The Knowledge Creative Healing Course is different. It has many different activities! I have 2 short videos on the website that explain everything it contains
It has been about a year. My ex did not come back and found someone better for them. It does hurt but we continue to heal and move on. I pray for everyone's successful healing.
Guys. I was blocked everywhere. She came back just over 3 months later. But she had to wait 5 more months because I was dating somebody new. 😂 Do the work!
@@tubesurf17 oh, I hurt. A lot. But I did my best to distract myself, grow, and move on as best I could. Wouldn’t you know, she popped back up eventually.
My Ex contacted me at 9th month. I never thought he would contact me back. During the first few months I was so suffered. But believe me you will be fine and your ex will contact you if you disappear from him just as Craig said . God bless you
Hang in there bro… she might return. Stay in NC! Also better get with a spiritual foundation… without one you cannot be a solid tree for any woman to lean on.‼️
If that's true, then you don't want her back, anyway. Having said that, my ex poked her head back into my business after 10 months. There's no telling when/if it will happen.
My Ex broke up with me after 3 years. Her parting words were that she didn't want to be with anyone else but that I needed to find myself and what I want out of life. I was doing all those things, getting anxious when she went out with friends or didn't hear from her during the day... I'm doing no contact, reading, exercising every day and seeing a therapist.. I'm hoping it all works out in the end
Me and this guy were together for 13 years since we were teenagers. We both just turned 30 this year. He ended things with me and when I asked him why he gives me a range of answers on why he did what he did, but never told me to my face, it has been almost 2 months since I spoke to him, but it’s been about three months since the break up. I really love your advice Coach Craig, but I really don’t know if he’ll talk to me again if I’m being honest, I don’t treat someone like this. I’m not saying I’m perfect at the 13 years. Of course everyone had their issues but I never verbally abuse this man physically abuse, this man or anything I treat him like royalty and gold and when he decided to end things, it came as a complete surprise to me
Listen honey 🍯… you know each other too long & he’s got to discover the big world out there & you’re part of his sheltered childhood… it’s extremely Rare for ppl to stick with their childhood sweetheart.
@@Wizard-Girl9 I get the rarity of it, but that doesn’t mean anything. The point I was trying to make is that regard of how he felt he could’ve been the man to come and tell me I just don’t understand how I have 13 years I meant nothing.
Looks like FOMO. Unfortunately, social media/friends/family can be a huge influence on these kind of situations, specially if there were issues in the relationship that was sharing/venting to them and they just simply influenced him enough to break up things and see what's out there. Stay in NC and work on yourself. I just got dumped by my ex-gf more than 3 months ago after 10 years of relationship, she was ill influenced by her mother to break things up.
I did think about leaving my ex,but she didnt work i was tied to her for 23 years supporting her,till she started working finally but had a relationship with someone who owned their own business,i believe she left me because he makes more,but now im out a lot of money,living in a van,feeling like a failure,she married the man.I know
@samdath3439 but then you remember very quickly why it didn't work in the first place. Just move on and find someone better. I would never take an ex back her dumped me for another man. You are only a backup option until she leaves you again for another dude. Why put yourself through that potential pain again? Not gunna happen with me.
Nah. You shouldn't have fo change who you are in big ways to attract someone back into your life. And if they leave again? Are you going to "level up" again? Are you constantly levelling up now so that other people like you and want to be with you? Then that's not you they want to be with. They want to be with some other version of you. If someone loses attraction to you and you've just shown empathy and love and compassion, that says a lot about their character, not yours.
I'd love to hear your views on enmeshment and controlling parents that caused a breakup. A mother that doesn't support you but forces you to remain single and uses the term "have you not learned your lesson" as emotional domestic abuse!
3 years since my wife of 10 years walked away and ghosted me, it was also a text breakup, very cruel. I haven’t heard from them and they haven’t reached out..
She had better return soon, the window of opportunity is closing fast. She's a beneficiary on my 401K plan. I treated her like princess Diana. I respected her like a mother, I protected her like a brother.. She'll be back. I will keep you folks updated. She'll be hard pressed to find a guy like me.WHY? It's extremely hard to find quality people in today's society. This she will soon find out. I'll keep you folks updated. 👍🤓
Don't be the second choice, any woman would love to have you and that treatment and reciprocate that love back to you! You sound like an amazing man, work on yourself and move on! Good luck ❤
@@ChadOliver-b7yI don’t understand the “don’t take them back” other peoples relationships are completely different as well as peoples feelings, if someone wants to take them back let them…
My roommate/best friend passed away yesterday. And my ex still isn't back. But brightside. It's giving me space to make decisions that's best for me. But it still hurts....
Sorry to hear about your friend but in life if people care they would not put you through this no one knows how long life is could be waiting for one to come back but u pass away what was the point in waiting for them life to short 👍
There are many relationships that end and people get back together but there are others that don’t ever work that way. We need to understand that sometimes, it’s better to accept the reality of what’s happening now. We need to learn to cut our losses and move on. Attachments are very dangerous. I’ll see this. My ex and I don’t have any contact with each other. I initiated the break up. I blocked him. The relationship was toxic so I thought that it was best to just cut links for both our sakes. Lastly, I can safely say that we are done for good because he is of the opinion that exes shouldn’t ever have anything to do with each other. I’m good with that.
