She had two things I liked ... Blonde hair , massive baps . Every time she walked ,it was like watching two little boys fighting under a quilt . Do I I win a £ Tenner ? 🤣🤣
I feel like I'm in a slump because the last time I dated was 2000 and I think there is something wrong with me but I have made mistakes in the past and I have taken a wrong turn not abuse towards women or anyting but I think it's something going on with me in my fifties and I don't think women are attracted to me anymore
These days it seems like everytime I say I believe in God I read the Bible and I go to church I have most women tell me they don't do God they don't believe in God and that right there is a deal-breaker
(1) hit the gym. (2) hit the gym. (3) get a life: volunteer, travel, learn to cook, BE INTERESTING. (4) be positive, because if you're going after much younger women, you're going to be rejected, a lot. (5) don't hide behind your computer, i.e. dating apps. (6) get comfortable approaching women. Lastly, (7) don't take rejection personally. It doesn't mean she doesn't like you, you're just not what she happens to be looking for.
Here is the best advise, protect your assets... no date turning into a long term relationship is worth losing your assets on the last phase of your life. Unless the laws change, which they wont.. the moment someone puts a ring on it are now at the mercy of no fault divorce and or states that have common law regardless if you have a pre-nup.
Life is crazy! When I was a young man and dating, I was broke, now as a man in his 50's, I have $ and stability but now have NO desire to let any women ever get her hands on my finances again. Guess I'll just die alone...but with lots of toys that are ALL MINE.😅😅
I'm 50 & Done. I've tried EVERYTHING and got nothing but Credit Card Bills. Wasted thousands of dollars. I am very Impossible Match. I'm part of that percentage that will love. After 35 years, I tired of giving myself blunt force trama.
Hi. Sorry to hear that . Very sad. Am 55 and haven’t really tried to be honest and am glad now from what you’ve said I didn’t . I mean I did try at one time via online dating for a month then realised it’s a pointless pursuit for most men who are not in the top 7-10 range . Best to leave it to the women as they have a much better chance than men in the dating world . They say it’s a man’s world but not anymore .
I'm 55 and I feel like I was pretty much ruined for dating in my late 20's when the woman I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with cheated and called off the engagement. I didn't do so much as get a woman's phone number for more than eleven years after that, then tried to enter back into the dating pool in my late 30's with all the experience of a 20-something guy. Failed a lot, took myself off the market for another seven years, failed a little more. I think by the time we all hit our 50's, for one reason or another that don't have to sound like mine... We just don't wanna do it anymore.
I can totally identify with you. For my case, I fucked up a lot during my younger years. However, we have to keep on going to find the right girl who could fulfill our destinies together. You don't want to be in your sixties and alone.
55 and haven’t really tried to date for a long time to be honest and am glad now from what I know from others that I didn’t try to much at it - I mean I did try at one time via online dating for a month then realised it’s a pointless pursuit for most men who are not in the top 7-10 range . Best to leave it to the women as they have a much better chance than men in the dating world . They used to say it’s a man’s world but not anymore .
The Big 5 for 50 year old braddahs: 1- Be in good shape( and try surfing if you can) 2- Go to Brazil & Colombia. 3- Go to Pattaya. 4- Go to Czech Republic. 5- Stay away from US women! Be strong and Stay safe.
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
If you're over 50 and a man most women your own age or even older don't want you unless you're rich or have an exceptionally good body and mmost of your hair. Mostly the attractive older women want younger guys
Take care of yourselves fella's. Eat healthy and have some faith. See yourself with someone. You attract what you think. As a man thinketh, so is He. Women can smell it on you. Be positive! Crazy attracts crazy is the old saying. Get ready for when it happens. I'm 53 and I'm getting ready. Lose some weight, go to the gym!!
I am 55. The last guy I dated was a drop dead gorgeous european guy, 34 years old, tall, blonde, blue eyes, with a God's body, humble, intelligent and on top of that a good lover and a good person. When I met him I was going through a health condition and I thought God had sent me an angel. I am sorry but in my modest opinion, men my age look like my older brother, uncle or something like this. I would rather be alone than making love to someone who looks neglected, and on top of that, the attitude of feeling superior, that is even worse. Anyway, in general, I like and respect men. I just wanted to share my story. Good luck to everybody.
This is the problem right now. Younger women have impossible standards for men their own age and so the younger men are taking the attractive women our age. I'm 49 5'9 145 lbs I eat well, use the elliptical and do core training. I'm in pretty good shape and dress well and go to the dentist 4x a year..work as a special ed teacher with intellectually disabled kids and live with my sick widowed mother..but I'm mostly bald and look tired and don't have the sex drive of a younger man...we just can't compete with the younger guys. Maybe I should look to date women over 65, but it seems strange How the tables have turned in my own generation...
