When Does No Contact Start Working?
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- Опубліковано 17 тра 2023
- When will your ex feel the impact of no contact? You may be wondering when your ex will feel the impact of no contact! Or have you been wondering how long does no contact take to work? Are you curious to know when you'll start seeing results after cutting off all contact with your ex? If so, then this video is for you! In this video, Coach Craig and Margaret will be discussing the mystery behind the no contact rule and how soon it actually starts to work. We'll be exploring the psychology behind this method, what steps you should take after implementing it, and when you should expect to see results. With our expert advice and insights, you'll gain a better understanding of the no contact rule and how it can help you heal from a breakup. Whether you're looking to move on from a past relationship or want to rekindle a lost connection, this video will provide you with the answers you need to get back on track. So, if you're ready to unlock the mystery behind the no contact rule and discover how long it takes to work, then be sure to tune in and watch this video now!
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Let’s leave some positive comments about Margaret on this one! ❤️
Beautiful Margaret, I love her.
Going to miss her deeply in future new content! I know you have so many good topics coming up Craig! Love your channel! ❤
Margaret IS the queen 👑 Videos make her be with us forever ❤️♾️
Do you offer solutions in your one on one calls if my 8 year relationship with my girlfriends when here and I live together?
I am new to this channel and it is sad that Margaret is no longer with people here. From the few videos I have seen she was a truly remarkable woman. RIP.
First they feel relief and you regret. Then when you start feeling relief they start feeling regret. Always works that way
I hope and pray she feels it
@@arangnring4210 but thats an oxymoron for u unless u feel relief first
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Wish it works that way. Because it has been few months now but proper no contact since a month
Yes, true. It happend to me few times with my bf (FA) . @ 1st they wont feel any loss or regret for their hurtful words or actions. After we try to move on with relief they come chasing..
I don't want to ever have anything to do with someone who was ever happy and relieved to be rid of me again.
Especially if they discarded you for someone else for “supply.”
It's just human nature...we have also been the dumper and I feel better to be rid of the emotional responsibility...however, if I dumped you it;'s because i feel abused or taken for granted and I will never take them back...I usually block them...
This only works when the ex wants to get back. When you' were with someone that was just using you, they won't want to come back because they realize you're not going to tolerate their bs anymore. They'll miss what you did for them, but they won't miss you. They'll replace you and that will be it.
No contact works to the greater percentage in the most breakup cases.
Margaret was such an amazing lady full of great wisdom. RIP you changed so many people's lives for the better and your presence is deeply missed.
Regardless if she come back or not, I’m gonna stay no contact and be the best version of me
Going no contact matches their energy and eventually putting you on top, because it was their decision that they will end up living in regret with. Enough time goes by and you get relieved that you’re done with someone who dumped you. You decide you would never take them back, and they end up spending the rest of their life blaming themselves for ending it.
Yep!
Exactly, it's not about wanting them back because I do not. Especially with someone who disrespected and humiliated you in front of others
Nope
I don't live regretting ex's I dumped when feelings faded
I don’t want no contact to bring her back, I just don’t wanna feel like this anymore
How do you feel now?
@@nickelodeann numb, but, also like a new man at the same time if that makes sense. Been playing a lot of music, going to therapy, surfing, socializing a lot and it’s working but I’m still a work in progress.
@@dannycolwell8028 thanks for the reply. It’s been a month for me and I still feel angry, sad, disbelief, overwhelmed
@@dannycolwell8028 thanks for responding. Currently in the thick of it, 1 month after the breakup
I don't want to feel like this either, I've had enough of feeling crap and constantly thinking about him and wanting him to come back but it's hard to stop
I'm so grateful that Craigh put Margaret in a camera, so she could share her wisdom with the whole world. We can't thank you enough ❤ much love to Margaret
People tried to tell me not to do it because she was older… not my demographic… etc. Margaret is 10x the person any one of those losers were 😎
Allot if these NC videos are about getting your ex back. Should never be about this, its all about getting your power back, fixing and solving your iwn issues for you, not them. Stay strong people, we are all with you x
"We can't deliver quickly, but we can deliver accurately".
As a professional financial advisor, I am impressed at how precisely Margaret expressed one concept I also try to get across to my clients every day. I'm going to start using that too haha.
Bottom line is, it's true. 👍
I miss Margaret. Her gracious sharing of wisdom and knowledge continue onward!