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I love giving affection and space. If shes too messed up to accept that combo, shes not good enough for me
Can you do a video on short term relationships ?? I can't find any (only situationship) we were official for 4 months and i really believe she loved but she is a fearful avoidant and self sabotaged a good thing. The relationship was very good so i was shocked and broken. Its been 1.5 months since the break up i only broke no contact once last week to ask her on a date but she was very cold and said "no reason for that anymore". She left one month after my mother's death and she doesn't show any remorse for that. Can't take any more pain the relationship was very good but her trauma ruined everything. PLEASE make one on short relationships i feel utterly hopeless when i hear all those success stories that are from long term relationships and it discourages me
@vasilisvks1448 I would benefit from that as well. I feel your pain. We can be just as much attached in a short time, and the heartbreak is real when it's over.
@vasilisvks1448 I feel this story... I had to walk away from a situationship with a man that I had dated for 4 months. He claimed that I was the only one he was seeing, but he wouldn't commit, told me that he couldn't be in a relationship, and he wouldn't delete the dating apps. I REALLY liked him, but his words and actions were telling me two different stories. Unfortunately, my past has taught me that actions speak louder than words. I took it to mean that he was "dumping me," so I walked away and told him to message me if he changed his mind (I wasn't going to settle for a friendship/situationship). No contact has been rough, and I'm constantly second-guessing who the dumper and dumpee are in this situation. If it's any reassurance, my story's timeline is pretty similar, and I still sometimes wish that he would reach out. Actually, mine also ended within the past few months, and I was thinking about him when I came across your comment. Hmmm.... weird coincidence....
@vasilisvks1448 I feel this story... I had to walk away from a situationship with a man that I had dated for 4 months. He claimed that I was the only one he was seeing, but he wouldn't commit, told me that he couldn't be in a relationship, and he wouldn't delete the dating apps. I REALLY liked him, but his words and actions were telling me two different stories. Unfortunately, my past has taught me that actions speak louder than words. I took it to mean that he was "dumping me," so I walked away and told him to message me if he changed his mind (I wasn't going to settle for a friendship/situationship). No contact has been rough, and I'm constantly second-guessing who the dumper and dumpee are in this situation. If it's any reassurance, my story's timeline is pretty similar, and I still sometimes wish that he would reach out. Actually, mine also ended within the past few months, and I was thinking about him when I came across your comment. Hmmm.... weird coincidence....
I feel this story... I had to walk away from a situationship with a man that I had dated for 4 months. He claimed that I was the only one he was seeing, but he wouldn't commit, told me that he couldn't be in a relationship, and he wouldn't delete the dating apps. I REALLY liked him, but his words and actions were telling me two different stories. Unfortunately, my past has taught me that actions speak louder than words. I took it to mean that he was "dumping me," so I walked away and told him to message me if he changed his mind (I wasn't going to settle for a friendship/situationship). No contact has been rough, and I'm constantly second-guessing who the dumper and dumpee are in this situation. If it's any reassurance, my story's timeline is pretty similar, and I still sometimes wish that he would reach out. Actually, mine also ended within the past few months, and I was thinking about him when I came across your comment. Hmmm.... weird coincidence....
Yeah my ex gf threatened to call the police when all I did was say that I’ll come over to talk, as she dumped me over text…after a year together… Long story short, I stay FAR away.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but I couldn't just let her go I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
I know you've covered subjects on bipolar, narcissism, borderline etc before. But since Margaret's been gone it's more about getting your ex back, doing the workbooks etc, without mentioning any of those important factors, many of which contribute to relationship breakups.
That is maybe only true for personality disorders. But We cover more variety of topics than anyone else in breakups… and it’s not even close. And we would do it more if those videos got watched more often. I could do a subscription service and offer more niche subjects 🤷🏻♂️
2.5 months of NC and i give up. Ive accepted that she isnt coming back. She still views all my stories and follows me but thats about it. If she was going to come back, she wouldve come back by now
Who cares, bro? She’s your ex & clearly doesn’t give AF about you right now return the favour keep moving forward. It’s on her to come back & fix it stop waiting! Trust me & it or something better will come.
My wife who ive been with for 12 years had an affair and wants a divorce im so broken. I started no contact a month ago accept when its about bills and stuff she had left at the house. She said she loves me but isnt inlove with me anymore and will always be my friend i dont understand. But im also at a point where im getting my self worth back and know i didnt deserve to be cheated on and want to work on myself but i cry everyday and my heart aches because i still love her so much...
