I hate the fact that many times a person doesn't like you for who you are, but simply likes the idea of you obsessing over them, we really need to stop seeing eachother as objects made to give attention and instead start seeing eachother as people.
5 signs that someone likes you for who you are: 1. mirroring (0:16) 2. space (1:34) 3. asking questions (2:34) 4. eye contact (3:40) 5. emotional attentiveness (4:57)
Sorry that you feel this way. It can feel frustrating when our feelings are not reciprocated. Which part of the video do you think you struggle with the most?
@@Psych2go all of it sincerely as especially being an disabled content creator and recording artist as I'm going to an talent agency today. It's lifelong battles for me and hope to get approved for my skills with voice acting and music creations 😀
You are creating a foundation not only for your life but for your legacy. You are needed for the world. You are necessary. It is vital that you do not exhaust yourself. Long-lasting change comes from little steps, repeated regularly, over time. The little things you do, as tiny as taking a sip of water or stretching more often or going for a walk. These all add up to something much greater than the sum of their parts.
Please know that if you didn’t feel included because you are on the spectrum or neurodivergent, it doesn’t mean that you have not been loved or don’t show love. Listening intently, waiting for neurodivergent people to be expressed here and signs that they like us. It’s important to include everyone. I realize the norm might be harmed not seeing themselves like me I show interest and love completely with all my heart differently than most of these points.
At first I used to think that I am not suitable for anyone. now... When I analyse I find that no one is suitable or at par with me. Always Have.. Zero expectations.. Self determination.. High Satisfaction...
@@Psych2go When you have expectations you are inviting disappointed to yourself if it isn't me. Always remember Expectations leads to tears while acceptation boost you to cheers. Life and relationships have a guarantee. Both of them doesn't have any guarantee.
I’ve never had a crush before but I think I apply to a lot of these signs. I can’t help but look at them, on the off chance I’m not shy and am able to talk to them I often ask them questions about themselves. This is fairly recent so we haven’t become close friends yet, but I hope it goes well, great video and animation as always!
Here are 5 very good signs that someone likes you for who you are: 1: They will never give you up, 2: They will never let you down, 3: They will never run around, and desert you. 4: They will never make you cry 5: They will never say goodbye BONUS SIGN: They will never tell a lie, and hurt you. Imagine getting rickrolled dude.
Noo.. Not psych2go again confirming that nobody likes me! 😭 Edit : To all the lovely people reminding me that I am liked by them, I appreciate it.. Thank you so much for your kind words.. I love y'all! ❤😢✨
5 Signs that someone likes you for who you are: 1.Mirroring 0:16 2.Space 1:34 3.Asking questions 2:33 4.Eye contant 3:41 5:Emotional attentiveness 4:58 I hope this helps someone Have a wonderful day!
Hey dear! Timestamps :- 1)Mirroring🤚 (0:16)- It's a non-verbal way to show empathy. --------------------------------------------------------- 2)Space🐼- They tend to become close(1:36) --------------------------------------------------------- 3)Intimate space zone🍃(2:04) ___________________________________ 4)Leaning👥(2:14) ___________________________________ 5)Touch👁️👄👁️(2:24) ___________________________________ 6)Asking questions🗯️(2:35) ___________________________________ 7)Eye contact👀- It releases oxytocin in them and essential for bonding(3:40) ___________________________________ 8)Emotional attentiveness(4:58) ___________________________________ I wish to cite a quotation here That- "Attraction👀 is automatic but love ❤️is a choice".✨
As someone who struggles to find love in real life, learning to love yourself is a must. You can't love others if you feel guilty about yourself. I haven't given up on love just yet. I've learned to love myself, and take care of myself. Although I feel like time's running out, as the seasons and years keep on changing, and many people I know at my university have been dating for years. This makes it almost impossible to find one that would be interested in me.
@@Psych2go I've started to get out more and opened to new opportunities. I would tell myself if I don't get out I won't be able to enjoy life. So despite being lonely and single. I just hope one day someone would gladly take me in and notice that I'm not a nuisance to anybody, but rather, an individual who's just misunderstood and trying to seek a conversation.
me who are in love i do all of these things when I see my crush especially the eye contact 😅 I keep staring at him until the lesson ends! Thank you you are the best 😊
Timestamps 1). Mirroring 0:16 2). Space 1:35 3). Intimate space zone 2:04 4). Leaning 2:14 5). Touch 2:23 6). Asking questions 2:34 7). Eye contact 3:40 8). Emotional attentiveness 4:57 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
This was a crazy honest and very deep video; but still...it made for a brilliant birthday 🎂 present! It's always important to value who you are - even if not everybody is going to like you.
This is a smaller question that I think could create a interesting video: once I played a game that was inspired by a experiment to find out what happens when we stare in the mirror for too long in the dark. It was quite intresting and also kinda creepy. But Im having a bit of a hard time understanding what is happening in their head to make them freak out. The game showed hallucinations and the main question for me is why they’re appearing. I just kind of thought it could be a nice topic to talk about on this channel :]
So far, I will say "no" to this question. Absolutely no woman I have met romantically likes me for... well, me. The only time women actually liked me, was because of my looks (they all turned out to be creeps) or because of my abilities. As soon as they learn about my personality, they get turned off. I guess they expect the "bad boy" or something, but I'm definitely not the type. I like being more proper and I like to give a cool level-headed vibe, not an overconfident playboy vibe. I feel like most women want the bad boy type in my generation. I see all of the rude and obnoxious guys get dates, but the polite guys are the ones struggling to find anyone. It's awful how much hook-up culture ruined us. If I ever do meet a woman who actually cares about *me* that much, it will definitely feel like a magical dream at this rate. I'm not against that, though.
