . There are far to many available women for anyone to put up with cheaters and mind games . Ex's turning up again after walking out is about as welcome as a dose of the flu
Richard, did your wife(s) cheat on you?
How long before they tried to return?
Have to stay strong for whats to come
@@ronjones2435 Yes and it took about 2 weeks for the excuses to start . It really isn't a matter of staying strong it's a matter of how bad do you want a disease , a repeat of the same thing later down the road , and the complete loss of self respect because you accepted the worst disrespect possible
Absolutely thanks
She moved out left and moved in with him she left 7 months ago so its been awhile so she hasn't tried to return as of yet.
Had this happen by girls I knew in highschool. They came sniffing around about ten years after graduation. I was in peak physical condition and had a fantastic job. Let's just say, the answer was no.
Bro, I had a friend in High School tell on the girl I had a crush on. She turned around and said "EWWW GROSS!" that was a sophmore in High School. 5 years later after college and job I run into her. I have my first fulltime career job and bought a car. She was working at Staples taking time off from school to save money but take a break. Here she is trying to remember who I am, hitting on me, flirting on me, telling me her schedule to drop on by. I smiled and paid for my items and never returned and ordered online. Karma.
@@ralph4370 men are born poor and die rich.
She rejected me because she wasn't ready at that moment , after 2 years she is trying to come back but it's too late now
She said she wanted to make it up with me , but there was NOTHING between us because she rejected me LMAO
Nice
She wants to come back because the men she wanted probably didn't want her 🤣
You're the man!
You're a man of value 👍
I’ve never gave a chance to girls who rejected me I do care about my respect .
If she rejects you, don't give her another chance!! This is a huge mistake! Move on. You have more options.
I think of the Rick and Morty quote: You miss the old me. You miss someone that loved you so much you never had to love 'em back.
Wow, that‘s spot on!
If she pushed you away MAKE her stand on it 💯
I rather have a woman see me at my worst and stay with me than just a woman suddenly likes me because I am developed. I want her to be a part of that journey
Facts
Yes
I cant even begin to explain how 100% spot on you are about toxic women. All they care about is drama and bullying. Im going through it right now. Thank you for opening my eyes!!!
I'm sorry to hear that you are going through this! Have you seen these videos? ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html They will be very helpful to you. Let me know if you have any questions! God bless! 😀
Once rejected never go back value your self worth don’t give someone who hurt you happiness
Soooo, she failed at replacing you and the grass wasn't greener after all? Got it
She rejects you in her 20s then comes back sniffing around for your 401K in her 40s.
Oh! Red flag!
A woman shouldn't try and come back if she rejected you, specially if you're doing good because it's not convenient for us, if she tries and comes back it tells me that she's not doing too well and if I'm doing good. I'm not trying to get somebody to knock me off my track to where I'm getting at, to complete my accomplishments, if she had a chance before she shouldn't have a chance again, no contact means no contact forever that'll make her realize you're worth and teach her a lesson to accept someone for who they are.
A girl that rejected me after I asked her out on a date in high school came to my work and tried to ask me out after she became a single mom. I shook my head no and went back to work.
No way?
that is true.. good video. it happened to me. i wanted this woman, and I acted needy, so she rejected me harshly. she went off with another guy, whom I told her that he was giving me a bad vibe. she said I just said that because I wanted her. I told her part of it is true, but he still gave me a bad vibe... after two or three months, he used her up and dumped her... later, she tried to come back to me.. but it was too late.. I had moved on.... her loss...women have to remember the bad boy isnt gonna stick around.. if she hadn't done that, we probably would have been married...
Such a shame and yet at the same time a tragedy. I guess she'll have to live with that for the rest of her life. Time can be measured by her imput. I moved on with dating multiple girls and then she tried to come back after she went off with another dude. Her loss - totally. This video talks about toxic women and sadly she was. Some girls sadly just never learn. I don't think she ever will.
"If you come across as pushy, aggressive, or creepy..."
Translation: you aren't attractive enough for her
This has been the universal lesson for all guys in every generation.
Actually it just means you just need the right skills so you don't come off as pushy, aggressive or needy. It works every time!
Frankly, I don't want her back. SHE made the decision NOT ME. I see this as part of the abundance mentality: she had her chance (sometimes more than 1).
women come back when their options have run out. They are always looking for the upgrade.
Seems so complicated, I'm going to just put the effort into being comfortable alone.
You’ll get all the girls you want when you’re comfortable with being alone:
Yes. There can never be too many videos on how to deal with rejection better.
