Ways to Gain Your Respect, Backed by Research

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  10 місяців тому +46

    We also covered the common things that make others lose respect for you. Be sure to check it out too: ua-cam.com/video/HHEC4x0_9ps/v-deo.html

  • @A55a551n
    @A55a551n 10 місяців тому +222

    Timestamps
    1). Look'em dead in the eye 0:37
    2). Perfection objection 1:23
    3). Dress to impress 2:28
    4). Respond, don't react 4:00
    5). Smile and nod 5:08
    Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

  • @Justineyedia
    @Justineyedia 10 місяців тому +24

    “Ego needs honors in order to be validated. Confidence, on the other hand, is able to wait and focus on the task at hand regardless of external recognition… [With ego], we need to be recognized. We need to be compensated. Especially problematic is the fact that, often, we get that. We are praised, we are paid, and we start to assume that the two things always go together. The ‘expectation hangover’ inevitably ensues.”

  • @p3arl-luk1
    @p3arl-luk1 10 місяців тому +15

    I appreciate how psyh is always uploading and giving such valuable advice, it’s really helpful!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  10 місяців тому +2

      It means a lot! Thanks for watching! Were there any topics/struggles you'd like us to talk more about?

    • @p3arl-luk1
      @p3arl-luk1 10 місяців тому

      @@Psych2go I’d love to see more videos about managing anxiety and stress

  • @CodeDusq1
    @CodeDusq1 10 місяців тому +72

    Self-respect. Embrace who you are, embrace your own personal values. This will set a quiet declaration of your worth. In doing so, you are leading by example, as many will acknowledge your boundaries and authenticity.

  • @flamegamer3424
    @flamegamer3424 10 місяців тому +3

    These are good ways to get more respect. I’ll need them.

  • @0_3_6_9_0
    @0_3_6_9_0 10 місяців тому +9

    Respect this video, your team and the channel.

  • @prodthegreatpotoo
    @prodthegreatpotoo 10 місяців тому +14

    Yep, I need this vid.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  10 місяців тому +2

      Glad it came out on time for you! What are your currently struggling with?

    • @prodthegreatpotoo
      @prodthegreatpotoo 10 місяців тому +1

      @@Psych2go I kinda keep getting bullied on because I’m ‘cringe’ and ‘I don’t deserve respect of how cringe I am’. I’m trying to see how I can fix this (because everyone has been calling me this since 3 years ago).

    • @prodthegreatpotoo
      @prodthegreatpotoo 10 місяців тому +1

      @@Psych2go Oh, and thanks for making vids like this, been helping me out!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  10 місяців тому

      Sorry to hear you're getting bullied. Were you able to get help and talk to someone about it? Bullying someone says a lot about the other person projecting their insecurities on you. I hope you get the support you need@@prodthegreatpotoo

  • @ElPaume1
    @ElPaume1 10 місяців тому +1

    Just be careful. You don't want to be a covert narcissist, you want to increase your own self-esteem or become more confident. Also guys, make sure to not look down on others or talk down on others, even as a joke to boost your own or a friend's confidence.
    Another thing for those in school. School is a place for learning, not to compare. If you find someone doing terribly or being weird, do not compare their grades and define their worth by that. What's on paper is different from the person themselves. Everyone shines differently and in different areas. Sure, even if that person ends up in the streets or working as a janitor, you should know that the place where your currently working or living is clean because of those people

  • @Tomtom1056LMAO
    @Tomtom1056LMAO 10 місяців тому +4

    This was overdue for me, thank you for the video ♥️

  • @aoifedeborha2420
    @aoifedeborha2420 10 місяців тому +6

    Thank you!!! Extremely useful video. I love how you guys always cite the sources in your videos, that can really help with further personal research. Just wanted to say, thank you all so much, I love what you do (((:

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  10 місяців тому +2

      Thank you for your support! What other topics would you'd like to learn more about?

    • @aoifedeborha2420
      @aoifedeborha2420 10 місяців тому

      @@Psych2go I think that it would be interesting to learn more about how best to communicate with new people, for example if you came into a new setting, how to present yourself and how to act to make a good first impression. I’ve also seen some other people suggest explainer videos on mental health difficulties, and I think that’s a good idea too because it’s something that’s not talked about enough by professionals, with words like “trauma” and “depression” losing their meaning. Thank you! (((:

  • @mentalwellnessdaily
    @mentalwellnessdaily 10 місяців тому +6

    "Respond, don't react" - people often use aggression to get what they want, but it makes it difficult for people to respect someone who doesn't have any control over their reactions. People will be more liked and respected when they make others feel calm, safe, and comfortable. You can't get that by doing the opposite.