I have no clue what to think of these videos, I am 58, thought I met someone on eHarmony. She is 60, we talked for a few weeks went out and ended going out 4 more times. I thought it was going well. From the 2nd week in November until the 2nd week of January 2023. We didn't even kiss, I was the perfect gentlemen. She had some kind of medical condition. She is a texter, I am a phone person, she told me she had something happen to her eye. I sent two messages and never heard nothing back. I am done, I am so tired of being lead on and being a fool in the end. I just don't get it and never will.
Doesn’t matter what I do as long as my face is this way I’ll never meet anybody - going to get surgery before I even attempt dating as it can be a cruel game online dating if your ugly .
I'm a hippocrocopig, I am ugly, I've been asked to leave stores, bars, recently a train station, I've had buses drive straight past when I'm waiting at the stop, I have only ever spoken to women on a professional level, I have a few lady friends, I met them through my close friends family, I would never cold approach a woman, that's just asking for trouble, as the ugly kid at school, maturing to an ugly older man, I've only ever known a single life and that continues to work well for me, I'm nearly 60, I work a single person's job, live in a single persons house, my hobbies are mainly solitary, not that it ever would happen, but if a woman approached me, honestly, my first thoughts would be, she's desperate or she's barking mad, then I'd run away, fast
@@paulnicolas172 I have been told that I look offensive, in stores I frighten children, I was in a bar with a couple of friends when a woman smashed a glass over my head (luckily I was wearing a beanie hat) and hurling abuse at me for being "ugly" the doormen escorted me out of the bar onto the street, that's not the first time that's happened, last year, whilst walking up the stairs from the underpass, I was looking to see where the platform was that I needed, a woman got in my face, screaming and shouting, accusing me of staring at her tits, I turned my back to her and tried to walk away from her, she started hitting me, I kept walking away from her when the train station security staff asked me to leave, it happens
Guys my advice is have your own place that you can return to because trust me you will need it when your being tested I focus on myself and everything happens naturaly
Thanks for the tips. I'm 55, 26 year marriage, and I find myself widowed. Nowhere near ready to see anyone, but I'm one to look ahead and plan. Your video is the first one I've watch. I'm not going to dwell on it too much right now, but in the future I know it will be a subject that I'll have to address. I think I'd rather take a beating. lol
If you're a farmer or independent trucker or if you're not rich then don't even bother here guys assuming u can find single 50yo women that are worth a damn. I live in iowa and it's just a sausage parade here.
I'm 55 and haven't dated in 25 years, no plans to date for the next 25. If she didn't want me in her best years, she doesn't deserve me in my best years. When men and women turn 30, the coin flips. Financial security is what I am going to stick with.🤷
Short answer. Men can have years of emasculation and emotional blackmail for sake of the relationship and or family. Work on yourself, relearn what your actual value is, what your potential is and realise that value. Women often wait for men at the finish line. So don't wait for them while they're working on themselves.
@@danwhite8200 Here is my short answer. I've been married for 25 years and have 2 grown children. Emasculation happens when one lets it happen. I never let that happen. I just watch all the former hotties lose value year by year. Sweet Bliss. Its a wonderful show. My value cannot be touched by them.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I am a 61 year old guy and a woman significantly younger appears to be interested in me. We have mutual interests and seem to get along, but..... a relationship at this point seems a little scary.
The best way to handle that is maintain the leverage in the relationship and keep an indifferent attitude. Marriage is for the young folks, not for 60+ people. Enjoy this stage and have fun as long as you are happy. Keep seeing her as long as you accept it probably won’t last.
I tried dating apps. Although I gad a few dates at the beginning, overall it was a disaster, only bringing on negativity in me and wasting my time and money. Instead, I go to Tango classes, dances, and events 1-3times a week.
Dating over 50 SUCKS. Many women have shared before we dated about “horror” stories and then acted aloof and awkward when we met and texted during the date for their 25 year old kids who were checking in” and ghosted immediately afterwards. And yes, I’m in great shape, empty nester and a conversationalist, not a monologuist. I see why many guys my age just give up, it ain’t worth it
These older guys taking young girls in their prime is part of the problem. I wasted so much of my 20's falling for the tricks of older, wiser "men" who had no interest in getting married and having children. I am now in my 60's and kicked it all to the curb over 20 years ago. Young Women....Stop wasting your future on divorced, older guys.