Hey coach, is there a higher chance if you two are in super good terms and are still attracted to each other? She’s still attracted to me and I’m still attracted to her but we are in no contact because of the past hurts that took place in our relationship. We both see each other at school and often times stare/look at each other and smile, but I’m super confused because she seems like she doesn’t miss me but it’s probably just me overthinking it. But we are in our healing phase because of the past. We were on and off a lot but the past caught up to her and she basically said that she doesn’t think we can ever work out anymore so I’m just trying to get answers
Its been nearly 3 years for me. In the line of work I do his name came across my desk, which I took as a sign to see how he was and reach out, he saw my message but never responded. I tried again a week later, still nothing but he hasn't blocked me like he did at the beginning of the break up. Going back to no contact, but I doubt he'll ever talk to me again.
I was friends with my ex for nearly a decade. We broke up after a year due to my having commitment issues from a previous breakup that deeply hurt me and made me afraid to get too close; fearing that if I invest too much I could easily be abandoned for a random emotional reason. Do I have a better chance of getting them back due to my circumstances? Any advice would be appreciated.
So... If the other person won't commit and (also) won't break things off with you, so you walk away (because you want a relationship and you have communicated with the other person that you want a relationship/monogamy).... who is the dumper and who is the dumpee? You have to go "no contact," right? You wait for the other person to reach out, right?
My wife and I have been married for 6 years, together 9 total. We’ve been seperated for about 5 months now. She said she will never be with me again and to keep everything about the kids and to get that in my head. Right after that, she comes over to get our kids and asks me to change her oil and check her tires lol. To me that’s husband duties. But hey, I’m all about safety so I oblige. Fast forward to this morning, she’s texting me something about someone she saw who has the same exact name as her and then she tells me she has a new job. Really trying to be friendly basically. I told her congratulations and no disrespect but to keep it about the kids. Was I wrong? And what’s her move? I feel like she does this when she feels me slipping away
Hello Dr Kenneth. What do you make of this? We broke up in July. She has me blocked on her phone & social media. She has her devices unsynced, so my messages will go from not saying anything such as read or delivered, to delivered hours or days later. I’ll occasionally be able to see a Snapchat on her story
Do you still have that special where you get a lot of the courses at a great price I remember that for some reason, but I wasn’t sure at the time how it worked. I know I’ve asked this a few times, but I feel like I finally understand it a little more now.
Hi Coach , still working after the Email coaching you did with me(about my problem with my ex on May ) she reached out and only told me to respect what we talked before , She's turned off , Idk she will reach out again, but I know I can become better.
Haven’t heard from my x in over a month . I feel okay but starting to lose hope . I just don’t understand how you have a 5 year relationship that ends on good terms . No cheating, no fighting, nothing serious and you don’t even reach out to say hey how are things going. She reached out a month ago to say she missed me and thinks about me every day and maybe we can meet up when we’re fully healed but now I think she got over that hump of missing me
Stay strong mate 🙏 if you give reach out to her first or pour out your feelings too much she’s gone for good even if there was a chance. if she left it’s on her to make the relationship work not be comforted by knowing you’re still waiting
I don’t want to have bad experience to him…I’m just treated him like my friend or brother in Christ Jesus.. that’s all I want to do for him.. I’m just tilling the truth set you free..!😊
Few months away and he was anxious 😂😂😂 I have 1 year and 10 months since we broke and she has been dating 2 guys and she never write me 😢 I loose all hope
Me and my x were so good until she recovered from cancer and was never the same again cuz after her remission she changed and got caught up in drugs and drinking and it ruined are 5 year egagement and are 2 kids were seperated were now in no contact as shes an avoident and i dont see how we can come back from this im sad as f maybe 1 day or god has other plans im just in shock that are beautiful family is gone
I've been no contact with girlfriend for 3 weeks and today i accidentally pocket called her !!! Should i text her and say it was a pocket call or do nothing ??? did i ruin the no contact ??? Ughhhh !!!
Coach Craig, do you think I should give up is been three months since the break up. He’s already told me that he doesn’t want a relationship with me and I should move on.
Yes move on ! Do better ! The work is find a hobby , workout , do shit to get them off your mind ! Being miserable no one wants to! Become happy again and find someone that values you
Me and wife seperated 3 weeks ago to see if we are gonna make it. One week in she called me and said she wants a divorce. Now we are nc, I just don’t know if I should reach out to get divorce details?? Of just let go
@@usersss100 I've been looking I've been in two short-term relationships in that time, gone through several therapists, done acupuncture, you name it I've tried it. Moving on is not a choice that I need to just go and do. It's not that moving on is hard and I'm just not up for the task, I have tried... Nobody feels like this by choice
So now the attachment is mistake? I guess so. If we werent all attached to the other one, we wont be here. Result: dont attach to anybody. You wont be hurt when they dump you. 😂 Problem solved, and we even would be more atractive, because thats how it works right? To the hell with the world
3 and a half years since breakup. Not a single word from her in all this time (and i kept a perfect NC meanwhile too). I don't know if i've moved on or I'm simply and finally comfy with the siruation, because i still have this "curiosity" from time to time about her and i suspect that if i stumble to her unexpectedly it would be a bit nervewrecking. I''ve been meeting and dating other girls but to no avail. I felt numb most of the time.
It’s over already and nothing else.. that I focused to God and I am serving of God ministry…In the name of Yeshua all in all, comes from my heart.. Amen… correct what you says about.. hallelujah.!