  • @aPotado
    @aPotado 10 місяців тому +6

    thank you so much for all of these lessons and tips psi! 😝🙏

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  10 місяців тому

      Glad you like them!

  • @Cherly-l5l
    @Cherly-l5l 7 місяців тому

    When i watch this, i felt great that i know i did a good job but sometimes my closest friends makes fun of me or doesn't give respect like making fun of insecurities just for everyone to laugh everytime i want to let her go she always get in the way and kept me

  • @Quackbone-vy7ls
    @Quackbone-vy7ls 9 місяців тому

    Thank you so much because I don't had respect in school and home but I try to this tips to fix my life

  • @Cxndy_55
    @Cxndy_55 10 місяців тому +4

    I Luv Ur Videos im definitely 1000000% subscribing!!!!!

  • @hayeonkim7838
    @hayeonkim7838 10 місяців тому +8

    Thanks for so helpful and valuable video as always ❤❤❤

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  10 місяців тому +2

      Thanks for watching! Hope this video can help you out :)

  • @LightYagami-og9vn
    @LightYagami-og9vn 10 місяців тому +4

    You always helps me

  • @coooooooooow
    @coooooooooow 9 місяців тому

    we getten respekt with this one🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

  • @Yohann_Rechter_De-Farge
    @Yohann_Rechter_De-Farge 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing 👍🏻

  • @zlumi428
    @zlumi428 10 місяців тому +103

    R E S P E C T😅🎉 I WANT RESPECKT!😂😂😂

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  10 місяців тому +34

      Some say that respect is earned, not given. What does it mean to you? :)

    • @kurthanke5788
      @kurthanke5788 10 місяців тому +9

      If you want it, then earn it

    • @EpsilonCobra
      @EpsilonCobra 10 місяців тому +3

      Isht that comment a bot?

    • @kurthanke5788
      @kurthanke5788 10 місяців тому +3

      @@EpsilonCobra If you're referring to my comment, then no, I am not a bot

    • @Edited_Comment
      @Edited_Comment 10 місяців тому

      You have over 100 comments on this channel

  • @the_lamoweeb
    @the_lamoweeb 10 місяців тому +1

    This channel manages to upload at the perfect timing like it already knows what would I need and when 🫠

  • @len13n97
    @len13n97 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you😊

  • @MJWPub
    @MJWPub 10 місяців тому +3

    More than 3 seconds of eye contact, I thought that was a Kill or kiss moment? Glare at the wrong person and you'll a slap in the chops!

  • @alpharomeo786
    @alpharomeo786 10 місяців тому +2

    Respect is earned 😊 not commanded

  • @Apsolution1
    @Apsolution1 10 місяців тому +3

    Respect

  • @DreamsGotBigger
    @DreamsGotBigger 10 місяців тому +1

    thanks for sharing this valuable content!

  • @esteemedenergy
    @esteemedenergy 10 місяців тому +3

    Do not lie, mislead, gossip, or be mean. There, that is all a person needs.

  • @teegutta4689
    @teegutta4689 10 місяців тому +2

    GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND TOXIC PARENT I HAVE TO SAY THIS IF SOMEONE DISRESPECT ME, I WILL NOT RESPECT THEM, BECAUSE I DON'T GET ANY RESPECT AT HOME WITH MY TOXIC PARENT, SHE WISH THAT SHE NEVER HAD ME AND TELL ME ON A DAYLY BASIS, I WILL NOT RESPECT HER MY TOXIC PARENT SHE DON'T LIKE ME HAVE A BLESSED DAY TEE 💯🙏 PLEASE KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE

  • @alicia234
    @alicia234 10 місяців тому +2

    I dress with textures that make me comfortable and colors I like, and that can often look “sloppy” to others except my dresses.

