It's the most excruciating, most horrible thing one can ever lived through when it's the opposite. When they opt to shatter your heart because they don't get wholly in with you. I know. I'm surviving through it now. And it's Horrible.....
Live authentically!!! It scares people and when I’m honest with what I want to experience The other feels that I’m being to easy for them to be with.. I believe there should never be a challenge in dating its (the spark/attraction) is either there or not there. The real work comes when two people connect and experience life and memories together. Game is lame.
"A paranoid Society of a bunch of children who aren't learning to manage their own emotions"... this right here is the root of almost all of the problems we are having as a society currently. People run away the instant they feel slightly uncomfortable, anytime someone says or does something that does not align with their perfect view of themselves and how the world should work. They make all of their decisions based on fear of what might happen or might not happen or could maybe happen or better not happen. Fear is a terrible decision maker! Having feelings is not a terrible thing! Whether those are good feelings or bad feelings they're telling you what's going on. Instead of running away from them, the instant that there's any uncomfortability or uncertainty, explore them. Figure out why you feel that way, try to understand them.
that's the difference between someone who has a fast paced brain and that simply goes one place, does stuff, breaks it off after a year goes to another place, and someone else who is beutled with self esteem problems doesn't get going, doesn't find an activit that is fun energizing and brings money, a LoOsEr Brain...... but in fact I am able to travel, I can take the plane and fly 8hours to some other place, but then I get confused, and I LoOsE socially and that sucks so I stay here and run in the graveyard to hide in Shame
When I read your comment I had to agree…people don’t want to put the work in…like fast food …cooking real food takes time…the depth is not there…you end up with something shallow…I have seen this for years…I find nothing in common with fast food shallow relationships…
The best dating coach on the internet!!! There is so much game being taught out there it’s ridiculous. Susan teaches us to be authentic with who we are and what we want and need. Refuse to be anything less than an empowered beautiful goddess deserving of love, respect and kindness
And the sad thing is people these days think that its strong to show or share emotion. In reality I feel its stronger to feel and say what you think about most situations. In my latest relationships it has been my strength for sure. Those pretending don't even know what to do with someone being real and true. They actually believe you are pretending when you are being honest. Its kinda sad what its come down to. I'm glad I'm being brave and honest now.
Ms. Winters is a relationship God!!! 💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐 Im in this situation right now, he doesn't want to feel so i end up hurt all the time and it's over shadowing our good times. Everytime i tried to end it he felt hurt until i just couldn't take the disrespect anymore and cut all communication. I do see it is effecting him and i hope he learns from it.
Thank you Tara. I applaud you for loving yourself and taking an action to move away from a partner who doesn't value you. I wish you a fantastic future.
Omg...you are my GIIIRL!! I think I just may implode if I held my feelings in. At 53....I'm so so so so comfortable with myself and I FEEL...and it's delicious all right!! Deeeeelish. Happy happy holidays Susan.
Capricorn's in the house I thank you for your valuable time and all that you bring beautiful and your sweet kindness. Loving your outfit and your eyes⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐😎👈
Thank you Susan for validating this! I have been struggling and going through these same motions with the men who come into my life and it unknowingly changed my behavior without my realizing it and it's sad because this kind of thing happens every day. I now believe I have been to an extent coming across as not wanting a relationship because I mirrored the men and out of fear allowed them to edit me! It's so subtle if you're not paying attention you don't realize it's happened. I have been working on changing my behavior and this totally makes sense. Also makes sense that if you show a little vulnerability first and let the other person know it's ok to show emotions they otherwise hold back for fear themselves. Yes I've gotten hurt A LOT! But how will anyone find REAL love otherwise.... Again THANK YOU! You helped wake me up! I have always known I've needed to do something different to get the love I want but struggling to figure it out and some points in my life I've been paralyzed afraid to try anything so I'd do nothing. Wishing you a very Happy New Year! Keeping it REAL......
Okay I have to listen to this several times and beat it into my brain lol it's so profoundly powerful. Thank you Susan! Your channel really feels different and heart felt.
Love love love. I feel like you're the woman I want to grow in to. In part - it is me. But you've considered things full out and verbalized. Thank you.
I’m a 24 year old male who acts this way in relationships. I give out the energy that I want receive. Although once the trust is broken ONCE, I just can’t do it anymore and look at the person the same way I used to.