I'm a Sigma male. My personality works against me. I'm 55yo 6'1" 240 lb lifelong bodybuilder, in phenomenal shape. I'm built like Mike Ohearn. Except his face looks young, and i look like I've lived a hard life. Women have told me I look good but I don't believe it. I'm a blue collar worker though I make very good money and ive also invested well. I never divulge my net worth, or what my investments ar. I dont trust women's intentions. So when i tell them Im a mechanic and they see my beat up hands they look down on me not knowing i probably have more money than anyone they've ever met. I drive older cars because I love them. I've been single for 4 years now. I went on 1 date 2 years ago and she judged me without before getting me. I haven't gone on a date since. Ive given up. I've learned to believe women are inherently bad.
How about a 52 yr old male, married over 32 years. He married his only girlfriend and partner. Now, divorced and alone in a world where I am pretty much one in 100,000 or worse. Who hasn't slept around besides me??? How many are going to understand my views vs the modern world of people who have slept w dozens . It's impossible to relate to any female when it comes to a relationship. I stay lonely but true to myself. Or, I accept sleeping around and the fact my gfriend has had a lot of 'experience' 😂. Fml
Gotta believe what you're looking for is out there and can be found. Don't give up. But your point is well made. You are more rare and you deserve to find the rare woman for you.
@ralphwilliams2208 It's an impossible situation. I have a female friend who I am fond of and we are becoming good friends and enjoy stuff together. I suspect that type of relationship is good enough for now. As most 50 something men, attracted to younger ladies. But, guessing 30 and 40 something females are more used up than a ketch bottle at the diner. Lol. Now there's a stupid analogy.
Lost my wife two years ago to Covid. Started to go out to dinner had a really nice same age lady ask me out I said yes we made plans then no show two times but when I see her she’s asking me out again ?
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My wife divorced me when I was 43. I tried dating a few times from a website, but discovered all the women I met had more baggage than a train station, so I decided to remain single. Even though I had a masters degree in IT, I decided to go back to school to take some classes in my undergrad major Comparative European Literature. I ended up meeting a wonderful woman. She was my Spanish Literature professor. She was on a temporary teaching visa and we hit it off. She was from a traditional Latino family in South America. She was demure, funny, intelligent, warm, and classy. We've been together for 30 years now. My advice men... stay away from dating websites. Meet woman face to face. Lastly, stay far away from women born and raised in the US.
So, I’m a bit confused by the dating trick that you shared. If I set my settings from 10 years younger to 10 years older, yes my market value will increase as I get more right swipes but how does that ensure my profile is marketed to the range of women I desire to meet? Seems to me it puts me in the same boat as before.
@Anthony Manzio My age is not a problem for women I meet in person. Gray hair and beard and yet I have girls as young as 18 and as old as 60 interested in dating me. The problem with online dating apps is attractive women seem more interested in validation from all the attention they get.
I am 50 and will not date women who are 40 and over as you have been through the ringer have children got divorced gone to nightclubs seen more knobs than a locksmith still want to party and read leave your youth as you had children when you were too young and feel like you have to make up for it too much emotional baggage due to bad choices and it is hard for a man to look after somebody else's children so at 50 I would rather date someone young or not dated all
Most women on dating sites dont even respond so their either inactive or not respectful . I actually met someone on a dating site who said i gotta be honest i dont really have alot of time to date you LOL also first dates should not be dinner -go for coffee or a adult beverage
Y'know what people are really negligent at doing? They do not take out their garbage as a matter of fact they treasure it they make shrine to it and show it off to everyone and use it as an award. "Look how I was wronged". You take all your very treasured garbage into your new relationship and you have poisoned it before it goes anywhere.
2016. Was my last ex-wife. She was 11 years younger than me I'm looking for someone 50 to 60 plus. Me I'm 61 .🙏👍 I don't care if she's rich or pore I have no money I live on my cpp. I dress nice .clean cut. And hot. For my age.
To me it's crazy I'm 58 years old I have alot of young women hiding on me but I have no intrest in young women I rather date women my age or eather five years younger or five or less younger won't do 1 online relashionships or long distance relashionships I rather first get to know the person in person and see were it gos from there.
Ive looked on Zoosk, Match, and eharmony and cant find a girl with same interest or none the less that im even attracted to. I may try the mail order bride as long as they have a money back guarantee haha
I'm from North Spain now in my 50s, look 40s, but because I am Spanish, dating in USA is very difficult as American women are very racist. When I look at the guys these women go out with just because they have a " gringo " name instead of my Spanish one I have to laugh... I get on a plane to anywhere in Europe and have 3 dates in one hour 😂
All of what she says is 100% correct. If you want to know how to date WOMEN in your 50's you should listen to a woman. It's the worst idea to only listen to your own gender. Guys should listen to women, and women should listen to guys.