So, what I gather is, the people in my life, especially the women I've encountered, really only like me for what I can do for them, how easy I make their lives, by being someone they can count on. Everyone wants to feel needed, in some way, but to be the very definition of a tool...
I feel that. I've been wrestling with the feeling lately that my best friend of 6 years was keeping me around purely for the financial support I provided her with
Truth. I tried geo-maxing years back... big mistake. I was naive and thirsty, but it was only about what's in my wallet with fake talk of love. In SEA, it's largely a road to a better life they seek. Total hypergamy. I've learned to keep it short-time. I'm not a Chad, so not many options.
I hear y'all. In my case, it's not even just the money. That's part of it, but they wanted me to be the catch-all, after they've been somewhat humbled, in terrible relationships. Need advice, discipline for your growing son, get you an interview, make sure your toxic ex doesn't kick in your door, fix your computer, anything, I'm on call. If I needed or wanted anything, too bad. I'm "just making it all about me".
@@waynetech10 That's how it was for me originally but they moved so my main purpose after that was just as a wallet. before it wasn't so noticeable but after a couple times of not hearing from them except for money it started to click. It's not that I mind helping the few people I care about, I'll absolutely move heaven and hell for them no questions asked, but don't take me for granted and lie to me for 6-7 years
I can relate to this Really off topic but for me is really hard to start a conversation with friends I have. I really do want to talk to them, I want to know about them, I really want to like them and know what they’re interests are but I just don’t know how to do so or what to say. I don’t speak until they talk to me first bc I might just ask a dumb question and they might just not care😭
I really like the videos. It really helps me a lot to understand other people and me. But I still have major problems when I have to interact with other people due to my diagnosed autism and allround very introverted personality. I'm always looking for a reason why people do what they do and why I do what I do. These videos and some psychology books really help me to Futur explore myself and others. But I still have a long way to go. Edit: And yes due to my problems I have at interacting with people and some bad things that happened in my life... I normally keep a very safe distance to others. I don't talk that mutch and when I do I want to make it as short as possible. I think this comes because I don't want to be rejected. And this is a big twist in my brain. I would really like to get close to people but on the other hand im happy to life in the shadow. I would really like to change that but... for some reason I'm okay with it.
Maybe they will like you for who you are but not me. I have DissociateIdentity Disorder One time I'm very kind and treat people with kindness but whenever I am sad, lonely I turn into the most cold hearted man alive. Also that nobody ever spent any time with me even in my childhood didn't help.
@@Psych2go . With my softer side, I'm good at romance-loving caring and protective. But when my personality shifts it's like I don't care anymore, hatred surrounds me but the good things is that only happens when I'm not with someone I love, when I'm alone, lonely.
Getting even a Convo in person nowdays is rare , I'm socially awkward anyways so yeah.. lol try keeping to myself :3 but if I was in a relationship I'd takes notes good video. ❤
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Do you think the recent pandemic has made it hard to have conversations? If not, what do you think makes it hard to have conversations recently?
@@Psych2go this is just my take on it but I think even before the pandemic people haven't been out going probably due to internet cell phones ect, but after pandemic people have really turtled up, more stress in the world then usual, also dating is insane with the hookup culture, it's all done with apps now :c people don't seem to keen on bond building relationships like they use to. I've noticed friend groups shrink down aswell. Anywho x3 hope I contributed love your vids especially the voice ^\\^ keep up the amazing work world needs people like you. ❤️
Dang, I don’t get all this love stuff sometimes, Because I have someone in my life who constantly is flirting with me whenever we see each other. She treats nobody else around me similarly. But at the same time when we aren’t together in person she acts so distant. But she did something similar a year ago showing interest but then ghosted me. But in that year I had a glow up and feel much more confident in myself as a person. So then she just re-entered my life like a month ago out of nowhere. Part of me just wants to leave the whole situation and have some self respect for my past self. Then the other half of me knows that I still like her. IDK what to do
Keep it as it is and see if she'll express her feelings, cause if you take the next step and express how u feel not know how she feels, she might even take that as an advantage because remember, expressing your feelings to someone means open that door to your vulnerable and soft side. And also remember , never change who u are for someone,stay true to yourself, if she is the right one, you'll know In no time. I hope this helps. Cheers mate 🍻
There is nothing wrong with not being liked. When you are hated is when things can get very negative for us. In order to assure nobody hates me. I disallow others from knowing me at all. Thus, I am not liked. I am not loved. But, more importantly, I am not hated. That is the only thing I require from others. Approval from others means nothing to me. However, I must avoid being hated. Bad things happen to those that are hated.
@@nat2103 Not much happened during my dad's time. But with the self entitlement of today, it can get as ugly as murder, today. Usually it just comes down to cruelty and violence, though. That is still very undesireable. It is better to be unliked and unknown. If you are liked, that comes with its own negatives, as well. Anonymity is bliss.
I had a person that does all that and probably more and I even believed at that time that she likes me. Then, one day, she STOPPED talking to me entirely.