@@CoachCraigKenneth Coach, as much as I want to reach out I don’t. Our relationship was too toxic and there was as a lot of hurt there. I broke up with her because I needed space and time to get back on track because I got complacent while I was with her. She ended up getting into a rebound relationship and it hurts but I want her to be happy more than I want to be with her. Since I broke up with her I have lost over thirty pounds, got a promotion, and focusing on me. I can either attract someone better or reattract her, but I’m making sure no matter the outcome I am prepared and it starts by getting my body and mind right! Thanks for these videos! I will keep doing the work, coach Craig Kenneth! 💪🏼
@CoachCraigKenneth Thanks Coach Kenneth, for giving me that hope And I have been working very diligently on myself thanks to all your advice. However my situation is quite unique and I know the possibility of my ex coming back is very little chance. I just have to accept my situation I believe and move on. Thanks for your encouragement, wisdom and attention.
Move the hell on. Workout , get into something new in life ! Start a new hobby and attract better people
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@@michaelmich00 I got abruptly dumped, replaced and ghosted by the avoidant I loved more than anybody I've ever loved, all in 24hrs. The heartbreak and emptiness was prolific without closure. After 3 months I declared a new beggining. So I moved, got a new job, joined a volunteer hiking trail maintenence group and a group that rides dual sport motorcycles in the mountains and desert here in Nevada.. I also got a cool Rottweiler boxer mix that's loaded with love and a good looking pooch. I'm on a carnivore diet and have lost 16lbs plus I work out a little. The results mentally and physically are remarkable. I'm busy, having fun and have met three very nice girls all involved with my new hobbies. So get mad, get up and get out of the house. The world is loaded with people that are waiting to meet you. It's been 5 months since my heartbreak and I wouldn't give my dumper the time of day. Life is badass. Go live it.
As a woman, you need to check back in with the girl after a while, yes you may face rejection but you have to be strong to do it, however she responds is your answer. Then move on if it’s not in your favour. women want men to approach them, it feels weird and manly for us to come back to men
Do the work! It WILL change your life! #TheKnowledgeWorkbooks
Is it the same as the creative healing course?
The Knowledge Creative Healing Course is different. It has many different activities! I have 2 short videos on the website that explain everything it contains
Which type should we get if we struggle like this fella did
It has been about a year. My ex did not come back and found someone better for them. It does hurt but we continue to heal and move on. I pray for everyone's successful healing.
Guys. I was blocked everywhere. She came back just over 3 months later. But she had to wait 5 more months because I was dating somebody new. 😂 Do the work!
Are u back together?
@@missmo463 yes
@@missmo463yes
Yes according to him , but she had to wait 5 more months
@@tubesurf17 oh, I hurt. A lot. But I did my best to distract myself, grow, and move on as best I could. Wouldn’t you know, she popped back up eventually.
My Ex contacted me at 9th month. I never thought he would contact me back. During the first few months I was so suffered. But believe me you will be fine and your ex will contact you if you disappear from him just as Craig said . God bless you
Only guy exes come back
what did he say?
My life was crap before I was with her, and then she was a ray of sunshine, and now that she’s gone, my life is just that much darker.
Hang in there bro… she might return. Stay in NC!
Also better get with a spiritual foundation… without one you cannot be a solid tree for any woman to lean on.‼️
Snap out from that genjutsu bro, focus on yourself. Pray to God and keep on hustling. Stay strong King
You have to provide your light sometimes.
How long were you together?
Bruce there's plenty of fish out there get a new fish.
Thank you Applebe's Girl!! for breaking our coach Craig's heart so that He can now heal ours!!!
I imagine Jennifer Aniston's character from Office Space. Need more flare. 😂
Going on 9 months. I went right into no contact. I doubt they will ever come back. I didnt do anything wrong. She used me then threw me away
I'm going on a year and one month I feel ya bro
happened to me as well. women are cold
same. It doesn't happen for guys, just women.
Yes it does
If that's true, then you don't want her back, anyway. Having said that, my ex poked her head back into my business after 10 months. There's no telling when/if it will happen.
There is hope and hope is a good thing. Let’s stay motivated toward healing and emotional growth. Only good things will come of it! Thanks coach 🙏
I don’t think she won’t return. I know. And I’m never reaching out since she’s avoidant. I’m doing the work of accepting and moving on.
My Ex broke up with me after 3 years. Her parting words were that she didn't want to be with anyone else but that I needed to find myself and what I want out of life.
I was doing all those things, getting anxious when she went out with friends or didn't hear from her during the day... I'm doing no contact, reading, exercising every day and seeing a therapist..