Too bad Margaret couldn’t have had a chance to speak more!
I loved hearing her golden words of wisdom.
My bf contacted me after 2days of NC ,telling me he can t handle the pain anymore..he said he was feeling pain in chest,he was having pannick attacks,he couldn t sleep,and all he could think is our beautiful memories...i gave him another chance but i said we need to take things slowly....i didn t expected this kind of vulnerability from his part,and for sure didn't t expected for him to suffer like this,so they even feel physically pain...keep your faith people ,break ups do hurt the dumpers also ,sometimes even worse then us...
After 1 year if they don't reach out to you, forget it and move on with someone new..
why even wait that long?
Why would you say that and the evidence says otherwise?
Mine ain’t coming back she menopause and she very hard core we been separated since 23 of April and I only seen her last sat to drop our daughter off and I didn’t really speak to her I went straight into no contact never reply to her message about her not going to go on our date to the concert and she wanted to be left be I never answered
@@JoeBidenSucks42069 thanks for the common sense. People waiting around for someone who don't give a sht for them is crazy.
@@XxXDjForeplayxXx exactly. think about how much you can get done in a year instead of staring at your phone waiting for a call or text.
I just wanted to say that it only took 1 week for her to come back. She broke no contact and called me in the morning. Listen to what they preach and you won’t regret it.
Expect her to leave again. There is no 2 week no contact (because both of you woukd not change in 2 weeks). Problems will repeat
The dumper shouldn’t go into NC.
Third time she left me was 7 months no contact. By that time i already decided long before that there wasnt going to be a 4th heartbreak. It was time to start loving me as much as i thought i loved her.. Loving my life cause life loves me enough to want me everyday every way. Blessings
Craig, life put me your videos and I got to met you both. I always bond with people that I like/love, very deep. With you and Margaret I felt it. Margaret was someone that I only met through videos and I was hoping someday when I'm better I could have a coaching call with her and tell her how she made me feel, like if I was speaking with my mother or my grandmother, a place from caring and understanding, a place of love, a shoulder to cry on and a hand on my head telling me everything was going to be okay, I always started your videos crying in despair and sadness and watching you and Margaret smile at me always left me smiling by the end of the video, and that's something INCREDIBLE. It crushed my heart knowing that I won't be able to let her know how important she was to me, the things she said and the energy, the peace she gave out. Please be sure that what she has done for you, she has done for thousands of people, and won't be forgotten. I will pray for her today and will be forever thankful for what she has done for me, you, and thousands of people around the world going through a very dark time and pulling us back into the light. An angel on earth. She will be missed deeply🌹
My x never came back and that's okay because I'm a better man now .
I have been in NC for 8 days. I sent him “ the i respect your decision letter” last week. He was emotional. Sent me messages right away crying saying he was so sorry i am in pain. He said he is tired and is hesitant because i gave him hard times all throughout the 3 years. He said he is madly in love with me and he won’t ever forget me( while crying). That was it. I went into NC since last week. I away from all media. No photos, no stories, no online. No nothing. As if i disappeared from the earth. He is silent. I am heartbroken. He promised he would never leave me. I do not think he will ever call
Me again. Thats it
It's a matter of time when you've really decided to move on, that's when the call might come. Don't expect anything just move on and improve yourself.
same
Any updates?
Hi. Do you maybe have an update? :)
Thank you. I needed this today after feeling low after work and having some separation anxiety.
I comfort ate and took a nap instead of making contact!😂 Equally unhealthy, but it go me through.
Ps. They reached out with memes/gifs and jokes 4 days ago and I responded. We had some back and fourth. Once he stopped replying I did too.
Such humanity from 2 pure souls. Margaret’s presence is felt. 🙏❤️
Great video! RIP sweet Margaret.❤️
Thank you for these Non-contact videos, they have brought me so much peace and comfort 🤗
God bless Margaret's soul!
God bless you dearest Margaret. What a lovely caring soul she was. Xx
Craig, could you do a compilation video with Margaret's best pieces of advice? I think we would all love to see it in her honor.
I was a rebound and lasted for over a year..I had no idea I was until I watched a ton of therapy videos and looking back and remembering how angry my ex was at his ex when we were together and constantly nagging about her and lastly, seeing her on my ex's Facebook page after he broke up with me!