I'm turning 50 this year and I can't even keep up with women my own age@@Singer4life0 😄I have a feeling a lot of these guys can't either, but lack self awareness
in my early 50's now, and until this stupid pandemic, I've been killing it, dating women as young as 21 (cold approached her), 25 (tinder), 27 (tinder) and 40 IBumble) and many others that were less significant .. but since Covid, it's been slim pickings...🤷🏽♂️
Right! So she went out with 100 guys with no intent of being in a relationship yet probably castigated the guys if they didn’t buy or offered to split and acted like a princess. Yeah, no, I’m good. No thanks.
Hi! How the Hell can I get these ladies to just leave me the f*** alone, please? Emotions can be universal but everyone has baggage and I can't take it. I didn't look for your channel but it came up.
Tell me about your last date...
Make a profile using an average male...
That's what I thought.
You mean my last girlfriend who I had to let go?
She had two things I liked ... Blonde hair , massive baps .
Every time she walked ,it was like watching two little boys fighting under a quilt .
Do I I win a £ Tenner ? 🤣🤣
I feel like I'm in a slump because the last time I dated was 2000 and I think there is something wrong with me but I have made mistakes in the past and I have taken a wrong turn not abuse towards women or anyting but I think it's something going on with me in my fifties and I don't think women are attracted to me anymore
These days it seems like everytime I say I believe in God I read the Bible and I go to church I have most women tell me they don't do God they don't believe in God and that right there is a deal-breaker
(1) hit the gym. (2) hit the gym. (3) get a life: volunteer, travel, learn to cook, BE INTERESTING. (4) be positive, because if you're going after much younger women, you're going to be rejected, a lot. (5) don't hide behind your computer, i.e. dating apps. (6) get comfortable approaching women. Lastly, (7) don't take rejection personally. It doesn't mean she doesn't like you, you're just not what she happens to be looking for.
Yes,yes and yes. Good advice all the way around.
@@markflierl1624 A woman in her '50s has to be in great shape and go after guys who are older. That's the path.
Also have a a lot of money, and be aloof. Ladies will chase if you breadcrumb them.
RP TRUTH RIGHT HERE
Great list ✊🏻
Sounds like very hard work to me - I’ll just continue paying for it and save all the effort and heart ache . It’s over for most guys over 45 .
Here is the best advise, protect your assets... no date turning into a long term relationship is worth losing your assets on the last phase of your life. Unless the laws change, which they wont.. the moment someone puts a ring on it are now at the mercy of no fault divorce and or states that have common law regardless if you have a pre-nup.
Life is crazy! When I was a young man and dating, I was broke, now as a man in his 50's, I have $ and stability but now have NO desire to let any women ever get her hands on my finances again. Guess I'll just die alone...but with lots of toys that are ALL MINE.😅😅
I'm 50 & Done.
I've tried EVERYTHING and got nothing but Credit Card Bills. Wasted thousands of dollars.
I am very Impossible Match. I'm part of that percentage that will love.
After 35 years, I tired of giving myself blunt force trama.
Hi. Sorry to hear that . Very sad. Am 55 and haven’t really tried to be honest and am glad now from what you’ve said I didn’t . I mean I did try at one time via online dating for a month then realised it’s a pointless pursuit for most men who are not in the top 7-10 range . Best to leave it to the women as they have a much better chance than men in the dating world . They say it’s a man’s world but not anymore .
You tried everything WRONG.
Should not have spent any dollar on dating. Must be fit, fun and not boring.
@@paulnicolas172 it's still a Man's World. It's a Capitalist Man's World. Men make money off of this industry
I'm 55 and I feel like I was pretty much ruined for dating in my late 20's when the woman I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with cheated and called off the engagement. I didn't do so much as get a woman's phone number for more than eleven years after that, then tried to enter back into the dating pool in my late 30's with all the experience of a 20-something guy. Failed a lot, took myself off the market for another seven years, failed a little more. I think by the time we all hit our 50's, for one reason or another that don't have to sound like mine... We just don't wanna do it anymore.
I can totally identify with you. For my case, I fucked up a lot during my younger years. However, we have to keep on going to find the right girl who could fulfill our destinies together. You don't want to be in your sixties and alone.
55 and haven’t really tried to date for a long time to be honest and am glad now from what I know from others that I didn’t try to much at it - I mean I did try at one time via online dating for a month then realised it’s a pointless pursuit for most men who are not in the top 7-10 range . Best to leave it to the women as they have a much better chance than men in the dating world . They used to say it’s a man’s world but not anymore .