  • @desperado.1001
    @desperado.1001 10 місяців тому +2

    Respek the snek 🐍

  • @tylertilwick6852
    @tylertilwick6852 10 місяців тому +1

    "My heart breaks if you don’t like me, but you WILL respect me."
    - Tony Soprano

  • @wayneheidlebaugh9915
    @wayneheidlebaugh9915 10 місяців тому

    What has being respectful and kind to others got me? I'll tell you, when a person drops something I say "Please allow me." and that person says "No! Leave me alone! I'll get it myself!" I try to make eye while being friendly and that person says "What are you looking at weirdo?" An angry person blames me for something I didn't do and when I look him in the eyes and calmly say to him "I'm sorry but that wasn't me." Only to get yelled at. "How dare you look me in the eye and stand there and lie to me!" I dress appropriately for a certain occasion and someone says to me "Who do you think your fooling and just who do you think you are?" So I just go about my business not looking at anyone. I would just go places, take care of personal needs and go home while trying not to have anything to do with anyone!

  • @Bransanko
    @Bransanko 10 місяців тому +3

    IMPORTANT: hey psych2go, I think the time tags in the video were meant for another video. Take care!:D

  • @Nav2317
    @Nav2317 10 місяців тому +8

    I want Amanda’s voice 😔where is she 😢

    • @IdislikeTechnology
      @IdislikeTechnology 10 місяців тому +4

      Right? Bathed isnt pronounced like this video has it... i miss her voice

    • @pip.pip.pooray
      @pip.pip.pooray 10 місяців тому +1

      This speaker is amazing too!

  • @spookyfriend3613
    @spookyfriend3613 9 місяців тому

    Well about the dressing part, what if i really like dressing punk/alternative and it makes me confident. I dont know if ill have respect for that but i really like to.

  • @Jyzelle16
    @Jyzelle16 Рік тому +9

    Hello future viewers
    Also yay I’m actually the first comment this never happens 😂

    • @millyreddie
      @millyreddie 10 місяців тому +4

      Omg this comment is literally 11 months old what

    • @deangelobeebe2652
      @deangelobeebe2652 10 місяців тому +3

      Bro 11mo ago

    • @BenMojo.
      @BenMojo. 10 місяців тому +2

      How'd you do that ?

    • @deangelobeebe2652
      @deangelobeebe2652 10 місяців тому +2

      Back to the future type shi

    • @AD-Bengali
      @AD-Bengali 10 місяців тому +1

      Are you a member of this channel?

  • @ROBERTDAVis2271
    @ROBERTDAVis2271 10 місяців тому

    Great video 👍🏿

  • @Oll65446
    @Oll65446 10 місяців тому +3

    It’s nice to listen if it’s Amanda’s voice 😞

  • @Stacyohama
    @Stacyohama 10 місяців тому

    great video 😊😊😊

  • @teegutta4689
    @teegutta4689 10 місяців тому +1

    BUT I HAVE TO SAY THIS I DO RESPECT MYSELF TEE

  • @ItsOmarBro
    @ItsOmarBro 10 місяців тому

    This is amazing. Gotta ask tho. Where is that accent form? there is aussie moments american moments south African moments.

  • @niasiamack9333
    @niasiamack9333 10 місяців тому

    This video helps out

  • @teegutta4689
    @teegutta4689 10 місяців тому +5

    HEY GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND TOXIC FAMILY, I JUST WANT TO ASK A QUESTION , HOW CAN I GET MY TOXIC PARENT TO RESPECT ME WHEN SHE CAN'T TELL ME THAT SHE LOVE ME, PLEASE KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS, HAVE A BLESSED DAY TEE 💯🙏💪💙

    • @Pixrven
      @Pixrven 10 місяців тому +1

      1. You can try to limit your communications with them.
      2. Focus on yourself rather than trying to please them.
      3. (What I do) leave them alone and do what makes ME happy.