In conclusion, being a rebound sucks
Very similar situation with me. Also a year of "acquaintance" (because now, after all, I can't call it a relationship) It also occurred to me after time and after reading and watching this type of videos that I was only a rebound. One of the cruelest things someone can do to you... How can someone say things, make you fall in love with them, believe them, trust them. How can someone assert their feelings - and finally say that there were no feelings from the beginning, and that "I can't be with someone without feelings" and "friendship would be better". But oh well. Life goes on. They have lost someone who truly loved them - and that is a big loss. We only lost someone who used us... Nobody special, there are lots of such people around xd
I think I was too
Margaret bless her such a wise lady. Thankyou for another great video coach kenneth you really have brought me back from the pits of depression a few months ago to someone who is growing in 76 days NC becoming stronger and to the point Im not sure I ever want them back. P.s the workbooks are amazing. Cheers
Woke up again early for this!
God bless you Margaret. Sleep well ❤❤❤
I love that lady. She is so sweet and knowledgeable
Thank you coach Craig,you and the lovely Margaret and the another young coach are the best!I am on the floor after my lovely and polite boyfriend left and humiliated me😢and this is helping me very much bcz I don’t want to see him more in my life !
Glad to see the legendary Coach Margaret :) Lovely lady and very wise too!
Margaret was the best, I still think about the things she said to me in our call back in 2021.
Also Craig, you and I had a call exactly two years ago today! You gave me tough love but it was what I needed at the time and it set me on the right path.
So thank you both ❤
How did NC went for u? Did your ex ever reach out? And how long u was in NC for?
@@randommf3549 She did not reach out. I eventually got to a good place and I’m in a very healthy relationship now. This channel and specifically the creative healing course helped me tremendously.
Thank you for this informative video. I am in this phase and process now after a unexpected break up over txt with a Narc.
I needed this, my therapist told me to send a clean slate to not give him hope but f him. He can’t tell me what is going ok with him so too bad. When he doesn't hear from me he gets anxious.
Love you and miss you, Margaret! 💔
Love you Margaret!
You guys are the best.
Margaret was a natural healer and very calm person and I think her presence would be very beneficial for many hurt souls… miss her dearly …May God bless her eternal piece and a special place in Heaven Ameen 🙏
Hello Margrete , you really make sense
I do wish Margaret was still here. I would have loved to have had a coaching session with her about my current heart break.
I wasn't in a romantic relationship with a particular lady but I let her know that I would be there for support as I realised that she had some sort of trauma from past life experiences as she had mentioned certain little things over the years that I was able to piece together somehow without knowing it. Last month I had a small conversation with her about how she does not have to prove herself to be just as good or better than the men she works with. She was upset about many things.
Long story short I had texted her over a period of 4 weeks at least twice a week saying to her just checking in to see how her day was. In one reply she said that she appreciated me seeing her and that it meant a lot to her. One night I rang her to ask for some advice on how long and what temperature to cook a certain pie as I had a mind blank and that triggered her somehow. The next day she said I had crossed boundaries which I was unaware of. Later that day I had seen a missed call from her so I called back but no answer so I hung up. One minute later she called me back and raved on about the same thing and said that she doesn't need me and that she has other people in her life to support her etc. and also with some nervous stuttering in her voice.
So straight away I have been avoiding her with no contact but there was one time that I did come across her as my work involves being at the place of work where she is but it is not that I would see her every day. I think she is a DA or FA or whatever but it just seems weird to me that she suddenly turned against me when she has trust issues with her other co workers but opened up a little to me beforehand. I am at a loss. Don't know what to make of it as like I said I wasn't in a relationship with her.
I had an ex break up with me and come back 8 years later.
Our record is 50 years!
@@CoachCraigKenneth Wow!
We have a video on it that you can check out
@@CoachCraigKenneth I will go take a look!
*Me telling my grandkids a story* ... " It was 300 years ago when I began no contact"
* In blows tumbleweeds*
Neither I believe on those who are making me positive nor who are making me negative.
Rest in Peace Mrs Margaret. I learned quite a lot from you and you had impact on more lives than you’ll ever know. A true Angel!
Thanks too Craig. Amazing Coach!
My relationship ended 9months ago nc 7months and I’ve given up on her. Got my head sorted and I’ve got myself back not sure if that’s the process of working on yourself. Still think of her but not so much now and tip toeing into dating which not met anyone I’ve really liked yet but positive I will. So I’m staying nc as worked for me with moving forward.