Wow. This so describes my last relationship. I was edited to the point that I didn't feel I had a voice. It left me feeling insecure and confused. It took him leaving for me to really dig deep and become more clear about what I can do better for myself in the future. This is definitely a hard lesson learned but one that will not be repeated. Thank you! ❤
Thank you so much for this Susan. I have been expecting exactly what you discuss here. Seeing a younger man intimately who lights something deep within me and experiencing beautiful feelings of infatuation. I find myself desperately trying to squash it down. He is not relationship ready and that doesn’t bother me but my heart is open and I’m not afraid to feel. It’s wonderful for me. I love your content and appreciate your very candid, open discussions about unconventional constructs. It’s new to me! AKA wackywanderbus- 48. Your the bomb! 💝🦋🌸🦋💗🤗
Hello Susan! This is your friend Todd again. I’m 58 and trying to find a great lady to love long term. I literally just found myself in a relationship just as you’re describing. I’m the one showing up with the feelings. I started doing what you are suggesting before I saw this video so it’s very interesting to hear your perspective on this. I love exactly like you do no kidding! I have to admit though this relationship is very hard because of no reciprocation of feelings and her wanting to squelch mine.
Susan I texted (since he didnt bother picking up my call) this to my on off guy. He never replied. it pains but the pain is subsiding and I'm moving on more quickly because I'm true to my feelings and will always stay true to them now on. I rather play board games with my friends than play with my emotions and the same applies to the man in my life too.
Came out of Narcissist Hell 4 years ago, met a very nice man recently, we were totally agreeing on the way we wished to be in a relationship, had very intimate conversations, told him about my experience from the past in which he supported me so well which gave me confidence&trust. Spent 1 weekend together, after he texted he had difficulty with emotional ntimacy and needed some silence. After some texting, in which he didn't end it but stayed vague, and I responded ofcourse in the most loving way, he ghosted me for 4 months. I decided to speak up, be bold and brave, left him a long voice text to ask for the reason of this deadly silence and had the courage to speak out my feelings of love (now vanished) for him, from my heart, saying out loud love can rule over fear, if you trust eachother. Apperently oil on fire for him: boom! Blocked me overall. So kicked me away, but in fact is kicking himself away in his very huge need of love
Wow! Amen Susan 👏👏👏 Powerful words esp at the end there ✊ I really do love your videos & i like cut the bs attitude. I definitely feel if you are in it with someone then be in it ! Mind reading is frustrating & we should never self suppress our feelings, breaking that generational pattern isn't easy but really what do you have to lose. If the person who you express your feelings to can't handle your openess then they are free to move on. I'm 41 nearing 42 & i believe this way of thinking for myself 😉 All the best to those watching & reading the msgs down here 😊 Love from WA 🇦🇺
Wonderful advice Susan. I'm naturally a loving caring person. I don't mind sharing that attribute. Everything your saying is true. Holding back seems to be the thing now. Very depressing. I was becoming discouraged with showing my feelings and wanting to join the rest until I heard this video. Now I choose to be the loving open person I am but be patient until I meet someone who is not scared to reciprocate what I bring to the table. Thanks.
I am having this issue with a female friend. She does not want to hear about any of my experiences with a man. She doesn’t want me to talk about them at all because she doesn’t have one right now. We had a very deliberate conversation about what we can and cannot speak about. I will probably just talk to other friends. I don’t want to edit myself like you say Susan. I also do not want to trigger or hurt her. I am living full out with these men that I am seeing which are a few people. They were previously emotionally unavailable but now they are starting to become emotionally available. You’re right about how one person can change the dynamic. Thank you for all of your videos Susan. Like most people I’m sure who listen to you I think you’re amazing and thank you.
I was dating someone and we both were like unsure and hedging. I know I was not yet settled in my feelings yet so I wanted to process them before I just decided to go there. So while I agree. I do think everything is in steps for me. I will definitely show up once my feelings get sorted. But I don’t also want to fake-like someone and lead them on. I also don’t edit my feelings or others but a lot of emotional immature people who want you to put yourself out there first is kinda crappy.