Sounds great! Thanks for letting me know! 😀
I got rejected by a girl and she came back! She texted me happy birthday, congrats on your job interview and said she wanted to hang out sometime. So I just "GHOSTED" her!!!! Ghosting is a great way to hurt a woman's ego!
I mean, why would you take someone back if she didn't see any value in you in the first place?
Facts good work my guy 💯
Well done buddy!!
Been out of the game, and dating is a whole different game now. I have this major sense of urgency to make up for lost time. So rejection is brutal
Well said. Same here.
Great video and just discovered your content. Guys just be yourself and if they reject you..well it's their loss. Be the best you and don't accept anything you don't deserve. When you meet the right woman they'll put effort.
So happy you're here! Have a happy day! 😀
She may reject you and certainly TRY Again. Don't fall for it guys. Just "don't CREEP Her Out" and you will be fine. Problem is guys you can never know what behaviour of yours creeped-her-out in the first place. And it could well have been bad LEARNED Behaviour of hers which was really responsible for the "rejection" in the first place. Don't LET THEM Back... you will really be to blame trust me.
Toxic woman plays. Most of them are narc, if you encounter these gal, run away and never return, they wont change.. period..
Why women come back? Its happened to me twice were women came back but one who came back only done so after 3 of her boyfriend she was seeing over 6 years left, cheated or had health problems. When she did come back. I lost all my feelings for her. The other person who came back after rejecting me was other a few months. I got dumped by email and I chose not to reply to her. She was on my FB and I moved on with my life and forgot about her but she was possibly following what I was doing beciasebfast foward about 9 months later she messages me to get back to me. Its also happned to a couple of my friends but I found out most came back because all their other options were bad or just dried up.
I'm so sorry. Sounds like they may have been toxic. Take care!
Brother that's right they only comeback when they run out of options!
@@CoachMelannie is “toxic women” your standard go to excuse?
I don’t know from what I’ve seen it looks like women really enjoy turning men down. It’s almost like an Olympic sport.
They come back after the monkey branch breaks; that is, when she exhausts all of her better options. Then, and only then is it your turn. But beware, because she will take the next opportunity to monkey-branch when it presents itself, and that means it is no longer your turn
Let's be honest girl reject man because she think she can find somebody better than him,and after years passed she realised she didn't find anybody so she says hmm maybe this guy can save me so she tries to get him
Basically if she notices that you are making more money, she comes back. Women since the beginning of time 😂😂😂
If she rejects you, never look back. If you are a decent man, with higher education than her, higher social status, good looking and financially stable and STILL she rejected you, she is NOT worth giving her a second opportunity. Let her delude herself into thinking that she was above you. Never take her back after she rejected you unless she is a woman of virtue. 99% are not.
I've come to the conclusion that it just isn't worth it at all. Pursuing a woman is a waste of time, money, resources and effort when you could being using all that towards something else that is more productive. Also as time goes on it just becomes less and less valuable. If you are over 35 why bother?
I'm a little younger than you but I already gave up and I absolutely have no intention of going back to the "Market."
@@Feber2001 Yes, our goals are more important.
I love how her stories always end up with them being married in the end
Fairy Tales
this proves she is a fraud. cant believe you kids fall for her lies.
@@deathrager2404 maybe that comment was sarcastic 😂
I have a story to tell 😂
I spent 5 years being friends with this girl I knew. We had a lot in common and we spent time going out for lunch or hanging out. Spent hours on the phone and called me when I got off of work.
But in the last year she recently became single and I didn’t wanna force myself on to her after she had a long term relationship so I kept my distance. But after a few months she started to talk to other guys. Guys that maybe were better options.
I tried to maintain the friendship but my feelings got the best of me and I couldn’t bare it. I told her how I felt and she just told me to get over it. The worst part is I felt like she was a completely different person and I was just something to pass the time. Once she became more serious and started dating one of the guys, our conversations stopped. We still text her and there but honestly I feel like I holding on to someone I’ll never have. I tried my best for 5 years and it got me no where.
I fell into a deep depression and a loneliness that I can’t shake. And I hate that when she starts talking to me again I get excited but for what :/
If you’d like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ God bless 🙏
Exactly! They only want validation! Nothing more! I've been working on myself when she left town for two weeks + with her bf.
The purpose I was on during her absence made me feel I am worth more. The time I spent being her simping and tailoring to her just dwindled.