I loved this video and good luck all.
I'm around month 6 right now. It still hurts.
@@jamesgraves9858 I did feel down a couple of weeks ago for a few days but i suppose that will happen from time to time. You will feel better as time goes on just keep believing.
I wish I had known about the correct procedure of applying "No Contact" thirty years ago when I was in my early thirty's when my girlfriend "Rhonda" moved out. I did everything wrong back then. I'm just glad that I found your channel and I'm learning so much now that I wish I knew then. My whole life could be different.
Funny, im becoming more grateful for no contact taking longer. Brief calls and texts but had to go further no contact. I feel with all the chaos that happened in my life, patience is a huge lesson for me.
Coach Craig, first of all, thanks so much for the amazing content, you have so much knowledge. And Margareth, rest in peace, a wonderful lady with a lot of wisdom.
I had a 1 year relationship on and off, 3 breakups. It’s been six months since last breakup, 3 months since last contact. She has moved on and is seeing someone else. I’m not sure if there is still hope in my case, she randomly likes some of my posts, but it’s been a while now. Not sure if she’ll change her mind to be honest, my case is a difficult one. I’ll stay in NC and let’s see what happens. She saw my improvement, new car, new job, starting my own business, but not a word from her, she is an stubborn avoidant. Any tips? Thanks again.
Just sign up for a coaching if you’d like me to assess your situation
Oh Margaret, you were such a gem, such a gem!! You are really missed!!
Wish Margaret was still with us.
All of you reading this - one day you will wake up and it will all be okay. Work on your self esteem. The problem is that you want their validation because you don’t feel good about yourself
Work on yourself, work on your self esteem, you will be okay. If it comes back, you will be ready, you have to build your esteem to be ready. If it comes back, you will be strong enough to know if its what you truly want
Miss her you are amazing craig
I knew it woumd be mich harder being a man and her having for activity in her life than me. Its tough, but ive been doing NC since the break up. But to think its easier for her to do NC, makes it even harder !!
Its my 3rd breakup with my ex….she came back the first time after 2 weeks, second time after 2months….but this time i’m sure she is never coming back i shouted at her when i was struggling at work and was tensed and that was it she says she doesn’t feel like talking to me and what if i tell you i can’t do this anymore and can’t put any more efforts…..that was last conversation since then in no contact…been 16 days…i lost her it was a 2year relationship i feel so lost and pathetic
MARGRET WAS A LOVELY LADY IN GOOD SYNERGY COMBINATION WITH CRAIG. MARGRET CRAIG VICTORIA ARE MY 3 FAVOURITE PEOPLE . GOD BLESSINGS BE UPON THE BIG 3.
How is NC accomplished when you have to co parent? Thanks for any advice in advance.
Sabretooth tigers are anxious dependent types.
THANK YOU FOR A GREAT VIDEO IT INSPIRE ME AS A DUMPEE
I’ve been in NC for 6 months. He left a present in my driveway 2 months ago on my birthday but that’s it. No text, no email, no call.
It's his loss. You'll find better x
4 months and nothing. Ex is out having a blast every weekend while my grief increases daily.
That’s because you haven’t shifted from lack of missing they feel everything you feel. You have to focus on you become your best version.
I hate to say this because I understand your pain. However, everyday you spend in grief is another day lost in being happy. Life is short and we only get one life to live. Don't waste it on people who don't appreciate you or really love you.
UPDATE...6 months after bu. Have a new and wonderful partner. Ex is loudly complaining about being miserable. Lol
@@Confessions089 You are so right. My new partner is totally different (ie not an avoidant) and we are SO much more compatible it is amazing! I still see my ex around town now and then but it feels like I have all the power now. It's great!!
@@matthewisthebest8152 Agree. This was the key. Life is so much better now!
Still think about her everyday after 4 months after she blocked me, 8 year relationship
Its such a crying shame that i didnt know this information before my break up happened ... ugh.
I am new to the channel and I am just confused as to how any of this will work if she completely blocked me on everything imaginable and she claims to be moving in two months, one month according to her mother. We were together for 23 years before I stopped having goals and ambitions. She felt taken advantage of and I see how she felt that way now. It has only been 1 week since the break up. She is my first breakup ever @ 40 yo. I have not reached out to her, not once. Originally when I asked her about no contact, she wanted five years. I couldn't agree to it.