Can’t take you seriously until you button up your shirt.
My one eye snake took her seriously. Hopefully, she will wear a bikini on the next video.
Shh don’t spoil it
Men take my advice.Stay single
Have a nice car instead.Better off.
The Big 5 for 50 year old braddahs:
1- Be in good shape( and try surfing if you can)
2- Go to Brazil & Colombia.
3- Go to Pattaya.
4- Go to Czech Republic.
5- Stay away from US women!
Be strong and Stay safe.
At 65, I doubt a lot of women 10 years older than me know how to swipe right.
at 65 you take much younger minimum 15 years younger
My thoughts exactly! 😅
I'm 58 and looks 48. Stay single. Enjoy life. Date once in a while. Don't chase women. Yes go to the gym make new friends males and females.
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
Pre-nuptials are mandatory too
Here's an idea don't get married.
Oh and if you have a property put it in your sister's name (the best insurance policy you'll ever have )
😂 right?!? 🤷🏻♂️
Restraining order. Is that before or after I'm assaulted? What world do you live in?
Oh wait. Your delusional
If you're over 50 and a man most women your own age or even older don't want you unless you're rich or have an exceptionally good body and mmost of your hair. Mostly the attractive older women want younger guys
Take care of yourselves fella's. Eat healthy and have some faith. See yourself with someone.
You attract what you think. As a man thinketh, so is He. Women can smell it on you. Be positive!
Crazy attracts crazy is the old saying. Get ready for when it happens. I'm 53 and I'm getting ready.
Lose some weight, go to the gym!!
Love it !
There’s no replacement for genuine desire. Can’t help but feel I’m just a wallet.
Late-40's to 50's women are menopausal and have no desire. They're looking for a life support system for a bank account at that point.
She needs to mention her coaching program every 45 seconds like this is an infomercial
Maybe it’s a free paid program 😅
This is hands down the best advice I have heard after watching many of these types of dating coach videos, and for that I salute you Emlovz😊
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You forgot to button your top 👀
Don’t women get creeped out by dudes taking yoga classes?
I wouldn't want kids in my 50s. I have 2 grown sons.
This girl has never been on a dating app as a man . Worst advices ever
Love your plants
I am 55. The last guy I dated was a drop dead gorgeous european guy, 34 years old, tall, blonde, blue eyes, with a God's body, humble, intelligent and on top of that a good lover and a good person. When I met him I was going through a health condition and I thought God had sent me an angel. I am sorry but in my modest opinion, men my age look like my older brother, uncle or something like this. I would rather be alone than making love to someone who looks neglected, and on top of that, the attitude of feeling superior, that is even worse. Anyway, in general, I like and respect men. I just wanted to share my story. Good luck to everybody.
Now you know why men go for younger women. I am 55 too and in no way do I find 45 year old women attractive. Its just nasty. Most men will agree.
This is the problem right now. Younger women have impossible standards for men their own age and so the younger men are taking the attractive women our age.
I'm 49 5'9 145 lbs I eat well, use the elliptical and do core training. I'm in pretty good shape and dress well and go to the dentist 4x a year..work as a special ed teacher with intellectually disabled kids and live with my sick widowed mother..but I'm mostly bald and look tired and don't have the sex drive of a younger man...we just can't compete with the younger guys. Maybe I should look to date women over 65, but it seems strange
How the tables have turned in my own generation...
I'm pretty sure, 55 years old men look much better than 55 years old women.
Just go to any dating website and search for 55 years old men and women.
I can’t even watch this video with this woman’s blouse being open. She is absolutely gorgeous!
I swear I didn't even notice that until I read your comment 😂😂😂😂
I have no clue what to think of these videos, I am 58, thought I met someone on eHarmony. She is 60, we talked for a few weeks went out and ended going out 4 more times. I thought it was going well. From the 2nd week in November until the 2nd week of January 2023. We didn't even kiss, I was the perfect gentlemen. She had some kind of medical condition. She is a texter, I am a phone person, she told me she had something happen to her eye. I sent two messages and never heard nothing back. I am done, I am so tired of being lead on and being a fool in the end. I just don't get it and never will.
How does an app decide what my value is?
Forget classes! I wanna date you!! ❤😊🎉
Great content thx.
Thank you
is it dating after 50 or really dating after marriage at 50 that's really what we're talking about?
Wow your dating tips are really good I'm over 50 and they have worked.
Doesn’t matter what I do as long as my face is this way I’ll never meet anybody - going to get surgery before I even attempt dating as it can be a cruel game online dating if your ugly .