I was the fixer upper guy whenever she needed help. In other words, an emotional doormat.
Be strong my frd, you are worth way more. Walking away is thr healthier option
Marco, take offense of her antics and games. How can you desire that kind of behavior 🤨
Please go to Reddit pages of Intermittent Fasting and Keto Diet. There are many who have come out of depression successfully and gone on to build better quality lives. Please dont ignore it for your own good. My stroy is similar so I feel like helping you out. All the best.
Marco Did her boyfriend know you were spening so much time with
I’d have to disagree with something you said here. If a female really want you, she will keep waiting for you if your moving slower or even faster. And that’s the female you want. That’s the girl that’s gonna give you the world and make your life easy
Embrace rejection, you will come to know yourself as others do.
That never happened to me. A woman who rejects me once will never be my friend and she can go to hell and stay there.EFFING C**T!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sometimes we men can be pushy 😊
If any woman rejected you for not having your career yet or money together but later you became successful and well off and now she wants you, you dodged a bullet. You don't want someone that's that shallow. Never accept a woman that rejects you.
Yes, make more rejection videos. It makes me feel worse. So keep them coming!
Will do! While I work on that here are some that are similar! 😀 ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VOYPpi4UjSjCpKDxJAS6g3.html
Another major reason why a girl will come back around is because she sees you with a hotter girl then her. That is your best chance at getting out of the friendzone/turning a rejection around
Facts!
I agree. I’ve been hit on when with a woman. Very rare if I’m alone. Once in the midst of a break up I criticized a guy she had a date with and she said “At least he has the chicks”. Of course that meant something obvious.
Men are always told how to treat women. Women are never told how to treat men.
I'm putting a channel together for women so they will know. There are women that do know how to treat men well. I teach you how to find and attract those women!
"Women don't enjoy rejecting men"! Haven't come across a more hypocritical statement yet. Most females get a high rejecting men.
I'm so sorry that has been your experience. The truth is good women DO NOT enjoy rejecting men. It sounds like you could have had some toxic women in your life. These videos will explain. ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html The other important thing to remember is a good woman will walk away if she doesn't feel like the 2 of you are compatible.
@@CoachMelannie don't be. I played smart & learnt my lesson from my elder brother's mistakes. Thank God for elder brothers! And I never asked any woman twice & never responded when they tried to contact me later (my buddy's advice). Life's good when it's lived on your terms, isn't it? Now I'm blessed with a virtuous wife & two fabulous boys.
@World of ticktalkers got sons I need to coach about deceit. Its well within a woman's right to be mean & it's a man's perogative to be cautious.
No more letting them come back. Thk U Coach❗️
You are very welcome! I'm so glad it helped 😀
Women NEVER come back.
I know personally ca 100 women. Ca 90 of them gave dumped some long time partner. And maybe 1 or 2 have came back.
My take on this? Well let me relate one of the few times girls have approached me (yes, it happened once in in a while). There was this one time, I was totally engrossed with eating a burrito, and this attractive girl (again, yes it does happen) approached me. The first thing I noticed was that she was rather dressed up for Saturday morning. She quickly asked me, “do I have a light?” To which I answered honestly and straight forwardly (like guys) do, “Uh no. I don’t smoke.”
Now, before I even had a chance to offer her a seat so we could chat, she beat a hasty walk (really a trot) of shame out of there.
What was the lesson? The lesson was that she was so sure of rejection, that she assumed my answer was a brush-off. It dawned on me that she had been observing (I don’t like the term stalking, because it is demeaning and disrespectful) me for weeks and had worked out a plan to pop the question --- I always had a breakfast burrito at that place around the same time every Saturday morning. I checked back a couple of times in the weeks following, but she never showed up again. I wouldn’t recognize this girl if I saw her today, but if I did, I’d tell her that it was all in her mind. I was interested. No. VERY interested. She just assumed the worst… and things never got started.
I do not think that most women who “reject” a man are actually saying, “never”. They are just not sure, and “no” is just being cautious. Also, many people misread interactions. If you are really interested in a woman, and you are self-aware enough to have already made yourself worthy, then trust your instincts. She may not really be rejecting you AND saying no is just being cautious (or both of you are too nervous to read the situation correctly).
So, if they always come back, it is because they do want to give it (not you, but the both of you) a second chance.
Just sayin’
She may have thought to herself, if he can eat that burrito with no teeth surely he can eat me.