My Random Opinion on something: One of the best kinds of crushes to have is your best friend. They probably won’t question some types of crush-like things you do, and there’s always and excuse to hang out
I wish someone other than my parents loved me. hate my life sometimes. I just want someone to love, a girlfriend. I’m so alone. Sometimes I wish I could just… cease existing.
I have a bit philophobia because of the judgement I would receive from whom I was loved... Coincidentally I had that experience a lot of time... If I'm not good enough to them, not the one they are looking for, I don't wanna hurt them by just being close to them or even exists. I don't wanna bother them, so I'll just gonna go ahead keep hurting my feelings until I meet someone who accepts me for who I am...
Hey, you, then one reading this right now, I want you to do something, SMILE Smile because you're beautiful Smile because you're unique Smile because you deserve to Smile, because you can
Because I'm beautiful? By whose standards? Because I'm unique? Yes, just like everybody else... Because I deserve to? You have *no idea* what I do or do not deserve. Because I can? ... Well, I guess I can't argue that. Guess I'll have to smile. 🙂
I know a girl that is known for being shy and she will turn to face me when we talk and will occasionally lean in but I don’t wanna assume since she is older than me but she is really cute and really short
Hey Psych2Go, I was wondering what this means. My boyfriend and I have been in a (mostly) happy relationship for almost 13 years. We started dating in highschool. The first couple years of our relationship were kinda rocky. Long story short, I was being too clingy and he was not used to so much affection and got very overwhelmed and angry when I would be upset that he didn't want to spend time with me. We had a big fight about it. Fast forward 11 years and we almost never have any drama. If there's a problem we discuss it and listen to each person's point/ side of the argument. We never fight. Both our parents don't get along very well i.e. my mom and dad fight a lot and get very heated and loud and his parents fight quite a bit and are petty (they don't fight as much as mine though). I've been wondering if I've just been going along with everything he says to avoid a fight or if we genuinely get along that well. I think I'm not sure because I've always grown up with the idea of a relationship supposing to look like my parents relationship. I want to say we genuinely get along well, and I don't always agree with everything he says just to appease him. I guess I'm just skeptical that I could have such a loving happy relationship. This is also my first real relationship.
Well this girl who likes me does like me for who I am because I talk to myself and I deal with anxiety and ADHD and she understands me. But we have not met yet but I do like her as a friend and she likes me as a friend too but I can’t wait to meet her in the future and will see how it goes from there
I don't know where to suggest a new topic, so I hope here is okay. Could you do something on the effects of long term physical pain on psychology? Asking for me.
I really enjoy your videos and find them very helpful, but I want to ask for some advice... I'm having a crush on that guy and I think he's into me too. We see each other every week at uni (he's not a professor 😂) and he seems really nice and opened when talking to me in person. When texting though he acts formal and even a little cold. I'm not sure if he's changed his attitude or is there any other reason? I'll see him again soon, but I could really use some side view😅
@@Psych2go well when she is portraying these actions in a conversation, a conversation in potential romantic partners especially, she always seems to be interested in someone else, even though she portrays these actions with me more than the people she seems interested in
It kinda hurts that I show all of these signs to the full extent to my partner, but they don't show nearly as much. Maybe its because I tend to be more empathetic and sincere(around them, I'm normally not very open AT ALL-but I feel completely different around them lol) while they tend to be more blunt and emotionally(they have anger issues-while I'm rarely ever angry). I'm just hoping that I'm over thinking, even though I know I am lol.
*eye contact is a sign that someone likes you* Meanwhile, me constantly avoiding looking at anyone because I'm afraid I'll make them uncomfortable. lol.
Do you think you mainly avoid eye contact because of personal reasons or cultural reasons? We ask because some people avoid eye contact because their culture considers eye contact to be rude.
@@Psych2go Definitely personal reasons. For most of my life I've dealt with self-consciousness, negative self-image, and general self-hatred that has resulted in severe social anxiety. I've been getting better at self love in recent months. The negative self-talk is gone, but there are still unconscious behaviors that are a bit more difficult to unlearn. I'll get there, though! :)
can you do a video about: what to do when your best friend is in love with you but you don't want to break the relationship, can you do a lesbian version but I'm okay with normal.
I ask a lot of questions with new person I met and often goes for weeks, I love maintaining eye contact too. I like them as human and who they are. But not romantically :0
So I have a question about the mirroring one, specifically in body language. Does it have to be at the same time as the other or say you cross your legs or something and they start doing it later, does it still count as mirroring?
I have a question. If someone asks for your number but never message you, why would they ask for your number in the first place? (I’m not the best with social cues so this confused me, and I’m too nervous to message first).
My mom and my stepfather did often mirroring and I didn't like my stepfather so I didn't appreciate when my ex-girlfriend did mirroring. Now I understand that, lol.