I'm a hippocrocopig, I am ugly, I've been asked to leave stores, bars, recently a train station, I've had buses drive straight past when I'm waiting at the stop, I have only ever spoken to women on a professional level, I have a few lady friends, I met them through my close friends family, I would never cold approach a woman, that's just asking for trouble, as the ugly kid at school, maturing to an ugly older man, I've only ever known a single life and that continues to work well for me, I'm nearly 60, I work a single person's job, live in a single persons house, my hobbies are mainly solitary, not that it ever would happen, but if a woman approached me, honestly, my first thoughts would be, she's desperate or she's barking mad, then I'd run away, fast
@@andrewgage6942 you’ve been asked to leave stores and bars ??? Come on lol 😂
@@paulnicolas172 I have been told that I look offensive, in stores I frighten children, I was in a bar with a couple of friends when a woman smashed a glass over my head (luckily I was wearing a beanie hat) and hurling abuse at me for being "ugly" the doormen escorted me out of the bar onto the street, that's not the first time that's happened, last year, whilst walking up the stairs from the underpass, I was looking to see where the platform was that I needed, a woman got in my face, screaming and shouting, accusing me of staring at her tits, I turned my back to her and tried to walk away from her, she started hitting me, I kept walking away from her when the train station security staff asked me to leave, it happens
Guys my advice is have your own place that you can return to because trust me you will need it when your being tested I focus on myself and everything happens naturaly
Dating in 50s doesn’t exist
I am a 50 year old single woman and I agree with you, it is difficult meeting men in our 50's.
18 - 25 years women are the Best For 50 year guy
Those would be your own kids !!!!
Good luck with that mate.
They'd be the best for anybody, except for the stroke trying to keep up with them in the sack!😊😊😊
@@mirola73 Thank you.
Thanks for the tips. I'm 55, 26 year marriage, and I find myself widowed. Nowhere near ready to see anyone, but I'm one to look ahead and plan. Your video is the first one I've watch. I'm not going to dwell on it too much right now, but in the future I know it will be a subject that I'll have to address. I think I'd rather take a beating. lol
You’re welcome. When you’re ready to start dating watch our free masterclass first (emlovz.com/masterclass).
... modern dating is a 🗑️🔥 just gold diggers and super flakey fakey folks out there now ... enjoy being single
I really enjoy your videos so much. You are amazing
If you're a farmer or independent trucker or if you're not rich then don't even bother here guys assuming u can find single 50yo women that are worth a damn. I live in iowa and it's just a sausage parade here.
Being single is my choice. I love my freedom.
I agree, initially, it wasn't a choice, now it's my choice
I'm 55 and haven't dated in 25 years, no plans to date for the next 25. If she didn't want me in her best years, she doesn't deserve me in my best years. When men and women turn 30, the coin flips. Financial security is what I am going to stick with.🤷
I too have no plans to spend the next 25 years trying to keep a female happy.
@@ironwillie7666 #1 is to keep yourself happy. You are the star of your movie. Everybody else is just the character actor in your movie.
Short answer. Men can have years of emasculation and emotional blackmail for sake of the relationship and or family. Work on yourself, relearn what your actual value is, what your potential is and realise that value. Women often wait for men at the finish line. So don't wait for them while they're working on themselves.
@@danwhite8200 Here is my short answer. I've been married for 25 years and have 2 grown children. Emasculation happens when one lets it happen. I never let that happen. I just watch all the former hotties lose value year by year. Sweet Bliss. Its a wonderful show. My value cannot be touched by them.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
No more pootinanny?
Strategery is my new favourite word 😊
Im 58 and if I weren't married, I'd stick with Palm-ela Hand-erson.
Save money. Get a computer and internet. Find a hobby on computer. I am now learning chess.
My last date 3. Years
I am a 61 year old guy and a woman significantly younger appears to be interested in me. We have mutual interests and seem to get along, but..... a relationship at this point seems a little scary.
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And do you think she is interested in you and not your money or status? Don't you think she will leave you for a younger man in the future?
@@carlosa.v.5278 a western woman will leave you, take an eastern woman less risk she will leave you for a younger man
The best way to handle that is maintain the leverage in the relationship and keep an indifferent attitude. Marriage is for the young folks, not for 60+ people. Enjoy this stage and have fun as long as you are happy. Keep seeing her as long as you accept it probably won’t last.
Great video, ty
Glad you enjoyed it
I tried dating apps. Although I gad a few dates at the beginning, overall it was a disaster, only bringing on negativity in me and wasting my time and money.
Instead, I go to Tango classes, dances, and events 1-3times a week.
I attract the bipolar types.Good grief!!!