Good observation
If she was interested in you, she would have known you don't smoke.. so no point asking for a light... (just my 2 cents)
@@1LastSong LOL. She was interested ---- just didn't have enough data or insight.
I think something like this happened to me bro. But in my case she bought me carrots and offered to buy some broccoli too but I simply said "No" because I didn't know her and I don't take stuff from strangers. Immediately I said no, she just walked off like that and I never saw her again.
this girl ghosted me for a week after telling me she always have fun with me. She texted me back a week later my teeth messed up and I stink when I just took a shower before seeing her the final time. She told me I just "doesn't care to have a friendship". 2 month later she comes back texting me. I haven't responded and I wont. I talked to this girl for a year and she came on to me saying she wants to be my friend I really liked her but im not falling for that trick again.
Sounds like you made the right decision! Have a great day 😀
😂😂😂😂 my old crush from high-school rejected me 2 times during high school. I tried my entire time there to date her, but it seems like I was always hitting a brick wall. Eventually I just stopped and moved on. Fast forward 4 years from now.
After 4 years of grinding and working on myself. I was living excellent getting multiple jobs opportunities, I’m on track to graduate from college. I got a good paying job, I’m financing a vehicle, building my credit score. I’m working out. Then one day I got a call. It was her. She said that she’s in town and wants to catch up with her past self. She wants to reconnect, that if I have time she would like to go see a movie. I took her up on her offer. After the movie, she wanted to finally give me the chance. I just laugh it out and walked away. 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Revenge, a dish best served cold. Well done playing the long game.
Don't be needy, and be yourself don't change urself just to make them laugh, be the best version of yourself and prove that you are the one who loves her forever.
No matter what , if you have an iota of self respect and have 1 percent manliness left , no matter what and who’s coming back , as man you must not get with the person who rejected your romantic advances. Remember, when she rejected you because of what she thought about you 😬. Never take her back . Just Move on
You're missing the whole point. Her EX she went back to him but she never came back and the relationship's is long over.,,i wasn't needy,,or over pursuing,,,she just wasn't over him...
No means no. I only need to hear it once. Never let them do it twice. I dont need a dream girlfriend, I dont need a partner. I have made my own life, made my own way. While a good partner might be nice, a bad one is a total disaster and who wants to deal w the learning curve?
"worked on himself" = got rich
"the traits I'm looking for" = 💰
Money is very important to men and women. It takes money to live and a lot of money to live well. Those are facts. However, if you find that the women you are attracting want only your money, you are probably attracting toxic women. Here are some videos that will help you. ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html I hope that helps. God bless!
@@CoachMelannie I don't care about a woman's money. Never have. Never will. That's the difference.
Hi everybody that's very nice to talk and important too... we are all different and we all need love in my case,i ve been rejected cause within the circumstances of my life my reaction towards a beautiful woman was taken by her part probably as i rejected her .but no i didn't...i came to her to see her and i was insecure how she was feeling for me and that... still remains in my heart i would like to be with her, but, there's this gap i can't blame her... i think im gonna do one more try in a different way maybe, we get lucky if she still feel for it good evening
This is so true coach melanin i can relate
Thanks for watching! 🙏
Women created the game, you won't lose if you dont play.
If you have been in relationships with women who play games, you are most likely attracting toxic women. These videos will help you to avoid them in the future. ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html Good women, and they are out there, will never play games. I hope that helps. Have a great day 😀
@@CoachMelannie I've loved em big little short or tall was married for 17yrs and here is my perspective.
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Careful with that ladies...He is still the guy you rejected underneath and now he's out of your league. It's not a lost cause, but she better put her big girl pants on.
If I wasn't good enough when she rejected me, I'm not good enough when I either improve myself or when I move on. I've been in both situations before and I subsequently rejected the two different women who had initially rejected me. I'm personally not into the Elizabeth Taylor/Richard Burton type of relationships. Once and done.
I got rejected by a girl and she came back! She texted me happy birthday, congrats on your job interview and said she wanted to hang out sometime. So I just "GHOSTED" her!!!!
A year and a half later she sends me a friend request on social media. I ignored her and moved on and she decided to block me after I didn't respond to her. WTF is wrong with some women? Can't they get a hint?
Just walk away.
How about if I was married for almost 8 years and 1 day my wife returned our rings and left me? She is acting like she is not coming back. I did everything in the world for her and her kid and was very used by her and we even owned a home. What can I do?
If you move too fast, you’ll lose her.
If you move too slow, you’ll lose her.