I have a few questions. Im a male and im extremely confused about this one particular girl that i like. So we have been best friends for well over a year texting and calling each other non stop with LONG conversations on text and in person. And my question is (i might be a bit bold) does she like me? Good sounding signs: We hang out regularly, she is really open about her secrets with me (that she doesn't tell her girl firends), she does the touching thing like on the arm or leg when laughing, eye contact isnt common due to both her and i are shy and avoid eye contact with everyone. Next things that im gonna mention might be common but are not where i live in due to religion and stuff so keep that in mind. She gets in my car no matter the time (as long as its not too late (9/10PM) strict rules here) she lets me hug her, rests her head against me (although rare) she lets me play with her cheek (on the face) and ears (it might be weird but i love her little ears and "puffy" cheeks) she has interest of what i love and she sometimes brings food that i love, she does get close to me lbut im the one that does it mostly, sometimes if there is snacks between us she may remove them to get in closer, when its cold she tends to snuggle untill i hug her, we watch movies and sports together. Now the not good part: Very rarely but she might mention her ex (my best friend), again rarely but she mentions types of boys that she likes even if she knows she is out of their league (junior football players in another country) i have the feeling that she uses me as a "time pass"/"sadness relieve" like we hang out and she is open about problems and we get close and the next day she is cold (only over text tho) (and i am a HUGE overthinker) she might rejected to hang out just because she is too lazy for that (VERY rare. Mostly is i gotta do this or that) and a bit of a backstory for the end. I did ask her out about 3 years ago and got rejected. But we weren't close (just had mutual friends) and i just said that i liked her and specifically said that im not in love and just attracted. And thats it. So i know I'll be dying from cringe after wrighting this but... Im just lost. I feel like a car with all 3 pedals pressed or like at a stop light with red, yellow and green lights at the same time.
I need help. Was I rejected do I have a chance? Told my crush and they said that they would consider dating me maybe in high school(next year). They also said I was “really sweet❤” so like I asked their friend and they said that she said she liked me on and off during the school year. And that she was really happy that I liked her for her personality bc everyone else just liked her for looks. And she said she would maybe date me freshman year and there little gossip group apparently talks about me a lot and how I might have a glow up or whatever SND that I’ll be attractive when I get older but whatever. So what should I do? Am I friend zoned or rejected or what??? I’ve tried talking to her but I just can’t be natural we both feel awkward. I need help thanks guys❤
You do have a chance l, but my advice is to choose someone who is 100 percent sure about you. If she likes you on and off, it will only lead to confusion. Trust me I know how it feels.
I have a really important question i am a 16 year old boy and im in love with a friend and everyone thinks that She likes me too but shes 19 years old and we rarely see but when we do She Always talk and stay near me/ on me idk what to do
I hate the fact that many times a person doesn't like you for who you are, but simply likes the idea of you obsessing over them, we really need to stop seeing eachother as objects made to give attention and instead start seeing eachother as people.
5 signs that someone likes you for who you are:
1. mirroring (0:16)
2. space (1:34)
3. asking questions (2:34)
4. eye contact (3:40)
5. emotional attentiveness (4:57)
Thank you for this. Now I can remember when I screenshot this summary. 🔥✨
gosh he did all of that to me shocks
@@acinadarika4745 GGs
I never noticed since his my friend
Thank you, may God bless you all and everyone. ❤
I just love how soft and sweet Psych2Go’s drawing style is
That's deep. I struggled with this my entire life of not being liked/loved for being me and it does hurt my self esteem.
That's sad
Sorry that you feel this way. It can feel frustrating when our feelings are not reciprocated. Which part of the video do you think you struggle with the most?
@@Psych2go all of it sincerely as especially being an disabled content creator and recording artist as I'm going to an talent agency today. It's lifelong battles for me and hope to get approved for my skills with voice acting and music creations 😀
@@Psych2go All of it since women are just mind game players.
Dude I feel you 🙃
Is it possible to fall for someone just by hearing their voice? Ugh, Amanda's is the kind that makes me feel funny.
You are creating a foundation not only for your life but for your legacy. You are needed for the world. You are necessary. It is vital that you do not exhaust yourself.
Long-lasting change comes from little steps, repeated regularly, over time. The little things you do, as tiny as taking a sip of water or stretching more often or going for a walk. These all add up to something much greater than the sum of their parts.
Please know that if you didn’t feel included because you are on the spectrum or neurodivergent, it doesn’t mean that you have not been loved or don’t show love. Listening intently, waiting for neurodivergent people to be expressed here and signs that they like us. It’s important to include everyone. I realize the norm might be harmed not seeing themselves like me I show interest and love completely with all my heart differently than most of these points.
Thank you so much for remembering that neurodivergent people process differently, and often struggle with awkwardly trying to fit it.
@@NightMystique13 Sometimes I don’t know what to say and other times I say too much. Thank you so much for responding.
At first I used to think that I am not suitable for anyone.
now...
When I analyse I find that no one is suitable or at par with me.
Always Have..
Zero expectations..
Self determination..
High Satisfaction...
That's an interesting perspective. Why do you think that no one is suitable or on par with you?
@@Psych2go When you have expectations you are inviting disappointed to yourself if it isn't me.
Always remember Expectations leads to tears while acceptation boost you to cheers.
Life and relationships have a guarantee.
Both of them doesn't have any guarantee.
1) 0:16 Mirroring
2) 1:35 Space
3) 2:13 Leaning
4) 2:35 Asking questions
5) 3:40 Eye contact
6) 4:58 Emotional attentiveness
Thanks!
None of them
I'm alone and distance as hack
@@Ritdidtjtdjtig I'm a bit similar
@@AlixMatrix hahhhh.,..... whatever
@@Ritdidtjtdjtig touche
I’ve never had a crush before but I think I apply to a lot of these signs. I can’t help but look at them, on the off chance I’m not shy and am able to talk to them I often ask them questions about themselves. This is fairly recent so we haven’t become close friends yet, but I hope it goes well, great video and animation as always!