Dating over 50 SUCKS. Many women have shared before we dated about “horror” stories and then acted aloof and awkward when we met and texted during the date for their 25 year old kids who were checking in” and ghosted immediately afterwards. And yes, I’m in great shape, empty nester and a conversationalist, not a monologuist. I see why many guys my age just give up, it ain’t worth it
These older guys taking young girls in their prime is part of the problem. I wasted so much of my 20's falling for the tricks of older, wiser "men" who had no interest in getting married and having children.
I am now in my 60's and kicked it all to the curb over 20 years ago.
Young Women....Stop wasting your future on divorced, older guys.
Sorry to hear that
I'm a Sigma male. My personality works against me. I'm 55yo 6'1" 240 lb lifelong bodybuilder, in phenomenal shape. I'm built like Mike Ohearn. Except his face looks young, and i look like I've lived a hard life. Women have told me I look good but I don't believe it. I'm a blue collar worker though I make very good money and ive also invested well. I never divulge my net worth, or what my investments ar. I dont trust women's intentions. So when i tell them Im a mechanic and they see my beat up hands they look down on me not knowing i probably have more money than anyone they've ever met. I drive older cars because I love them. I've been single for 4 years now. I went on 1 date 2 years ago and she judged me without before getting me. I haven't gone on a date since. Ive given up. I've learned to believe women are inherently bad.
I’m sorry to hear that. Be careful not to generalize for all women due to a few negative experiences. There are good ones out there too
I'm not presently in a position to date. I'm 56, never married.
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How about a 52 yr old male, married over 32 years. He married his only girlfriend and partner. Now, divorced and alone in a world where I am pretty much one in 100,000 or worse. Who hasn't slept around besides me??? How many are going to understand my views vs the modern world of people who have slept w dozens . It's impossible to relate to any female when it comes to a relationship. I stay lonely but true to myself. Or, I accept sleeping around and the fact my gfriend has had a lot of 'experience' 😂. Fml
Gotta believe what you're looking for is out there and can be found. Don't give up. But your point is well made. You are more rare and you deserve to find the rare woman for you.
@ralphwilliams2208 It's an impossible situation. I have a female friend who I am fond of and we are becoming good friends and enjoy stuff together. I suspect that type of relationship is good enough for now. As most 50 something men, attracted to younger ladies. But, guessing 30 and 40 something females are more used up than a ketch bottle at the diner. Lol. Now there's a stupid analogy.
Lost my wife two years ago to Covid. Started to go out to dinner had a really nice same age lady ask me out I said yes we made plans then no show two times but when I see her she’s asking me out again ?
RUN AWAY
Yeah,Honey,get back to me when you're 71,72.
How to date in your 50's?
Answer:
You don't!
Jeez. I'm shocked that men in their 50s still want kids. Must be childless ones?
Agreed. Apparently these guys don't own a mirror and totally forget their age.
My wife passed away two months ago... I'm 58 years old, widower is just a another name for damaged
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@@emlovz thank-you
Hang in there. My wife passed away a couple weeks ago. I’m still in a fog.
My wife divorced me when I was 43. I tried dating a few times from a website, but discovered all the women I met had more baggage than a train station, so I decided to remain single. Even though I had a masters degree in IT, I decided to go back to school to take some classes in my undergrad major Comparative European Literature. I ended up meeting a wonderful woman. She was my Spanish Literature professor. She was on a temporary teaching visa and we hit it off. She was from a traditional Latino family in South America. She was demure, funny, intelligent, warm, and classy. We've been together for 30 years now. My advice men... stay away from dating websites. Meet woman face to face. Lastly, stay far away from women born and raised in the US.
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So, I’m a bit confused by the dating trick that you shared. If I set my settings from 10 years younger to 10 years older, yes my market value will increase as I get more right swipes but how does that ensure my profile is marketed to the range of women I desire to meet? Seems to me it puts me in the same boat as before.
Just try it for 30 days and see if you’re shown more younger women because you’re getting more overall likes
@@emlovz Sure but I’ll still get bombarded with a bunch of likes from women I’m not interested in.
@Anthony Manzio My age is not a problem for women I meet in person. Gray hair and beard and yet I have girls as young as 18 and as old as 60 interested in dating me. The problem with online dating apps is attractive women seem more interested in validation from all the attention they get.
@@SC00008 And why do you get involved with babies in the first place?
Jesus h christ I'm glad I'm single ...
I second that.