If you seem needy, you’ll scare her… if you seem disinterested, she’ll get bored and leave.
Genuine question, why is it so often the men that have to modify their behavior?
If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀
ikr. why in this world, men that need to change, need to be better, need to be like perfect person. why the women rarely changed themselves even when their partner told her to do that? if men try to change his women behaviour, society will say that " you need to accept her just the way she is blah blah blah "
All of this is bs . She will definitely run for Chad and Tyrone.
Modify our behavior for something that keeps getting ran through day after day
The same way she left you for someone she thinks is better than you is the same way she will come crawling back to you if she sees you are doing better probably better than the guy she left you for. Lol
The best moments in my life came when I stopped taking all women seriously🙂
I scare many women because i look better than most of them… they have trust issues and acting always directly with their feelings… like they think why should i pick her when there are way more beutiful women out there->insecurity of women haha
4:04 this story reaches out to me because that's what's happening to me right now! Except we're far from the wedding part, because, we started dating about 13 weeks ago and we are officially a couple since 2 months ago ( in fact 2 months tomorrow )
But I was the one who rejected her, because I didn't feel ready to be in a relationship at the time ( 2 years ans 2 months ago ) and I knew I needed to work on myself for a time before being ready.
And in fact I had given up on finding love and was perfectly fine being single and doing my own stuff solo, but fate put her back on my road again and I won her over without even trying and I wasn't looking for a relationship. I was just happy spending time with her again.
I got rejected by women who are either happily married or in a committed relationship, should I continue to wait or move on to someone else?
What if you never asked this person out and they makes smart comments rude comments to you and you never asked her out and she’s pissed
I am so glad of this, as I really need it right now, and why they accept us back.
Me too Paul.
Good Luck! 👍🏻
Same here. I was stupid and didn't realise i was being to weak and needy with my crush at work , trying to talk to her with too many texts, writing her a note telling her , i just want the best for her , i will support her always , i would like to get to know more about her on a personal level because she matters to me e.t.c.
I just didn't and still don't want her to get hurt by some arsehole.
So i apologised as she said "you made me a little uncomfortable and can we please stop with the messaging". I know you have good intentions.
I think she blocked me on Instagram , because i came across as needy / weak and scared her accidentally. I have learnt my lesson , that is why i will still support her , but just not bother her though.
So to hopefully win her back , i have to make sure i respect her wishes , which is wanting more space , stop being needy / weak and work on myself again because when you mess up like this and you concentrate on you then more than likely the women will too.
You should only do self improvement for yourself only, when you make it about the woman you develop a scarcity mindset. Continue to work on you and more options will come your way.
Thanks! So glad you liked it! 🙏
Just make sure she isn't settling, speaking from experience.
Who, after being rejected trying to cope with this?
If you didn't want me then, you ain't getting a piece of me now, otherwise I will pump and dump you. 😏
I don’t understand the pacing thing. You can move too fast too slow. It seems it a very personal thing that is hard to measure.
If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀
Cheese cake 😄
So good!
She shopped around...finds out you were the better deal. Too late now. Bye.
This is why you just let them leave and never look back
I never asked this personnel and she rejected me anyhow, so why do I even bother?
Hey Coach, I had proposed to a girl who actually turned me down saying that, we could only be friends but she kisses me sometimes.
Am somehow confused, she misses me sometimes when I am not there but she doesn't want the relationship to be serious.
I'm so sorry! That is not nice or fair for her to do that to you. She could very likely be playing games and be toxic. These videos will help you a lot. ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html God bless! 😀
@@CoachMelannie I have watched the videos, thanks.
Walk away and move in. Don’t be fooled.
If she goes it’s finished forever NO return back. That’s my motto. Thanks.
What happens with the reverse when the male gets creeped out by the woman and she still acts interested?
You don't have to be with anyone you are not comfortable with. Ever!
Stop wearing deodorant and ask to borrow money from her. She won't be back.
@@14kurtismiller 😂😂😂😂👏👏
Its 2021, nobody comes back lol
Yes my friend Melannie and have an amazing day!!
Thank you so much! Have a great day 😀
Lol Peanutbutter Cheesecake!!
Soo... #3 is very true! I've learned the old saying "talk is cheap" and untill she shows me my worth my heart is locked!❤ good video
I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏
It just seems so hard! 😂 it’s like a course. I’ve been able to conquer tough stuff in my life. Got into a good job field, stronger physically, mentally, spiritually all hard stuff! but not as hard as this 😂 but I’m an optimist
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