I'm hoping it all works out in the end
Me and this guy were together for 13 years since we were teenagers. We both just turned 30 this year. He ended things with me and when I asked him why he gives me a range of answers on why he did what he did, but never told me to my face, it has been almost 2 months since I spoke to him, but it’s been about three months since the break up. I really love your advice Coach Craig, but I really don’t know if he’ll talk to me again if I’m being honest, I don’t treat someone like this. I’m not saying I’m perfect at the 13 years. Of course everyone had their issues but I never verbally abuse this man physically abuse, this man or anything I treat him like royalty and gold and when he decided to end things, it came as a complete surprise to me
Listen honey 🍯… you know each other too long & he’s got to discover the big world out there & you’re part of his sheltered childhood… it’s extremely Rare for ppl to stick with their childhood sweetheart.
@@Wizard-Girl9 I get the rarity of it, but that doesn’t mean anything. The point I was trying to make is that regard of how he felt he could’ve been the man to come and tell me I just don’t understand how I have 13 years I meant nothing.
No contact gives the best chance of him returning @@Teagill
Looks like FOMO. Unfortunately, social media/friends/family can be a huge influence on these kind of situations, specially if there were issues in the relationship that was sharing/venting to them and they just simply influenced him enough to break up things and see what's out there. Stay in NC and work on yourself. I just got dumped by my ex-gf more than 3 months ago after 10 years of relationship, she was ill influenced by her mother to break things up.
13 years? Is Fella didn't value the sacredness of the relationship. He'll come crawling back. That's a fact! ☎️☎️
Thanks, Mr. Craig! Going through it right now. Feeling pretty discouraged, but somehow, someway, the best is on it’s way.
I did think about leaving my ex,but she didnt work i was tied to her for 23 years supporting her,till she started working finally but had a relationship with someone who owned their own business,i believe she left me because he makes more,but now im out a lot of money,living in a van,feeling like a failure,she married the man.I know
Sometimes you need a 2nd chance with your ex to know where you stand.
@samdath3439 but then you remember very quickly why it didn't work in the first place. Just move on and find someone better. I would never take an ex back her dumped me for another man. You are only a backup option until she leaves you again for another dude. Why put yourself through that potential pain again? Not gunna happen with me.
Nah. You shouldn't have fo change who you are in big ways to attract someone back into your life. And if they leave again? Are you going to "level up" again? Are you constantly levelling up now so that other people like you and want to be with you?
Then that's not you they want to be with. They want to be with some other version of you. If someone loses attraction to you and you've just shown empathy and love and compassion, that says a lot about their character, not yours.
I'd love to hear your views on enmeshment and controlling parents that caused a breakup. A mother that doesn't support you but forces you to remain single and uses the term "have you not learned your lesson" as emotional domestic abuse!
3 years since my wife of 10 years walked away and ghosted me, it was also a text breakup, very cruel. I haven’t heard from them and they haven’t reached out..
4 yrs same. My ex ghosted me right before covid
She had better return soon, the window of opportunity is closing fast. She's a beneficiary on my 401K plan. I treated her like princess Diana. I respected her like a mother, I protected her like a brother.. She'll be back. I will keep you folks updated. She'll be hard pressed to find a guy like me.WHY? It's extremely hard to find quality people in today's society. This she will soon find out. I'll keep you folks updated. 👍🤓
Don't take her back bro. Not worth it.
Don't be the second choice, any woman would love to have you and that treatment and reciprocate that love back to you! You sound like an amazing man, work on yourself and move on! Good luck ❤
Sounds like you're the phantom ex. ❤
@@ChadOliver-b7yI don’t understand the “don’t take them back” other peoples relationships are completely different as well as peoples feelings, if someone wants to take them back let them…
New video with the title came at the right time
I broke no contact with my ex but now i havent mrssaged him for over 2 weeks and going well. Focusing on myself and not him.
Same. Trying not to beat myself up for breaking no contact 😔
@@ira4600 True, it's gets easier each day. Hang in there 😊
My roommate/best friend passed away yesterday. And my ex still isn't back. But brightside. It's giving me space to make decisions that's best for me. But it still hurts....
Sorry to hear about your friend but in life if people care they would not put you through this no one knows how long life is could be waiting for one to come back but u pass away what was the point in waiting for them life to short 👍
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If you believe your ex is never coming back , your most likely exstatic, jumping up & down shooting off fireworks.
Lololol hilarious
My ex has moved on
She's got someone now, so I've just got to move on too
There are many relationships that end and people get back together but there are others that don’t ever work that way. We need to understand that sometimes, it’s better to accept the reality of what’s happening now. We need to learn to cut our losses and move on. Attachments are very dangerous. I’ll see this. My ex and I don’t have any contact with each other. I initiated the break up. I blocked him. The relationship was toxic so I thought that it was best to just cut links for both our sakes. Lastly, I can safely say that we are done for good because he is of the opinion that exes shouldn’t ever have anything to do with each other. I’m good with that.
I love giving affection and space. If shes too messed up to accept that combo, shes not good enough for me
Can you do a video on short term relationships ?? I can't find any (only situationship) we were official for 4 months and i really believe she loved but she is a fearful avoidant and self sabotaged a good thing. The relationship was very good so i was shocked and broken. Its been 1.5 months since the break up i only broke no contact once last week to ask her on a date but she was very cold and said "no reason for that anymore". She left one month after my mother's death and she doesn't show any remorse for that. Can't take any more pain the relationship was very good but her trauma ruined everything. PLEASE make one on short relationships i feel utterly hopeless when i hear all those success stories that are from long term relationships and it discourages me
@vasilisvks1448
I would benefit from that as well.