    • @teegutta4689
      @teegutta4689 10 місяців тому

      GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND TOXIC PARENT, I HAVE TO SAY THAT, I WILL NOT RESPECT ANYONE THAT DISRESPECT ME, MY TOXIC PARENT IS VERY DISRESPECTFUL, TO SHE KEEP TELLING ME THAT SHE WISH SHE NEVER HAD ME, I TOLD HER THAT I WISH SHE DIDN'T HAVE ME TO, HAVE A BLESSED DAY TEE 💯🙏💪💙 PLEASE KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS

  • @bastionsea2829
    @bastionsea2829 10 місяців тому +1

    Looking someone in the eye, from a animal's perspective, is a threatening gesture. There's a Lot more to respect than just eye contact
    Firm and confident.. that's exactly counter to today's social media culture. If you didn't immediately get upset during the recent Twitter conflicts, you were immediately dismissed

    • @teegutta4689
      @teegutta4689 10 місяців тому +1

      GOOD MORNING MY FRIEND YOUR SO RIGHT 👍 HAVE A BLESSED DAY TEE 💯🙏

  • @kidszonebabyshop877
    @kidszonebabyshop877 10 місяців тому +1

    Love your videos ❤ I’m a bigg fan of yours
    Btw can you please make a video on mental health

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  10 місяців тому

      This video educates on others on how to gain respect is an important topic and has a correlation contributing to mental wellness. It's often not taught at school, work nor sometime not at home. What kind of mental health topics are you looking for? We'd love to look into adding to our project list :)
      Have you watched our most recent other mental health topic releases? Here are some videos:
      Released 2 days ago: 7 Behaviors Covert Narcissist Do ua-cam.com/video/5irBlY7Psb4/v-deo.html
      Released 3 days ago: 6 Signs You're Abandoning Yourself For Others (Fawning) ua-cam.com/video/NcM3vjCL-BI/v-deo.html
      Released 5 days ago: 5 Psychological Effects of Nostalgia ua-cam.com/video/g_6-na5q0oQ/v-deo.html

    • @kidszonebabyshop877
      @kidszonebabyshop877 10 місяців тому

      @@Psych2go well.... I was looking for something like the importance of your mental health and how to take care of it.
      Cause I’ve been dealing with a lot and it’s really affecting my mental health and being aware of it is a big start and Thanks to u guys :)

  • @dudafruiz1992
    @dudafruiz1992 10 місяців тому

    Is difficult listen and don't talk sometimes 😶 I'm trying listen more 😊👍

  • @Pumpking1984
    @Pumpking1984 10 місяців тому

    thank you.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  10 місяців тому

      Thank you for your support!

  • @Plom8888
    @Plom8888 10 місяців тому

    Where’s that other woman’s voice Amanda Silvera. I love that voice!!!!

  • @ginnymay8965
    @ginnymay8965 10 місяців тому

    Hmm from the get go I have troubles giving eye contact due to me being autistic. So I guess I will try to figure out some other way to get respect, because when it comes to eye contact I don’t know how long to look at their eyes. I could zone out whilst giving eye contact but then I’ll probably seem like my uninterested in the conversation, which I probably am.

  • @EmiTheGreat
    @EmiTheGreat 10 місяців тому +3

    I love her accent

  • @lolly6182
    @lolly6182 10 місяців тому +3

    Please put back Amanda’s voice

    • @akashasteele8943
      @akashasteele8943 10 місяців тому

      They all work together on different videos. Amanda is just one of the amazing voice actors that work for Psy2go.

  • @Lightoooo1
    @Lightoooo1 10 місяців тому +1

    Where’s the other lady voice Amanda 🥺

  • @markuswunsch
    @markuswunsch 10 місяців тому +3

    Number 6: Money.
    It's very sad but as an entrepreneur who knows both extreme poverty and wealth (yes I almost ended up on the street but managed to turn things around later even partying at Jeff Bezos NYC penthouse) I can tell from first hand experience how much money impresses people and attracts even more money but most of all it earns you respect like nothing else.
    It's very very sad but it is how it is...

    • @nadia_here
      @nadia_here 10 місяців тому

      thanks for saying the ugly truth, I wish it wasn't like this

  • @Dark_light005
    @Dark_light005 10 місяців тому

    2 comment 🎉

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  10 місяців тому

      🎉thanks for joining early!

  • @CindyTan-uu2id
    @CindyTan-uu2id 10 місяців тому

    My own world all people so much better
    We have our own right choice

  • @IdkAnytingGood
    @IdkAnytingGood 9 місяців тому +1

    I don’t need to ponder anymore

  • @chiusaperferie
    @chiusaperferie 10 місяців тому

    This video: be this be that
    Also this video: be you
    ....😅

  • @EmbraceTheStruggle24
    @EmbraceTheStruggle24 10 місяців тому +1

    We might be humans ...................