I am 50 and will not date women who are 40 and over as you have been through the ringer have children got divorced gone to nightclubs seen more knobs than a locksmith still want to party and read leave your youth as you had children when you were too young and feel like you have to make up for it too much emotional baggage due to bad choices and it is hard for a man to look after somebody else's children so at 50 I would rather date someone young or not dated all
Most women on dating sites dont even respond so their either inactive or not respectful . I actually met someone on a dating site who said i gotta be honest i dont really have alot of time to date you LOL also first dates should not be dinner -go for coffee or a adult beverage
Great topic!
Y'know what people are really negligent at doing?
They do not take out their garbage as a matter of fact they treasure it they make shrine to it and show it off to everyone and use it as an award.
"Look how I was wronged". You take all your very treasured garbage into your new relationship and you have poisoned it before it goes anywhere.
2016. Was my last ex-wife. She was 11 years younger than me I'm looking for someone 50 to 60 plus. Me I'm 61 .🙏👍 I don't care if she's rich or pore I have no money I live on my cpp. I dress nice .clean cut. And hot. For my age.
To me it's crazy I'm 58 years old I have alot of young women hiding on me but I have no intrest in young women I rather date women my age or eather five years younger or five or less younger won't do 1 online relashionships or long distance relashionships I rather first get to know the person in person and see were it gos from there.
I've been dating a 22 yr old, I'm fit, ex navy team guy, ect. Guess they like my vibe. Have a few younger girlfriends too, definitely not Ling term..
Dating Tips for Men age 50 and up:
Step One: DON'T!
Be Inspire.
Hi gooday ms. I'm a filipino can you help me to fine above 50 I'm also 55 at my age
Ive looked on Zoosk, Match, and eharmony and cant find a girl with same interest or none the less that im even attracted to.
I may try the mail order bride as long as they have a money back guarantee haha
I'm from North Spain now in my 50s, look 40s, but because I am Spanish, dating in USA is very difficult as American women are very racist. When I look at the guys these women go out with just because they have a " gringo " name instead of my Spanish one I have to laugh...
I get on a plane to anywhere in Europe and have 3 dates in one hour 😂
Why are all of this videos about men?
Throw lots of cash around. This works especially well if you're after a 20-something woman with daddy issues
Yuck
How bout I take you out to a coffee date Emyli lol
..there are more successful marriages when the man is 15 years older....as per university studies....
Add them here
@@emlovz ..add them here?
Any man that wants kids in his 50’s needs a psychiatrist, not a wife!!!
Y take dating advice for a man, from a woman? Women don’t know what they want, typically.
We have male coaches on our team :) We give you both perspectives
All of what she says is 100% correct.
If you want to know how to date WOMEN in your 50's you should listen to a woman.
It's the worst idea to only listen to your own gender.
Guys should listen to women, and women should listen to guys.
Doesn't anyone know the meaning of the word " hack " anymore ? Consult a dictionary
Older men please go overseas. next question?
How to date in your 50s: don’t take women in their 50s.
Wrong. That's who you should be dating. Who wants to date a bunch of kids knowing you're old enough to be their dad?! So gross.
@@michaelrodriguez3329 dating someone 5 years younger than yourself is one thing, going lower than that is pedo tendencies.
You have a problem hehehe
@@carlosa.v.5278 No, if you're in your 50's, it's YOU who has the problem!
And that's why your relationships don't work out.
Why do guys over 50 want younger...are you guys crazy?
I'm a 50 year old single woman and I thank you for your comment.
I'm turning 50 this year and I can't even keep up with women my own age@@Singer4life0 😄I have a feeling a lot of these guys can't either, but lack self awareness
in my early 50's now, and until this stupid pandemic, I've been killing it, dating women as young as 21 (cold approached her), 25 (tinder), 27 (tinder) and 40 IBumble) and many others that were less significant .. but since Covid, it's been slim pickings...🤷🏽♂️
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@Anthony Manzio well, I'm not... don't hate.
I'm not trying to judge, but isn't it strange for a 21 year old girl date a someone who is fit to be a her father
LOL
So kid yelling you how to think no it all...
Men in our 50s don't watch videos like this, we go to a massage parlor and would not be very happy with a woman who does 100 date experiments
Right! So she went out with 100 guys with no intent of being in a relationship yet probably castigated the guys if they didn’t buy or offered to split and acted like a princess. Yeah, no, I’m good. No thanks.
Hi! How the Hell can I get these ladies to just leave me the f*** alone, please? Emotions can be universal but everyone has baggage and I can't take it. I didn't look for your channel but it came up.
Don’t
So cute.
Thanks
she is cute
The worst thing is a woman dating coach for men.
Good thing we have a male dating coach and 8 other coaches on the team. Lol
tell me how I can get to know women of the same age from dating.. I'm 52 years old from Indonesia 🇮🇩🙏
Better off to just get a dog.
Or a cat 🐱