Hey !! how did it go ? ^^
Here are 5 very good signs that someone likes you for who you are:
1: They will never give you up,
2: They will never let you down,
3: They will never run around, and desert you.
4: They will never make you cry
5: They will never say goodbye
BONUS SIGN: They will never tell a lie, and hurt you.
Imagine getting rickrolled dude.
Honesty must be practiced in relationships in order to avoid discomfort for both parties and perfect each other's shortcomings
Noo.. Not psych2go again confirming that nobody likes me! 😭
Edit : To all the lovely people reminding me that I am liked by them, I appreciate it.. Thank you so much for your kind words.. I love y'all! ❤😢✨
I like you
me too bro...me too 😔
The day will come trust me
Haha same 😅
I guess we’re all in the same boat.
You have the calmest voice in the universe
5 Signs that someone likes you for who you are:
1.Mirroring 0:16
2.Space 1:34
3.Asking questions 2:33
4.Eye contant 3:41
5:Emotional attentiveness 4:58
I hope this helps someone
Have a wonderful day!
There were 8
@@Lineproof yeah I notices that but the video said 5 sooo
Hey dear! Timestamps :-
1)Mirroring🤚 (0:16)-
It's a non-verbal way to show empathy.
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2)Space🐼-
They tend to become close(1:36)
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3)Intimate space zone🍃(2:04)
___________________________________
4)Leaning👥(2:14)
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5)Touch👁️👄👁️(2:24)
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6)Asking questions🗯️(2:35)
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7)Eye contact👀-
It releases oxytocin in them and essential for bonding(3:40)
___________________________________
8)Emotional attentiveness(4:58)
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I wish to cite a quotation here
That-
"Attraction👀 is automatic but love ❤️is a choice".✨
Psycho to go😅
@ARUNA KAMARI WOW that is sooo true! Who wrote it?
Dunno🐼 ! Just found it somewhere 🙃
okay but the thumbnail is stunning !!
I really find this channel enjoyable and very informative and helpful.
Me too
Glad to hear it! ❤️
As someone who struggles to find love in real life, learning to love yourself is a must. You can't love others if you feel guilty about yourself. I haven't given up on love just yet. I've learned to love myself, and take care of myself. Although I feel like time's running out, as the seasons and years keep on changing, and many people I know at my university have been dating for years. This makes it almost impossible to find one that would be interested in me.
That's very insightful. What are some ways that you learned to taking care of yourself?
@@Psych2go I've started to get out more and opened to new opportunities. I would tell myself if I don't get out I won't be able to enjoy life. So despite being lonely and single. I just hope one day someone would gladly take me in and notice that I'm not a nuisance to anybody, but rather, an individual who's just misunderstood and trying to seek a conversation.
me who are in love i do all of these things when I see my crush especially the eye contact 😅
I keep staring at him until the lesson ends! Thank you you are the best 😊
Thank you, may God bless you all and everyone. ❤
Timestamps
1). Mirroring 0:16
2). Space 1:35
3). Intimate space zone 2:04
4). Leaning 2:14
5). Touch 2:23
6). Asking questions 2:34
7). Eye contact 3:40
8). Emotional attentiveness 4:57
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
1. Mirroring 0:17
2. Space 1:36
3. Intimate space zone 2:05
4. Touch 2:24
5. Asking questions 2:36
6. Eye contact 3:41
7. Emotional attentiveness 4:58
This was a crazy honest and very deep video; but still...it made for a brilliant birthday 🎂 present! It's always important to value who you are - even if not everybody is going to like you.
This is my comfort channel, thank you Psych2go :D
This is a smaller question that I think could create a interesting video: once I played a game that was inspired by a experiment to find out what happens when we stare in the mirror for too long in the dark. It was quite intresting and also kinda creepy. But Im having a bit of a hard time understanding what is happening in their head to make them freak out. The game showed hallucinations and the main question for me is why they’re appearing. I just kind of thought it could be a nice topic to talk about on this channel :]
Oh boy! Can't wait to never get to use this information!
So far, I will say "no" to this question. Absolutely no woman I have met romantically likes me for... well, me. The only time women actually liked me, was because of my looks (they all turned out to be creeps) or because of my abilities. As soon as they learn about my personality, they get turned off. I guess they expect the "bad boy" or something, but I'm definitely not the type. I like being more proper and I like to give a cool level-headed vibe, not an overconfident playboy vibe. I feel like most women want the bad boy type in my generation. I see all of the rude and obnoxious guys get dates, but the polite guys are the ones struggling to find anyone. It's awful how much hook-up culture ruined us.
If I ever do meet a woman who actually cares about *me* that much, it will definitely feel like a magical dream at this rate. I'm not against that, though.
So, what I gather is, the people in my life, especially the women I've encountered, really only like me for what I can do for them, how easy I make their lives, by being someone they can count on. Everyone wants to feel needed, in some way, but to be the very definition of a tool...
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I feel that. I've been wrestling with the feeling lately that my best friend of 6 years was keeping me around purely for the financial support I provided her with
Truth. I tried geo-maxing years back... big mistake. I was naive and thirsty, but it was only about what's in my wallet with fake talk of love. In SEA, it's largely a road to a better life they seek. Total hypergamy. I've learned to keep it short-time. I'm not a Chad, so not many options.