I feel your pain.
We can be just as much attached in a short time, and the heartbreak is real when it's over.
@vasilisvks1448
I feel this story... I had to walk away from a situationship with a man that I had dated for 4 months. He claimed that I was the only one he was seeing, but he wouldn't commit, told me that he couldn't be in a relationship, and he wouldn't delete the dating apps. I REALLY liked him, but his words and actions were telling me two different stories. Unfortunately, my past has taught me that actions speak louder than words. I took it to mean that he was "dumping me," so I walked away and told him to message me if he changed his mind (I wasn't going to settle for a friendship/situationship). No contact has been rough, and I'm constantly second-guessing who the dumper and dumpee are in this situation. If it's any reassurance, my story's timeline is pretty similar, and I still sometimes wish that he would reach out.
Actually, mine also ended within the past few months, and I was thinking about him when I came across your comment.
Hmmm.... weird coincidence....
@@susanlodzsun3249 i know for me but i hope for her too...she did many things though that showed she cared a lot :(
@vasilisvks1448
I feel this story... I had to walk away from a situationship with a man that I had dated for 4 months. He claimed that I was the only one he was seeing, but he wouldn't commit, told me that he couldn't be in a relationship, and he wouldn't delete the dating apps. I REALLY liked him, but his words and actions were telling me two different stories. Unfortunately, my past has taught me that actions speak louder than words. I took it to mean that he was "dumping me," so I walked away and told him to message me if he changed his mind (I wasn't going to settle for a friendship/situationship).
No contact has been rough, and I'm constantly second-guessing who the dumper and dumpee are in this situation. If it's any reassurance, my story's timeline is pretty similar, and I still sometimes wish that he would reach out. Actually, mine also ended within the past few months, and I was thinking about him when I came across your comment.
Hmmm.... weird coincidence....
I feel this story... I had to walk away from a situationship with a man that I had dated for 4 months. He claimed that I was the only one he was seeing, but he wouldn't commit, told me that he couldn't be in a relationship, and he wouldn't delete the dating apps. I REALLY liked him, but his words and actions were telling me two different stories. Unfortunately, my past has taught me that actions speak louder than words. I took it to mean that he was "dumping me," so I walked away and told him to message me if he changed his mind (I wasn't going to settle for a friendship/situationship).
No contact has been rough, and I'm constantly second-guessing who the dumper and dumpee are in this situation. If it's any reassurance, my story's timeline is pretty similar, and I still sometimes wish that he would reach out. Actually, mine also ended within the past few months, and I was thinking about him when I came across your comment.
Hmmm.... weird coincidence....
Thank you. Great to see your old style video again ! 💯 Real Truth.
Old style? I don’t know what that means?
Yeah my ex gf threatened to call the police when all I did was say that I’ll come over to talk, as she dumped me over text…after a year together…
Long story short, I stay FAR away.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but I couldn't just let her go I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Thank you Jesus! I believe, receive, and accept the blessing. My prayers will be answered in Jesus holy name, amen! 🙏🏻
I know you've covered subjects on bipolar, narcissism, borderline etc before. But since Margaret's been gone it's more about getting your ex back, doing the workbooks etc, without mentioning any of those important factors, many of which contribute to relationship breakups.
That is maybe only true for personality disorders. But We cover more variety of topics than anyone else in breakups… and it’s not even close. And we would do it more if those videos got watched more often. I could do a subscription service and offer more niche subjects 🤷🏻♂️
2.5 months of NC and i give up. Ive accepted that she isnt coming back. She still views all my stories and follows me but thats about it. If she was going to come back, she wouldve come back by now
8 months and my birthday was a few days ago. not a word from her.
8 months for me too. Maybe better to move on. I even talked to another one of his exes.
Curious to know... if you broke it off with her why would you expect her to contact you on your bday?
@@joz2792 she broke up with me😑
Who cares, bro? She’s your ex & clearly doesn’t give AF about you right now return the favour keep moving forward. It’s on her to come back & fix it stop waiting! Trust me & it or something better will come.
Love yourself first ❤
My wife who ive been with for 12 years had an affair and wants a divorce im so broken. I started no contact a month ago accept when its about bills and stuff she had left at the house. She said she loves me but isnt inlove with me anymore and will always be my friend i dont understand. But im also at a point where im getting my self worth back and know i didnt deserve to be cheated on and want to work on myself but i cry everyday and my heart aches because i still love her so much...
You weren't meeting her needs, but rather than talk to you about it, she did the dirty. No excuse for that.