"I'm not crazy! I just want to feel. And I prefer that you don't edit." This is gold - and it made me giggle at the same time ! Thanks for another powerful video ! Especially love your energy in this one, really resonates and a good reminder to remain in our own emotional power and it definitely learns me to be more unapologetic about it ! There's a quote from a movie or series I once saw pop up as a gif that always stays in my head, saying : “If someone tells you you hurt them, you don’t get to decide that you didn’t.” I actually have really self-empowering/confident friendships in which we can be truthful, honest and open about whatever scared / scarred feelings we have crawling up related to one another by things said or done. And it's without actually depending/relying on the other person to heal or validate the feeling in our place*, but just for them to join us in understanding and listening to these feelings being expressed in order to deconstruct them patiently and to find our common ground again, underneath the fears and doubts, in order to continue to build our shared foundation of our friendship on this grounded desire to understand, to love and to respect one another and to expand/grow together in this process. It's a beautiful process to be able to explore in my friendships, and with family members too, by being authentic, patient, understanding, open about all of our feelings with ourselves and with one another. I'm very grateful to be able to experience and attract these friendships into my life, as well as how I'm looking forward to being able to experience this in new, upcoming intimate + sexual + loving relationships/partnerships, too ! *Because lovingly allowing ourselves to feel those feelings inside of ourselves is ALWAYS the first step to accepting them and I'm starting to learn really well that that IS my own responsibility, to accept those feelings before anyone else, instead of asking permission/validation from others to feel that which we're actually already feeling anyways (which is ridiculous the more and more I realize how much we give into believing in that powerlessness. No. no more.)
I think when you take ownership of your emotions you are more in control . Because you know he or she may not feel the same way you are and so you are more prepared for whatever the out come .
Look at that. Life is a competition. People with more resources always have the upper hand. Winners get everything. Losers get absolutely nothing. Winners have more opportunities to become better people. Losers are stuck on the bottom. If you're not gonna be happy, at least be rich.
Thank you , Susan . Very valuable lessons indeed . The one statement , which I would like to underline is that "we need to own the responsibility of our own emotions" .
Such excellent advice. Taking back your power through confidence in yourself- and at the same time, allow that other person to see it is okay--- to have "the feels".
I just discover you and I can say you are smart lady. I like to listen what you say , It make me understand what I need to understand now. It help to upgrade myself . thank you Susan
What a great video, one of your best ever! So liberating and encouraging. I've been trying to cover things up as best as I could but it doesn't agree with me - I think it's time to stop.
You are fabulous Susan! Thank you so much for this insight. I have been tentatively dating a very exciting new man, and enjoying the emotions, but also being scared of them in so many ways. Watching this video fills me with confidence to relax and be myself, knowing that it is right and legitimate to feel the way I do. You just got a new subscriber!
Excellent topics and discussions. I appreciate your advice to women. Consider expressing the content in context to a man's perspective of the risk of is she "too much trouble". If she remains the "lovely princess daddy's girl" to find a man to pull the wagon, then "he may feel that she is not safe".
Problem is showing emotions is very stressful thing, it wear you out so much, sometime need years to recover, once you take a step to show affection, if not recipicated, you need to take two steps back to balance out power dynamic again, so you can not just show emotion one sided
Exploring the dynamics of if's and maybe's, expressive and recalcitrant in encounters & relationships here's Aunty Susie... (shared to fb, g+ & twitter)
Prevalent to most recent comments made by Ayesha Curry, wife of an NBA player. folks are telling her what she should have said and when.. this is great.. thank you
I just ended a 5 month r/s with a man who treated me like a queen only to pull away when I gave him my heart. I explained I want someone who I can connect with, not feel as if I'm a pastime or convenience. His reply was "wow ok". I went onto explain that I can't continue waiting on a daily basis for him to decide if he will be able to see me. He hasn't replied and it's not like him. We don't talk on the phone, only text. The few times we have is because I have called him. Why do you feel he hasn't replied?
Omg so true! Don't people know falling in love is the best experience in life? When people pull back it completely ruins the magic. So sad. 😕
I wish humanity would wake up to the magic you speak of. I am ready for this in my life.
It's the most excruciating, most horrible thing one can ever lived through when it's the opposite.
When they opt to shatter your heart because they don't get wholly in with you. I know. I'm surviving through it now. And it's Horrible.....
Thank you, @Bubba didn't do it. I appreciate that a lot.
I just want the pain to stop.
P. Rabbitt .... authenticity is key. For example, is Peter Rabbitt your authentic name? Step up to the plate, fully. I hope this helps.
"it only takes one person to shift the entire temperature of a connection". so powerfulI! & I love how you worded this. Thank you for your videos.