What if I was contacting the first month . Then went NC. She suddenly came around and wanted to see me. Then she went cold again. Then I went NC again while she reached out the whole time but was cold. Then in the second month I went NC again and she’s not reaching out at all. She is staying with her family and has all the support in the world. I’m pretty sure she’s moved on.
What if they breadcrumb you and then disappear when you ask for a conversation?
I really does work.. wow.. Mother’s Day he texted me and today he texted me he love me
Hello Craig, I would like to see videos on breakup of dumpers who were painfully forced to go for it because of their feelings were taken for granted. Dumper dumps the dumpy because dumpy was ok with it at that point as well. We want them back back with no contact too, pls guide
Hello,
I need advice. I’ve been no contact with my ex for 3 months right after he broke up with me. We had a really great relationship but I wasn’t the best at communication and he couldn‘t do it anymore. Now I found something in my home which I bought for him and we also thought was lost. I’m thinking of giving it back to him (putting it in his mailbox without a note or anything. Do you guys think that’s a good idea or is that breaking no contact? I hope that maybe this will get us talking again
No he will see that as an excuse, dont do it, wait!
Craig, I left town during no contact because I was so hurt that I didn’t want to be around when he came back. I knew he would because I truly was good to him and always expressed that I wanted the best for him. I was honest and supportive…but stayed reasonable when he wanted to be free. I heard he was distressed when he found I was gone but I didn’t call him. It’s been years now. He has found someone else and they just moved in to my neighborhood. Why God? How do I act now?
If it has been years, I hope you can focus on yourself and not them. They are out of your life, and you need to move on. It’s your story, not theirs. You are the main character and you have to think that way. If you have been good to them, they will never forget that, but they can move on and so you should do the same. I hope you become the best version of yourself and when your ex see it, they would regret for the rest of their lives. Wish you all the best 💕
Margaret ❤❤❤
My ex reached out 5 months after NC and have been sending messages every month or two for 8 months asking me to reply even going to the extent of making me feel guilty about it. I never replied. I realized he was not worth even one reply but this was hard to do during the time we broke up. Funny how time affects the mindset of people.
So he just suddenly started contact after 5 months?
Mine recently (12 days ago) suggested coffee then cancelled on me without rescheduling.
@@parisam7659 yep. Just when I moved past 😅 how long were you in no contact?
@@nnamaes7137 for 3 months. He is going to a different country next month and have not reached out since.
Is it Ok to share about Attachment styles & Fearful avoidants videos on my psychology twitter page during my NC? Is it breaking NC?
He checks all my social media A/Cs still. He started a rebound in December , misunderstanding I abandoned him , rejected him when he came back to me after our 2nd breakup. I msgd him in January few times, then went NC since February. Then he indirectly reached out to me tru a friend & my bf came to see me 2 days ago to my college , seems like he miss me. But Im still on NC bcos he still didnt talk, text me or called me. He is FA, Im AP.
Coach Craig, I have a question if you don't mind! I've been following your videos lately and I've been in no contact for almost 5 weeks at this point. We were in a relationship for 8.5 years. My question is : When she broke up with me she asked for space and time to heal "for a long time" and SHE requested no contact. I'm respecting her needs on that, after a week of failing to do so. If she is the one to initially start the no contact openly, does no contact still work?
She's trying to help you regain her respect while exploring possibly greener grass. Usually the grass is not greener because no contact makes you attractive
hardest part of no contact for me, is not knowing if i will ever hear from her again
for me if there's a breakup no contact No Love I'm done totally
Margaret ❤😢
Unfortunately,in my case it's impossible to go to an absolute no contact because of a weekly meeting every Saturday,that we see each other....what about that?? Can I make the circumstances different in order to no contact work normally?
I wish I had remembered this before. It went too far, now she went so cold I no longer want her, I just want to get over her. I'd she can move on this quick after me then what's to stop her doing it again!
Coach Craig will the dumper still go through the stages even if they left you for a limerent midlife crisis affair?
So it's been ayear and half is it to late could you answer this
I miss Margaret
Hello how do I get a call or get in contact thank you
Went no contact.
She reached out and asked to do a favour for her.