  • @zoy8779
    @zoy8779 10 місяців тому

    I think especially respect is exactly followed that a wise quote (when u respect you'll earn respet)this is the method no magic but this with sane people not crazy people who are looking for skirmishes and insults . ahh man these people have on cure but neglecting them then you'll find the real peace. but if u are the crazy person this is differant story 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @EmbraceTheStruggle24
    @EmbraceTheStruggle24 10 місяців тому +1

    We might be humans ........

  • @CXTGod_Shinobi
    @CXTGod_Shinobi 10 місяців тому

    Hey guys this will be kinda long but I need help
    I like someone in my math class and I always catch them looking at me in class. Also my friend sees them looking at me so I’m pretty sure they like me. They used to be at my table in class so I kinda know her but we are not friends. Since she is in my class I want to go up to her and say something but I don’t know what to say. Can you guys give me some ideas to say to her please 🙏

  • @DaBaseBallZ
    @DaBaseBallZ 10 місяців тому

    Love the MHA refrence

  • @EmbraceTheStruggle24
    @EmbraceTheStruggle24 10 місяців тому +1

    We might be humans ....

  • @adna6958
    @adna6958 9 місяців тому

    I do all of these but i dont smile
    Im not showing emotion because i dont have them

  • @HealingSpectrumIntuition
    @HealingSpectrumIntuition 10 місяців тому

    I do ALL of these things and almost everyone around me still treats me like dog crap…

  • @markmuller7962
    @markmuller7962 10 місяців тому +2

    "Looking in the eyes"
    ASD people: 💀

  • @Aria-nl3xp
    @Aria-nl3xp 10 місяців тому

    You know it's funny I have always given respect regardless if I know the person or not or if I like the person or not. Always respect!! So what then? When everyone is full of shit!??

    • @TechnoNRune
      @TechnoNRune 10 місяців тому

      People will be shitty given respect or not

  • @neko_rora8709
    @neko_rora8709 2 місяці тому

    I love Psych Videos and i really don't want to be mean, but you should look for another voice actor.

  • @JodyMorgan0220
    @JodyMorgan0220 10 місяців тому +4

    I find the person narrating this difficult to understand.

  • @Keiron-pw6sl
    @Keiron-pw6sl 10 місяців тому +4

    What a cute voice

  • @Luk19001
    @Luk19001 10 місяців тому +2

    Where’s narrator Amanda 😢😢

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  10 місяців тому

      Amanda is here! We have a small voice over team allowing others to shine too!

  • @rupamukherjee989
    @rupamukherjee989 10 місяців тому +1

    You *respecccccctttt* mee!!🤌🏻

  • @drinasun6984
    @drinasun6984 10 місяців тому

    Hello 👋🏽

  • @Not-known.
    @Not-known. 10 місяців тому +1

    11 commenf

  • @maxresdefault8235
    @maxresdefault8235 10 місяців тому +2

    bro why do you sound like a south park character

  • @T0ut8ttifig
    @T0ut8ttifig 10 місяців тому

    ✌🏻

  • @88PARADOXX
    @88PARADOXX 10 місяців тому

    Barfed??

  • @Hikari.02405
    @Hikari.02405 10 місяців тому +2

    Why is her voice so weird , it’s uncomfortable, change please

    • @pip.pip.pooray
      @pip.pip.pooray 10 місяців тому +1

      No it's not, it's really sweet

  • @Silver_kid
    @Silver_kid 10 місяців тому

    What if i can't afford good clothes?

  • @TheNonameHousehold
    @TheNonameHousehold 10 місяців тому +1

    I don't respect my elders until they respect me first, the way it should be. 😒

  • @JoyDavidson
    @JoyDavidson 10 місяців тому

    Look someone in the eye?!! Eyed rather dine out naked! Jk

  • @DearProfessorRF
    @DearProfessorRF 10 місяців тому

    Why did they have to kill that poor spider?
    We are running out of insects in this world !! so that lost my respect…

  • @len13n97
    @len13n97 10 місяців тому +6

    Thank you😊

  • @Lightoooo1
    @Lightoooo1 10 місяців тому +2

    Where’s the other lady voice Amanda 🥺

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  10 місяців тому +2

      She's still with us!! :) We have a small voice over team that we also want others to have a chance

    • @Keiron-pw6sl
      @Keiron-pw6sl 10 місяців тому

      I think I'm in love with this voice