I hear y'all. In my case, it's not even just the money. That's part of it, but they wanted me to be the catch-all, after they've been somewhat humbled, in terrible relationships. Need advice, discipline for your growing son, get you an interview, make sure your toxic ex doesn't kick in your door, fix your computer, anything, I'm on call. If I needed or wanted anything, too bad. I'm "just making it all about me".
@@waynetech10 That's how it was for me originally but they moved so my main purpose after that was just as a wallet. before it wasn't so noticeable but after a couple times of not hearing from them except for money it started to click. It's not that I mind helping the few people I care about, I'll absolutely move heaven and hell for them no questions asked, but don't take me for granted and lie to me for 6-7 years
I can relate to this
Really off topic but for me is really hard to start a conversation with friends I have. I really do want to talk to them, I want to know about them, I really want to like them and know what they’re interests are but I just don’t know how to do so or what to say.
I don’t speak until they talk to me first bc I might just ask a dumb question and they might just not care😭
why is this persons voice so satisfying
I really like the videos. It really helps me a lot to understand other people and me. But I still have major problems when I have to interact with other people due to my diagnosed autism and allround very introverted personality. I'm always looking for a reason why people do what they do and why I do what I do. These videos and some psychology books really help me to Futur explore myself and others. But I still have a long way to go.
Edit: And yes due to my problems I have at interacting with people and some bad things that happened in my life... I normally keep a very safe distance to others. I don't talk that mutch and when I do I want to make it as short as possible. I think this comes because I don't want to be rejected. And this is a big twist in my brain. I would really like to get close to people but on the other hand im happy to life in the shadow. I would really like to change that but... for some reason I'm okay with it.
I would say number 5 is The Most telling sign! ❤️❤️😊😊
Why do you think number 5 is the most telling sign that someone has feelings for you?
@@Psych2go because if he cares about how I feel, then there's more of a chance that ge cares about me in an authentic way!
Maybe they will like you for who you are but not me.
I have DissociateIdentity Disorder
One time I'm very kind and treat people with kindness but whenever I am sad, lonely I turn into the most cold hearted man alive.
Also that nobody ever spent any time with me even in my childhood didn't help.
Mate, are you my lost twin brother? 🤣🤣😭😭😭😭
Thank you for sharing your struggles. How does your dissociative identity disorder affect your romance? Could you tell us more?
@@Psych2go . With my softer side, I'm good at romance-loving caring and protective.
But when my personality shifts it's like I don't care anymore, hatred surrounds me but the good things is that only happens when I'm not with someone I love, when I'm alone, lonely.
I really like the art style you used! :D
I'm glad you like it ❤️
Getting even a Convo in person nowdays is rare , I'm socially awkward anyways so yeah.. lol try keeping to myself :3 but if I was in a relationship I'd takes notes good video. ❤
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Do you think the recent pandemic has made it hard to have conversations? If not, what do you think makes it hard to have conversations recently?
@@Psych2go this is just my take on it but I think even before the pandemic people haven't been out going probably due to internet cell phones ect, but after pandemic people have really turtled up, more stress in the world then usual, also dating is insane with the hookup culture, it's all done with apps now :c people don't seem to keen on bond building relationships like they use to. I've noticed friend groups shrink down aswell. Anywho x3 hope I contributed love your vids especially the voice ^\\^ keep up the amazing work world needs people like you. ❤️
"Do they like you for who you are?"
1) No
2) Hell no
3) Keep dreaming
3:02
Guy: Hey can I ask what you’re listening to?
Girl: yeah sure, it’s Hatsune-
Guy: HATSUNE MIIIIIIKU!?
Dang, I don’t get all this love stuff sometimes,
Because I have someone in my life who constantly is flirting with me whenever we see each other. She treats nobody else around me similarly. But at the same time when we aren’t together in person she acts so distant.
But she did something similar a year ago showing interest but then ghosted me. But in that year I had a glow up and feel much more confident in myself as a person. So then she just re-entered my life like a month ago out of nowhere.
Part of me just wants to leave the whole situation and have some self respect for my past self. Then the other half of me knows that I still like her. IDK what to do
Keep it as it is and see if she'll express her feelings, cause if you take the next step and express how u feel not know how she feels, she might even take that as an advantage because remember, expressing your feelings to someone means open that door to your vulnerable and soft side. And also remember , never change who u are for someone,stay true to yourself, if she is the right one, you'll know In no time. I hope this helps. Cheers mate 🍻
There is nothing wrong with not being liked. When you are hated is when things can get very negative for us. In order to assure nobody hates me. I disallow others from knowing me at all. Thus, I am not liked. I am not loved. But, more importantly, I am not hated. That is the only thing I require from others. Approval from others means nothing to me. However, I must avoid being hated. Bad things happen to those that are hated.
can you tell me what would happen if someone is hated? i would like to know and why
@@nat2103 Not much happened during my dad's time. But with the self entitlement of today, it can get as ugly as murder, today. Usually it just comes down to cruelty and violence, though. That is still very undesireable. It is better to be unliked and unknown. If you are liked, that comes with its own negatives, as well. Anonymity is bliss.
@@indridcold8433 Thanks for telling me and I hope u have a good day :))
I had a person that does all that and probably more and I even believed at that time that she likes me. Then, one day, she STOPPED talking to me entirely.