Live authentically!!! It scares people and when I’m honest with what I want to experience The other feels that I’m being to easy for them to be with.. I believe there should never be a challenge in dating its (the spark/attraction) is either there or not there. The real work comes when two people connect and experience life and memories together. Game is lame.
I love that comment Melissa-"Game is lame." Thanks for your wonderful commentary.
Truly! I wholeheartedly agree, Madam.
"A paranoid Society of a bunch of children who aren't learning to manage their own emotions"... this right here is the root of almost all of the problems we are having as a society currently.
People run away the instant they feel slightly uncomfortable, anytime someone says or does something that does not align with their perfect view of themselves and how the world should work. They make all of their decisions based on fear of what might happen or might not happen or could maybe happen or better not happen.
Fear is a terrible decision maker!
Having feelings is not a terrible thing! Whether those are good feelings or bad feelings they're telling you what's going on. Instead of running away from them, the instant that there's any uncomfortability or uncertainty, explore them. Figure out why you feel that way, try to understand them.
that's the difference between someone who has a fast paced brain and that simply goes one place, does stuff, breaks it off after a year goes to another place, and someone else who is beutled with self esteem problems doesn't get going, doesn't find an activit that is fun energizing and brings money, a LoOsEr Brain...... but in fact I am able to travel, I can take the plane and fly 8hours to some other place, but then I get confused, and I LoOsE socially and that sucks so I stay here and run in the graveyard to hide in Shame
When I read your comment I had to agree…people don’t want to put the work in…like fast food …cooking real food takes time…the depth is not there…you end up with something shallow…I have seen this for years…I find nothing in common with fast food shallow relationships…
The best dating coach on the internet!!! There is so much game being taught out there it’s ridiculous. Susan teaches us to be authentic with who we are and what we want and need. Refuse to be anything less than an empowered beautiful goddess deserving of love, respect and kindness
And the sad thing is people these days think that its strong to show or share emotion. In reality I feel its stronger to feel and say what you think about most situations. In my latest relationships it has been my strength for sure. Those pretending don't even know what to do with someone being real and true. They actually believe you are pretending when you are being honest. Its kinda sad what its come down to. I'm glad I'm being brave and honest now.
Congratulations on taking ownership of your emotions.
Ms. Winters is a relationship God!!!
💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐
Im in this situation right now, he doesn't want to feel so i end up hurt all the time and it's over shadowing our good times. Everytime i tried to end it he felt hurt until i just couldn't take the disrespect anymore and cut all communication. I do see it is effecting him and i hope he learns from it.
Thank you Tara. I applaud you for loving yourself and taking an action to move away from a partner who doesn't value you. I wish you a fantastic future.
Same here. Two days after I opened up,he dumped me via text. I’m heartbroken.
I open the door very kindly and lovingly and he did not appreciate that in fact it just makes him disappear
I wish I had heard this several months ago, but thanks for the perspective. I've learned not to tolerate the "editing" anymore.
Fantastic.
Me too. But have learned a LOT!
Omg...you are my GIIIRL!! I think I just may implode if I held my feelings in. At 53....I'm so so so so comfortable with myself and I FEEL...and it's delicious all right!! Deeeeelish. Happy happy holidays Susan.
Hi Susie Quzy. What a delight to read your commentary! Keep reveling in all of the deliciousness that is you.
This video was a validation of what Iøve been thinking, no shame in feeling... no matter what
you look AWESOME at 53!
you are the most refreshing relationship coach on all of u-tube..thank God for you susan.
you have taught me spook much..Kim
Capricorn's in the house I thank you for your valuable time and all that you bring beautiful and your sweet kindness. Loving your outfit and your eyes⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐😎👈
Your so classy if I might say I love your videos.
Thank you Jennifer!
Thank you Susan for validating this! I have been struggling and going through these same motions with the men who come into my life and it unknowingly changed my behavior without my realizing it and it's sad because this kind of thing happens every day. I now believe I have been to an extent coming across as not wanting a relationship because I mirrored the men and out of fear allowed them to edit me! It's so subtle if you're not paying attention you don't realize it's happened. I have been working on changing my behavior and this totally makes sense. Also makes sense that if you show a little vulnerability first and let the other person know it's ok to show emotions they otherwise hold back for fear themselves. Yes I've gotten hurt A LOT! But how will anyone find REAL love otherwise.... Again THANK YOU! You helped wake me up! I have always known I've needed to do something different to get the love I want but struggling to figure it out and some points in my life I've been paralyzed afraid to try anything so I'd do nothing. Wishing you a very Happy New Year! Keeping it REAL......