I Ignored and she blocked me on social media :)
Now social media feels shame that we helped to fight with each other instead of to meet the ex .so they are not leaving the topic. We are silent you don't get message for me . when I will hear from him directly I Will give the answer. media should do rest.
Anyone familiar with CoDA? Or codependency anonymous?
If the dumper has an avoidant attachment. Will it work on them?
Yeah, its always a matter of when not if.
What happens if the dumper is doing no contact ? Because the dumpee kept lying ? Should he expect her to react out or should he move on ?
If we have a same marriage function to attend during no contact what needs to be done
Men have it harder, yes. We are fighting/solution driven. Women just sit there, as trophy, be nice and pretty, knowing that most of us would drop everything and go to her on one text. They love to know they are pursued and wanted. Especially today, with social media and simp all over the place. So we must do counterintuitive things - not chase, not please, just stay focused and drive calmly. It can eventually trigger this evolutionary mechanism and she will start to think deeply.
I see a lot of super hot single 30 year and mid 30s they run into toxic cycle being validated online living in a fantasy land and not reality nobody good enough for these girls and most get used up in bad relationships and end up losing time ending up in their 30s giving up and then finally trying to find something real.
What if I decided to go NC because he was taking me for granted
Can no contact work if i reach out numerous times for 3 weeks after breakup to get only one response?? And when will they feel separation anxiety?
Did the same thing, I also reached out several times for a little over a month. Then I went radio silence mid January. He blocked me then unlocked me once, while I was still radio silent, then blocked me again around 2 months ago, I'm still blocked on FB and Instagram. I came back to using social media a week ago, then he deleted me from snapchat 2 days ago even though I haven't used it for over a year. He hasn't reached out during these 5 months.
I really need help. I don't have any money to tell you my problem. My thought process isn't well right now. Me and my wife are separated and she is became friends with her ex and he just bought a house and he wants her to help him decorate it. My mind isn't right and I'm not match for her ex. I even thought about writing my family letters and her a letter. I'm hurting terribly
Focus on you and positive things set her free
I made a mistake and I want to rectify my relationship and put things right. Should I still stay no contact even though I’m at fault ? It’s been 4 weeks since we broke up. I’d like some advice on what to do. Thank you guys.
I know I failed, she isnt coming back. She found someone else real quick..maybe i should be glad. But i dont. I consider myself a good catch. Loyal to the nth. Financially sound..just havnt dated in years. Lack of confidence did me in. Hoping to meet someone to share a life.
Damn well good luck
How would you interpret if I went 1 month no contact with my ex. Almost 30 days to the tee she text me
“I miss you I really do just wanted to tell you”
But says she is not ready to get back like nothing happend just yet. Said physical and emotionally is going through a medical issue and is not ready.
Would this be genuine interest or breadcrumbing?
It’s literally not possible to get back like “nothing happened”. It happened. It’s better to acknowledge it happened, discuss why it happened, work together to figure out how to fix that, and use it as the bedrock for building a new, better relationship. You can’t just wave a magic wand and make all the bad things that happened disappear
I went no contact not to get her back, I went no contact because I'm DONE
Does it work for short-term one?
I want to work on myself but I’m stuck in that obsessive part where I’m looking to see what he’s doing. I know what I need to do though. It’s been a week, maybe 9 days so it’s still fresh. How do you stop doing this? I’d rather work on myself and stop thinking/obsessing over him. It’s ridiculous. Just being honest
Been no contact for those 9 days as well. I won’t reach out, and haven’t. I just need to ease this anxiety.
I was in the same position, an avoidant one broke it off for some reason. We only had a 6 month relationship, things went great for me and i loved her. She didn't feel the same way about me and the anxiety i felt afterwards, well for a month i couldn't get myslef togather to do work. I fucked up my semester in collage, i spent way too much on comfort food and everything totaly ruined my sport season, wich was looking really good just 3 months ago. But after a month of being a total shithead i decided to start pushing trought the pain and started working on everything i could fix. Been doing for 3 weeks now, i feel much better, a lot more confidence and positivity. Still think about her non stop but the thoughts are getting less relevant. My advice, when you feel ready, push trought it and start doing and living for yourslef. It won't fix everything but it will give you some solid ground to stand on. Take it easy as in don't reduce the stress as much as possible. I don't kbow how anything is going to work out, but feeling positively about it helps a lot. Good luck
Same 😥@@diviinityx