She probably did, but she gave up
Thank you for doing this video :D
Thank you for watching!
what would i do without this channel
❤️
Wow thank you very much❤❤
i- i dont want them to not feel heard..i just suck at eye contact is harddd and makes my heart beat super fast
Same. I dont give eye contact if their also staring at me because its kinda ankward for me and I get nervous so I just look away.
My Random Opinion on something:
One of the best kinds of crushes to have is your best friend. They probably won’t question some types of crush-like things you do, and there’s always and excuse to hang out
Great tips. When I tried geo-maxing, none of these signs appeared. But, there were many interested in what's in my wallet.
I wish someone other than my parents loved me. hate my life sometimes. I just want someone to love, a girlfriend. I’m so alone. Sometimes I wish I could just… cease existing.
What if we all here start helping others by becoming their best friends 😊😊
What a lovely idea! ❤️
@@Psych2go thanks
Dulce marie Do you want me to be your friend
I have a bit philophobia because of the judgement I would receive from whom I was loved... Coincidentally I had that experience a lot of time...
If I'm not good enough to them, not the one they are looking for, I don't wanna hurt them by just being close to them or even exists.
I don't wanna bother them, so I'll just gonna go ahead keep hurting my feelings until I meet someone who accepts me for who I am...
Hey, you, then one reading this right now,
I want you to do something,
SMILE
Smile because you're beautiful
Smile because you're unique
Smile because you deserve to
Smile, because you can
Because I'm beautiful? By whose standards?
Because I'm unique? Yes, just like everybody else...
Because I deserve to? You have *no idea* what I do or do not deserve.
Because I can? ... Well, I guess I can't argue that. Guess I'll have to smile. 🙂
That thumbnail, totally is me (left) and a colleague (right)
Edit: My daily dose of reality (my experience) vs expectation+imagination (psyche2go)
This video made my day~ so cute! 🌞
You are so kind 🥰
I know a girl that is known for being shy and she will turn to face me when we talk and will occasionally lean in but I don’t wanna assume since she is older than me but she is really cute and really short
This has made my day watching this video and the others as well❤
Thank you ❤️
The boys and me really do be in love 😻
Hey Psych2Go, I was wondering what this means. My boyfriend and I have been in a (mostly) happy relationship for almost 13 years. We started dating in highschool. The first couple years of our relationship were kinda rocky. Long story short, I was being too clingy and he was not used to so much affection and got very overwhelmed and angry when I would be upset that he didn't want to spend time with me. We had a big fight about it. Fast forward 11 years and we almost never have any drama. If there's a problem we discuss it and listen to each person's point/ side of the argument. We never fight. Both our parents don't get along very well i.e. my mom and dad fight a lot and get very heated and loud and his parents fight quite a bit and are petty (they don't fight as much as mine though). I've been wondering if I've just been going along with everything he says to avoid a fight or if we genuinely get along that well. I think I'm not sure because I've always grown up with the idea of a relationship supposing to look like my parents relationship. I want to say we genuinely get along well, and I don't always agree with everything he says just to appease him. I guess I'm just skeptical that I could have such a loving happy relationship. This is also my first real relationship.
Ironically I tend to mirror every person I interact with or heard about, though nobody never mirrored me, kinda makes me sadge.
Haha, I like the very last words of this video, I forget a lot
You do matter! 🥰
Well this girl who likes me does like me for who I am because I talk to myself and I deal with anxiety and ADHD and she understands me. But we have not met yet but I do like her as a friend and she likes me as a friend too but I can’t wait to meet her in the future and will see how it goes from there
Okay i am in the point where i love everthing of that person ❤literally even when clean her nose is cute 😅🥰🥰🥰
Not only you confirmed that I'm not liked for who I am but you confirmed that I'm disrespected by who I do like :(
1st comment .your video helps alot Thankyou soooo much 🤩💜
I like someone and I don’t do a couple of those things cuz I’m super cautious
I don't know where to suggest a new topic, so I hope here is okay. Could you do something on the effects of long term physical pain on psychology? Asking for me.
does anyone else avoid eye contact when talking to your crush because you’re scared 😅
I really enjoy your videos and find them very helpful, but I want to ask for some advice... I'm having a crush on that guy and I think he's into me too. We see each other every week at uni (he's not a professor 😂) and he seems really nice and opened when talking to me in person. When texting though he acts formal and even a little cold. I'm not sure if he's changed his attitude or is there any other reason? I'll see him again soon, but I could really use some side view😅
The person I like does all these things but I don’t know if she’s just my best friend or actually likes me
How so? What makes their actions hard to tell?
@@Psych2go well when she is portraying these actions in a conversation, a conversation in potential romantic partners especially, she always seems to be interested in someone else, even though she portrays these actions with me more than the people she seems interested in
0:24 Cardi b and offset reference??
It kinda hurts that I show all of these signs to the full extent to my partner, but they don't show nearly as much. Maybe its because I tend to be more empathetic and sincere(around them, I'm normally not very open AT ALL-but I feel completely different around them lol) while they tend to be more blunt and emotionally(they have anger issues-while I'm rarely ever angry). I'm just hoping that I'm over thinking, even though I know I am lol.
The answer is always no. Moving on.
*eye contact is a sign that someone likes you*
Meanwhile, me constantly avoiding looking at anyone because I'm afraid I'll make them uncomfortable. lol.
Do you think you mainly avoid eye contact because of personal reasons or cultural reasons? We ask because some people avoid eye contact because their culture considers eye contact to be rude.