Great passionate video! You sum up the state of my dating experience in one line: "intimate, but disconnected."
Reyna R. Thanks!
"I AM HERE TO FEEL. IT IS MY INHERENT RIGHT." 'just WoW!
Okay I have to listen to this several times and beat it into my brain lol it's so profoundly powerful. Thank you Susan! Your channel really feels different and heart felt.
Love love love. I feel like you're the woman I want to grow in to. In part - it is me. But you've considered things full out and verbalized. Thank you.
Analeza Ali hello and thank you, lovely lady. What an awesome comment! I’m honored and truly appreciate your kindness.
I’m a 24 year old male who acts this way in relationships. I give out the energy that I want receive. Although once the trust is broken ONCE, I just can’t do it anymore and look at the person the same way I used to.
I'm going to try it now! You're absolutely right...I'm fed up with feeling paralysed. Wish me luck Susan. xx
I never edit my feelings. If someone can't handle them it is time to move on. I have always made my own choices and never listened to anyone else.
Wow. This so describes my last relationship. I was edited to the point that I didn't feel I had a voice. It left me feeling insecure and confused. It took him leaving for me to really dig deep and become more clear about what I can do better for myself in the future. This is definitely a hard lesson learned but one that will not be repeated. Thank you! ❤
Thank you so much for this Susan. I have been expecting exactly what you discuss here. Seeing a younger man intimately who lights something deep within me and experiencing beautiful feelings of infatuation.
I find myself desperately trying to squash it down. He is not relationship ready and that doesn’t bother me but my heart is open and I’m not afraid to feel. It’s wonderful for me.
I love your content and appreciate your very candid, open discussions about unconventional constructs. It’s new to me!
AKA wackywanderbus- 48. Your the bomb! 💝🦋🌸🦋💗🤗
Hello Susan! This is your friend Todd again. I’m 58 and trying to find a great lady to love long term. I literally just found myself in a relationship just as you’re describing. I’m the one showing up with the feelings. I started doing what you are suggesting before I saw this video so it’s very interesting to hear your perspective on this. I love exactly like you do no kidding! I have to admit though this relationship is very hard because of no reciprocation of feelings and her wanting to squelch mine.
Susan I texted (since he didnt bother picking up my call) this to my on off guy. He never replied. it pains but the pain is subsiding and I'm moving on more quickly because I'm true to my feelings and will always stay true to them now on. I rather play board games with my friends than play with my emotions and the same applies to the man in my life too.
I am so glad to find you, Susan!
Came out of Narcissist Hell 4 years ago, met a very nice man recently, we were totally agreeing on the way we wished to be in a relationship, had very intimate conversations, told him about my experience from the past in which he supported me so well which gave me confidence&trust. Spent 1 weekend together, after he texted he had difficulty with emotional ntimacy and needed some silence. After some texting, in which he didn't end it but stayed vague, and I responded ofcourse in the most loving way, he ghosted me for 4 months. I decided to speak up, be bold and brave, left him a long voice text to ask for the reason of this deadly silence and had the courage to speak out my feelings of love (now vanished) for him, from my heart, saying out loud love can rule over fear, if you trust eachother. Apperently oil on fire for him: boom! Blocked me overall. So kicked me away, but in fact is kicking himself away in his very huge need of love
Wow! Amen Susan 👏👏👏
Powerful words esp at the end there ✊
I really do love your videos & i like cut the bs attitude. I definitely feel if you are in it with someone then be in it !
Mind reading is frustrating & we should never self suppress our feelings, breaking that generational pattern isn't easy but really what do you have to lose. If the person who you express your feelings to can't handle your openess then they are free to move on.
I'm 41 nearing 42 & i believe this way of thinking for myself 😉
All the best to those watching & reading the msgs down here 😊
Love from WA 🇦🇺
Wonderful advice Susan. I'm naturally a loving caring person. I don't mind sharing that attribute. Everything your saying is true. Holding back seems to be the thing now. Very depressing. I was becoming discouraged with showing my feelings and wanting to join the rest until I heard this video. Now I choose to be the loving open person I am but be patient until I meet someone who is not scared to reciprocate what I bring to the table. Thanks.