Ex is in a new relationship sadly. Think it's a rebound from what I can gather
Yes, is very true your words..!😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊
Hey coach, is there a higher chance if you two are in super good terms and are still attracted to each other? She’s still attracted to me and I’m still attracted to her but we are in no contact because of the past hurts that took place in our relationship. We both see each other at school and often times stare/look at each other and smile, but I’m super confused because she seems like she doesn’t miss me but it’s probably just me overthinking it. But we are in our healing phase because of the past. We were on and off a lot but the past caught up to her and she basically said that she doesn’t think we can ever work out anymore so I’m just trying to get answers
Hello
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Its been nearly 3 years for me. In the line of work I do his name came across my desk, which I took as a sign to see how he was and reach out, he saw my message but never responded. I tried again a week later, still nothing but he hasn't blocked me like he did at the beginning of the break up. Going back to no contact, but I doubt he'll ever talk to me again.
I was friends with my ex for nearly a decade. We broke up after a year due to my having commitment issues from a previous breakup that deeply hurt me and made me afraid to get too close; fearing that if I invest too much I could easily be abandoned for a random emotional reason.
Do I have a better chance of getting them back due to my circumstances? Any advice would be appreciated.
I love hearing long video 🎉
So... If the other person won't commit and (also) won't break things off with you, so you walk away (because you want a relationship and you have communicated with the other person that you want a relationship/monogamy).... who is the dumper and who is the dumpee?
You have to go "no contact," right? You wait for the other person to reach out, right?
I just know she’s not coming back it breaks my heart but there’s no way I can turn this around 💔
She broke no contact after 2 in a half months !!!
Hope you’ve been doing the work!
My wife and I have been married for 6 years, together 9 total. We’ve been seperated for about 5 months now. She said she will never be with me again and to keep everything about the kids and to get that in my head. Right after that, she comes over to get our kids and asks me to change her oil and check her tires lol. To me that’s husband duties. But hey, I’m all about safety so I oblige. Fast forward to this morning, she’s texting me something about someone she saw who has the same exact name as her and then she tells me she has a new job. Really trying to be friendly basically. I told her congratulations and no disrespect but to keep it about the kids. Was I wrong? And what’s her move? I feel like she does this when she feels me slipping away
Time to flip it on her and hand her divorce papers. And keep anything else about the kids.
Thank you Coach Craig.🇦🇺
Hello Dr Kenneth. What do you make of this? We broke up in July. She has me blocked on her phone & social media. She has her devices unsynced, so my messages will go from not saying anything such as read or delivered, to delivered hours or days later. I’ll occasionally be able to see a Snapchat on her story
Do you still have that special where you get a lot of the courses at a great price I remember that for some reason, but I wasn’t sure at the time how it worked. I know I’ve asked this a few times, but I feel like I finally understand it a little more now.
Yes. The Creative Healing Course currently includes The Workbooks. And there are 2 short videos on the website that explain everything in it
My ex moved on and married a guy with more cash. I’m not holding my breath 😂
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You will find someone better!
Hi Coach , still working after the Email coaching you did with me(about my problem with my ex on May ) she reached out and only told me to respect what we talked before , She's turned off , Idk she will reach out again, but I know I can become better.
Haven’t heard from my x in over a month . I feel okay but starting to lose hope . I just don’t understand how you have a 5 year relationship that ends on good terms . No cheating, no fighting, nothing serious and you don’t even reach out to say hey how are things going. She reached out a month ago to say she missed me and thinks about me every day and maybe we can meet up when we’re fully healed but now I think she got over that hump of missing me
Stay strong mate 🙏 if you give reach out to her first or pour out your feelings too much she’s gone for good even if there was a chance. if she left it’s on her to make the relationship work not be comforted by knowing you’re still waiting
I don’t want to have bad experience to him…I’m just treated him like my friend or brother in Christ Jesus.. that’s all I want to do for him.. I’m just tilling the truth set you free..!😊
A brother in God is platonic but you can’t force him to feel Eros aka romantic love
“She wanted to go out more with her friends. It was just girlfriends by the way” yeah, sure lol
In this case it’s true
Few months away and he was anxious 😂😂😂 I have 1 year and 10 months since we broke and she has been dating 2 guys and she never write me 😢 I loose all hope
bro move on, there is somebody out there who would value you
I understand the pain. Continue to heal!
Me and my x were so good until she recovered from cancer and was never the same again cuz after her remission she changed and got caught up in drugs and drinking and it ruined are 5 year egagement and are 2 kids were seperated were now in no contact as shes an avoident and i dont see how we can come back from this im sad as f maybe 1 day or god has other plans im just in shock that are beautiful family is gone
Why would you want them back. It's over.
Haw much you charge sir?
I know my ex will coming back so before she approach me again I did something terrible to my ex.
My ex has told me that I'm not her person what does she mean by that
Exactly that
I've been no contact with girlfriend for 3 weeks and today i accidentally pocket called her !!!
Should i text her and say it was a pocket call or do nothing ??? did i ruin the no contact ??? Ughhhh !!!
Coach Craig, do you think I should give up is been three months since the break up. He’s already told me that he doesn’t want a relationship with me and I should move on.
Yes move on ! Do better ! The work is find a hobby , workout , do shit to get them off your mind ! Being miserable no one wants to! Become happy again and find someone that values you
Craig grow a beard - it’ll look cool 😎! Ty for your sage advice
Too itchy for me
@@CoachCraigKenneth BTW: Coach Craig are you married to the
Applesbe girl??