@@Psych2go Definitely personal reasons. For most of my life I've dealt with self-consciousness, negative self-image, and general self-hatred that has resulted in severe social anxiety. I've been getting better at self love in recent months. The negative self-talk is gone, but there are still unconscious behaviors that are a bit more difficult to unlearn. I'll get there, though! :)
can you do a video about: what to do when your best friend is in love with you but you don't want to break the relationship, can you do a lesbian version but I'm okay with normal.
I ask a lot of questions with new person I met and often goes for weeks, I love maintaining eye contact too. I like them as human and who they are. But not romantically :0
This was a real nice and genuine video thank you😊.Knowing this will help me to understand girls better
Glad it was helpful!
2:13 aight then need to take a ruler with me next time i meet her
Very nice video❤
Thank you 🤗
So I have a question about the mirroring one, specifically in body language. Does it have to be at the same time as the other or say you cross your legs or something and they start doing it later, does it still count as mirroring?
I have a question. If someone asks for your number but never message you, why would they ask for your number in the first place? (I’m not the best with social cues so this confused me, and I’m too nervous to message first).
Not sure why I keep watching these videos lol .
Never had this happen to me ever lol
So that you can be super prepared when it does happen!
First,thank you psych2go I don't know what other thinks I feel worry and scared me, I don't know other to accept who I am,but thanks you to help me.
Thank you for sharing! We hope that you will have the courage to accept yourself and not be afraid that others may not like you.
Who are the two characters in the thumbnail?!!?
I'd love to know how to do this in more detail in an online world. After all in this day and age online dating or other online means are popular
My mom and my stepfather did often mirroring and I didn't like my stepfather so I didn't appreciate when my ex-girlfriend did mirroring. Now I understand that, lol.
I'm very guilty of not keeping eyecontact for long.. it's not that i don't like you, i'm just too insecure and anxious 😭👍
How will I know if I’m mirroring him or he’s mirroring me?
"Love who you are"❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
1:09 why the heck does the mirroring neuron look like it has toes
Nice 😀👍
Hey, sometimes when my best friend leaves, I start Miss them a lot. Can you help me with that?
lol i like someone superficially, but I also kind of have a crush on them, and I do a lot of these things when I'm aroud them.
I have a few questions. Im a male and im extremely confused about this one particular girl that i like.
So we have been best friends for well over a year texting and calling each other non stop with LONG conversations on text and in person. And my question is (i might be a bit bold) does she like me?
Good sounding signs:
We hang out regularly, she is really open about her secrets with me (that she doesn't tell her girl firends), she does the touching thing like on the arm or leg when laughing, eye contact isnt common due to both her and i are shy and avoid eye contact with everyone. Next things that im gonna mention might be common but are not where i live in due to religion and stuff so keep that in mind. She gets in my car no matter the time (as long as its not too late (9/10PM) strict rules here) she lets me hug her, rests her head against me (although rare) she lets me play with her cheek (on the face) and ears (it might be weird but i love her little ears and "puffy" cheeks) she has interest of what i love and she sometimes brings food that i love, she does get close to me lbut im the one that does it mostly, sometimes if there is snacks between us she may remove them to get in closer, when its cold she tends to snuggle untill i hug her, we watch movies and sports together.
Now the not good part:
Very rarely but she might mention her ex (my best friend), again rarely but she mentions types of boys that she likes even if she knows she is out of their league (junior football players in another country) i have the feeling that she uses me as a "time pass"/"sadness relieve" like we hang out and she is open about problems and we get close and the next day she is cold (only over text tho) (and i am a HUGE overthinker) she might rejected to hang out just because she is too lazy for that (VERY rare. Mostly is i gotta do this or that) and a bit of a backstory for the end. I did ask her out about 3 years ago and got rejected. But we weren't close (just had mutual friends) and i just said that i liked her and specifically said that im not in love and just attracted. And thats it.
So i know I'll be dying from cringe after wrighting this but... Im just lost. I feel like a car with all 3 pedals pressed or like at a stop light with red, yellow and green lights at the same time.
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Shoutout to animator
OMG MY BF DOES ALL OF THESE EKKKK!!!
Could you make one like this, but with family
if you wanna know if they like you, and asking questions is a good thing, why not just ask THE question? c.c
"do you like me?"
I need help. Was I rejected do I have a chance?
Told my crush and they said that they would consider dating me maybe in high school(next year). They also said I was “really sweet❤” so like I asked their friend and they said that she said she liked me on and off during the school year. And that she was really happy that I liked her for her personality bc everyone else just liked her for looks. And she said she would maybe date me freshman year and there little gossip group apparently talks about me a lot and how I might have a glow up or whatever SND that I’ll be attractive when I get older but whatever. So what should I do? Am I friend zoned or rejected or what??? I’ve tried talking to her but I just can’t be natural we both feel awkward. I need help thanks guys❤
You do have a chance l, but my advice is to choose someone who is 100 percent sure about you. If she likes you on and off, it will only lead to confusion. Trust me I know how it feels.
No, no, no, no, no and no.
Let's move on...
I have a really important question i am a 16 year old boy and im in love with a friend and everyone thinks that She likes me too but shes 19 years old and we rarely see but when we do She Always talk and stay near me/ on me idk what to do
I don't even know why I'm watching this I can't even get a girl to greet me
To prepare yourself when she does!
Is there a video of how to know if a girl likes you online? 😂 I need that one lol