I am having this issue with a female friend. She does not want to hear about any of my experiences with a man. She doesn’t want me to talk about them at all because she doesn’t have one right now. We had a very deliberate conversation about what we can and cannot speak about. I will probably just talk to other friends. I don’t want to edit myself like you say Susan. I also do not want to trigger or hurt her. I am living full out with these men that I am seeing which are a few people. They were previously emotionally unavailable but now they are starting to become emotionally available. You’re right about how one person can change the dynamic. Thank you for all of your videos Susan. Like most people I’m sure who listen to you I think you’re amazing and thank you.
I was dating someone and we both were like unsure and hedging. I know I was not yet settled in my feelings yet so I wanted to process them before I just decided to go there. So while I agree. I do think everything is in steps for me. I will definitely show up once my feelings get sorted. But I don’t also want to fake-like someone and lead them on. I also don’t edit my feelings or others but a lot of emotional immature people who want you to put yourself out there first is kinda crappy.
I like this post a lot and will listen to it again and again
I love your posture. Physical, moral, emotional. You are a true role model!
Nodding my head in agreement throughout the entire video 💯
Importens words with great power once again Susan...
"I'm not crazy!
I just want to feel.
And I prefer that you don't edit."
This is gold - and it made me giggle at the same time !
Thanks for another powerful video ! Especially love your energy in this one, really resonates and a good reminder to remain in our own emotional power and it definitely learns me to be more unapologetic about it !
There's a quote from a movie or series I once saw pop up as a gif that always stays in my head, saying :
“If someone tells you you hurt them, you don’t get to decide that you didn’t.”
I actually have really self-empowering/confident friendships in which we can be truthful, honest and open about whatever scared / scarred feelings we have crawling up related to one another by things said or done. And it's without actually depending/relying on the other person to heal or validate the feeling in our place*, but just for them to join us in understanding and listening to these feelings being expressed in order to deconstruct them patiently and to find our common ground again, underneath the fears and doubts, in order to continue to build our shared foundation of our friendship on this grounded desire to understand, to love and to respect one another and to expand/grow together in this process. It's a beautiful process to be able to explore in my friendships, and with family members too, by being authentic, patient, understanding, open about all of our feelings with ourselves and with one another.
I'm very grateful to be able to experience and attract these friendships into my life, as well as how I'm looking forward to being able to experience this in new, upcoming intimate + sexual + loving relationships/partnerships, too !
*Because lovingly allowing ourselves to feel those feelings inside of ourselves is ALWAYS the first step to accepting them and I'm starting to learn really well that that IS my own responsibility, to accept those feelings before anyone else, instead of asking permission/validation from others to feel that which we're actually already feeling anyways (which is ridiculous the more and more I realize how much we give into believing in that powerlessness. No. no more.)
You are a smart woman. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us.
I think when you take ownership of your emotions you are more in control . Because you know he or she may not feel the same way you are and so you are more prepared for whatever the out come .
Susan Winter, you are a saviour! THANK YOU.
I know what you’re saying. I am experiencing it. I was terrified now I’m very curious and exciting to feel and see. Thank you for saying it!
Oh my... Thank you!
So well said - time to change the perspective, enjoy life and quit the censoring! Thank you!
Oh Susan... if only I could rewind 4 months and say this to my ex! It’s perfect!
Thank you, Susan! So glad I found you... I have done that in the past and
NEVER AGAIN!❤️🥰
Susan...this can be applied to all relationships! Thats the beauty of your explanation...!
wow Susan, HOW much I needed to see this video NOW!? OMG Thank you!!!
I soooo LOVE you!!!!
😘❤️💋You are so wonderful and tell it like it is!!
Totally resonated w/ this...
Thank you for sharing~🙏🏻
Whispering Wind thank you!
Susan I could listen to you on and on! Thank you for your videos 🙏🏻
Greetings from France
I absolutely love this! Empowerment!
I edited myself for two men in the last 13 years. Wasted so much time but now, I’m reclaiming it.
Wow Susan! Thank you! You are amazing!!!
I need to listen to this again and again. It is too late to help me in my last relationship but maybe in the future. Thank you!
Happy
Healthy
Safe and fun 2018 everyone!! 😘
Thank you.
I love you Susan!
Look at that. Life is a competition. People with more resources always have the upper hand. Winners get everything. Losers get absolutely nothing. Winners have more opportunities to become better people. Losers are stuck on the bottom. If you're not gonna be happy, at least be rich.