It's been 4 months since she blocked me off everything. Not a single word. I'm pretty sure she's done with me
4 months is not a long time lol. Pay attention in the videos! Do the work!
How about 1 year apart after 27 together
Me and wife seperated 3 weeks ago to see if we are gonna make it. One week in she called me and said she wants a divorce. Now we are nc, I just don’t know if I should reach out to get divorce details?? Of just let go
Let go mate there’s someone else
what if they left u cuz u have nothing in common? was with some girl for 3 years and she left me 4 months ago
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I want a appointment with you sir but i don't know haw 😔
Go to his website and book an appointment.
They come back sure does that matter not really stray cats come and go all the time unless they are in Springfield.
This makes me feel much worse. He got 5 reach outs?! I've got none and in 5 days it will be 18 months
im sorry you had to waste 18 months...you might have found another girl during that time. dont waste anymore time waiting.
@@usersss100 I've been looking I've been in two short-term relationships in that time, gone through several therapists, done acupuncture, you name it I've tried it. Moving on is not a choice that I need to just go and do. It's not that moving on is hard and I'm just not up for the task, I have tried... Nobody feels like this by choice
So now the attachment is mistake? I guess so. If we werent all attached to the other one, we wont be here.
Result: dont attach to anybody. You wont be hurt when they dump you.
😂 Problem solved, and we even would be more atractive, because thats how it works right? To the hell with the world
It’s been 4 months since he dumped me. I genuinely think he could not care less about me 😅
Most people feel the same way
3 and a half years since breakup. Not a single word from her in all this time (and i kept a perfect NC meanwhile too). I don't know if i've moved on or I'm simply and finally comfy with the siruation, because i still have this "curiosity" from time to time about her and i suspect that if i stumble to her unexpectedly it would be a bit nervewrecking.
I''ve been meeting and dating other girls but to no avail. I felt numb most of the time.
Its been 9 months. I dont know what to do any more.
9 months of doing the work would make a huge difference! But how prepared would you be if they reached out today?
It’s over already and nothing else.. that I focused to God and I am serving of God ministry…In the name of Yeshua all in all, comes from my heart.. Amen… correct what you says about.. hallelujah.!
Few men in religion behave nobly - don’t let em fool ya
I want a certain to reach out but they have not yet lmao.
A month and a half of no contact right now.
Do the work!
@@CoachCraigKenneth Coach, as much as I want to reach out I don’t. Our relationship was too toxic and there was as a lot of hurt there. I broke up with her because I needed space and time to get back on track because I got complacent while I was with her. She ended up getting into a rebound relationship and it hurts but I want her to be happy more than I want to be with her. Since I broke up with her I have lost over thirty pounds, got a promotion, and focusing on me. I can either attract someone better or reattract her, but I’m making sure no matter the outcome I am prepared and it starts by getting my body and mind right! Thanks for these videos! I will keep doing the work, coach Craig Kenneth! 💪🏼
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It's been 3 months NC and i have to move on from these videos. Have given me too much hope, but that is slipping away at this point.
3 months is standard for many situations. Focus on personal growth!
@CoachCraigKenneth
Thanks Coach Kenneth, for giving me that hope
And I have been working very diligently on myself thanks to all your advice.
However my situation is quite unique and I know the possibility of my ex coming back is very little chance.
I just have to accept my situation I believe and move on.
Thanks for your encouragement, wisdom and attention.
@@CoachCraigKennethI have to see my ex 1-2 times a month because of mutual events with friends. So how does this work.
its been 4 months for me
so how does this work for avoidants? 5mo no contact, not even a single sms, they blocked me everywhere for no reason, and last month even linkedin?!!
Move the hell on. Workout , get into something new in life ! Start a new hobby and attract better people
@@michaelmich00
I got abruptly dumped, replaced and ghosted by the avoidant I loved more than anybody I've ever loved, all in 24hrs. The heartbreak and emptiness was prolific without closure. After 3 months I declared a new beggining. So I moved, got a new job, joined a volunteer hiking trail maintenence group and a group that rides dual sport motorcycles in the mountains and desert here in Nevada.. I also got a cool Rottweiler boxer mix that's loaded with love and a good looking pooch. I'm on a carnivore diet and have lost 16lbs plus I work out a little. The results mentally and physically are remarkable. I'm busy, having fun and have met three very nice girls all involved with my new hobbies. So get mad, get up and get out of the house. The world is loaded with people that are waiting to meet you. It's been 5 months since my heartbreak and I wouldn't give my dumper the time of day. Life is badass. Go live it.
Anyone got a story of a girl coming back seems to be only guys coming back lol
Depends of the cause of break up,like if another guy is involve she'll be back Bec she's boring..
As a woman, you need to check back in with the girl after a while, yes you may face rejection but you have to be strong to do it, however she responds is your answer. Then move on if it’s not in your favour. women want men to approach them, it feels weird and manly for us to come back to men