Thank you , Susan . Very valuable lessons indeed . The one statement , which I would like to underline is that "we need to own the responsibility of our own emotions" .
Susan. Your advice is empowering and liberating. Opening up and taking responsibilty over the emotions is cool
More people need to hear this message. You should go on The Doctors, or Dr. Oz. Get this message out there! 😊💜
Whaow! Susan....what hv u done!! Ur words are so magical...u hv solved and opened my heart....just be u!! Thats it! Thanx Susan...lots of love...😊
Absolutely love it! Relationships are for heroes! Love your delivery! Thank you 💖
Such excellent advice. Taking back your power through confidence in yourself- and at the same time, allow that other person to see it is okay--- to have "the feels".
Truly love this!!!! God knows I have courage. Susan thank you.
I just discover you and I can say you are smart lady. I like to listen what you say , It make me understand what I need to understand now. It help to upgrade myself . thank you Susan
What a great video, one of your best ever! So liberating and encouraging. I've been trying to cover things up as best as I could but it doesn't agree with me - I think it's time to stop.
Thank you Charlotta..
Mind Blowing
You are fabulous Susan! Thank you so much for this insight. I have been tentatively dating a very exciting new man, and enjoying the emotions, but also being scared of them in so many ways. Watching this video fills me with confidence to relax and be myself, knowing that it is right and legitimate to feel the way I do. You just got a new subscriber!
This is exactly what I need to hear from this subject and I feel so good and confident to do it !! Thank you 😊
This is great Encouragement to keep on trekkin' forward for me as I am.
I feel as though you described me but in both partners. Attempting to do the work to make sense of it. Thank you, Susan
I am so glad I found your channel. Learning alot I love to Express my feeling without limitation. Thank you
Straight from my heart. And so relieving.
Love you, Susan !
Excellent topics and discussions. I appreciate your advice to women. Consider expressing the content in context to a man's perspective of the risk of is she "too much trouble". If she remains the "lovely princess daddy's girl" to find a man to pull the wagon, then "he may feel that she is not safe".
Thank you !!! Invigorating advice 🍎
Problem is showing emotions is very stressful thing, it wear you out so much, sometime need years to recover, once you take a step to show affection, if not recipicated, you need to take two steps back to balance out power dynamic again, so you can not just show emotion one sided
Thank you so much for helping me understand what happened in my resent friendship!! Feel great ♥️
Great advice! I tried it and I’ve found emotional freedom. Thank you and happy new year!! ❤️❤️❤️😜
The best video of yours so far. The best advice I mean! I'm implementing myself these days too, for the 1st time I think ;)
This is life changing...
I love this! How liberating!!!
Exploring the dynamics of if's and maybe's, expressive and recalcitrant in encounters & relationships here's Aunty Susie... (shared to fb, g+ & twitter)
Yesssssss! Love it!! Preach!!
DTF- dare to feel ;)
Fantastic revision of DTF!!!!!!!!
I LOVE this Susan! So beautiful.
Love this advice! Thank you!
So true !!
A most helpful video@ Thank you, Susan!🙏❤⚘
Great video Susan! Thank you!
Thank you. Good info 😮
I love it when you PREACH❤
Happy New Year's and looking forward to more insight of your videos
You are looking quite lovely and making so much sense! Why do we feel the need to apologize for any feeling? Thank you!
Well that pretty much sums it up........wow
So empowering Susan and reaffirming ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Prevalent to most recent comments made by Ayesha Curry, wife of an NBA player. folks are telling her what she should have said and when.. this is great.. thank you
I really resonate with all of your videos !! Thank you so mucho ! 💙 I loves it
For me the fear of show affection is take for granted
Such wise words! Love this!
I just ended a 5 month r/s with a man who treated me like a queen only to pull away when I gave him my heart. I explained I want someone who I can connect with, not feel as if I'm a pastime or convenience. His reply was "wow ok". I went onto explain that I can't continue waiting on a daily basis for him to decide if he will be able to see me. He hasn't replied and it's not like him. We don't talk on the phone, only text. The few times we have is because I have called him. Why do you feel he hasn't replied?
This is simply brilliant Susan :)
Thank you again as always! ❣️❣️❣️
You're welcome, Dyhna.
oxo ❣️
This is such an important video!!! Thank you!!!!! ❤️
Such an amazing insight ..thank you
Fantastic! Thank you so much